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DiscussionYouCantHoldACandle/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 02:29 AM
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I kept the nudies of my ex cause she's hot. Maybe I'm a bad person 😂. But yeah if I get married or something I'm gonna delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:43 AM
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I'm really good with the active listening and conversation. I can make a chick talk for hours ans hours. It's more of the entry I need help with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:40 AM
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Need good advice not joke advice thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:39 AM
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Can't shawty just put it on a thumb drive and Google drive. It ain't rocket surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:36 AM
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You're monk mode I'm monkey mode 🤪 🦧🐒
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:35 AM
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How do I be more approachable? I do well with women I'm already acquainted with, but if it's a random stranger my voice gets all low and my body language gets sort of assertive like I'm squaring up against a tough guy. Need to stop doing this and give off welcoming vibes. Any tips welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:33 AM
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Ok thank you 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:45 AM
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Question for the fellas When guys are doing the playful "lightly make fun of their friends" thing. How do I know what to say. I'm super nice and never insult anyone. I know in this situation you are socially expected to make some light insults. But my brain defaults to super malicious things like mocking their weight or insulting their bloodline+genetics or falsely claiming they didn't graduate highschool. I've never said any of these out loud but if I want to be insulting this is where my brain…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:57 AM
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You might be surprised by how alarmingly common child sexual abuse is. And not just for the little girls either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:09 PM
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Chest is a pretty little princess all picky and if you do one little thing wrong it throws a tantrum and busts something in your shoulder Back is like a pig. It happily takes what you feed it and then oinks in approval and asks for more
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:08 PM
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Is this a thing chicks worry about? Whenever I've been with a single mom they let me meet the kids right away and then usually they're pretty happy with how it goes. I wonder if they secretly vetted me first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:06 PM
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Boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:37 AM
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So she knows she's pretty and that I find her desirable even if she doesn't do anything special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:35 AM
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Hard to blame women for being misandrist when you look at the garbage quality of these men nowadays. Feminism is easy to counter and they all want to be a housewife anyway once you show that you're a strong capable man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:27 AM
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How do I tell a chick she looks prettier without makeup on in a way that comes off as sweet (which is my intention) rather than a backhanded attack on her makeup skillz
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:25 AM
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But there's a lot of physically pretty ones that I don't like who are off limits to me when they could be accessible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:06 AM
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All my life I go many different places and do many different things and try many different foods and listen to many different kinds of music. I want it to be the same with women. I'm very adventurous and curious inside my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:30 AM
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Ya but I always have a whole self-constructed narrative and story going through my mind during that act, which allows me to get the job done. Sorry if that's gross and I didn't mean to overshare
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:28 AM
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I guess that about sums up my whole issue I want to solve. It only works for me when I do it the way you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:22 AM
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When I'm hunting it's a deeply mental affair where I need to use my whole mind and being and I almost feel spiritually connected to the animal after. It brings forth many very different and very strong emotions and it's the result of a focused effort on my part. It's a bit of a tasteless analogy but it's one that fits, at least in my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:17 AM
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Problem is I only like girls with specific personality traits and it severely limits the scope of my practice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:13 AM
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I always envisioned myself as a hunter racking up trophy after trophy. Not a romantic. It's just weird cuz who I want to be is so different than who I am. Sounds like you're probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 12:04 AM
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I like things that help me grow as a person, not things that denigrate me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:47 PM
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You aren't funny
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:41 PM
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No, I do not want to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:36 PM
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I looked that up and it sounds about right. How can I not be this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:27 PM
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Thannk you for the reply. As I said before, I have already experimented and narrowed the issue down and I know it is not a physical issue that can be solved in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:23 PM
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I can only maintain a stiffy if I genuinely like the girl as a person and am interested in her personality and her whole being. If I do genuinely like who they are on the inside i can perform at 100% no problem. It's a mental issue not a physical one, as I have already experimented and narrowed it down. If it's someone im not 100% attracted to i start disassociating duuring the act and then I lose it How to overcome this? Does anyone have experience with it. I don't want to need to love them to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:18 PM
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That too. Have some self respect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:13 AM
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You need a little meanness in you to be right wing. Its ok in men but not what you want that in women. Women's political views should basically boil down to "NOOOOO the poor babies we need to protect them 😭😟🤧"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 02:10 AM
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Right wing women are cringe. Give me all them feminists and astrology girls and dyed hair tattooed girls. Most of them believe in marriage anyway so who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 01:55 AM
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Women love me even though I'm 5'7 and bald. My power would be unimaginable if God didn't nerf me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:27 AM
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In highschool my coach always told me to hit the opponent with a pace change to throw him off. Is that an effective tactic in dating? Give a lot of attention then withdraw then step on gas again to keep them guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:58 PM
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Dreammogged
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:57 AM
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Whenever I have a dream, all women love me to an absurd degree. Like I'm at the store buying chips and the cashier starts biting her lips and trying to hold my hand when I give her credit card
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 02:08 AM
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Someone gave me a pink hoodie and Whenever I wear it tons of women always talk to me and say nice hoodie. Anyone else had a similar or dissimilar experience
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:15 AM
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In your experience, do other men treat other men with more respect if they see them with a high attractiveness woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:59 AM
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I was talking to a highschool teacher who said she thought it was disgusting how the football/wrestling/basketball coaches privately talk about their players as "tools of war" rather than people. The thing is, being talked about in that way delights me. In highschool I always enjoyed being Coach Blodgett's spear I'm kind of fine being dehumanized and objectified as long as someone recognizes my worth and thinks im useful. I wonder if this is a common difference between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:02 PM
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It's an open ended question and you are making assumptions about my beliefs that are not true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 03:02 PM
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Why are women so concerned with beauty, ornamentation and aesthetics even in nonsexual contexts such as decorating or even cooking
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:51 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:58 AM
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How do I get a clingy BPD gf who spends all day thinking about me and always wants to touch me and cries if can't sleep in bed with her I've tasted it before I need it again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:30 AM
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If you are having a gathering of people over who you want to impress. Is it more prestigious to have catering ordered, or to have your wife cook food. Assume the food is good either way and is of comparable quality I could see an argument for both sides. What do you guys think
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:03 AM
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On TV it's always the nerd getting the hot girl. Not this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:25 PM
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I think having anxiety and being a shut in is a death sentence but I've seen so many introverted men with chad energy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:05 PM
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I noticed it all over school and at my jobs or social groups. I guess other people have different experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:36 PM
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Is it just me or do the flashy dressing popular gossipy talkative girls often end up picking introverted unemotional men who never even raise their voice. Especially if the man is an athlete or some kind of strong silent type
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:32 PM
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When you are getting to know someone is it better to ask open ended questions or specific questions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:43 AM
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The king of the savana isn't the lion it's the elephant. Gentle and kind because no one wants the smoke and no one could possibly hope to threaten them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:28 AM
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Tfw no clingy obsessive BPD gf who never stops thinking about you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:39 PM
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It just feels so weird to talk to them especially if they are all desperate to make you like them and if they are getting anxious and overanalyzing your body language
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:45 PM
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Normal boyfriend things
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:19 AM
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Why is it that some people come off as so warm and comforting even if they don't say or do much
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:08 AM
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This might sound weird but it is true. 95% of women think I'm disgusting, and 5% of women obsess over me, regardless of their attractiveness level. So 95 of ugly ogres think I'm disgusting, while 5% of beautiful model tier women love me and will go so far as to stalk me. And visa versa I have yet to uncover the reason behind this curiosity. It's as if their own attractiveness is completely nullified as a factor in relation to whether or not they choose me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:50 AM
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When I was a kid my uncle used to take care of me sometimes while my parents were away. I didn't connect the dots at that young age but every time he took care of me we would go to the mall or the thrift store or somewhere with a lot of women and he would parade me around and rizz the women who said "oh my god your kid is so cute". He always got me legos or ice cream or something so I was always cool with it. One time he even took one home the same day and kept me distracted by putting on lord o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 05:34 PM
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I felt really bad later when I wasn't drunk anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 07:02 PM
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Even with chicks I'm dating I can't really send them funny stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:28 AM
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The guy looks better. Very masculine. But they both look good
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:03 AM
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I maintain two separate instagram meme collections. The hilarious one for sharing with the lads, and the tame cute G rated one for sharing with chicks Do you guys do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:01 AM
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Every time I close my eyes It's like a dark paradise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 01:53 PM
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imagine if chicks were the physically strong ones and we were the small weak ones they would put us through so much physical abuse Some of us weren't raised right and some of us have moments of weakness but we arent mean spirited like they are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:16 AM
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Im shy and introverted so i just date whichever girl takes the initiative and expresses clear interest in me. I wonder if that is unintentionally pre-electing for crazy ones
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:41 PM
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Do you think marriage is still an attainable goal today? I want to get married one day but every girl I date seems too mentally unstable and temperamental to be a long term spouse
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:29 PM
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