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mental healthYoucbah/r/MensRights07/09/25 07:49 AM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:36 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:40 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:19 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 05:04 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:35 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:24 AM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:44 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:03 PM
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Question For WomenYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:53 AM
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Question For WomenYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 03:52 PM
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DebateYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:56 PM
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Question for RedPillYoucbah/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:49 AM
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Wearing a heairstyle you like specifically isn’t social submission
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:58 PM
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Women tend to have more in group biases I don’t think op is biased but his choice of words are what have people fired up in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:57 PM
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Top 1% commenters the kings/queens of missing the point and bootlicking what the comments say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:31 PM
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Dawg, ur not getting it… if a famous rapper rn wore T shirt everyone of every gender would wear it. That’s a human thing seems like op was trying to talk about group cohesion and social norms but I get what you’re getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:13 PM
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Not sure if op was trying to Shame but it def seems that way with the title lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:11 PM
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Dude you explained this perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:04 PM
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Wym
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:03 PM
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I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:01 PM
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Hell nah, women still be obsessed with beauty, and how other precieve them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:00 PM
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Bro every guy literally wears fucking slides or crocks, it has been like that for years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:58 PM
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Y’all are actually missing his point, it was never really about trends but social submission every human on earth follows trends but men don’t strictly follow social norms and they don’t feel shame when they aren’t following them, y’all missed the part where women are brought up to have a higher chance to have eating disorders and body image issues, women are definitely more prone to social submission and I feel that’s just basic knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:57 PM
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Following trends is a human trait though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 06:54 PM
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Looks matter for both but people don’t realize that more men find women attractive vs women finding men attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:16 PM
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Black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:38 PM
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Gonna be honest if everyone grew up ugly as shit for atleast your highschool years going into college this sub would be way different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:27 PM
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Bro this is not systemic misandry, because if women teachers were replaced with men these facts wouldn’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:39 AM
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I think men are they should ask their wives about what they like in bed if she truly loves you she won’t see you as less of a man if you are genuinely trying to please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:47 PM
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I’m in a relationship and I like reading what people have to say even if I don’t agree. Sometimes tho I come here to talk trash to let off steam.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:46 PM
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Ngl the most misogynistic men you will know will be men that are married or get a lot of women my older coworkers used to complain about their wives their gfs,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:37 PM
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Yea fr I only ever found it creepy once but during my freshman year of college and sophomore year currently in my junior year. Women would def touch my chest and arms but when ever they try to grab my ass that’s when I find it creepy and uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:33 PM
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This is also the case for me as well, I pay for our outings. But ultimately I see what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:16 PM
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This is true just from my general experiences and having a lot of sisters. And most aren’t that forgiving of negative traits on a man hell they even think about what other people say when they date said man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:10 PM
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Alot of that comes from media that young boys consume and just parents and older people telling them that. Like princess and the frog or just stuff like that blue pills kids. And it just takes longer for guys to understand that because we kinda have to throw ourselves out there to understand. I agree with you about the asshole part though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:59 PM
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Well I would imagine if they are both making similar income they both go 50/50 as in guy pays for dates and other things a woman pays for outings and other things. I’m only making this assumption because dual income houses are the most thriving. But to really answer your question i actually don’t know honestly. I think women just spend more money on things but it beats me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:56 PM
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I see what you’re saying and this is also the case with men. Hooking up can literally become an addiction and lead to unfaithfulness. And sometimes even guilt especially if you meet a guy or girl that didn’t have the same past as you. It can make you feel kinda bad about what you did in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:16 PM
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Porn definitely ruins relationships but I don’t think it ruins pair bonding
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:09 PM
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I would rather it be a girl because they are easier to raise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:47 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/jadi37z1l1of1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=058810e22bc3431790e895ba0325654d6b024d42
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:29 AM
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I agree with you. I still think BP is the most logical one because it goes beyond just looks and dating. Like learning about the caste system black pilled me a little more and learning about slavery also black pilled me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:59 AM
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Yea the students in america are demon spawns especially public schools teachers don’t get what they really deserve cause they are making lesson plans and babysitting at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:43 AM
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I agree with you, and the Cost of school will turn some people off even more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:41 AM
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Bro fr I am also left leaning and they tolerate that man hating mess. I can’t even genuinely express my opinion about women in some left leaning spaces unless it’s exclusively all men. And some of the manosphere is too toxic and linear
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:20 AM
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I don’t want shit from women but for y’all to tell the truth men validate you enough was said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:03 PM
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Women know what they are attracted to, they aren’t poor little naïve princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:40 PM
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I’m not even conservative I don’t want to be it doesn’t align with my beliefs. Left is tolerable while being right wing is not too much racism over there and sexism
/r/MensRights07/09/25 06:36 PM
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Yea, most men would feel validated if women were always complementing them. The fact that you call it a participation trophy just shows your privilege and entitlement. Yes a lot of men do this. But women most often call them gay and my gf did this one time and it actually shocked me because it made me realize all you hoes are the same. I knew my friends before her and she made a comment saying “oh going to hang out with your gay friends?” That’s all women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 06:34 PM
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As far as I understand I said that women should be concerned for their sexual safety because 1 in 3 women are sexually assaulted within their lives. But it’s repeated offenders the guy that SA a woman is more likely to do it to another woman it doesn’t just stop at 1 and it’s not just random men doing it it’s from people whom they know.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 04:13 PM
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Some men don’t even get a compliment for months you should check your privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:51 PM
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I’m being honest tho women don’t do dangerous things like fucking grunt work in a warehouse, or any blue collar job. I mainly see women in professions that doesn’t require anything to demanding from them.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 08:10 AM
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It really turns me away from being left leaning sometimes, and it straight up infuriates me when they bring up gender pay gap like that hasn’t been explained so many times. It makes me want to gouge my eyes out.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 08:06 AM
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But I’m not understanding how women are oppressed even before the over turning of roe v Wade. They have the freedom to sleep with whoever however and how many times the freedom to vote, make their own income own a house etc. Realistically I can see if saftey is a concern, but then again women don’t do dangerous stuff to be that concerned about their safety.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 08:03 AM
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Thanks, I will take a look at him it’s hard trying to find creators like that.
/r/MensRights07/09/25 07:55 AM
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Please shut the fuck up and stop sharing opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:29 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:50 AM
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Yea bro, and not even that it’s way more brutal to experience both sides every time I try to escape the black pill every slight interaction reminds me being better looking now I don’t even have to worry about making friends or I don’t even have to hide my niech interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:49 AM
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True a lot of people in this sub will say “well so and so are dating so it’s not adding up” they mostly only see the exterior of the relationship yea the average guy can get a date but he is more likely to have to put in more effort and have a dead bed room by his 50’s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:46 AM
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Men do give women validation they get it every day, men are attracted to fat women. And if you are a man you aren’t even settling when your options in general are limited
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:43 AM
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Red pill is never angry at this they accept this, it’s just the truth i don’t mind putting in effort for a woman but if a man were to know that he had to try harder than someone else it would turn him off. It should turn anyone off knowing they made you try harder for something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:42 AM
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Nah fr I agree bruh it’s no positives to having kids unless you’re Elon musk and you need other people to have children to slave for your business
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:56 PM
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Depends on what you find average
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:22 PM
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Because men destroy their bodies at a young age working. But it depends on
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:10 PM
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12% is rare now you’re just being purposely dense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:47 PM
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Gave you the common sense answer, “Probably less than 12% only conclusions you could draw just from it being 12% alone is that women aren’t attracted to sahd”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:47 PM
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Yea, if you had 1% or 12% of the US in one building that would be a lot of people. Get my drift? Or are you that dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:18 PM
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1% is also a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:16 PM
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I mean u brought up the 12% stat you should know but wouldn’t doubt if it’s less. It’s still below average the only argument you can draw from that is women aren’t attracted to sahd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:13 PM
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Wouldn’t matter because it’s still overall less than the average relationship dynamic of women being stay at home dad going to work
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:09 PM
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Just told you, less than 12% sense is not common with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:07 PM
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Only 12% of relationships have a stay at home dad dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:06 PM
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Less than 12%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 05:03 PM
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Yea, in 12% of the that relationship dynamic please be real with yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:52 PM
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Common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:50 PM
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Bro I agree with you and the another guy whole heartedly, guys definitely do care but not so much. Like I seen this video where a sister and brother has the same eye condition where it would make them look up consistently, but the mom asked them does it bother them to keep their eyes down they both responded yes but the sister responded with “it’s socially acceptable to keep looking forward so she strains her eyes to keep looking straight while the brother responded with that he didn’t give a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:45 PM
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You shouldn’t even want anything if I’m really be real. Like me and my gf the only thing I would really want from my significant other is for her to remember my B days and to reciprocate what I give. I don’t see relationships as transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 05:14 AM
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Yea I ain’t fw them either. Dude is a grifter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:01 AM
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Yea, see you even know him. Andrew tate was never a red piller he was just givin that title from a certain group of people to fit a narrative he’s just like Charlie Kirk but flexes his money and women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:59 AM
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Ams is still active he still gives advice especially about the economy and shit like that jobs etc. Just life stuff. Andrew tate was a grifter dude was more of a right wing typa guy hard to explain
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:56 AM
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That’s like the toxic side type stuff like Andrew tate and them. You should take a look at a red pilled creator named ams he represents the red pill really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:50 AM
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The red pill isn’t about women taking accountability in the first place it’s just about how to navigate in the dating environment. But nonetheless I get what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:46 AM
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The best way it would worked is if women also approach and not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:40 AM
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Being more emotional shouldn’t trigger you. It would just mean you’re more In tune with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:39 AM
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I mean the declining birth rates? Nb cares about that but billionaires. They just want more workers but on an individual level no one is pressuring women to do things like have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:38 AM
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Is funny, women aren’t special. For centuries men have to court women. And yall haven’t even evolved to still know what a good man is.how can this many centuries of men courting women and women still haven’t evolved to know what’s a good man and what’s a bad one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:32 AM
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I promise you this. You can be the most bitter person in the world and if you meet the threshold of anything women will fuck you. Y’all don’t have a sixth sense. Y’all are just as naive as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:29 AM
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It’s not a different issue. The us healthcare system is so predatory. They never actually ask what’s going on in your life they just diagnosed based off symptoms. Like giving adderall for adhd I would never take an over the counter drug for something like adhd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:27 AM
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Nice= being a doormat Notice how parent raise to never do this and that to a woman but a woman isn’t raise to not do this and that to a man Men are taught to be doormats any capacity of niceness is doormat activity and any capacity of it will be taken advantage of case in point why so many people are red pilled and black pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:23 AM
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Men are taught to be doormats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:54 PM
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Cooked that fraud
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:53 PM
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Cook him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:51 PM
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Here we go pandering again
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:50 PM
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US medicine is not trust worthy, they miss diagnose people give them meds. People take the meds and then get more mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:43 PM
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Oh my goodness. Who is pressuring women to be a wife and mother from 2000 to 2025 holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:23 PM
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Pregnancy is a value add, but then again most people don’t even want children and if the woman doesn’t want children she still has the choice to not have them cause then again she is the one carrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:11 PM
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Banger
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:24 PM
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He said women should be more empathetic not as “women should be more empathetic than men” and he said it was basic human decency to have empathy. When he said women are emotional it must have triggered something in you to ignore the rest of what he said
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:43 PM
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Because approaching is a hit or miss there is no full proof way to do it an be successful but for everyone to keep their sanity women should approach so it’s easier for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:40 PM
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Because I get on this sub everyday and when I see a flair with woman on it and they comment something 9 out of 10 times I’m looking at their comments like this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:48 PM
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His hygiene, it’s not rocket science Rebecca.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:30 PM
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You are actually so idiotic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:27 PM
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Yo fr. Women are actually so stu— erm I mean so naive to the fact that they have more social influence to the masses than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:18 PM
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Wtf men have to put more effort I would rather have it like a woman because I would know who have bareminimum attention to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:16 PM
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I can help ol boy answer it, FUCK NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:14 PM
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Please just stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:12 PM
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I think women live in a different dimension
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:09 PM
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You know damn well women don’t approach men. That’s like the most generic dating scene
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:52 PM
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Having basic human decency makes everyone feel good makes everyone feel like they’re understood His point wasn’t lacking human decency, we are in a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 05:45 PM
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Well, yea. But I’m pretty sure it’s something his wife does that she doesn’t like to do either. He just said he was unemployed so like yea. No, you’re never right you’re just an NPC that panders and follow the collective nothing you say is original
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:16 PM
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He should value his wife’s happiness, that is the individualism that is killing westher countries rn. He doesn have to follow if he doesn’t want to but that is gonna negatively impact the relationship Yes everyone has choices but you have to think about how your choice affects people. Pandering npc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:13 PM
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No, women should have that right BUUUUUT. The majority of republican voters believe that they shouldn’t it’s really unfortunate but women would have to wait until it gets rolled back for rn gotta wear protection
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:10 PM
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It’s because she did something kind for him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:08 PM
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So ur telling me prince was slaying women in dresses and painted nails? Yea bro you don’t even believe that nonsense as a man you should know this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:08 PM
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It’s up to him To find what’s more important but, it doesn’t change the fact that unhappy wife=unhappy relationship = breakup/divorce And u also a pandering bot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:07 PM
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If he was tasked with taking the trash out and he just stop and made his wife or gf do it, she will not be happy. Women don’t even like doing dirty work and as a man with all of your women friends you should know this cmon bro your pandering is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:54 PM
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He forsure was, but the op isn’t prince. If I was rich and famous and handsome as shit I would wear dresses everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:51 PM
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You can’t be fuckin serious lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:50 PM
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Lilith I fw u because atleast you give your opinion and stand ten toes behind it 💯💯 #realnga
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:45 PM
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He actually wants to get bitches bro
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:40 PM
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Yea, the was voted on by women and men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:39 PM
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Bro that’s not even like realistic. And you know this. Every time I see u you’re in the comments like mr captain save a hoe for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:38 PM
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Erm ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:35 PM
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Like 2 and 3 I don’t know how to directly answer it like some people want kids some people don’t but if they do want kids they have to make sure their kids have the best future being average doesn’t help ig??? 3) it’s really how it is the only thing that I could say was maybe how women were nurtured and a little bit of just instinctual things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:39 PM
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1)Because they just don’t if you had to choose between 5’5 guy good looks, has good carisma, and he checked off all your boxes And a guy that taller than him is exactly like him good looks, charisma, checks off all your boxes you will pick the taller guy cause he has an advantage. 2) not sure 3) because that’s just how it is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:05 PM
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This true, but most guys like that can’t keep a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:51 PM
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That’s what his post said buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:42 PM
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She is I think talking about a post I made, and I never even said women shouldn’t in my first paragraph I acknowledge that women should be concerned for their saftey and now I got abunch of drama queens in my comments about how they get stalked 24/7 and harassed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:31 PM
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I believe that anyone especially women should be concerned for their safety especially being that they aren’t built like men to atleast fight back but if your fear is constant then it’s delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:23 PM
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The water you drink and the car you drive all are risk to your health it just takes 1 person to mess up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:06 PM
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Nah, what you just said is normal everyone should be scared to walk anywhere where it’s shady but if you live in the west and you live in a good area and ur choosing a bear over a man then that’s a issue you have deep within
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:45 PM
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That’s a simple yes or no answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:40 PM
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Women don’t have to join gangs because of the dynamic with men and women. Women can date a man with money or go for men with money to help fund her lifestyle. And originally gangs weren’t even made for unreasonable violence they were originally made to protect neighborhoods and I think women are less likey to join one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:35 PM
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No it still can be random if a women is with a bunch of women ofc it’s a no brainer that a woman gets a attacked But if a man if out with other women or even with other men he will always be attacked because he poses a bigger threat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:18 PM
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Here comes the exaggeration , there is not enough please stop saying that ds.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:15 PM
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Those things don’t happen everyday 24/7 to the point you fearmonger other women lol it happens you should keep yourself safe but the chance of a guy coming up to assult you or rape you are not high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:11 PM
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That’s my point tho, like them calling men unpredictable, and a bear predictable is actually so fucking laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:06 PM
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There is many reason why peoole rob and it’s mainly because of poverty or lack of support systems. Many men drink to cope and also bars have been losing revenue since covid so no one has been going to bars like that in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:02 PM
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So how do men influence other men to become violent? Via gangs? Even outside of gangs men still are more likely to face the threat of violence are you not seeing the point or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:00 PM
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Because your point doesn’t even make sense First one duhh it’s a group of women Second one uh well obviously but he still would be the primary target because he poses more of a threat than you Third one that’s literally for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:54 PM
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I don’t think that’s the case, because women are less likely to suffer from random acts of violence
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:50 PM
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For sure harassment happens to women but the examples you are using are way too extreme and just overtly creepy. You literally proved my point in this post that men are still more likely to face violence on a daily basis even if he hasn’t thrown a punch. And also you implied that every woman is hunted many times but it’s too statically unlikely for it to be true in an absolute sense. And then you tired to frame the situation as women facing them every day when they don’t. no I don’t want a drink…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:23 PM
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I just told you it can be a multitude of things it’s not always men forcing other men joining gangs and stuff is optional depending on where you live
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:40 PM
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Yea you know what’s best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:27 AM
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Being safer than an animal is always good what are you even talking about? It’s not even a meme women genuinely feels that way see now you’re trying to dismiss the argument and try to call my standpoint a straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:18 AM
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How in that actual fuck is that zero accountability? Are you saying that every man influences society and women have no say in what is masculine or what is not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:13 AM
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It’s because it was so popular around the time and it was just massive negative feedback on how women felt about men. Yes men are safer than a bear that’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:13 AM
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How is that avoiding accountability? That’s just the straight truth if you are more likely to face violence you are more likely to participate in it. Being in a gang or mafia isn’t a good thing but many join because the money, they have no family or friends, or they were forced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:10 AM
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The real issues women have rn are systemic especially with our current sitting president
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:06 AM
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Yea that’s how that works, sometimes men are forced to do violent things like join gangs because their families are dirt poor it’s just like mafias and cartels. But that just how the world works if you are more likely to suffer violence you are likely to participate in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:05 AM
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No that just means that feeling safer with a bear means that your fear of rape is irrational and random man won’t come and rape you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:03 AM
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Rape is more likely to happen from a person a woman knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:00 AM
1

No one has that luxury unless they got a gun or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:58 AM
1

He’s saying that being Beyesian is more rational which it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:51 AM
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Men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:48 AM
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They want to be in forest with a bear cause it makes them feel more safe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:48 AM
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They definitely do they would rather be in the forest with a bear than a human man that’s enough exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:46 AM
2

Rape was never the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:44 AM
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Back then women had real issue to be fair, now they are complaining about being scared to walk out at night when that is a fear everyone has and then the fact is rapist are more likely to be peoole you know than you don’t know that’s the insane part men are still more likely to face random acts of violence vs women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:41 AM
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It’s more rational
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:28 AM
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This is actually cope The first point well no fucking shit it’s all women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:26 AM
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No, I never was arguing that women underreport more than men. I was saying that in his sorce it says and I quote “rape tends to go 64% underreported” but when I look at the perctile each gender is reporting rape it’s still women reporting more, what I was saying was that in both of your sources it doesn’t directly says that women underreport it says that rape in itself is an underreported crime and I can have trouble articulating sometimes because I have ADHD my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:23 AM
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Yes I would rather be robbed and murdered than robbed, raped and murdered
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:17 AM
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Women could also be violent if they were socialized like men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:16 AM
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The last part is true, I am always willing to fight for my girl, it’s just that when women say we don’t understand the fear of being threatened it’s empathetic at most especially being that fact that if you got jumped you would be beaten to a pulp and the only thing your gf could do is yell and scream to get them off you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:15 AM
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Women aren’t blamed for being raped ever. You would maybe see weirdos online so it be like never when it comes to a woman you know or just in general. Stranger danger still exist for tfym?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:12 AM
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The man vs bear trend showed me that what ur saying is bs even if we argued to epathize with women on safety they still didn’t empathize with us. On no level a women has ever empathized with a man but we do understand that they need to be protected that’s why men were given the role as the protector. I’m not bringing this up as a gacha more so that everyone fears for their safety but some over exaggerate their fears
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:06 AM
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It’s definitely not the same now, only because guys will always be taught to be protectors like that is going to be a never ending cycle where as women speaking out about rape isn’t them challenging social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:00 AM
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It’s not for you to understand then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:59 AM
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I apologize if I’m missing something, but those things you linked and what the person linked above are saying the same thing that rape in general is a underreported crime among men and women. The top one you linked was an abstract talking about why women don’t report rape or why it’s harder for them to report rape. That doesn’t really prove that they under report it when rape as a crime within itself is under reported
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:11 AM
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What’s funny is I just explain why men can’t be vocal about their saftey issue and it’s because their places in society or their role as a man. But peoole instantly took it as me downplaying women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:03 AM
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Wait how am I arguing in bad faith because u said that women underreported I genuinely don’t see anything about underreporting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:49 AM
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I read it, and it says that rape in itself is a underreported crime in general like 64%. I don’t see anything that supports what you’re saying <image> That’s shows that men underreported in each category
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:28 AM
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First 1 is true but I don’t think men as a collectibe hold it up because there was also Republican women that voted against kamala That’s definitely not because of the patriarchy That’s just nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:19 AM
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That’s the thing honestly I would rather be robbed and murdered but if you are a guy that reality doesn’t change weather you have a gf or not. Not the same for a woman she wants her man to investigate that noise she wants him to protect her. So she get protection automatically by having a bf but for the man it’s more you risk for <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:17 AM
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How in tf did men maintain the patriarchy when women can vote, work, and own their own property
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:12 AM
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Oh forsure but the defund the police movement came to be because a lot of officers were killing civilians without them being immediate threats and getting a paid vacation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:06 AM
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Nah protesting won’t fix it, mainly because of our roles in society like I explained
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:05 AM
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Could you link it so I would read it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:02 AM
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I think it’s. Mixture of both because a user in the sub brought up homicides between men and women to point out the fact that men are dangerous and are killing women or something along those lines, I think they are extremely valid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:59 PM
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Nah I don’t agree with this, a police shouldn’t be able to kill a civilian and still get a paid trip unless that civilian was an immediate threat but that is out of bounds of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:56 PM
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A lot of men online are still men in real life,so ur trying to say my unfounded fear is being the target of violence? And about the personal story’s part you don’t even need to be a Man to know that in any scenario where violence is happening and a woman and a man is present the man is more likely to face violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:54 PM
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No one told women to calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:49 PM
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This is a good point, I should have just been more specific in the west not saying they shouldn’t fear for their safety
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:47 PM
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Feminist already think that a lot of what men go through is self inflicted you say anything about the patriarchy their first idiotic respond is “whuu mayde dat system”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:46 PM
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Those things you named are things that can happen to any human it’s not just a men doing to women thing. Anything that’s advocation for men is instantly shutdown because they already think men have a leg up in the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:44 PM
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Yea I’m ANY situation where a man is involved he is more likely to be targeted if he is walking a dog walking with family anything whereas a woman’s real danger is just being alone or not being in a crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:40 PM
1

God damn this is so true in a way especially the last part
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:42 PM
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Why everytime a man says this the first thing women bring up is men wanting sex in a ROMANTIC relationship. Like it’s still conditional love but at the same time that is all a guy would need to stay happy with a woman. We can’t say the same for women you stop buying her flowers she loses a spark. You stop doing dumb small things she loses interest in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:02 AM
1

Could you name a misandrist policy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/25 05:46 PM
1

Red pill isn’t even that main stream and even if it was half of the stuff you say that the red pill says it’s not. Like I would suggest you to look at red pill creators
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:31 PM
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It might be but I think it’s more so women feels these things but don’t actually voice it to the real world. I would also assume that some people in this sub are in good relationships and love to talk about stuff like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:29 PM
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other women’s experience is apart of what the world is Wouldn’t this also apply to this situation where men atleast know 1 woman who has been in an abusive relationship even if they didn’t even know the woman personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:27 PM
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No disrespect but your comment has nothing to do with what i said it’s more proof than just beyond hookups and situationships. That one trend going around called “who did I marry episode {insert number}” and they would list something toxic and abusive about their relationship. and the very last paragraph confirmed something I have been thinking about for a while, and it’s that women have lived experiences through other women instead of actually seeing the world for what it is. But you can ignore…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:50 PM
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This is undeniably true women are like the main primary parents and they care more me personally I haven’t seen my mom take on all the house hold chores by herself but I know people with that dynamic where the woman would keep up with everything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:23 PM
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Because a lot of them use the internet as their diary and complain about men being bad as a whole or men not being good partners, and the top comment would Always be “they lack empathy blah blah blah all they want is sex {100klikes}”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:10 PM
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I don’t think she even know what the red pill is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 06:08 PM
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Now you’re just talking out of your ass, personality alone can not keep you in a situationship/Fwb. that’s pure attraction and sexual attraction. I mean getting a second date is cool and all but that would still fall under LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:32 PM
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Most guys become black pilled because they lived the reality not because someone other guy said it. Like ur point was “most average people are dating” most ugly people are also dating them what? It’s a mute point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:29 PM
2

But idk I don’t think that is just made up like the video you linked is an exact scenario of the situation the guy is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 10:21 PM
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What he said was reality tho like all the events lined up even in the video where she said she didn’t even feel romantic attraction towards him and he thought he hated her I don’t really know what else to say other than it seems accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:29 PM
2

Personality doesn’t matter only matters in LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:19 PM
1

This is fax, I was lucky to be tall and fat I feel bad for most guys that work so hard and still have to be treated a tiny percentile better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:15 PM
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You didn’t even answer the question
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 06:07 PM
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Yea in my opinion I think that was the worst because it was a test conducted on kids and kids won’t just lie for the fuck of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:24 AM
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You have to play the cards you’re delt but attraction isn’t negotiable even if you dress well if you are just naturally bad looking naturally you won’t get no women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:08 AM
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Jesus Christ that video was brutal. When she compared the short dude to a serial killer was diabolical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:04 AM
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True even when you look better it still effects me to this day I know that everyone around me are only temporary until I get fat as shit again
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:53 PM
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Please tell me what i didn’t comprehend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:34 AM
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I’m not getting at what you’re trying to hint at, like the tea app was alright ig it’s just that a lot of what was going on in the app wasn’t productive and it was on the internet for billions of women to see vs barbershop talk that rarely ever happens and if it did it was always surface level
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:32 AM
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Bro you definitely don’t hate it just be real with everyone here so they don’t have to waste their time with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:46 PM
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The only one I can really think of is a barber shop where they talk about women but now we don’t have that because we have to schedule appointments with barbers now. But back on topic even when the barbershop was the place men used to never talk about women in that type of way like sexual wise they would maybe crack a sexual joke but most of the time it was like “hey do you still mess with [insert name]” other guy replies “nah man I don’t we broke up because we had issue” but they would never go…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:42 PM
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I agree not because I’m a man but because I have experienced being ugly and attractive when you’re uglier it’s harder for you to make friends because you don’t bring value to any friend group but being the butt of all jokes especially at a younger age and being a man the world just dumps all their hate on to you because you’re expected to take it. That might sound a little cringe but hopefully you get what I mean but until I hit a growth spurt and lost a lot of weight I looked better and gained …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:09 PM
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Haha fax.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:29 PM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 04:27 PM
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I agree I have met far more women that is willing to make their own decisions and lead
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 02:38 PM
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HAHHAHAHHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:56 PM
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How easy do you think it is? Like just give me a comparison or an example so I know if I should continue going or not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:52 PM
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I agree with you and the other guy I believe even if it’s socially acceptable for women to have a broader range of relationships women do a better job of keeping up with them. Men could have friends but not contact them for months or years and randomly call one day and check on them that’s not a good way to keep a connection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:36 PM
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Bro so true you literally put my thoughts and ideas into words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:24 PM
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Honestly just being desired sexually could still open doors for a romantic relationship And to the last one there are some men like that, that are promiscuous so that’s not a lie but it’s not as many as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:12 PM
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This is probably anecdotal but I live around all women and they get attention to put it in perspective a normal guy could go months or a year without a woman hitting on him but a lady would atleast get hit on twice a month and that’s just the bare bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:29 PM
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If approaching works for you then it works but for some it doesn’t my gf of 3 years I had to approach her she gave me choosing signals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:25 PM
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Water isn’t wet, water is a liquid that can get things wet
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:05 PM
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Cause getting to know someone takes longer especially if they never had interest in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:05 PM
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I’m not shaming no one please go back and read what I said. Even if that were true the opposite is the same stop shaming men that’s emotionally embarrassing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 11:50 PM
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And i didn’t say you had to be with someone like that but most women think men venting to them about their life or relationships is them being a Therapist to their man or being a mommy when women do the same thing. That’s not right at all and I’m just not gonna address it because you already got your mind made up
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:51 PM
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I’m with my gf and she complains a lot it just comes with being a part of a relationship I would never feel like her venting to me is me being her daddy or a therapist. And for the most part the red pill doesn’t ignore shittt husbands it give you advice on how to be better and/or how to navigate the current dating advice sure it’s some toxic ones but it’s not all of the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:28 PM
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Idk I have seen other ladies tell their friends that they are not their bfs therapist and they’re not his momma when the guy wants to vent about something in the relationship or something he is struggling with so I don’t think that men are going to easily believe what comes out another man’s mouth unless he himself experienced it atleast once or twice and I know this is off topic but I’ve known more ladies to have more biases towards each other or in general when it comes to sharing experiences …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:54 PM
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whenever a guy breaks the touch barrier first day meeting you or second day it should take about 4 days To a week for him to break the touch barrier sometimes asking is ok and his first time breaking it, he has to be like “are you fine with me holding your hands? Putting my arms around you? Hugging you?” Just stuff like that. Because most guys that are like that always have a grey area when it comes to consensual issues or have problems with they girl saying no
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:38 AM
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I actually agree with this and people may think I’m a dick for this but I think women Sa cases are the worse because they get penetrated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:29 PM
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No offense to you this is a great explanation I promise but, he’s not comparing emotional vulnerability to weaknesses that’s just how it is and how our brains are wired
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:58 PM
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I have only met one person in my entire life that fits this criteria of the 100K a year but they are old, fat and married and he met his gf when they were in high school or middle school. I wouldn’t doubt you could find someone like that but if they are making that much at such a young age I highly doubt they are looking for anything serious or long term
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:48 PM
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I have only met one person in my entire life that fits this criteria of the 100K a year but they are old, fat and married and he met his gf when they were in high school or middle school. I wouldn’t doubt you could find someone like that but if they are making that much at such a young age I highly doubt they are looking for anything serious or long term
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 03:47 PM
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Most guys don’t become pilled just from words they live the experience,
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 11:17 PM
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It’s nothing wrong with being jealous or insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:23 PM
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Yea they needed it back then for survival but now it’s an inconvenience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:12 PM
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Halo effect, I lived that life I used to be fat and unattractive then I lost weight and became attractive and dating became easier you’re probably like “duhh you lost weight blah blah blah” but the dis heartening part was that, that was the only thing that changed about me so when ever I see post like these blaming men for not being successful in dating it could genuinely be something the man isn’t doing but regardless of that it’s almost always because he doesn’t meet the looks threshold these …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 03:09 PM
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Imo I think both would give me the ick but if I had to choose A) would give me the type of ick that would make me lose feelings and wanna break up B) would give me the type of ick where it’s like “you fucked 10 people??!!” But she was dating and it wouldn’t be that big of a deal depending on her Age but to answer you question probably A
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:09 PM
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That conversation you’re bringing up is surface level critical race theory it’s not mind blowing or confusing to have that conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:30 AM
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It definitely does exist, it’s just that the term is indirectly used for women but directly used for men. I think that men and women of my community are equally coddled but it’s not acceptable for men to fit the role of the “coddled”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:28 AM
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I don’t date white women. My current girlfriend is the same color as me I am open to have this discussion because statistically black fathers are more likey to stay in their children’s lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:23 AM
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I agree with you This is how I viewed both of them just from a human to human perspective instead of a man vs woman. I think that they are both the same thing and that ultimately it’s acceptable to do it with your daughters but not moms to do it with their sons. Sometimes I think the “toxic masculinity” starts within and not something that is “learned” if you get what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:36 PM
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I honestly don’t think men are still pushing narrow masculinity in 2025 atleast the few men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:32 PM
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No man looks for a child in a woman I’m sorry that’s just very weird. Maybe a woman dependent upon him but I also think that everyone as humans want someone to depend on them weather it be emotionally and physically that’s why I think trying to divide the 2 like is different is nonsense in a way if you get what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:15 PM
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But that really wasn’t the case for me, would you agree that being a mommas boy and dadddies girl are the same minus the mom controlling their sons? And also your last paragraph u said that dudes expect their woman to be like their mom but the same is true for women though is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:07 PM
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Hell no. And this is for both genders bruh. When you are hooking up with a lot of people you’re subconsciously hardwiring your brain to get used to that. Not only will a LTR expose people like that but it will literally starve them of hooking up every night or every other night. Of course there are outliers to this rule but in a general sense he eventually is gonna crack because of his past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:11 PM
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I don’t even think it’s that though because my high school years I had a lot of hobbies but I still gamed a lot and got 🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:06 PM
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Honestly when you think about it both men women, dog, cat, bear, wolf etc can be providers when you really fuck with someone giving them money would be the least of your problems just on a humane level
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:54 PM
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It’s in the title
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:50 PM
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I know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:03 PM
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That’s what I’m saying smart ass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:02 PM
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Bro I’m sorry but once I read the first paragraph i didn’t even read the rest cause you BSin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:01 PM
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Trumps campaign was worse. There should be no reason why he got elected other than the divide between men and women nothing change except the gender of the person running against trump And your second paragraph is trying to imply something I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:59 PM
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Make it make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:40 PM
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Nearly half of white women*. Idk if your second statement is as accurate as you say because a woman still would have been elected, Biden won in a landslide against trump. What changed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:37 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:33 PM
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I don’t think that is true to any extent because trump wouldn’t have gotten elected and the red pill wouldn’t be any popular
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:31 PM
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No explanation connecting them actually read fkn post mn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:30 PM
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If they were safe spaces I would have specified that. If you can’t see the connection then maybe you really have bad reading comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:25 PM
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What are u not understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:03 PM
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You talking to your friends that are girls are fine I’m not really arguing against that. And also I’m not arguing against people to accommodate the opposite gender, but I am arguing that both outlets or groups for women or men are not uniquely different. It’s just that fact that I think that men and women should find a common ground within their ideological Framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:06 PM
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Yes, I ultimately see what you’re saying but I think attraction is nonnegotiable when you have two partners that desire each other to a full degree then the relationship will prosper and will always keep that spark if you feel what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:52 PM
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I actually agree with you on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 01:45 PM
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Shit make life livable again. And lock up jamaicans
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:19 AM
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Fuck all the pills and fuck the rich
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:30 AM
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Women are actually wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 02:24 AM
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The fact that all of those people are the minority in this country shows that you are only using a minority subset of people. Because if that was the case we would have an equal amount of autistic kids or deformed kids born I don’t even think you believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:52 PM
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Well the reality is if you were born genetically inferior you would know how to increase your appeal I don’t believe that anyone can just become attractive. That fact that you had to change everything about yourself shows you that you have to overcompensate just to date vs someone who doesn’t need to do anything but keep themselves clean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:11 PM
2

How does 2 tell women it’s not their fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 12:05 PM
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you purposely acting ignorant like the women in this subreddit. Yea he praticed DUH but he is what happens when talent works hard how many nba players went to the nba straight outta hight school you would probably need to count on your fingers. No one is saying self improvement is bad but if you need to self improvement and find millions of hobbies then you’re over compensating because it’s not naturally coming to you. And even if those men were idrc because I don’t have to overcompensate to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:26 AM
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You would but you wouldn’t be Steph that’s the thing Steph is what happens when talent works hard just like lebron. Lebron went to the nba right out of high school. Ur not getting it, you can self improve that’s what I said but you still have to play with the cards ur delt with my guy. Perfect person would be Isiah Thomas amazing basketball player but didn’t have the genetics to stay in the league
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:17 AM
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So how come Stephen curry can just drain 3s all day and have the most made 3s in the nba. To remind you now if you don’t watch the nba it hasn’t been a player like curry in decades. That in itself is talent That’s relevant because if you already have stepping stones good genetics to look better all you have to do is do the bare minimum vs someone that has to over compensate more if you have to get 10 million hobbies to get one date then it’s obvious that the hobbies aren’t the solution
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:23 PM
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Yea, if you are naturally gifted at something working hard will naturally make you better at. Look at lebron for example he is a crazy athlete he is damn near 7 foot and move better than my 43 year old dad. He was genetically gifted. But if we took someone else that was not as gifted as him and make him work hard to make it to the nba he wouldn’t do as good as lebron
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:17 PM
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You can’t even explain how attractions works… you gave a definition cherry picked a sentence out the definition. If i didn’t understand attraction I still wouldn’t after this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:11 PM
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Well yea it’s about men’s worth we live in a society where is was founded on social class, status etc and men being in power so yea
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 11:08 PM
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Yea, because they are the best of the best
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:34 PM
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You would have to be extremely lazy to even fuck that up. Me being born black and talk and fit was luck and for me to reach my lowest I would have to try my hardest to be lazy as shit and eat all day and just not socialize
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 09:30 PM
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Somewhat i think that your criteria would be what you were raised around and genetic/primal. Like a black or white person that has lived around black or white people their entire lives would more than likely date within their race but the criteria that the person has to meet would be a mixture of genetic traits and other external factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:31 PM
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I mean yea u have to accept it If none of the advice is working then you’re just undesirable 2) if you are only in situationships 24/7 you’re only seen as a sexual relationship and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:25 PM
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I dont online date but we all know if hobbies worked people would stop asking for advice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:23 PM
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That’s how attrition works but I also explained that having hobbies and doing things can increase your appeal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:21 PM
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Ok, so if I am wrong please correct my ignorance mind you now that is data from US census bureau
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:20 PM
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I mean if you want hobbies ur entitled to it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:18 PM
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It’s not though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:17 PM
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This is funny because even if the range didn’t start from 15 do you still think marriage rates would increase?😭 It’s means that people aren’t marrying for starters ms bear woman. And people aren’t getting into relationships either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:16 PM
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1) the comparison didn’t make any sense to me 2) I’m not believing what black pilled people say I’m saying that women and men won’t date anyone with a past that they are uncomfortable with if you don’t agree then idk what to tell you 3) how am I embarrassing myself you made the fucking sports analogy with hooking which made no sense at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:13 PM
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1) that’s debatable 2) 50/50 I think if most men had options they would most likely pick the woman that fits their criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 05:08 PM
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https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2023/07/marriage-divorce-rates.html This article explains marrage and divorce rates declining and it explains why
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:59 PM
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1) men would know because men have to actually try to attract women how tf you think it works? Do you think that most toxic red pill advice fall from the fkn sky??😭😭 2) and that’s fine but don’t complain if that’s all you’re getting
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:55 PM
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I have a hard time believing that because most people aren’t getting married or having sex nowadays maybe u did it but I don’t think the general population is doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:49 PM
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1) being a pro athlete is pure luck pro athletes are only 1% of the top percentage if that’s not luck idk What is I don’t think it’s applicable to hookin up 2) no one told me that just in general men won’t date a woman with a past like women won’t date a man with a past agree? 3) most people say shit on the internet that they really wanna say IRL that’s why a lot of people have secret animosity for each other everyone is hearing shitty opinions and they are seeing a lot of people agree at some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:46 PM
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you just are lol Yea Yk me ms bear woman 😭😭 most people have to figure out if they are sexually compatible (the rest is bs) You can firgure out sexual compatability when you enter a relationship no one’s saying you can’t do it before you establish being in a relationship but doing that will only put you in position to keep you in situation ships. I have had 3 LTRs and I have hooked up before and currently I am in another LTR and each one of those hookups or situationships always started with sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:41 PM
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This is a lie men find more women attractive than women find men attractive you would have to be delusional to believe the opposite is true. Nah that 3rd paragraph got me dying dude said a wife beater and a chain 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:32 PM
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1) hobbies make men more appealing not attractive, they increase more opportunities but the common denominator is that you have to be desirable this advice would only work for a man that is anti social and stays home all day. 2) you’re entitled to that but if that is all your relationships then that’s all men will see you as
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:30 PM
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1) so me saying that “if most people could hookup they would I wouldn’t doubt a small percentage wouldn’t” means I’m sexually inexperienced that makes no sense at all lmaoo 2) umm yes they do see you are doing exactly what my post says when you have sex early on before establishing a relationship you are already putting yourself in a position to be in a situationship most normal relationships don’t start off on sex but more so on friendship and shared interest. You are exactly the woman I’m talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:26 PM
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That didn’t explain anything but gave me a definition, because you said it’s not just appearance how would you know if you are attracted to someone if you are blind folded?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:21 PM
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1) outside the club of what? Exactly 2) most relationships start out as FRIENDS. Not friends with benefits being friends with benefits means that your are already establishing a boundary of not being nothing more than that so I would believe that is just false
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:19 PM
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Where did I even say I was against hobbies? Idk if you can comprehend but the harsh truth isn’t don’t get a hobby it’s just that hobby advice doesn’t help
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:15 PM
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1) not applicable being that being a college athlete or a beauty Padgeant queen is pure luck. The fact really is most people would participate in hooking up if they could and that’s not saying that most people wouldn’t. 2) she definitely can but more than likely she would be setting especially if the guy isn’t comfortable with her past. Just like how women are also obligated to not date a man on his past. 3) I’m not listening to pill poppers, I’m not even pilled it’s just a fact when you actuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:15 PM
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1) most guys will ask for advice on how to attract women, get laid, to get in LTR’s etc and most people will say get a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:07 PM
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1) Even if I use the word some most women don’t even find men desirable in the first place 2) there is a reason for everything it’s not just bs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:05 PM
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1) No, I’m not looking for a fix being that I am in a relationship but social skills could be an attribute to you being undesirable but you would need someone to approach you to even find that out. If someone is not attracted to you they are not approaching you. 2) I agree for the most part but it’s counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:02 PM
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So how would you know if you are attracted to someone, could you explain to me like I’m not even human?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:59 PM
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No ones aginst ts you arguing with ghost
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 PM
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Exactly and it’s infuriating to read women complaining about men not reading social ques but they constantly are always in situation ships
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 PM
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1) yea because most people can’t I wouldn’t doubt a small percentage wouldn’t but if most people could they would. But what about men that struggle with relationships besides hookups? 2) without a doubt that’s true but if you’re always find yourself in one then you are only sexually desired 3) a confession of ignorance that makes no sense you only addressed hooking up and situationships not working out And you say don’t listen to losers on the internet and I see what conclusions you’re trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:50 PM
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Who against men gettin hobbies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:47 PM
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It’s literally not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:41 PM
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I mean, you cited the data and I’m just drawing conclusions from it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:38 PM
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Older people being married if we are going off your data. Assuming because you didn’t use any recent data most new generation of men aren’t getting married or having hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:15 PM
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Nah, men date yall so most men would know what attracts y’all in a general sense most men don’t listen to women because y’all attract the opposite of what y’all want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:35 AM
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The patriarchy and society were the friends we made along the way
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:24 PM
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Even if I don’t object to it your data still only shows that most men still aren’t doing what u said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:19 PM
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I mean you put the data not me find better data…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:16 PM
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You’re blue pilled, you were wrong from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:15 PM
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If you look bad you will just overall be treated bad. Especially if you are a bad looking minority person. That’s why most black pilled people are minorities and become doomers because when people perceive you as ugly they will always reveal their raw true self to you because you’re ugly and they don’t need to hide anything from you. Most people become socially aware to this and most don’t but when you do become socially aware to it it’s harder to stay away from any of their ideologies and think…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 08:15 PM
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That data is outdated, even if we were to accept that data that just means the people before us are married
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:58 PM
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It’s infuriating reading the bullshit most women post on this sub because most of yall arguments are literally just deciding to treat men like human or like trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:56 PM
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Without a doubt, but I know your are smarter than what you let on. Every man knows women experience rejection but not as often as men because men have to read minds make moves and read “vibes”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:54 PM
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Nothing as In not approach, especially if he is ugly. The guy explained it correctly men don’t have agency unless they meet certain requirements. Women don’t have to worry about getting rejected as much because more men are attracted to women than women are to men. A woman’s agency is damn near guaranteed especially if she is just mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:53 PM
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What realistically is a real man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:27 PM
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That’s most women they narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 07:25 PM
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I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 09:50 PM
2

The type of porn where it’s like 10 black dudes and one small white lady and the black guys are like 15 inches long, or scat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:53 AM
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I didn’t struggle making friends either but in a general sense gen Z is the only generation of people that will know you SEE you in public and not talk to you for some odd reason even if they do know you. Everyone has popular loner syndrome if you asked my mom the same thing my mom would say exactly what you are saying but my mom didn’t know the struggle of actually trying to decipher who is actually your friend these days every man/woman wants to be the most spoken to or talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:54 PM
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But do you talk to them about their experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:07 PM
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BROOO FR, I feel like genZ and gen alpha have no sense of community no more.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 10:06 PM
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No op not lying my anecdotal experience doesn’t mean much but I am in college and people are hella antisocial like to the max, it can be a social event a party or whatever. This is how it looks women are all grouped together and men are all grouped together no one talks to no one nowadays. It’s like men and women are purposely avoiding each other
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 09:53 PM
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Look at the sisterhood
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:38 PM
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Honestly if you aren’t comfortable with his past you aren’t obligated to stay with him. And to answer your questions Anyone can cheat high body count or not but if he participated in hook up culture it’s probably a good chance he isn’t gonna be faithful data shows this and also because you pick up bad habits from hooking up. Depends Yes He better say no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:38 PM
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I do think child baring is an attribute to the wage disparity but also because of hypergamy, if women aren’t having kids early it still doesn’t change the fact that men still earn more in relationships, not bashing your experiences but you and your friends are 1% of what I’m talking about. The pressure of having kids are non existent even if you do have one I wouldn’t doubt the pressure of having one and taking care of it but men are not traditional anymore so they are willing to accept not havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:51 AM
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Yea but I’m in college and women think that the patriarchy is stopping them from making money I know why you didn’t have to explain but it’s counterproductive. There should be no reason why women still have the choice to choose when they want kids and choose where to work but in dual income house holds men still make more. How can you be pressured to be a mom when you already don’t want kids? Just in a general sense because birthdates are declining
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:02 PM
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Ok then why do women complain about the pay disparities? And that’s not even factoring in women that don’t have kids still choosing these jobs. And earlier you said that women are faced with the pressures of having kids when I doubt that is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:16 PM
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I mean yea that’s true but, that still doesn’t change the fact that most women aren’t choosing jobs to make money. I don’t think women are faced with the pressure of having kids because economic factors (in this time frame)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:08 PM
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I mean it doesn’t really change anything when birth rates are declining and women are still choosing jobs for child baring they still can make as much as men but they ain’t grinding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:57 PM
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I actually agree women nowadays don’t mind being the head earners but then they start to be disrespectful to their bfs and over step boundaries because they are the head earners
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:35 PM
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Every undesirable man has to swallow a very hard pill and it’s that women aren’t gonna always choose you. That’s why so many men disdain women if it was easy for everyone no one would be mad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 09:35 PM
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Drop your link
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 12:50 AM
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I would argue that men are in more positions of power to make money but overall because of the equal pay act of 1946 I don’t see a man working the same job as a woman and making more, but beside that someone is lying about gender roles and what they want that’s all I got to say because even in the pay disparities men still make more..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:58 AM
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I mean idk according to the bureau of labor statistics in dual income households men are still the breadwinners. My woman is a feminist at heart and is kind and caring and my mom those are genuinely the only 2 people I know that don’t believe in gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:32 AM
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As in feminism for dismantling gender roles, it’s not just conservatives liberal women also want a trad men they just aren’t as vocal as anti feminists. I’m liberal myself but most liberal women still perpetuate the expectation of those roles. Even if you are not affiliated in anything they are still enforced
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:23 AM
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Yea for sure it didn’t, but women perpetuate the idea on a constant basis even while identifying as feminist, yall didn’t do a good job on deconstructing gender roles…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:12 AM
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Yea because women perpetuate it my dad nor uncles never said anything about providing or protecting unless it came from a woman’s mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:01 AM
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Yea, ofc my grandpa gonna talk about that cause women didn’t work back then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:58 AM
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Welp seems like my mom’s help wasn’t enough cause no one can walk outside at night can we?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:44 AM
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I’m a man myself and no man has ever considered themselfs that outside of their feminist wives or girlfriends calling them that. Most men that perpetuate the idea of providing are way older men that lived in a very different economy. The only people I see talking about providing and protecting is literally women in every space “get you a provider and protecter to heal your inner child” bs all you have to do is do the bare minimum of acknowledging men’s problems then maybe more men would give a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:42 AM
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Facts man talk yo talk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:31 AM
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I’m a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:26 AM
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You missin the whole point, when you label someone as a provider and protector you are automatically imposing something on someone without considering their individuality and you treat them as such, so then men just don’t give a fuck and start committing crimes and not giving a fuck about no one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:22 AM
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Yea more providers and protectors lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:07 AM
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“Men can do it” 1 week later makes a post on ppd saying “WhY iZ dUh rEd PeEL so PopUlAr?”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:05 AM
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Yep men are incapable why hasn’t feminism done anything men still being over worked, still more likely to commit suicide, more likely to suffer depression. Where is feminism at man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:01 AM
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then watch out for men Every man has to don’t know what world you living in. Feminism was created for the equality of women but they also fought for men’s problems too what makes this problem different now? women are more agreeable anyway why can’t they use that power to also help men? It’s obvious because y’all don’t give a fuck Yea I think women also have the capacity to be good at those things and I wouldn’t care who our leader is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:57 AM
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Ok then the patriarc gonna patriarc lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:47 AM
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Acknowledge their problems and stop labeling them as protectors and providers, quite literally doing that will maybe solve the problem to why men face violence, or being more likely to commit petty crimes. If nobody gives af about them why should they give af about other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:41 AM
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It was, I thought feminism was here to take down the patriarchy and help men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:35 AM
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Because feminism was supposed to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:32 AM
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Its situations where 1) a man could be deceiving a woman and really is a shity person And 2) men shows signs of being terrible and/or is blatant with the disrespect and women still make exceptions because of what he looks like Most Red pilled and black pilled men refer to number 2 how many women you know got into situationships with men they obviously knew were bad for them. The frustration comes in where women say they know what men intentions are from first approach but bash men for being tras…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:35 PM
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providing I’ve never heard a man call himself that but I hear more women say they want providers more than men call themselves that. Your point is valid if we both working why would you need someone to provide for you unless you are deciding to be a stay at home mom protecting They are protecting women from any type of harm and from who you ask from anyone with any intentions to hurt you physically or mentally. Look at your family members most of the men in your family has to deal with the press…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:17 PM
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Man fuck them, niggas on Reddit always on sum argumentative fuck shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 01:17 AM
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Nah fr tho, like in my objective opinion being black changes the whole realm of lookism and how people perceive you and dating. That’s why I be thinking red pill advice varies depending on race like I used to be red pilled but ain’t fw Andrew tate if you feel what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:58 AM
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Bro black people from my lives experiences are theee worst when it comes to shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:02 PM
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This is true I live a privileged life to be able to hook up and it effects women way more on a whole different level. Don’t get me wrong I think hooking up negatively effects everyone, but more so most of the women involved because most women get their ego, or their perceived desirability from being able to keep a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:54 PM
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LMFAOOO🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 08:42 PM
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Yoo lillth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:28 PM
1

This question is so so…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 09:21 PM
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Prolly cause your friends were born in the 1800s they prolly don’t know about the internet at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:14 AM
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What do you think “social” on social media stands for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:23 AM
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Wordddddd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:05 PM
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I’m your number 1 fan please notice me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:03 PM
1

Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:46 PM
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I’m your #1 fan Lillth please sign my chest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:07 PM
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Yea this recent election shows that damn near half the country don’t know shit about what’s going on not even the basics
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:26 PM
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Nah ignorance did, all the republicans saw the debate, they all saw the data, they all got arrested for raiding the capitol, they knew about his felony’s and they still didn’t give a fuck. They seen it all but he was still elected no amount of education can just stop pure ignorance. Him still getting elected after economist warned everyone about his economic plan like idk what else to say
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:23 PM
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Bro imma keep it real if you really is aware of what is ACTUALLY happening in the world you would know that trump taking office isn’t a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:17 PM
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Hellllll no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:14 PM
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U aren’t even engaging with what he is saying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:56 PM
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This was well said, I am not red pilled but I grew up around a lot of women and dated a lot and they are deceptive, not only that but they are narcissistic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:49 PM
-1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:57 PM
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No it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:03 AM
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How is that soft sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:59 AM
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Y do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:36 AM
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Nah fr tho like when ever people bring up the discussion 50/50 one person shouldn’t be doing more housework than the other because adults shouldn’t be messy in general
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 05:10 PM
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Ur not making sense activity listening and giving advice isn’t directly empathetic but it shows that you have the capacity to feel empathy that’s what I said. Men aren’t socialized to not value emotions but to express it differently idk what’s so hard to understand with that. And this is the problem, yea your emotions are valid but you aren’t hitting the bulk of the argument “ACTIVELY LISTEN AND GIVING ADVICE SHOWS THAT YOU HAVE EMPATHY TO SOME CAPACITY CORRECT? Then it is illogical to say that …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:50 PM
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Bro this is a great point if I could pin this I would and this is what I’m trying to say. Guys way of emotionally connecting with a woman is actively listening and giving advice to make them feel better because guys want to feel like they are helping. A lot of people aren’t understanding that if I always have to validate how you feels it becomes emotionally draining for the man and also because you’re gonna feel how you’re gonna feel. Oh man and your last paragraph was the cherry on top because …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:25 PM
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you’re dismissing their thoughts and feelings fitting them off as insignificant If your feelings are always hurt about something then it becomes emotionally draining. It’s so hard trying to explain it so you can understand. •saying men lack empathy isn’t very logical to say because actively listening and giving advice shows to some capacity you have empathy it’s because men are socialized differently how we express it is different. I explained that in my post, ok now women do want to be coddled …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:10 PM
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I think I’m real life people often do have this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:00 PM
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In a situation where it’s not trivial then yea you want to be coddled
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 02:58 PM
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That last 2 things you typed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:17 PM
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Yea I know I quoted myself for explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:27 PM
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No my perspective is that saying men have no empathy is wrong, if you agreed with my original statement then you’re trying to argue what makes a woman feel better vs what a man is conditioned to do And your last point is way off the mark if studies show men lack empathy I would have never made the post And essentially always having to validate someone emotionally will become draining
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:51 PM
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2 essays in a row?! Obsessed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:46 PM
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Your last point men see women as tools to be led and only emotional people because of the examples I gave about how men only feel and don’t express, but for the most part u agree wit you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:45 PM
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Not reading that essay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:38 PM
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“You ayded An EnTiReLy dIfFeReYnT SentEncE” It’s the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:35 PM
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Y’all are not understanding the bulk of the argument if I always have to emotionally validate you every time you run into a problem then it becomes emotionally draining
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:27 PM
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But the distinction with my word choice doesn’t matter because either way the advice will still be the same “I’m gonna tell you why it shouldn’t bother you because you can do XYZ or this person is XYZ” it’s the same thing doesn’t matter, But let’s say we did take that route if it’s dismissive women still perpetuate the idea of traditional men putting them in stoic roles to not take them seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:25 PM
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I agree cause men and women are both human
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:20 PM
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I don’t think there’s really a big difference like you are implying but even if there was the advice would still be the same. But women don’t want advice they want some to just list and affirm them and I’m telling you that men aren’t conditioned to do that to just emotionally affirm you unless you lose a loved one, or something major happens You and a couple other people are regurgitating the same thing and attacking my word choice instead of proving why men lack empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 07:19 PM
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And dis is the problem right here if different people want different things saying men lack empathy is 1 not emotionally intelligent and 2 dishonest and gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:53 PM
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I thought it was quite obvious men weren’t conditioned to just say sorry that happened and leave it at that men are born and constantly told to be leaders and problem solvers so when you come to a man about a problem and he doesn’t give advice he feels like he has failed a woman or feel like he could have done more to make you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:52 PM
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Exactly, it shows that he didn’t feel empathetic towards the shirt situation The second situation is more realistic because that is what men do but they get shit on for giving advice most of the time people will say don’t give advice just listen or emotionally connect and my point was men weren’t socially conditioned to do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:41 PM
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1 give a more realistic situation Saying you bleached your favorite shirt and he says buy a new one is more applicable to your point/situation. The second one is more realistic and it does happen that’s what most men say/do to help But giving solutions and having practical support shows you feel/ have empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:37 PM
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Reread my comment I specifically said “he gives advice on why it shouldn’t bother you” goal post weren’t moved
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:31 PM
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Where in my example did a man ever say “stop feeling how you feel?” Hurting yourself and venting about your day are 2 different things If i listened to you and say damn that sucks that happened maybe you should do XYZ so it won’t bother you what else could you want beyond that? Men are only taught to be problem solvers, I thought my post was descriptive and detailed enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:07 PM
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Because most women don’t see that you can feel empathy but express it differently most women say men lack empathy simply because they miss the verbal emotional affirmation but to a man giving advice and activity listening is empathy to them For example If you’re upset about how your day went bad but it was 1 little thing and you went to your boy friend about it he listens and afterwards he gives you advice on why you shouldn’t let it bother you. At that point women would say he lacks empathy but…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:44 PM
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Yea, offering support shows that you have the capacity to feel empathy, and giving advice. So saying men lack empathy isn’t accurate to say.if they feel it to some capacity
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:37 PM
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Yes they do, saying someone lack empathy because you want verbal emotional affirmations all the time is wanting to be coddled
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:32 PM
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“Can’t say men lack empathy when they empathize with you differently”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:29 PM
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It’s 2 different things to say men have a problem expressing empathy and men lack it. Saying that they lack it is illogical because you can search of ways to express empathy and giving advice and actively listening is the top 2 so yes it is illogical to say that. men jump straight to logic And I explained why men often do this, it’s because men express empathy differently most of the times women want empathy in situations where it’s just coddling for example A lot of women say it’s not about wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:17 PM
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Yea I only used that example because a lot of men say that women “are too emotional” and rhetoric like that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:10 PM
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My whole argument is that it is less empathetic to make the claim that men lack empathy, and you can express empathy in many ways, weather that be listening, giving advice, or just anything to that reguard, so the example I gave was an expression of empathy but you said it was a lack of “emotional intelligence” I would argue that it isn’t emotional intelligence to say anyone lacks empathy And giving advice is an expression of empathy that’s the first thing you do when you feel empathetic towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:56 PM
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Exactly and I think women lack empathy more because they don’t understand that telling a man to be an “provider man” or anything that fits a gender role puts him in a role where he isn’t expressive to her which makes the guy precieve women as not a being that can exist by themselves and be independent
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:51 PM
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I agree with this good explanation 10/10 if you disagree u wrong simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:44 PM
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Ok, so I’m gonna try to make as much sense as possible because you just did the opposite of your post. So you’re saying that your hate for men desiring sex is the same as a little kid seeing their friends with new things and wanting them and being brats? You just simply lack empathy if those 2 situations are the same for you. Men on average have higher libido so you can imagine it’s harder for them to go longer without sex especially in a world where people treat sex as a reward/privilege and ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:45 PM
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Ok, and that leads to my original point if someone desire sex more than someone else why do you care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:24 PM
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If that gives the same energy as a child wanting a material item then idrk what to tell you because your mind is already made up that men just wanna fuck so
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:03 PM
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They describe it as a need because people around them make it seem like it’s a need to be a “man”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:56 PM
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I can imagine it’s hard to have to accept something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:27 PM
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Ur arguing in bad faith, if you don’t think sex is wrong to want then why would you care if someone desire it more than others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:18 PM
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I understand your confusion, and although I don’t understand either the only thing you can do is accept them but in general I think wanting to identify as a gendered role or opposite sex is really weird to me almost like it’s body dysmorphia or something
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 04:07 PM
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I agree with you. I don’t think it’s a good idea to give up your financial freedom for a “soft life” but I digress
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:52 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:10 AM
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Ur literally a child
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 11:10 PM
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No here’s why, the reason why men don’t listen to women’s advice is because when a woman finds a man she desires sexually and physically all of the rules/advice to attract a woman go out the window. Like the ones you just gave. And also because women and men experience 2 different dating worlds. For example telling a man “to wait and there’s always someone for everyone” if a man came to you in the first place about advice on how to get women no one was approaching him in the first place guys tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:20 PM
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Man vs bear in December💔💔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 10:01 PM
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Ngl as a liberal man I see what you’re saying, and I just think in general liberals are way too argumentative and I can see how it’s a turnoff. Reddit is probably the only app where you can make a post about the sky being blue and it’s gonna be some mf in the comments ready to argue about the sky being orange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 03:20 PM
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This is a perfect point and this is why I think a lot of men become red pilled and cheat because they feel as if women are tools to be led/ people that only follow their feelings. And women don’t become aware of their subconscious actions until they have a son of their own or actually become purple pilled. I don’t think all women are like this but I do think a vast majority of them subconsciously act like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:23 AM
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Nah youngot it all wrong when you actually go outside and look everyone is average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:31 AM
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Bruh I see this discourse so much but housework should not be that bad if both people are constantly cleaning after themselves, the only time house work should be evenly split is if both you guys threw a party or y’all made a meal
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:02 PM
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Lemme be that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:34 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:12 PM
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Sorry for your situation, hope it gets better fr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:57 PM
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No, he needs to admire his wife to her face not on Reddit that shit cringy af
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:56 PM
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Man shut your simp ass up my god
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:49 PM
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This is facts I never stopped being a sweet guy to women, it seems like the guy stopped being a doormat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 04:48 PM
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If we do that then we won’t have a lot of men doing grunt work or being plumbers ifykyk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:16 PM
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I understand what you’re saying ngl, but as a guy we experienced the world way differently than women. When I was younger I noticed that my looks may be a factor as to why I was treated poorly but I didn’t want to believe it so I tried to find other groups of men to explain what was going on but at the same time the tv, movies, lady teachers, mom, sisters would tell me blue pill nonsense about what the world “ought to be” if you acted a certain way vs what it actually was. And ofc i listened to …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 06:08 PM
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Because that take is just not true, it ain’t even that fact that I’m sensative it’s just the fact that you don’t have empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:17 PM
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That’s not even the manosphere those are straight mysoginist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:16 PM
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You have no empathy every time I see you comment I just want to rip my fuckn eye balls out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:03 PM
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People love to say that men are on the internet too much but people use the internet as their diary
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:29 AM
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I am so sick of women on this sub gas lighting men 24/7. I fell into the pills hole around 14-15 but i narrowly climbed out of red pill and black pill because of the woman I dated. But my whole entire life I was surrounded by women being the only boy and having a dad that barely knew his dad. Around the time I wanted to find another group that accurately addressed my issues but the manosphere was the only one that explained everything to the tee. Everytime I would ask any women in my family advi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:24 AM
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Can women be fucking serious ever?! When you are that young you don’t even worry about looks and tv shows and grown adults tell you blue pill bullshit until men become radicalized
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:17 AM
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Not gonna lie op, self improvement is good advice without a doubt but there is a threshold of how much you self improve until you reach your max potential like genetics. This is anecdotal but for me I used to be chubby in middle school and elementary but I had good genetics but my fat face and body wouldn’t show it but nonetheless I was highly intelligent, played sports, etc but around this era of time it was harder for me to date so eventually I started to “self improve” (all I did was lose wei…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:35 PM
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Ye you a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:48 PM
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It must also be rape when a guy lays on his back
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:46 PM
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It’s not that I don’t have an argument it’s just the fact that you’re incredibly weird When the guy says dead fish he doesn’t mean a literal motionless being, he is exaggerating it’s that simple idk how you resorted to rape you just fucking weird bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:41 PM
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You definitely trollin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:36 PM
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Do you know what a hyperbole is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:29 PM
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It could just mean that his bed room is dead or something you instantly went to rape you weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:23 PM
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Bruh you hella weird for even implying that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:21 PM
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U a weirdo bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:11 PM
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https://www.pinkvilla.com/sports/did-gisele-bundchen-really-demand-half-of-tom-bradys-property-during-divorce-settlement-exploring-viral-tweet-1339010?amp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:31 PM
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Fr bruh lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:06 PM
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Yea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:03 PM
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Everytime I see your post you are gas lighting
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:02 PM
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Different strokes for different folks most of the advice women give would only work if you are a certain threshold in looks because how people precieve you is a bigger factor than what people think. And then there are a lot of men/women that claim that well “I did or I am XYZ and I got laid” but that person could be the type to only get laid once a month like I said different strokes for different folks. But besides that before I met my gf I used to never have to become friends with girls to dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:55 PM
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If you live in America then there should be no reason you a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:46 PM
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A good example of this was tom Brady’s wife she divorced him and tried to take all of his shit but he had all his money and property signed under his moms name now she has to give half her things tk bimt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:44 PM
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Your first point very valid cause back then feminism didn’t apply to black women at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 01:42 PM
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Nah this is not anecdotal at all, and damn was this take perfect. I agree with everything you said when you actually think about what masculinity is it didn’t just fall out of the sky. I think that masculinity became a thing to identity a certain group of people that attracted a different group with certain traits and not something that’s toxic and controls women. Like they make it out to be because they constantly reward it. For example when my dad presented me the idea of not following gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:09 PM
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Dis true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:57 PM
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That’s why I feel like masculinity isn’t a term created by men as a whole but more so men that attracted women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:54 PM
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Lbvtq?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:27 PM
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Both, they prolly the only people I know that will romanticize an abuser get with them because they have savior complexes the abuser then does what he knows best and next thing you know they crying wondering why he didn’t change for them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:26 PM
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I could be wrong but I think that women are just naturally born to manipulate because
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:19 PM
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Ya I agree with you, but I think because of men’s biological urge to desire sex more it’s harder for most men to not be thirsty. Like a lot of women say that women don’t need men but I also feel it’s the opposite men were just born at a disadvantage when it comes to dating and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:15 PM
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Most guys gotta realize that they have the power. If you are the approacher you decide on if the interaction happens
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:18 PM
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Yea I think that the comments are gaslighting me not to care
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:49 PM
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Not necessarily this sub does talk about dating and things so that’s why I posted it I wouldn’t post anything about preachers on a Sunday here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:48 PM
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Yea, but I’m trying to say that if it’s not a person spouting rhetoric about their beliefs or culture then what they believe in doesn’t effect anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:46 PM
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Nah something is definitely up with her she is too hyperfixated on men it’s almost like an obsession I’m pretty sure if it was bait she wouldn’t have been doing it for so long and sharing her piss poor views
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:38 PM
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Huh??? I am being genuine tho what was not genuine about what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:33 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:31 PM
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You are probably talking about Donald trump or elon musk calling Kamala Harris low iq or something along those lines because she is a black woman. I see them as the same because she is not the only woman to believe this and it is a shared belief among alot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:29 PM
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I was thinking the same thing before I scrolled off thanks for your insight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:26 PM
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I don’t think you’re being genuine, because you said that what message I saw didn’t matter, but the messages you see about your demographic matter more when I don’t see a difference when it’s both rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:25 PM
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Is that not the same thing tho? A rando can also say something harmful about our VP
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:21 PM
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I firgured it could have been bait, but it does seem like she believes in these things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:19 PM
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No because believe in magic doesn’t paint and ideas about a certain group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:18 PM
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Mf if you ain’t care you wouldn’t have wasted your time commenting bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:17 PM
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No but my question was a yes or no answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:16 PM
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But you don’t think that when people say things like this it’s not harmful to a certain audience?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:15 PM
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I do understand how it works, it just seems as tho it’s not genuine bait and this woman actually believes these things
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:14 PM
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No I am asking for an opinion as to what people think about what she said, it showed up on my fyp and I read the title and I was interested in seeing what she did have to say nonetheless to me it was bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:12 PM
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I blocked her I put her @in the post, and I think that her spreading nonsense like that is just stupid and she get alot of positive feedback by women in those videos
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:09 PM
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It could be bait but she is too hyperfixated on telling women about a straight man’s sexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:08 PM
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True, a lot of women can’t approach because they can’t handle rejection like the average guy. And they see men worthy as approachers because they think that being a man automatically makes you a stoic rock. They don’t see men as true equals because the same fear they have is the same fear men also have but most men just overcome it. They are so used to being coddled that they can’t actually accept what reality is but is only stuck in what reality is “supposed” to be
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:11 AM
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Not gonna lie this is just bullshit women do approach. I can agree they do to a certain degree but still LESS than guys. But overall blaming them on not being confrontational because of their estrogen or biology is bullshit. Because then it puts you in a situation where men can also blame things on testosterone. Women are saying they are afraid of approaching because 1. They can’t handle rejection 2. They just don’t want to approach you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:08 AM
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You could have used the Johnny depth and amber heard trial. Or the “im just a girl” trend it was literally women perpetuating bad behavior amongst each other and acting like they can’t make decisions for themselves. All because they were woman and because of that it’s not their fault. I am in the noticing stages where I see women don’t want to be treated like children but act like fucking children. Like for example: Lisa: I want an emotionally intelligent man (this woman is dis functional and Bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:13 PM
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I agree the point was good but example was bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:51 PM
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They did it in my sister hood post acting as if they don’t know what it is in a sense that “girls cover girls” typa thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:40 PM
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Nah this is facts because a lot of ladies will dress a certain way for men to approach them and if men don’t approach them they use their internet diary to rant about how men aren’t approaching to other millions of women/people. But let a man approach that same woman and my god you will never hear the end of it. I’m starting to think that a lot of ladies just don’t understand how confusing they are especially when men are the approachers and they are the approached
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:19 PM
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Lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 12:55 PM
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I see I see interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:37 PM
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Depends on a lot of factors I think a lot of women attraction falls under an umbrella. But if I had to take a wild guess I would say that the guy that isn’t doing good because he is probably social awkward, don’t keep up with hygiene. But in most cases like these there will be two guys let’s call them jerry and John Jerry is short just like John(5’6) and they looked exactly the same. But John scores more dates or hookups but Jerry doesn’t it is possible that yea John may score way more dates and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:39 PM
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I can but I wanna be able to have a partner i can have deep discussion with that challenge my beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:03 AM
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1 I like having deep discussions because I am always open to more knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:57 AM
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That makes a lot of sense then if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:45 PM
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Not reading that essay
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:42 PM
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You cooked. It’s funny how women are the only species to get the fucking “ick” get real bro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:31 PM
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Oh hell nah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:43 PM
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If you’re a man you know your woman is attractive if you can get bricked up just by looking at her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:13 PM
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Be nice to people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 03:12 PM
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Is the average in the us*, yes there are men that like fat women in fact I have a friend that dates a chubbier woman.and data shows that a man’s preferences actually varies. But it’s not the same for women like you guys preferences are damn near linear.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 05:35 PM
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Men care about looks I agree with you but not to the extent women think. If you are woman and you are average looking you will have a lot of men lined up and a lot of people (ladies) say it’s because they want sex but that’s not the case most times they want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:58 PM
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Amazing answer I feel the same way about it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 03:41 PM
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Almost shed a tear reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:44 PM
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This helps me sleep at night
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:40 PM
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If I think my friends can do better I would tell her That’s really a mouth full, and I wouldn’t care to read the rest if your friend is happy with him keep your personal opinions to yourself. the dudes feelings aren’t my priority my priority is if my friend is dating a schlub or wtf ever. And that goes right back to my discussion point why do you impose your beliefs of a worthy partner on your friend all because he could be cringe or have a stutter or walks funny I don’t know any women like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:32 PM
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Yes you love him, I agree with this but wouldn’t you want your bf to break up with you instead of cross boundaries until he cheats? Because another bluebpilled woman said that sometimes friendships can start sparks even subconsciously I agree on that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:27 PM
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Yea, I wanted to see their perspective of a woman like that. More so because most red pill ideologies are too linear SOME.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:24 PM
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I like this answer, so do you feel as if it were the man to tell her not to talk to guys that like her she won’t do it? or do you think she would have done it regardless? Because I feel like that this would be common sense to men and women but I would like to see your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:45 PM
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Not even gonna lie you yourself said that friendships can cause sparks of unwarranted attraction, so why should anyone be friends with someone that used to like them. You wrote a whole essay as to why you’re friends with guys that like you. You seem like you crave validation so much so that you justify being friends with someone that has a crush on you. The guys that are still talking to you are hoping that you and your fiancé breaks up in hopes of them getting a turn. What world does the blue p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 02:02 PM
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A lot of women will encourage their friends to treat a man differently just because of something they personally feel is off about said man or he is just a cringy person in general. I know for an undeniable fact that you know women like this that are jealous and envious that their friends are in relationships or they don’t like the bf and they will say things to try to make another girl reconsider her relationship you can call what I’m saying silly but I guarantee you know many women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:21 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:07 PM
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LMFAOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:58 AM
1

Interesting, how would the situation change if they were in the same intrest group and she followed him because of that? Would anything change for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:58 AM
2

Pure disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:35 AM
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Nah fr, like realistically if you’re a virgin most women won’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:29 AM
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🤣😂😂Should have seen them mfs under my thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 11:22 AM
1

But imma still upvote just for the fuck of it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:30 AM
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Those women do intimidate men but not for the reasons you think a woman earning more than a man will make the man that earns less insecure and he might become abusive because he feel like he lost the power dynamic and try to enforce dominance another way, (if that man was raised under gendered roles and beliefs)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:28 AM
1

Good night
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:10 AM
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I know what you talking about but I don’t believe it fully to be true because most of the women I messed with had terrible friends and they were all sabotaging each other’s relationships from envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:49 PM
1

What point did you prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:44 PM
1

Being in a fraternity gets you an easy body because I am also in one I crossed Kkpsi in the spring and I’m crossing another one rn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:43 PM
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Yea I agree but they have to be legitimate red flags. most decent guys can win over a crew easy. Yea either 1 they genuinely like you as a person Or 2 her friends also want to mess with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:42 PM
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No I believe that stuff also only happens in the west. No I think the west is anything west duh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:37 PM
1

The argument perfect sad on them would you be one of those dudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:36 PM
1

But not everyone is honest jimmy Yes you should but like I said your friends personal beliefs or opinions shouldn’t move the relationship unless it’s a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:33 PM
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I’m here to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:31 PM
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Na I think the purple pill is applicable to anyone outside of the west but it would be hard for anyone outside the west to find the purple pill cause dating different you’re most likely Canadian tho I will give you thay
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:31 PM
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In the perfect world a lady won’t be swayed by her friends with hidden intentions, women are more likely to be subject to in group bias and they developed that trait for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:29 PM
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I don’t even think the purple pill applies to anyone outside of the west but that’s not to take away from you ma’am
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:25 PM
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BROO yes this happens all the time I know too many women that have gone through something like that. Especially with the whole, “men can spot out your fake friends” qote. Literally for any girl that has a man they should ask their bfs who they think they real friends are and alot of women won’t have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:21 PM
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Bro huh? Even though sororities are not around the world known it is still a sisterhood thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:17 PM
1

Yea, female in group bias that’s the word. It’s literally happening in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:16 PM
1

Bro where in this post is getting laid mention?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:14 PM
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Bro, I said this plain and simple your friends personal opinions should interfere with how you view your partner because you can get negative vibes from anyone yea you can take it into a account but overall it shouldn’t influence you to treat them any less, but in group biases are the most common with women. And that’s just a fact. So a woman can say she is getting negative vibes from some girls bf all because she could be jealous or envious or a friend group will put their personal opinions on …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:14 PM
1

And that’s the funny thing they are throwing insults and not actually addressing the post
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:07 PM
1

Some random guy that was a narc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:03 PM
2

Almost, I’m not really nervous about my woman leaving me because I can find another one
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:08 PM
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So now I’m insecure and bitter how could you tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:02 PM
0

It’s not even that it’s the fact that ladies say they want someone good and date the opposite because they have savior complexes. It’s not about dating the hottest nice guy. Men will date any woman that fits that criteria as long as the woman is atleast a decent person that keeps up with their hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:53 PM
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That’s valid because republicans are genuinely bad people now so you would have to question his morality
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:48 PM
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You can support them and hold them accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:42 PM
-1

Nah they wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 07:30 PM
-2

Nah but I do have sisters, aunties, a mom, go to the same university as women so I’m pretty sure my speculation on the sisterhood ain’t too off
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:50 PM
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El oh el
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:48 PM
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Because they do, I said earlier that if you are with someone your friends opinion shouldn’t matter unless the red flag is obvious I even talked about the social aspect
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:47 PM
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Yea i don’t get women and I live in my moms basement what else you know abt me?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:46 PM
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No, I’m used it as a example of a place where sisterhood is present
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:44 PM
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What would be something that isn’t compatible in your world view?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:43 PM
1

No brotherhoods definitely can be toxic but most brother holds won’t lie and have guys back him up no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:42 PM
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Says the side piece
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:14 PM
1

You got me red handed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:14 PM
1

I’m in my momma basement rn tweeting and looking at Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:08 PM
0

Because men do the opposite. More times than not if I came to my friends about me and my gf breaking up they will ask me what happened and what I did to see her side, women will never atleast see the man’s side but be too caught up in their own nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:04 PM
1

So if someone were good to you and you found them attractive would you say y’all are compatable?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:03 PM
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Nah because it seems like I’m talking to a wall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 05:02 PM
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No because just like ladies guys can have brotherhoods
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:57 PM
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No dating them you would know they spew the Same rhetoric without actually looking beyond themselves some do but it’s like a unicorn “if he want to he would” =im gonna put in minimal effort “Love is supposed to hurt”=stay with that bad man. “If it’s meant to be it will be”=^ literally the same thing “Trust your instincts”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:56 PM
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And making something harder just because is manipulative in itself when it’s not hard for you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:49 PM
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Yea I be on here when im idle and bored cause I like to argue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:47 PM
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Read this again ms smarty pants ^
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:46 PM
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I was saying that because it isn’t a deal breaker but it can get annoying or cringy being a socially awkward person 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:45 PM
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Oh naw not only did you generalize but Being disorganized and socially awkward is rough around the edges. A bad guy isn’t rough around the edges he just a bad person in general
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:43 PM
1

I said sororities also y’all gonna skip that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:42 PM
1

I’m not interested bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:41 PM
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That’s really not my question to answer fr
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:41 PM
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Nah I’m a young adult
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:40 PM
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Social awkwardness:not knowing the right thing to say Disorganization: chaotic living space
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:40 PM
1

Don’t you like dudes bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:38 PM
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How Yk I’m grown?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:36 PM
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I would say forgetfulness, probably not a very organized person, and social awkwardness I would consider that rough around the edges
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:35 PM
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Because the common theme with ladies is that they will say they want someone good but continue to date bad guys in hopes she could change him all while knowing they won’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:33 PM
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Anger issues is not rough around the edges el oh el
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:30 PM
2

It means what it means. Women will lie just because and won’t get called out on it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:28 PM
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I literally just told you why plain and simple and you still asked. Yes I feel the somewhat the same way about brother hood. The thing is about communities like those is that those are the men women will bend the rules for. And alot of men don’t believe in 80/20 rule like a lot you will rarely every see a man in real life being up 80/20 but in real life women say things and bend the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:27 PM
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I’m not defending no men, comprehension lackin
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:23 PM
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Yea because you can’t comprehend what the post is meant for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:21 PM
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Yes the sisterhood is responsible because they properuate the behavior through other women repeating the same meaningless shit “if he wanted to he would” “don’t chase attract” “trust your instincts”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:20 PM
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You just lack understanding of sisterhoods
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:18 PM
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U lack comprehension
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:17 PM
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Did you read beyond that point or did you think this post was made just so I can get a woman? Weaponized incompetence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:17 PM
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It makes it bad because a lot of women follow that advice from other women. And it is perpetuated in real life and online. So the people giving the advice would still be women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:15 PM
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Ok so you still would be considers in the sisterhood of women who aren’t pilled simple as that. That doesn’t happen all the time but it happens most of the time with women just a petty example I used alot of female friendships don’t last because of the simple fact that your friends are secretly at competition with you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:13 PM
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It does though, because no one addressed the claims I made on the post so I would suggest that the advice is spreading and it’s bad. It’s no different than a friend giving bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:11 PM
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Depends on what common belief they all share. You never really addressed my post but about sister hood so I’m willing to guess that a lot of women share the common belief in which the ones is in my discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:09 PM
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Sister hood:an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade. You determine if you are or not. Stop acting ignorant So by looking at your flair you are in the sisterhood of nopilled women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:06 PM
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Not referring to a singular sister hood just referring to sisterhood as a general thing because all of the beliefs that I shared is a common theme amongst ladies. It becomes bad when the advice is manipulative and purposely deceiving. I never really addressed friends giving dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:04 PM
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you know nothing of how women speak amongst each other. Yea we can only judge based on your actions and yall will say things and do the direct opposite. Your analogy was bad because men will say they want a beautiful wholesome woman. Which you can find at a bar. Women will say they want a good guy and date bad guys repeatedly and say they knew they were bad
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:00 PM
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The ones that give dating advice so it could be anyone of those
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:53 PM
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Yes, if there is anything that connects women universally it is considered a sister hood. Sororities, feminism, and just anything that unites women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:48 PM
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Yea they do it because the men voicing those opinions could have gone through what they believe and not just be lying for the fuck of it. The most common one is “if your gf isn’t physically affectionate to you she doesn’t love you” Even tho I don’t fully agree with this it is true to some degree it came to be true because a lot of women would lie about physically intimacy or they will bend the rules. So an example of this would be that women will say “I won’t become intimate with this man unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:43 PM
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So true. Women are more emotionally open which can lead to manipulation. So if they dated a guy that played his cards right if he appealed to how she felt all the time she will become emotionally attached. Like the whole term “gf brain” comes from them not making decisions and turning their brain off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:35 PM
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It’s not about the guy being broken up with. I agree that friendships matter more but because women are more emotionally open to each other friendships often become bad because they start to become at competition with each other. Like a lot of women will go to their friends for relationship advice and the friend is envious of them so they purposely give them bad advice or their friend might not like men and won’t care to see his side of any situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:32 PM
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We all universally agree that a good man respects his woman right? If she isn’t attracted he could still be a good guy but that doesn’t mean he is a bad man incompatibility is a real excuse that true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:25 PM
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Nah, more so that the sister hood is used so women can just blatantly lie I can agree that there are toxic environments where men are surrounded but most of them will not voice opinions they really don’t believe in just so they can keep an image
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:23 PM
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I be bored
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:17 PM
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I agree but it’s less than more, no if I see someone post a shitty opinion and they get positive feedback on it I’m not ignoring it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:50 PM
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ok cool your friends were right you were too lustful to see the red flags. Even if that were true you aren’t taking into account jealousy and envy Yea your friends should always look out for you but ultimately their opinions shouldn’t effect your relationship unless it’s obvious red flags just saying their vibes off is not enough and you just seem hive minded
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:47 PM
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They will give a woman bad advice in person and go on the internet to express their shitty opinion that they 100% believe in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:43 PM
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Yeah, because I know where you are steering the argument to. Idk what else is supposed to be said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:39 PM
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ok so you’re a good man simple as that I answered it and it wasn’t my argument I told you that feminism itself is a sister hood. You’re jumping to conclusions I gave you and example of sororities
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:38 PM
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Yea but in real life ladies just can’t give advice or get good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:36 PM
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you still didn’t answer my question not even my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:32 PM
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So now that when I use feminism as an example of one place of sister hood you think I’m a msygonist? Sure bro you just really lack understanding of this whole debate and tried your hardest to straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:30 PM
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Yea, but their opinions shouldn’t effect your relationship like I said if you are happy and that person treats you good why should her friends opinion matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:29 PM
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A good man is someone that respects their woman correct? Are you a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:28 PM
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No, I used feminism as a best example because feminism connects all women does it not? What about sororities does it not fit your sorry ass narritive you’re trying to push lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:27 PM
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No i used feminism as an example because that commonly connects women. Sororities could also be an example of sister hood because they have to follow ideals and beliefs. You as a man shouldn’t be acting like you aren’t getting what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:25 PM
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You trollin she shouldn’t care what her friends think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:24 PM
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I am going to break this down to you one last time, it becomes a sistser hood when a group of women mutually agree to an idea or whatever is connecting them. Like a feminist So that fiminist can make friends within their ideals and beliefs but if a women isn’t a femanist but is freiends with her she is just a friend and not apart of what the feminist believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:23 PM
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That’s how it works genius. Even if it’s good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:20 PM
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And you still went back to that point. I would suggest you to read again and actually think
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:18 PM
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Your first question an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade. If a woman associated her self with feminism she is apart of the sister hood if she has a friend that is a feminist they are friends. It’s more of a commitment because of the emotional and social expectations that come with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:17 PM
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It shouldn’t matter if her other friends precieve him as cringe if she loves him their opinion shouldn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:15 PM
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No, I call it that when women associate themselves with beliefs and ideals. Your comprehension is lacking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:14 PM
2

That is manipulation, but negging is not used because it just isn’t morally sound. That’s literally my first time ever hearing that and I used to follow the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:13 PM
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You’re not comprehending you become apart of a sister hood when you associate yourself with women with the same beliefs and ideals it is more of a commitment than a regular friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:10 PM
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Friend ship: a voluntary, long-lasting relationship between two or more people that is built on trust, mutual respect, and support. Sister hood:an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:09 PM
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Once she is in a space that aligns with those things I listed, without knowing the people in said space simple at that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:07 PM
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See you lack knowledge of the red pill. All it says is that if you become the best version of yourself you will be able to actually date. The pill you’re referring to is the black pill which is more extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:06 PM
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Sister hood: an association, society, or community of women linked by a common interest, religion, or trade. Yes it’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:04 PM
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Now your example is valid if your friends saw that they should tell you but often women from personal opinions will not like another girls bf if he is a cringe person in general
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:03 PM
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Ok so you’re speaking from a new relationship that’s like 1-5 months then that person still isn’t a stranger because you knew them prior correct? So why should your friends influence how you feel when you are with the person more than them? You’re a hive minded man simple and plain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:02 PM
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Yea I know they are doing exactly what the post said
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:01 PM
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You’re taking my argument to the extreme instead of actually reading and comprehending you think I am automatically shaming women for having friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 02:00 PM
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it as in a sisterhood, you lack comprehension your first point no but they still are emotionally abusive you’re trying to steer the argument. And read the post and it will answer your question mr smarty pants
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:58 PM
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But he isn’t a stranger if that’s her bf so idk where stranger came from. And if you are in a relationship that makes you happy your friends shouldn’t influence it unless there is an obvious red flag you can see. Idk where else your argument came from
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:56 PM
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Sisterhood is beyond friend ship, it differs with depth and commitment, and emotional intensity two guys that are friends wouldn’t consider their friendship a brother hood but more so a friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:54 PM
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It’s not the same because the dating advice women give and get most is the time is terrible and manipulative
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:52 PM
2

Twisting what in saying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:52 PM
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Bro what????? A good man or a person is someone that treats you good, we can all collectively agree to that. And it’s toxic because it allows emotional manipulation and narcissism the full thing was not just about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:52 PM
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That makes no sense if he is her boyfriend wouldn’t he be past the stranger threshold? And if you are genuinely happy in a relationship your friends shouldn’t influence how you feel you didn’t read the full paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:50 PM
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No, if you’re giving someone advice and they keep ending up in the same scenario or situation then that’s them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:48 PM
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Yea it doesn’t but it’s still more than less
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:46 PM
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Yea, because they are a hive mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:45 PM
-2

No one is controlling what friends you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:44 PM
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No they call other men simps for knowing information about a situation they are in and that man still continues to indulge in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:43 PM
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No, women can have female friends you’re trying to twist the narrative. A lot of spaces for women in general is just toxic and manipulative. And y’all just won’t tell the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:41 PM
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They both differ in depth and commitment, you can say the red pill community is a brother hood, and the pink pill is a sister hood but they aren’t friends. The red pill came to be true because of how manipulative women are in general. But if a guy of the red pill have different experiences he isn’t shamed by other men. You see how y’all are already debating the difference between brother hood and sister hood and not actually addressing the post about how it’s nit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:37 PM
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No, brotherhood and a friendship between regular guys is not the same. You’re still acting ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:31 PM
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They really are. Another thing I would like to add is that they say women mature faster than men, and know alot of things but they are also ignorant to a lot of things which they are aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:29 PM
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Ok you’re just acting ignorant you know what sister hood is google is free. I’m talking about the environment of women that create spaces for dating advice and share common interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 01:25 PM
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It’s complicated because women will bend the rules for more attractive men in general so y’all will purposely date shitty men all because they are attractive in hopes of them being nice when many women know it’s not the reality. When men say they have a type they 95% of the time go for that type
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:54 PM
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🤣🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:45 PM
1

I genuinely dead ass think that women purposely give bad advice just for the fuck of it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 10:01 PM
2

LLMFAOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 09:37 PM
-4

On god I think low libido is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:58 PM
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They don’t behave this way because a lot of people use social media to voice how they really feel like it’s their diary so it’s not a matter of being on his phone too much but a lot of people just voicing shitty opinions and getting a lot of feedback from said opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:39 PM
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LMFAOO🤣🤣🤣😂😂, but on a serious note I am in a LTR and have been in LTR’s for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 08:14 PM
-1

There were men in power that did those thing Yk that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 06:09 PM
1

Was only 10 percent of people hooking up during the 80s, and 90s?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:44 PM
2

In the context of hooking up I would say that seeing that dip when phones and dating apps became a thing means that hookup culture was bad because of the mental health crisis, and expectations of hooking up it places on Gen Z impacting their relationship skills
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:41 PM
1

2 things can be true at once, I agreed that social media also ruins them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:35 PM
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It would prove that hookup culture affected their generation. If you seen a trend constant through generations and it just suddenly decreased when phones and dating apps became a thing what would you conclude?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:34 PM
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This woman literally posted the first 2 sentences I responded to it I come back to 8 down votes and a whole essay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:29 PM
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Yea I feel what you’re saying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:28 PM
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I fuck with you man you’re a funny guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:26 PM
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LMAOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:25 PM
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Cons of hooking up: mental health impact, diminished relationships skills, pressure and expectation, FOMO, emotional consequences, the only pro: independence, sexual exploration Pros of dating: emotional connection, commitment, mutual growth (which can cultivate good support systems) Cons: emotional investment(not even a con) time and effort, and vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:24 PM
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Your first point yea No it wasn’t overstated back then in the 80s and 90s. genZ is a product of hookup culture and dating apps -being the most isolated having less sex overall, anxiety and being more likely to suffer from depression. Is a connection being made?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:17 PM
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Yep and encourage actually dating and getting to know people there are no pros to hooking up but more cons
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:14 PM
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Yea THIS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:13 PM
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You right, but how low do you want their balls to hang before it starts scratching the ground and getting scabs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:12 PM
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The study I linked you refrenced a study 11 years ago because that was gen Z as hookup culture progressed and became less and less it was because of the mental impact that it put on gen Z the 10 percent you are mentioning are the after effects of the pressure to preform during 1 night stands, and dating moving to the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:10 PM
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I get your POV from your first point, but from my perspective it would seem like settling after having 70 hookups out of the 100 vs the person that was in 100 relationships (100 bodies) and what didn’t it address specifically? There is no specific number, you hook up u a harlot it’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:05 PM
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You know what I like this view And I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:03 PM
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If his wife being a stripper didn’t bother him why would the word cuck have ya boy get violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:02 PM
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Yea the 80s was the easiest years of their life. And the second one I know what narrative you are talking about and I don’t agree with it but you can see gen Z having negative effects on their mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:00 PM
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I get the first point but it is not applicable to hooking up you should be shamed and feel shamed if you have 100 bodies and they 70 them were hookups and 30 were relationships. Vs a person who has 100 from being in relationship weather it be short term or long term because the woman or man that had 100 relationships had more time to figure out who they are emotionally and physically compatible to I don’t care about a woman’s body count either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:58 PM
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So what was the point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:52 PM
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Yes because 11 years ago was Gen Z right we agree to that? Yes and less engaged because hookup culture in itself is not ideal, I never ever brought up that hooking up is happening more but that it is crumbling society as you can see the effects now? Is everything connecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:51 PM
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Yes they are having lex sex because of hookup culture because of the expectation of hooking up. We see those effects right now with them being isolated, depressed, and dealing with the most social anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:48 PM
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Nah that’s extreme. You know men and women successfully did it right in the case being that if a man is marrying a woman with a “high body count” other men will shame him and call him a cuck which then causes those men not to date those type of women. What you described is actually controlling what people want to do with their lives vs people expressing themselves which they can build a healthy community around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:45 PM
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Well yea idk if a person gonna randomly walk up to you and tell you that gen Z is the most isolated and anxiety filled generation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:42 PM
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You do realize that it’s not opinionated when Gen Z is receiving the effects of it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:39 PM
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Yes we look down on those people that’s how we develop an actual healthy community. No just like how men tell men not to date women with a lot of bodies then women do the same with each other. And where I would draw the line is if you feel shamed for doing it then it isn’t acceptable socially but you are an exceptions if you have any EDs, or mental disorders to any extent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:37 PM
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the second one was from last year, they are using those pieces as evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:35 PM
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Yes and when you read more into it you see the cause of that is hookup culture in itself and social media
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:33 PM
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Because I can identify outside of my own experiences that dating is harder for gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:32 PM
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Nah I’m not saying that hooking up should be restricted do what ever your heart desires. But it shouldn’t be socially accepted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:29 PM
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Yea it did https://www.pesi.com/blog/details/1720/what-hookup-culture-means-for-the-future-of-millennial?srsltid=AfmBOoqJr6nqtvhY2Vq4tTlXcYKFydYJsPNGYDWEKonjmCQePIP6MtUb This was recently done And this one https://dailytargum.com/article/2023/04/benitez-hookup-culture-has-ruined-dating-for-generation-z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:27 PM
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Gen Z being known as the isolated generation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:23 PM
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I have been in LTR’s for almost half my life and I’m in one now hooking up is like the least of my worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:22 PM
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Your first point, it is decreasing because of hookup culture I never stated that hooking up was happening more often but it was bad.but how it is decreasing is because of hookup culture is because the expectation of hooking up, and because of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:20 PM
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This study was made in 2017, I will link you something more useful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:12 PM
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Because it’s obvious that dating sucks for gen Z and there is no sense of community which in turn leads to a lot of bad things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:11 PM
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Press on the debate tab in the sub and engage in something that doesn’t bore you then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:09 PM
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Yea people can choose to not use them but as long as they are there they will use them which is the reality. If the US bans all dating apps people will then be forced to have to interact with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 04:07 PM
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I make one typo now it’s work on my reading level. Your second point I mean yea but dating apps in general are used for hookups. Even if it wasn’t used for hookups they are so unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:58 PM
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Oh lawddddd this point was so good I would upvote it 1 thousand times 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:51 PM
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And that is what I’m saying if you want to do that go ahead but that shouldn’t be socially acceptable like how in east Asia dating apps are for losers. “Society isn’t obligated to provide you with options” - a mf in a sub talking about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:47 PM
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Hookup culture and and social media are 2 main factors to the bad dating market, just because it doesn’t affect you doesn’t mean that it doesn’t affect other people. Because it is apparent that it’s effecting Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:45 PM
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all the women I had LTR’s with i didn’t sleep with on the first date because that kinda wasn’t like the goal but if it was the goal and I did sleep with them the first night then I would still be interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:22 PM
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The TLDR, women will continue to live in that double standard until approaching is equal. If men have to play these guessing games in approaching and women don’t have to do anything then that double standard will exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:19 PM
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Makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:43 PM
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Yea this is the truth for black pillars too, but I’m not gonna lie I seen how some of them looked and no offense but they be serverly deformed and high functioning so they are like border line autistic but are only limited to dating autistic women that’s like a human being Trap in a dogs body feel bad for those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:25 PM
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I see what you saying, I thought both sides talked about dating tho, like just overall self improvement and keeping women attached and the whole Chad stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:20 PM
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Oh yea and I forgot the most important part accepting “reality”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:16 PM
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This is what you’re not understanding, my whole entire point was men will fuck anything that’s why they are shamed for their sexual desires. I brought up the woman’s experience as background to the data showing men committing those acts. That’s where the argument is if most men commit rape more than women then you can still say most men can’t control their urges. Because the only data that can back up men being rapist is because of their urges. If it was some sorta of outlier as to why men commi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:13 PM
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The context to the red pill is to become the best version of yourself and take no shit from women correct? Then if so that is the nuance to it. Edit: once you become red pill you lose your authentic self and you’re too caught up into reading women constantly living in the red pill will drive you insane and make you resent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:47 PM
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My whole point was generalizations are not bad if it’s a trend and no cause or reason to the trend. If you’re willing to call a spade a spade this discourse would have never happened bro. Yea i agreed with that statement but if a woman would argue aginst it more evidence would be stacked against you. Which goes back to my whole point in it’s easier to say not to generalize when you’re the one being generalized
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:42 PM
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OP is not wrong the red pill is basically saying that women want higher status men, but if you can’t reach said status you have to become the best version of yourself and also how to not put up with their bullshit. You’re not wrong either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:22 PM
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I see your point, and so the best way to try to combat it is to channel it through different facets of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:36 PM
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We can’t evolve past something instinctual but we can instead either internalize all of it or find another way to cope with it. A person saying we have evolved past our instinct is only trying to look like the more righteous person, but the truth is we didn’t evolve past them but it stayed with us. A lot of men can control their instinct to fuck but it will take a little longer being that men in general desire sex like it’s food
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:16 PM
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The generalization of women being emotional only boils down to their urges but studies prove other wise. a more accurate generalization would be “women are more emotionally open” and that statement can be good and bad depending on who you ask. The generalization that men can’t control their urges is true because there are studies that show that pedophilli and rape all boiled down to their urges. You said that generalization are bad, I don’t fully disagree but generalization aren’t always bad bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:48 PM
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And your last point about men fucking anything. I am a man and that is not a lie I know so many men that would fuck a roach if it had an ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:05 PM
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It is entirely wrong because the generalization that women are emotional labeling them as emotional can be used to undermine their credibility to actually make decisions. Which then leads to their dismissal of their opinion because they are being precieved as being emotionally driven. That is just wrong and it is used negatively. Here is where we differ you’re saying generalizing is bad but in the same breath just said women are more emotional.it becomes bad when there is no burden of proof as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:04 PM
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You’re not calling a spade for a spade and you’re talking loop holes. Generalizing can be useful when you’re identifying certain trends. Which I gave you yes men lead in predatory stuff so they are all called predatory and there is no other phenomenon that interferes with them having that preference. Ok, now generalizing saying women are emotional is wrong because there is substantial proof as to why women are considered emotional and it’s because women express themselves more. And so I’m callin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:39 PM
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This is a great point! But when you are a woman that won’t be the conclusion you draw. It easy to say not generalize when you are the one being generalized women didn’t get that grace when they are generalized to be “more emotional”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:16 PM
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But it does prove that men can’t control their urges. Unless there is some theory or something else to explain this phenomenon the only point you can draw from it is men can’t control their urges.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:02 PM
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You’re not seeing that when women say that they are technically right it’s not just empathy. If you’re a woman that more or less has had bad experiences with men and you have stats and physical experiences to support what you are saying why would they want to empathize with that? I’m looking at it from both sides. But if you’re calling a woman a whore then that would be a lack of empathy being that men cheat more than women even tho I feel like women don’t admit to it more I still do feel like w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:55 PM
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Actually yea excuse myself, it is more men than women but the gap narrows because women live longer. No then leading in those stats proves enough bro no need to make excuses if you are a man that knows you can control your urges and ladies say dumb shit like that it shouldn’t move you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:38 PM
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I don’t agree with this, simply because men won’t admit that other men fuck anything. And we know this because men lead stats in anything reguarding SA and pedo business despite it being more women than men. Not saying that all men are SAers and pedos but seeing those things make most women come to that conclusion (just trying to be unbiased)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:23 PM
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I agree with you here. The reason why men’s urges are demonized because of how men will literally fuck anything because of that urge. Even though it’s more women than men on this earth men leads stats in anything rape related or pedo related.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:14 PM
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Fuck ur point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:25 PM
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Why are you trying to pivot?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:54 PM
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My whole claim men orgasm more than women so they will want sex more vs women of orgasm less will not want sex as much unless she is with someone compatable in bed. Guys are gonna orgasm regardless because most don’t care about women’s pleaseure, what are you even trying to prove
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:41 PM
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So, is the claim that men orgasm more than women on average wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:38 PM
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There is still a disparity there. am I speaking English?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:37 PM
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Yea but what about the other percentage they do we just gonna pretend they do? That’s why I said most
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:35 PM
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That’s still a big gap what point are you even trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:33 PM
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Link it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:27 PM
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65% of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:24 PM
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Not sure, but I highly doubt your ethnic background affects your testosterone level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:23 PM
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Your second point is correct. But most women don’t know what good sex is until they actually have it. Then once they actually have it they can decide what is good and what is bad. You’re acting willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:20 PM
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Because dude ain’t that desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 07:18 PM
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Yea they cant orgasm because men give them bad sex. Which in turn makes them desire it less, don’t know what other clarification you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:39 PM
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Oh it definitely does you tried to twist what I’m saying, you’re not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:33 PM
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No, we know this because of how you are shunned from society from being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:33 PM
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That simply just means that heterosexual women have more bad sexual experiences so it is easier for them to not hyperfixate on sex. Why do you lack reading comprehension and deductive reasoning?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:42 PM
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Yes your last point is what I’m saying, how did you get me saying women tend to no orgasm on average to “women have a problem with orgasms” In the context of dating and sex we were talking about heterosexual relationships. But even if you do steer the Conversation that direction notice how women only orgasm with women that’s pretty obvious they can make themselves orgasm because they are women they would know how to please themselves. Women don’t orgasm with men because men just don’t please wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:31 PM
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Yea it is, do you know why East Asian women are so critical on weight? Because men would rather be single than to date a fat woman that’s why East Asian women have culture around fat shaming other East Asian women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:21 PM
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This is true https://www.statista.com/statistics/1366812/us-orgasm-gender-gap/#:~:text=In%202022%2C%2095%20percent%20of%20men%20almost,percent%20of%20women%20who%20responded%20the%20same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:19 PM
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Na my solution was to shame dudes that sleeps with Becky’s down the street knowing they are a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:14 PM
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In east Asia men don’t pursue fat women which in turn caused women to not be fat. If you think it’s an end all be all then I would suggest that you expand your view beyond the west
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:12 PM
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They don’t climax on average there are exceptions to the rules but the general rule is most women have more bad sexual experiences than good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 04:10 PM
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a person that thinks hookups are respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:29 AM
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Nah it’s laughable if you think hooking up isn’t bad but then blame men for sticking out so easily when women are the ones that do the sticking out because men have to court then
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:08 AM
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There is nothing respectful about hooking up. You’re underestimating how valuable sex is. A person always hooking up shows no sexual discipline and they probably experience trauma because they are so hyper sexual. I could have easily participated in hookup culture but seeing people regret it turned me off from it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:56 AM
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Because sleeping around doesn’t do shit but negatively impact you. No no one should respect someone sleeping around. Most men are already bullied for being virgins. But as long as women have the upper hand in dating then y’all will be called whores for having a lot of hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:53 AM
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That’s what you’re gonna be called until dating becomes equal ground for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:49 AM
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Hell yea you already know man, when you date a lot you know alot
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:48 AM
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The idea of hooking up in general was something that ruined dating in the first place. Why should hooking up be social acceptable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:47 AM
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Even if I told you why you wouldn’t give a fuck, stop acting like u care
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:43 AM
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Na i didn’t she saw a post on tik tok and asked me how I felt and we was just talking about the dating inequalities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:42 AM
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No we were debating who has it worse for dating which is men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:38 AM
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No it’s not, and this is what I’m talking about people need to be shamed just for having hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:31 AM
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I agree with you man speak yo truth!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:30 AM
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It actually does alter how pleasureable sex is to you. And that’s not telling you to settle, if you want to just hookup and then you will be called a whore that is just how the world works
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:29 AM
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No causual sex raises standards, if you’re saying that her experiencing bigger won’t alter her preferences this is a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:28 AM
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Why do you think it’s socially acceptable to fuck someone just because?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:19 AM
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How in the hell did you get that from what I said. I’m saying that they can both be pleasurable but don’t just have casual hook ups just for the fuck of it because then you’re gonna want more pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:13 AM
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Listening to about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:06 AM
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I have experienced success in dating but i didn’t channel that success through hookups even tho I could have easily done that. And my girlfriend was arguing from a woman’s pov and not a man’s. So I seen both sides and I think in general dating is bad because of both men and women but more so women because just in general women play a lot of games. And they already have the high ground in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:57 AM
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Because of the sexual liberation bullshit they think it’s ok to just fuck anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:46 AM
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If that’s ur philosophy then so be it but don’t try to say women are fine with not being approached because it’s obvious that they wanna be approached if y’all are the pursued in nature then not being approached does bother most women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:31 AM
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So you wouldn’t have approached your husband is what I’m reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:25 AM
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Yea i agree with this. Like if a woman fucked a guy with 5 inches and then fucked a dude with 8 inches it will be hard for her to go back it’s like smoking weed for the first time, then smoking crack for the first time then going back to weed to get the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:19 AM
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Yes or no if he didn’t catch those signs would you approach him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:15 AM
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True like I fully believe that if men weren’t made to have the urge to fuck all the time we would have went instinct…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:13 AM
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Because if you say you would have approached him then you would be contradicting yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:12 AM
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Women aren’t tho because men are getting negative feedback from not approaching. In your head you feel like women will be fine with it because you never had to ever approach. The guy you’re married to would you have ever approached him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:11 AM
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Yes and those norms and change like going back to your Middle East point. At one point the Middle East was super feminist. So by this approach if women like you want to stay single that is perfectly fine men will just reproduce with more women that won’t have to struggle with dating men already aren’t approaching women or paying for first dates so
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:01 AM
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Damn man if I can upvote this a thousand time I would. Perfect point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:59 PM
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You don’t really have to agree I see your point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:58 PM
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That shit truly doesn’t if a 10/10 isn’t good at sex the more times she has terrible sex with him the more is attraction rating go down
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:55 PM
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Do you know in east Asia being fat will get you no man like zero and the reason why women adhere to that because in east Asia men would rather be single than date a fat woman. And that’s why being a fat asain is shamed because you won’t get any men. So yes majority of women can stay single but the ones that actually do want to date can date
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:52 PM
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Yes and that’s my point, if 10s sleep with 10s and 5s with 5s there is balance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:49 PM
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I get your point junior. But shame those men for sleeping with 3s they should only be messing with women of their caliber
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:47 PM
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I’m not denying that men’s biology will have them fold. But if women keeps approaching and they keep getting rejected they will actually talk to someone on their level. See what you’re saying is it will end all be all if they can’t get the top men which isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:45 PM
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No men can look at a woman and just find her attractive same for women, but for women it has to be a build up if you are a let’s say a 9 an woman will see you as a nine but if you have bad hygiene, bad social skills you instantly drop down in attraction vs a man that can look at a 9 and no matter what she says she is still a 9
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:43 PM
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You’re saying that women just won’t pursue and go extinct but that’s just not true. They will be forced to actually talk to those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:40 PM
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This is super true and I wanted to touch on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:38 PM
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I don’t agree with this. How much they desire sex differ because women on average experience poor sex vs men that always climax which in turn means the person that is more likely to climax will want it more from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:38 PM
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I agree with you man talk yo talk bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:34 PM
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But you understand that admitting this just proves that if women have multiple partners they will still be considered a whore right? Y’all will continue to live in that double standard. Because society has functioned before the data market became piss poor terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:32 PM
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Yes and upper class men can too. And your second one is true they need to aim for women on their level and ignore the others
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:30 PM
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Yes how women view attraction is different because it’s an umbrella for them. If you are a man that is a 6. But you can dress, smell good, and keep yourself groomed then you can get a woman how men view attraction is if you look good or not. Yes women approach men but if that man is not in her callibar he should reject her advances then in turn she will fear rejection from those type of men which she will then actually go for someone on her level and then she may find him attractive based on how…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:29 PM
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Nah, but you know what men are on your level
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:23 PM
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Your first point yea he will. Your second point that’s a different scenario Then they are just cheaters Societal shame is enough why do you think men will not date a woman with a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:22 PM
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I get what you’re saying men can discern sexual experiences between partners this is true but it is also true that men see sex as a one and done thing especially if it’s a woman they don’t find attractive. Your second point. Two things can be true at once, stop dumpster diving, and stop putting out unless you’re committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:19 PM
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Yes because a man that was more attractive than you slept with her. Women know their limits they are not fucking delusional and attractiveness is diff for women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:15 PM
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It’s something out of your control man I get it. But women will actually have to understand that they will live with the double standard of not being whores since sex is easier for them to have and cause they don’t have to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:14 PM
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Nah, yes they are when you are attractive you have a plethora of women to explore causing you to then fuck 5s same thing with me I was boujie with the dick
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:13 PM
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It’s different because men see sex as a 1 and done thing vs women they don’t if you give a woman good sex she will become very attached to you but it’s also other factors that heightens a woman’s sex experience. It effects dating because if let’s say jack a 10/10 is sleeping with a 5 just for the fuck of it dating becomes harder for the guys on her level because she feels as if her and jack had something going on. Being less sex craze will actually cause women to talk to men in her caliber. Beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:11 PM
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It will change because women will actually start talking to men on their levels
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:07 PM
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No me and my gf have a lot of sex, it’s just that how women view sex and how men view sex is way different we view sex as black and white, vs women who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:05 PM
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Yea 1s need to be sleeping with 1s 6s with 6s 4s with 4s and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:04 PM
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I get your point but don’t act like men also want to sleep with the best looking women. Men are just more realistic with standards
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:03 PM
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Nah, Shame them for sleeping with 7s and 6s just for the fuck of it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:00 PM
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No it actually will because like I said how men and women view attractiveness are way different
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:59 PM
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FACTS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:58 PM
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I kinda get ya logic but here is where we differ yes you can make someone bound to someone in your dating range because men will frown upon other men for dating women with huge body counts and which in turn caused men to not want to marry this women you can argue that it’s apart of our DNA to learn that but gender norms also a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:57 PM
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This is true. So when you’re forced to socialize you are opened up to different types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:54 PM
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It actually is true for women. They also want to hookup but what most women won’t tell you is that hookups damage them the most mentally and physically because of how detached men are for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:51 PM
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Yes and it’s not about women still wanting them it’s about making them bound to women in their caliber instead of them sleeping with becky down the street. I agree she will choose him for sex. But men’s strong desire for sex has us hyperfixated on hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:49 PM
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Aye I agree with you man!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:45 PM
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You’re tripping ngl 49% of men aren’t approaching women. If you are saying you like chasing women you’re a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:45 PM
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Idk if you surround yourself around a good community of open dudes but them being called hoes by other men will actually affect them. Believe it or not. The only reason why most guys see it as a positive is because they are praised by other guys for it. Doing that will make them bound to staying with one girl and not sleeping around
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:43 PM
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Fsfs
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:41 PM
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I agree with this to a degree, most men don’t see other men as hoes because of how guys view sex and how dating is, if I am always pursuing and having sex then I have game. Y’all will have to live in that double standard until it’s equal effort to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:40 PM
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Did you read it is there something confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:35 PM
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Most modern men don’t enjoy the chase
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:35 PM
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How men and women view attractiveness is almost the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:34 PM
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Oh yea this is a good point I would like to see you expand on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:32 PM
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Would you like to add or expand on something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:31 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:29 PM
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And it won’t happen because of how gender roles are ingrained in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:29 PM
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No a woman having pleasure with a micro dick is impossible. My whole kinda conversation was if you are having sex with one person and you enjoy that sex then you should stay with that person. If a woman has sex with a man for the first time and he is 7 inches then she should stay with him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:26 PM
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Even putting horomones aside if you are always guaranteed to climax during sex then you will just naturally want sex more VS women who don’t always climax. Those women always wanted to fuck u because you made them climax every time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:24 PM
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Ok this is a pretty good point. Would you like to expand on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:22 PM
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Their preferences of sizes would change.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:20 PM
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And in turn that’s a good thing because then they would actually have to look beyond you physically than to decide if you can be a fwb you get what I’m saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:18 PM
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I agree like women attraction is looks but it’s kinda more beyond looks like if you are a 5 and you have certain factors about yourself that are charming then you can successfully date but not hookup which is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:17 PM
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I can see this point of view thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:16 PM
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That could be true. But I highly doubt that would happen if we shamed more high teir men for just sleeping with all kind of women instead of referring to it as game and get rid of social media then dating would be better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:15 PM
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Yea I’m not trying to generalize I’m just trying to see it from both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:14 PM
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Them having hookups. Because there are guys that will hookup with those women knowing that they wouldn’t date them. And saying that women have more options for sex doesn’t dimish the fact that it’s harder for them to find a relationship with commitment and we can fix these trade offs by just getting rid of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:09 PM
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The solution to that would be to shame top tier men for sleeping around instead of calling it game. Because eventually women will actually start approaching men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:06 PM
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Yea I know but we can’t put all the blame on women, if you can admit that simping is a problem then we can acknowledge that simping is also a factor into the shitty dating
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:04 PM
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Yea the way my gf described hookups for women is, that most women can have casual hookups but she admitted that women should not participate in hookups because it will only raise their standards as to what type of sex they want and in turn will only be a losing game because they will be stuck on a situationship while the guy was just trying to relieve himself same for guys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:02 PM
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He saying that it doesn’t apply to men like that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:21 PM
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Oh man thisnis the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 01:44 PM
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Most men dont approach anymore because the negative feedback they got from women on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:58 PM
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I think it’s because most modern men realized that it’s easier to get laid without paying and they know this because they meet the looks threshold, it’s not social acceptable to use anyone for sex but a man that is having a lot of sex has an asset that other men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:28 PM
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Ouuuu man you cooked with this one ngl. And I also wanted to add that they do it to virtue signal and because they fantasize about those nice redeeming qualities even though in reality that’s not what I want. For example John is only attracted to dominate women and not nurturing.But when asked what his type is or what he wants in a woman he is going to virtue signal and fantasize about the nurturing woman because John doesn’t want the other person to think he’s a cuck. And that’s how it is with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:01 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:59 AM
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Thanks on this answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:59 AM
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Not all women are like that but it’s crazy I know too many women like that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 10:57 PM
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