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I'm 2 things: left handed, and too lit for this
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 11:14 PM
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I've actually done this. In my head it was a) my truth, b) mutually beneficial, and c) a form of dread resulting from A and B. My ex is also bi, so we scouted for promising prospects to join us in bed (spoiler: never happened). I proposed an open relationship, primarily because I was moving back to my last year of college @ 25 y/o, I am absolutely piping some bitties. She rejected it at first. Few weeks later she said she'd been thinking, understood my mindset, and wanted to respect it. She came…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 10:52 PM
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Good energy, but you have to channel it differently. Just know that overcoming it will make you exactly who you want to be. Not only that but she will change the increase in T and attraction will be easier, whether she admits or not.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 12:52 AM
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Well said. I agree, a huge problem I witness (and am guilty of myself) is oversharing. In fact I was at a party and a girl asked me about my career path. Thinking she genuinely gave a fuck, I started to explain my whole game plan. Her energy changed, as soon as she knew she could have the answer, she lost attention. I learned that same lesson then and there. Props for giving actionable steps to start applying the concept immediately.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 02:11 AM
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Great post, though I wish it was longer. I made a video yesterday, the topic being patience. I talked about how there is patience in the macro and micro. Both long-term and day-to-day patience. If you are aware of where you excel and where you are struggling in regards to patience, you are already ahead of the game (and probably much more enjoyable to communicate with).
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 09:16 PM
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This is a fun topic, especially as a competitive gamer. You have to earn the respect of both yourself and those around you - in all walks of life. As Ed Mylett phrases it, "Confidence comes from keeping the promises you make to yourself." Proud of you man. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 09:12 PM
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If this truly went as you've said, you did well. The beginning was a negligible mistake that was patched up immediately. Like I said in a comment response, losing frame at the 'one last drink' is where shit flipped. You're right, it really does take 1.4 seconds to dry a pussy. There's a million ways this could have ended up but I'm glad you reflected, realized what you could've done better, and got input from your brudders from udder mudders. Kinda want an update on your relationship with this c…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 08:12 PM
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Hard agree; this is where things went sour. I also didn't think of it like this. That line immediately struck me as a compliance test, and the fact that she was gonna ask/suggest her place (or wherever...we don't actually know) further confirms this. What you said could be an additional layer, so good take.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 08:07 PM
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Why? Putting your mind in a more prepared frame doesn't seem like a negative. Just recently, a post from TRP ended up directly influencing my awareness that evening and ended up benefiting me. However, OP assumed the frame of unprepared, which sucks. I am also an introvert, I understand the power of preparation and have had a shitty procrastination habit as many of us have/OP probably has. I'm just curious why you think that's a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/19 08:04 PM
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Great post proving that it's not what you say, but how you say it. Nicely done my friend.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 08:14 PM
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There is something incredibly calming about this comment.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 02:45 PM
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Well, this about sums it up. F for respects.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 01:49 PM
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Exactly. & I don't do drama, so she got ignored.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:25 PM
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Oh you best believe I did.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:25 PM
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If I was actually annoyed I'd go down this route lol
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:23 PM
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Hahaha. Wild
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:22 PM
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Eh, true, nobody can tell me how to talk to my girl. I always love some juicy TRP insights though. Our banter is generally much sillier. It didn't come across that way to me at all, even though I started with obvious sarcasm. ​
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:21 PM
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The universe showed it to me for a reason. I'm glad it helped man :) godspeed!
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:00 PM
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A 6-pack gives you inner power that shines outward. A 6-figure income gives you outward power that compliments the inward.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:32 PM
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Fucking a girl after she says one of these things is so satisfying. I wish everyone this success.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 08:29 PM
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Believe it or not, I actually watched a clip by Jordan Peterson just this morning that pertains to the comment. Here. ​
/r/askTRP23/03/19 02:40 PM
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I'm in the process of learning copywriting. One of the major principles is getting your point across with as few words as possible, and one of the tips to do so is to eliminate "I think" "I feel" "I believe," etc from our vocabulary? Why? Because it's implied. ​ I think the weather is nice today. The weather is nice today. ​ The second is your raw thought without the 'filter' of announcing that you are about to share your opinion. ​ Just MY 2 cents: Scratch the formalities all-together. This mak…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 02:08 PM
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I'm curious about the psychology behind this. SOMEONE WITH THE KNOWLEDGE, COME THROUGH AND BLESS US. ​ You can frame her as the aggressor in different scenarios - with or without 'corny' lines ;) ​ I experienced something kind of similar during a shit test the other day. Ex said "You're not getting lucky tonight" to which I replied, "Seems like you're the one with sex on your mind." ... half a glass of wine and 30 minutes was all it took for her to break her anti-sex 'cleanse' and fuck my brains…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:30 PM
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Wasn't expecting such a fire thread on a Tuesday morning. Well written and much-needed for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 02:24 PM
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Amazing post with great takeaways. Even the comments are helpful. Not sure if any of you consume content by Gary Vaynerchuk, but one of his themes is how everyone claims to want to be millionaires [alphas] but are not willing to put in the work, the grit, once they realize what it truly consists of [TRP truths]. He emphasizes that if you are happier making $84,000 as #7 in the company ["shitty alpha"], that will ultimately bring you and those around you more peace [+results]. And that takes a le…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 04:46 PM
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What came of hard nexting? ​ Also, I agree with both sides in this conversation. I can see why OP hard nexted - he simply WANTED TO, acted on it, and is not receiving negative backlash that we are aware of. So it resulted in a better life, good for him. Would I do the same thing? No. But that's why we're brothers - we're not all the same person.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 09:01 PM
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Exactly. I was thinking the concepts are just regurgitated. Good that OP had a revelation, but an unnecessary thread.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 12:36 AM
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Did this and it was a massive success. Great way to get outside, reset the frame and just talk.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:05 PM
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The sex has already lessened, but that's a talk for another day.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:04 PM
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I should do that. Doubt my sarcastic feedback sent the message.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:03 PM
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Not quite. She's just on the offense. A go-getter: Dean's List, charming, her patients and co-workers love her (a LOT...), guys always think she's flirting. She's just charming and takes the initiative in her life, which is great, because she didn't have a whole lot of consistent guidance/leadership growing up. Guess that's one of the roots for her wanting a rock, essentially. & Like someone else said, she's projecting what she wants onto me.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:59 PM
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More tempting than it should be. That'd be fun.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 08:21 PM
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Generally not. We fuck at my pace.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:55 PM
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It is both a blessing and a curse. An easy-going personality helps with detachment/NSA interactions, handling stress, and remaining calm in urgent situations. It's a curse in terms of decision-making, leadership, and business. Also, I compete in Smash Bros. so I definitely know what you mean lol. The impact of having a scene around you constantly fostering SOME kind of growth has been a game changer.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:54 PM
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Live 3 minutes from the beach. Great idea.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:50 PM
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Interesting... Your bold message says it all. So when she walks faster, she ~covertly~ wants me to walk faster. When she declares what we're watching, it's because she wants ME to do the declaring way before the fact. It sounds so simple and obvious, but still helpful.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:34 PM
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You're right. This apathy/laziness is not attractive - to friends, family, OR women. I need to just make the decision on what it is I want/need to do in my day-to-day life, and just do. Do do do.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 07:07 PM
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We're dating, so yes... Made her cum to the point where it became a problem lmao.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:58 PM
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Sure wouldn't. Re-reading the sidebar sounds like a good idea right about now. Back to the basics.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:36 PM
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Have you ever been called out for it? For example, like I mentioned somewhere in this mess, my girl pointed out that I said no just to say no. Curious how you'd handle something like that. Changing the question is a whole different conversation. Also, doing what I want > what she wants. Such simple advice, advice that I KNEW already but needed to hear again. Duly noted my guy, you're appreciated!
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:33 PM
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I find myself focusing on the bigger things . But I'd be foolish to let her control the little things. If it gets worse, I'm jumping ship.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:04 PM
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The answer to that depends on who you ask. Many of the responses here helped shift my perspective, which was the initial purpose, whether you consider it overthinking or not.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:44 PM
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You're not wrong, she is doing what I want. & There is a lot of subject-changing via text between the two of us. My unspoken rule is that if she ignores the topic I'm talking about and goes off about something else, I ignore that until I have something separate to say. Good response, I'm giving less and less fucks as this thread continues.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:12 PM
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Thank you. Refreshing perspective. Also, that slight change in language is an easy, practical fix. Your username holds weight.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:01 PM
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I want you to expand on that, but I don't. ​ Hit me.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:40 PM
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Your first sentence is so true bro. In response to her Silence of the Lambs declaration, I decided to watch the trailer and decided it looked pretty fucking sick. So I'm gonna go with the frame of 'sure we'll watch SotL because it actually appeals to me, but best believe I'm tearing those guts up first." Very helpful response, especially since you can empathize with not wanting to make the stupid little decisions that don't matter. I needed to be reminded of "if you aren't your own boss, someone…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:37 PM
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Agreed. As nice as it'd be to be able to settle things like that, I know it just pushes you farther back in the long run. Also not showing her all my cards is something I am having trouble with.. parents don't help with that either. I'm not going to explain that she needs to stop making decisions in this relationship because it makes me insecure. There's gotta be a better way of handling it besides pressure flipping and starting to make all the decisions quicker...
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:04 PM
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Very true brother. I shouldn't be so invested. I'll simply make the change I want to be. If it goes poorly, fuck it. Curious where monkey branching will play a role in this relationship as well.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 04:01 PM
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And these comments are any better?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:59 PM
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We have emotions; they have to go somewhere. This place can be pretty constructive, so better here than to the woman. Overthinking? Most likely. Sensitive? Perhaps. Low self-esteem? That's a negative. Just curious what's going on in my girl's brain and how I can play on that.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:58 PM
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If you got questions, I got answers. I made this thread because I want as much insight as possible, not to complain. Interesting perspective on her putting in the work. It could be perceived as 'she cares more, therefore you have the power' OR 'I am not taking initiative and she is controlling the pace of the relationship' ... one scenario, two perspectives. Ultimately, since I am not comfortable with it (as well as knowing the nature of females) ... this needs to change. I must say, you did sim…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 03:17 PM
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Solid advice!! I'll do what I can. Luckily my life has already been going in a more positive direction lately, I just have to take some of my attention off of her and add it to my own shit. What do you think about communicating my current distaste?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:44 PM
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Thanks to TRP/AskTRP, I wouldn't be surprised, despite her words. She tells me when guys hit on her in scenarios here and there. It's pretty amusing stuff, but again, wouldn't be surprised if her actions in the shadows were otherwise.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:42 PM
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I really, really, really need to apply some effective dread. Honestly, I've tried in the past and I think it was too obvious what I was doing. It did create some stirring in her emotional cauldron, and that was oddly satisfying. & I agree with the 'beta laziness' thing, crazy how one thing can look so different just based off of perspective. ​ Also, since I am already 'allowed' to see other women, how would you recommend dread in this case? Basically showcase/talk about that I know other girls?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:23 PM
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Hell yeah. Great concepts, definitely gonna apply and dick her down when she gets here. Because I'm already ready.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:20 PM
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I really fucking like that. Simple but effective.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:17 PM
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Oh shush, ya Grinch
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:17 PM
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I recently started lifting more and more, and it is just now starting to show. I can tell this will make a difference in the future, but not a huge one now. I do have one of those slim and 'easy to morph' bodies though.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 02:16 PM
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Could be. I need to reset this shit. Any ideas?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:43 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:41 PM
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She is most certainly no longer on her best behavior. From the contents of this thread to less sex, it is obvious. When I tell her no, she basically either says a) Whyyyyy?! b) That I say no just to say no. (Which is kinda true, but I can't help but laugh in that situation lmao) & I don't doubt your 'death by a thousand cuts' - but it feels like a giant shit test. Also please expand on "the uncomfortable thing and re-establishing frame"
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:38 PM
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I appreciate the ability to have mental independence, but not when it comes at the expense of mine (or anyone else's for that matter). I don't want to let my empty evenings just turn into whatever she wants to do just because she suddenly feels like she needs to start making all these rando decisions, you know? But, I have withdrawn my attention (even though it's only been an hour lmao) because I don't want to feed into it any more than I have.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:31 PM
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That first sentence hurts to hear, which means I needed to hear it. ​ The real question is does she know it
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:27 PM
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When I read the title, sex came to mind. I assumed that is what the thread would be about, but the title applies to both. If you have to demand something it isn't organic and ends up looking childish. Action towards bettering your frame/aura is organic, and I believe that action can generate actual interest. & In my experience, it helps to have mental, physical and emotional space from the other person during that process -> monk mode. I love that you included an example of the conversation piec…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 06:33 PM
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Good call not eating where you shit. It takes a lot of resistance, especially in your own home. Who knows where that would have gone if you had engaged. She likely would have pulled the crazy card in a completely different context eventually - probably putting your job on the line. But, in this case, you are not exaggerating. Like others said it is about basic respect. Anyone who pulled that shit at my house would not be coming back.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:42 PM
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