"Are situation"? "Christian"? She can go to hell for using "are" instead of "our" for a start. What kind of Christian snoops around on Tinder while her husband is on death's door?
"....because I'm a drama queen.. " No shit. You proved yourself completely with your visit, attacking them both. The guy was brave and committed to stay as long as he did.
Is "on accident" an American English expression? Sorry that it's an irrelevant comment, but I've seen it a few times, particularly in Indonesia where I teach and have to constantly correct them by saying that it's "by accident".