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Hey Erik I definitely will, thanks! I had a semi-related question for you too. On your udemy about page, it says you've worked as a management consultant for Fortune 500 companies. I've always aimed to be a consultant as well, but what I hear about it is LONG hours. How did you find the time to work on your own skills and be a dating coach on the side?
/r/seduction17/02/15 01:59 AM
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Hey dude just wanted to thank you for writing all of that out. I think it's incredibly empowering to hear about real stories like yours. This really reminds me of when I first discovered this community several years ago; especially with that Vector Marketing bullshit haha. Once you begin on this journey it's shocking how much you begin to understand yourself. Models is truely a great book. Cheers to the future and I wish you the best of luck moving forward!
/r/seduction31/12/14 05:54 AM
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Hey gtr, let me drop you a few words of wisdom from a random stranger on the internet. You can choose to just listen or you can choose to listen and believe it. There are people in this thread telling you not to criticize yourself, and some other people telling you that you need to be criticizing yourself. I don't think that's important. What you DO need to know, is because you have taken the step to recognize that you want to change, and you have taken actions to work towards that--you are 1000…
/r/seduction30/12/14 01:06 AM
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Going to have to bring more attention to #1 for everyone here. PROXIMITY is a SUPER COMMON thing girls do whether it's on purpose or not. It's hard to notice it as you start but if you specifically look for it you WILL see it, and as you get more experienced you'll naturally begin to identify when a girl is intentionally positioning herself closer to you or within your sight.
/r/seduction07/12/14 11:54 AM
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Hey to be honest, I know the type of guy in a friend group you're talking about exactly. We actually have 3 of them haha (bigger group). Although I can understand the whole respect issue, I'm looking at it from the other angle. I always want you around because you make everyone have a good time-- you're a good sport about the jokes and can occasionally bust out a witty retort or just full on troll everyone by owning whatever we're saying up. aka. You're valuable to the group :), it's awesome to …
/r/seduction10/10/13 11:08 AM
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Yes I was specifically questioning this part as well, you should never introduce yourself and generally remain aloof until they introduce themselves or initiate direct conversation with you Could OP go more in-depth about this? I feel from my experience that introducing yourself allows you to give off a better impression 9/10 times.
/r/seduction21/09/13 07:52 PM
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Always think about this kind of thing happening... Don't wait around and dream of chance encounters. Those will come if they will. Gotta get our and make your own kind of thing happen!
/r/seduction27/08/13 10:17 AM
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Not really. It just works better. Looks matter-- but they are not the end all be all.
/r/seduction25/08/13 07:28 AM
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Can't believe you took the effort to detail that all out. Thanks!
/r/seduction20/08/13 09:54 AM
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Any link to the 5-minute-girlfriend? Sorry if I am being too lazy to look.
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:31 AM
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Which depending on the situation, could be good. douchy=humour
/r/seduction20/08/13 07:30 AM
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I'd say that canned routines never really work. Canned lines usually DO seem thought up on the spot, and if they're usually already one of the best possible things you could say in a given situation. Practicing canned responses to shit tests works to let you retort smoothly and ironically, naturally.
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:51 AM
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With that said though, people have run into him live, and can attest that his game is incredible-- walking around like he owns the club, and approaching any set he sees with zero AA.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:57 AM
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I'll be frank. I did not read a single word there. It's not worth it to analyze that much. Some girls love a guy, and others will hate the same one. The only thing we can do is maximize the chances a girl will like you.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:47 AM
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Do you reccomend making the food together or shopping for it together?
/r/seduction13/08/13 11:48 PM
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Could you elaborate on the details of a picnic in a park date? I'm wondering about specifics such as where the food comes from.
/r/seduction12/08/13 07:28 PM
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breaking down conversations almost as if we were in a laboratory Hmm. Just wanted to chirp in and say, Almost all of the time, it's not WHAT you say it's HOW you say it. i.e.: body language
/r/seduction10/08/13 02:24 AM
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I couldn't tell if she was hitting on me or being friendly or what. If a girl opens you, they're hitting on you. Or at least hitting on you for her friend. 100%.
/r/seduction06/08/13 09:17 AM
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I just want to say you seem super-invested in this girl through the tone of your text. I have a feeling you used to have a thing for this girl. Focus on the people you'll actually meet in real life. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/08/13 08:56 AM
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This is awesome, really works well as a refresher instead of leafing through 400 pages! Thanks!
/r/seduction02/08/13 09:28 AM
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Hey, I just happened to see this haha! Regarding I do like the heavy push-pull though. That's what I do in 90% of situations anyway. Random girls in my friend group will hate me one day (usually for taking a joke too far and "insulting" them), then love me the next (because that's exactly how push-pull is supposed to work. The "push" is the most important part). I always find the taking a joke too far and insulting them to make me feel bad. Or perhaps I"m doing it wrong. Also-- are you supposed …
/r/seduction27/07/13 09:33 PM
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One of my friends is someone just like you, but I'm reading your message and gaining some new insight. You first say that you're indifferent to meeting new friends, but then come back at the end and ask how or where to find compatible people. Give that a thought. :) Perhaps it's a good idea to try to find some new hobbies? Join groups or classes for those where you are more likely to find like-minded people. It's also possible to try more outdoorsy things and it's very possible that those kind o…
/r/seduction22/07/13 04:25 AM
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Since it wasn't addressed, I'm going to probe on a different aspect of this question. Do you have stimulating conversations with others? Approach anxiety stems from fear of rejection, so that emphasizes the importance to be outcome-independent.
/r/seduction20/07/13 09:18 PM
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Any idea what the DVD he is talking about in the last part of the video is?
/r/seduction17/07/13 03:34 AM
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Haha that just means you gotta take some action to change that about yourself if it's not getting you any results.
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:04 PM
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I understand your feelings here. But wherever you are, there are ALWAYS ways to create fun and meet new people. Try looking up new activities and recreational groups etc.
/r/seduction06/07/13 07:19 AM
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Don't sweat it man. It's unfortunate that it turned out that way, but it'll take lots of time if you want to "come back" from being negatively perceived in their eyes. Just keep trying to live a life of abundance!
/r/seduction24/06/13 03:40 AM
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Classic Chandler.
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:26 AM
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I think in this case, the poster understands what you have said. However, he is asking that AFTER you have built the foundation where sex can happen, what kind of "moves" do you use to escalate? make a move What kind of "moves" are YOU using?
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:22 AM
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What does this even mean?...
/r/seduction13/06/13 09:19 AM
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I love your mindset! You're brave enough to post an FR looking for improvement, and aren't afraid to call yourself out on things. Remember to keep looking forward and positively! Good luck!
/r/seduction24/05/13 11:36 AM
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I think after reading that, at this point the best advice I can give would be to read as much of the sidebar as possible, and follow it religiously!
/r/seduction23/05/13 10:13 PM
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Just quick question-- "Fine, if you won't tell me your name I'm just going to call you Larry." This caused her to feign offense (a common thing girls do when they are attracted to your polarizing attempts) which led to a passionate exchange. I am just wondering if you could explain a little more indepth about the feign offense thing. I believe this happens to me often, however I deal with it poorly. Or maybe it doesn't and I have no clue what it is haha
/r/seduction08/05/13 07:50 AM
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Thank you! That was some really good insight, as well as your other post here! Clarified some things for me.
/r/seduction23/04/13 01:14 AM
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Haha yeah, I thought it was a routine about how you were trying to give your actual baby away.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:31 AM
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Don't be afraid to talk to people. Everyone else is usually open to meeting new friends. If they're not, you most likely wouldn't be a good match anyways. As far as the "cliques" go, infiltrate them. The best way to do this, is to single out it's members one by one, getting to know them. Basically, find a chance to talk to one person. Then two. Then eventually the whole group. If you have more questions, just let me know.
/r/seduction07/09/12 12:49 AM
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Thanks man. Unforunately though, he's a part of our circle of friends. How I'm trying to handle it, is by avoiding as much openness with him, however I am not sure this is the best way. Any words?
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:39 AM
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Thanks man. Unforunately though, he's a part of our circle of friends. How I'm trying to handle it, is by avoiding as much openness with him, however I am not sure this is the best way. Any words?
/r/seduction03/08/12 03:39 AM
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I recently experienced something like this where my friend went for a girl I was already moving forward with. At first, I felt betrayed that my friend would do this, and I was somewhat devasted as I never believed he would commit such an act. A couple days later however, I realized that I can just go out and look for another girl. No need to think about this one too much. The girl can decide for herself what she wants to do.
/r/seduction01/08/12 07:35 AM
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Nice read, very interesting. Always wondered who you were as a mod, haven't seen you contribute in a while! Should step in more often!
/r/seduction21/07/12 07:45 PM
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Sounds awesome but do you have any good ways to get used to saying this? It just seems so unnatural :(
/r/seduction20/07/12 09:30 PM
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"You're cute, I'm cute. We should probably make out" yupyup
/r/seduction19/07/12 05:55 AM
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Must really put the light there
/r/seduction30/06/12 10:56 AM
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Hey, I wanted to ask, what are some of the general things you might transition into, from your approach? Examples?
/r/seduction29/06/12 10:03 PM
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There is a glossary in the sidebar, you should definitely check it out for all the terms
/r/seduction25/06/12 10:29 PM
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How did you get No dude, you don't get it. I'm gonna make her into the third wheel. My goal here is to put her in the friend zone. From all of that... and this is related to OP's situation how? Maybe I'm just slow.
/r/seduction22/06/12 10:26 PM
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Very true.... but tone it down man.
/r/seduction20/06/12 10:14 PM
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How do you think it's best to deal with the friend? I know just yesterday I approached a girl who turned out to be quite shy, and her friend instantly stepped in to pull the "she has a boyfriend" line.
/r/seduction08/05/12 10:40 PM
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I just get to know everyone and make polite conversation with each person. Good stuff. Getting to know each individual will in turn cause them to help display your value with the group as a whole.
/r/seduction08/05/12 08:48 AM
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Without the physical part in interactions, you'll always slowly drift apart. Sounds like a good time to join the community.
/r/seduction07/05/12 03:35 AM
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AKA Naturals are awesome. Hang out with this guy more!
/r/seduction05/05/12 09:44 AM
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have some qualms about dispensing advice to underage high school kids. I am in high school. I heard something like this before. Elaborate?
/r/seduction26/04/12 09:43 AM
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Yeah, but I'd watch out for that and use it in modesty. If you talk online alot, you'd build comfort with yourself in that interaction that holds no physical sensations, dragging yourself away from the comfort of interacting with people person to person.
/r/seduction14/04/12 11:04 PM
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Being a leader, I think it's possible you could hate the idea of being FORCED to be one.
/r/seduction14/04/12 10:57 PM
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Dunno if you figured it out but maybe go through the glossary/wiki? Sets = group of females, warm up sets... for the purpose of getting into it.
/r/seduction14/04/12 10:49 PM
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I disagree... He should aim to be non-reactive to a negative result and who cares? It's not like they're going to do something to his food. Sorry my issue is just that it's not good to breed this kind of thought.
/r/seduction14/04/12 10:32 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. Also though, it could just be used to quickly screen out girls who I wouldn't want to use too much time on.
/r/seduction09/04/12 09:37 AM
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I think that's part of the issue with this girl. She didn't just incidentally shake him. It seemed she was going for it intentionally in multiple interactions.
/r/seduction05/04/12 08:48 AM
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Yeah you're right, terrible advice. Attractive behaviour makes it fun for the girl, which means she is having a good time.
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:25 AM
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Have you read the side-bar? she's one of the very few girls I can talk to without feeling awkward. I know it's not addressing your question, but even at this time, it seems like your inner-game weak, which will more than not likely result in failure.
/r/seduction02/04/12 09:07 AM
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Seems you've replied to the wrong person on accident?
/r/seduction01/04/12 06:55 AM
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I really care about her and I feel like she feels the same way This is oozing over-investment and is a definite turn-off, that will not help at all. I suggest the side-bar, if you haven't looked through it yet.
/r/seduction29/03/12 10:30 AM
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Do you remember every conversation that "matters"? Probably not. Use talk as a way of having fun. Not everything a person does has to matter.
/r/seduction21/03/12 09:32 AM
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Forgot better game!
/r/seduction23/02/12 02:46 AM
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