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It's not "men", it's most people. Why? Because of the state of the economy. Very few people can afford to live on a single income, so day care is a necessity, it's not that they "want" it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 01:06 PM
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How do you provide emotionally and appear cold and distant at the same time? It looks like you're lying even now. So why should we believe anything you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:18 AM
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So you want to be violated?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:07 AM
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What you get in return is not being violated yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:25 AM
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Who said you had them at the same time???
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:02 AM
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But YOU said you had plenty of girlfriends, while having to work 3 jobs just to pay the bills. You fumbled at least one of your points and still got laid...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 02:11 PM
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You clearly didn't need all of this yourself, so I don't get what point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:03 AM
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I kind of agree with the premise. Maybe not always bullied, but there always seems to be some kind of mental hurdle. Shyness is bad for men specifically, because they are the ones expected to make the first move. It's difficult to do it if you're shy and/or lack confidence. In my opinion, parents have a key role in preventing/fixing this problem. They have to teach the boys to stand up for themselves and to instill confidence in them. But the sad reality is that the parents frequently fail this …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 11:11 AM
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I think the parameters of being nice are very important, otherwise we'll be talking about different things. Also, the term Nice Guy means not really nice guy lately. So clarifications are important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:15 PM
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Yes, but you can't really choose how long you'll live. Unless you're talking about self inflicted death... I don't mean coercing, I mean literal healthcare workers, who are paid for their job. And not just that. All kinds of goods and services will be harder to acquire with fewer employees. And I think we're far from having robots replacing effectively every important job. But maybe I'm wrong, who knows...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 08:01 PM
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You can save all you want - if there aren't enough young people to nurse you when you're old, you're screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:22 AM
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"the government could put thr money they put into war into paying CNAs and other nursing home staff wages" - you know they won't. Old people (our generations) will be dying in misery and lack of health care. If you have fewer young people, this means fewer people working in health care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:11 AM
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I guess you shouldn't base your life on the experiences when you were 7. Everything seems funny to a 7-year-old. Adults appreciate holding the door for them. Like I said in the original comment, it's ok to get something wrong. You can learn from the experience and move on. And it's not even wrong to hold the door open, it's just not a reason to date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:08 PM
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First of all, movies are not propaganda. The viewer is well aware that they're watching fiction. Only small children and mentally ill people can't distiguish fiction from reality. Second, I'll never advise anyone to be an asshole to get women. Being nice is still a requirement, it's just that you need more, much more. And no, I don't view being nice as doing favors and buying gifts for a woman you barely know - this is doormat territory. I view it as some basic level of decency - like not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 06:55 PM
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Yes, I understand where they might be coming from. Still, this doesn't absolve them of responsibility for their own actions and beliefs. Most guys don't have the "Nice Guy" syndrome. How come they figured it out, but Nice Guys can't? Even if you make this mistake when you're young, you should learn your lesson and correct your behavior. I don't see the point of the endless complaining on the internet and assigning blame to women and movies?! It's extremely silly to believe movies are real life a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:03 PM
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Just because you see something on social media, doesn't mean it's a thing. There's tons of rage bait content, trolls, fake news, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:52 AM
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And the man receives another kind of "buffet" from the gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 01:56 PM
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I don't know who's arguing in bad faith here... What does it matter in which bank account were the money? If you give a cash present to someone for their wedding, do you also consider them "taking away your resources"? After all, the money was in your bank account and now it's in theirs ...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 09:09 AM
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How is the gold digger "taking away a resource"? You make it sound like she's robbing him at gunpoint. Men GIVE their resources absolutely voluntarily. Some even enjoy doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:52 AM
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What these guys don't get is that the less you care about other people's opinions, the more success you'll have with women. Desperation is a turn off. So they either realize this and stop posting self-pitying/threatening posts or they continue to do so and sink deeper into the hole. And it's not some secret, it's been said a thousand times before. Even Red pill is saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:54 AM
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It's not my job to force guys to do anything. You can do whatever you please, I mean, who's stopping you from "leveling up"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:04 AM
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Drugs are also not without benefits, but this doesn't mean that others can't call out your choices. Whether it helps you cope or not is irrelevant, when at the end of the day it's a bad choice and it shouldn't be encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:46 AM
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This is like saying: "If I'm already an alcoholic, why can't I become a meth addict as well?" It's because it's not helping you with your problems. That's what OP is trying to say. Hating each other is not the solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:14 AM
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Where did I claim this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:06 AM
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Your friend is not every autistic person in the world. Some are unpleasant, some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:09 AM
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So dating is a human right and not dating you is abuse??? You serious??
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 06:44 AM
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And the richest men in the world ALL DIDN'T fuck their way to the top. If that's not a privilege, I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:04 AM
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Really? And here I thought that making strong claims and citing percentages should be backed up by some kind of evidence...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:19 PM
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So zero. You being paranoid is not proof that this happens at even remotely significant numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:17 PM
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How many times were you actually laughed out of the bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 04:45 AM
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Well, let's say I don't find feminine men attractive. Even if he's physically pleasing. Moderately masculine is what attracts me the most. Not the hyper macho style, but also not "one of the girls". Taking charge of a situation and acting competent and assertive is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 09:32 AM
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It's definitely worthwhile for the women, what are you talking about? I'd very much prefer not to be raped, than to be raped! I'm sure men feel the same about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:21 AM
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Is this a serious question??? You don't see what's the difference between having a random hookup with a stranger you know nothing about and being in a loving committed relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:49 AM
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Most women don't want random dick - it's not safe or even that pleasurable. If that were the case, men wouldn't have had such a hard time to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:42 AM
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Why don't they care about their own kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 07:44 AM
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Will you stop trying to weasel out of your initial statement? Either a man is "weak and agreeable" or he's not. Sometimes people compromise, that doesn't make you weak. On the contrary, it makes for a stronger marriage. Of course, both parties have to compromise from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:59 AM
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Of course we have arguments, but nothing major, for ex. whether we should buy a shoe cabinet or not (and in that case he won the argument). I know he's not weak and agreeable because I see how he interacts with other people. He has this "natural leader" trait, which impressed me very much before we started dating. People listen to him, respect him and follow him. He stands up for himself and argues with passion if he thinks he's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:42 AM
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And I'm claiming that it's not true in general. We don't have big disagreements with my husband. I simply chose a person who matches me very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 10:07 AM
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This is absolutely not true! I was not looking for a weak, agreeable man for a long-term relationship. In fact, weak, agreeable men disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:42 AM
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Soo... you have no experience and yet you make weird imaginary scenarios how your confidence will be perceived as obnoxious? I'm sorry to say, but you're putting a stick in your own wheels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:48 AM
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Yes, offline dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:28 AM
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I'm not talking about cold approaches. You can't show your positive qualities in a 3 second interaction with a random stranger. I'm talking about socializing and meeting women naturally, getting acquainted with them and demonstrating your qualities. And no, this does not mean being a dancing monkey. Everyone has to show what they offer, how else would they choose you? "Lol meanwhile all the women has to do is sit and wait." It's not women's fault that men choose solely based on looks...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:23 AM
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Have you actually tried?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:10 AM
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Women wouldn't give advice if men didn't constantly complain and ask for advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 07:08 AM
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Yes, I believe it will be different for these men irl. Why? Because on the apps you can easily be buried in the hundreds of other profiles. If you are face to face with a woman, she will have to pay you at least some attention. You have a chance to shine with your charisma, jokes, whatever. Of course, you'll need to have said charisma/other positive qualities in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:58 PM
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Who would want to sit and listen to his drivel? Likeable men enjoy all the things you mentioned and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:34 AM
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I don't get offended when tons of men here claim women are sluts and gold diggers, because I know it doesn't apply to me. You should do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:47 AM
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And how would a complete stranger know what you are or aren't doing? If you're not doing said thing, then this advice is not for you. Why would you even get offended?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 08:19 AM
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The good thing about advice is that you don't have to take it. Especially when it's from random strangers on the internet. I don't really understand what's your issue here? If you don't like it, scroll past it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 07:49 AM
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This needs to be pinned on top of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:49 AM
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And you repeat the same thing like a parrot because my experience doesn't confirm your beliefs. We'll get nowhere here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 06:41 AM
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On the contrary. I have male friends who still don't have a partner in their 30s. I see the failures. I'm just pointing out that personality matters. Because those who failed have the opposite personality of the crippled guy - quiet, awkward, a bit shy, don't go out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:36 AM
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Yes. Which makes it quite a lot of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:19 AM
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I think it matters. I personally know a crippled below average looking dude with a wife and son. He's very easy to talk to, always joking and smiling. It's a delight to be in his company.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:01 AM
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It must be nice living in your dream land...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 01:03 PM
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I don't think you understand what human trafficking is. I suggest educating yourself on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 12:26 PM
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It's clearly not enough when it's still happening. AGAIN - the sugar baby is consenting to the relationship. The prostitute may not be consenting but being forced to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:11 AM
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Your sister in law is not representative for every woman today. You're talking about very privileged people. Most people can't afford to live in a mansion and not work at all. And yeah, life is easier today for everybody, not just women. Men don't have to risk their lives hunting, most have a decently safe job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 09:28 AM
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Did it ever occur to you that it may have something to do with human trafficking? Meanwhile in a sugar daddy relationship, no one is trafficked. How can you even compare the two?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 08:36 AM
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I don't agree. Being interesting comes with a whole package of perks which enrich your life, even if you're single. Men should do it for themselves, first and foremost. Attracting women is just one more perk.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 08:28 AM
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Well, if he has problems with dating and he doesn't state what specifically hinders him, of course people will start speculating. And of course the assumptions will be bad - no one has problems from being too good at something. Why is this a surprise? Edit: If you don't want people to assume horrible things about you, give more information and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 08:07 AM
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I'm obviously talking about initiating a conversation with romantic intentions. That's what you were talking about in your previous comment too. Changing the subject to "friendship" won't make you suddenly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:49 AM
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"and still initiate a conversation" - but... this is chasing... or did you imagine men literally chasing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:30 AM
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He's right though. Without physical attraction you're just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:19 AM
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If we're going to talk about realism, the most realistic approach is for the man to always wear a condom (unless they're trying for a baby) and to accept the fact there is a 0.1% chance that he may become a father. And it's best if he buys and puts on the condom, to ensure that it's intact. It's not that difficult. The woman should also take her own precautions. And if one or both of them are stupid enough to forego any precautions, the law/state shouldn't be responsible to fix their own mess. J…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:48 AM
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You're the obtuse one, since I already told you at least twice that I'm not talking about "objecting" or "preventing". You keep putting words in my mouth. Now suddenly I don't offer advice to my friends and "shut down the conversations"?? Who said that? Why you inventing bullshit about me?! You're clearly talking in bad faith!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:53 AM
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I already explained possible reasons in my first comment, which you clearly didn't bother to read. Your love life if your responsibility solely. If your friend offers to help you, great. But expecting that a friend MUST help you find someone is peak entitlement! I don't know why you're inserting your anecdotes here, which are totally unrelated to what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 09:29 AM
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Who said anything about preventing you or getting mad? You're creating a straw man here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:49 AM
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So basically you want to turn a system, which is unfair to men, into a system, which is unfair to women. I'm obviously against that. Realistic or not, my proposal is the only one fair to both sexes. Btw my proposal also solves the problem with false rape accusations, if both parties sign the document. You'll kill 2 birds with one stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 06:45 AM
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I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:56 PM
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That's why I suggested signing the legal document before the act - it's the most fair option for both parties. Anything after that is not equally fair because reproductive capabilities are not the same. In my opinion, any legal system should take into account the worst case possible. No matter how rare it may (or may not) be, these cases will happen and there must be a way to solve them. Consider how many single moms there are out there in the current system. Now imagine if the dads had a way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:54 PM
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I'm not talking about personality, it matters but for later in the relationship. I'm talking about raw sexual attraction. Some men smell appealing. You can call it pheromones if you will.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:27 PM
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Because he can easily lie that he's on board, impregnate her and then change his mind and leave her with the consequences. Signing a legal document is 1000x easier than getting an abortion. And cheaper. And not mentally and physically taxing. You guys act like abortion is done with a magic wand in a second. It's a medical procedure which hides real health risks, including permanent infertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:12 PM
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Yes, he should have such a right. And this can be done by going to the notary to sign a legal document BEFORE having sex. But no horny man will ever bother to do it, so it's kind of useless to keep discussing this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:21 AM
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How do you prove that she lied to you? It's "he said, she said". Legally, if there's no evidence, there's no case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:03 AM
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Why are you replying to me? There's no connection to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 09:19 AM
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Your last paragraph doesn't make any sense. If I want to be someone's friend, of course I don't want to escalate to something romantic, why would I? Do you want to escalate to something romantic with your male friends? That's why it's called friendship. And not introducing you to other women doesn't mean anything. Maybe she doesn't have single friends or she thinks you're not suitable for each other. Some people simply don't like to meddle. That doesn't mean she's "using" said friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 07:53 AM
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I am certainly for presenting yourself in the best light, I still don't see how a book can help with that. It's common sense to present yourself in the best light when dating. And only you and people who know you can tell you what your best light is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:36 AM
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I mean, you can't force people to like/love you. But I'll give you that not everyone is like me, some people might be slow burners. Your best bet is to try your luck with different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 10:18 AM
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I know if I find a guy attractive within the first minute of meeting him. These "tricks" don't do as much as you think. If he has to work on it and convince me, it means I'm not that attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:50 AM
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Advice on how to flirt is not going to do that. It's called "chemistry" for a reason. The advice is good to help you approach, but everything else after that is pure chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:15 AM
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And a book is going to create romantic chemistry how exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:36 AM
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Fathers leave for all kinds of reasons, you can't speculate that all of them didn't want the baby, expressed their opinion clearly and it was rejected by the woman. Many of them lie that they want it and then vanish. Many of them leave for totally unrelated reasons, like for a mistress for example. Maybe you should start thinking critically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 08:20 AM
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"But the same could be said about women who keep unwanted pregnancies against their partner's wishes. Which happens a lot." Really? Do you have stats for this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:55 PM
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As if you wouldn't be making money in any other situation... Or did you plan to live your life on government support?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 08:04 AM
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Huh? First of all, some women love camping/pubs as well. Second, said friends may have sisters, female cousins, female friends that they can introduce to you. My (then) boyfriend's friend got together with my sister because we introduced them. "I don't think women on this subreddit know what men in their 20's do for fun, most people are meeting through dating apps now because men and women do not mix." - you think I'm living on Mars or something? When I go to the local board games club, it's ful…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:46 PM
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Are you saying that travelling, speaking lots of languages and being in the military makes you an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:11 PM
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Yeah, but having friends makes it easier to find a wife than staying home alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:27 AM
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Why didn't you just block him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:24 AM
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Ok. Earlier you said: "I can see a bit above average is better than below average. " And now you're saying it doesn't matter if he doesn't fit me. With which I agree. But all of this is not relevant to my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:23 PM
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I don't understand the point of this - save him from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:11 PM
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That's why I said "large" is very non-descriptive. If it's a bit above/below average, I'd consider it in the realm of average. After all, people don't have ruler eyes. I can't guess exact measurements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:25 AM
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They're lying, that's how. Also "large" is very non-descriptive. Unless you personally measured them, they could be lying about their size too. Men lie constantly about their dick size and about their "conquests".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 08:43 AM
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"none of that compares to a woman wearing skin tight pants, even remotely" Apparently, you don't think obese women are women...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:08 PM
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Do you find obese women in skin tight pants sexy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:13 AM
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The one you described in your previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:18 AM
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Then it's not "pushing" if she wants it. The word "pushing" implies resistance. Your case is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:48 AM
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Which is exactly taking care of your need to not get killed by the enemy. It's essential for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:40 AM
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You mean the women he sex trafficked!? I'm sure you know how my sexuality works better than me. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:03 AM
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No, the horny doesn't work like this. Yeah, I'd be happy if he has a significant raise, the same way I'd be happy if I get a raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:21 AM
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And lots of women are currently dating a mcdonalds cashier or barista, so what's your point? Do you actually think that women get wet from looking at successful men? Of course it's preferable if your partner has a stable financial situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:31 AM
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Lol! I see you've never been to the dating subs with the countless posts of women "I like this guy very much, how do I get him to approach me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:37 PM
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Liking is one thing, wanting relationship with them is completely different. I highly doubt that many men would seriously date/marry 90% of the women, if they had that option. They only go for random women because of lack of options/being horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:43 AM
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Isn't this a normal human reaction? If 10 average and above average girls and 2 ugly girls were writing to you, which one would you take your chance to go on a date with? Given that you have no idea how the date will turn out and you have limited time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:15 AM
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Changing the topic just proved to me you're lying. There's nothing more to discuss with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:11 PM
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Sooo... you provided one name which doesn't appear on searches, no links whatsoever and we're supposed to believe you? I say you made that up because you got nothing. If there were "plenty" of such cases, you should've been able to easily provide at least 20 links.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 11:40 AM
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Even if what you claim is true (which I doubt), why do you care? If a woman likes you, she'll want to date you. Some arbitrary rules made by her friends won't stop the attraction. I've seen it happen plenty of times. If you're hitting on people within your friend group without any sign of attraction (basically cold approaching), then yeah, I can see why people would be annoyed by his.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:34 PM
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I think that a lot of women simply don't know the answer. I'm not saying this to excuse them, just as a possible explanation. From my personal experience, the magic happens mostly in my mind and my thoughts/mood can make or brake it, even if the guy is doing nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:29 AM
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The irony of your comment and the guy below you saying that he hasn't communicated his needs for 13 YEARS! lol Men are as awful at communication as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 10:05 AM
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Not really, lots of guys are naturally skinny when young, no matter what they eat and do. I, as a woman, was naturally skinny without any effort whatsoever in my younger years. It comes down to genetics. Which comes to say that women prefer good genetics, which is understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:41 PM
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Ok, if we're going to use anecdotal evidence, most men I know are in relationships. Something like 90% of all my ex-classmates and colleagues are currently married/partnered with children. Most of my friends and acquaintances in their 30s are in relationships. A few are already divorced. All the college aged people I know are in relationships. P.S. I don't know why you include high school in the list, it's absolutely normal for teens not to be in relationships. It's a time for exploration, not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 08:10 AM
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What you describe is not the experience of all men, it's a fraction of men. Most men manage to find girlfriends, most men get married and create a family. Most men have "normal" experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:03 PM
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Your mistake here is equating "selection" with "attraction". You said yourself that even men don't select women solely based on physical attraction for long term relationship. It's exactly the same for women. Wealth is not the primary factor for attraction - being hot is. That's why most young women don't care nearly as much about status and wealth as older women. To them attraction is more important than stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:13 AM
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The irony is through the roof with this one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:37 AM
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Do you mean when women receive some benefits after giving birth of the children of MEN? You think the father is not happy to have extra income during this time (if he's not a deadbeat of course)?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:05 PM
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How long it took you to twist my words enough to finally be able to call me crazy? Just curious...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:51 PM
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No, for the "fact" that plenty of women marry men they aren't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:32 PM
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Do you have proof for this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:47 PM
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Men do absolutely the same thing. Why are you all acting like it's only women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:19 PM
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You said "wants a hard charging, high earning, mid 20's businessman". She got that. The fact that she didn't foresee that he wouldn't have time, doesn't make it unrealistic. The free time requirement came later. And yes, I agree that the second requirement makes it unrealistic, but it wasn't present in the initial standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:02 AM
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It doesn't matter. Unrealistic standards doesn't mean something which is not really suitable for you. It means something which you cannot realistically obtain. She obtained what she wanted, which automatically makes it realistic. The outcome is irrelevant to the topic of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:42 AM
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So if she got what she wanted, it means her standards were quite realistic, doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:45 AM
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This is such a terrible worldview to have! You don't take into consideration that people have different preferences and somebody might like you for who you are. But if you force yourself to become someone you're not, you're missing your chance to find a stable long-term relationship. It's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:53 AM
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Are you saying that all men who are dating successfully are liars and manipulators?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:31 PM
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I've always had at least a couple of guys interested in me in my social circle. And if I wanted someone specifically, I approached him. I've done a bit of online dating and blind date and I was the initiator. Now I'm married so no more approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 10:33 AM
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I never said it's automatically rape. It just feels a bit rapey to me. It's entirely my problem. This sub is so strange, downvoting for stating my personal preferences...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:42 AM
1

Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 10:17 AM
1

Yes. And people don't want to pay EVEN MORE on top of that. It's enough already. Your argument is like saying: "You already pay a lot for rent, food, etc, so let's increase your gas prices."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 09:51 AM
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Well, I don't like fuckboys. And I don't mind the guy being a virgin, as I said above. As long as I like him, the virgin part will not bother me. I think it's kind of hot to be his teacher. Also, being a virgin doesn't make him not husband material. Everyone was a virgin at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 07:26 AM
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I guess it's better in the sense that it's not rapey, but it's still paying someone to endure your company.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 06:56 AM
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I personally think that prostitution is disgusting. I cannot grasp how someone is ok with having to pay a woman to endure him for an hour. Not to mention the dark side of the trade with sex trafficking, beatings, etc. So no, I wouldn't want to date a man who uses/d prostitutes. If I had to choose between a man who frequented prostitutes and a virgin, I'd choose the virgin. It would make me feel special, being the first woman to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 11:30 AM
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Wait a minute, the advice "just treat her like a person and talk to her" is perfectly valid. You won't get far if you put her on a pedestal or you treat her like some mysterious alien entity. BUT that doesn't mean that only this is enough to attract someone and it will guarantee you success. It is just a step in the process, a very important step.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:52 AM
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How would you introduce such policy when people cannot agree on what are the acceptable ways and venues to ask a person out? Everybody has a different opinion on the topic of dating. Not to mention that what would work for attractive people wouldn't work for average or below average people. What would work on a type of women wouldn't work on another type of women. Also, dating is based on emotions, unlike sex ed, which is basically biology. You cannot teach emotional responses. Women will still …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:25 AM
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Again this pointless discussion. The fact is that EVERYTHING matters - your looks, your personality, your social status... even the way you chew your food. Every little thing on you and about you will be judged and if the pros outweigh the cons, you might get lucky. The pros differ from person to person and they also differ between the genders. It sounds intense the way I said it, but a lot of things will be deemed "neutral". Meaning that people won't care much about how you chew your food, unle…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:58 AM
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I don't think it's the school's responsibility to teach kids how to get dates. And parents are heavily biased to be good teachers to their own children. But I agree that constant worrying not to be perceived as a creep is damaging. People should take chances, it's the best way to learn what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:58 AM
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Who was saying this? Your mom? Of course she'll say it, it's in her best interest for you to be nice. Nobody wants ill behaved kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:31 AM
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Men are taller than women on average, isn't it obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:28 PM
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I actually agree with you. Nobody should make life-changing decisions based on the ramblings of internet strangers. They couldn't care less about you. You can take into consideration some advice, sure, but in the end - do what's best for you. These generalizations are very harmful - never approach at X location, never do this, never do that! What people should do is learn to think on their feet and gauge each situation individually. If it feels right, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 09:24 AM
1

Ah, so making sweeping generalizations based on your own bias = psychology Sure, sure...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:28 AM
1

And you know how these women FEEL because you're a mind-reader?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 10:31 AM
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Who blames men and makes demands? She said she's working on herself and doesn't expect anything from men. You want to be a victim so bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 11:06 AM
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I hate that lots of guys are struggling with dating and that many of them are genuinely lonely and seek love, but are reduced to "wanting their dick wet". It's very dehumanizing. I feel sad for them and wish they found someone. No one should feel invisible and useless to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:13 AM
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You don't have to "walk around with a dirty unit", do you not wash yourself? It's not that difficult, and once a day is enough. Just like women wash their private parts to prevent smell. You don't need to mutilate yourself to keep yourself clean, soap is already invented.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 06:58 AM
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So who were they asking exactly? Because if some random acquaintance showed me a photo of a stranger and asked me if I'm interested, my answer would be "no" regardless of the photo. It's just weird. And especially if I saw her doing the same with other women, like she's trying to get rid of some old equipment. Matchmaking works best if you show the guy to 1 or 2 people max (for a period), who you think are actually suitable to date him. Going around, showing him to random people sends the wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:40 AM
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Ok, it's good that you understand this. You won't be too disappointed if it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:38 AM
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His secret is luck. The answer to all these questions is luck. You can't "pre-arrange" such a situation as OP is hoping to do (and many others). Your own attractiveness is also a big factor. Going to places simply increases your chances but there's absolutely no guarantee it will ever work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:36 AM
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Extroverted doesn't mean talkative. There are introverted people who talk a lot. Extroverted people are more social and outgoing and like big groups of people. Introverts prefer one on one conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:06 AM
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Nah, it's not gendered. I know enough couples who are the opposite - extroverted girlfriend, introverted boyfriend. It's just an overall good balance. I also know some couples who are both deep introverts - they never go out, if I see them once a year, I'm lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 06:41 AM
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In my opinion, morality has nothing to do with attraction. I can find someone sexually appealing, regardless of how good or bad he is. BUT for a long term relationship, I choose much more carefully. I can find someone hot, but choose not to date him for a myriad of reasons. This is a skill which is learned from an early age. My mama taught me to choose good men. My father was a good example. Many women don't have this luck and don't have this skill developed, so they choose bad men. It's not tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:36 AM
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"For all we know..." - the thing is, you know nothing about this and you're making crazy assumptions based on online rage fuel. You giving anal as an example of the peak of quality sex says a lot about your lack of experience with sex outside of porn. Yes, quality is also much better. Of course you'll get better at something when you practice it constantly with the same person. A ONS has no clue what you like and what you don't. Your spouse surely knows you much better. It's basic logical thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:10 AM
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Do you guys realize that married men have the most sex, as in quantity and quality? And yes, dead bedrooms can occur to some couples (not all) after years of marriage and kids, but in the beginning it's a lot of sex. I mean, A LOT. No Chad, even in his prime years, can manage that from hookups. I don't know why all of you assume that "husband material" doesn't include sexy and appealing. Gold diggers are a minority of all the marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:07 AM
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You mean literal teenagers experiencing hormonal angst? No shit! I was in crisis mode at 15 as well. That's not a societal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:38 AM
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Oh, yes, and also sharing music tapes and CDs because they were kinda hard to come by and expensive. I made some friends and acquaintances this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:19 PM
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It depends on what's your definition of "good life". Kids can be very happy playing with sticks in the garden all day. They don't need the newest iphone or expensive sneakers, unless someone tells them to want them. In the west, it's society that's expensive, not kids per se.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:11 AM
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I never said break up with no warning. You're putting words in my mouth. And I don't see what's the point of discussing semantics, you're just trying the win an argument, any argument, because you have nothing of substance to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 06:10 AM
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Boundaries is when you have a deal-breaker of some kind. Controlling is when you try to make your SO to act the way you want. In the specific case we're discussing, you were saying that you wouldn't want to let your SO go to a place where men are present. Sure, you can say this is your boundary, but if she doesn't agree, you can't really enforce such rule - this would be controlling. What you can do is break up. And why I think such a requirement is ridiculous? Because it shows a deep lack of tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:36 AM
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What answer? I base my opinion on what you write.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 09:06 AM
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It's your prerogative to be as controlling and jealous as you wish. No sane woman will want to stay with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:13 AM
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What could possibly happen at an archery range? A dude might decide to shoot his shot, she'll say she's taken, end of story. The same could happen at the grocery store. Are you going to forbid her to do grocery shopping without your presence? Don't you see how controlling you sound? "Last I checked sexual violence was orders of magnitude more likely coming from people you know." - yeah, which actually means that statistically, she's in much more danger to be staying at home with you...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:37 PM
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Are you equating men at archery range to criminals/rapists?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:03 PM
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Jesus, why don't you lock her in the basement already. You know, she could meet thirsty men everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:38 AM
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Ok, even if this is the case, you don't tell this to a literal stranger. Stop taking advice from romcoms, it doesn't work irl. You have to keep your feelings to yourself and try to get to know the person first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:50 AM
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This is weird. You are a man. You may not have these specific male problems currently, but what if one day you get them? Wouldn't it be nice to have a ready solution/help? Supporting men doesn't mean not supporting women (despite what the manosphere says).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:58 AM
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That's the beauty of luck, you don't need anything. Everything else is effort, which is not bad, but it's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:20 PM
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You don't account for the fact that finding a relationship is like 60-70% luck. And there's no advice in the world which could improve your luck. All you can do is increase your chances for being in the right place at the right time by simply going out of your home. And one of the main reasons to go out of your home is to meet friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:07 AM
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Jesus, is this the 50s? I thought we're past the trophy wife period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 05:00 PM
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I find it very hard to believe that any professional place cares about you being single. I have 2 perpetually single male friends and they're both doing great professionally. Even better than others, because they don't have the additional burden of taking care of family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 08:30 AM
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This is wildly different from your previous statement. I don't argue that it's mostly men that are doing these jobs. But you tried to make it seem that women are some dainty princesses who never touch any dirty work, which is absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 07:02 AM
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This is the case of these particular people. Take any granny from a remote village, she'd be tougher than the men in this group. I've known older women, who work from sunrise till night, raising (and killing) farm animals, working the field, etc. They're strong and durable as an ox. It all depends on how you grew up/how you've been living. I'm not denying that men are physically stronger, I'm just saying that women are not some useless princesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:52 AM
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That's a myth. Women were getting their hands dirty since the beginning of time. https://www.sciencefriday.com/segments/prehistoric-women-hunters/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 06:27 AM
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Very true lol. Otherwise, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:24 PM
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I don't know, man, your comment does have a "holier-than-thou" tone. Like you're better than the rest...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:45 AM
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If anyone is jumping, it's you who's jumping from relationships to birth rates. No one was talking about birth rates. You just don't know what to reply, so you move the goalpost.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:36 PM
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So much bullshit! Are you seriously equating attention from creeps and pedos - "You are getting attention as young as 14-15" - to the attention from a man you are in love with??? "In my opinion, based on what I read and extrapolated from it, women have no reason to get into relationships, other than social pressure or feel of loneliness or desire to have a child." If your opinion was correct, there wouldn't be so many women in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:15 AM
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Yeah, and a turd who goes out has a slightly better chance than a turd who stays home...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:46 AM
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I don't know why you're being so sarcastic. Nobody ever said that anything you do will GUARANTEE you success. Every piece of advice is supposed to increase your odds a bit. Which guy will have better chances - the one who's socializing and taking care of himself or the one who's staying at home all day and doesn't shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:06 AM
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He's either ugly and/or has some off-putting qualities and behaviour. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:24 AM
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The worst I've done is say "no" with a rude tone or to completely disregard them. But this only happened when I was in my teens/early 20s and the guy was 40+ and/or he was harassing me. Every guy who was decent and polite received a decent and polite answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:54 AM
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Let's be real here, men do the same. I've witnessed countless times how groups of men shit on some unfortunate woman - how fat she is, what a slut she is, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 06:32 AM
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I mean, isn't this kind of on you that for a decade you didn't bother to read a book on sex or any other material from a more credible source than porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:46 AM
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I think it's pretty simple - if the man is attractive enough, he doesn't need to do anything special. If the man is NOT attractive enough, then he needs to attract her attention somehow, because he's most likely "invisible" at the moment. He needs to be charming and just a little bit flirty in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:18 AM
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You seem strangely invested in the life of this woman. Is she your waifu or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:56 AM
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No, I call her a sociopath because she sounds like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:14 AM
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That doesn't mean she's not a sociopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 11:12 AM
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When will you stop citing this sociopath? That's like citing Hitler and thinking you're so smart for doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:39 AM
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Calling me crazy for pointing out my real life experience, while simultaneously sharing THE SAME experience you had, is rich!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:34 AM
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How is it the opposite? I just said that men have preferences, and you're like BuT FeMaLES HAvE SpECifIC PREfEReNcES.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:31 AM
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Everyone has their own preferences - there are guys who like all kinds of girls. It doesn't mean they settled. It just means they don't care about it / like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:56 PM
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What a lot of men do in reality is settle for any woman who gives them the time of the day That's what you think they do, but it's not reality. I don't know a single man who settled for the first woman, and even if he did, he left her later and found a more suitable partner. My single male friends choose loneliness over settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:52 PM
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That is not the normal person. It absolutely is. I have single male friends who have a lot of requirements, despite not having much luck. What does the anecdote about your friend have to do with my statement that men don't settle for any woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:42 PM
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If men would settle for anything, we wouldn't be hearing constantly how they'd never even touch with a stick fat women, promiscuous women, old women, single moms, only fans girls, etc. That's a lot of requirements for "desperate" people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:10 PM
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You must be the king of sweeping generalizations. Just because it doesn't work for you, it doesn't mean it's like that for everyone, or even the majority. There are plenty of happy couples in the world. You don't hear about them because they don't complain on the internet (because there's nothing to complain about).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:05 AM
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I mean, I don't know what to tell you man. You know "If everywhere you go smells like shit..."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:48 AM
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This is not an advice. It's regarding OP's claim that those guys are attractive, and I'm making a point that they're not as attractive as they think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:21 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:49 PM
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I can only agree about the physical strength part. The rest is absolutely your speculation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:29 PM
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If they were actually attractive, they wouldn't have problems in dating. The cognitive dissonance is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:08 AM
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Why tf would you expect women to be strong, confident, stoic and masculine? And what's stopping a strong, confident man from communicating?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:04 AM
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Are you attracted to every good person you meet? I doubt it. That's what they mean by "base level". It's necessary to have, but it's not enough by itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:15 AM
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Rare wisdom I haven't seen in this sub before. It's sad that it's not common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:04 AM
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That's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 12:24 PM
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What outcome do you hope to get? That the abuser will say: "Ah, she's worried about DV, so I won't abuse her"? This will only give him a heads up to hide it better. And if he's not an abuser, he already knows you don't want to be abused (duh) and he doesn't plan to do it. So you taking measures will only hurt him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:38 AM
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But your point was that you would sound shitty only if you were a man, which is obviously false.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:49 AM
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This sub is literally best when you're just needing to waste time. Isn't this the whole point of the sub? Are there people who actually expect specific sound advice on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:42 AM
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What? The long term relationship started as newly dating at some point. Or do you think they magically woke up one day in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:40 AM
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How is this even an argument? What someone's greedy mom thinks is irrelevant. I'm talking from moral standpoint. Are you saying that a man who lives with a woman, shares expenses, have kids together, is not committed? Marriage is just the law recognizing the already existing commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:27 AM
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I said "monogamous relationship", like in two people seriously dating, living together, having kids together. Your case is obviously not that and it's an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:19 AM
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Being with someone for years in a monogamous relationship IS committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 07:30 AM
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But isn't this a self-fulfilling prophecy? Women have hundreds of options because men have low standards. If men raised their standards, shitty women will be out of options. So, in my opinion, accepting bullshit behavior because you have no other options is shooting yourself in the foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:39 AM
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Not romantically, no. There's a big difference between talking to your mom and talking to your date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 01:12 PM
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They've been alive longer so they have more experience. That's not a real argument. Experience comes from dealing with certain matter, not from age. Otherwise all seniors would be able to perform surgeries simply due to living longer. If you've never done something, you don't have experience in that thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:45 PM
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How would they have more game if they don't have any experience? And most guys don't make bank, so it's not really relevant. Gold diggers don't go for average Joe with average income.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:51 AM
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I already answered you, dude. I'm not doing this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:05 PM
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What is your end goal here? Why do you argue with me? I never said OP's not honest. I still think OP is insufferable and you won't change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:01 PM
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"I'M jUsT bEiNG hOneST" - every asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:51 PM
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Really? One does not exclude the other. If you had a daughter who called you a low value chump to a bunch of strangers, would you be cool about it? Considering you provide for her and treat her well, and to receive such disrespect in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 12:25 PM
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I feel sorry for your stepdad. Not for the wife he got, but for the insufferable step daughter he got.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:04 AM
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Gaming clubs could be considered a socially awkward meetup group.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:48 AM
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I think you're missing the point. If you move to a new place, there's no hierarchy, you're the new guy, you can start fresh. People are always more accepting of new people. It's up to you to make a good first impression.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 09:35 AM
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Why don't you organize a club that suits you? You can't force people to accommodate you, but you can certainly create your own space. Edit: Sure, downvote me all you want, but that doesn't change the fact that there are 2 options - either sit around and complain, or be proactive and make the life you want to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 01:49 PM
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Who's calling you the R word? I find it hard to believe that well adjusted sane adults would resort to name calling. If that's the case, you should search for a better crowd, ideally people who have something in common with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:20 AM
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They're obviously nuts. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:52 AM
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I don't believe it's gendered, I think it's individual. There are plenty of emotionally fragile men and women, as well as stoic men and women. I think it depends much more on genetic predisposition, personal life experience and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:52 AM
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That's some very misogynistic view, no wonder you're single. Do you really believe that all women like knitting and make-up? There are plenty of gamer girls and also plenty of non-gendered hobbies, like hiking, swimming, movies, concerts, art etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:10 AM
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So why would a woman want to engage with a man who pretends to like her hobby to get laid? When she could, you know, find a partner she actually shares interests with? The feeling that the other party is trying to manipulate you is very off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:13 AM
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Dude, do you realize that most women don't have access to these Chads? Do you think it's easy for the average woman to compete with thousands of hot women? How many women can a Chad fuck at once, realistically? 5-10? What about the other 1000?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:45 AM
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No one forces me to get into relationshios. So if I dont feel like being commited to one person guess what I do? I dont date and I let my intentions be known upfront. Now take this and apply it to the cheating man in the scenario. Crazy concept I know. But both of them are at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 08:18 AM
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And what do you think is the actual reason for your loneliness? Social anxiety?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:51 AM
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Who is openly celebrating your suffering? If you're talking about a vocal minority on social media, you need to get out more and touch some grass. Most people don't hate entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 09:39 AM
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It's not women who start the wars, is it? Also no war was ever fought for women (despite what some legends might say), it's for money and influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 08:04 AM
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how many women in my country are single in their early 20s because they refuse to date an average guy Or maybe they want to focus on their studies and start of career? It's normal in your early 20s. And how do you know that they don't date at all? Nobody uploads pics of casual dates. Instagram is highly curated and doesn't reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 01:44 PM
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