| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 472 | Small mistakes you must avoid while on a first date | Fundamentals | YoBoyIsBOUNCY | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 08:10 PM |
| 360 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneously | Inner Game | YoBoyIsBOUNCY | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 06:59 PM |
| 225 | 6 things you SHOULD do on a first date | Fundamentals | YoBoyIsBOUNCY | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 10:59 PM |
| 182 | Physical escalation is mandatory on a first date, never forget that | Fundamentals | YoBoyIsBOUNCY | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 08:54 PM |
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| 4 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneouslyYou literally personify the point I made in the first 3 sentences of the post. "Woe is me, women are bad." Yes, horrible and shallow people exist, but even the shallow women usually don't want a "Chad", because he'll awaken physical insecurities they have. "Extraordinary awareness" = purpose; it means that as a man, you should create your own figurative world where you'll apply yourself daily to be something you firstly, everyone else secondly can be proud of. A man who knows he can be better an… | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 08:14 PM |
| 8 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneouslyFragrances in this case are your passion, and having passions is absolutely fine. Awesome even. However, once and if you start obsessing over a passion, then it's no longer a passion. It's all-consuming consumerism. Going to the gym 6x a week is also perfectly fine, but counting every little calorie, panicking over your size and shredded-ness, or spending most of your time thinking about training is stupid and unhealthy (physically and mentally) unless you're an actual athlete. Balance is key. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 08:08 PM |
| 5 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneouslyThey're not "rules", they're pieces of advice that in all honesty would work for most men. Also, even if they were rules, normal people do need them. We need structure and something to strive for. Aiming to be better at everything but not to the point where you chase perfection is "a rule" most of us should live by. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 08:05 PM |
| 17 | The reason why you're not getting women is because you undervalue and overvalue yourself simultaneouslyUnfortunately I have been around people like this a lot, they do exist. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Small mistakes you must avoid while on a first dateThis. V necks only work on bigger, muscular guys. On the other hand, skinny dudes just look goofy in them, because the shirt emphasizes the skinniness even more. Same thing for something like shearling jackets - they're amazing, but you have to be stout to wear and rock them. Clothes work in correlation with your body. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Small mistakes you must avoid while on a first dateNo because you're pushing your luck by implying the girl is already yours, despite this being the first date. You're never supposed to say things like that, you're supposed to show her she is gonna be yours. "Can't wait to use these handcuffs on you" - bad "I know my way around a pair of handcuffs... or so I have been told" - good | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:22 PM |
| 22 | Small mistakes you must avoid while on a first dateGirls will say a lot of dumb shit, both to test you and because they believe in it. Like I said in the post, sometimes you gotta keep your mouth shut if you just wanna get laid. If you want a relationship, then walk away, because she obviously cannot provide what you seek. Recently, I went out with a 9/10 girl. Banger face, banger body, PHD, she was a dynamo... until the part where she subtly said she sleeps with a club owner to always have access. I didn't say anything, we slept together, and t… | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:17 PM |
| 54 | Physical escalation is mandatory on a first date, never forget thatAbsolutely. I have a friend who looks like Dolph Lundgren - absolute chad, as the kids say. He is a sweetheart of a man, smart and super hot, but because he came from a very rural place of living, he had different values and was bad with women. It took him years to finally understand what he was doing wrong. Many women would straight up ask me if he was gay, tell me that he was boring, make "all looks no brains" comments etc., just because he never initiated anything physical during the first da… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Physical escalation is mandatory on a first date, never forget thatUnless you went out with a super religious girl, then yes, SOMETHING has to happen. Even touching her hair and playing with it is enough if a girl is into you. If y'all met, hugged, sat down together for like 2 hours, hugged and said goodbye, then you didn't have a date. You had a damn meeting, and that's no good at all. No sexual tension built, no seeds planted (no pun intended) for the future, nothing to go off of. You just conversed. | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 09:17 PM |
| 22 | Physical escalation is mandatory on a first date, never forget thatYes, but even then there's levels. If the girl didn't really enjoy your company, she'll likely think "meh, guess he wasn't into me either". But if a girl did like you and you still didn't do anything, she'll also start self-doubting. I had a situation like this with my ex. After we had sex the first time, I went out for a smoke, and when I came back she was crying her eyes out. I asked her what's up, and she said she knows I'm not into her sexually because I didn't cum fast lmao, when that wasn'… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 09:14 PM |
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