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YianLey/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 01:40 PM
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I think one humans biggest shortcoming is ti think if you give something to someone, you have to take it away from somewhere else…. I think we live in pretty good times but there is always room for improvement Nowadays we have a very strong narrative of men vs women meanwhile we should more focus in helping less fortunate people in very unfortunate situations Maybe a first step for us is to exchange that little word “all” with the slightly longer word “some” I was unfortunate enough to experienc…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/24 11:51 AM
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...and women do stay at home and have for ages. im perfectly fine discussing things and find a middle ground, but dping spmethingnjust bc it has been like that for ages sounds rather weak as an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:20 PM
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perfectly fine humanity fought so hard so the next generation COULD do everything and i think we would be nullifying everything by telling peiple what they SHOULD do. but i think it's rather odd wanting to keep certain (outdated) traditions especially if it is not mutual like only men should show a sign of love and proof commitement? but instead of removing the ring it could also be like an exchange... ring for necklace
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 04:18 PM
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and what stops women for getting men a ring? i think women proposing should become more common and accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 11:04 AM
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i think it hits the point perfectly some people put more weight their personal perceptuon than science or reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:47 PM
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define dating success i'm just talking about my observations and experiences Type A gets more immediate female attention and gets to hangout with them much more frequent. he also seems to easily get into relationships, but somehow seems to jump from one girl to another and most rwlationships are bound to be followed by a crushing breakup Type B tends to have more difficulty finding a gf and also seems to often getting into discussions where people can be offended (especially talking about gender…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:29 PM
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looks help you approach and socialize with women without being seen as a creep and money/resources gives you an opportunity to do things outside of your comfort zone and meet new ppl even though ut's scary but you have to venture out, you are unlikely to find a partner in your immediate environment (atleast most of the people i know didnt date someone from work or whi they were already friends with since childhood) you have to put yourself in places to meet new people/women it's like trying to f…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/23 11:38 AM
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trying to look your best or genuinly being the best version of yourself irl ...yes trying to look like you have an awesome life on social media... no
/r/ExRedPill06/06/23 04:29 PM
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dick size does not matter and believe me it's much much worse when you are too big if you are worried about general hotness then become generally hotter, starting with fashion. most people dont know how to dress properly and if you do it's instant attractiveness +2
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 08:58 AM
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it is but i think part of it is because people try to see things black and white and always put thibgs ibto categories... often enough things apply to women and men equally and what most people fail to understand is that often enough sonething can make you "high value" in one aspect but "low value" in another aspect but this makes things complicated abd you have to think about priorities and consider context let's take body count bc everyone is so incested in it a low body count will probably ma…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 07:29 AM
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i dont know, maybe i got ibfluenced by some old fashioned dudes.... but i think women like to feel safe and havibg a protector and men like to have something only they can protect.... atleast that's how most people see it here in this little town i'm from so in that case alpha as the protector? yes... alpha as the tyrant? no
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 11:30 PM
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because RP is about hook ups and not relationship so in the end what are people looking for? not everyone wants to be sleeping around for ever
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 12:17 PM
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its just a question and you have to find your answer to it try to find your answer for why someone would want you.... i think its not to bad to really critically think about the pros and cons about yourself and maybe age is just a con, but in the end no one is perfect and try to focus on the good parts of you the good things about you are only as good as you are ready to ackonwledge that bad parts as well, because else you would be perfect and perfection is just an imagination where there is goo…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 12:03 PM
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so what would be your biggest advice for short guys then? biggest advice or do/don'ts?
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 05:39 PM
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oh so not from expirience bc i know as a short guy i had to learn to defend myself against my tall friends (all in good sport but im verbally and physically quite aggressive) but i treat my gf different than my friends and i feel like thats the thing most short guys get wrong and look more insecure
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 05:25 PM
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was there a difference in aggression torwards you and everyone else by the short guys?
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 04:46 PM
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in the end the loudest voices are rarely the most representative height is often a preference but not a requirement and if you meet someone who puts more emphasis on your height than your character... do you really wanna be with someone like that?
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 04:39 PM
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i think dying alone is still one of the worst feelings... imagine spending the last 10 years of your life alone , barely surviving and no one cares. but not being alone doesnt necessarily mean partner and kids it can be friends too
/r/ExRedPill12/03/23 12:42 PM
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i think the wall is more noticeable if you look at more superficial people... but tbh do you really care about people who only value your looks? my mentor once told me that you are probably compartible with a habdful of people and whoever we chose to commit to and build something together will become "the one". you dont find the one... you become the one over time with lots of time and effort i think thats the cruelty of dating.... most people dont really know what they want, so the get the illu…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/23 02:35 PM
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friends and family sound like a good idea because if they think like that too you are dealing with more than just your husband, then you are fighting sort of a mob and even if you get to knock some sense into your husband he would be dragged back by the group or maybe therapy just atleast a neutral 3rd party both of you respect
/r/ExRedPill03/03/23 12:44 PM
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i think the danger about the red pill is, that many observation is true but their conclusion is wrong they use statistics for reasoning and justifying their behavior i think it's just very convinient to take a preselected idea/thought and just join in on it
/r/ExRedPill01/03/23 03:11 PM
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yes she is a wonderful person, she occasionally just pushes my card away and tells me that she wants tp pay i love to think back at our first date, because she was so adamant about her paying for dinner at the first date i think we both were very lucky to have had a life where we met a lot of different people (way above 1000), but with no one we felt that connected as with eachother, that's why i feel like it's a 1 in a million thing (1000×1000)
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 07:08 AM
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i'm sorry to hear that i feel like i have to consciously try to do better and choose my partner everyday or people might manage to get to us i'll try my best
/r/ExRedPill22/02/23 06:59 AM
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so did you do anything or had any particular mindset to make it easier? i hope you are doing the greatest and that those people didnt harm you too much
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 03:37 PM
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we are planning and working on it, i'm averaging 40 job applications a day to build our new life together, but it takes time and it is hard, because it also means leaving some of the people i like behibd
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 03:34 PM
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some are coworkers, some are family... even though we avoid to talk about it with them they just seem invested to tell us what's wrong
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 02:22 PM
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i personally hate the expression "nice guy" but it's just thrown around everywhere imo it's more accurate to say "no spine guy" people who have no backbone and will never stand up for themselves do finish last, in relationship and at work
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 01:23 PM
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