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But I thought women were overjoyed and completely happy like you claim? But yeah paying someone $100/hour just so they can HOPEFULLY listen to my problems — yes, such a great investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:46 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:25 PM
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Clearly not given all the bitching we see by women on this subreddit. SSRI prescriptions are also at its highest. Do you know which demographic they're prescribed to the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:25 PM
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Humans are addicted to constant progression. It's kind of like how when people climb the corporate ladder. They keep racking up promotions and raises, but eventually they will plateau out. Ultimately speaking, women are upset, because with OLD — the progression largely leads to them only getting short-term relationships. It's female nature to never be grateful for the positive current conditions as well (think about why wives constantly complain about everything). They won't look at this and say…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:23 PM
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Libido is an interesting topic. I feel like most men feel like they really need a high libido, but I feel like a high libido is only beneficial contingent on you getting actively laid enough. Otherwise, it's probably going to be a major source of depression and anxiety for a man since he can't get that heightened 'need' satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:00 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:57 PM
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Tinder isn't the only dating app though, and it still has a reindexing effect ultimately. Even if a woman herself doesn't use OLD, if she has a friend who's consistently getting high-tier dick — she'll subconsciously take note of it in what men she'll decide to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:50 PM
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https://twitter.com/bowtiedcommoner/status/1517190472451637254?s=21&t=xODTfmUbs5_ePRXoLInj2w Holy shit lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:20 AM
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Things were trending in this direction for years now — COVID acted as a major catalyst and has changed things significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:18 AM
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I just don't understand simps. Like I really would like to see some neuroimaging of a normal man's brain vs. a simp to see if there's any obvious neurological differences. How much do women have to consistently talk shit against men, claim every man is a murderer/rapist, talk shit about men in their own dating profiles, but these simps still decide to simp? It just be some sort of advanced Stockholm syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:49 AM
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Hey, if it’s a bearded homeless hippie dude, maybe he’s missing most of his teeth and no risk of him biting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:45 AM
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Hmm, men also tend to be, by and large, significantly more pragmatic and empirical than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:45 AM
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Think about it in terms of this. You really want to have steak. You go to a restaurant and you find that they’re out of steak or ‘steak is not on the menu’. What is your decision to move forward from there? cc: u/Stunning-Potato-1984
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:45 PM
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Interesting how a younger girl dating a fuck boy her age is totally fine, but if a mature older man wants to date a younger woman — it’s always “predatory”. Nobody said fathers were particularly rational on average — in fact, fathers are usually the cause of the princess syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:09 PM
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I rarely write in terms of prescription, just description. I actually think it would be best most people shouldn’t get married. Considering most people can’t even stop themselves from becoming severely overweight — let alone obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:58 AM
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Ultimately, it's a defensive mating strategy. Women who are past their prime want men around their age range as that's around when men reach their peak earning years. If women collectively shame men enough at a societal level for dating younger women, it's now somewhat of a social risk to date younger for a man, and he's got to exclusively look at women in his age bracket. The female offensive mating strategy is to destigmatize the shame surrounding high promiscuity. The solution? Don't give a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:40 PM
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It's when men believe it's the only source of happiness is where the primary issue arises. Trust me, there's a far bigger issue with men feeling they have absolutely no purpose or contentment without relationships than the reciprocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:26 PM
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Where are you approaching people? Do you feel like being a black male is a disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:36 PM
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Curious, are you a woman? Also does de facto common law marriage apply to everywhere in Canada? In the US, it's only a few states.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:04 PM
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What makes you so sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:31 PM
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If the other women was born as a biological male, perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:59 PM
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Robert Greene makes a good point of this in 48 Laws of Power. Oftentimes the people who are pushing the need for equality everywhere are the most deceptive and exploitative people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:56 PM
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I see flaws in both capitalism and socialism. The problem with my cousin is she's an extremely hard socialist (and is stuck in very progressive echochambers) and thinks anything capitalistic is bad. She complains about exploitation, but exploitation is literally intrinsic to human nature. I won't point it out to her, but her bullshit government job is more or less exploiting tax prayers. Pretty much everyone commenting on this subreddit benefits from the exploitation of Chinese sweatshop workers…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:42 PM
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I see flaws in both capitalism and socialism. The problem with my cousin is she's an extremely hard socialist (and is stuck in very progressive echochambers) and thinks anything capitalistic is bad. She complains about exploitation, but exploitation is literally intrinsic to human nature. I won't point it out to her, but her bullshit government job is more or less exploiting tax prayers. Pretty much everyone commenting on this subreddit benefits from the exploitation of Chinese sweatshop workers…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:41 PM
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I feel /u/decoy88 is likely in the same boat but is oblivious to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:34 PM
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Or don't become a lazy, unhealthy fat fuck by getting married and having kids 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:59 AM
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What you and /u/Stunning-Potato-1984 don't seem to realize is that this sort of caveat only really rings through either in the midst of a currently established relationship or in a world where online dating isn't as abundant as it is today. Women aren't going to be beating a path to any man's door when 30 dudes just hopped into their match queue over the past hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:57 AM
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An old post I wrote touching on a similar point: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/phvvg3/the_reason_why_so_many_women_cant_seem_to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:49 AM
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Don't date coworkers
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:40 AM
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PP is 6'6" and likely got a lot of attention as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:39 AM
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Purplish pain possum is also 6'6", so he probably has a warped perception of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:38 AM
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If men cared about women’s wallets as much as women cared about men’s, this problem would be much less. there would be far fewer marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:36 AM
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Most women want a man who makes at least as much as them. Think about it too, if you're average looking, average status — your only lever to pull from there is money. So you pretty much are only restricted to women you outearn. A lot of women also want to at least temporarily stop working once they have their first child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:35 AM
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These articles aren't very good, because they literally just point you to an aggregate data set instead of demonstrably showing that — "based on A and B, we can conclude 30% of women earn more than their husbands". The reason I bring this up is because a number of years ago — someone did an analysis on this sort of finding and demonstrated that it was false. It wasn't that 30% of women were outearning husbands — it was that 30% of women were the breadwinners of all households measured. When you …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:33 AM
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It's very interesting seeing so many married women with kids on Instagram, but maybe 1 out of 20 posts actually includes a photo of their husband (with 80 percent being selfies or reels of themselves doing some retarded, uncoordinated dance). Yeah, they "love" you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:26 AM
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Another "why are you asking introverted, potentially autistic 40-something year old women on Reddit what they think is attractive" moment The men who make these Ask Women posts are objectively clueless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:52 PM
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I don't think that really hurts anything I'm saying though. If anything, I'd interpret that as more and more people from both sexes are dropping out of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 10:53 PM
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We are seeing consistent large growth in the amount of sexless young men year over year — and yes, this was even seen in years before COVID (which isn't even a good argument given how many people were still on college campuses). There are a plethora of other indicators showing that there are a lot of men struggling. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:41 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:34 PM
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Data > anecdotes. But even when there are more than enough anecdotes to confirm the data, it really makes me think what you're saying is full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:34 PM
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How are meaningless, irrelevant comments like this totally okay, but if someone says something very relevant but relatively offensive or dark — it warrants them getting suspended from the sub for a week or longer? Just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:33 PM
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This might have been true like 15-25 years ago, but I guarantee you most women in the 20-25 age range don't give a shit about wealth unless you're someone in the 500k+ range who is reliably flexing your wealth. Even then, they only "desire" the men for the stuff they can buy, not the men themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:31 PM
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Most people aren't interesting in general, at least in terms of their day to day lives. I'm not the one claiming that the opposite sex improves and becomes a more well-rounded person by dating, or that either sex is more balanced and well-rounded in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:15 PM
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That's a superstar teacher if they were warning you of the dregs of marriage in primary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:17 PM
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Very, very few relative to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:01 PM
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Men show their love by: providing for women sacrificing themselves for women buying gifts for women All material and transactional benefits are for the women. How do women show their love? By showing their presence and occupying your space.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:43 PM
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It's very simple actually. Who derives more tangible benefits as a result of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:39 PM
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They don't love men the same way men love women. What do men ultimately get from women's love? When you abstract away the lizard brain and the rush of neurotransmitters that being in love brings to men, men very rarely get any tangible benefits from a woman who's in love with them. It would also be incredibly disadvantageous from an evolutionary standpoint for a woman to fall in love to that level of depth, since throughout human history men were constantly dying. Not blaming men or women, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:06 PM
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I've had sex before though lol. I don't think men aren't shallow either btw, but we've already heard ad nauseum how horribly shallow men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:26 PM
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Makes sense. Canada and Australia are basically satellites of the UK. You could potentially even argue the same for the US, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:08 PM
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Women never really loved men — outside of the few extremely attractive ones, but even they are disposable (just look at how many high status men get cheated on or divorce raped — Brad Pitt, Will Smith, Scottie Pippen etc). Women have just done this little deceptive song and dance, because it's part of their mating nature to ensure commitment (when it benefits the woman), male investment (primarily leveraging emotional/mental manipulation), reproduction, and resource acquisition. It's just human …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:11 PM
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Religion's purpose is mainly population control, so that everyone is contributing collectively to society. For better or worse, it's what kept women reproducing, and it's what convinced men to be providers and sacrifice their lives for their people and community.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 02:01 PM
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Why would any man want to be Will Smith at this point? Lmao, is this just some thinly veiled joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 05:24 AM
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I think the thing is women in these spaces will consider any sort of positive behavior towards a man as being a 'pickme'. It's been very few and far between where I saw a woman legitimately in the Stockholm, overly submissive state which is how people seem to define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:52 AM
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Pick mes get picked. Simps get friend zoned. I don't think they're that comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:43 AM
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Kweenz*
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:43 AM
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Women have greatly deceived men by convincing men that they are perfect and of essence of divinity — i.e. angelic. Men have been fooled all these years by not viewing them what they are and what we all are — primates and animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 04:42 AM
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Should have clarified — some men take pride in it. Others simply don't have as much incentive to lie in that direction as much as women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:03 AM
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What am I lost about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:59 PM
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Lol what? Social skills are not something you can inherently learn or pick up. You can improve over time, but most people who have good social skills — it's largely something that comes naturally to them. Guess what else intelligence is correlated with? Depression. It's hard to have proper social skills if you're constantly anxious or depressed. Higher intelligence also means you are better at detecting potential risks — this can hurt intelligent introvert people, because they'll convince themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:40 PM
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The funny thing about determinism is at its root — it's much more about biology, neuroscience, and physics than psychology itself. Psychology is just the study that directly studies human behavior, where it's easier for us to interpret the effects generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:36 PM
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Do you have any resources about how to go about this properly?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:30 PM
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That's usually around the time they realize constantly getting pumped and dumped isn't worth it. I'm guessing you're American? For whatever reason, American women still deeply crave and desire marriage (probably for social status and Instagram likes). I don't think it's that they actually matured or anything — it's more so they realized they needed to start prioritizing more important characteristics that are better for a long-term partner, despite those characteristics making them "boring". Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:28 PM
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Oh, I meant more so western mainland Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:18 PM
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Why is it sad? The majority of women our age are on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:17 PM
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There have been gender swap experiments with the same exact story/Reddit post, and the man is consistently found to be the asshole in both scenarios. It truly is eye-opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:17 PM
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Men are more willing to take some level of pride in cheating whereas a woman will do everything she can to rationalize how her own infidelity wasn't "real cheating".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:14 PM
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Lol, what? How did you derive that from my comment? My overall point was generally when you're more intelligent you're likely going to be more adaptable and skeptical of things. You're going to question societal structures more and whether your own time and energy invested in it is truly worth it (especially if it's not something that comes easily).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:13 PM
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Would you say mainland European women are better behaved?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:07 PM
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The point being made isn't that men never say anything negatively about women — it's that women can openly and actively do so about men publicly, while facing no consequences and also being encouraged to do so as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:32 AM
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I agree. Not only do Europeans have better overall fashion sense, are significantly less overweight, more educated, but I think the fact that Europeans in general are not so hyperfixated on relationships needing to eventually become marriages greatly improve the overall quality of relationships. These relationshipsh can just be more organic and abide by the natural ebbs and flows rather than having some mandated ultimate end goal like a lot of Americans do. Also, Europeans are just generally mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:23 AM
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Okay, but are these women not the types of women with the biggest following and subsequently have the biggest influence over the impressionable minds of younger women (of whom greatly support and agree with the content posted by aforementioned type of women)?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:18 AM
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I think women in a modern context legitimately do have a strong distaste and disdain for men. Whether this is due to inherent psycho-biological implications (e.g. intra-gender in-group preference) or social conditioning (e.g. being fed constant propaganda for the first 25 years of life that every man is a murderer/rapist/misogynist) , I don't quite know. However, I feel like calling it banter is quite a cop-out. If men ever said half of the shit women say about men in social media with the gende…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:17 AM
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Most men are not wanted by most women — this includes and especially is the case with married women who make the relationship a dead bedroom once the vows are said and the license is signed. Still though, I don't think having this knowledge will stop men from wanting to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:13 AM
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Well, interesting counterpoint to this. I read through several threads basically doing a US vs. European women in terms of dating experiences. According to these threads, European women seemed to be much friendlier, less entitled, weren't nearly as head strong for absolute need for marriage, more educated, had better class, and last but not least — were at least 10, if not 15 kg lighter on average. So yeah, I'm not saying prostitution being legal where you are makes women a bit less cunty as the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:54 AM
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People lie about how much money they make on anonymous surveys...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:49 AM
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This is one of the few subs that is even remotely critical of women. We already heard the whole 9 yards of how every man is a rapist/murderer/kidnapper everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:57 PM
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np.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/u48ftn/i_want_to_be_a_father_not_a_mother/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf And why do men want to become fathers by reproducing with these women who literally hate them? Yeah, it totally hasn't been true for the vast majority of human existence that men were the breadwinners in a nuclear family household. Many of the cases where you see women being breadwinners are actually due to them being single parents (and women pretty much always get m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:15 AM
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Can we finally conclude women are more shallow than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:05 AM
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The greatest generation is a distinctly different generation from the boomers. Are you a boomer? Because I don't understand why people are trying to appease and pretend like the boomers literally weren't idiot incompetents as a generation goes and were the single generation to intentionally fuck over their own nation's youth for their own greed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:58 AM
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Lmfao, yeah — interesting they never specify whether they're male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:11 PM
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They discovered a sense of purpose and camaraderie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:01 PM
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True, but if you couple it with a good end goal (say 72 virgins), then you can really motivate some.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:32 PM
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There's definite utility in keeping men depressed. It's going to be far easier to recruit young men to throw their lives away if they're depressed as opposed to if they're happy. ​ "Well you already hate your life anyways, so you might as well sacrifice it for the betterment of everyone else!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 09:22 PM
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Have you realized that most therapists are those who have a background in social work and lean very strongly progressive and feminist? https://twitter.com/XO_LM/status/1513839104101957636 ​ Watch this clip and tell me why any self-respecting man would want to go see a therapist? Some literally do not even see men as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:03 PM
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https://twitter.com/XO_LM/status/1513839104101957636 Check this out when you get the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:11 PM
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Yeah, our "fair share" of being tens of thousands of debt from student loans; banking oligarchs literally laughing in our face telling us, "You will own nothing and be happy!" Oh yeah, the poor boomers. An IQ 75 Boomer could literally just work at a factory and have enough money to buy a home and support a family at age 20. Yeah, so so fair indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:10 PM
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They don't care if they actively destroy the planet and continue to print off trillions of more dollars either. They're riding off into the sunset, and they'll be long dead once all of the catastrophic problems they've caused fully manifest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:58 PM
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What pisses me off most about boomer parents: When someone is deciding to have a kid, they should really be making the conscious decision to say — I'm going to do everything I possibly can to make sure this kid experiences the least amount of unnecessary suffering as possible. I'm going to work to put them in the best possible position to succeed. Instead what do boomers do? They parasitically leech off their kids and feel entitled for them to work as slaves to take care of them in their retirem…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:43 PM
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Listening to your boyfriend's problems in 2022 is 'toxic emotional labor' and is better off-sourced to a therapist that bills him $100/hour — according to the "experts" at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:13 PM
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Listening to your boyfriend's problems in 2022 is 'toxic emotional labor' and is better off-sourced to a therapist that bills him $100/hour — according to the "experts" at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:13 PM
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I guess my hope is that if enough millennials and Zoomers woke up that we would vote out these useless, incompetent boomer fucks who only break more shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 01:02 PM
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Do you feel now solidarity with white women or black men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 04:40 AM
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The problem with this subreddit is that the majority of women here are of the age demographic and martial status (i.e. married, separated, or divorced) that the male demographic (18-29 year old men) on this subreddit is least interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:28 PM
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I think men are reacting much more so to what women themselves are putting on social media and the internet rather than what men are saying about them. I really think FDS will red pill a naive kid far more than the hard to reach TRP subreddit (or now defunct MGTOW subreddit) would when it was in its prime. The problem is women are very addicted to social media and are attention/dopamine slaves. That's how you'll literally get people like this walking free and gloating about being the suspected m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:20 PM
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"If he's giving me this much attention and he's a doctor, then there must be something wrong with him and is low value." Be aloof. Be detached. Be emotionally distant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 11:15 PM
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https://twitter.com/raffireign/status/1513941498349375497?s=21&t=xij0HrRCDWMGkB3gAsblpA Lmao holy fuck, and these people get paid for this? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 10:25 PM
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I don't think higher participation (and at that, still abysmally low participation — just better than millennials' pathetically low) in investing is necessarily an indicator of better awareness of inflation. The key caveat is that the ones investing in these are demographics are still by age large a minority. For every decent roommate I've had, I've probably had 2 or 3 that were a total pain in the ass. At that point I'd rather just live at home with parents if I have to (which many younger mill…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:26 PM
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Okay, I agree. But why is the response to sedate ourselves then with mindless media? Is there just no hope in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:24 PM
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I don't think higher participation (and at that, still abysmally low participation — just better than millennials' pathetically low) in investing is necessarily an indicator of better awareness of inflation. The key caveat is that the ones investing in these are demographics are still by age large a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 02:23 PM
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Ah yes, keep peddling the perpetual adolescent bullshit. Just ignore all the problems going on in the world, you're young! This is the exact reason why so many millennials are absolutely fucked. I wonder if this is why Gen Z doesn't have their heads completely up their assesvlike millennials do regarding retirement planning: https://investidollar.com/gen-z-is-definitely-saving-cash-whereas-millennials-arent-researcher-says/ Having questionable sex and digging quarters out of couches for beer You…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:29 PM
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I think given the context that I wrote millennials and Zoomers — it was insinuating the middle to latter end of millennials. Zoomers absolutely should be worried. Some of the oldest zoomers are technically 25 right now, even if you're 19 — college apartments still adjust to market changes. Beyond that, it very well could catalyze and expedite the collapse of American hegemony, which I guess is only relevant if you're American (which I assume most Redditors to be).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:15 PM
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What pisses me off about millennials and Zoomers is that they're such dopamine slaves that they'd rather fixate on what some dumb thot posted on IG/TikTok and not even once think — "Hmmm damn guys, I think this inflation thing might be starting to get out of hand? I heard the government is printing more money too. My rent just went up 40% from last year!" Bread and circus 🍞 🎪, except it's not even real, and it's all just artificial, digital bullshit. Maybe we already are plugged into the matrix.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:03 PM
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Really makes you wonder if there really is any practical benefit or rationality to the male sex drive in general. I wouldn't be surprised if that's half the reason Japan is basically half virgin — too intelligent to partake in the risky behavior needed to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 01:01 AM
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Oh yeah, there's no such thing as supply chain issues or general fluctuations. Sanctions on Russia had nothing to do with the particularly dramatic spike we've seen over the past month too. Do you actually believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 10:56 PM
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https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2019/01/17/where-millennials-end-and-generation-z-begins/ Anyone born between 1981 and 1996 (ages 23 to 38 in 2019) is considered a Millennial, and anyone born from 1997 Ages based on 2019 index^
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:23 PM
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In most parts of America, you actually need a car to live. If you live in Europe, you can rely on public transportation in most areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:57 PM
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https://youtu.be/ReHVVV8wNuc https://youtu.be/wTsq3rBPr4o I would check these out if you're interested — discusses free will more so from a scientific perspective rather than a philosophical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:53 PM
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It's kind of like how 96-99 get lumped into Gen Z despite them also being classified as millennials. I feel like people who are intuitively classified as the greatest generation were those old enough to participate in WW2. As to the rest of your comment, reminds me of this: np.reddit.com/r/lostgeneration/comments/tnia0b/both_parties_are_owned_by_the_same_donors Link
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:47 PM
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Can you explain how free will exists? Is there anything in the body of scientific evidence (primarily neuroscience) that actually supports the notion of free will?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:35 PM
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So far the only one who has gotten hurt by American involvement is America itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:32 PM
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Do you believe in free will?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:25 PM
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Every country will act in their own self-interest. Do you really think it's only Russia that wants to see the end of American hegemony? It's very apparent that the US is playing into Russia's hands like fools since we are dependent on their oil, so we've only managed to hurt ourselves more by virtue signaling against Russia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:24 PM
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I don't believe the US should be involved in Ukraine/Russia's shit, so in this case they are directly linked to oil prices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:19 PM
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Oh you mean the "no-names" who have tens of thousands, if not hundreds of thousands of followers on TikTok? Do you also understand the age demographics of TikTok? It's not that surprising that girls who are under 18 are attracted to effeminate men. Women seem to have a distinct change in taste around their early to mid 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:18 PM
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Call me a Russian bot if you'd like, but I honestly don't see any reason based on rational self-interest for the US to be involved in the Russian-Ukranian conflict. The US has a barrage of problems going on in its own backyard, and they need to stop playing global police force as if we have the bandwidth to absolve the rest of the world's problems. I'm not a Trump supporter, but he was definitely right about NATO — WW2 ended almost 80 years ago; SU ended almost 30 years ago. It's time EU straps …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:53 AM
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It really is. Humans are animals. Men and women have been invariably manipulating and exploiting each other for the entire existence of our species.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:45 AM
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Ultimately, humans are animals. It's always been a base animal function for women to exploit men for the acquisition and transfer of resources from the man to the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:44 AM
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Reality is sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:42 AM
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Ah so our boomer presidents are deciding to print and shit out more money into the system? Quintupling the money supply over the past two years wasn't sufficient? Honestly, political positions need a hard age ceiling. These boomer fucks are riding off into the sunset while they continue to destroy America, and they don't give a shit — want to know why? Once the shit hits the fan as a result of their "brilliant" political implementations, they're likely going to be dead or too demented to even be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:41 AM
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I dunno bruh, even as a kid I found the whole "Kobe cheated on his wife yada yada" to be a bit ridiculous. Kobe is a tall, athletic, high status, supremely skilled generational talent superstar athlete — expecting exclusivity from a man like that is absolutely ridiculous — it completely goes against male nature. I actually think women have been socially conditioned to become overly sensitive to male infidelity. If you want a top-tier guy, you're going to be dealing with a man who's got a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:30 AM
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Probably thinks 6' is "average height" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 05:01 AM
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That's because Harry Styles is a cherry picked celebrity who is high status and very recognizable. If you picked some random no name douchebag off the street that looked similar to him, most women wouldn't give them a second glance. Kind of similarly with Leo, though he is actually objectively quite handsome (though not quite model tier with an average at best body), but using male celebrities isn't very good, because their status plays such a heavy contributor to their overall attractiveness. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:58 AM
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Have you noticed most of the women on this board and FDS bitch that men can't stay faithful? Is it too difficult for them and their solipsism to consider that the guy was actually well out of their league, and THEY were the entitled ones to think they were obligated exclusivity with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:55 AM
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Yeah, men just need to go to the gym more so they can grow taller and get a thicker/wider jaw! Such brilliance!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:53 AM
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What does putting yourself out there more even mean? Most people don't want to be bothered by strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:10 AM
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I really don't think it does. Let's remove all of the artificially enhancing cosmetics, you really have to start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:06 AM
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The risk of injury via biting is greatly reduced. Toothless fellatio is the best fellatio!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:32 PM
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Imagine you survive, but you're either a paraplegic and/or have a severe case of PTSD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:29 PM
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Do you live in an area that is densely populated with Desis?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:21 PM
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Society is becoming a lot more socially atomized at every level — even for kids. Sometimes it's not necessarily the social skills are bad nor that someone is on the spectrum, but more so that there is just a sheer lack of opportunity to actually meet new people of the opposite sex — let alone new people in general. Can't really date coworkers? Because #MeToo and don't eat where you shit. Most hobby based clubs eventually become very sausage fest based, or the women already have partners from out…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:13 PM
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Almost all of the female cast of the friends has had excessive facial reconstructive surgery and Botox, not exactly apples to oranges — especially regarding the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:03 PM
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Women wear plenty of makeup and cosmetics that hide their defects. Many others get facial reconstructive surgery. It's actually very common for pornstars right around 30 to get some major work done. Ironically enough, all of these products and treatments either age or make them look more deformed than if they hadn't used them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:47 PM
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Someone pointed out — it might be click bait marketing, and the women aren't quite that actually delusional. Wouldn't put it past them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:26 PM
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Lol true, they know people will find this click-baity, and it'll draw attention to them. Shit, I should be getting paid for the advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:25 PM
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I'm just sad thinking a bunch of their simp subscribers probably tried proposing to them 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:08 PM
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Lol wat. Do you not understand why most reasonable, desirable men wouldn't want to commit to such types of women? 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:03 PM
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Not currently, am technically dating a girl but don't think we have much chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:59 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/OQQh9Bw The memes write themselves nowadays — it seems like the only thing this time and place are good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:24 PM
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Are you saying men relative to women look worse at the same age?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:58 PM
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I really can't say women in America look any better. Both are fat as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:55 PM
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I recognized OP’s handle and she’s the same one who wrote this Pulitzer piece (linked below) gaslighting men that their standards are out of touch. Which is easily debunked when you consider most men are swiping right for hours without even looking at the profile just to get a single match. Really just goes to show you — most women on here only act to gaslight and keep you further mentally enslaved. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/si4rjq/it_seems_like_the_core_of_the_issue_in_…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:57 AM
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Response rates are completely irrelevant as you can’t respond or message someone who you don’t match with, which is how most popular dating apps function.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:54 AM
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The moment doesn’t come for everyone. It’s definitely worth it to have that mindset and hope that it will, but it just demonstrably doesn’t work out for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:52 AM
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It’s all good bro, I think we’re all agreeing here; people just don’t like you using “game” in this context is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:42 AM
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Women will always care about resources. Until we become some sort of fully automated society, men will always be assessed on their ability for resource acquisition. Money also ties in directly with status. I hate consumerist culture, but nothing brings a woman’s attention more than wearing designer clothing and driving a luxury car. The only thing that’s changed as of recent is that women not only demand resources, but they demand exceptional stature and facial aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:40 AM
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A 19 year old likely doesn’t know how to fuck, can’t provide, probably isn’t anywhere near his potential peak strength, has a baby face, among other things — there’s no reason to think 19 year old men (outside of Chads) have any distinct major advantages over men in their mid to late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:39 AM
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A lot of women want sugar daddies, but sugar daddies are in short supply due to it being very difficult to truly get that wealthy. So women have to settle for men who are available within their own social circles, which tend to be in similar age brackets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:35 AM
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I think older men having lower sex drives helps them stay resistant to exploitations by women who would be able to better leverage it against a younger man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:34 AM
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I think people are having trouble with you using the word “game”. In most contexts, game is used to described how skilled someone (almost always a man) is at picking up a member of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:31 AM
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It’s nothing to be pressed about. It’s misunderstanding that both parties are putting in disproportionately unequal amounts of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:24 AM
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Ah yea, reason 5 million why we should rationalize why a data set of 600k is invalid, because it brings about a harsh truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:38 AM
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Here are the social skills a woman needs to have in order to be successful in dating: be able to smile be able to make basic eye contact be able to laugh at a man that she fancies jokes even if the joke isn’t funny Truly difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:36 AM
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Men by and large are doing the majority of the leg work in relationships, and if they didn’t — the women would simply leave them and find someone else who would do it for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:34 AM
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Yeah, just ignore all nuances, it’s so easy bro. Btw, it’s be attractive; don’t be unattractive. Very attractive men oftentimes aren’t even that social — they have a very magnetic appearance that draws people in without them even muttering a word.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:38 AM
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I'm not whining, was merely describing reality as I perceive it. Realistically the faster men adopt the mindset you have, the better off they will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:32 AM
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Men are less selective in terms of how physically attractive a particular woman has to be for a man to consider her viable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:10 AM
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If it's any avail, if you look at almost all sexually dimorphic species — the role that plays the male invariably is getting the shitty end of the stick, but the end goal of it is simply reproduction. If you don't feel a need to reproduce, you don't have to play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:42 PM
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I'm talking about current fertility rates — we simply don't know. Who knows if they're doing something like this in their backyard: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lebensborn Particularly relevant is the implementation section.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:23 PM
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Could be either way, but it's more strategic for them to claim they're reproducing at lower rates than what they currently are. cc: /u/LowCreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:15 PM
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Random thought — In early COVID, it was shown that China was lying about their COVID infection rates. Who's to say they aren't lying about their fertility rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:50 PM
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It doesn't really bother me at all. I think the aspect that bothers me is more so that whether a movie is considered good or not is based on its diversity rather than its overall acting quality and entertainment value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:48 PM
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At what point does the rest of society have to keep curtailing to a sub-population that makes up <1% of the population. I'm very live and let live, but this constant progressive narrative that representation is what makes a piece of media good (not the quality of acting or sophistication of plot) — especially regarding representation of trans/gay people — is just getting very ridiculous at this point. Like they're seriously making movies where half of the cast is playing someone who is LGBTQ, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:16 PM
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This is fundamentally the problem with men seeking mental health resources as well. There are very few therapists who aren't woke (and are actually medically trained, I might add). Until we are able to be completely transparent and honest about certain harsh realities of the world, all of this is largely bullshit mental masturbation. Probably the only therapist I will listen to at all is this guy (linked below) — he's an actual psychiatrist (so he went to med school), understands that men and wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:13 PM
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Reducing options isn't necessarily a bad thing if it means more overall quality options. What is bad about it is when a girl gets a bachelor's in a completely bullshit major, develops a sense of major entitlement, and then moans, "Where did all the good men go?" The bullshit major part is particularly key, because we've hit a point of critical mass in college participation that you're almost certainly better off NOT wasting the time and money it took to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:06 PM
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I've seen so many rationalizations as to why something isn't true, and they by and large go against Occam's razor. Oh also, you know how we really know something is true? We look for covering lines of evidence. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33564979/ https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-019-00196-y Also, I lied — the sample size from OKCupid was 600k subjects, at that point it's almost certainly going to achieve better variance and polling than all other studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:58 PM
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Lol at these people thinking women will literally just approach him while taking his clothes off. They're almost going to at least expect him to approach, go through some bullshit small talk among other timesinks, and then finally get laid — I won't deny getting laid for him is much easier than the average man, but people seem to forget even Chads can have cold streaks. More pertinently, Chads still have to go through all the motions to get women to that state, and that's work and a pain in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:36 AM
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Eh, the sample size was like over 50k.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:30 AM
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Women's standards are increasingly and progressively getting higher and higher for a man (I have no issue with this btw). Women have leverage in not only having far more options, but they have leverage in the caveat that most women don't really like men and have a strong lack of interest or disinterest in the majority of men as well. You see this with women on social media, and women on FDS: a man can be an absolute catch, is good looking, tall, in a stable and strong career — but they are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:22 AM
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Yeah, let's just ignore all population data and trends in said data. Let's keep selling men false hope that they're going to eventually find a perfect unicorn woman who will be accommodating, won't bitch and moan, won't spend money irresponsibly, won't constantly nag/manipulate you among other things. That's even if you get to the marriage/cohabitation stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:03 AM
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Most women are smart enough to not publicly disclose this information, even among their girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:43 AM
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In 2020 and 2021, a third of NYC businesses went out of business. Does that mean the other 2/3 were doing fine? No, it likely meant 1/3 was doing fine and the other 1/3 was barely breaking even. women have the option to have a decent career Nothing reduces a woman's options more than her getting educated herself. It's not that men perceive educated women as less attractive, but more so that women who are educated perceive themselves as more attractive and prop up their own standards. This direct…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:42 AM
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Ah dopamine slaves still following all this bullshit pop culture events as if any of it is actually real. How come nobody points out Chris Rock's tour ticket prices have skyrocketed since the incident? It's just like how rappers will pretend to "beef" with each other in order to pump up record drama and record sales. https://nypost.com/2022/03/29/chris-rocks-comedy-tour-ticket-prices-skyrocket-after-will-smith-slap/ Chris Rock looked completely unaffected by the slap too — I'm completely convinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:49 PM
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I ultimately only care about population trends overtime. I just don't really care about anecdotes that much, and in all fairness — most of my own anecdotes seem to only confirm what the data is suggesting. Divorce is down, because there are less marriages available for divorce to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 11:26 PM
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I agree to some extent. I feel like I've been tested with to know I exhibit a high level of individual competency and independence for a 25 year old in today's world. Will say though, I feel like men of your times are a lot more sympathetic at least in regards to why younger generations don't want to have kids or get married nearly as much as preceding ones — especially more understanding than the women of your times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:58 PM
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Whether it's most women or not, it's definitely a sizeable proportion of the female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:43 PM
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Plenty of girls are fucking multiple his guys in a cycle. Literally went to a club yesterday and the same chick grinder with 3 different dudes and made out with two of them. Broadly speaking, this is just female nature. The only construct that tried to socially condition women from partaking in such behavior is religion. This is why in prehistoric and tribal times — nobody really knew who was the father of a baby, and hence part of the reason why children were raised by the tribe instead of a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:40 PM
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It's not that hard to get matches — even on apps where my height is listed (5'6") — I still get a fair amount of matches. What's more difficult is actually getting a conversation to last for more than 3 texts, and then driving it to actually become a first date. What's also difficult about OLD is even if you date and go out with a girl for a few times, as this post is mentioning, she'll probably have a good amount of other men she's trying out as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:36 PM
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They (at least the ones I've seen in this subreddit, e.g. /u/purplish_possum) seem to ironically be a bit more empathetic or sympathetic despite the fact that subconsciously many of them have the whole "oh millennial men are just pussies". You have to think though that a lot of these older dudes here 'just get it', because they were a part of many other boomer and Gen X men who went through the divorce meat grinder (and there weren't a million YouTube videos out there to warn you — in fact, ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:24 PM
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And what have they confided in you about exactly? Every generation believes the previous generation knows nothing I'm wondering why you left off the other half of the quote, i.e., ... and that they're wiser than all of the younger generations Nevertheless, quotes like these don't really matter. What matters is are we saying variances and trends that differed dramatically from previous generations, and this is certainly the case with young millennials and Gen Z. Just to list a few off the top of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:21 PM
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Dating is still so much that same in a lot of ways, ghosting is not knew, cheating is not new, crappy people are not new, people wanting a stable partner is not new, getting benched is not new, people wanting to build a family is not new, etc, etc. When did anyone say these various notions were "new"? It's more important to address — has there been any significant differences in terms of the likelihood of these things occurring? Or has these been a change in the number of people who want to part…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:07 PM
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Lol wtf? You actually think kids are honest and open about to their parents about that kind of shit? The vast majority aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:45 PM
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Men are much closer to being individuals, because men score much higher on disagreeableness relative to women — whereas women seem to almost behave like a hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:55 PM
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The most frustrating thing on this subreddit: Old boomer or Gen X women pretending to know how dating is actually like for current 16-28 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:54 PM
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Data compiled by OKC (but was taken down due to overly PC people bitching and moaning) showed that over 60 percent of women prefer or fantasize about rough sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:53 PM
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What's there to laugh about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:49 PM
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ASAP Rocky has an 8-figure net worth — would much rather get with a woman who's ten years younger, less narcissistic, less self-absorbed, and much more beautiful than Rihanna if I were him. But hey, he definitely doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 04:15 PM
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Take all the fake hair, fake eyelashes, tummy tucks, and all the bullshit cosmetics and makeup off of Rihanna — we'll see just how truly beautiful she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:57 PM
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Take all the fake hair, fake eyelashes, tummy tucks, and all the bullshit cosmetics and makeup off of Rihanna — we'll see just how truly beautiful she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:56 PM
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Take all the fake hair, fake eyelashes, tummy tucks, and all the bullshit cosmetics and makeup off of Rihanna — we'll see just how truly beautiful she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:56 PM
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The women they wanted probably just consistently cheated on them, so they decided to go for older, lower value women who don't have as much leverage to leave the relationship as said men were probably already the best they could do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:55 PM
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Like almost everything else with humans, it has far more to do with sexual dimorphic neutral architecture than some arbitrary subjective character flaw which is what you're suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:52 PM
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My life has far more structure and security being single than it was with any of the women I was with. "Structure and security" are benefits for the women — not men. When a man and woman get into a relationship, the woman offshores her problems to the man while the man still has to deal with all of his own problems on his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:49 PM
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Women don't want their equals. They're too insecure with themselves to ever consider someone who's their functional equal of the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 03:48 PM
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Literally in the men's locker room
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:06 AM
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Bars and clubs can also be sausage fests too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 12:05 AM
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This is true. Most reasons people give for believing something is really just a post-hoc rationalization usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 10:24 PM
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American women's scale number would like to have a chat with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:12 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:26 PM
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Lmfaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:28 PM
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A patriarchal, phallic spell!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 12:28 PM
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disgusting This word given in the context you wrote seems like a moral qualifier to be. I'm perfectly happy to not identify base behaviors of either sex as good or bad 🤠
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:26 AM
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And women's sexuality of using manipulation and deceit to garner favor or resources is moralistic? How about their physical standards that considers the vast majority of men as below average? And nah, I doubt it would change shit. Humans are animals at the end of the day, and the vast majority of humans want to fuck. Women will pretend like they don't want to, but this is mostly just rationalization on their part.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:18 AM
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"Women don't know men for they do not care about men." Once I read and understood this quote, the world made so much more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:16 AM
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I suspect that this is statistically so due to male ego and female rationalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:13 AM
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Why is it not good advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 11:12 AM
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What freedom exactly if we're talking first world westernized countries? Would you still want to be a man if you were short, impoverished, or not white?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:39 AM
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Self-reported data is honestly not very reliable. If I ask someone how they are doing. In the US, it is custom that they'll say something along the lines of "fine", "good", "great" , "solid" — even if said person could be feeling like absolute shit. People literally lie about their salaries on anonymous surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:38 AM
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How young are you? There's also a good chance your underestimating your own looks if you guys met on an app.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:34 AM
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The chick on the social media harassment thread bitching about Instagram not doing enough to censor mean people is also literally unironically just blocking everyone (hmm, it's almost like this is what you should do to mean people on social media) who's arguing with her (which is rule breaking I might add). So many levels of irony and comedy to this. cc: /u/decoy88
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:10 AM
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Report her — this is explicitly breaking the block rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:35 AM
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Don't you get it? It's 2022, characters (i.e. alphanumeric text) on a arranged in a particular manner can be assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:34 AM
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Why don't you just make your own social media platform? Then you can make all of the arbitrary rules you'd like. Same with making your own bank and payment processors. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:33 AM
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I'm Indian. I'm very surprised you were able to be that vulnerable with your parents. Are they pretty secular?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:46 PM
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Yeah, I think the caveat here is what is the first belief you've internalized as a kid. That's far more important than anything else, because regardless of how much unlearning and decoupling you may go through — the remnants of it still seem to linger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:41 PM
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I had a fairly traditional/religious upbringing, probably why we've had such different experiences. Other than that, can't lie, your reply made me chuckle a bit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:39 PM
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Interesting. Are you Middle Eastern?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:20 PM
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So you really think only an insignificant percentage of men were coddled and fed similar sorts of sentiments as boys? I'm willing to agree it may be a minority (say 10-40 percent), but I definitely don't agree it's some tiny miniscule percentage as you're suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 08:04 PM
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I don't identify with any pills, but I'd argue that this notion is not mainstream — and even if it is, it's only recently become as such in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:58 PM
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If my experience is so unique and limited, why are so many other men claiming to have experienced the same thing? I will say though — I had a fairly religious and relatively traditional upbringing. Seems to be a common denominator among men who are claiming they had the same experience throughout this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:57 PM
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The problem is when you're raised to believe differently in your youth, and you internalize a false belief — it's really hard to unlearn, especially when said belief feels so emotionally positive and gratifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:22 PM
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No, it really doesn't. What you outlined is just another component of psychology that's driven by genetic optimization; they just happen to manifest in relatively diametrically opposed forces. Female in-group preference had primary utility as a group/tribal survival mechanism, and it's been hardwired in women as a result. This still doesn't negate that sexually reproducing entities want the best genes out there, which includes their offspring getting access to the best genes possible. Humans are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:35 PM
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Girls (and even boys, as /u/decoy88 pointed out) are taught at a very young age that men are violent. They're taught that men are murderers and rapist, and that one should proceed with extreme caution when doing so. This is why back in times when fathers were in the same household as their kids — they would actively and aggressively vet who their daughters were dating. As far as men being alone, it's only accepted under the condition that you're still actively dating and/or getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:28 PM
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examples Look at any mother who is overbearing in coddling her son(s). Oddly enough, a lot of mothers don't want their sons fucking — a lot of them seem to almost want to keep their sons in perpetual adolescence to some degree. I guess part of the pain in being a good mother is to know when to transition from that phase — some never truly do. Where are boys getting this idea? If you think about it, especially when growing up, siblings are oftentimes antagonistic to each other. You're all competi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:09 PM
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This might be true in certain cases, but I'd argue you're simply neglecting, minimizing, and ignoring the experiences of how a significant proportion of men were raised. Even if a boy has a sister, it's viewed so under the context that she's your sister, and she isn't representative of how women who aren't relatives will act in association to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 02:02 PM
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It would increase undoubtedly, but that's not the point. I actually made a small mistake in my original comment — it goes from roughly middle of Gen Z to not only the oldest boomers, but the last remnants of The Greatest Generation (people born roughly between the 1900s-1925). The fundamental problem with this type of metric is that not all generations were born under the same culture or environmental standards. As a result, trying to extrapolate data in which a percentage of that data is extrap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:49 PM
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This is actually just a poor use of data manipulation to drive a narrative. Above the age of 15 is actually quite a useless metric. This means it includes those in the middle of Gen Z (i.e. those born in the mid-2000s) to the oldest boomers alive. ​ This is not a useful data metric in the slightest, and to try to attempt conclusive statements from it as well is even more useless (and misleading). It's just like boomers who try to argue that "you can't put a price on education" and "it's always w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:25 AM
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Most people here are either not in college or they've already graduated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:44 PM
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When people say go out and see people in real life instead of OLD — what kind of venues are they talking about? Why do the same outcomes you see on OLD apply there? For example, bars can oftentimes be sausage fests, so the gender distribution isn't even that much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:11 PM
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It's so funny seeing VindictaRateMe and VindictaCelebs where girls get to play mean girls against each other. I will say though — women seem to notoriously overrate below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:10 PM
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I'd rather the US give more viable options instead of two guys who are pushing 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 04:53 PM
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I think it depends if a girl has RBF
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:35 PM
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Pleasant to be around. Warm, friendly, smiles a lot, accommodating. Basically think what a stereotypically good mom would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:22 PM
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The first negative aspect I noticed from Biden's presidency is rental prices in my area increasing 30-50% around May 2021. Everyone called me delusional and a conspiracy theorist back then for pointing out very obvious, blatant indicators of inflation. Now, even CNN talks about inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:18 PM
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I‪'m saying this as someone who's never voted for Trump. ‬ ‪Biden's presidency — thus far, in such short time frame — is turning out to be the best unintentional Trump advertisement of all time. ‬
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 03:10 PM
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It's actually mostly placebo effect. The best thing you can do to reduce injury is resistance train and get adequate sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 02:31 PM
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