YourBoyPet Archive

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5	What am I doing wrong? I would say focus on making friends first. Not only because its important and fun. But it's also one of the most common ways people find their partner. Your friend suggesting you and one of her male acquaintances talk to each other is the closest thing to arranged marriage in the western world. You're religious so I suggest you get involved in that and try finding connections that way for example. Hope everything works out. It's a very common phenomenon that people think getting into a relations…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/22 04:37 AM
1	I don’t understand how we’ve gotten to a place in society where everyone needs to be coddled and told they are perfect Its probably an overcompensation for past attitudes. It might even out eventually.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 04:24 AM
1	Valentine’s day gift ideas for men! Anything helps <3 I mean it depends on how much of a ladies man he is but generally speaking he probably doesn't have super high expectations for gifts. Budget is not an issue since he would probably prefer an experience or something personal. I can't imagine any of my guy friends bragging about getting an expensive gift from their girlfriend 😅. You could offer to do something for/with him that you know he really wants but you aren't necessarily that inclined yourself.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 04:13 AM
3	What is an considered an intention when dating? Generally speaking "dating with intention" means actively pursuing marriage or long term relationship at bare minimum	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 04:07 AM
1	Lot of questions to ask Oh my point about the career thing was just that it might honestly be more of a dealbreaker than infertility. The way you talked about it made it seen like it was your main priority. The reason why you shouldn't bring up infertility early is the same reason why you shouldn't bring up anything negative early. The guy might be inclined to distance himself without it necessarily even being a dealbreaker to him since YOU present it as a deal breaker by going out of your way to talk about it as soon …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 04:00 AM
2	Coming to terms with my past & what it means for me I mean there are of course anomalies such as the mentioned career woman in her 30s. But no, it is terrible advice for women to lower their standards. Women have no leverage if thet give up on gatekeeping sex. Lower standards lead to women being in serial short term relationships since men continue to gate keep intimacy.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/02/22 03:52 AM
1	How to meet other girls irl who want to level up? I actually dont really understand why you need to find other women like this? I mean besides to make friends.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 06:09 AM
1	Figuring out being a stay at home wife? The only thing you should be worried about is that there isnt as much stigma surrounding divorce as it used to be. It doesnt matter your relationship is great now. Lots of things can happen in just 5 years. So you are essentially placing your future in his hands. Though it also depends on where you live since in many countries you will be significantly financially compensated if a divorce occurs. If your financial future is secure then its definitely better to be a stay at home wife than a caree…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 06:01 AM
2	Tell a man you’re waiting for marriage or no? Its probably good to say you are waiting for marriage otherwise he might assume that you don't want to have sex with him because you are not interested in him. So you should absolutely not be vague. It will either lead to him distancing completely or continuing to pursue the subject.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 05:51 AM
1	Lot of questions to ask Also no guy would be mad at you for working out. Think about the roles being reversed. Would you be annoyed if a guy went to the gym every day for an hour?	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 05:50 AM
1	Lot of questions to ask Guys will say that you should disclose your infertility as early as possible. This is a terrible idea for you. Especially since a lot of guys don't even want kids. You should only bring it up if he brings up kids. Before then it shouldnt even be assumed that he wants kids. When it comes to spending time working. This is honestly more of a dating barrier than infertility. Men statistically care very little about a womans income. This is especially the case if the guy himself makes as much or more…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 05:47 AM
3	Coming to terms with my past & what it means for me I forgot to add something. The main thing you should be worried about honestly is to not lower your standards too much and feel as though you need to accept the first guy who shows interest in you. A lot of guys say that women need to lower their standards. But this is not the case. Its actually the worst thing you can do. The only women who could benefit from doing so would be older women who have successful careers and feel as though they are therefore entitled to having high standards. When i…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 05:24 AM
4	Coming to terms with my past & what it means for me I'm autistic so my post might be a bit blunt. The wall is only half true. Its partially just guys coping about being unsuccessful with women. But it is true that mens "market" value tends to increase with age whereas womens decreases. The causes for this are multifaceted. You're not going to have difficulties dating because of being a single mom. You're also not restricted by having a high income and desiring a husband that makes as much or more than you. These are aspects that significantly con…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/02/22 05:01 AM
2	Beta-buxing as a woman? I mean its a quite known phenomenon among men at least. To the point that there are memes about how guys will make sexist accusations about women only pretending to be into video games so that boys will like her. Women who have any male dominated hobby is generally in high demand (among men within that hobby obviously)	/r/RedPillWomen	09/07/21 06:56 AM