YouCantHelpMeButThx Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1407	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this."	Discrimination	YouCantHelpMeButThx	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:10 AM
101	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day.	Discrimination	YouCantHelpMeButThx	/r/MensRights	19/11/20 09:42 PM
79	All I ever wanted was to be a father.	General	YouCantHelpMeButThx	/r/MensRights	19/06/22 04:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	All I ever wanted was to be a father. I figured I'd get this type of comment, and while I'm not saying you're wrong for this line of thinking, I completely disagree.	/r/MensRights	19/06/22 08:18 PM
5	Men are often sidelined in the Body Positivity Movement In terms of gaining weight, it's very difficult to consume 4,000 calories every single day just to maintain my weight, and this is literally the case for me. I've been bullied my entire life for being underweight, and most people simply go "just eat more" when I try to explain a weight loss disease. I agree with you, just throwing in some insight.	/r/MensRights	17/02/22 04:03 PM
15	Men are often sidelined in the Body Positivity Movement Well aside from the "positivity" aspect of the movement (which I've seen very little of for men), it might be easiest to simply look at all of the shaming that men receive, and it is plentiful. Firstly, there is male pattern baldness, lack of physical strength being looked down on, lack of jawline being looked down on, men with disabilities, men with weight loss diseases (Hi there!), etc. Personally I believe the worst of it usually comes from height and penis size though. Spend some time in r /…	/r/MensRights	17/02/22 03:59 PM
6	Man goes hysterical because some other guy groped his ass as a joke. Let's not imitate radical feminists! Groping someone who clearly is not consenting is assault... I don't care if you or the assailant think it's a joke, it literally is sexual assault.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 09:52 PM
7	Man goes hysterical because some other guy groped his ass as a joke. Let's not imitate radical feminists! Yeah... no. Thats sexual assault.	/r/MensRights	18/12/21 09:45 PM
2	YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN I see. Well that is good.	/r/MensRights	07/12/21 10:40 PM
8	YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN Hmm. Well sounds like your wife isn't being a great partner, or person for that matter. You get abused and your wife tells you to shut up and that your ABUSER is awesome? This sounds so similar to what I experienced when I was being abused...	/r/MensRights	07/12/21 10:36 PM
8	YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN If your wife said some guy, let's say a "friend", was always sexually assaulting her, and then she told you about it... Since you trust she won't cheat on you, would you say "oh shush, he is awesome"?	/r/MensRights	07/12/21 10:30 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I'm not interested in speaking to you, or anyone that so easily invalidates someone's experiences with depression, abuse, terminal disease, and poverty... I'm blocking you. Continue to be an absolute a bitch if you want.	/r/MensRights	06/12/21 12:08 AM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." If you looked at my profile or any of the several comments I've made clarifying; you'd see that being unattractive is but one thing among many.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 11:43 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Yeah... none of that helps me though. It's nice for many other men perhaps, but living longer is completely irrelevant to me, as is the military, as is moving to Japan. None of those are an option for me anyway.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 10:25 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I do spiral into self harm and drug abuse over worse things... this is just one among many.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 10:18 PM
2	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I've been on meds, and they just always made it worse. I'll probably end up trying another one soon though.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 10:16 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." So not only will many women not like short guys, there's a good chance their moms won't either... lol	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 07:35 PM
3	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I think he meant, women are more attracted to tall men BECAUSE of evolutionary biology. Like as in, a larger mate means healthier offspring and a stronger defense against predators/advantage in hunting.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 07:33 PM
3	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Some of us can't just "get regular exercise"...	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 07:24 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Then get banned entirely lol	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 07:10 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." This is but one thing piled onto a hundred other things. This is just one example of something that tends to make me spiral.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 07:08 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Eh idk. I think the vast majority of women prefer tall men, and that is perfectly within their right. I have good friends that have acknowledged they would rather date tall guys. Doesn't make them bad or not worth my time.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 06:59 PM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." This is just ONE example of self destructive behavior I go through (looking at this stuff). Why aren't I pulling my hand out? Chronic depression, likely some kind of complex, and a deep desire to kill myself... Looking at this stuff, I suppose I do it for the same reason I drink, don't eat, don't sleep, self harm etc. This is a deep rooted problem, not one hot fix solution is ever going to work.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 06:57 PM
2	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I think I DEFINITELY need a break from social media.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 06:54 PM
4	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." The only person I would ever shoot would be myself.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 09:39 AM
3	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Thank you! Many of the kind comments have made me feel a bit better. I was quite upset when I posted this (shocker), and I truly did not expect this response. The vast majority of comments have been incredibly kind.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 08:47 AM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Yes. So much yes. I've also been bullied for my sexual orientation (usually by the same type you've described), and even for MY disability (Cystic Fibrosis), even though it's largely invisible. I'm very sorry you've been bullied that way. No one deserves that kind of treatment. The body shaming is so sickening to me too, in all forms. When I posted this I wasn't trying to make a "mens rights" argument, I genuinely just thought people here would understand and listen to me. (Which largely it's be…	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 08:33 AM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Since I didn't word it as precisely as I should have in the title, and 'm responding over and over with the same explanation, I'd like to clarify. I am suicidal and depressed over a vast amount of things, many I've commented on, and have posted about for years. Feel free to have a look. I should have been more clear; this is ONE example of something that easily begins the spiral which I have described in the title. I posted this here in a time of desperation and anger and to who I figured would …	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 08:28 AM
2	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Maybe read my other comments explaining, or go through my posts, and find out exactly why I'm depressed and suicidal. This is ONE THING in a list of many.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 08:22 AM
5	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Ah yes, you assume I'm suicidal over this one single thing and not a multitude of things amplified by severe chronic depression... You don't know anything about me or my life. You don't know anything about the abuse I've experienced at the hands of a woman. You just fucking assume. Yep sheltered life, have a terminal lung disease and have an estimated 3 or 4 years to live though I'm in my mid 20s. Won't ever have a family or see my friends grow, I'll be buried at a young age, crippling my family…	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 08:20 AM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I appreciate it. Unfortunately, the age thing is irrelevant for me, as I won't live to see my 40s, nor even 30s possibly.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 06:59 AM
1	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I brood on much deeper and oppressive issues than just height. This is but one single thing amongst many.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 06:57 AM
2	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I appreciate it. Tinnitus genuinely terrifies me to no end. I have a terminal lung disease, but I don't think I'd trade it. You're hella strong for sticking through.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 06:52 AM
2	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I feel the same, but I'm chronically depressed otherwise; this is just one thing.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 03:17 AM
2	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Unfortunately, height is but one small thing in a long list of many. But I hear you, and I agree. Thank you for your comment.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 02:49 AM
3	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I'm very sorry. I promise it was not my intent.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 02:46 AM
10	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Suicide Hotline has been nothing but unhelpful, unfortunately.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 02:45 AM
5	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." The account retweeting those is Heightism Exposed.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 02:43 AM
2	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." How I feel.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 02:42 AM
4	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Well I mean, when you think of his response, that's inherently just more bodyshaming...	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:55 AM
4	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Thank you. But unfortunately, I'm not suicidal JUST because of this stuff; this is but one horrible thing in a list of reasons. I do appreciate your comment though! Many many thanks, and so much love to you!	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:50 AM
23	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." I appreciate it! I could offer a retort to nearly all of these things, but I'd rather not use this space like I would r/vent or r/suicidewatch So I'll just say I think you're right and are giving great advice for anyone in my position.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:31 AM
9	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." Exactly. It's quite easy to find it everywhere too. Men under 5'8" can't even donate sperm to a lot of sperm banks... Because no one will accept it.	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:27 AM
71	I've long been deeply suicidal about this. Every time I see it I spiral into self harm and drug abuse... Most people I've brought this up to simply brush it off... The last person I lamented to (and I am NOT kidding) literally told me "it's probably good men are suicidal about this." A friend of mine said the same thing. She often tries to get me to be better about preserving my mental health by "detoxing" from that negative stuff, and also said something along those lines of these girls ending up sad and alone anyway. The problem is, with severe depression and bad habits, I tend to purposely look at this type of stuff (or worse). I personally don't believe these girls will die alone. Entitlement and arrogance seem to be quite in style right now, so I doubt that will matter …	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 01:18 AM
5	Many men, when they understand the advantages that modern society gives women, secretly wish that they were born women. They are not even close to being assaulted, abused, or attacked more. Where are you getting that idea?	/r/MensRights	06/11/21 08:30 PM
5	Why some women become misandrists Great resources, and great post. I genuinely mean it when I say, you are legitimately one of the best contributors to this sub, and the discussion in general.	/r/MensRights	27/09/21 07:57 PM
1	I want to help Asian Americans in their movement for equality in the U.S. but I'm constantly disregarded and accused of being disingenuous because I'm white. The immediate thing I could think of, is Asian men (along with black women) have by far the most difficult time dating. Other than that, and the recent rise in hate crimes, I'm not exactly sure what OP is thinking of.	/r/MensRights	20/09/21 10:34 PM
4	Female filmmakers denounce festival prize for Johnny Depp Welp, I'm really glad you asked for the source, because now that I'm looking for it I'm finding that I'm actually wrong :( I saw footage of Emilia and Jason together and the article said that she was replacing Amber, but I guess that was just fake news... Now all I can find is fan petitions and photoshopped images! My bad y'all, I saw the fake news and was happy about it, so I didn't fact check it. Apologies.	/r/MensRights	11/08/21 09:29 PM
11	Female filmmakers denounce festival prize for Johnny Depp Nah, she was replaced with Emilia Clarke. You can already find footage of her on set with Jason Momoa. Edit: Sorry, I am totally incorrect. Unfortunately, nothing has been announced in regards to Heard being replaced. My mistake.	/r/MensRights	11/08/21 09:06 PM
2	UNPOPULAR OPINION: We should not use the high male job death rate as a talking point. Ah, well put! I actually think I agree with you! I'm going to stop using on job deaths as a arguing point for men's rights, and more just the facts. Edit: AND the points you and others have raised about the disposability factor.	/r/MensRights	10/08/21 07:14 PM
5	UNPOPULAR OPINION: We should not use the high male job death rate as a talking point. I don't disagree with you... But couldn't you make the argument that boys dropping behind in school and automatically being treated like the blue collar working class sort of "pushes" these men into these positions? (Just as is argued that girls are pushed to pursue fields outside of STEM)? This is not MY argument, but just an interesting thought that may be worth exploring. The other thing I'd point out, is that these jobs DO need to be done. Those dangerous jobs certainly need to be done by SO…	/r/MensRights	10/08/21 05:47 PM
1	It’s time to acknowledge cuomo’s harassment Fuck him left right and sideways. I hope he gets put under the jail, regardless of his harassment... now even more so.	/r/MensRights	04/08/21 06:00 PM
9	This sub is next according to better bachelor(don't know what flare) I second that. I never saw the first but on the 2nd I RARELY saw hateful stuff... no more than here anyway.	/r/MensRights	04/08/21 02:14 AM
7	To the young men here: develop a strong frame What if we're already suicidal, but then are told by countless sources that we aren't worth having around anyway? What if we're denigrated in real life, not online, for things that aren't our own choice? What if we are already at the end of our rope, and we don't have the strength to stand up in the face of that adversity? I'm sorry, I don't mean to be a downer, but sometimes this "tough love, strong frame" doctrine just doesn't work... some of us are meant to be hurt.	/r/MensRights	29/12/20 10:49 PM
2	Never be ashamed to be a man That is also my great thing... all I ever wanted was to be a fantastic husband and father... that's how I interpret success... BUT I'll never have that either... so I'm a failure. It doesn't only fall on the interpretation... some of us will just fail, and there's nothing really more to it than that.	/r/MensRights	28/12/20 08:13 PM
1	Feminists that recognize problems pertaining to men are amazing. That's good, because no one else really gives a fuck.	/r/MensRights	26/11/20 07:01 PM
1	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. Many kind people like you have reached out and told me they care, and its really sweet. I do appreciate it greatly. I wish I could promise I'll be okay and won't do anything drastic, but I don't want to lie. Thank you :)	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 07:42 PM
2	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. Yeah, I should have... I just feel like every time I have it just never bodes well for me. People never care in these situations, so it just seems like I'll just be causing problems with my coworkers and no one will actually support me.	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 06:20 AM
2	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. No one is going to care, and I think if anything, saying something will definitely make it worse. They didn't do anything other than say mean words... I'm not going to go complain because some people hurt my feelings and just cause a big deal with the people I work with... It doesn't really matter anyway.	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 05:47 AM
2	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. You're right... and I really do agree. I just need this job, and I can't really do anything to make my life more stressful right now, if that makes sense? I know that's horrible to say, but I just don't want to start a losing battle right now.	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 05:45 AM
1	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. Thank you for caring! I really do appreciate it!	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 05:21 AM
6	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. Thank you! Same to you! I will not recover, but I promise to try to enjoy it while I'm here as best I can! Maybe I wouldn't get fired, but it would certainly cause waves, and I don't want unnecessary problems. I just want to go to work and get it done and go home.	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 05:21 AM
4	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. I'm in therapy and am on antidepressants... getting worse though lol Thank you :)	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 03:54 AM
4	Got made fun of by my female coworkers for my height today. Happy Men's Day. I don't want to get fired or get in trouble; I really don't think anyone will care.	/r/MensRights	20/11/20 03:39 AM
5	We need to recognize this You seem ideologically possessed...	/r/MensRights	22/07/20 06:46 AM
13	We need to recognize this Yeah... that's not true. I'm sorry for your loss, but in my experience, I've been deemed less of a man, I've been judged, and my severe depression has been all but swept under the rug by several people; so I gotta say this is just not the case for many people. No one fucking cares, and even those that do have basically not a single thing they can do to help. So yeah, its a lost cause for many of us.	/r/MensRights	22/07/20 06:43 AM