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mental healthYoucbah/r/MensRights07/09/25 07:49 AM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:36 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:40 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:35 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:24 AM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:44 PM
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Question For WomenYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:53 AM
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Question For WomenYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:52 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:03 PM
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Question for RedPillYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:49 AM
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Wearing a heairstyle you like specifically isn’t social submission
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:58 PM
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Women tend to have more in group biases I don’t think op is biased but his choice of words are what have people fired up in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:57 PM
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Top 1% commenters the kings/queens of missing the point and bootlicking what the comments say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:31 PM
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Dawg, ur not getting it… if a famous rapper rn wore T shirt everyone of every gender would wear it. That’s a human thing seems like op was trying to talk about group cohesion and social norms but I get what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:13 PM
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Not sure if op was trying to Shame but it def seems that way with the title lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:11 PM
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Dude you explained this perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:04 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:03 PM
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I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:01 PM
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Hell nah, women still be obsessed with beauty, and how other precieve them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:00 PM
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Bro every guy literally wears fucking slides or crocks, it has been like that for years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:58 PM
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Y’all are actually missing his point, it was never really about trends but social submission every human on earth follows trends but men don’t strictly follow social norms and they don’t feel shame when they aren’t following them, y’all missed the part where women are brought up to have a higher chance to have eating disorders and body image issues, women are definitely more prone to social submission and I feel that’s just basic knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:57 PM
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Following trends is a human trait though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:54 PM
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Looks matter for both but people don’t realize that more men find women attractive vs women finding men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:16 PM
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Black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:38 PM
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Gonna be honest if everyone grew up ugly as shit for atleast your highschool years going into college this sub would be way different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:27 PM
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Bro this is not systemic misandry, because if women teachers were replaced with men these facts wouldn’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:39 AM
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I think men are they should ask their wives about what they like in bed if she truly loves you she won’t see you as less of a man if you are genuinely trying to please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:47 PM
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I’m in a relationship and I like reading what people have to say even if I don’t agree. Sometimes tho I come here to talk trash to let off steam.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:46 PM
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Ngl the most misogynistic men you will know will be men that are married or get a lot of women my older coworkers used to complain about their wives their gfs,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:37 PM
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Yea fr I only ever found it creepy once but during my freshman year of college and sophomore year currently in my junior year. Women would def touch my chest and arms but when ever they try to grab my ass that’s when I find it creepy and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:33 PM
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This is also the case for me as well, I pay for our outings. But ultimately I see what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:16 PM
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This is true just from my general experiences and having a lot of sisters. And most aren’t that forgiving of negative traits on a man hell they even think about what other people say when they date said man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:10 PM
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Alot of that comes from media that young boys consume and just parents and older people telling them that. Like princess and the frog or just stuff like that blue pills kids. And it just takes longer for guys to understand that because we kinda have to throw ourselves out there to understand. I agree with you about the asshole part though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:59 PM
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Well I would imagine if they are both making similar income they both go 50/50 as in guy pays for dates and other things a woman pays for outings and other things. I’m only making this assumption because dual income houses are the most thriving. But to really answer your question i actually don’t know honestly. I think women just spend more money on things but it beats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:56 PM
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I see what you’re saying and this is also the case with men. Hooking up can literally become an addiction and lead to unfaithfulness. And sometimes even guilt especially if you meet a guy or girl that didn’t have the same past as you. It can make you feel kinda bad about what you did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:16 PM
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Porn definitely ruins relationships but I don’t think it ruins pair bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:09 PM
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I would rather it be a girl because they are easier to raise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:47 AM
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I agree with you. I still think BP is the most logical one because it goes beyond just looks and dating. Like learning about the caste system black pilled me a little more and learning about slavery also black pilled me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:59 AM
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Yea the students in america are demon spawns especially public schools teachers don’t get what they really deserve cause they are making lesson plans and babysitting at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:43 AM
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I agree with you, and the Cost of school will turn some people off even more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:41 AM
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Bro fr I am also left leaning and they tolerate that man hating mess. I can’t even genuinely express my opinion about women in some left leaning spaces unless it’s exclusively all men. And some of the manosphere is too toxic and linear
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:20 AM
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Women know what they are attracted to, they aren’t poor little naïve princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:40 PM
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I’m not even conservative I don’t want to be it doesn’t align with my beliefs. Left is tolerable while being right wing is not too much racism over there and sexism
/r/MensRights07/09/25 06:36 PM
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Yea, most men would feel validated if women were always complementing them. The fact that you call it a participation trophy just shows your privilege and entitlement. Yes a lot of men do this. But women most often call them gay and my gf did this one time and it actually shocked me because it made me realize all you hoes are the same. I knew my friends before her and she made a comment saying “oh going to hang out with your gay friends?” That’s all women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:34 PM
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As far as I understand I said that women should be concerned for their sexual safety because 1 in 3 women are sexually assaulted within their lives. But it’s repeated offenders the guy that SA a woman is more likely to do it to another woman it doesn’t just stop at 1 and it’s not just random men doing it it’s from people whom they know.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 04:13 PM
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Some men don’t even get a compliment for months you should check your privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:51 PM
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I’m being honest tho women don’t do dangerous things like fucking grunt work in a warehouse, or any blue collar job. I mainly see women in professions that doesn’t require anything to demanding from them.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 08:10 AM
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It really turns me away from being left leaning sometimes, and it straight up infuriates me when they bring up gender pay gap like that hasn’t been explained so many times. It makes me want to gouge my eyes out.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 08:06 AM
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But I’m not understanding how women are oppressed even before the over turning of roe v Wade. They have the freedom to sleep with whoever however and how many times the freedom to vote, make their own income own a house etc. Realistically I can see if saftey is a concern, but then again women don’t do dangerous stuff to be that concerned about their safety.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 08:03 AM
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Thanks, I will take a look at him it’s hard trying to find creators like that.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 07:55 AM
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Yea bro, and not even that it’s way more brutal to experience both sides every time I try to escape the black pill every slight interaction reminds me being better looking now I don’t even have to worry about making friends or I don’t even have to hide my niech interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:49 AM
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True a lot of people in this sub will say “well so and so are dating so it’s not adding up” they mostly only see the exterior of the relationship yea the average guy can get a date but he is more likely to have to put in more effort and have a dead bed room by his 50’s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:46 AM
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Men do give women validation they get it every day, men are attracted to fat women. And if you are a man you aren’t even settling when your options in general are limited
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:43 AM
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Red pill is never angry at this they accept this, it’s just the truth i don’t mind putting in effort for a woman but if a man were to know that he had to try harder than someone else it would turn him off. It should turn anyone off knowing they made you try harder for something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:42 AM
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Nah fr I agree bruh it’s no positives to having kids unless you’re Elon musk and you need other people to have children to slave for your business
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:56 PM
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Depends on what you find average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:22 PM
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Because men destroy their bodies at a young age working. But it depends on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:10 PM
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Yea, if you had 1% or 12% of the US in one building that would be a lot of people. Get my drift? Or are you that dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:18 PM
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1% is also a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:16 PM
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Only 12% of relationships have a stay at home dad dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:06 PM
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Less than 12%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:03 PM
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Yea, in 12% of the that relationship dynamic please be real with yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:52 PM
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Common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:50 PM
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Bro I agree with you and the another guy whole heartedly, guys definitely do care but not so much. Like I seen this video where a sister and brother has the same eye condition where it would make them look up consistently, but the mom asked them does it bother them to keep their eyes down they both responded yes but the sister responded with “it’s socially acceptable to keep looking forward so she strains her eyes to keep looking straight while the brother responded with that he didn’t give a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:45 PM
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You shouldn’t even want anything if I’m really be real. Like me and my gf the only thing I would really want from my significant other is for her to remember my B days and to reciprocate what I give. I don’t see relationships as transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:14 AM
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Yea I ain’t fw them either. Dude is a grifter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:01 AM
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Yea, see you even know him. Andrew tate was never a red piller he was just givin that title from a certain group of people to fit a narrative he’s just like Charlie Kirk but flexes his money and women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:59 AM
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Ams is still active he still gives advice especially about the economy and shit like that jobs etc. Just life stuff. Andrew tate was a grifter dude was more of a right wing typa guy hard to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:56 AM
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That’s like the toxic side type stuff like Andrew tate and them. You should take a look at a red pilled creator named ams he represents the red pill really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:50 AM
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The red pill isn’t about women taking accountability in the first place it’s just about how to navigate in the dating environment. But nonetheless I get what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:46 AM
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The best way it would worked is if women also approach and not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:40 AM
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I mean the declining birth rates? Nb cares about that but billionaires. They just want more workers but on an individual level no one is pressuring women to do things like have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:38 AM
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Is funny, women aren’t special. For centuries men have to court women. And yall haven’t even evolved to still know what a good man is.how can this many centuries of men courting women and women still haven’t evolved to know what’s a good man and what’s a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:32 AM
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I promise you this. You can be the most bitter person in the world and if you meet the threshold of anything women will fuck you. Y’all don’t have a sixth sense. Y’all are just as naive as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:29 AM
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It’s not a different issue. The us healthcare system is so predatory. They never actually ask what’s going on in your life they just diagnosed based off symptoms. Like giving adderall for adhd I would never take an over the counter drug for something like adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:27 AM
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Nice= being a doormat Notice how parent raise to never do this and that to a woman but a woman isn’t raise to not do this and that to a man Men are taught to be doormats any capacity of niceness is doormat activity and any capacity of it will be taken advantage of case in point why so many people are red pilled and black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:23 AM
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Men are taught to be doormats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:54 PM
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Cooked that fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:53 PM
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Here we go pandering again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:50 PM
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US medicine is not trust worthy, they miss diagnose people give them meds. People take the meds and then get more mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:43 PM
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Oh my goodness. Who is pressuring women to be a wife and mother from 2000 to 2025 holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:23 PM
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Pregnancy is a value add, but then again most people don’t even want children and if the woman doesn’t want children she still has the choice to not have them cause then again she is the one carrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:11 PM
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Banger
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:24 PM
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He said women should be more empathetic not as “women should be more empathetic than men” and he said it was basic human decency to have empathy. When he said women are emotional it must have triggered something in you to ignore the rest of what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:43 PM
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Because approaching is a hit or miss there is no full proof way to do it an be successful but for everyone to keep their sanity women should approach so it’s easier for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:40 PM
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Because I get on this sub everyday and when I see a flair with woman on it and they comment something 9 out of 10 times I’m looking at their comments like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:48 PM
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His hygiene, it’s not rocket science Rebecca.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:30 PM
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You are actually so idiotic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:27 PM
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Yo fr. Women are actually so stu— erm I mean so naive to the fact that they have more social influence to the masses than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:18 PM
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Wtf men have to put more effort I would rather have it like a woman because I would know who have bareminimum attention to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:16 PM
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I can help ol boy answer it, FUCK NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:14 PM
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Please just stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:12 PM
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I think women live in a different dimension
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:09 PM
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Having basic human decency makes everyone feel good makes everyone feel like they’re understood His point wasn’t lacking human decency, we are in a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:45 PM
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He should value his wife’s happiness, that is the individualism that is killing westher countries rn. He doesn have to follow if he doesn’t want to but that is gonna negatively impact the relationship Yes everyone has choices but you have to think about how your choice affects people. Pandering npc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:13 PM
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No, women should have that right BUUUUUT. The majority of republican voters believe that they shouldn’t it’s really unfortunate but women would have to wait until it gets rolled back for rn gotta wear protection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:10 PM
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It’s because she did something kind for him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:08 PM
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So ur telling me prince was slaying women in dresses and painted nails? Yea bro you don’t even believe that nonsense as a man you should know this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:08 PM
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It’s up to him To find what’s more important but, it doesn’t change the fact that unhappy wife=unhappy relationship = breakup/divorce And u also a pandering bot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:07 PM
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If he was tasked with taking the trash out and he just stop and made his wife or gf do it, she will not be happy. Women don’t even like doing dirty work and as a man with all of your women friends you should know this cmon bro your pandering is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:54 PM
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He forsure was, but the op isn’t prince. If I was rich and famous and handsome as shit I would wear dresses everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:51 PM
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You can’t be fuckin serious lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:50 PM
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Lilith I fw u because atleast you give your opinion and stand ten toes behind it 💯💯 #realnga
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:45 PM
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He actually wants to get bitches bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:40 PM
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Yea, the was voted on by women and men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:39 PM
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Bro that’s not even like realistic. And you know this. Every time I see u you’re in the comments like mr captain save a hoe for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:38 PM
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Erm ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:35 PM
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Like 2 and 3 I don’t know how to directly answer it like some people want kids some people don’t but if they do want kids they have to make sure their kids have the best future being average doesn’t help ig??? 3) it’s really how it is the only thing that I could say was maybe how women were nurtured and a little bit of just instinctual things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:39 PM
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1)Because they just don’t if you had to choose between 5’5 guy good looks, has good carisma, and he checked off all your boxes And a guy that taller than him is exactly like him good looks, charisma, checks off all your boxes you will pick the taller guy cause he has an advantage. 2) not sure 3) because that’s just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:05 PM
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This true, but most guys like that can’t keep a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:51 PM
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That’s what his post said buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:42 PM
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She is I think talking about a post I made, and I never even said women shouldn’t in my first paragraph I acknowledge that women should be concerned for their saftey and now I got abunch of drama queens in my comments about how they get stalked 24/7 and harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:31 PM
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I believe that anyone especially women should be concerned for their safety especially being that they aren’t built like men to atleast fight back but if your fear is constant then it’s delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:23 PM
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Nah, what you just said is normal everyone should be scared to walk anywhere where it’s shady but if you live in the west and you live in a good area and ur choosing a bear over a man then that’s a issue you have deep within
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:45 PM
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No it still can be random if a women is with a bunch of women ofc it’s a no brainer that a woman gets a attacked But if a man if out with other women or even with other men he will always be attacked because he poses a bigger threat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:18 PM
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Here comes the exaggeration , there is not enough please stop saying that ds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:15 PM
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Those things don’t happen everyday 24/7 to the point you fearmonger other women lol it happens you should keep yourself safe but the chance of a guy coming up to assult you or rape you are not high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:11 PM
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That’s my point tho, like them calling men unpredictable, and a bear predictable is actually so fucking laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:06 PM
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There is many reason why peoole rob and it’s mainly because of poverty or lack of support systems. Many men drink to cope and also bars have been losing revenue since covid so no one has been going to bars like that in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:02 PM
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So how do men influence other men to become violent? Via gangs? Even outside of gangs men still are more likely to face the threat of violence are you not seeing the point or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:00 PM
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Because your point doesn’t even make sense First one duhh it’s a group of women Second one uh well obviously but he still would be the primary target because he poses more of a threat than you Third one that’s literally for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:54 PM
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I don’t think that’s the case, because women are less likely to suffer from random acts of violence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:50 PM
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For sure harassment happens to women but the examples you are using are way too extreme and just overtly creepy. You literally proved my point in this post that men are still more likely to face violence on a daily basis even if he hasn’t thrown a punch. And also you implied that every woman is hunted many times but it’s too statically unlikely for it to be true in an absolute sense. And then you tired to frame the situation as women facing them every day when they don’t. no I don’t want a drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:23 PM
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Yea you know what’s best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:27 AM
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Being safer than an animal is always good what are you even talking about? It’s not even a meme women genuinely feels that way see now you’re trying to dismiss the argument and try to call my standpoint a straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:18 AM
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How in that actual fuck is that zero accountability? Are you saying that every man influences society and women have no say in what is masculine or what is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:13 AM
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It’s because it was so popular around the time and it was just massive negative feedback on how women felt about men. Yes men are safer than a bear that’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:13 AM
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The real issues women have rn are systemic especially with our current sitting president
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:06 AM
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No that just means that feeling safer with a bear means that your fear of rape is irrational and random man won’t come and rape you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:03 AM
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Rape is more likely to happen from a person a woman knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:00 AM
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No one has that luxury unless they got a gun or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:58 AM
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He’s saying that being Beyesian is more rational which it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:51 AM
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Men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:48 AM
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They want to be in forest with a bear cause it makes them feel more safe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:48 AM
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They definitely do they would rather be in the forest with a bear than a human man that’s enough exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:46 AM
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Rape was never the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:44 AM
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Back then women had real issue to be fair, now they are complaining about being scared to walk out at night when that is a fear everyone has and then the fact is rapist are more likely to be peoole you know than you don’t know that’s the insane part men are still more likely to face random acts of violence vs women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:41 AM
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It’s more rational
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:28 AM
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This is actually cope The first point well no fucking shit it’s all women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:26 AM
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No, I never was arguing that women underreport more than men. I was saying that in his sorce it says and I quote “rape tends to go 64% underreported” but when I look at the perctile each gender is reporting rape it’s still women reporting more, what I was saying was that in both of your sources it doesn’t directly says that women underreport it says that rape in itself is an underreported crime and I can have trouble articulating sometimes because I have ADHD my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:23 AM
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Yes I would rather be robbed and murdered than robbed, raped and murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:17 AM
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Women could also be violent if they were socialized like men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:16 AM
1

The last part is true, I am always willing to fight for my girl, it’s just that when women say we don’t understand the fear of being threatened it’s empathetic at most especially being that fact that if you got jumped you would be beaten to a pulp and the only thing your gf could do is yell and scream to get them off you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:15 AM
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Women aren’t blamed for being raped ever. You would maybe see weirdos online so it be like never when it comes to a woman you know or just in general. Stranger danger still exist for tfym?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:12 AM
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The man vs bear trend showed me that what ur saying is bs even if we argued to epathize with women on safety they still didn’t empathize with us. On no level a women has ever empathized with a man but we do understand that they need to be protected that’s why men were given the role as the protector. I’m not bringing this up as a gacha more so that everyone fears for their safety but some over exaggerate their fears
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:06 AM
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It’s definitely not the same now, only because guys will always be taught to be protectors like that is going to be a never ending cycle where as women speaking out about rape isn’t them challenging social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:00 AM
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It’s not for you to understand then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:59 AM
1

I apologize if I’m missing something, but those things you linked and what the person linked above are saying the same thing that rape in general is a underreported crime among men and women. The top one you linked was an abstract talking about why women don’t report rape or why it’s harder for them to report rape. That doesn’t really prove that they under report it when rape as a crime within itself is under reported
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:11 AM
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What’s funny is I just explain why men can’t be vocal about their saftey issue and it’s because their places in society or their role as a man. But peoole instantly took it as me downplaying women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:03 AM
0

Wait how am I arguing in bad faith because u said that women underreported I genuinely don’t see anything about underreporting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:49 AM
1

I read it, and it says that rape in itself is a underreported crime in general like 64%. I don’t see anything that supports what you’re saying <image> That’s shows that men underreported in each category
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:28 AM
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First 1 is true but I don’t think men as a collectibe hold it up because there was also Republican women that voted against kamala That’s definitely not because of the patriarchy That’s just nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:19 AM
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That’s the thing honestly I would rather be robbed and murdered but if you are a guy that reality doesn’t change weather you have a gf or not. Not the same for a woman she wants her man to investigate that noise she wants him to protect her. So she get protection automatically by having a bf but for the man it’s more you risk for <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:17 AM
3

How in tf did men maintain the patriarchy when women can vote, work, and own their own property
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:12 AM
1

Oh forsure but the defund the police movement came to be because a lot of officers were killing civilians without them being immediate threats and getting a paid vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:06 AM
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Nah protesting won’t fix it, mainly because of our roles in society like I explained
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:05 AM
2

Could you link it so I would read it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:02 AM
1

I think it’s. Mixture of both because a user in the sub brought up homicides between men and women to point out the fact that men are dangerous and are killing women or something along those lines, I think they are extremely valid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:59 PM
1

Nah I don’t agree with this, a police shouldn’t be able to kill a civilian and still get a paid trip unless that civilian was an immediate threat but that is out of bounds of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:56 PM
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A lot of men online are still men in real life,so ur trying to say my unfounded fear is being the target of violence? And about the personal story’s part you don’t even need to be a Man to know that in any scenario where violence is happening and a woman and a man is present the man is more likely to face violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:54 PM
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No one told women to calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:49 PM
9

This is a good point, I should have just been more specific in the west not saying they shouldn’t fear for their safety
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:47 PM
2

Feminist already think that a lot of what men go through is self inflicted you say anything about the patriarchy their first idiotic respond is “whuu mayde dat system”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:46 PM
2

Those things you named are things that can happen to any human it’s not just a men doing to women thing. Anything that’s advocation for men is instantly shutdown because they already think men have a leg up in the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:44 PM
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Yea I’m ANY situation where a man is involved he is more likely to be targeted if he is walking a dog walking with family anything whereas a woman’s real danger is just being alone or not being in a crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:40 PM
1

Why everytime a man says this the first thing women bring up is men wanting sex in a ROMANTIC relationship. Like it’s still conditional love but at the same time that is all a guy would need to stay happy with a woman. We can’t say the same for women you stop buying her flowers she loses a spark. You stop doing dumb small things she loses interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:02 AM
1

Could you name a misandrist policy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/25 05:46 PM
1

Red pill isn’t even that main stream and even if it was half of the stuff you say that the red pill says it’s not. Like I would suggest you to look at red pill creators
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:31 PM
2

It might be but I think it’s more so women feels these things but don’t actually voice it to the real world. I would also assume that some people in this sub are in good relationships and love to talk about stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:29 PM
1

other women’s experience is apart of what the world is Wouldn’t this also apply to this situation where men atleast know 1 woman who has been in an abusive relationship even if they didn’t even know the woman personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:27 PM
1

No disrespect but your comment has nothing to do with what i said it’s more proof than just beyond hookups and situationships. That one trend going around called “who did I marry episode {insert number}” and they would list something toxic and abusive about their relationship. and the very last paragraph confirmed something I have been thinking about for a while, and it’s that women have lived experiences through other women instead of actually seeing the world for what it is. But you can ignore…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:50 PM
1

This is undeniably true women are like the main primary parents and they care more me personally I haven’t seen my mom take on all the house hold chores by herself but I know people with that dynamic where the woman would keep up with everything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:23 PM
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Because a lot of them use the internet as their diary and complain about men being bad as a whole or men not being good partners, and the top comment would Always be “they lack empathy blah blah blah all they want is sex {100klikes}”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:10 PM
2

I don’t think she even know what the red pill is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:08 PM
0

Now you’re just talking out of your ass, personality alone can not keep you in a situationship/Fwb. that’s pure attraction and sexual attraction. I mean getting a second date is cool and all but that would still fall under LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:32 PM
3

What he said was reality tho like all the events lined up even in the video where she said she didn’t even feel romantic attraction towards him and he thought he hated her I don’t really know what else to say other than it seems accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:29 PM
2

Personality doesn’t matter only matters in LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:19 PM
1

This is fax, I was lucky to be tall and fat I feel bad for most guys that work so hard and still have to be treated a tiny percentile better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:15 PM
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Yea in my opinion I think that was the worst because it was a test conducted on kids and kids won’t just lie for the fuck of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:24 AM
3

You have to play the cards you’re delt but attraction isn’t negotiable even if you dress well if you are just naturally bad looking naturally you won’t get no women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:08 AM
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Jesus Christ that video was brutal. When she compared the short dude to a serial killer was diabolical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:04 AM
6

True even when you look better it still effects me to this day I know that everyone around me are only temporary until I get fat as shit again
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:53 PM
1

Please tell me what i didn’t comprehend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:34 AM
2

I’m not getting at what you’re trying to hint at, like the tea app was alright ig it’s just that a lot of what was going on in the app wasn’t productive and it was on the internet for billions of women to see vs barbershop talk that rarely ever happens and if it did it was always surface level
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:32 AM
1

Bro you definitely don’t hate it just be real with everyone here so they don’t have to waste their time with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:46 PM
1

The only one I can really think of is a barber shop where they talk about women but now we don’t have that because we have to schedule appointments with barbers now. But back on topic even when the barbershop was the place men used to never talk about women in that type of way like sexual wise they would maybe crack a sexual joke but most of the time it was like “hey do you still mess with [insert name]” other guy replies “nah man I don’t we broke up because we had issue” but they would never go…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:42 PM
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I agree not because I’m a man but because I have experienced being ugly and attractive when you’re uglier it’s harder for you to make friends because you don’t bring value to any friend group but being the butt of all jokes especially at a younger age and being a man the world just dumps all their hate on to you because you’re expected to take it. That might sound a little cringe but hopefully you get what I mean but until I hit a growth spurt and lost a lot of weight I looked better and gained …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:09 PM
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Haha fax.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:29 PM
3

True.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:27 PM
1

I agree I have met far more women that is willing to make their own decisions and lead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:38 PM
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HAHHAHAHHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:56 PM
1

How easy do you think it is? Like just give me a comparison or an example so I know if I should continue going or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:52 PM
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I agree with you and the other guy I believe even if it’s socially acceptable for women to have a broader range of relationships women do a better job of keeping up with them. Men could have friends but not contact them for months or years and randomly call one day and check on them that’s not a good way to keep a connection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:36 PM
3

Bro so true you literally put my thoughts and ideas into words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:24 PM
2

Honestly just being desired sexually could still open doors for a romantic relationship And to the last one there are some men like that, that are promiscuous so that’s not a lie but it’s not as many as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:12 PM
1

This is probably anecdotal but I live around all women and they get attention to put it in perspective a normal guy could go months or a year without a woman hitting on him but a lady would atleast get hit on twice a month and that’s just the bare bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:29 PM
1

If approaching works for you then it works but for some it doesn’t my gf of 3 years I had to approach her she gave me choosing signals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:25 PM
3

Cause getting to know someone takes longer especially if they never had interest in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:05 PM
2

Idk I have seen other ladies tell their friends that they are not their bfs therapist and they’re not his momma when the guy wants to vent about something in the relationship or something he is struggling with so I don’t think that men are going to easily believe what comes out another man’s mouth unless he himself experienced it atleast once or twice and I know this is off topic but I’ve known more ladies to have more biases towards each other or in general when it comes to sharing experiences …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:54 PM
2

whenever a guy breaks the touch barrier first day meeting you or second day it should take about 4 days To a week for him to break the touch barrier sometimes asking is ok and his first time breaking it, he has to be like “are you fine with me holding your hands? Putting my arms around you? Hugging you?” Just stuff like that. Because most guys that are like that always have a grey area when it comes to consensual issues or have problems with they girl saying no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:38 AM
2

I actually agree with this and people may think I’m a dick for this but I think women Sa cases are the worse because they get penetrated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:29 PM
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No offense to you this is a great explanation I promise but, he’s not comparing emotional vulnerability to weaknesses that’s just how it is and how our brains are wired
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:58 PM
1

I have only met one person in my entire life that fits this criteria of the 100K a year but they are old, fat and married and he met his gf when they were in high school or middle school. I wouldn’t doubt you could find someone like that but if they are making that much at such a young age I highly doubt they are looking for anything serious or long term
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:48 PM
1

I have only met one person in my entire life that fits this criteria of the 100K a year but they are old, fat and married and he met his gf when they were in high school or middle school. I wouldn’t doubt you could find someone like that but if they are making that much at such a young age I highly doubt they are looking for anything serious or long term
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:47 PM
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Most guys don’t become pilled just from words they live the experience,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:17 PM
0

It’s nothing wrong with being jealous or insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:23 PM
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Yea they needed it back then for survival but now it’s an inconvenience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:12 PM
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Halo effect, I lived that life I used to be fat and unattractive then I lost weight and became attractive and dating became easier you’re probably like “duhh you lost weight blah blah blah” but the dis heartening part was that, that was the only thing that changed about me so when ever I see post like these blaming men for not being successful in dating it could genuinely be something the man isn’t doing but regardless of that it’s almost always because he doesn’t meet the looks threshold these …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:09 PM
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Imo I think both would give me the ick but if I had to choose A) would give me the type of ick that would make me lose feelings and wanna break up B) would give me the type of ick where it’s like “you fucked 10 people??!!” But she was dating and it wouldn’t be that big of a deal depending on her Age but to answer you question probably A
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:09 PM
1

That conversation you’re bringing up is surface level critical race theory it’s not mind blowing or confusing to have that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:30 AM
1

It definitely does exist, it’s just that the term is indirectly used for women but directly used for men. I think that men and women of my community are equally coddled but it’s not acceptable for men to fit the role of the “coddled”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:28 AM
1

I don’t date white women. My current girlfriend is the same color as me I am open to have this discussion because statistically black fathers are more likey to stay in their children’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:23 AM
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I agree with you This is how I viewed both of them just from a human to human perspective instead of a man vs woman. I think that they are both the same thing and that ultimately it’s acceptable to do it with your daughters but not moms to do it with their sons. Sometimes I think the “toxic masculinity” starts within and not something that is “learned” if you get what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:36 PM
2

I honestly don’t think men are still pushing narrow masculinity in 2025 atleast the few men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:32 PM
2

No man looks for a child in a woman I’m sorry that’s just very weird. Maybe a woman dependent upon him but I also think that everyone as humans want someone to depend on them weather it be emotionally and physically that’s why I think trying to divide the 2 like is different is nonsense in a way if you get what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:15 PM
2

But that really wasn’t the case for me, would you agree that being a mommas boy and dadddies girl are the same minus the mom controlling their sons? And also your last paragraph u said that dudes expect their woman to be like their mom but the same is true for women though is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:07 PM
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Hell no. And this is for both genders bruh. When you are hooking up with a lot of people you’re subconsciously hardwiring your brain to get used to that. Not only will a LTR expose people like that but it will literally starve them of hooking up every night or every other night. Of course there are outliers to this rule but in a general sense he eventually is gonna crack because of his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:11 PM
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I don’t even think it’s that though because my high school years I had a lot of hobbies but I still gamed a lot and got 🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:06 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:03 PM
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Bro I’m sorry but once I read the first paragraph i didn’t even read the rest cause you BSin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:01 PM
1

Trumps campaign was worse. There should be no reason why he got elected other than the divide between men and women nothing change except the gender of the person running against trump And your second paragraph is trying to imply something I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:59 PM
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Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:40 PM
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Nearly half of white women*. Idk if your second statement is as accurate as you say because a woman still would have been elected, Biden won in a landslide against trump. What changed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:33 PM
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I don’t think that is true to any extent because trump wouldn’t have gotten elected and the red pill wouldn’t be any popular
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:31 PM
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No explanation connecting them actually read fkn post mn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:30 PM
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If they were safe spaces I would have specified that. If you can’t see the connection then maybe you really have bad reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:25 PM
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What are u not understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:03 PM
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You talking to your friends that are girls are fine I’m not really arguing against that. And also I’m not arguing against people to accommodate the opposite gender, but I am arguing that both outlets or groups for women or men are not uniquely different. It’s just that fact that I think that men and women should find a common ground within their ideological Framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:06 PM
-2

Shit make life livable again. And lock up jamaicans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:19 AM
1

The fact that all of those people are the minority in this country shows that you are only using a minority subset of people. Because if that was the case we would have an equal amount of autistic kids or deformed kids born I don’t even think you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:52 PM
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Well the reality is if you were born genetically inferior you would know how to increase your appeal I don’t believe that anyone can just become attractive. That fact that you had to change everything about yourself shows you that you have to overcompensate just to date vs someone who doesn’t need to do anything but keep themselves clean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:11 PM
2

How does 2 tell women it’s not their fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:05 PM
1

You can’t even explain how attractions works… you gave a definition cherry picked a sentence out the definition. If i didn’t understand attraction I still wouldn’t after this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:11 PM
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Well yea it’s about men’s worth we live in a society where is was founded on social class, status etc and men being in power so yea
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:08 PM
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Somewhat i think that your criteria would be what you were raised around and genetic/primal. Like a black or white person that has lived around black or white people their entire lives would more than likely date within their race but the criteria that the person has to meet would be a mixture of genetic traits and other external factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:31 PM
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I mean yea u have to accept it If none of the advice is working then you’re just undesirable 2) if you are only in situationships 24/7 you’re only seen as a sexual relationship and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:25 PM
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I dont online date but we all know if hobbies worked people would stop asking for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:23 PM
1

That’s how attrition works but I also explained that having hobbies and doing things can increase your appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:21 PM
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I mean if you want hobbies ur entitled to it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:18 PM
2

It’s not though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:17 PM
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1) the comparison didn’t make any sense to me 2) I’m not believing what black pilled people say I’m saying that women and men won’t date anyone with a past that they are uncomfortable with if you don’t agree then idk what to tell you 3) how am I embarrassing myself you made the fucking sports analogy with hooking which made no sense at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:13 PM
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1) that’s debatable 2) 50/50 I think if most men had options they would most likely pick the woman that fits their criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:08 PM
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1) men would know because men have to actually try to attract women how tf you think it works? Do you think that most toxic red pill advice fall from the fkn sky??😭😭 2) and that’s fine but don’t complain if that’s all you’re getting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:55 PM
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I have a hard time believing that because most people aren’t getting married or having sex nowadays maybe u did it but I don’t think the general population is doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:49 PM
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1) being a pro athlete is pure luck pro athletes are only 1% of the top percentage if that’s not luck idk What is I don’t think it’s applicable to hookin up 2) no one told me that just in general men won’t date a woman with a past like women won’t date a man with a past agree? 3) most people say shit on the internet that they really wanna say IRL that’s why a lot of people have secret animosity for each other everyone is hearing shitty opinions and they are seeing a lot of people agree at some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:46 PM
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you just are lol Yea Yk me ms bear woman 😭😭 most people have to figure out if they are sexually compatible (the rest is bs) You can firgure out sexual compatability when you enter a relationship no one’s saying you can’t do it before you establish being in a relationship but doing that will only put you in position to keep you in situation ships. I have had 3 LTRs and I have hooked up before and currently I am in another LTR and each one of those hookups or situationships always started with sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:41 PM
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This is a lie men find more women attractive than women find men attractive you would have to be delusional to believe the opposite is true. Nah that 3rd paragraph got me dying dude said a wife beater and a chain 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:32 PM
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1) hobbies make men more appealing not attractive, they increase more opportunities but the common denominator is that you have to be desirable this advice would only work for a man that is anti social and stays home all day. 2) you’re entitled to that but if that is all your relationships then that’s all men will see you as
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:30 PM
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1) so me saying that “if most people could hookup they would I wouldn’t doubt a small percentage wouldn’t” means I’m sexually inexperienced that makes no sense at all lmaoo 2) umm yes they do see you are doing exactly what my post says when you have sex early on before establishing a relationship you are already putting yourself in a position to be in a situationship most normal relationships don’t start off on sex but more so on friendship and shared interest. You are exactly the woman I’m talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:26 PM
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That didn’t explain anything but gave me a definition, because you said it’s not just appearance how would you know if you are attracted to someone if you are blind folded?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:21 PM
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1) outside the club of what? Exactly 2) most relationships start out as FRIENDS. Not friends with benefits being friends with benefits means that your are already establishing a boundary of not being nothing more than that so I would believe that is just false
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:19 PM
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Where did I even say I was against hobbies? Idk if you can comprehend but the harsh truth isn’t don’t get a hobby it’s just that hobby advice doesn’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:15 PM
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1) not applicable being that being a college athlete or a beauty Padgeant queen is pure luck. The fact really is most people would participate in hooking up if they could and that’s not saying that most people wouldn’t. 2) she definitely can but more than likely she would be setting especially if the guy isn’t comfortable with her past. Just like how women are also obligated to not date a man on his past. 3) I’m not listening to pill poppers, I’m not even pilled it’s just a fact when you actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:15 PM
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1) most guys will ask for advice on how to attract women, get laid, to get in LTR’s etc and most people will say get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:07 PM
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1) Even if I use the word some most women don’t even find men desirable in the first place 2) there is a reason for everything it’s not just bs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:05 PM
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1) No, I’m not looking for a fix being that I am in a relationship but social skills could be an attribute to you being undesirable but you would need someone to approach you to even find that out. If someone is not attracted to you they are not approaching you. 2) I agree for the most part but it’s counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:02 PM
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So how would you know if you are attracted to someone, could you explain to me like I’m not even human?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:59 PM
3

No ones aginst ts you arguing with ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 PM
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Exactly and it’s infuriating to read women complaining about men not reading social ques but they constantly are always in situation ships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 PM
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1) yea because most people can’t I wouldn’t doubt a small percentage wouldn’t but if most people could they would. But what about men that struggle with relationships besides hookups? 2) without a doubt that’s true but if you’re always find yourself in one then you are only sexually desired 3) a confession of ignorance that makes no sense you only addressed hooking up and situationships not working out And you say don’t listen to losers on the internet and I see what conclusions you’re trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:50 PM
5

Who against men gettin hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:47 PM
11

The patriarchy and society were the friends we made along the way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:24 PM
2

Without a doubt, but I know your are smarter than what you let on. Every man knows women experience rejection but not as often as men because men have to read minds make moves and read “vibes”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:54 PM
3

What realistically is a real man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:27 PM
5

That’s most women they narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:25 PM
4

I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:50 PM
2

The type of porn where it’s like 10 black dudes and one small white lady and the black guys are like 15 inches long, or scat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:53 AM
1

I didn’t struggle making friends either but in a general sense gen Z is the only generation of people that will know you SEE you in public and not talk to you for some odd reason even if they do know you. Everyone has popular loner syndrome if you asked my mom the same thing my mom would say exactly what you are saying but my mom didn’t know the struggle of actually trying to decipher who is actually your friend these days every man/woman wants to be the most spoken to or talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:54 PM
0

But do you talk to them about their experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:07 PM
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BROOO FR, I feel like genZ and gen alpha have no sense of community no more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:06 PM
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No op not lying my anecdotal experience doesn’t mean much but I am in college and people are hella antisocial like to the max, it can be a social event a party or whatever. This is how it looks women are all grouped together and men are all grouped together no one talks to no one nowadays. It’s like men and women are purposely avoiding each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:53 PM
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Look at the sisterhood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:38 PM
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Honestly if you aren’t comfortable with his past you aren’t obligated to stay with him. And to answer your questions Anyone can cheat high body count or not but if he participated in hook up culture it’s probably a good chance he isn’t gonna be faithful data shows this and also because you pick up bad habits from hooking up. Depends Yes He better say no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:38 PM
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I actually agree women nowadays don’t mind being the head earners but then they start to be disrespectful to their bfs and over step boundaries because they are the head earners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:35 PM
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Every undesirable man has to swallow a very hard pill and it’s that women aren’t gonna always choose you. That’s why so many men disdain women if it was easy for everyone no one would be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:35 PM
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As in feminism for dismantling gender roles, it’s not just conservatives liberal women also want a trad men they just aren’t as vocal as anti feminists. I’m liberal myself but most liberal women still perpetuate the expectation of those roles. Even if you are not affiliated in anything they are still enforced
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:23 AM
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Yea for sure it didn’t, but women perpetuate the idea on a constant basis even while identifying as feminist, yall didn’t do a good job on deconstructing gender roles…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:12 AM
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I’m a man myself and no man has ever considered themselfs that outside of their feminist wives or girlfriends calling them that. Most men that perpetuate the idea of providing are way older men that lived in a very different economy. The only people I see talking about providing and protecting is literally women in every space “get you a provider and protecter to heal your inner child” bs all you have to do is do the bare minimum of acknowledging men’s problems then maybe more men would give a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:42 AM
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You missin the whole point, when you label someone as a provider and protector you are automatically imposing something on someone without considering their individuality and you treat them as such, so then men just don’t give a fuck and start committing crimes and not giving a fuck about no one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:22 AM
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then watch out for men Every man has to don’t know what world you living in. Feminism was created for the equality of women but they also fought for men’s problems too what makes this problem different now? women are more agreeable anyway why can’t they use that power to also help men? It’s obvious because y’all don’t give a fuck Yea I think women also have the capacity to be good at those things and I wouldn’t care who our leader is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:57 AM
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Ok then the patriarc gonna patriarc lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:47 AM
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Acknowledge their problems and stop labeling them as protectors and providers, quite literally doing that will maybe solve the problem to why men face violence, or being more likely to commit petty crimes. If nobody gives af about them why should they give af about other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:41 AM
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It was, I thought feminism was here to take down the patriarchy and help men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:35 AM
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Because feminism was supposed to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:32 AM
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Its situations where 1) a man could be deceiving a woman and really is a shity person And 2) men shows signs of being terrible and/or is blatant with the disrespect and women still make exceptions because of what he looks like Most Red pilled and black pilled men refer to number 2 how many women you know got into situationships with men they obviously knew were bad for them. The frustration comes in where women say they know what men intentions are from first approach but bash men for being tras…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:35 PM
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providing I’ve never heard a man call himself that but I hear more women say they want providers more than men call themselves that. Your point is valid if we both working why would you need someone to provide for you unless you are deciding to be a stay at home mom protecting They are protecting women from any type of harm and from who you ask from anyone with any intentions to hurt you physically or mentally. Look at your family members most of the men in your family has to deal with the press…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:17 PM
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Man fuck them, niggas on Reddit always on sum argumentative fuck shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:17 AM
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Nah fr tho, like in my objective opinion being black changes the whole realm of lookism and how people perceive you and dating. That’s why I be thinking red pill advice varies depending on race like I used to be red pilled but ain’t fw Andrew tate if you feel what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:58 AM
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Bro black people from my lives experiences are theee worst when it comes to shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:02 PM
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This is true I live a privileged life to be able to hook up and it effects women way more on a whole different level. Don’t get me wrong I think hooking up negatively effects everyone, but more so most of the women involved because most women get their ego, or their perceived desirability from being able to keep a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:54 PM
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LMFAOOO🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:42 PM
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Yoo lillth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:28 PM
1

This question is so so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:21 PM
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Prolly cause your friends were born in the 1800s they prolly don’t know about the internet at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:14 AM
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What do you think “social” on social media stands for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:23 AM
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I’m your #1 fan Lillth please sign my chest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:07 PM
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Nah ignorance did, all the republicans saw the debate, they all saw the data, they all got arrested for raiding the capitol, they knew about his felony’s and they still didn’t give a fuck. They seen it all but he was still elected no amount of education can just stop pure ignorance. Him still getting elected after economist warned everyone about his economic plan like idk what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:23 PM
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Bro imma keep it real if you really is aware of what is ACTUALLY happening in the world you would know that trump taking office isn’t a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:17 PM
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Hellllll no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:14 PM
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This was well said, I am not red pilled but I grew up around a lot of women and dated a lot and they are deceptive, not only that but they are narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:49 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:57 PM
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No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:03 AM
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How is that soft sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:59 AM
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Y do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:36 AM
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Nah fr tho like when ever people bring up the discussion 50/50 one person shouldn’t be doing more housework than the other because adults shouldn’t be messy in general
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:10 PM
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Ur not making sense activity listening and giving advice isn’t directly empathetic but it shows that you have the capacity to feel empathy that’s what I said. Men aren’t socialized to not value emotions but to express it differently idk what’s so hard to understand with that. And this is the problem, yea your emotions are valid but you aren’t hitting the bulk of the argument “ACTIVELY LISTEN AND GIVING ADVICE SHOWS THAT YOU HAVE EMPATHY TO SOME CAPACITY CORRECT? Then it is illogical to say that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:50 PM
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Bro this is a great point if I could pin this I would and this is what I’m trying to say. Guys way of emotionally connecting with a woman is actively listening and giving advice to make them feel better because guys want to feel like they are helping. A lot of people aren’t understanding that if I always have to validate how you feels it becomes emotionally draining for the man and also because you’re gonna feel how you’re gonna feel. Oh man and your last paragraph was the cherry on top because …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:25 PM
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you’re dismissing their thoughts and feelings fitting them off as insignificant If your feelings are always hurt about something then it becomes emotionally draining. It’s so hard trying to explain it so you can understand. •saying men lack empathy isn’t very logical to say because actively listening and giving advice shows to some capacity you have empathy it’s because men are socialized differently how we express it is different. I explained that in my post, ok now women do want to be coddled …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:10 PM
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I think I’m real life people often do have this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:00 PM
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In a situation where it’s not trivial then yea you want to be coddled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:58 PM
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Yea I know I quoted myself for explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:27 PM
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No my perspective is that saying men have no empathy is wrong, if you agreed with my original statement then you’re trying to argue what makes a woman feel better vs what a man is conditioned to do And your last point is way off the mark if studies show men lack empathy I would have never made the post And essentially always having to validate someone emotionally will become draining
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:51 PM
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Your last point men see women as tools to be led and only emotional people because of the examples I gave about how men only feel and don’t express, but for the most part u agree wit you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:45 PM
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But the distinction with my word choice doesn’t matter because either way the advice will still be the same “I’m gonna tell you why it shouldn’t bother you because you can do XYZ or this person is XYZ” it’s the same thing doesn’t matter, But let’s say we did take that route if it’s dismissive women still perpetuate the idea of traditional men putting them in stoic roles to not take them seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:25 PM
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I agree cause men and women are both human
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:20 PM
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I don’t think there’s really a big difference like you are implying but even if there was the advice would still be the same. But women don’t want advice they want some to just list and affirm them and I’m telling you that men aren’t conditioned to do that to just emotionally affirm you unless you lose a loved one, or something major happens You and a couple other people are regurgitating the same thing and attacking my word choice instead of proving why men lack empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:19 PM
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And dis is the problem right here if different people want different things saying men lack empathy is 1 not emotionally intelligent and 2 dishonest and gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:53 PM
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I thought it was quite obvious men weren’t conditioned to just say sorry that happened and leave it at that men are born and constantly told to be leaders and problem solvers so when you come to a man about a problem and he doesn’t give advice he feels like he has failed a woman or feel like he could have done more to make you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:52 PM
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Exactly, it shows that he didn’t feel empathetic towards the shirt situation The second situation is more realistic because that is what men do but they get shit on for giving advice most of the time people will say don’t give advice just listen or emotionally connect and my point was men weren’t socially conditioned to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:41 PM
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1 give a more realistic situation Saying you bleached your favorite shirt and he says buy a new one is more applicable to your point/situation. The second one is more realistic and it does happen that’s what most men say/do to help But giving solutions and having practical support shows you feel/ have empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:37 PM
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Reread my comment I specifically said “he gives advice on why it shouldn’t bother you” goal post weren’t moved
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:31 PM
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Where in my example did a man ever say “stop feeling how you feel?” Hurting yourself and venting about your day are 2 different things If i listened to you and say damn that sucks that happened maybe you should do XYZ so it won’t bother you what else could you want beyond that? Men are only taught to be problem solvers, I thought my post was descriptive and detailed enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:07 PM
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Because most women don’t see that you can feel empathy but express it differently most women say men lack empathy simply because they miss the verbal emotional affirmation but to a man giving advice and activity listening is empathy to them For example If you’re upset about how your day went bad but it was 1 little thing and you went to your boy friend about it he listens and afterwards he gives you advice on why you shouldn’t let it bother you. At that point women would say he lacks empathy but…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:44 PM
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Yea, offering support shows that you have the capacity to feel empathy, and giving advice. So saying men lack empathy isn’t accurate to say.if they feel it to some capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:37 PM
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Yes they do, saying someone lack empathy because you want verbal emotional affirmations all the time is wanting to be coddled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:32 PM
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“Can’t say men lack empathy when they empathize with you differently”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:29 PM
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It’s 2 different things to say men have a problem expressing empathy and men lack it. Saying that they lack it is illogical because you can search of ways to express empathy and giving advice and actively listening is the top 2 so yes it is illogical to say that. men jump straight to logic And I explained why men often do this, it’s because men express empathy differently most of the times women want empathy in situations where it’s just coddling for example A lot of women say it’s not about wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:17 PM
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Yea I only used that example because a lot of men say that women “are too emotional” and rhetoric like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:10 PM
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My whole argument is that it is less empathetic to make the claim that men lack empathy, and you can express empathy in many ways, weather that be listening, giving advice, or just anything to that reguard, so the example I gave was an expression of empathy but you said it was a lack of “emotional intelligence” I would argue that it isn’t emotional intelligence to say anyone lacks empathy And giving advice is an expression of empathy that’s the first thing you do when you feel empathetic towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:56 PM
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I agree with this good explanation 10/10 if you disagree u wrong simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:44 PM
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They describe it as a need because people around them make it seem like it’s a need to be a “man”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:56 PM
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I can imagine it’s hard to have to accept something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:27 PM
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Ur arguing in bad faith, if you don’t think sex is wrong to want then why would you care if someone desire it more than others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:18 PM
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I understand your confusion, and although I don’t understand either the only thing you can do is accept them but in general I think wanting to identify as a gendered role or opposite sex is really weird to me almost like it’s body dysmorphia or something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:07 PM
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Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:10 AM
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Man vs bear in December💔💔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:01 PM
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Ngl as a liberal man I see what you’re saying, and I just think in general liberals are way too argumentative and I can see how it’s a turnoff. Reddit is probably the only app where you can make a post about the sky being blue and it’s gonna be some mf in the comments ready to argue about the sky being orange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:20 PM
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This is a perfect point and this is why I think a lot of men become red pilled and cheat because they feel as if women are tools to be led/ people that only follow their feelings. And women don’t become aware of their subconscious actions until they have a son of their own or actually become purple pilled. I don’t think all women are like this but I do think a vast majority of them subconsciously act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:23 AM
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Nah youngot it all wrong when you actually go outside and look everyone is average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:31 AM
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Bruh I see this discourse so much but housework should not be that bad if both people are constantly cleaning after themselves, the only time house work should be evenly split is if both you guys threw a party or y’all made a meal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:02 PM
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Lemme be that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:34 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:12 PM
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Sorry for your situation, hope it gets better fr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:57 PM
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No, he needs to admire his wife to her face not on Reddit that shit cringy af
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:56 PM
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Man shut your simp ass up my god
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:49 PM
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This is facts I never stopped being a sweet guy to women, it seems like the guy stopped being a doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:48 PM
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Because that take is just not true, it ain’t even that fact that I’m sensative it’s just the fact that you don’t have empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:17 PM
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That’s not even the manosphere those are straight mysoginist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:16 PM
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You have no empathy every time I see you comment I just want to rip my fuckn eye balls out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:03 PM
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People love to say that men are on the internet too much but people use the internet as their diary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:29 AM
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Can women be fucking serious ever?! When you are that young you don’t even worry about looks and tv shows and grown adults tell you blue pill bullshit until men become radicalized
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:17 AM
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Not gonna lie op, self improvement is good advice without a doubt but there is a threshold of how much you self improve until you reach your max potential like genetics. This is anecdotal but for me I used to be chubby in middle school and elementary but I had good genetics but my fat face and body wouldn’t show it but nonetheless I was highly intelligent, played sports, etc but around this era of time it was harder for me to date so eventually I started to “self improve” (all I did was lose wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:35 PM
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Fr bruh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:06 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:03 PM
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Everytime I see your post you are gas lighting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:02 PM
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Different strokes for different folks most of the advice women give would only work if you are a certain threshold in looks because how people precieve you is a bigger factor than what people think. And then there are a lot of men/women that claim that well “I did or I am XYZ and I got laid” but that person could be the type to only get laid once a month like I said different strokes for different folks. But besides that before I met my gf I used to never have to become friends with girls to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:55 PM
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If you live in America then there should be no reason you a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:46 PM
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Your first point very valid cause back then feminism didn’t apply to black women at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:42 PM
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Nah this is not anecdotal at all, and damn was this take perfect. I agree with everything you said when you actually think about what masculinity is it didn’t just fall out of the sky. I think that masculinity became a thing to identity a certain group of people that attracted a different group with certain traits and not something that’s toxic and controls women. Like they make it out to be because they constantly reward it. For example when my dad presented me the idea of not following gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:09 PM
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Dis true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:57 PM
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That’s why I feel like masculinity isn’t a term created by men as a whole but more so men that attracted women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:54 PM
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I could be wrong but I think that women are just naturally born to manipulate because
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:19 PM
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Ya I agree with you, but I think because of men’s biological urge to desire sex more it’s harder for most men to not be thirsty. Like a lot of women say that women don’t need men but I also feel it’s the opposite men were just born at a disadvantage when it comes to dating and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:15 PM
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Most guys gotta realize that they have the power. If you are the approacher you decide on if the interaction happens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:18 PM
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Yea I think that the comments are gaslighting me not to care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:49 PM
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Not necessarily this sub does talk about dating and things so that’s why I posted it I wouldn’t post anything about preachers on a Sunday here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:48 PM
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Yea, but I’m trying to say that if it’s not a person spouting rhetoric about their beliefs or culture then what they believe in doesn’t effect anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:46 PM
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Nah something is definitely up with her she is too hyperfixated on men it’s almost like an obsession I’m pretty sure if it was bait she wouldn’t have been doing it for so long and sharing her piss poor views
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:38 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:31 PM
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I was thinking the same thing before I scrolled off thanks for your insight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:26 PM
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Is that not the same thing tho? A rando can also say something harmful about our VP
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:21 PM
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I firgured it could have been bait, but it does seem like she believes in these things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:19 PM
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No because believe in magic doesn’t paint and ideas about a certain group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:18 PM
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Mf if you ain’t care you wouldn’t have wasted your time commenting bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:17 PM
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No but my question was a yes or no answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:16 PM
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But you don’t think that when people say things like this it’s not harmful to a certain audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:15 PM
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I do understand how it works, it just seems as tho it’s not genuine bait and this woman actually believes these things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:14 PM
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No I am asking for an opinion as to what people think about what she said, it showed up on my fyp and I read the title and I was interested in seeing what she did have to say nonetheless to me it was bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:12 PM
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I blocked her I put her @in the post, and I think that her spreading nonsense like that is just stupid and she get alot of positive feedback by women in those videos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:09 PM
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It could be bait but she is too hyperfixated on telling women about a straight man’s sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:08 PM
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True, a lot of women can’t approach because they can’t handle rejection like the average guy. And they see men worthy as approachers because they think that being a man automatically makes you a stoic rock. They don’t see men as true equals because the same fear they have is the same fear men also have but most men just overcome it. They are so used to being coddled that they can’t actually accept what reality is but is only stuck in what reality is “supposed” to be
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:11 AM
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Not gonna lie this is just bullshit women do approach. I can agree they do to a certain degree but still LESS than guys. But overall blaming them on not being confrontational because of their estrogen or biology is bullshit. Because then it puts you in a situation where men can also blame things on testosterone. Women are saying they are afraid of approaching because 1. They can’t handle rejection 2. They just don’t want to approach you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:08 AM
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You could have used the Johnny depth and amber heard trial. Or the “im just a girl” trend it was literally women perpetuating bad behavior amongst each other and acting like they can’t make decisions for themselves. All because they were woman and because of that it’s not their fault. I am in the noticing stages where I see women don’t want to be treated like children but act like fucking children. Like for example: Lisa: I want an emotionally intelligent man (this woman is dis functional and Bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:13 PM
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I agree the point was good but example was bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:51 PM
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They did it in my sister hood post acting as if they don’t know what it is in a sense that “girls cover girls” typa thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:40 PM
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Nah this is facts because a lot of ladies will dress a certain way for men to approach them and if men don’t approach them they use their internet diary to rant about how men aren’t approaching to other millions of women/people. But let a man approach that same woman and my god you will never hear the end of it. I’m starting to think that a lot of ladies just don’t understand how confusing they are especially when men are the approachers and they are the approached
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:19 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:55 PM
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I see I see interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:37 PM
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Depends on a lot of factors I think a lot of women attraction falls under an umbrella. But if I had to take a wild guess I would say that the guy that isn’t doing good because he is probably social awkward, don’t keep up with hygiene. But in most cases like these there will be two guys let’s call them jerry and John Jerry is short just like John(5’6) and they looked exactly the same. But John scores more dates or hookups but Jerry doesn’t it is possible that yea John may score way more dates and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:39 PM
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I can but I wanna be able to have a partner i can have deep discussion with that challenge my beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:03 AM
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1 I like having deep discussions because I am always open to more knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:57 AM
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That makes a lot of sense then if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:45 PM
1

Not reading that essay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:42 PM
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You cooked. It’s funny how women are the only species to get the fucking “ick” get real bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:31 PM
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Oh hell nah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:43 PM
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If you’re a man you know your woman is attractive if you can get bricked up just by looking at her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:13 PM
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Men care about looks I agree with you but not to the extent women think. If you are woman and you are average looking you will have a lot of men lined up and a lot of people (ladies) say it’s because they want sex but that’s not the case most times they want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:58 PM
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Amazing answer I feel the same way about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:41 PM
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Almost shed a tear reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:44 PM
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If I think my friends can do better I would tell her That’s really a mouth full, and I wouldn’t care to read the rest if your friend is happy with him keep your personal opinions to yourself. the dudes feelings aren’t my priority my priority is if my friend is dating a schlub or wtf ever. And that goes right back to my discussion point why do you impose your beliefs of a worthy partner on your friend all because he could be cringe or have a stutter or walks funny I don’t know any women like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:32 PM
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Yes you love him, I agree with this but wouldn’t you want your bf to break up with you instead of cross boundaries until he cheats? Because another bluebpilled woman said that sometimes friendships can start sparks even subconsciously I agree on that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:27 PM
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Yea, I wanted to see their perspective of a woman like that. More so because most red pill ideologies are too linear SOME.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:24 PM
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I like this answer, so do you feel as if it were the man to tell her not to talk to guys that like her she won’t do it? or do you think she would have done it regardless? Because I feel like that this would be common sense to men and women but I would like to see your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:45 PM
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Not even gonna lie you yourself said that friendships can cause sparks of unwarranted attraction, so why should anyone be friends with someone that used to like them. You wrote a whole essay as to why you’re friends with guys that like you. You seem like you crave validation so much so that you justify being friends with someone that has a crush on you. The guys that are still talking to you are hoping that you and your fiancé breaks up in hopes of them getting a turn. What world does the blue p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:02 PM
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A lot of women will encourage their friends to treat a man differently just because of something they personally feel is off about said man or he is just a cringy person in general. I know for an undeniable fact that you know women like this that are jealous and envious that their friends are in relationships or they don’t like the bf and they will say things to try to make another girl reconsider her relationship you can call what I’m saying silly but I guarantee you know many women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:21 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:07 PM
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LMFAOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:58 AM
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Interesting, how would the situation change if they were in the same intrest group and she followed him because of that? Would anything change for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:58 AM
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Pure disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:35 AM
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Nah fr, like realistically if you’re a virgin most women won’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:29 AM
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🤣😂😂Should have seen them mfs under my thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:22 AM
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But imma still upvote just for the fuck of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:30 AM
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Those women do intimidate men but not for the reasons you think a woman earning more than a man will make the man that earns less insecure and he might become abusive because he feel like he lost the power dynamic and try to enforce dominance another way, (if that man was raised under gendered roles and beliefs)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:28 AM
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BROO yes this happens all the time I know too many women that have gone through something like that. Especially with the whole, “men can spot out your fake friends” qote. Literally for any girl that has a man they should ask their bfs who they think they real friends are and alot of women won’t have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:21 PM
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Bro, I said this plain and simple your friends personal opinions should interfere with how you view your partner because you can get negative vibes from anyone yea you can take it into a account but overall it shouldn’t influence you to treat them any less, but in group biases are the most common with women. And that’s just a fact. So a woman can say she is getting negative vibes from some girls bf all because she could be jealous or envious or a friend group will put their personal opinions on …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:14 PM
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And that’s the funny thing they are throwing insults and not actually addressing the post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:07 PM
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Some random guy that was a narc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:03 PM
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So now I’m insecure and bitter how could you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:02 PM
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It’s not even that it’s the fact that ladies say they want someone good and date the opposite because they have savior complexes. It’s not about dating the hottest nice guy. Men will date any woman that fits that criteria as long as the woman is atleast a decent person that keeps up with their hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:53 PM
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That’s valid because republicans are genuinely bad people now so you would have to question his morality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:48 PM
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You can support them and hold them accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:42 PM
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Nah they wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:30 PM
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Nah but I do have sisters, aunties, a mom, go to the same university as women so I’m pretty sure my speculation on the sisterhood ain’t too off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:50 PM
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Because they do, I said earlier that if you are with someone your friends opinion shouldn’t matter unless the red flag is obvious I even talked about the social aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:47 PM
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Yea i don’t get women and I live in my moms basement what else you know abt me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:46 PM
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What would be something that isn’t compatible in your world view?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:43 PM
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No brotherhoods definitely can be toxic but most brother holds won’t lie and have guys back him up no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:42 PM
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Says the side piece
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:14 PM
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You got me red handed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:14 PM
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I’m in my momma basement rn tweeting and looking at Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:08 PM
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Because men do the opposite. More times than not if I came to my friends about me and my gf breaking up they will ask me what happened and what I did to see her side, women will never atleast see the man’s side but be too caught up in their own nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:04 PM
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So if someone were good to you and you found them attractive would you say y’all are compatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:03 PM
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No because just like ladies guys can have brotherhoods
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:57 PM
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No dating them you would know they spew the Same rhetoric without actually looking beyond themselves some do but it’s like a unicorn “if he want to he would” =im gonna put in minimal effort “Love is supposed to hurt”=stay with that bad man. “If it’s meant to be it will be”=^ literally the same thing “Trust your instincts”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:56 PM
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Yea I be on here when im idle and bored cause I like to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:47 PM
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I was saying that because it isn’t a deal breaker but it can get annoying or cringy being a socially awkward person 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:45 PM
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Oh naw not only did you generalize but Being disorganized and socially awkward is rough around the edges. A bad guy isn’t rough around the edges he just a bad person in general
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:43 PM
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Nah I’m a young adult
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:40 PM
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Social awkwardness:not knowing the right thing to say Disorganization: chaotic living space
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:40 PM
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How Yk I’m grown?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:36 PM
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I would say forgetfulness, probably not a very organized person, and social awkwardness I would consider that rough around the edges
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:35 PM
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Because the common theme with ladies is that they will say they want someone good but continue to date bad guys in hopes she could change him all while knowing they won’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:33 PM
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Anger issues is not rough around the edges el oh el
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:30 PM
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It means what it means. Women will lie just because and won’t get called out on it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:28 PM
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I’m not defending no men, comprehension lackin
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:23 PM
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Yea because you can’t comprehend what the post is meant for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:21 PM
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You just lack understanding of sisterhoods
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:18 PM
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U lack comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:17 PM
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Did you read beyond that point or did you think this post was made just so I can get a woman? Weaponized incompetence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:17 PM
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Ok so you still would be considers in the sisterhood of women who aren’t pilled simple as that. That doesn’t happen all the time but it happens most of the time with women just a petty example I used alot of female friendships don’t last because of the simple fact that your friends are secretly at competition with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:13 PM
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Sister hood:an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade. You determine if you are or not. Stop acting ignorant So by looking at your flair you are in the sisterhood of nopilled women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:06 PM
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you know nothing of how women speak amongst each other. Yea we can only judge based on your actions and yall will say things and do the direct opposite. Your analogy was bad because men will say they want a beautiful wholesome woman. Which you can find at a bar. Women will say they want a good guy and date bad guys repeatedly and say they knew they were bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:00 PM
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Yes, if there is anything that connects women universally it is considered a sister hood. Sororities, feminism, and just anything that unites women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:48 PM
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Yea they do it because the men voicing those opinions could have gone through what they believe and not just be lying for the fuck of it. The most common one is “if your gf isn’t physically affectionate to you she doesn’t love you” Even tho I don’t fully agree with this it is true to some degree it came to be true because a lot of women would lie about physically intimacy or they will bend the rules. So an example of this would be that women will say “I won’t become intimate with this man unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:43 PM
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So true. Women are more emotionally open which can lead to manipulation. So if they dated a guy that played his cards right if he appealed to how she felt all the time she will become emotionally attached. Like the whole term “gf brain” comes from them not making decisions and turning their brain off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:35 PM
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It’s not about the guy being broken up with. I agree that friendships matter more but because women are more emotionally open to each other friendships often become bad because they start to become at competition with each other. Like a lot of women will go to their friends for relationship advice and the friend is envious of them so they purposely give them bad advice or their friend might not like men and won’t care to see his side of any situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:32 PM
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We all universally agree that a good man respects his woman right? If she isn’t attracted he could still be a good guy but that doesn’t mean he is a bad man incompatibility is a real excuse that true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:25 PM
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Nah, more so that the sister hood is used so women can just blatantly lie I can agree that there are toxic environments where men are surrounded but most of them will not voice opinions they really don’t believe in just so they can keep an image
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:23 PM
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I be bored
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:17 PM
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I agree but it’s less than more, no if I see someone post a shitty opinion and they get positive feedback on it I’m not ignoring it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:50 PM
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They will give a woman bad advice in person and go on the internet to express their shitty opinion that they 100% believe in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:43 PM
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Yea but in real life ladies just can’t give advice or get good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:36 PM
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So now that when I use feminism as an example of one place of sister hood you think I’m a msygonist? Sure bro you just really lack understanding of this whole debate and tried your hardest to straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:30 PM
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And you still went back to that point. I would suggest you to read again and actually think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:18 PM
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Your first question an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade. If a woman associated her self with feminism she is apart of the sister hood if she has a friend that is a feminist they are friends. It’s more of a commitment because of the emotional and social expectations that come with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:17 PM
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It shouldn’t matter if her other friends precieve him as cringe if she loves him their opinion shouldn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:15 PM
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No, I call it that when women associate themselves with beliefs and ideals. Your comprehension is lacking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:14 PM
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You’re not comprehending you become apart of a sister hood when you associate yourself with women with the same beliefs and ideals it is more of a commitment than a regular friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:10 PM
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Friend ship: a voluntary, long-lasting relationship between two or more people that is built on trust, mutual respect, and support. Sister hood:an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:09 PM
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Once she is in a space that aligns with those things I listed, without knowing the people in said space simple at that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:07 PM
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Sister hood: an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade. Yes it’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:04 PM
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Now your example is valid if your friends saw that they should tell you but often women from personal opinions will not like another girls bf if he is a cringe person in general
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:03 PM
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Ok so you’re speaking from a new relationship that’s like 1-5 months then that person still isn’t a stranger because you knew them prior correct? So why should your friends influence how you feel when you are with the person more than them? You’re a hive minded man simple and plain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:02 PM
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Yea I know they are doing exactly what the post said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:01 PM
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You’re taking my argument to the extreme instead of actually reading and comprehending you think I am automatically shaming women for having friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:00 PM
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it as in a sisterhood, you lack comprehension your first point no but they still are emotionally abusive you’re trying to steer the argument. And read the post and it will answer your question mr smarty pants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:58 PM
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But he isn’t a stranger if that’s her bf so idk where stranger came from. And if you are in a relationship that makes you happy your friends shouldn’t influence it unless there is an obvious red flag you can see. Idk where else your argument came from
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:56 PM
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Sisterhood is beyond friend ship, it differs with depth and commitment, and emotional intensity two guys that are friends wouldn’t consider their friendship a brother hood but more so a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:54 PM
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Twisting what in saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:52 PM
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Bro what????? A good man or a person is someone that treats you good, we can all collectively agree to that. And it’s toxic because it allows emotional manipulation and narcissism the full thing was not just about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:52 PM
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That makes no sense if he is her boyfriend wouldn’t he be past the stranger threshold? And if you are genuinely happy in a relationship your friends shouldn’t influence how you feel you didn’t read the full paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:50 PM
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No, if you’re giving someone advice and they keep ending up in the same scenario or situation then that’s them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:48 PM
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Yea it doesn’t but it’s still more than less
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:46 PM
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Yea, because they are a hive mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:45 PM
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No one is controlling what friends you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:44 PM
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No they call other men simps for knowing information about a situation they are in and that man still continues to indulge in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:43 PM
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No, women can have female friends you’re trying to twist the narrative. A lot of spaces for women in general is just toxic and manipulative. And y’all just won’t tell the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:41 PM
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They both differ in depth and commitment, you can say the red pill community is a brother hood, and the pink pill is a sister hood but they aren’t friends. The red pill came to be true because of how manipulative women are in general. But if a guy of the red pill have different experiences he isn’t shamed by other men. You see how y’all are already debating the difference between brother hood and sister hood and not actually addressing the post about how it’s nit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:37 PM
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No, brotherhood and a friendship between regular guys is not the same. You’re still acting ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:31 PM
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They really are. Another thing I would like to add is that they say women mature faster than men, and know alot of things but they are also ignorant to a lot of things which they are aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:29 PM
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Ok you’re just acting ignorant you know what sister hood is google is free. I’m talking about the environment of women that create spaces for dating advice and share common interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:25 PM
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It’s complicated because women will bend the rules for more attractive men in general so y’all will purposely date shitty men all because they are attractive in hopes of them being nice when many women know it’s not the reality. When men say they have a type they 95% of the time go for that type
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:54 PM
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🤣🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:45 PM
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On god I think low libido is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:58 PM
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They don’t behave this way because a lot of people use social media to voice how they really feel like it’s their diary so it’s not a matter of being on his phone too much but a lot of people just voicing shitty opinions and getting a lot of feedback from said opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:39 PM
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LMFAOO🤣🤣🤣😂😂, but on a serious note I am in a LTR and have been in LTR’s for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:14 PM
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There were men in power that did those thing Yk that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:09 PM
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In the context of hooking up I would say that seeing that dip when phones and dating apps became a thing means that hookup culture was bad because of the mental health crisis, and expectations of hooking up it places on Gen Z impacting their relationship skills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:41 PM
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It would prove that hookup culture affected their generation. If you seen a trend constant through generations and it just suddenly decreased when phones and dating apps became a thing what would you conclude?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:34 PM
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This woman literally posted the first 2 sentences I responded to it I come back to 8 down votes and a whole essay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:29 PM
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Yea I feel what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:28 PM
2

I fuck with you man you’re a funny guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:26 PM
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LMAOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:25 PM
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Yea THIS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:13 PM
1

You right, but how low do you want their balls to hang before it starts scratching the ground and getting scabs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:12 PM
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I get your POV from your first point, but from my perspective it would seem like settling after having 70 hookups out of the 100 vs the person that was in 100 relationships (100 bodies) and what didn’t it address specifically? There is no specific number, you hook up u a harlot it’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:05 PM
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You know what I like this view And I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:03 PM
0

If his wife being a stripper didn’t bother him why would the word cuck have ya boy get violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:02 PM
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Yea the 80s was the easiest years of their life. And the second one I know what narrative you are talking about and I don’t agree with it but you can see gen Z having negative effects on their mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:00 PM
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I get the first point but it is not applicable to hooking up you should be shamed and feel shamed if you have 100 bodies and they 70 them were hookups and 30 were relationships. Vs a person who has 100 from being in relationship weather it be short term or long term because the woman or man that had 100 relationships had more time to figure out who they are emotionally and physically compatible to I don’t care about a woman’s body count either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:58 PM
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So what was the point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:52 PM
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Yes because 11 years ago was Gen Z right we agree to that? Yes and less engaged because hookup culture in itself is not ideal, I never ever brought up that hooking up is happening more but that it is crumbling society as you can see the effects now? Is everything connecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:51 PM
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Nah that’s extreme. You know men and women successfully did it right in the case being that if a man is marrying a woman with a “high body count” other men will shame him and call him a cuck which then causes those men not to date those type of women. What you described is actually controlling what people want to do with their lives vs people expressing themselves which they can build a healthy community around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:45 PM
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Well yea idk if a person gonna randomly walk up to you and tell you that gen Z is the most isolated and anxiety filled generation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:42 PM
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You do realize that it’s not opinionated when Gen Z is receiving the effects of it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:39 PM
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Yes we look down on those people that’s how we develop an actual healthy community. No just like how men tell men not to date women with a lot of bodies then women do the same with each other. And where I would draw the line is if you feel shamed for doing it then it isn’t acceptable socially but you are an exceptions if you have any EDs, or mental disorders to any extent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:37 PM
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the second one was from last year, they are using those pieces as evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:35 PM
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Yes and when you read more into it you see the cause of that is hookup culture in itself and social media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:33 PM
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Because I can identify outside of my own experiences that dating is harder for gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:32 PM
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Nah I’m not saying that hooking up should be restricted do what ever your heart desires. But it shouldn’t be socially accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:29 PM
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Yea it did https://www.pesi.com/blog/details/1720/what-hookup-culture-means-for-the-future-of-millennial?srsltid=AfmBOoqJr6nqtvhY2Vq4tTlXcYKFydYJsPNGYDWEKonjmCQePIP6MtUb This was recently done And this one https://dailytargum.com/article/2023/04/benitez-hookup-culture-has-ruined-dating-for-generation-z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:27 PM
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Gen Z being known as the isolated generation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:23 PM
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I have been in LTR’s for almost half my life and I’m in one now hooking up is like the least of my worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:22 PM
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Your first point, it is decreasing because of hookup culture I never stated that hooking up was happening more often but it was bad.but how it is decreasing is because of hookup culture is because the expectation of hooking up, and because of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:20 PM
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This study was made in 2017, I will link you something more useful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:12 PM
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Because it’s obvious that dating sucks for gen Z and there is no sense of community which in turn leads to a lot of bad things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:11 PM
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Press on the debate tab in the sub and engage in something that doesn’t bore you then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:09 PM
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Yea people can choose to not use them but as long as they are there they will use them which is the reality. If the US bans all dating apps people will then be forced to have to interact with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:07 PM
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I make one typo now it’s work on my reading level. Your second point I mean yea but dating apps in general are used for hookups. Even if it wasn’t used for hookups they are so unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:58 PM
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And that is what I’m saying if you want to do that go ahead but that shouldn’t be socially acceptable like how in east Asia dating apps are for losers. “Society isn’t obligated to provide you with options” - a mf in a sub talking about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:47 PM
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Hookup culture and and social media are 2 main factors to the bad dating market, just because it doesn’t affect you doesn’t mean that it doesn’t affect other people. Because it is apparent that it’s effecting Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:45 PM
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The TLDR, women will continue to live in that double standard until approaching is equal. If men have to play these guessing games in approaching and women don’t have to do anything then that double standard will exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:19 PM
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Makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:43 PM
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Yea this is the truth for black pillars too, but I’m not gonna lie I seen how some of them looked and no offense but they be serverly deformed and high functioning so they are like border line autistic but are only limited to dating autistic women that’s like a human being Trap in a dogs body feel bad for those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:25 PM
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I see what you saying, I thought both sides talked about dating tho, like just overall self improvement and keeping women attached and the whole Chad stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:20 PM
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Oh yea and I forgot the most important part accepting “reality”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:16 PM
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The context to the red pill is to become the best version of yourself and take no shit from women correct? Then if so that is the nuance to it. Edit: once you become red pill you lose your authentic self and you’re too caught up into reading women constantly living in the red pill will drive you insane and make you resent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:47 PM
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OP is not wrong the red pill is basically saying that women want higher status men, but if you can’t reach said status you have to become the best version of yourself and also how to not put up with their bullshit. You’re not wrong either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:22 PM
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I see your point, and so the best way to try to combat it is to channel it through different facets of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:36 PM
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We can’t evolve past something instinctual but we can instead either internalize all of it or find another way to cope with it. A person saying we have evolved past our instinct is only trying to look like the more righteous person, but the truth is we didn’t evolve past them but it stayed with us. A lot of men can control their instinct to fuck but it will take a little longer being that men in general desire sex like it’s food
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:16 PM
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This is a great point! But when you are a woman that won’t be the conclusion you draw. It easy to say not generalize when you are the one being generalized women didn’t get that grace when they are generalized to be “more emotional”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:16 PM
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But it does prove that men can’t control their urges. Unless there is some theory or something else to explain this phenomenon the only point you can draw from it is men can’t control their urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:02 PM
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You’re not seeing that when women say that they are technically right it’s not just empathy. If you’re a woman that more or less has had bad experiences with men and you have stats and physical experiences to support what you are saying why would they want to empathize with that? I’m looking at it from both sides. But if you’re calling a woman a whore then that would be a lack of empathy being that men cheat more than women even tho I feel like women don’t admit to it more I still do feel like w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:55 PM
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Actually yea excuse myself, it is more men than women but the gap narrows because women live longer. No then leading in those stats proves enough bro no need to make excuses if you are a man that knows you can control your urges and ladies say dumb shit like that it shouldn’t move you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:38 PM
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I don’t agree with this, simply because men won’t admit that other men fuck anything. And we know this because men lead stats in anything reguarding SA and pedo business despite it being more women than men. Not saying that all men are SAers and pedos but seeing those things make most women come to that conclusion (just trying to be unbiased)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:23 PM
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I agree with you here. The reason why men’s urges are demonized because of how men will literally fuck anything because of that urge. Even though it’s more women than men on this earth men leads stats in anything rape related or pedo related.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:14 PM
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Not sure, but I highly doubt your ethnic background affects your testosterone level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:23 PM
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Because dude ain’t that desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:18 PM
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Oh it definitely does you tried to twist what I’m saying, you’re not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:33 PM
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No, we know this because of how you are shunned from society from being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:33 PM
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That simply just means that heterosexual women have more bad sexual experiences so it is easier for them to not hyperfixate on sex. Why do you lack reading comprehension and deductive reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:42 PM
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Yes your last point is what I’m saying, how did you get me saying women tend to no orgasm on average to “women have a problem with orgasms” In the context of dating and sex we were talking about heterosexual relationships. But even if you do steer the Conversation that direction notice how women only orgasm with women that’s pretty obvious they can make themselves orgasm because they are women they would know how to please themselves. Women don’t orgasm with men because men just don’t please wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:31 PM
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Yea it is, do you know why East Asian women are so critical on weight? Because men would rather be single than to date a fat woman that’s why East Asian women have culture around fat shaming other East Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:21 PM
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This is true https://www.statista.com/statistics/1366812/us-orgasm-gender-gap/#:~:text=In%202022%2C%2095%20percent%20of%20men%20almost,percent%20of%20women%20who%20responded%20the%20same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:19 PM
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Na my solution was to shame dudes that sleeps with Becky’s down the street knowing they are a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:14 PM
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In east Asia men don’t pursue fat women which in turn caused women to not be fat. If you think it’s an end all be all then I would suggest that you expand your view beyond the west
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:12 PM
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They don’t climax on average there are exceptions to the rules but the general rule is most women have more bad sexual experiences than good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:10 PM
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Hell yea you already know man, when you date a lot you know alot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:48 AM
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Na i didn’t she saw a post on tik tok and asked me how I felt and we was just talking about the dating inequalities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:42 AM
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No we were debating who has it worse for dating which is men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:38 AM
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How in the hell did you get that from what I said. I’m saying that they can both be pleasurable but don’t just have casual hook ups just for the fuck of it because then you’re gonna want more pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:13 AM
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Listening to about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:06 AM
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I have experienced success in dating but i didn’t channel that success through hookups even tho I could have easily done that. And my girlfriend was arguing from a woman’s pov and not a man’s. So I seen both sides and I think in general dating is bad because of both men and women but more so women because just in general women play a lot of games. And they already have the high ground in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:57 AM
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Because of the sexual liberation bullshit they think it’s ok to just fuck anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:46 AM
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Yea i agree with this. Like if a woman fucked a guy with 5 inches and then fucked a dude with 8 inches it will be hard for her to go back it’s like smoking weed for the first time, then smoking crack for the first time then going back to weed to get the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:19 AM
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True like I fully believe that if men weren’t made to have the urge to fuck all the time we would have went instinct…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:13 AM
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Damn man if I can upvote this a thousand time I would. Perfect point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:59 PM
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You don’t really have to agree I see your point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:58 PM
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That shit truly doesn’t if a 10/10 isn’t good at sex the more times she has terrible sex with him the more is attraction rating go down
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:55 PM
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Yes and that’s my point, if 10s sleep with 10s and 5s with 5s there is balance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:49 PM
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I get your point junior. But shame those men for sleeping with 3s they should only be messing with women of their caliber
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:47 PM
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This is super true and I wanted to touch on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:38 PM
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I don’t agree with this. How much they desire sex differ because women on average experience poor sex vs men that always climax which in turn means the person that is more likely to climax will want it more from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:38 PM
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I agree with you man talk yo talk bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:34 PM
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Yes and upper class men can too. And your second one is true they need to aim for women on their level and ignore the others
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:30 PM
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Nah, but you know what men are on your level
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:23 PM
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Your first point yea he will. Your second point that’s a different scenario Then they are just cheaters Societal shame is enough why do you think men will not date a woman with a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:22 PM
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I get what you’re saying men can discern sexual experiences between partners this is true but it is also true that men see sex as a one and done thing especially if it’s a woman they don’t find attractive. Your second point. Two things can be true at once, stop dumpster diving, and stop putting out unless you’re committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:19 PM
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Yes because a man that was more attractive than you slept with her. Women know their limits they are not fucking delusional and attractiveness is diff for women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:15 PM
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It’s something out of your control man I get it. But women will actually have to understand that they will live with the double standard of not being whores since sex is easier for them to have and cause they don’t have to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:14 PM
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Nah, yes they are when you are attractive you have a plethora of women to explore causing you to then fuck 5s same thing with me I was boujie with the dick
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:13 PM
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It’s different because men see sex as a 1 and done thing vs women they don’t if you give a woman good sex she will become very attached to you but it’s also other factors that heightens a woman’s sex experience. It effects dating because if let’s say jack a 10/10 is sleeping with a 5 just for the fuck of it dating becomes harder for the guys on her level because she feels as if her and jack had something going on. Being less sex craze will actually cause women to talk to men in her caliber. Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:11 PM
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It will change because women will actually start talking to men on their levels
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:07 PM
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No me and my gf have a lot of sex, it’s just that how women view sex and how men view sex is way different we view sex as black and white, vs women who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:05 PM
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Yea 1s need to be sleeping with 1s 6s with 6s 4s with 4s and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:04 PM
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I get your point but don’t act like men also want to sleep with the best looking women. Men are just more realistic with standards
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:03 PM
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Nah, Shame them for sleeping with 7s and 6s just for the fuck of it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:00 PM
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No it actually will because like I said how men and women view attractiveness are way different
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:59 PM
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I kinda get ya logic but here is where we differ yes you can make someone bound to someone in your dating range because men will frown upon other men for dating women with huge body counts and which in turn caused men to not want to marry this women you can argue that it’s apart of our DNA to learn that but gender norms also a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:57 PM
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This is true. So when you’re forced to socialize you are opened up to different types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:54 PM
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It actually is true for women. They also want to hookup but what most women won’t tell you is that hookups damage them the most mentally and physically because of how detached men are for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:51 PM
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Yes and it’s not about women still wanting them it’s about making them bound to women in their caliber instead of them sleeping with becky down the street. I agree she will choose him for sex. But men’s strong desire for sex has us hyperfixated on hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:49 PM
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Aye I agree with you man!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:45 PM
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You’re tripping ngl 49% of men aren’t approaching women. If you are saying you like chasing women you’re a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:45 PM
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Idk if you surround yourself around a good community of open dudes but them being called hoes by other men will actually affect them. Believe it or not. The only reason why most guys see it as a positive is because they are praised by other guys for it. Doing that will make them bound to staying with one girl and not sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:43 PM
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Fsfs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:41 PM
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I agree with this to a degree, most men don’t see other men as hoes because of how guys view sex and how dating is, if I am always pursuing and having sex then I have game. Y’all will have to live in that double standard until it’s equal effort to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:40 PM
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Did you read it is there something confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:35 PM
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Most modern men don’t enjoy the chase
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:35 PM
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How men and women view attractiveness is almost the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:34 PM
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Oh yea this is a good point I would like to see you expand on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:32 PM
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Would you like to add or expand on something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:31 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:29 PM
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And it won’t happen because of how gender roles are ingrained in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:29 PM
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No a woman having pleasure with a micro dick is impossible. My whole kinda conversation was if you are having sex with one person and you enjoy that sex then you should stay with that person. If a woman has sex with a man for the first time and he is 7 inches then she should stay with him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:26 PM
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Even putting horomones aside if you are always guaranteed to climax during sex then you will just naturally want sex more VS women who don’t always climax. Those women always wanted to fuck u because you made them climax every time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:24 PM
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Ok this is a pretty good point. Would you like to expand on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:22 PM
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Their preferences of sizes would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:20 PM
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And in turn that’s a good thing because then they would actually have to look beyond you physically than to decide if you can be a fwb you get what I’m saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:18 PM
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I agree like women attraction is looks but it’s kinda more beyond looks like if you are a 5 and you have certain factors about yourself that are charming then you can successfully date but not hookup which is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:17 PM
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I can see this point of view thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:16 PM
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That could be true. But I highly doubt that would happen if we shamed more high teir men for just sleeping with all kind of women instead of referring to it as game and get rid of social media then dating would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:15 PM
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Yea I’m not trying to generalize I’m just trying to see it from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:14 PM
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Them having hookups. Because there are guys that will hookup with those women knowing that they wouldn’t date them. And saying that women have more options for sex doesn’t dimish the fact that it’s harder for them to find a relationship with commitment and we can fix these trade offs by just getting rid of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:09 PM
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The solution to that would be to shame top tier men for sleeping around instead of calling it game. Because eventually women will actually start approaching men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:06 PM
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Yea I know but we can’t put all the blame on women, if you can admit that simping is a problem then we can acknowledge that simping is also a factor into the shitty dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:04 PM
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Yea the way my gf described hookups for women is, that most women can have casual hookups but she admitted that women should not participate in hookups because it will only raise their standards as to what type of sex they want and in turn will only be a losing game because they will be stuck on a situationship while the guy was just trying to relieve himself same for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:02 PM
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I think it’s because most modern men realized that it’s easier to get laid without paying and they know this because they meet the looks threshold, it’s not social acceptable to use anyone for sex but a man that is having a lot of sex has an asset that other men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:28 PM
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Ouuuu man you cooked with this one ngl. And I also wanted to add that they do it to virtue signal and because they fantasize about those nice redeeming qualities even though in reality that’s not what I want. For example John is only attracted to dominate women and not nurturing.But when asked what his type is or what he wants in a woman he is going to virtue signal and fantasize about the nurturing woman because John doesn’t want the other person to think he’s a cuck. And that’s how it is with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:01 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:59 AM
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Thanks on this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:59 AM
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Not all women are like that but it’s crazy I know too many women like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:57 PM
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