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| 1 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?Okay, but doesn't that actually point to men being much more superficial visually than women? What I'm saying is that I can see a person for the first time not knowing them and "rate them" a certain way, but then once I actually get to know them, their looks can either go down or up for me. A hot guy can become meh to me once I get to know him. A normal guy can become super hot to me once I get to know him. It's super subjective but it's not particularly superficial since a person starts with a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?This makes me wonder if really the issue is what everyone's conception of "hot" vs "average" is. Like the 200 lb "hambeast", if I looked at her, I might think she was average looking, depending on other factors like her face and hair and the way she presents herself. The 6'1 "decent looking guy" I might also find "average looking." I'm not super hung up on height; my first love, the guy I was engaged to and lost my virginity to, was like 5'5 and I'm 5'7. I found him super hot, but that wasn't so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?I guess I just really don't understand where the perspective that average women only date super hot guys comes from. Growing up, most of my friends were average looking girls (myself included) and we dated average looking guys. Now that we're adults, we are married to or dating average looking guys. When I walk around in public, the vast majority of the couples that I see are both average looking people. I mean, not surprising, that's kind what average means. Most of the humans on this planet ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Are men becomming less attractive to women?6' and I find him good looking. From an outside unbiased perception, probably average looking. But lest you read too much into the 6 foot thing (I find you incels place a LOT of emphasis on height) I lost my virginity and almost married (he was cheating on me while in the Army) a guy that was 5'6. So please don't bother being like "well he's 6', that's why." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Are men becomming less attractive to women?I don't have anything but anecdotal evidence (do you?) but I will say that (probably because I work in a high earning industry) I know several other women who make more than their husbands. The only one that has shared that she is resentful is because her husband both doesn't work full time, AND expects her to do the lion's share of housework and childcare while she's at home. I think that's an understandable reason for being resentful. To be clear, I don't expect my husband to take on the major… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Are men becomming less attractive to women?Of course. That (the dick being good) is what happens when someone cares about your pleasure and actively pursues it. I think the V is good for him too because I notice and care about what he likes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Are men becomming less attractive to women?I think you're conflating desirability with necessity. To look at this another way, I make (a lot) more money than my husband. He works hard at a job he loves, and I respect that. But he's not the primary "breadwinner." I am. And the truth is, I would be financially fine without him. I own our house; I bought it before we were married. I own my car outright (bought before we were married.) I have all my student loans paid off. I have a successful career in a fairly lucrative career. I don't need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Who does a hot/rich/successful "high-SMV" man want to marry, and how does he meet her?I have heard about the $75k max too, and find it super interesting. Although I live in a relatively HCOL area, so I'm not sure that exact number applies to me. What I will say is that I currently make (in the very low) 6 figures (like $105k-ish depending on the year) and it's enough to pay my mortgage and bills and food and some treats. When I made less than that, I was always stressed out about money. If/when I make more than that, I'm sure that treats will be easier, but I'm really not sure th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/18 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Am I saying something that doesn’t make sense they act like I’m some asshole?I'm so sorry that happened to you and your kids. I really wish people thought more about how their actions really affect other people, especially their children. Sounds like you are a present and loving dad though, which is great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/18 10:43 PM |
| 9 | Am I saying something that doesn’t make sense they act like I’m some asshole?Yeah, my ex husband (who DID agree before hand to be a dad - we were both knowingly and actively trying for a child with both of our shared sons) pays $300 a month in child support. That's it. That doesn't even cover a full month of daycare while I work to keep a roof over their heads, food, clothes, medical bills, occasional treats, et cetera. If you think being a single mom (as I was for two years) is just coasting along living on someone else's dime...you've obviously never been a single mom.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: Do You Consider Yourself Fun to Be Around?Your dad is killer in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 02:04 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: Do You Consider Yourself Fun to Be Around?I love puns and wordplay. So if you like that sort of thing, I’m a hoot. If you like that sort of thing, you probably like me. If you don’t, I’m standing in front of you with happy eyes and a wide smile like "we’re agreed that what I just said was HILARIOUS, right?” and you’re like “would anyone blame me if I took her out at the knees and then ran for it?” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 06:31 PM |
| 6 | What is Something you Like/Admire in both Sexes?I don’t know if this truly sex based or just me based, but ai find the men in my life to be innovative and creative problem solvers. For example, my husband asked me what I wanted for Christmas. I told him I wanted a desk for working from home, and said it would be cool if it had some jazzy features. I pictured an IKEA desk with a cup holder for my perpetual iced tea and maybe a built in pen holder. His current vision involves screens popping out of the back with a motor and some sort of backlit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Intercourse is degrading towards women.Thank you for your serious and well thought out reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Intercourse is degrading towards women.Notice that I didn't use the term "all sex is rape" even in my offhand reply to you, although I absolutely know why you used that phrase (either a misreading or, more likely, deliberate misrepresentation of Dworkin and MacKinnon.) But please, do go on about how what women choose to do with their bodies is "degrading" because "stabbing." As a feminist, I take you super seriously./s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Intercourse is degrading towards women.Ah yes. The old "women are too brainwashed to consent to the things they do with their own bodies." Usually it's paraphrased and presented as a radfem philosophy, so I appreciate your honesty in not trying to hide the rampant mysogeny in your posts. Cheers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/18 04:28 AM |
| 3 | CMV: A Woman Is Foolish If She Squanders Her Youth Becoming "Good Wife Material"I absolutely believe this. My husband's dad notoriously wants "a compound" that we will all live on. Sounds crazy, right? But every year we rent a 6+ people RV (there is the two of us and 4 boys) and go visit them for Christmas. And for s week a year, I help cook and clean, and I order the kids into the shower and into bed...but I'm not alone. My mother in law and my sister in law are right there with me. I think I would love living in the compound all year long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Proof that feminism is bankrupt.So here is my question. You admit (frankly, as do I) that both feminism and MRAs have given themselves a black eye by being batshit. I don’t disagree with you there. So, you’re an MRA who just wants equality. I’m a feminist who just wants equality. Neither one of us seem to have any truck in this sort of gender spite. We should be allies! But you’ve mentioned that the layperson feminist and the lay person MRA should wrest our party back because we’re being misrepresented. Don’t disagree, but do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Proof that feminism is bankrupt.Appaling behavior, and I agree its a total double standard. If men were talking about a woman being mutilated and laughing, no one would be laughing. Because violence and mutilation are not fucking funny. If I can take any solace (and hope you do too) as far as I can tell, it seems like the reaction to this was pretty universal disgust. I hadn't heard of this incident before, so of course I had to do what I do and get stuck on it for like an hour. I guess its from an episode of The Talk (which I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 10:45 PM |
| 3 | I think its acceptable for a man to do whatever he has to in order to get laid.(Some) Men: Women who don't do typically feminine things that I find aesthetically pleasing (such as make up and hair) are ugly and just letting themselves go. Good luck dying bitter and alone with your 17 cats, ladies! Woman: puts on makeup (Some) Men: DECIEVER I also like the old hit: Woman: doesn't fuck a guy (Some) Men: Well look who has an overinflated sense of self worth! She is setting her standards way too high, aided and abetted by the Internet. She's living life on easy mode! She could… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Tell me about your SOs flawsHe knows I hate peppers and onions and he still puts them in EVERYTHING he cooks and then gets butt hurt when I'm picking at it. This has been going on for four years now. He thinks he can wear me down until I just eat the damn things. He cannot. He leaves all of the kitchen cabinet doors open. Every time I walk into the kitchen its like that scene from The Sixth Sense. He refuses to entertain the idea that my office building is haunted. He wasn't there. He owns more socks than every man, woman,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 03:08 AM |
| 3 | By Popular Demand: Women, describe in detail how awesome your husbands are.He uses antlers in all of his decorating. <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?Thanks for the link to your blog. I've read a couple of posts and enjoyed them. I agree with you that REVENGE is a terrible way for either side to go about things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 08:29 PM |
| 2 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?Again, taking your claims here on face value, Mr Smoogs, if I had to keep guessing and spitballing, I think that while joining an ideology can be helpful in organizing and getting a group of likeminded people together, there is a danger of creating an "us vs them" dynamic. Gender based ideology isn't different. For example, (and not to turn to whataboutism, just trying to illustrate my point) Men's Rights Advocates have some very valid complaints, right? Things like the draft, or issues around c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?I literally just realized you aren't the original person I replied to. Sorry about that! The original person said 99% which is what I was asking about. My mistake! I honestly would need to read up more about it to understand the phenomenon. I'll try to see if I can find my own studies on it, and I'm happy to read any that you can produce (that I can actually get to the meat of lol.) Purely spitballing based on the assumption that its true as presented here without nuance - in group bias. Which i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?I would say that in general, men are not expected to dive in front of a bullet to save a female stranger, although they are certainly praised when they do (as would be a woman, I expect.) For example, when we had the Aurora theater shooting (I live in the Denver area and actually loosely knew one of the women whose boyfriend died saving her life) I don't recall a single person criticizing any man for not diving in front of the bullets that killed 4 females, including 1 6 year old girl. I agree t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?A friendly discussion then, if not a debate. What I took issue with was your claim that "99% of women..." If my POV is anecdotal, I suspect yours is hyperbole (unless you can provide data points that show your 99%, in which case, objection withdrawn.) I don't actually doubt that some majority of both men and women in general would choose, for example, women and children into the lifeboat first. That's why I gave that example in my first post, to see if that was what you meant by "sacrifice." Not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?Just stumbled across this for a completely unrleated reason, and thought you might find it interesting. It doesn't support my side of the debate at all (actually supports yours which I'm pretty sure is Debate rule #1 - "Don't make your debate opponent's argument for them") but I thought it was interesting, and maybe plays into the whole pop culture framework of men and women and how we view men's deaths. Anyway, enjoy! https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MenAreTheExpendableGender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?I agree, my comment is anecdotal and based on only myself doing your thought experiment, and doesn’t necessarily reflect broader trends. I would just be hard pressed to believe your claim that 99% of women agree on anything let alone the solution to a thought experiment. I could be wrong though. I tried to access your data. I even signed up for an account with Sage Jornals to I could read more than the abstract, which does not give actual data points, but it just says “You do not have access to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?Okay, just read the "classic trolley problem" (hadn't heard of it before) and my honest answer is that it does depend on who is lying on the tracks, but not based on gender. I fully admit that if the one person laying on the one track was a child, and the five people were adults, I would sacrfice the five adults to save the child. Fucked up, maybe, but I think most adults have the sensibilities that say "save the child" because children are in general so much more helpless all the time, so we're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?"Sacrifice" them in what way and what situation? Are we talking about sacrificing virgins to appease the sun god, or the old "women and children into the life boat" thing? Or something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 06:20 PM |
| 4 | So is not being Harsh or critical of women sexist? I feel like not treating them like a man in the aspect is bad as well.Is the nature of men to go easy on women and be nicer and coddle them sexist?"Sacrifice" them in what way and what situation? Are we talking about sacrificing virgins to appease the sun god, or the old "women and children into the life boat" thing? Or something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Should career women look for more feminine men to settle down with ?I guess I don’t really know what you mean by saying that career women are “masculine.” Can you define “masculine” in this sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 02:43 AM |
| 16 | Do BPers think women need relationships with men or do they think they're like fishes to a bicycle?I don’t “need” a man in the traditional sense that women have historically needed men; for income and protection. I have a successful career. I own my own car and house. I can open credit cards in my own name (did you know women only got the right to do that in like 1976?!?) But here is the thing, not needing a man means that I am free to choose to be with a man I want rather than just trying to pick the best provider. My husband works hard in a career that he loves, but it doesn’t pay well. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 02:36 AM |
| 8 | Q4BP: Women don't owe men anything, why is the general theme here that men owe women decency?I think you need to define what you think of as common human decency. I don’t think that men owe it to me to, like, throw their capes over puddles where I walk. Nor do I owe it to them to fuck them whenever they want (BTW, my husband, a man, wouldn’t care for that. I give him basic human decency as well.) Basic human decency shouldn’t mean having to go massively out of your way. Because it’s basic. It also doesn’t have to be gender based, because it’s “human” decency. I do want to talk about one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 03:30 AM |
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