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Outer Game YouGotTangoed/r/seduction27/04/22 05:31 PM
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Fundamentals YouGotTangoed/r/seduction08/08/22 10:21 AM
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44

Agreed. Although it’s interesting, because the real 9/10s seem to be pretty down to earth and approachable, because no one approaches them anymore
/r/seduction14/04/23 08:43 PM
3

The deeper connections come later. First you need to know what type of seduction will work best on her. This is fairly advanced game, so many won’t understand this, which is ok
/r/seduction13/04/23 05:13 AM
3

Basically the point of learning game is to reach a level where you successfully seduce most girls. For instance, the game you run with a Spanish girl, might not work as well with an Eastern European girl. So you have to learn how and when to switch it up. If you only go for “yes” girls, then 90% of what you say in the interaction doesn’t matter, as long as you don’t mess it up. You’ll never learn how to get girls above your level, or the majority of girls. Of course some guys are happy with this…
/r/seduction12/04/23 08:27 AM
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This is a fantastic way to limit yourself. It’s lazy game to just go for girls who will be into you
/r/seduction11/04/23 08:32 PM
9

Finally, some good writing, that isn’t 10 pages long
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 05:45 PM
67

So one more month left to bulk, alright
/r/TheRedPill07/01/23 05:11 PM
1

I prefer a slightly experienced woman for a relationship, but marriage material is a different situation
/r/TheRedPill16/12/22 07:07 PM
1

You’re not at your lowest if you’re relying on Reddit to cheer you up. You got two options, sink into the hole or get up and go harder than before. Make a choice
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 01:37 PM
1

This could be much shorter. It also offers no value in regards to telling a bum how to level up his instagram. So essentially it’s just a essay of “trust me bro”
/r/TheRedPill07/12/22 06:11 PM
1

You didn’t say chicks don’t matter, I agreed with your point about there being a surface-level attraction. Sounds like you got some personal issues you need to get over
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 10:47 PM
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Agreed. Ironically the guys who don’t mind this, tend to be far away from ever achieving this level. If you’re on your purpose, you should aim to get a girl that is badder than your last one, each time. Not just settle for hot ones that are easy to bang
/r/TheRedPill28/11/22 08:40 PM
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Remember guys, you rarely hear success stories about cold approaching, but they are out there. Tik Tok, Instagram etc are al about shock and getting views, and slowly turning into a female driven marketplace. My advice is to ignore social media, keep grinding, and tighten up your game
/r/seduction01/11/22 10:31 AM
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You came across cute, and polite, and as a gentleman. Wonderful. Now another guy is likely blowing her back out, and all he did was take her to burger king. It’s tinder, if you’re using it properly you should have many options. Move on, and hopefully this will flick the savage switch in you, so that your next dates are less vanilla. Be the man that women want to have sex with, not cuddle
/r/seduction24/10/22 09:56 AM
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Yep, 99% of the posts on this sub are the same obvious bs. I wonder how much action people are actually taking though, as there is more obvious advice posted than actual field reports
/r/seduction23/10/22 11:23 AM
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If you’re parents are willing, you should stay at home and save money for as long as you can. Then buy a place when you move out, or at least be in a good financial position. If you got cool parents why not just bring the girls back to yours, you are still very young. Having your own place and being broke is not all it seems
/r/seduction18/10/22 08:01 AM
3

Nothing is absolute. There are good points here, but then again don’t take it to the extreme. The real skill is knowing when to lead, and when to let her work for it
/r/seduction17/10/22 07:17 PM
2

Life is a fun journey, learn to appreciate all parts of it, not just the hustle/grind. You sound mature, but I’ve heard many cases where guys like you have a huge meltdown at a later stage because they felt they missed out on things
/r/seduction17/10/22 12:50 PM
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I’m speaking from experience, but do what works for you
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:58 PM
1

Get more followers, engagement, learn how to post etc. A lot of people need professional help with this stuff, it is useful when approaching girls
/r/seduction16/10/22 05:43 PM
14

The irony is that the guys who really need to hear this aren’t listening. Just look at some of the comments
/r/seduction16/10/22 12:08 AM
92

Teeth whitening, dinner at a fancy hotel/ restaurant with a friend that can take photos, regular access to a members club, hire someone to improve your social media presence, get professional advice on your fashion, the list is endless
/r/seduction15/10/22 10:22 PM
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Put yourself in more situations where you are around guys, and it isn’t explicitly about dating. If you’re not interested in hookups, go to events/meetups that are orientated around hobbies you like to do, and you’ll naturally meet someone. I’d rarely advise a woman to approach guys, but if you do then try to be slightly indirect. E.g. “I’m having trouble finding this location on campus, can you help me out?” or “I’m new here, do you know where the lunch hall is?” and then see if he’s interested…
/r/seduction09/10/22 12:33 PM
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How many of these “Girls aren’t complicated/ Game is simple” posts do we get a month. You say this, then contradict yourself by explaining how to do it, which by its very nature shows that there is some complexity to remaining in a power position with a woman. Truth is the game is slightly complicated, especially when compared to us guys who are pretty straightforward. It only gets easy once you’ve figured it out, and can automate through the bullshit.
/r/seduction23/09/22 08:38 AM
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In any relationship with a girl, you should appear to either match her romantic interest, or seem slightly less interested than she is. Guys mess this simple rule up all the time, it has helped me remain grounded countless times
/r/seduction22/09/22 06:15 AM
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Next time think twice about opening girls at the gym. You have everything to lose, not much to gain. Girls love the attention at gyms, and maybe some will be receptive, but most times it’s better to approach after you’ve left the gym. As for her, she now knows her value is up at the gym, and you are left feeling worse off
/r/seduction21/09/22 11:51 AM
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If you really want to optimise low investment, give her your Instagram. Obviously your account should be in tip-top shape, but once it is, it’s easy to keep girls invested
/r/seduction20/09/22 08:06 AM
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You’re ugly bro. Sounds like you’re avoiding the elephant in the room, level up
/r/seduction18/09/22 01:34 PM
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My advice would be to browse r/seduction and other sites, you will soon find others who are worse off than you, but still get laid. You’re not special, you’re not a 1 in million bad case, stop being so self-absorbed and realise the positive things in your life
/r/seduction16/09/22 09:47 AM
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The goal of a newbie isn’t to suck ass. If your success ratio is as low as you said, there are probably some other things about yourself that you should address first. Then again, I’ve met some newbies that absolutely love getting nowhere with their sets, they thrive off it. So whatever you prefer I guess
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 03:33 PM
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Seems like a lot of investment, with potentially not much returns. Daygame is about QUICKLY finding out if the girl is in the right mind to be picked up, securing the bag, or moving on. Good luck with your techniques tho
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:09 PM
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Of course not, where’s the fun in that?
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:40 AM
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It means you make her dry af
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:23 PM
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She might’ve caught feelings and preferred to just continue having fun
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:52 AM
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Good post. Pay attention to the fact that it will take most guys ALOT of work to make yourself good looking. The grind isn’t for everybody, a lot of guys will take a 6/7, lock her in LTR, and be happy to call it a day. But it IS possible for most to achieve this, if you have some cool hobbies, stay positive, and heavily work on yourself. These benefits are what awaits you, if you are willing to put the work in. And from being in this sub for a while, it seems most are not
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:31 PM
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Never go FULL simp
/r/seduction11/09/22 08:02 PM
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You might be gay bro
/r/seduction11/09/22 09:01 AM
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Agreed, which is a much different take, to the original commenter’s “secret”. On another note, most fuck boys/natural gamers don’t tend to give good advice, as they are unaware of the subtleties which make them good. So usually they’ll tell you to just have confidence, which in reality is only 30% of the problem
/r/seduction10/09/22 06:39 PM
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Lol this is terrible advice. Some of us are on here because we needed help in the beginning. I’ve reached a place where I get laid often, but still am interested in learning and helping others learn.
/r/seduction10/09/22 06:10 PM
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Todd V has a few standard replies for shit tests. But the main thing is to not sexually escalate from a shit test, and if you really can’t be bothered then just walk away. Shit tests is common though, and it’s a lame idea to just always walk away. Example replies: “Thanks for noticing” “Yeah, i have no response for that. Can we just talk like normal people now?” “Glad you like it” “I have no answer for that”
/r/seduction09/09/22 07:19 PM
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Tickle her
/r/seduction09/09/22 09:26 AM
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Sounds like she made the right choice, if your confidence is so dependent on one date
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:45 PM
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Sounds like she has everything to gain, and you have everything to lose. One statement of attempted rape from her after you have sex, and your life is ruined for at least the next 10 years. Is 24yr old pussy worth it that much? You’re a good looking guy apparently, so go get it somewhere else, and wisen up
/r/seduction07/09/22 04:28 PM
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No problem
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:42 PM
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Yes, I go for the kiss and ask her to marry me at the end of every date, no matter the vibe. Someday I will find love
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:58 AM
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Get off Reddit, realise how much of a good catch you are, and understand it’s your duty to let these women get the chance to converse with you. Walk confidently, and if you see a girl, make a 2second decision to approach. You said you are a confident, developed man who knows what he wants, so just go for it. If not, then there’s more work you need to do before approaching. This is how I do it, and I’m still a newbie, but got a fwb through daygame. Don’t build your way up to it, don’t watch YouTu…
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:39 AM
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Ok cool, do what works for you
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:30 AM
1

So what’s the point you are trying to prove? There are a million girls on Instagram, yet you are chasing this girl HARD. If you’re already getting laid, your energy would be to not give af and move on
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:16 AM
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Are you a virgin? No shame intended, but this is how virgins act with girls
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:07 AM
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Muscle memory in more ways than one
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 11:05 AM
1

Level up, hit the gym and take your frustration out there. Go out and approach girls on the street. Force yourself to overcome the simp mindset that society wants you to be
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:18 AM
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I agree. While you may not have acted perfectly, most of these comments aren’t demonstrating ACTION you can/could do to improve the situation. People are basically saying if you have any fault in your marriage = game over, divorce is inevitable.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 08:54 AM
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Every man has been through that “fuck you fuck you” in the mirror
/r/seduction05/09/22 07:56 AM
1

Just wear heels to the beach. Problem solved
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:25 AM
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Lol what did you expect? The energy you put out there is what you receive, act like trash, get treated like trash
/r/seduction03/09/22 12:18 PM
1

Yep, well 9/10 times it’s the man’s responsibility to bring more excitement. He should be able to push/pull through text, how to spike her emotions, and essentially know how to flirt. “You have a cute smile, but that jacket suggests there is a wilder side to you”
/r/seduction03/09/22 07:42 AM
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In no reality or space-time continuum am I sending 9+ messages through Online Dating. Witty comment about profile > banter > number > move off app. Who cares about her responses, if she’s hot and into me, that’s all that matters. If she’s boring on the date, I will still attempt to smash, and if successful keep her as a last resort fwb. I’ve had girls that barely talk online, turn out to be quite interesting irl, and would have never met them if I didn’t follow this mindset
/r/seduction02/09/22 06:23 PM
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Game the guys, game the girls. Whatever you’re passionate about, find a way to bring it up in conversation. If you see a girl you are interested in, approach her straight away before other guys have the liquor confidence
/r/seduction31/08/22 09:16 PM
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Because in (most) woman’s view, going to the gym is a flirty/almost sexual act. She gets dressed up, ready to catch glances and be the center of attention at the gym. There’ll also be some regular orbiters she has access to. So she subconsciously thinks you’ll be getting a lot of attention from girls at the gym, and perhaps even have a “gym girlfriend” who’s ready to take her place at a moments notice. Just my thoughts
/r/TheRedPill29/08/22 04:10 PM
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Yep, a lot has changed in the last 10 years. Covid made nearly everyone obese. I live with about 8 other girls in a houseshare. 80% of them are obese, the rest are skinny, no in-between
/r/seduction28/08/22 04:21 PM
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It’s the same in the UK
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:25 PM
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No idea why, but her sending a friend request on fb is hilarious to me. Maybe that’s how these older women flirt?
/r/seduction28/08/22 12:25 PM
17

End of the day, I think it comes down to the suggesting party’s own insecurities. Any confident man/woman will tell you to go for the hot girl. But most guys/girls are married to someone they chose to settle for, and would lowkey hate to see you at events/gatherings with a stunning girl, while looking like you’re having the time of your life
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 07:38 AM
2

This is what they call a “shit test”
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:11 AM
5

Get more girls. If you were laid up in a hotel with a bad chick, you wouldn’t be checking her snap, and wouldn’t judge her for what she’s out doing when not with you
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:59 AM
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Rest in peace. Perhaps O.P. should tell her to buy a dog and die alone
/r/TheRedPill21/08/22 11:28 PM
1

Ah yes requests about a woman’s body in a primarily woman focused subreddit always go well lol. You should try posting this in r/askfeminists
/r/seduction21/08/22 01:29 PM
1

You’d only have a problem with this when you are the guy she’s “stringing” along. If you are the guy who is “someone better”, you wouldn’t give a damn. This is a slightly tiresome question
/r/seduction20/08/22 04:53 PM
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And you just proved my point. You have no hobbies that you do for yourself. Everything revolves around women. 10/10s will always get most of the girls, that’s how it works. But find a niche that connects you and the girl, and you will sometimes beat those 10s.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:58 AM
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Most likely you are just a boring guy with nothing to talk about other than his perhaps slightly above average “looks”. Reality check - everyone has looks on tinder, try getting some hobbies, social activities irl. Take of photos of these activities when you are doing them, but don’t obsess over it. The problem is most PUAs or ex “pro” PUAs have no life whatsoever that doesn’t revolve around women. Their value is attached to women, so no women = no value. TLDR: Get a life.
/r/seduction17/08/22 08:33 AM
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Because most guys are boring af, have no hobbies, and don’t know how to take good photos. Of course you should be fairly attractive, but nowadays it’s a lot more than that, you have to be the complete package
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:53 AM
0

Depends how big their bank account is
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:51 PM
1

The same could be said about magic tricks, or something similar. These are great tools to get close to women, but then again if you focus on your game, you don’t need any of this stuff. I know average looking guys who don’t dance, but still clean up any club/bar
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:30 AM
1

Swear we get at least one of these “it’s easy” posts a month
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:14 AM
1

Nope, just text and call her a day before the date
/r/seduction15/08/22 07:48 AM
1

Well you’d want to get a Swiss made watch that looks good, is affordable, and can accurately tell the time. For instance I have the Tissot PRX automatic, which looks slightly like a Royal Oak, for £600
/r/seduction14/08/22 08:11 AM
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Username checks out if you can’t tell he’s trollin
/r/seduction13/08/22 01:57 PM
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I’d say the chances of her having sex with you after a daygame pickup is much higher. For me it’s about 60%. Of course if you’re not making your intentions clear in the first interaction, it’s much less
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:05 PM
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Yup you’re doomed, hang up your genitals on the wall, get a cat, and be prepared for a life of celibacy… OR you can change your mindset, start reading books and content on how to level up, stop furiously masturbating each week to a LED screen, and stop reducing your testosterone, this is what makes you sound like an estrogen fueled simp. Learn how to approach girls, don’t give a shit about the outcome, and take life by the reins. No one will do it for you, nobody will give you a chance, and nobo…
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:50 AM
4

It’s not about intimidation, it’s just about the roles that guys/girls play in dating. Sure she might want to approach first, but now this sets the dynamic that she leads during the relationship. A strong man doesn’t want the girl to always lead, and a feminine woman doesn’t want to always have to lead either. As men we are prideful, and slightly dumb at times. So just make the guy think he seduced you, and you’re good to go
/r/seduction12/08/22 08:55 AM
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I’d say that these approaches don’t always go well though. The guy can sometimes get insecure that the girl approached him, and feels like he should lead. Instead, approach the guy, ask for help with something like directions, make LOTS of hints, basically set it up so that all he has to do is ask you out. These lead to better relationships
/r/seduction12/08/22 06:55 AM
2

I’ve experienced this, it usually means they see you as no threat at all, and in some cases it might mean you look timid. When you talk to girls, and she smiles WHILE you are both talking, this can be a good sign of interest
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:12 PM
2

Can I see your profile too. Abundance mentality is great, but most aren’t in a position to have that
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:24 AM
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“You definitely don’t look very (insert city name), where you from?”
/r/seduction11/08/22 08:32 AM
1

If you read what I actually said, I stated that by offering no alternatives, you are bringing nothing to the conversation. You lost me by mentioning online dating as a reasonable way for a guy to meet a girl, and saying it’s the same as approaching on the streets. And then projecting that I am some kind of selfish sexist guy because I stated a fact. Hilarious, but I hope you heal from whoever hurt you
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:44 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:30 AM
1

You say all of this, but offer no legitimate alternative for meeting women, aside from dating apps, or a club etc. So it’s essentially just a negative opinion which contributes nothing to the discussion
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:27 AM
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It’s hard not to, when you get comments like this
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:09 AM
1

I understand your point. This is r/seduction, so how do you suggest to meet more women during the daytime, aside from online dating?
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:08 PM
2

It’s interesting that you choose to speak for all women, yet I have dated several who have liked how I approached them initially. Not sure what you are trying to get at
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:35 PM
1

True, but what you are saying seems to apply to daygame in general, and I have no problem/anxiety with approaching. I’m just asking if stop approaches are still a good technique, in the current climate
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:17 PM
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I hear you. But I actually have nothing against that movement, the last girl I dated from daygame was a feminist, and she was great. I’m just saying it feels like I have to watch how a move a little bit more, so I don’t come across as misogynistic guy
/r/seduction08/08/22 05:15 PM
1

Interesting idea, although I’d say you can do both
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:04 PM
5

OP is hoping to convince/trick her into sex and dating him. Get some balls and make your intentions clear, like a man
/r/seduction03/08/22 09:11 AM
1

You’re right about the attitude, but wrong about needing to be a 8/10+ to successfully cold approach without being labelled a creep. If you go out with the mindset to make new friends, and they happen to be female, your conversations will appear genuine
/r/seduction31/07/22 01:54 PM
2

2 months and you’re tied down already, best of luck bro. I prefer lots of girlfriends than just one, but do what works best for you
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:24 PM
10

This is 10x better than just walking away. I’d definitely tell her where she can go, or tell her she isn’t worth it
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:01 PM
1

Bro if you can’t take rejection like that you need to work on your mental fortitude
/r/seduction20/07/22 03:43 PM
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Surely this is solid advice for anyone looking to date attractive women
/r/seduction19/07/22 08:04 PM
6

Is this r/dating ?
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:08 PM
14

Judging by your response to comments, and post history I assume you are just here for the attention
/r/seduction16/07/22 08:56 PM
1

Some of the times when girls have been the absolute nicest to me is when they wanted something, or the power dynamic is in my favour
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:10 PM
2

You sound like the girl bro, what’s the urgency? Either get more girls, so you can get texts every hour, or find more things to do with your life
/r/seduction13/07/22 05:51 PM
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Be fun, but always bring out the masculine vibe from time to time. If she’s acting up, or isn’t respecting your masculinity you have to be able to make that switch, that’s where a lot of femboys falter
/r/TheRedPill13/07/22 05:41 PM
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If you want to see why/how this happened, just go on r/dating. Any mention of anything slightly out of the norm, and you’ll get downvoted to hell, or kicked out
/r/seduction13/07/22 04:40 PM
1

Ask him if he’s open to being a cuck
/r/seduction12/07/22 08:37 PM
1

Pretty much all of these are symptoms of oneitis, or not dealing with enough girls at the same time
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:05 PM
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I can’t blame you for choosing the safer option, considering the risks of making forward moves in the gym. But it’s still salvageable. Offer to put her mat away, but make a lil joke out of it each week/time you meet, to tease her a bit without sounding simpish. Build comfort each time, then eventually ask her out so she knows you’re interested. Basically you pivot to a slow build up, and worst case scenario you have female gym pal
/r/seduction10/07/22 01:25 PM
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Yeah you blew it with your cringey texting and not taking action when she was DTF. Remember the lesson learnt, and move on, to save humiliating yourself further, and keeping some small piece of dignity
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:24 PM
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I’d say something like this but with different wording. It sounds negative, and slightly simpish
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:07 AM
0

You should have been more attractive
/r/seduction19/06/22 05:41 PM
1

This is interesting, because I’ve been in such situations myself. On the long ride home I punish myself for not approaching, or socialising, and vow to go harder next time. I get really pumped up about it, fantasizing and shit. And guess what.. I just do the same shit next time. People might tell you “just socialise bro”, but that’s like telling a fat guy to just stop eating and go gym. It’s true but doesn’t help. So what worked for me was breaking things down into small goals. E.g. I’ll think o…
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:12 PM
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Yep, plus if she wasn’t his type I’m assuming he had higher smv in this case, hence why she was so forward. I could be wrong
/r/seduction13/06/22 12:08 PM
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But it’s a great feeling as a man knowing that we can have anything in this world if we work hard enough. I wouldn’t switch places with a woman anytime. Knowing as a woman that you can get any man until age 30, and there’s a ticking time bomb inside of you… no thanks
/r/seduction15/03/22 07:13 PM
1

You better trust your girl, as she could be getting up to whatever on there, and you wouldn’t know
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:39 PM
4

Congrats bro, after working on yourself for 10 years girls should be super attracted to you. Now you need to train your seduction skills to not just be a boring attractive dude, and get even hotter girls
/r/seduction05/03/22 03:27 PM
0

Amazing how people don’t know condoms don’t prevent STD’s
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:52 AM
1

Skincare, what’s your BF %, cologne, how do you walk, posture, there’s so many more things that need to be practiced
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:37 PM
0

Or “head to the toilet” during the date, no need for two trips
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:47 PM
-1

Although romantic, it sounds like you didn’t do anything to create excitement. Kiss her against the wall, pull away first when kissing, show a slightly dangerous/bad boy side of you. Girls like to be kept guessing. It sounds like she knows where you stand, how you act, and you’re no longer the mysterious guy from the dating app
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:29 PM
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