YourDustyLampshade Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How often do you make a move on a woman in public that you find attractive? The only time I wouldn’t is if I’m actually doing something important	/r/seduction	29/07/22 11:41 PM
2	Approaching sign Your real sign is whether or not you want to approach her.	/r/seduction	20/07/22 02:19 PM
7	How to recover from sending too many messages? Just stop. Texts should be short and simple and to the point. Keep your more active interactions for when you’re actually with her in person.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 12:04 AM
1	How do YOU dance? I was a big Zyzz follower in high school so I can muzz like a motherfucker. Well, maybe not much so anymore, it’s been like 6 years since I last went out dancing.	/r/seduction	10/07/22 02:45 PM
1	Do I need to say something witty to start a conversation on dating apps? Precisely why I just quit using these apps. Shooting messages back and forth for days hoping to get some just isn’t worth it to me. Besides, bitches are a hell of a lot more humble in person than on tinder. Ain’t a hundred guys lined up around the block to talk to them either.	/r/seduction	09/07/22 08:51 PM
483	Things I can't tell my fwb Oh, the things pussy does to a motherfucker. Your doing the right thing not telling her this shit, that’s for sure.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 05:27 PM
2	Do I need to say something witty to start a conversation on dating apps? Women on these dating apps are getting tons of these stupid, witty openings so unless yours is really fucking good and they’ve never seen it before, get in fucking line with everyone else. Your first message absolutely should be you telling her that you want to meet up somewhere. If she has a problem with that, whatever. Move on to the next.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 12:44 PM
5	What's a good question to ask somebody you dont like while it sounds genuine? If they aren’t interested and/or you don’t like them, you absolutely drop it and move on. Doing anything else is a waste of time.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 12:32 PM
2	why is it bad to be an emotional sponge? Unless it’s my best fucking friend; if anyone starts getting all sentimental and shit with me, I ain’t having it.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 12:24 PM
1	I have 3 date with at beach and after we have a dinner and she reply short. she is not interessed? If you wanted more out of her, you should’ve asked about these exhibitions she mentioned. But I see nothing wrong here.	/r/seduction	08/07/22 12:14 PM
1	Body posture and a little fashion I’ve noticed that I have the most success when I’m wearing my Canadian tux and some moccasins. Real moccasins, not those stupid loafer looking things. They always bring it up too, “I’ve never seen a guy pull this off before” or “wow those are some cool shoes” and they just open right up and start talking away. If you’re doing something they don’t see everyday, you’ve got a good shot.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 09:37 PM
3	I invited a girl out to breakfast after work, and she gave me an excuse. I teased her, and wished her a good night. Did her next response leave room for something else? No, I wouldn’t say anything. There are some messages that are fine to not respond to, jokes make up a good chunk of them. Besides, you work with her so I’m assuming you talk to her a fair amount already.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 04:53 PM
6	I invited a girl out to breakfast after work, and she gave me an excuse. I teased her, and wished her a good night. Did her next response leave room for something else? There’s only one way to find out if you can recover and that is to simply try again. Just don’t be a silly goose this time. Give it some time; about a week, you don’t want to seem as though you’re needy or obsessive or anything. Ask her in person. And judging by the details in your post, maybe lunch would be better than breakfast but that is entirely your call. It’s your show, my man.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 04:45 PM
10	I invited a girl out to breakfast after work, and she gave me an excuse. I teased her, and wished her a good night. Did her next response leave room for something else? Is there any reason you didn’t just invite her to breakfast in person? But yeah, next time it would be better to find a place that is open. And I get that you were just having some fun and whatnot but don’t ever say anything like that again.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 02:15 PM
7	when to re-engage Say something along the lines of “hey, let me know when you’re available” and leave it at that	/r/seduction	07/07/22 01:24 PM
2	How do i get the confidence to start approaching? You literally just have to do it. Here’s the thing, most women are going to reject you, especially when you’re just starting out. This is fine. This is good. Cause now you are getting experience, seeing what generally works and what generally doesn’t work. So when you approach her, don’t worry about what she may be thinking, just worry about your goal. And it doesn’t matter if she seems interested in you or not prior to your approach; you see a girl you like, go for it.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 10:58 PM
2	hooked up with this girl once and I’m so into her but not sure if she’s interested in me: what do you think? I’d stay away from her after that last little bit, but if you still want to try and go for it then I’d suggest just shooting her a text saying “let me know when you’re back” and leave it at that. She’ll either respond or she won’t. Don’t let some angry boyfriend beat your ass.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 10:43 PM
2	Best way to ask out a girl with clear intentions? Yes. The date doesn’t need to be anything crazy either; don’t go dropping $300 on her, just something casual. Just tell her, “hey I’m going to X on X, I want you to come with me”. And yes, this can take time. If you aren’t willing to take the time to pursue the woman, you aren’t going to get her. But you also need to realize that she may just wasting your time as well. If you aren’t getting what you want, you need to move on. Don’t spend months holding on to her hoping it turns into something.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 06:41 PM
3	Best way to ask out a girl with clear intentions? That’s the thing, you don’t. Not exactly. Serious relationship; quick fuck; whatever, the process is all the same. It just may take a little more time depending on what it is you want. Tell her you want to take her out, start with the subtle cues that you want her, and build up. She will get what you’re doing, you don’t need to tell her. If you’re good at this, it may work out. If you’re not good at this, it won’t work. But for gods sake, do not just blatantly tell her what you want to do, you’r…	/r/seduction	06/07/22 06:31 PM
1	Should fathers teach sons how to improve their "game" Expanding on this. The most valuable thing a man can teach his son is how to be completely in tune with himself. Never, at any point in his life, should a man feel that he NEEDS a woman. Too many guys out there are chasing after that one certain woman because they feel she’s the only one giving him some sort of special attention, and believes that she is the only one capable of doing so. She makes me feel a certain way and I need her because of it. What you need is to respect and be content with…	/r/seduction	06/07/22 03:22 PM
2	How do you guys look at waiting for sex with a girl who is a virgin and has all qualities to be someone you can a have a serious, long term relationship with? If you want a serious relationship with this woman, you’ve got to quit worrying about what all you could’ve been doing with other women. That’s not going to help at all. Is there any particular reason why she refuses to have sex or is she simply just afraid? If she’s afraid then easy peasy lemon squeezy, all you’ve got to do is make her comfortable. If for any other particular reason, then you need to respect that. But you also still need to make her want it, make her long for it. And obviously,…	/r/seduction	06/07/22 01:42 PM
6	Should fathers teach sons how to improve their "game" Yes. Absolutely. You are doing your son a major disservice by not teaching him how women are and how to talk to them and what he needs to look out for when determining which woman he should pursue and steer clear of.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 01:06 PM
3	How do I catch a girls interest You’re just trying to get laid, so that’s literally the only thing you need to worry about. Approach her, build up to and make your intent clear, and don’t worry about what she may be thinking. She’ll either be down for it or she won’t. That’s all there really is to it. And yes, dating apps really aren’t going to help. You need to be approaching women in person; it is so much easier and you’ll gain experience, which will help in the future because women absolutely dig a man who knows what he’s d…	/r/seduction	06/07/22 02:11 AM
1	Eye contact, tips and tricks? Your whole body speaks, not just your eyes. Stay relaxed, stay open, and smile and you can hold eye contact the entire time without it being creepy. Well, maybe don’t have the smile glued to your face the whole time, that would be kinda weird.	/r/seduction	06/07/22 01:58 AM
1	Should I text someone that left me on read? “I would ask if she was down to meet, she would say yes but I would never follow through”. That is the problem right there. The whole point of getting the woman’s contact info is to set up the meeting time. And this went on for a couple months? I’d say you need to let this one go and move on. And the only time a double text is acceptable is if the previous one was something along the lines of “I’ll talk to you later”	/r/seduction	06/07/22 12:06 AM
5	How much did working out increase your attention with women? Being physically fit most certainly does benefit you in the dating world, especially if you’ve got that desirable shoulder to waist ratio. Now, the primary reason you should be working out is for your own health, but if attention from women is what motivates you to do so then by all means let it be your motivation. It will result in more women being attracted to you. That being said, it’s still up to you as a person to do everything after the initial attraction (assuming you want more than a hit…	/r/seduction	05/07/22 11:55 PM
1	Unsure as to if a lady friend that I snap has a crush on me You say you know her generally well and don’t mind if you’re just friends or not. But do you actually have any feelings for this girl? I’m assuming you do since you made a whole post about this. If you do and haven’t told her how you feel yet; good, don’t do that. A lot of guys make the mistake of spilling their emotions for the women and more often than not it just fucks everything up for them. As unique suspect said, take her out. You’ll both learn quick if you’re actually into each other.	/r/seduction	05/07/22 02:29 PM
3	Why do women say one thing but do the opposite? Do not take advice from women, especially when it comes to dating. The reality is: most women know exactly what they want, but aren’t necessarily even aware of what that is; YOU have to tell HER what she wants. Women are submissive beings, that is a simple fact and nothing will ever change that. At the end of the day, they are looking for a sense of security. If they feel they can’t get that from you, they’ll toss you aside. Obviously, not all women are this way, but most are. Also, I am not adv…	/r/seduction	05/07/22 05:11 AM