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So then don’t engage in that activity.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 09:19 PM
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I think you should go with that idea then and drop your fetish.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 06:30 PM
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The world's a big place. I'm sure you can find some girl who like's getting dogged by another man while you watch. It'll just be trial and error, maybe the first just two weren't comfortable with it. You have to understand it's not the norm and you'll most likely have to look far and wide.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:21 PM
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Bro, don't end your life because you have a cuck-kink. It would be a little different if you were a pedophile, but that's just what gets you off. Is it just watching women get banged? If so porn doesn't do it for you? Does it have to be cuck porn? Also, if you wanted to lean into it, maybe start hiring ladies of the night to have sex with another male escort while you watch. Does it have to be a woman you're emotionally attached to? Maybe find a woman who is into that? Jokes aside, you might be …
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:56 PM
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Good advice, OP should take this into consideration.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:48 PM
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Amazing advice Chief.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:48 PM
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Trust me, you'll never be able to do anything about the past. The best bet is to let it go so you could try and be happy in the present. To be honest, you don't know what your girlfriend's ex boyfriends did in order to get them, maybe they went through some sort of transformation just like you. Since you can't do anything about the past, learn from it. The best you could do now is swear that shit will never happen again because now you'll stand up for yourself if some loser comes by to mess with…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 01:46 PM
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It's good you know you could stand up for yourself when you need to. Try not to grow to resentful and jaded by past events. You can't control the past, but you can guide the future.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 08:51 AM
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Definitely escalate, Jordan Peterson love's to tell people to become monsters of themselves. You'll just get taken advantage of if you can't stand up for yourself.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:44 AM
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So it really depends. I make fun of a lot of people in complete jest and don't mean it in a cruel way so it's always weird when someone takes it personal. However, sometimes other people's jokes are too good and they get one over on you. But at the end of the day when it's truly your friend, did you mean it in a negative way? I hope not. That being said, there's a huge difference between bullying and joking around with your friends. When a group of strangers are just roasting your life away, you…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 07:42 AM
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Distance is never good for a relationship. Let her go.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 02:17 PM
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What field of business are you currently working in? Is there any way to strike off on your own and create your own business? It's hard being the boss but it eventually pays off with a large sum of money. I think taking some time off of dating to focus more on your career would be a good thing. It'll allow you to make more money which would allow you to feel adequate for the ladies.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 01:45 PM
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This one really works if her teeth have thick spaces in between not necessarily crooked. Maybe " I would, but if i took my glasses off I couldn't see an Orthodontists' fairy tale."
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:17 AM
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"I would, but if I took my glasses off I couldn't see your tongue trying to get out of it's jail cell."
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:15 AM
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Cool it with the drinks. Start talking to women without drinking alcohol. It's gonna suck, trust me i know, but after a while it'll be natural and smooth. Maybe speak to a therapist about your social anxiety, there's probably underlying issues there.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:13 AM
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Yeah you're 17. Life's just beginning. As an adult there aren't any excuses, so if you want to look like Bruce Lee go do it. What are you doing next year once you graduate from High School?
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:33 AM
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Nah bro, if a girl isn't attractive why in the world would you get with her? I'll go ahead and give her a wide berth.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:57 AM
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You seem like you're heading down the right track. Honestly, if I was in your situation, I would retreat and stop all communication with her. She's a G for giving you a straight answer. Before you accept her offer to hang out as friends, please ask yourself "Do I want to be friends with her or Do I want to be romantically involved with her?" Since you don't want to be friends I wouldn't hang out with her, with that abundance mindset you can go find a chick who hasn't expressed disinterests in yo…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:55 AM
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Nah man, it's complete bs and we all know it. You really need to ask yourself if you want to be her friend or if you want to have a romantic relationship with her. Once you figure this out then you'll realize you don't want to be friends with a woman you're romantically interested in.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:08 AM
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I definitely recommend moving out of the town you grew up in. I always give that advice to individuals living in some forgotten town with a population of 10k. I think moving to a new city would make you more confident and you'll get to experience so much more.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:05 AM
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Stop watching all that porn bud. It might be your T levels but before talking to a doctor I wouldn't masturbate or watch porn for two weeks. After that, see if pool sticks good as new.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:02 AM
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Congratulations on finishing your degree! Get a job working for some banker on Wall Street, it's time to cash in. I thought stock traders where all loaded. You best start reviewing those Econ 101 textbooks for the bag. So one thing I realized about employment is, if you show up and work hard you'll always be able to find a job. Don't worry about it if you're not lazy.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 06:59 AM
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Not from my experience, she'd be great if she wasn't a psycho. But to be honest, if i had a chick across the hall who wanted to get together, I'd probably make the wrong decision if you know what i mean!
/r/askTRP07/03/21 10:30 AM
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Nothing wrong with renting before you settle down to buy a nice house with a white picket fence. If she's psycho i would just completely ghost her. She might try to wait out your door but i mean you're not married to the girl so who cares what psycho shit she'll do. She'll do way more damage if you actually start a long term relationship with her.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 08:56 AM
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Bruh you invested in bitcoing in 2018 and you're asking me for advice? Nah man you're doing great keep it up. You're not a robot, you can't just make yourself operate at 100% efficiency. I noticed I do amazing work when I go HAM on some subject and then kick back and open up a cold one and not worry about anything else for the rest of the day.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:56 AM
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Ayy man i'm a light skinned black man who has been called Halfrican and not counting as black too so i completely understand where you're coming from. There's a lot of issues facing the black community in America and most of the African-Americans who are acting like thugs and acting "black" end up with terrible lives. Maybe they have multiple baby mamas they don't support, don't receive a college degree (17% of black men have college degrees), or just end up in prison. So if not acting like this…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:51 AM
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I'm not too sure man, this seems weird. Hook up with a girl? I mean if you don't like it you might be gay or asexual. Nothing wrong with that as well. Is there any trauma you might need to work out with a therapist? Maybe some sort of child hood molestation that makes you uninterested in sex later in life? If you want to get weird. Just think of whatever attractive body type you like and find some pornography of it. Lock the door and just enjoy yourself man and when you're done just make sure to…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:43 AM
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Listen, my man, I'm 23. I've been an orbiter but never again. Don't put yourself in a position where she holds all the cards and your just the dude in 8th place in the race for her heart.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:32 AM
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Dude, you just need to come to terms and accept who you are. Dog, you were never going to be tall. Being tall isn't everything, accepting yourself is worth much more. Take a look at me for example, I'm 6'3 and 220 lbs of solid muscle. I have a fucked up hairline/forehead that most definitely causes me to go down on the attraction scale. I don't dwell on this, instead I realized there's nothing I can change and girls still wanted to get in bed with me.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 07:10 AM
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Nobody can tell you exactly what you should do but you. Guide yourself and have a good time along the way.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:51 AM
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I noticed I'm always happiest when I just accept my life and enjoy the positives. Just accept your disability because as much as it sucks it's not going anywhere. Accept that and learn to love it otherwise you'll be the only person miserable living your life.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:49 AM
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Probably just trying to see where it would go and if you could interest her. Look man, how often are you on your phone? You can send a quick message to someone you want to talk to in a heart beat. She's not responding, she doesn't want to and that's ok. Go find another woman to text.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 06:46 AM
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Bruh, you need to get your testosterone levels checked. If it's not that, you probably need to stop watching porn. Too much stimulation.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:07 AM
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Try to think about other things besides social status. Do you think having a high social status will get you women? It probably will, but focusing directly on social status and women will most likely negatively affect your life. I'd rather focus at being great at something, probably something that makes a decent wage. Money can increase your social status.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:06 AM
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I need to agree with the other commenters. I think she just wants some attention without actually giving you what you want. Need to always find the balance.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:03 AM
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Idk man, seems like a great problem to have. At least you're getting the ladies on a regular basis.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:01 AM
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Ayy bro do yourself a favor and drop this woman. Who knows, this might even increase her sexual attraction to you. I mean i never say getting stuck in the friend zone is an ultimate death sentence but your probability of getting out of the friend zone and getting with this woman is probably less than 5 percent. So honestly, how much time do you want to give this woman until she decides she wants you? I really don't think you should stay friends with her, it'll be an unhealthy dynamic, you'll con…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 10:59 AM
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Wonderful post! It's important to focus on yourself in order to bring about the best version of yourself!
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:48 AM
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Just enjoy yourself my guy.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:46 AM
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Yeah definitely check out the side bar. It'll give you a plethora of information answering all your questions. Tbh, I don't think you're ever going to know everything and that's ok.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:45 AM
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They probably don't want anything to do with you. They excluded you from their whatsapp group and wouldn't talk to you after almost bumping into you at the supermarket. It might suck to realize this at first, but in the long run it'll help you out. They don't really seem like the friends who would have your back in a tough situation. I would just forget them and find new friends. There's plenty of people who want to be friends with others, you just need to find the people who fit well with you. …
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:44 AM
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I think you found the solution, you need to have more going on for yourself. I’m not a scientist but I heard children have better chances of surviving Covid than adults do. See if you can get 50/50 custody of your kid, that way you’ll at least take him out of that environment half the time.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:13 PM
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She's my daughter, there's no doubt about that. She looks just like me. I understand i'm loosing all my shit when the dust settles. I definitely learned a valuable lesson.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:56 PM
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There's a lot of different factors going on here. Above all, for some reason you're worrying about your exes current sexual experiences. Stop thinking about that, it's got nothing to do with you now. If you two were still in a relationship i would understand where you're coming from, but you're not. Bro, you're free of this woman, she's your sons mother, you made that decision when you conceived your son. My only advice would be to only think of this woman as the mother of your child, if it's go…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:53 PM
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Look man your height really isn't something you can change. You just need to accept it, there's always a possibility to hit a growth spurt but you won't be able to force it. Ay bro, I'm 6'2, ripped, but have a fucking ugly ass 5 head. My hairline isn't receding those are just my genes. I can chose to be all depressed about it, but instead i just count my blessings.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:35 PM
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Don't blind your self to the real world, I definitely agree. But at what point is the juice not worth the squeeze? At the end of the day, in my opinion, when you focus on your craft the ladies will come.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:29 PM
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This is a really good mentality to have. When you focus on hard work, women start to come into your life as a result.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:18 PM
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Lmao i've seen it. It's absolutely so insane how accurate that video was. He really did the community a favor.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:13 PM
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We need to say screw this psychology bull crap. For example, if she texts me i wait 15 minutes or an hour to respond. Bro, stop texting some boring chick who isn't in to you. When a woman wants you, you'll know it by her actions. Never chase these hoes.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:01 PM
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It depends how long you've been communicating with this girl. Honestly, if you've been messaging her online for more than a week and talking on the phone you should meet. Are you in the same city? If so there's nothing stopping you from meeting her in a public setting. You also need to think about how much time you're putting into this one person who might not be interested. Imagine if she said she wanted to go on a date tonight for dinner, would you go? I bet you would in a heartbeat. What abou…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:56 PM
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I'd be hesitant to get my information from only one source. You're at a higher risk of becoming polarized and falling into a mob mentality. Try to get your politics from both left and right media companies and borrow personal philosophy from different schools of thought to better influence your life.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:50 PM
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Like all relationships there's ups and downs in this one too. The issue isn't attraction, we have sex 3+ times a week. Yeah i fucked up by wifing a single mom, but does that mean a life sentence? Do i have to stay in a relationship i don't want to? Yeah man, I'm not going to lie. Ultimately, I'm thinking about myself because it's my marriage and my life. If i'm unhappy with something I can either change it or shut up and accept it so yeah i'm thinking about my own happiness. I understand where y…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 07:18 PM
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I want a divorce because i don't want anything to do with her ex or anyone who would be stupid enough to be in a relationship with a person like that. Let alone carry that persons child into the world without any idea of how to financially support that child. It's just not my responsibility. Our relationship isn't perfect, there's a lot that could be better. It's also starting to cause me to have negative mental health side affects.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:35 PM
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Thanks for the advice Chief. The marriage will be a short one definitely less than 3 years.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:31 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I don't know what I was thinking when the relationship started, I made some poor decisions but at the end of the day the kid isn't my responsibility. I'll continue to take care of my child and move on with my life.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:30 PM
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You're absolutely right. I was well aware of the child's existence long before i decided to marry her. However, I don't think I can't change my mind or my perspective on things. If at one point I accepted her past actions, I can't decide to change my mind? When thinking about divorce, no one get's married to break up a few years later, but things change. I agree with your second point. I need to learn to make better decisions but just because i made a bad decision doesn't mean i need to stand by…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:28 PM
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Tell her exactly what it is. It's the truth, is there an issue with you reading a book that could widen your perspective?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:24 PM
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Dude, screw seeming weird at this point. Ask her if you really want to know. Honestly, you weren't in a LTR and she let you have sex with her without a condom? Think about who else she's doing that with, you might get lucky and not be the father, if she is in fact pregnant. Please learn from this lesson and wear a condom next time and just don't mess with women who have unprotected sex with multiple partners. She's going straight downhill in life bro, keep a wide berth.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:22 PM
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Bro you're almost a psychologist! Think about that for a second! You're a high value man. You're about to start making a bunch of money. How many different women want the life you could easily provide for them? You need to understand your value and how much you're bringing to the table. If some woman wants to throw all that away than that's her mistake. What is this woman bringing and what is she taking away?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:18 PM
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Thanks alot for the straightfoward advice.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:49 PM
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Yeah King, don't give up hope, i'm sure you'll be able to get a girl eventually. Just be careful who you let into your life.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:46 PM
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If she wants it, you should have a good time with her. Never stress over her, if it happens it happens. I definitely wouldn't start a LTR with someone you work with though.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:44 PM
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I understand where you're coming from. I don't think it's worth the amount of effort the male has to put in. Most likely, you'll try to get into her pants by doing more and more things to impress her, which in turn makes the relationship one sided.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:42 PM
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Listen man, this woman is having sex with other men besides you. You're entering into a dangerous land by continuing to see her. There's a huge possibility of her getting pregnant and either lying to saying it's yours or possibly getting you to take the fall for another guys nut. I'd retreat ASAP.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:40 PM
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She is a person with thoughts and goals just like anyone else. A woman going half on shared expenses is excellent. There's a lot of freeloaders out there you want to stay away from. Look for the early warning signs of her slowly trying to emasculate you by flipping traditional gender roles in the relationship. If you do see them, PLEASE LISTEN AND LEAVE.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:37 PM
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Soft advice: She's a sweet girl who you had a great time with and you'd like to see more of her. That's understandable. Real advice: Bro you got her p*ssy, you had your fun, if she comes back great! If not, i'm sure you'll find another young attractive woman to have a good time with. Oneitis is dangerous.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:34 PM
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I bet you're feeling hurt my man. It seems like she might have BPD, if she really does have this condition you don't want her in your life. Let her go as fast as she came in.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:28 PM
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