YouSoGetMe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Day 1, what a difference.		YouSoGetMe	/r/ThankTRP	07/11/16 10:30 AM
9	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know?	DISCUSSION	YouSoGetMe	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 03:47 PM
1	Advice needed: starting to lift, what warmup exercises do you do?		YouSoGetMe	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 05:07 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Help! About to have a breakdown. To many of us you are an inspiration .. I hope you stay safe and I wish you the best for your everything!	/r/askTRP	29/03/20 09:47 AM
1	Tracking Plates' Period App? there's one app that tracks multiple cycles, but it's not in the store, android only. I developed it years ago but took it down as I went in another direction, PM me if you want it, its free.	/r/askTRP	21/08/18 06:18 AM
0	Do you guys alter your behaviour according to her cycles? we did this some years ago, here	/r/askTRP	24/09/17 12:33 PM
1	Female personal trainer keeps insisting I put the toilet seat down in unisex for her convenience I made the rule "both down" .. the seat and the lid, otherwise don't mention it again.	/r/askTRP	14/07/17 09:07 AM
1	FR – Qualities of a Good Husband Day 22	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/07/17 02:58 AM
0	What's your maximum number of sexual partners you'd allow in a potential LTR? ..thanks for this, I needed to hear it.	/r/askTRP	01/07/17 08:52 AM
1	How I accepted that I was using weed everyday as an escape from my own inner problems for 2 years now. And how I tackled my anxiety with meditation, exercise, and mindfulness. Next time you feel nervous or sense any body language anxiety (tense eyebrows, tense shoulders, heart beating faster) just relax, close your eyes, and remind yourself that nothing in the past or future really matters. Only now. You'll feel your body relax, your thoughts slow down. The world will feel more beautiful. You'll feel as if you're doing everything for the first time. I totally needed to know actually what to do, many thanks for this, you're an inspiration.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/17 07:37 AM
7	Long time lurker... NEED to get this shit off my chest I see this is an awesome opportunity for learning how to work with a bad boss or project member, which will happen in your future. Look for the driver behind your housemate, as in, what acknowledgement or acceptance is she trying to gain or need. There's only two: integrate or isolate. Is she trying to get along with you or is she trying to create a war so someone moves out. When you give what she's seeking in a way that pleases you, then these people just become tools you could use to help get …	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/17 02:12 AM
1	School vs Business, I'm so fucking stuck. can you pm me your channel ? these are good points, I told my 16yo not to go to university after highschool, and to do his thing. He doesn't have a yt channel, but I want him to read your points, and also see why.	/r/askTRP	24/02/17 12:49 PM
1	School vs Business, I'm so fucking stuck. I'm keen to hear this	/r/askTRP	22/02/17 01:46 PM
1	What to respond with when a girl texts, "I miss you" I missed you too .. I think my scope is out of alignment.	/r/askTRP	01/01/17 04:44 AM
2	OYS tip....always always always be early I used the audio version of laws of power to do that, totally reset me, even after an argument with the boss.	/r/askMRP	23/11/16 03:49 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Thank you for sharing this :)	/r/RedPillWives	21/11/16 02:02 AM
1	15 Books That Changed My Life I read 48 Laws of Power in 2005, but got extra value from it by listening to the mp3's of it as I travelled to work and back each day. His intonation, tone, voice levels and way of speaking gave me a lot more and let me internalise it easier. I was actually pissed off when I got to work and had to stop listening to it, I looked forward to it each day.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/16 04:36 AM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Edit: cut and put into the question as an Edit.	/r/RedPillWives	19/11/16 03:08 AM
2	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? It started as my wife was Japanese, though 90%+ of research is western (I can't read Japanese so I have it translated if they tell me it's interesting but there's not much of it, only a hundred or so papers). The amount of western research is quite volumous. I've only told the response of one US/Japanese female user though we have French, German, US and English women who have said similar for how they manage it. I haven't asked them the post question yet. The big thing I'm finding out here (whic…	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 06:31 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Will do.. if you feel it is feminist, please delete the post and threads because that's not my intention at all.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 06:18 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? That's totally true. I've had LTRs that were like that, but personally found more value in knowing this for myself and my partner, I wondered if others did too. The feedback here is that some do, others don't. I very much appreciate your answer, thank you for this.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 06:00 PM
2	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Thank you!! I'm almost crying here at 350am, it's incredibly difficult to ask these questions without negative feedback and these answers are like gold to me.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:49 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? replying to myself because I remembered something she said: in Japan, there were few girls to talk about it with and for those that did, they only talk about feelings for the period or PMS and what products they used. None knew much about managing it (except for tablets and baths), nor any sad feelings after ovulation, nor about hypoglycemia and it's impact on PMS. She also said that's why Japanese men have little / no idea, which prompted my question.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:47 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Yes I think so, she said she had nobody to talk about it with at a detailed and understanding level, it's taboo in Japan. I'll be asking her about this soon and will let you know.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:38 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? This is our whole aim: an acceptance of what happens. You've awesomely summarised it in a nutshell! We've written info for Feelings, Body, Diet & Medical, and Intimacy because nearly all Japanese men, many Australian and US men have little to no idea of the physical aspects of the cycle. I'm hoping that understanding this fundamental part of life and managing it will be one of the many necessary things that help lead to a better relationship and ultimately reduce divorce and it's subsequent impa…	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:33 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? I didn't know I was but will watch it from now, I was answering the comments as they came in.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:12 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? I don't know about the 'demanding attention' as she didn't want to relive it. She's Japanese/US, 24yo and her Japanese mother left the family when she was around 12. She said she didn't understand herself as much before and now she know's it's not just the hormones, it's the physical impact on her body during her entire cycle, not just PMS, and what she does to manage it.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:10 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Thank you for this. One of the things we are trying to decrease is suicide amongst young women in Japan where it's taboo to discuss it. One of our test users (Japan, F24) told us that knowing more about her cycle helps her understand herself better and that's it's given her back a lot of body confidence. Her mother didn't bother to teach her much.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:04 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Yes, this totally helps, incredibly so. Thank you.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 05:01 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Did the surprises give you a different feeling of appreciation in the relationship?	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:57 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? You're the first person ever that I've met who has done that. That's awesome! I agree that it's a mistake to assume men don't know these things, most men I know do know about them. But when in a relationship they have little idea of when they happen and what things they can do to help their partner, if need or required or appreciated. Me, my father and my 16yo son (who was given this talk in school a few months ago) were all taught the same thing "here's the mechanics of it, don't ask, don't que…	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:50 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? You're so fortunate with a husband like that! One of our users (we haven't really started yet and I'm thinking of holding it back for a few years because we may be too early in the world for this) who just got out of an abusive relationship, said "really, a lot of the problems I had were around hormones and his misunderstandings and blame about that, a lot of verbal abuse. So having these beautiful guiding things to read every day was so powerful in helping me feel nurtured in the way I never fe…	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:45 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Yeah, so true it's an accountability thing. When you're feeling like "i'm feeling like crap today babe. steer clear" which sometimes happens twice each month, do you want to know why you're feeling that way so you can manage it better?	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:37 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? That's good insight, thank you for this. We've found that a few men are starting to better understand the physical impact of the cycle and are more aware of their partners feelings. The wife of my friend puts circles on the calendar and her husband makes sure he cooks for those days and lets her do her own things.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:33 PM
2	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? all or most discussion about the cycle from men is mostly about PMS, but that's only a quarter of the cycle. When we talk about the other times, we found men (in a serious relationship) don't know much at all and actually want to know more. This is partly because they do not want an accidental pregnancy, but mostly because they didn't understand that different hormones give different feelings at different times.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:27 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Yes, this is what we do not want to do either. We have info like Today her body changes feeling and this has quite an impact. If you had stomach and back pains, swollen legs and feet and felt drained, then the feeling within your body would probably change too. Her cycle has started, and it’s a relief at the same time as being annoying. She may have a heavy-body feeling, low physical energy, feels cramps, physical pain, and may be feeling a little physically slow but a lot of the stress time is …	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:23 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? I've found if we remove the PMS part of it, it's a totally different discussion.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:18 PM
1	Discussion: it's about the menstrual cycle: what do you expect your SO to understand? and if he doesn't what would you prefer him to know? Thanks for these links, I hadn't found them before.	/r/RedPillWives	18/11/16 04:15 PM
1	Advice needed: starting to lift, what warmup exercises do you do? whoa~~ awesome find! I have version 3, and yep, that paragraph's in there, I'd missed it. Glad you found it.	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 08:57 PM
1	Advice needed: starting to lift, what warmup exercises do you do? Nah, your advice is valuable to me. I haven't got to the gym yet, I tore a calf muscle in half playing american football 2 years ago which put me out for 2mo, I didn't want to do it again.	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 06:44 AM
1	Advice needed: starting to lift, what warmup exercises do you do? it's better than what I had, thanks!	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 06:07 AM
1	Advice needed: starting to lift, what warmup exercises do you do? There's no section on warmups before hitting the gym in Starting Strength book or DVD, and I just learnt from another source that stretching deactivates the muscle. So .. no warmup before you get to the gym?	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 06:02 AM
1	Advice needed: starting to lift, what warmup exercises do you do? it started with The Game (2006 ish, again 2007), then mystery, other books and things around at the time. I wanted to be a strong and good father for my son.	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 05:53 AM
1	Advice needed: starting to lift, what warmup exercises do you do? understood, thanks.	/r/askMRP	17/11/16 05:21 AM
1	Beta bucks, alpha... cooks haha.. I read that as 'chicken and bear' .. wtf!! I thought 'where the fuck do you live?!?'	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/11/16 11:38 PM
1	Beta bucks, alpha... cooks that's a phenomenal cutting board, I watched my friend make one over 3 weeks. Yours is much more complex and much more awesome to look at!	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/11/16 06:32 AM
1	[Notice] Message from the Mod team on Posting I totally agree. He, TFA and BluePillProfessor kicked my ass into the pathway it's meant to go. Best ass-kicking ever.	/r/askMRP	12/11/16 02:54 AM
3	[VP/New Convert] Intro plus how to build a social life and marriage? I laughed at the 'Red Pill Rambo' bit because I went too hard too early with the lifting and did some damage (I'm new to it). One thing I see here is you're in another country and unable to communicate. Another way to look at it is: it's the others who are unable to communicate with you. I started a free meetup club in a coffee shop (for face-to-face talking) for people learning English. It grew from 2 people to an average of 80 each week over the course of a few months and it's still running 8 …	/r/askMRP	12/11/16 02:08 AM
1	need help isolated myself now i have no social skills tl;dr: my 16yo son is the same. I highlighted some advice I'd given him before. My 16yo son was also bullied at school and online, no close friends yet, just has me to talk to at home (his Mum passed away when he was 2). He spends a lot of time talking with his gamer friends online but that also gives a lot of grief because of the baiting and aggressive competitive nature there. I took him to my chat club (I run a weekly face-to-face meetup club for people learning English). I told him not to as…	/r/askTRP	11/11/16 02:04 AM
1	University VS. Entrepreneur. tl;dr: do both, plan them out; my 16yo son asked the same question, I highlighted some points to consider. When looking at the longer game, there's a fallacy in what you write: because if you're going to be making the same money after 3-4 years, you're at the same point but you either have a business or a degree. Entrepreneur Path (fuck this fucking hard word to type, it's EP from here): If it's a good business / product then you will be copied and you're a threat to larger companies. You will n…	/r/askTRP	11/11/16 01:12 AM
1	FR: 8 months swallowing still trudging still grinding still learning That was sweetly put!	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/11/16 06:54 AM
1	Parents trying to force me to go to college tl:dr: feedback on OP's question based on myself and my 16yo son, with the same question. ..what fnordsnord said, but I wouldn't give up on that gap year and I wouldn't care if it led to 2 or 3 gap years either. As the father of a 16yo boy, I've been asked the same question and we've hashed it out a lot, had different thoughts at different times, for different reasons. I'm Australian and we have Uni after high school (end of senior, year 12). My father told me that Uni was bullshit, so I didn't …	/r/askTRP	10/11/16 03:00 AM
1	Bros, Dogs, & Beer This comment will be buried so tl;dr: I found a lot of good points in this post, put them to use and can feel the difference. TFA's post was published 2 months ago but I saw it on TRP today and it holds true for me. Because I'm exactly at that point. Today. My frustration was a mix of not getting call-backs from many job applications, from not being able to build my business, and other things. I asked a question on MRP and was shown I was value-leeching. I didn't like that description of me but …	/r/MarriedRedPill	09/11/16 01:39 PM
2	Day 1, what a difference. I totally agree and I'm glad I can learn from you guys. I didn't see that before, all I saw was the need for self-protection, and one-upmanship in order not to be white-anted or lose office credibility. I was coming from an area of neediness and made my own lack-of-abundance. Since I retook the pill yesterday: original post above. previous company called and asked me if I was free to work with them, I gave them 10 days to get an attractive contract to me. a management consulting company asked to…	/r/ThankTRP	08/11/16 07:54 AM
2	Day 1, what a difference. No, I added here's why I'm awesome points that responded to the criteria without me sounding like a tosser (where my previous efforts were too value-searching) and mixed in results my bosses at the time liked: * Got user buy-in from different department heads having competing budgets. * Created workarounds that solved issue X without upsetting the status quo (we had no change-management). * Solved issue Y in Z time where they'd tried 4 times during the previous 7 years. This was something TRP ta…	/r/ThankTRP	08/11/16 02:38 AM
2	After taking the red pill, and seeing it for yourself it's life on easy mode... .. perhaps be like George Costanza and do the opposite. Put on your own role-play in an area of the city you've never been before. Seek out failure by pushing your own limits, when you go to fail then you don't lose when you lose and you learn a lot. Also, own baldness like it's your choice cos you seem to have all other physical things going for you. I have a lot of bald guys come to my chatclub and the ones who own it, rock it .. others are wall flowers, but they look the same. I was 'poor me,…	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/16 11:18 AM
4	After taking the red pill, and seeing it for yourself it's life on easy mode... I'd always thought it as luck is when preparation meets opportunity but I'm revamping that now with yours.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/16 10:58 AM