YoungYogiMama Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type	SELF IMPROVEMENT	YoungYogiMama	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 06:59 AM

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1	Where to meet women who have a similar mindset? What words? I never refence red pill terms, if thats what you mean, i just pick up on peoples vibes.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/17 07:07 PM
2	Where to meet women who have a similar mindset? I so wish i could find relatable mom friends :( unfortunately where i live the vast majority of them are nearly 2 decades older then me* and raging feminists. I have found a few nanny friends though that are very feminine and have naturally red pill outlooks on life! I've found many women drawn to nannying have strong maternal instincts and feminine energy. So that's another idea of where to look for like minded women! *i don't mean this in an offensive way - just that it can be hard to jive wit…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/05/17 04:49 AM
2	Dating > Marriage > Children: What did your timeline look like? Dating > Child I just turned 26 and my boyfriend is 25 and a half. We met at our east coast college first day of freshman year (same orientation group!) when i was 18 and he was 17. We have been inseparable ever since. Moved in together our junior year. At 23 my birth control failed and i became pregnant. We were both 24 when our daughter was born. She is now 18 months. We are in no rush to get married as we already feel like we are. We would rather wait until we have a house and more money befo…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/05/17 02:18 AM
1	Full time SAHM, part time working mother, or full time working mother? Thoughts? I have an 18-month old daughter and currently work part-time as a vegan shot order cook. I started working when my daughter was 3 months old, and it was honestly so so hard saying goodbye to her in the morning the first few months. But i'm lucky to have a great schedule and my mom as our nanny. I work from 6:30 am to 12:30 pm and am home by 1 pm, 4 days a week. Ultimately it is worth it and i am happy with this arrangement. 24 hours a week really isnt that much, any my mom picks me up with my da…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/17 05:40 PM
9	My boyfriend of 3 months treats me so well, but he won't let me return the favour. What am I doing wrong? Is he into moderately active outdoorsy stuff? My boyfriend and I rarely ever go on "datey dates" like the one you listed but we love to have picnics, go for hikes, watch the sunset at the beach, cook together, grab coffee and take long walks, sit in the backyard listening to music. Simple things that are cheap, involved, not fancy or cheesy but still romantic! Things we do just occasionally when we want to switch it up are going to an amusement park, playing pool, rock climbing, kayaking, bike r…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/05/17 05:10 AM
1	What does the ideal man look like? Sorry just read the title and assumed you were talking about physical characteristics lol For personality traits my ideal guy (aka my baby daddy/boyfriend on almost 8 years) is: passionate, ambitious, athletic, intelligent, caring, kind to strangers, funny, confident, dedicated to self-improvement, doesn't binge drinking or do drugs (weed is fine), occasionally surprises/spoils me, adores and plays with our children, does the manly house chores, grateful, curious, listens, is light hearted, make…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/17 03:18 AM
1	What does the ideal man look like? In no particular order: -Taller then me (think i read most girls subconsciously prefer 8 inches taller then them) -Ripped/shredded body (fit, clearly defined muscles, low body fat but not cartoonishly steroid big or cross country skinny, cut lines, abs, etc) -Strong angular jaw line -Clear skin -Mysterious yet engaging eyes -Plump lips -Big smile with straight white teeth -High cheekbones Among these "perfect" guys will be a wide variety of traits that come down to personal preference: hair colo…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/05/17 03:11 AM
4	the little moment that he knew she was the one There are so many little things that made me fall in love with my man but one moment i've always remembered is visiting him when he was lifeguarding one day and watching him help teach some toddlers to swim and calling all the little girls "sweetie" and the little boys "buddy". He was sooo sweet and gentle with them but also silly and making them laugh. The little girls just looked in love with him. He didn't know i was watching him, so i knew it was genuine. I was so used to his masculine athle…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/17 01:52 AM
1	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? Luckily girls can exercise themselves to a big round bubble butt, even without much natural fat deposit there. Unfortunately boobs are just luck of the draw. Even after breastfeeding they usually go back to their original size. There are certain bras you can get that are like reverse corsets pushing the fat into your boobs all day which helps the fat migrate over years. But its still nowhere near being genetically blessed!	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/17 01:37 AM
2	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? Fair enough, i see that now. Sorry! It was just your description of her as naturally lucky that caught my attention and made me LOL	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/17 01:32 AM
2	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? http://instagram.com/simonourianmd1 This is kims doctor btw	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/17 12:46 AM
2	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? No one is disagreeing with you that there are women out there blessed with naturally huge tits/ass. Lucky them. (Jayde pierce and emily ratajkowski come to mind.) But don't use a surgery queen as your example...	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/17 12:36 AM
3	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? Right?! Maybe stick thin is their preference but they certainly don't speak for all men. My guy (5'11 super ripped martial artist) thinks really skinny girls are disgusting! (I'm not at ALL saying thats true - just that all guys have their own taste.) I am 5'2 and weigh between 118-124 and he always says how good i look when i'm on the heavier size and would honestly be thrilled if i gained 10 more pounds! Don't get me wrong he doesn't like a fat/flabby look but i have a super flat stomach and m…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/17 12:32 AM
3	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? Seriously look up old pictures of her cause you look silly calling kim k natural... I bet you also think nicki minaj was born that way and kylie just relies on contouring And overlining her lips LOL	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/17 11:59 PM
3	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? Its called fat transfer surgery google it its VERY common. Only a fool thinks kims ass is natural. And yes it's temporary but a multimillionaire like kim whose career depends on her body can afford the upkeep.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/17 11:56 PM
5	What is the RPW approach to being told you should lose weight? You do know her body fat is distributed that way by a plastic surgeon right?	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/17 10:07 PM
4	Do RPW usually go for older men, or do some find men their age or younger? My boyfriend of 7.5 years (and father of my daughter) is 5 months younger then me! We met the very first day of college and have been inseparable since! For us it works. We both enjoy the relatability of being born the same year. We grow together and it works for us. It helps that we both got over the partying stage our second year of college and that he has always been an LTR guy not a hook up guy. He has always been very naturally red pill (without having heard of it) and helped/helps me see t…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/17 09:25 PM
3	giving my opinion vs staying neutral -- help! I agree that you should give your opinion if he asks for it. But i also think there are ways to share your opinions without framining them as such. Rather then stark opinions i offer my man "ideas" and "possible solutions" to his scenario. So instead of coming across like i'm telling him what to do, it's more like I'm helping him brainstorm all his options. Make sure he knows you will support whatever decision he makes, but you are glad to help him weigh the pros and cons and give a new perspect…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/17 06:13 PM
3	Do guys treat everyone this way or is it my looks? Several people hit the nail on the head with the conversational, confidence & body language aspects to you problem, so i will focus on the physical improvements you can make! (Of course i don't know what you look like.) Honestly like 90% of attractiveness is just being fit, healthy and "put together." Knock out facial features and body parts can put you in the top tier of females but you can still be very attractive even if you were born a plain jane or with unique facial features. Think of it t…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/17 05:43 AM
1	Declining Sex -When, why, or Never? I didn't know there were any women that prefer blowjobs to sex! Really? Why?? (I don't mean this in mean way at all, just genuinely curious! Teach me to love them!)	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/17 04:56 AM
2	Declining Sex -When, why, or Never? My boyfriend and i have been together for 7.5 years (living together 5.5) and have sex probably 5-6 days week on average, not including the 4 days a month we can't bang. The only reason i ever turn him down is if i'm feeling really sick or just painfully exhausted. We have a 17 month old daughter and both work early mornings and work out a lot, so he understands it even if he's disappointed. Sometimes he's even the one thats too tired! He will occasionally get bitchy about it for a minute but th…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/17 04:50 AM
7	Tips on Becoming More Feminine? Wearing dresses everyday is all well and good and definitely works for some women but if its not your thing don't force yourself to wear one everyday! There are plenty of ways to look and feel feminine without wearing a dress. I really only wear dresses on special occasions or occasionally in the summertime. I'm more into athleisure wear (leggings, comfy tops, leotards with looser pants) that i either pair with cute sneakers, boots, heels or sandals and a fashionable coat, hoodie, vest or sweate…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/03/17 10:39 PM
3	Living together before marriage My boyfriend moved in together our junior year of college (after 2 years of dating) mainly because it was our cheapest option since we could share a room and we had been having sleepovers every night anyway. It worked for us and our parents supported it. We still live together now (after 7.5 years dating) and even have a 16-month old daughter! We learned so much about each other from living together and never regretted it for a second! It boggles my mind that people get married never having live…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/03/17 11:27 PM
3	Professional gambler? This is my mans dream job lol i hope the chemistry is there when you guys meet in person! Let us know!	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/17 05:18 AM
1	Is it better to have friends who you disagree fundamentally with or have no friends at all? I have plenty of friends from childhood and high school that are total SJW feminist types that i strongly disagree with on many issues. But i still enjoy their company in other ways and hang out with them occasionally. I just avoid those topics and talk about literally anything else with them. One of my best friends from high school sent me a snapchat recently that was about the womens march and "my body my choice stuff" i just told her straight up that i am anti-abortion and no silly march will…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/17 02:59 AM
1	I hate working out with my boyfriend. Maybe he likes showing you off at the gym! Or feels macho training you! My boyfriend basically trained me all through college until he got into mma. We compromised by doing about half our workout together and then splitting up for our own stuff. Some days i would go to yoga or pilates while he would workout alone or with a friend. Honestly, i thank him for how much my body improved due to his seriousness about fitness. I also convinced him to go to a few challenging yoga/pilates classes with me …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/17 02:46 AM
1	I hate working out with my boyfriend. It definitely depends on your physique goals. Its very easy for me to grow my butt with squats, for example, but i'm only 5'1 and seek to look taller, more graceful, with better posture and super flat abs - yoga and pilates have had a much greater result for me then the heavy weight lifting i used to do	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/17 02:41 AM
2	Craziest/stupidest Women's Magazine Advice You've Read? I think my whole discovery of red pill knowledge and breaking out of the modern feminist matrix of sorts was discovering that calorie counting is total BS. I spent years taking health and fitness advice from womens magazines that told me all calories are equal and as long as i only ate 1200-1500 calories a day i'd lose my loce handles. I absolutely believed this and couldnt figure out why starving myself left me tired, grumpy, achy and still with love handles. Then i read a life changing book ca…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/17 02:29 AM
1	He is running himself ragged and I am at my wits end Some simple things i do to help out my boyfriend when he has a full schedule: -pack lunch and brewing coffee at night so he can grab it on his way out the door in the morning. -do laundry, chores & errands for him when i have the time -make him dinner, sometimes with the intention that there will be leftovers for the following night -help him get his clothes/bag ready at night for the next morning -give him a massage to help him relax -don't nag him because he's clearly stressed enough	/r/RedPillWomen	21/03/17 02:21 AM
2	Getting him to take me seriously sexually As the first mate to a martial artist i can attest to this. Definitely bring out the animal in a man (in a healthy/constructive way)	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/17 04:04 AM
1	How do you keep your family organized? I love this idea! I always put a piece of tape with the date the leftovers were made on its container. I picked up this habit from working as a vegan line cook. I also keep all pantry items in labeled mason jars which looks very neat and makes it easy to take inventory. Each week i come up with several dinners to make and cook them based on my and my mans preference. Each night i pack my mans lunch and prep food for my mom to feed my daughter if i have to work the next morning. Regularly cleanin…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/17 03:44 AM
1	House/Health/Garden Tips! Push saran wrap into your guacamole to keep it from browning (no air gap) Cinnamon oil is a great natural lip plump - stings though, follow up right away with almond or coconut oil Buy a bunch of mason jars in various sizes on amazon and labeling stickers. Organize your pantry items with these! Not only does it look really clean and organized, but it makes it so easy to see what you have and prevents spills or forgetting about things that end up expiring. Raw organic honey mixed with cinnamon or…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/17 03:35 AM
1	Splitting finances My man and i aren't married but we do have a daughter and have lived together for 5 of our 7 years together. He makes more then me because he works full time while i only work parttime. We split most costs but he often insist on paying for groceries, gas, etc and sometimes buys me clothes he likes. I pay for my own beauty products/services & non-necessities while he pays his own mma gym membership and equipment. We are very frugal by nature and are more addicted to saving then spending. Sometime…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/17 03:19 AM
6	Advice for young RPW I wouldn't worry too much about getting a college degree honestly. Unless you are in a select few fields (lawyer, doctor, stem, finance, etc) all it gives you is debt and beer bloat. I wish i had just spent those 4 years getting certifications for jobs that ACTUALLY appeal to me. (For me thats yoga/pilates instructor, hair styling, cosmetology, holistic nutrition). You should look into certifications you can get in fields that interest you and work toward those! In the meantime, engage in self i…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/17 03:09 AM
14	Interesting Video on women's nature and the point of red pill Lol at your last sentence! I honeslty enjoy reading ROK and the roosh forums but i find Roosh himself insufferable. That man could never game me. Would not touch with a 10 foot pole.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/03/17 02:57 AM
2	An RPW dilemma This is exactly me and my boyfriend!! But you explained it better then i was going to ;)	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/17 04:46 AM
1	When feminist friends ask you your thoughts I tell them that women (in America) have every right men have, that men actually get screwed in several ways, that i oppose abortion & explain why the wage gap is a myth. Depending on the person i might tell them i think its all whiny entitled nonsense. I'm never rude or preachy about it. I don't bring it up on my own ever. But if someone asks me, i'm happy to calmly explain my views on modern feminism.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/17 03:40 AM
1	Does it matter what He looks like? It absolutely matters to ME what my man looks looks like. My boyfriend is shredded, tan, blonde, strong jaw line, green eyes & still gives me that "omg hes so hot" feeling whenever he walks in the room. If i wasn't so strongly attracted to him i wouldn't have noticed him in the first place, let alone date him for the past 6.5 years. I know that many red pill guys think all men need it money, game & height to attract and keep women but i disagree. Women that are looking for an LTR and potential f…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/03/17 02:00 AM
2	makeup video recs! I would also recommend looking for someone with a similar look to you! I think the reason i'm drawn to Keaton Milburn for example because we have similar skin tone, natural hair coloring, bone structure & features. Someone with a similar look to you will feel more catered to you personally!	/r/RedPillWomen	07/03/17 04:39 AM
2	makeup video recs! I like keatin milburn for simpler more natural looks https://m.youtube.com/user/Kkeeeaattoonn For ultra glam, carli bybel	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/17 07:30 PM
3	What main characteristics makes a man to be an Alpha/Captain? Confident Goal oriented Respected Independent Mentally/emotionally stable Healthy Responsible	/r/RedPillWomen	06/03/17 07:28 PM
2	AskRPW: How Much Does "Type" Matter to You? My type is athletic blue collar guy who has the energy to get sweaty at work all day and then still work out, play sports, etc. I'm not attracted to guys that wear suits and work at a desk, too manicured, etc. I like a guy that can make sweats & a t shirt look sexy as hell. I don't like body builder types though who are into protein shakes, bench pressing & gym selfies. My boyfriend is extremely devoted to mixed martial arts (mostly jiu jitsu) and has worked a variety of blue collar jobs. His bo…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/17 06:22 AM
1	What do you think about modern beauty trends? Which ones do you love and which ones do you hate?? Also hate graphic tees	/r/RedPillWomen	27/02/17 01:31 AM
1	Meal Mondays Yayy new best friend! I am vegan, my man isn't but he's about 85% vegan. Only eats meat & fish at night and lucky for me he loves to grill & make his own meat. But he also loves my vegan meals and desserts and goes many days full vegan!	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/17 09:40 PM
1	What do you think about modern beauty trends? Which ones do you love and which ones do you hate?? Oh ya i loooove outfit sets - a top that matches pants/skirt/shorts. They are so cute and put together and you can find casual options, dressy, midriff baring, modest, etc. Also love a good romper	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/17 03:57 AM
2	What do you think about modern beauty trends? Which ones do you love and which ones do you hate?? My style is girly meets sporty - comfortable and practical but still feminine & chic Love: winged liner, subtle highlighting & contouring, full lips, full brows (not overly boxy/big though), leggings/yoga pants, crop tops, high waists, sunglasses with colored lenses, athleisure wear, cute sneakers, bubble butts (not gross fake ones), a few ear piercings (i wear 3 topaz studs on each lobe & also have a belly button piercing Hate: super short hair, those bangs that stop halfway down your forehead,…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/17 03:55 AM
1	Why does the wall only matter for women In my opinion, men hit their sexual/physical peak only slightly later then females (maybe 25-35 compared to females say about 18-28). The difference is that men care more about a women's appearance and fertility (subconsciously) whereas women place more emphasis on a males status/success. Due to the current economy and modern lifestyle, most men aren't really hitting their economic stride until their 30. So while the 25 year old guy might have higher testosterone and more energy/vitality to run …	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/17 05:29 AM
5	Meal Mondays Tonight i cup up a box of 22 yellow mangos that will probably get devoured by tmrw night. Dinner my man wanted sandwiches - on mine i put garlic hummus, avocado, brown mustard, red onion, spinach, cilantro, pickles & banana peppers (it was AMAZING). Also made vegan chocolate chip oatmeal cookies. Made my guy a huge fruit salad for the morning (mango, apple, kiwi, blueberry & strawberry) plus cold brew coffee. For my own breakfast tmrw i prepped cinnamon vanilla chia pudding (coconut milk base) w…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/17 04:36 AM
1	Soft Power This was an amazing post! Thank you for writing it! Everything you said has been so true in my experience. Loved the bit about doing maternal chores but not treating your man like you're his mom! I do my mans laundry, clean, cook for him, pack his lunch, bake for him, run various errands for him & other helpful maternal tasks. But i DONT baby him, ask about his feelings, nag him or mommy-smother him in any way. I treat him like my best friend and lover (not my baby)! This works out very well for…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/02/17 04:24 AM
3	What are some things that need to be done to increase SMV as a 20/f? It does suit everyone as it is the natural human diet (i have spent 5 years studying nutrition extensively, starting out very skeptical) but each human has their own needs as far as carbs, fats, proteins, vitamins, minerals, calories, sensitivities, allergies, etc. Takes a lot of trial and error and even bloodwork, allergy tests and hormonal tests help a lot. Not at all saying everyone should be vegan or can't thrive as a carnivore (seriously i don't care) but i do know that everyone definitely …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 08:24 PM
2	How do I stop attention-seeking behavior and build self-control? Most everything is easier said then done - but you won't regret the effort!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 08:18 PM
2	How do I stop attention-seeking behavior and build self-control? Force yourself to follow a strict routine for a few weeks and it will become a habit. Just push yourself to workout and eat well for a month, and the next month it will be like second nature.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 07:15 AM
2	Simple Questions Any must read books or documentaries, shows, movies, podcasts, blogs, youtube videos, speeches, etc? Non-fiction or fiction - as long as i will learn something, question something or improve as a person from consuming it	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 07:02 AM
2	Simple Questions I agree with the comments above me, but want to add that it also depends on your captain and his own drinking habits and opinions. Theres no one size fits all on this one!	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 06:59 AM
2	Simple Questions I would try to create a super relaxing environment for him and then initiating. Make his favorite food, watch a movie, dim the lights/light candles/turn on the fire place, wear something sexy, offer to give him a nice long massage and from there you can try to initiate. But if he is still not into it, don't push him and make him feel embarrassed or awkward. Just try again another day maybe in a different way, upbeat energetic daytime sex or right out of the shower or something. Maybe after a dat…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 06:54 AM
1	Simple Questions Get a high quality ceramic one	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 06:33 AM
3	What are some things that need to be done to increase SMV as a 20/f? I was sharing my personal experience. I found that meat and dairy were contributing to my acne, love handles, acid reflux, perpetually runny nose, mood swings, bloating, pms, and more. I thought i'd have to live with these problems forever! Going vegan changed my life and daily happiness in so many ways. I'm not saying anyone else has to go vegan, but i do think everyone can benefit from eating more plants and figuring out their own dietary sensitivities. Eating a plant based natural nutrient ri…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 06:29 AM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type You're right. I have a couple pairs of these high waist control top leggings that really squeeze my waist in but have thinner material around the butt. I need more of those......	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 06:20 AM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Thanks for the tips!! I have a very strong core and back from years of yoga and pilates so the waist trainer hasnt been a problem. You are right that i should start lifting heavy again. In college i squated 155 lbs 2-3 times a week in addition to other heavy lower body lifts. But my man got into jiu jitsu so i lost my spotter and just switched to 45 lb barbells and dumbbell stuff. But now i have a daughter and don't go to a commercial gym (just occasional yoga, pilates, barre, spin classes that …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/17 06:18 AM
1	Anyone Else Feel Alienated from their Non RP Family and Friends? Disturbing right? My friends actually kept their opinions to themselves about abortion but my parents and sister were disgustingly adamant that i "nip this problem in the bud" Of course now they are all obsessed and in love with my daughter but they'll never apologize for the past.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/01/17 12:42 AM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type I already work out at least an hour a day for my whole life. Waist trainers work if you are already in shape and are not uncomfortable. Im not getting surgery so please move on.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 04:43 PM
2	True Life: I've been single for years because I'm only attracted to masculine men. "Super bleak dark coffee is where those guys get coffee." Bahahahhaha that made my day. Its so true!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 05:12 AM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Maca is a root vegetable. Its an edible plant with a malty/nutty flavor. We use it in a few of our smoothies at the vegan restaurant i work at. Its great for balancing hormones and giving your body energy. Because of its hormone balancing properties, it can help the female body store fat in the feminine areas rather then the belly. Totally natural and not at all extreme..... i wear a snug but comfortable waist cincher under my clothes while i work. You can't even see it under my uniform. Also no…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 04:55 AM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type We are just going in circles here. I do NOT want a big fake plastic cartoonish butt. Nor has he ever told me i should get one. I just know that he likes big butts and want to naturally improve my own. I'm not going ro repeat what i've already written to you a million times. You sound like some "empowered feminist" telling me its wrong to want to look as attractive as i can for my man. He puts in the work to impress me and be his ultimate best, i try to do the same. If you are not going to provid…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 04:17 AM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type If you aren't going to contribute anything other then petty criticisms, can you please just ignore my thread?	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 03:04 AM
1	Today we hit 16,000 members! Lurkers and newbies come out and say hi! Hello! Im a week late on this thread but figured i'd introduce myself! I've been lurking the red pill/manosphere for several months now - but only discovered this forum yesterday! I was so excited to find a place where a bunch of ladies are talking about this stuff! I like to read the guys perspectives but obviously couldn't relate to it as much. So this was exciting to find! I'm 25 yrs old with a 14 month old daughter and a boyfriend of 7 years (maybe one day we'll get married, neither of us pa…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 02:38 AM
2	On why it is important to always be respectful of your SO My boyfriend and I do the playfully chastising thing all the time but there honestly there is truth in what we say in those moments. I'm gonna try to observe our habits when it comes to this because i feel like we do it to each other often but it's never seemed to have a negative effect on us? I could def be wrong though. Pondering it now, its almost like instead of having this serious conversation about minor complaints, we just do this playful teasing thing that makes it feel like whatever we …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 02:14 AM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type For the 5th time i've overheard him talking to friends and when we were both drunk on NYE and watching a live concert on tv, nicky minaj walked out and he blurted out "oh damn i didnt know she had a smoking body" it wasn't intentional or offensive/upsetting to me. And i'm not saying i would compliment other guys in front of him - was just providing an example from the other side. If your guy letting slip a compliment about some celebrities body to his friends or on one of the rare times he is dr…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 01:46 AM
2	What are some things that need to be done to increase SMV as a 20/f? Bah sorry accidently posted 3 times lol deleted the duplicates!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 01:36 AM
32	What are some things that need to be done to increase SMV as a 20/f? I had low self esteem in my late teens but improved it a lot! Confidence is for sure a highly attractive trait in both sexes and can do a lot to improve your SMV. Plus a lot of the ways you go about cultivating more confidence can also lead to other high SMV qualities (ie fit body, good cook, etc) built up my confidence was: -Working out daily (doing workouts i enjoy) -Cooking healthy food for myself (enjoying the reward of your efforts is definitely part of it but also just knowing what you are…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 01:34 AM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type I don't get why you have such a problem with me aspiring to look as good as i can for my man? It's what i want to do. I just thought aside from the physical tips maybe someone in this sub might have some insight into whether the huge butt thing is like a phase guys go through in their peak testosterone years or just a current cultural phenom or if men might express attraction to the most extreme examples of their favorite features but not actually want those things in their girlfriends/wives (ie…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 12:53 AM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type I appreciate the concern but i think you are misunderstanding. I am not upset at my BF at all for what he finds attractive. I just want to be as sexy as i can and appeal to his personal tastes because it feels good - much like how i want to make him the yummiest food because i like to go above and beyond for him. NOT because he pressures me to. It would be like if he overheard me tell a friend how hot some UFC guys bod is and then a few months later while tipsy i let slip that some actor in a mo…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 12:42 AM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Once again, he has never told me i shpuld have a big fake butt. He has a couple of times complimented the appearance of large butts and from that i understood that he likes big butts. Mine is larger then average anyway and i know it was one of his initial attractions to me. I just want to be as hot as possible for his taste and was wondering if anyone had advice to naturally enhance my butt even more or if im just overthinking it. We have a great relationship and im not looking for people to cri…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/17 12:07 AM
4	Anyone Else Feel Alienated from their Non RP Family and Friends? Girrrrrrl i feel you! Im from san francisco and went to school in new york (aka bit metropolitan progressive feminist hotbeds) and its considered insane to settle down in your early 20s. I've been with my guy since first day of freshman year in college (moved in together as juniors) and i cannot tell you how many "friends" we both had trying to convince us to dump each other so that we could be free to sleep around and party i guess? So dumb. We didnt listen and now have a daughter together (bor…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 11:14 PM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Thank you :) you are probably right!	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:44 PM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type I mean if you figured out that ur man likes sundresses or long hair or manicured nails, would u not start wearing dresses, growing your hair out & painting your nails? Not because he tells you to but because it feels good to look your best for him? Well my man just happens to like big butts and i just want him to find me super sexy	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:43 PM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type He complimented her drunkenly on new years eve and i've heard him compliment another big fake butt to a friend of his. its not like a regular thing.. i just tend to overthink everything in life. I'm wearing the girdle because it makes me feel confident and ive always been into my body and aspire for an hourglass figure. Maca is also super healthy and i drink it to regulate my hormones & give me energy- just has the added bonus that it can make ur butt bigger due to the hormonal balancing. All th…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:39 PM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type And no its not obsese lol	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:33 PM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type He doesnt throw them in my face at all just a casual comment every few months or i overhear him tell his friend how good one of these butts looks. Hes never said "you should look like this." Its just my desire to try grow my butt since i know he likes big butts	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:27 PM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type I know they dont have long term permanence but im telling you, waist training works. I've worn mine 4-8 hours a day for 2 months and i can clearly see a more obvious hourglass shape even if i havent worn it in a couple days. If you are dedicated and consistent and buy a quality one they DO work but u have to keep it up forever basically. Corsets also work and helped immensely in flatting my angled ribs.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:25 PM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Haha we don't have anal (tried and so far too painful) but we do all the other buttstuff	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:23 PM
1	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Yeah he likes scarletts body and im sure if he saw these women in person he'd realize she looks much better then these cartoonish bodies. Its actually not exhausting i just wear the waist trainer during my 7 hour work shifts and drink maca in my daily smoothie. I work out anyway so just more butt emphasis. I'm not aiming for that kim k fake look just want to naturally enhance what i already have	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:22 PM
2	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Haha noooo i just no he loves big butts and would love to make mine bigger	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:20 PM
3	Achieving my boyfriends ideal body type Its so backwards right? He knows her butt is fake too and i've shown him the before pictures but he still says she looks "smoking" Nah i'm not out of his league (physically at least) he has a super sexy ripped muscular but natural body and a really handsome face with green eyes and a huge smile. I'd say we are right on each others levels. He tells me how good i look all the time but his huge butt lust is also pretty clear. He compliments me often and isnt tryyyyying to make me self conscious. An…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 10:19 PM
2	Healing from bad ideas or examples from childhood esp mother's feminism Good tip! My mom taught me absolutely nothing about femininity and how to achieve a desirable appearance. Youtube is the best resource right now to learn make up, hair, fashion & beauty tips! Lots of stunning feminine ladies sharing their secrets there! I was especially clueless about make up until i started watching Carli Bybel videos - seriously life changing!	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 07:22 AM
1	True Life: I've been single for years because I'm only attracted to masculine men. Cosign on the blue collar fellas! Much more manly & natural for a guy to do that kind of physical work and as they work their way up they can make some serious money. Plus the skills they learn in trades can be really helpful outside of work. My guy has worked in window/glass, roofing & now as an electrician apprentice. He wants to build our own home one day using his new knowledge! Plus its so much sexier when he comes home all sweaty in his work boots & flannel - unlike when he came home in kh…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 06:09 AM
3	True Life: I've been single for years because I'm only attracted to masculine men. My boyfriend does competitive martial arts and i've noticed that the guys in that community are generally much higher quality then average. Not only are they physically fit, healthy, masculine & attractive, but they have a lot of other desirable qualities. To compete in martial arts a guy has to be confident, disciplined, hard working, passionate, clever, able to overcome losses/disappointments, able to learn from their mistakes, goal-oriented, etc. it also takes a strong character to fight solo…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 05:45 AM
4	The Fear of the Wall and Why I'm Sick of Hearing About It Wow thats heartless	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 05:01 AM
5	The Fear of the Wall and Why I'm Sick of Hearing About It Great post! Must say, as i approach 26 i am starting to become much less annoyed at people commenting on how young i look. When i'm out alone with my daughter i am often asked if i am her nanny or big sister or get generally judgy glares as i look like a teen mom (i live in libtown san francisco) Hoping my naturally young look combined with my healthy clean lifestyle will push my wall back further. I already have a high quality hot man but i'm still vain and want to look good for him and anyone …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/17 03:36 AM
1	Advise on dealing with pregnancy and SAHW status Forgot to mention that in the last couple months of my pregnancy i became extrememly horny! It was like an insatiable desire for my man that i hadnt felt in years - so you both might have that to look forward too! But be prepared for the 6 weeks post-partum when sex is off limits - that part unfortunately is really hard on men, especially since he won't be as exhausted from all the midnight feedings. But his love for your newborn child will still overpower his sexual frustration!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/01/17 06:27 AM