Your_Couzen Archive

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8	Democrats, 72 MILLION is your fucking wake up call No, read this carefully. I’m saying there’s a list of more important issues. If it really matters that much. Cross state lines. You could travel coast to coast in 3-4 days. You could anywhere they accept abortions. You can take the grey hound if a car is the issue. Right now. Abortion is not as important as other issues. The entire country doesn’t think so. So you’re in the minority if you think that’s the major most issue.	/r/MensRights	07/11/24 03:41 AM
8	Democrats, 72 MILLION is your fucking wake up call We didn’t vote against abortion rights. That’s your battle to fight not men’s. Go fight your own battles. Men have their own struggles	/r/MensRights	07/11/24 03:31 AM
0	If Kamala Harris wins…it will be worrying for Men’s Rights Why didn’t he do that his last term? Those are not exactly Trump’s policies. It’s the left that’s pushing for more control and the right that pushes for less control. For example. He doesn’t think the federal government should have rights over abortion. He thinks states should have that right. That’s a problem with your state’s governor. Trump pushes for more control with the people within their respective states. If your state has a governor that is against feminism. Well vote him out. People h…	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 09:38 PM
5	If Kamala Harris wins…it will be worrying for Men’s Rights How will feminism be over?	/r/MensRights	05/11/24 08:43 PM
3	Do most girls actually flirt/sex/hookup with fboys while simultaneously developing connections with good genuine guys on the side? She stopped going on dates implies she was dating. Those were all relationships. The chances she stopped dating when she met you is extremely small. So small it’s likely she lied to you. Every single girl tells guys that. She may have been a virgin or she might not been. Girls lie about that too. Guys lie about that. She told you what you wanted to hear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 07:28 AM
12	Do most girls actually flirt/sex/hookup with fboys while simultaneously developing connections with good genuine guys on the side? Your girlfriend probably told everybody she dated she stopped talking to people. She probably told few people they had the biggest dick she’d ever seen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 06:25 AM
1	men only dislike ‘hookup culture’ when they can’t participate in it I participated in hook up culture and it led to severe depression. I felt dishonorable and ashamed of myself. I got into drinking and smoking weed. I wasted so much time on personal growth. I got nothing out of it. No one I met was what I was looking for in a wife. I lost some friends too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/23 12:46 AM
1	“Radical feminist” declares intercourse is rape and society grooms them to be straight This person needs some help. I feel sorry for them. This is mentally handicapped person. May god have mercy on their poor soul.	/r/MensRights	10/02/23 11:34 PM
0	Circumcision is unfair. How does circumcision make you bad at sex?	/r/MensRights	07/01/23 06:19 AM
14	I feel like we could all use a break. Lets have a fun relaxing post. Fellas, whats something you enjoy doing that isnt typically considered masculine? I love Long Island iced teas	/r/MensRights	21/12/22 01:37 AM
1	Andrew Tate is no friend of men. It’s like not drinking thinking it’s bad for your health and telling people not to drink alcohol because it’s bad for your health. But still having a liquor company. The market is there. Doesn’t change your believes. If you think alcohol is bad and tell people it’s bad there would always be people that still drink. If you know this you can profit off it	/r/MensRights	06/11/22 09:58 PM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? You don’t know what we need to make preliminary evaluations. Having a sex history above 100 partners is not normal and far above baseline in statistics. That’s not an assumption that your way above those numbers. That’s a sex addiction. Addictions always form when the brain rewires it’s reward centers to achieve it. A continuous stream of dopamine always leads to a raising of baseline which require the same stimulus to achieve the desired affect. Once this happens addictions form. With a raised …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 05:08 PM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Are you lying that you were divorced with kids because you got hit in the face? Are you lying that your in therapy and depressed? Are you lying to me that your body count is over 100? If your lying about those things then I am wrong. If you are not lying to me then I know enough to make an evaluation	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 04:33 PM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Jesus Christ lady. I don’t work for you. I don’t have to care about your feelings. What do you think people do when they come home from work. No I’m not bad at my profession. I do what I’m good. I’m telling you what’s the problem here. Go and tell your therapist your coping with life by having sex with so many partners. You may not get my blunt responses but you’ll be guided to a realization that, that is not a great idea. You’re just in massive denial now and straw manning the point now. The po…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 04:18 PM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Your stupid if you believe that. I’m not being paid by you. I don’t have to dance around your feelings. I could talk to my friends differently than patients and I can talk to strangers online differently too. If you were paying me I would be inclined to cater to your feelings more. But as a stranger I get to tell you the truth without having to waste your money. A lot of problems people come in for can easily be solved the problem is the patients denial of reality. It’s a common practice to get …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 04:06 PM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? I’m telling you. I know enough to make an assessment. I’m telling you, you have a sex addiction most likely depression induced. With the information I have it’s probably from your divorce situation. You found a way to validate yourself like others start drinking or taking drugs you found your dopamine rush with sex. Continuous abuse of the dopamine system depletes stores where you form a habit in order to get the same satisfaction leading to addiction and depression. I’m telling you it’s not a n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 03:54 PM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Psychologist	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 04:47 AM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? You are, your ignoring the fact that men care about your body count. You can ask any man. There’s nothing sexist about that. Your stupid to shoot yourself in the foot. If you have any interest in a future with a partner your past sexual history matters. Even if you don’t want a partner. Having many partners is not good for your mental health at all. This applies for men and women. It’s not healthy for a man to go around sleeping with a bunch of woman and it’s not healthy for a woman to do so eit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 03:14 AM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Your stupid I know enough to judge you. Especially with your denial your giving me another point to judge you with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/22 12:45 AM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? What are you talking about I know you fucked over 100 men. Your chubby. And you have a therapist and that your divorced with kids. I know enough	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 11:17 PM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? I know enough. Sadly a high body count is enough to judge a person. Like I said it matters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:18 PM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Sport fucking is not helping your mental health. While it may temporarily. It’s only because you’ve formed a dopamine addiction off it. Which is burying you deeper. The more depleted the stores the more you do more to get the same release of dopamine. Once that happens addiction forms. You have clearly formed an addiction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 05:08 PM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? You should really consider getting professional help. Before you sabotage your life even further to a point beyond repair. I mean it. I think may be suffering with depression and having sex to cope with it and it’s led to an addiction because your dopamine and self esteem is really low. Have more respect for yourself	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:13 AM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Your retarded. Men care about that shit. You may not like it. And that’s fine. But it does matter. Unless you don’t want to date men maybe you can get away with it dating a girl. But I’m sure Even in a lesbian relationship a woman would care about your body count. If you want to date men and don’t think your body count matters. Then your just mentally Ill and broken. You already said you drink and are a little over weight. Signs your falling into depression. It’s not normal to sport fuck like th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:07 AM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? It’s called taking accountability. You chose him. He didn’t put a gun to your head and force you to marry him. You made that choice yourself. Your an adult. When that shit happens to men they take responsibility and say they fucked up choosing her. They never blame that shit on the girl. girls do that shit and take zero accountability	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/22 06:03 AM
1	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards No it’s not. Height is a very difficult thing for men too. Are you insane? Do you know how many men are sad about being short? And there’s nothing they can do? Now I know your retarded. You cannot comprehend that a man’s height is just as sensitive as a woman’s weight. Something a woman can change but a man can. If you cannot understand that then your just a failure in logic or being a dumbass to troll on me. I feel sorry for you	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 04:13 PM
0	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards Go out in the real world. And talk to woman about men. Do you live in a fucking box? I just pointed to you towards fresh and fit. They have so many episodes. Just go ahead and watch one episode. Go watch it. Go watch pearly things, go watch manosphere. Just go on YouTube and watch anything real world related where people interview woman. Your the one that’s being retarded here. I just gave a bunch of evidence, I even sent you a podcast clip. If your refusing to look at the evidence then your par…	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 04:10 PM
1	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards Your the one who literally said “people say cruel things about woman who are over weight and treat them as lesser people” that’s bullying. A woman denying a man because of his height is social exclusion. That’s bullying	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:59 PM
1	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards That girl in my real life experience was a feminist. Again the people on FDS. Go on YouTube there’s tons of example. Watch fresh and fit and see how woman talk on there. Go to pearly things channel and see how woman talk. Go on tik tok and look at Drew Afuala. Quit being blind and ignorant they’re all over the place. https://youtu.be/cnSHnlIS8-U Do not pull this crap which a bunch of people in denial do and keep denying a series of evidence and keep asking for more and more evidence. That’s imma…	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:57 PM
2	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards I live in LA: the woman here are quite competitive. You don’t know how a woman will be until the first date usually. You get more first dates of woman with woman with higher standards in bigger cities than woman that are humble.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:36 PM
2	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards There are 3 forms of bullying. Physical, verbal and exclusion. Men being excluded is just as valid as woman being verbally abused	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:35 PM
2	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards Online? If we’re talking online again I just gave you an example. Female dating strategy	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:33 PM
1	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards Why? There’s nothing people can do about their height. That’s a forever curse that effects the majority of men. Most men are disqualified forever from dating because of their height. Weight is something that can be fixed. There’s something you can do about it.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:32 PM
1	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards How so? am I supposed to just be ready with my phone out to document it? Im not even trying to be funny here. Im seriously curious how I would go about this? Do I pick a strategic spot with surveillance cameras to have a conversation at? Do I pull out my phone and start recording before we start talking?	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:30 PM
1	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards Yesterday I got asked my height. I said 5’10 when she already knew my general height in person. She said oh good that’s close enough. I asked her why and also how much do you weigh. Knowing generally she mustn’t weigh a lot. I was getting ready to tell her oh good you weigh less then me. Me being 160lb but instead got the misogyny accusation. As a man I can get away with my height for most girls because I am tall, with shoes I’m 5’11” and and have an athletic body. But you’d be surprise how very…	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:27 PM
0	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards It was an online hate group for men. They got banned for being a hate group. If your asking for internet examples there’s one right there. But what we men as a whole are describing aren’t internet encounters they’re real life ones where it’s hard to document unless we have our phones out ready to record them. We can’t just ask them to repeat themselves in real life so we can record them to show the internet. But if your looking for an online example it’s a sub that was notorious for hatred of me…	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:15 PM
2	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards Yeah lmao, they didn’t just disappear from the face of the earth. Those people exist in massive numbers in the real world. If your asking for internet examples only, we men are telling IRL that’s how most woman are. Got to get off the internet to experience life	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 03:12 PM
2	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards Are you aware of a sub called Female dating strategy?	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:24 PM
-2	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards It Happened yesterday. That’s an example. I don’t understand what your thinking process is. Are we supposed to record people so we can post it on Reddit? Tell them to repeat themselves so I can document it? How old are you? What kind of thinking is this?	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 02:22 PM
0	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards I don’t think they will either. They’ll just argue it any way.	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 01:17 PM
0	Feminists are hypocritical when it comes to body standards What’s wrong with you? Go out into the world and talk to a real woman and ask her and you’ll find out. What do you expect? Like seriously? How are we supposed to prove this to you without going out into the real world? Do you want us to pull out a tape recorder? Are we supposed to write it down on a piece of paper? Or should we take a picture? Do we tell the girl to come onto the internet to repeat herself? Explain yourself because you’re crossing the lines of being bat shit crazy	/r/MensRights	27/10/22 01:15 PM
35	UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaint That doesn’t make sense. We have Mother’s Day and a Father’s Day. We don’t need to make them the same day because we have special days for both. If we only had Mother’s Day that would be discriminatory, if we only had Father’s Day that not only would be discriminatory but people would be outraged and call it sexist. No matter what situation you apply this too it comes out as discriminatory. Imagine this, you had a family of all boys and once a week they like to go to Disney land. You have to pay…	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 02:20 PM
25	UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaint Dude even the pub itself says it knew it was always discriminating. The men are the ones that spend the most money. Men frequently buy woman drinks too. If men are the number one customers and the establishment is directly profiting of men, then men should be benefitted too. They can afford ladies night because men are taxed for it. Wtf are you talking about ladies getting free drinks or discounted drinks is always the norm. Just like clubs, men are the number one contributors of payment to thes…	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 02:03 PM
38	UK: Pub cancels long-running ladies night after male punter's 'ridiculous' complaint Dude your tripping. It’s discrimination unless they offer a dudes night too. Without equal opportunity it’s discrimination.	/r/MensRights	25/10/22 01:44 PM
3	Wikipedia is funny Some one fix this. I don’t like it. I never heard men IRL talk negative about woman. But everyday I hear woman saying men are trash, fuck men, wishing there weren’t men around or imagining a day without men and praises of these sayings.	/r/MensRights	23/10/22 05:02 PM
-1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Terrible mate selection. Like I said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:23 AM
1	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? They’re not appreciating you. You’re just their cum rag lol. No one cares about you. Your a just a tool for men to bust on. Good for you if that’s what makes you happy. To each their own. Only a matter of time before men look past you and look towards younger woman to pump and dump in. Let’s see if you’re so proud and happy then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:21 AM
4	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? With a body count of over 120 people I bet your a little over weight now. Drink quite a bit. And struggle with current relationships and finding a partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:11 AM
0	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Apparently it does. Are you divorced? Lol I bet you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:09 AM
11	men who care about a women's body count, how would you even know what it is? Having a high body count and having a bunch of faithful lovers is also bad. Means your terrible at either mate selection and or your a terrible mate yourself. Maintaining a long term relationship is a skill	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/22 06:01 AM
1	Is it possible to marry without the potential to lose half of everything in divorce? If so, how? If your not guilty of anything foul, as in your not the one responsible for causing the divorce by something like infidelity. Than the prenup won’t get thrown out by the judge. That usually happens if the person who the prenup is benefitting is also guilty in harming the relationship. If it’s the other persons fault whether that be irreconcilable difference then that shows the judge there was reason to have a prenup and it will hold	/r/MensRights	18/10/22 08:14 AM
2	Tried to rent an Airbnb with 5 friends. Was told by the host “ she doesn’t rent to unrelated males” anymore. Isn’t this discrimination? Seems like they can whatever they want as long as it’s in the terms and conditions. Judging by how so many companies violate your first amendment right and fire you for saying something they don’t agree with. Unpaid work as long as you agree to it. The country is becoming a shit show.	/r/MensRights	13/10/22 11:29 PM
1	Men on ppd are adamant that women don’t want to accept the fact that the majority of men are disgusted by promiscuous women, while refusing to accept that the majority of young women do not find men 10+ years older than them attractive I just looked it up and in western countries the average gap gap of long term relationships is 10 years. Edit. And the short term relationships 2.5 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/22 03:23 AM
-3	circumcision needs to stop! I wouldn’t believe you if you untold me you remember the incident. I’d straight up call you a liar. Science and multiple studies show memories below age 2 are almost impossible to collect. Your holding onto something and trying to compare it to people that actually have memories of rape and are living with the pain. Your just a baby. Circumcision has in no way affected your standard of living. People that are circumcised are not facing any problems. Your the one forming these own problems and in…	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 07:04 PM
-3	circumcision needs to stop! That’s not what rape means and to compare it to rape is really rude to what rape actually is and to those that have been raped. I would never compare circumcision to rape. You just shat on every single real rape victim	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 05:40 PM
-5	circumcision needs to stop! Everyone man I know that’s circumcised loves it. I heard and talked to people being upset about not being circumcised. And woman tend to prefer circumcised too. I’m happy my parents did that for me.	/r/MensRights	05/09/22 12:09 AM
1	JustPearlyThings is doing great work on YoutTube I follow her I just don’t like her posting habits, to many notifications for clips per day on my subscription page	/r/MensRights	02/09/22 05:04 PM
0	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? Growing up 2 older brothers only. So 3 kids felt lonely. Then when we all grew up I can only imagine how lonely it must of been for my parents. So 6 for the kids own development. And I want to spread them out as much as possible to keep the nest alive as much as possible. To use lessons learned on for example my first kids and trying on my next 2 kids. And then using what I learned on that second group for that last group. Also will make retirement more fun. More people to check up on and see wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 06:31 PM
1	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? Also very likely these woman don’t and or aren’t giving him what he wants so that’s why he’s ending these relationships. Imagine he wants a family and he mentions that and then these models he’s dating say not yet I want to work and make my own money. Because reality is lots of woman are on that boss bitch mentality not wanting kids to settle. This is probably the point of contention.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 06:22 PM
0	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? We don’t know what Leo wants in the end. But personally I want 6 kids. With specific gaps. In order for me to hit these requirements I need a young wife. I don’t want 6 kids back to back. And I want them with a single wife. Maybe Leo has a family plan and when it comes to that age can become a big factor.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 06:19 PM
2	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? That’s how the standard relationship works whether professional or romantic. You have standards for someone then when they fail you once or continuously you maintain contact but no longer give that person the same benefits. Cutting people off is at the very end of it. It’s fucked up but I’m sure you or others have maintained relationships just because, even tho they ran their course. It’s usual behavior in many instances	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 06:06 PM
0	Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend breaking surprised absolutely no one, however is the whole “no over 25 rule” intentional? He’s dating until he finds someone suitable to be his wife or mother of his kids. For those that don’t make the cut he cuts them off at 25. This streak will end once he finds the one. Like how men who date a girl then cheat on her after she’s no longer the one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/22 05:23 PM
2	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice Just get a good social circle bro. If you think sports groups are sausage fest then try book club. I don’t know, maybe learn to cook in cooking classes. I just started pilot school and everybody is female cute girl. There everywhere man. Classes are almost always woman. Do Pilates classes or yoga. Learn something cause it sounds like you don’t have group hobby’s other than sports	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 04:14 PM
1	Redpill seems to be exploding in popularity It’s what he says even if outrageous is actually helpful advice to young men and motivational. And he’s being motivational. If you notice there’s a strong amount of people just bashing him and his followers not even taking into account the actual message he’s promoting, to self help men into being better men. But if you look at the comments in this section or any other comments mentioning Andrew tate. They’re attacking the man himself vs his actual arguments. People are reposting him because the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/22 03:45 PM
3	Misandry sells Lol. Your right. How all these stories are always heroic or end in the women standing up for themselves. When I have never in all my life seen an altercation like this in any reality not even on tv until recently only on social media recordings only proof of woman freaking out for no reason.	/r/MensRights	18/08/22 04:22 PM
0	Misandry sells The one time? So just once? What were you doing? Nobody just stares like that. In social settings groups that are completely unrelated only stare at something together if something is occurring. No man just stares at woman just because she’s pretty if that’s what you think men do. Your ignorant in how men operate	/r/MensRights	18/08/22 04:18 PM
1	Misandry sells I’ve been at the gym since 2008. The only thing I ever starred at was a man having a heart attack. I never seen a woman get approached. Before covid too I practically lived at the gym spending 2 hours day and 3 hours evening just hanging out with the boys.	/r/MensRights	18/08/22 04:10 PM
3	CNN blames gender wage gap for Griner arrest, claims player wouldn't have been in Russia if WNBA paid like NBA Maybe she shouldn’t have smuggled drugs. That’s the problems I see Americans have. People think just because you can buy weed from your local store. You can freely travel with it. Your not even allowed to travel across state lines in this country yet because that’s still federally illegal. Shit even different cities have different policies. People think they have some American immunity when traveling. This isn’t the first time an American has done something careless like this and it’s not a gend…	/r/MensRights	05/08/22 05:17 PM
1	Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do? Probably just vacuuming and laundry. But I’d expect everything off the floor and all clothes picked up and ready to wash. A dish or two is fine. About 30 min of work or less and just waiting for the laundry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/22 10:44 PM
1	Would you rather be rejected over your personality or your looks? Personality. Looks matters more in survival. It increases the likely hood that the offspring will also be attractive. Attractive offspring have better chances at mating and carrying on the blood line. I want to make things easier for my kids by helping them inherit good genes	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 04:25 PM
1	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution ? So then use other samples from other countries like Australia , Britain, South America and even Asia. America has the lowest cases of homosexual IPV and we still have that stat greater than heterosexual here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 04:14 PM
1	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution ? Also that article you put as proof same sex marriages aren’t higher than heterosexual. Says that same sex marriages are higher. So you put an article going against you	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 03:47 PM
3	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution ? I was a cop a super long time ago. Majority of domestic violence in the large city im from are from women. But the males are the ones that have the most physical damaging ones. Woman initiate the violence most. Like yelling and throwing dishes. You won’t believe how common throwing shit is. We got showed studies about this too In order to remove bias that media has put out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 03:41 PM
3	I'm lgbt but I have done deep dives in both pills: debate is nice but what is your solution ? The solution is this. There is none. What I get from red pill or blue pill isn’t how I want the world to change. It’s knowing that it won’t change and how to navigate it. It’s like driving with glasses on now. I’m just being more careful in my driving of my life and avoiding obstacles I didn’t see before. Instead of wasting my time trying to wife up a hoe. I’m going to see it for what it is now, being able to identify it and move on earlier before I invest to much in going the wrong way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 03:35 PM
19	Which one of these three guys would you prefer for a relationship and why? Having a low body count isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In fact he could have more experience then Mario. When I first lost my virginity. I smashed the same chick for 3 years. At first it was the basic stuff but after a while we both got comfortable to really start playing around. We would have sex days. Just ditch school to go have sex all day. You get to the point with someone you’ve been with a long time. I personally never attempt to do freaking stuff with one night stands or people I’m still…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 03:21 PM
0	What are PPDs' thoughts on Andrew Tate? He moved to Bucharest for investments. It’s the fastest growing tech city in all of Europe proeorties there are affordable but becoming expensive. If your into real estate Romania is the best place in Europe currently to invest in. That’s actually how he’s making his money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/22 05:07 AM
1	Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male? I’m talking heterosexual. I said man in sense like I explained Dude check this out Vs Check this out Maaaaannn Maaahhnnn	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 10:47 PM
1	Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male? Naw I’m meant like like. Oh man, the weekend … Man……the camping trips	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 09:55 PM
2	Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To Dating Well what do you do to get female attention? Maybe lack of social skills is the reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 02:41 AM
2	Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male? I date at church it’s one of The best spots. Sometimes they organize stuff with food and pool parties. Man weekend camping trips.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/22 02:15 AM
2	Getting Muscular Is A Terrible Return On Investment When It Comes To Dating You have too much mass. When all these people say go the gym they don’t say build muscle they say to lose fat. Woman like lean bodies not muscular. You invested too much time getting buff you look like your slow and lack endurance and you look like you still eat a lot	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/22 02:42 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young Here schools dump you into a class and you work your way down or up into Advance placement. So you have to be on your kids ass. Teacher supply is low. The good teachers tend to have smaller classes while the larger classes go to the worse students that don’t want to learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:48 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young I know you can’t force anyone. It’s just when people say I’m going to go around and fuck a lot of men, ok I’ve had a lot of sex I’m ready to get married why can’t I find a man who wants to commit to me. I tell them. Most people don’t. I don’t lead people on personally. If I’m not feeling it I don’t need to have sex with anyone to walk away. I’m too focused on what I want personally. To get married myself. But other people are not like me. The average man will string a girl on and have sex with h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:44 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young By your way of thinking you shouldn’t care if your smart kid gets placed in the slow classes and everybody in that class does drugs I bet you’ll change your line of thinking real fast and start caring about the surroundings of society on your kids. And if you don’t want the best and wouldn’t fight for your kids ultimate best. Then idk what to say to you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:22 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young It is about the greater good. The world doesn’t revolve around individuals we are dependents of a society. That’s why it’s important that we keep everybody accountable. The neighbor and people you don’t know all need to be functioning members in a society. You start with your house hold then neighbors, city district. Your the one that’s thinking individual. You can’t just worry about your kids. You have to worry about every bodies. Because one day those are the people your children are going to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:20 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young When someone calls me picky I take that well. That’s up to the individual to decide how they feel. If society honored being picky more then people wouldn’t take it badly. That’s why the push for pickiness over promiscuous	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:08 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young And men delivery harshly just because that’s how most men have adapted. It works for men like that. A man saying to his guy friend he’s fat he should go workout. Men are savage to each other and it works for us. But it seems like woman being nice and considerate to other woman’s feelings is creating this gap in the first place in dating market. Woman support each other even when it’s time to sit someone down and tell them it’s time to get serious like men do. Woman tend to do that far too nicely…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:06 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young If people have fallen behind it’s not our job to coddle them or baby them back to the proper functioning way to society. It’s only our job as citizens to uphold the standard by keeping it ourselves. We keep extremes because they tend to work in the long run. Punishing crimes and revoking privileges are were it starts some people take it a step further and shame very vocally. Yeah there’s a limit. We should be nicer with our delivery. Men tend to be bad at delivery but we just need to tone it dow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 09:02 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young which would woman rather be called or known as? Being picky or being a slut? Men get called picky too. Your better off being seen as picky. That’s admirable. Shows you have a general idea of what you want and not willing to settle. There’s nothing wrong with that. That shouldn’t be seen as an insult.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 08:43 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young Shame is an important tool for growth and maintaining stability in a society. We need a standard and call people out for being inadequate. If someone is doing drugs that person has to be told somehow what he’s doing is shameful. Is someone is killer they need to be held accountable for that and know that it is shameful Is someone is a slut, over weight what ever they need to taught that is not good. Having zero shame is what leads to a drop in standards. If people are offended then they should f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 08:22 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young Look if you want to get married. My advice. Find 3 friends that also share those values and are actively putting in work for it. Build yourself. Go to school or continue pressing for the career and keep an eye out. You don’t want to leave you path to find someone. You want to find someone that’s on your path or the one next to it. You just have to both be heading the same direction and also at the same pace too. Your a product of 3 closest people you hang out with. So look for friends that push …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 07:27 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young I mentioned that some men won’t want kids and some won’t want to get married. But that doesn’t mean they don’t want a long term committed relationship. This is why I stress it’s important your values have history. If a man told you on a date he wants to get married and another man tells you he wants to get married and talks about his family, values, puts more effort in the topic, and his friends also confirm he wants to get married. And his circle of friends are also married. The second man is t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 07:09 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young Oh yeah. This isn’t exclusive to woman, men also do it. That’s also my point. You don’t want to pick a man that is a work in progress that’s a gamble. If the man doesn’t show signs of commitment or doesn’t make any effort at the beginning or has no history then the woman should also act like a man and consider it dead in the water. But majority of woman just really want to make it work and pursue the relationship up until it gets toxic. That’s the woman’s fault. She has to be able to do what the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 07:00 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young Mindsets are really hard to break and require a long time to change. It just doesn’t happen. That’s why people struggle with things like weigh-loss, procrastination, studying. Men will never commit to someone that doesn’t have the commitment mindset. Plain and simple. That’s a risk for no fucking reason. They’re not going to wait for you to get out of that phase. The way people think and act reveals a lot about someone’s character. How they move in life and how much care they put into their imag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 06:35 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young Because you can’t just flip a switch and decide to start taking commitment seriously. It doesn’t work like that. Relationships are hard work and like I said require skill. We call traits like that wife material or husband material. You have to show responsibility before hand. The people that show effort first get the rewards first. In life your constantly on a point system whether you like it or not things like how well you dress, your family background, hygiene, looks, career stability, height …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 06:27 PM
1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young Naw her behavior	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 02:18 PM
0	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young the way you carry yourself will be different and that’s why n count and long term relationships matter. You need to look at the bigger picture here. Relationships take skill work and you acquire these skills by sustaining long term relationships. They bring up problems that short term dating won’t bring up. A girl who has had 3 five year long relationships has more what men want then a woman who’s had 5 relationships in one year. That says you either have terrible mate selection skills or your t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 05:54 AM
-1	Addison Rae's dads behavior show why women shouldn't commit to guys when young By having fun like that. You drastically increased your chances on being cheated on or left for woman who has had less men. Why can’t woman just get that through there heads. The less body’s you have the more likely a man will go above and beyond to keep you. Ultimately for the virgin he’d go the farthest to keep her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/22 05:10 AM
20	Why is the physical act of cheating so devastating to men? For men life is a competition with other men for resources. Having money is cool but biologically the one with most woman is the winner it puts him in a better position to procreate even if they don’t want kids, people want that option readily available. When a women cheats a man loses his largest chance at procreation and even just sex in general. Life is hard for a man. We just live life stoically but deep down almost Everyman wants to be in a secured relationship knowing his partner will neve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/22 09:52 PM
1	Why don’t more men get sex bot? Not unless your gay. The male on male interaction is far different than female to male. Any other line of thinking is absurd and most people don’t find that perfect someone right away. There’s trial and error. In those errors there’s always going to be women talking about how shitty men are and men will talk about how shitty women are. We don’t live in a make believe land of perfect interactions that lead to love and romance. Almost everybody you meet will have something bad to say until that sm…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/22 08:02 PM
1	Why don’t more men get sex bot? It’s because companionship is more than sexual. Just knowing someone is in the room with you is better than being alone with a sex robot. People have socializing needs and they’re far more important than sexual needs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/22 06:06 PM
–	Younger men (18-30) should not want older men 30+ going after 18-30 year old women because they not only makes dating harder for them, but it creates more demand for young women Well there shouldn’t be any shunning. They’re just doing that to point fingers away from their own inadequacies because they have not yet had to time to grow and developed desirable traits like health wealth and style. It’s easier to blame the women for them because they can fit themselves into those mens shoes and understand that they also probably didn’t fair well when they were 18-30 but not think about it from the perspective of women. Seeing older men with younger women is their hope that i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 04:06 PM
–	Younger men (18-30) should not want older men 30+ going after 18-30 year old women because they not only makes dating harder for them, but it creates more demand for young women What happens when the person grows older? The desire doesn’t change. What you find attractive at 15 and 25 and 35 will generally be the same. It’s how life is. Why do people buy the new phone every year or new cars? Go watch a new movie. It’s because they’re new! Fresh. People will always like new it’s behavior that’s in children and In animals. It’s normal	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/22 03:54 PM
2	What do you consider a high N-count? Well personally to me 5 is high. But body count only matters if your looking for a long term relationship. Long term commitment takes effort and someone who’s had a low body count because all their relationships are long shows more that they can handle a committed relationship better than someone who can’t maintain a long term relationship and shows with high body count. You can’t just develop the skills right away for that it takes practice to know how to navigate a proper relationship. If your…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 05:30 PM
3	The whole “she probably wasn’t that interested” narrative asserted anytime a man complains about getting ghosted after a promising connection is made is bogus, more often than not it is a result of women’s abundance of options and not them feigning interest and giving you a number to get rid of you It doesn’t change like it does yours. You don’t seem to understand life. If your not hungry and don’t want to eat you are not interested in eating. if your hungry and want to and you want a taco your interest in eating and want a taco * if someone wants to date you and you don’t want to the. Your not interested * if someone wants to date you but you have other options then your interested in the other options If someone wants to date you and you want to date them but can’t because you have st…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 05:30 PM
9	The whole “she probably wasn’t that interested” narrative asserted anytime a man complains about getting ghosted after a promising connection is made is bogus, more often than not it is a result of women’s abundance of options and not them feigning interest and giving you a number to get rid of you It’s just common sense. If your not interested in doing something your probably not going to do it unless forced. If a person doesn’t want to be with someone with ever that reason may be either because they’re gay or not in a place mentally or because that person doesn’t fit a criteria everything will always boil down to interest. That’s how we use the word interest in the English language	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 04:03 PM
8	The whole “she probably wasn’t that interested” narrative asserted anytime a man complains about getting ghosted after a promising connection is made is bogus, more often than not it is a result of women’s abundance of options and not them feigning interest and giving you a number to get rid of you Ok so if she doesn’t choose then that means she just wasn’t interested at all in anyone and the statement still stands. She just wasn’t interested in anyone	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 03:41 PM
9	The whole “she probably wasn’t that interested” narrative asserted anytime a man complains about getting ghosted after a promising connection is made is bogus, more often than not it is a result of women’s abundance of options and not them feigning interest and giving you a number to get rid of you You saying that the phrase wasn’t that interested is bogus because of her abundance of option contradicts your point. It’s can’t be bogus because if she has many options then she’s going to chose the option she is most interested in. Thus the meaning of the phrase she probably wasn’t that interested. Because her interest where somewhere else	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/22 03:31 PM
1	If a guy says, “What more do women bring to the table than looks and pussy?” he means he loves worthless women. False. Completely false. Unless you really are a worthless women. Let’s take gender out of it and just are you a person that contributes? I read so many story’s about women being frustrated men coming home from work and they do little work. If it’s none I could understand but women need to understand if a man leaves to work and comes home and his house is dirtier. If it seems like a man is basically supporting a grown adult daughter he’s going to start to ask himself what do you bring to the tab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 12:39 AM
1	Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than them My dad married into a new family 5 years ago. I started putting effort into being part of that family just recently during covid. So my age was never really known to that side because I never hung out. My sister and I are still close in age enough to bond over things with a 5 year difference so we did. On weekends she would invite me to go with her friends to the theater or mall, I would invite her to the beach with my friends or other group events, Stuff like that it started becoming very commo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:34 PM
1	Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than them I grow beards I’m lazy when it comes to shaving and only do it once a week. I get stubble over night and am primed to shave in 2 days but usually let it grow up to 5 days	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 06:25 PM
0	Women really don't like men who LOOK YOUNGER than them Same man. When I go out I attract either gay young men or young girls. I have a cardio body but lift weights so I have this thin but muscular look but overall it adds to my youthful appearance and I have a whole racial regimen. My step sister thought I was 22. She’s 25. She just found out I was 30 and it’s shaken up our friendship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/22 05:12 PM
4	The existence of gender You never heard of roid rage? The side effects of testosterone treatments? Or the side effects of estrogen treatments? Why someone who was a man acts differently after receiving estrogen or vice versus. Plus also men and women develop different reward systems. Things like dopamine serotonin. We may share similar things in life that releases dopamine like food but we also have differences that separate the genders as wholes. Most men won’t feel excited to fuck another man as they would a women. W…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 09:13 AM
5	The existence of gender Men and women think differently because of our hormones. Hormones play a role on your thinking. A person with higher testosterone has different social traits then someone who has more estrogen. This is all influenced by sex of the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/22 09:01 AM
5	Women cheat more than men but are better liars/hiders Unattractive women can have sex more then attractive men. Men marry faster but divorce more often. Women actually do have more incentive to cheat, a divorce cost men more then women financially. And I don’t necessarily agreed with the post either. I think men and women are both equally capable of cheating and it happens roughly evenly. Both genders have different descriptions of cheating too. There’s physically cheating and mentally or emotionally. Men when taken up on the chance will be more li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/22 11:54 PM
1	If a man asks you to dinner, is it wrong to accept if you have no intention of having a relationship with said man but instead to get free food? Fuck yeah it’s wrong. If you already know you’re not interested. Then your leading them on. It’s only not wrong if you tell them up front and they still decide to go with it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 06:20 AM
14	Dating your friend’s ex It’s usually cause every small secret you keep that’s supposed to be intimate and private. Is no longer private to your relationship with the girl. She will tell your friend her new boyfriend everything. The things you wish people wouldn’t know. The things you tell your girl but not your guy friends	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/22 07:03 AM
3	To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell? Bro stop I’m blushing	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 05:59 AM
1	To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell? I tend to grow on people. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 03:56 AM
1	To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell? Till we meet again 🤠	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 03:53 AM
3	To the women who get upset at bitter men what's your longest dry spell? I see your name so much you’re very active.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/22 03:48 AM
3	What do you think the rule should be for who pays on the first date? Paying first is recommended for the first date. It’s shows initiative to just grab the check and pay it. Even if the girl is a 50/50 girl the act itself without making a big deal about it shows some type of values aside from it being traditional. It’s revealing that you can afford to pay for two people without making a big deal about it. Not paying or going half, even if you have money. Will look like you don’t have money even if that’s not true. It can hurt you very much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/22 05:52 AM
8	Men are better off not watching and avoiding porn altogether. I know right! Hours? Lmao I mean if that’s how it’s going then yeah they should stop watching porn. But if it’s once a week or 2x for a total of 5-10 min then that’s reasonable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/22 07:15 AM
2	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? I get you, but still In court or in the eyes of the law it does still continue to hold it’s meaning until officially changed	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:41 PM
1	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? Looser to who? Women? Or the actual dictionary? I see that word misused a lot. Yeah it’s a sexism. Wording matters. A man touches a woman on the shoulder that’s battery not rape. Improper wording can destroy reputations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 09:00 PM
2	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? How is what you described a player misogyny? Is replacing a woman or objectifying hatred and contempt of woman? Explain	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 08:49 PM
4	Why do you think it's stigmatized for men to be insecure? Hahaha I got your point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 05:24 AM
1	What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022? Can’t women adopt? Freeze eggs? Surrogate? Aren’t there options ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/22 12:08 AM
5	Why are "pick mes" so reviled? It’s just cause people are mean and cause people are jealous especially if they tried being pickmes and never got anywhere. I agree with your points. It’s their choice of lifestyle. No need to disrespect people over wanting to be a stay at home wife or a man who’s overly devoted to a woman, but that’s just how the world is. Everyone in reality wants to be picked by someone whether love partner or in job opportunities. Try hard at work and in school.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/22 07:01 AM
5	Do men actually value relationships and families? I value a woman who chooses to have my kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 01:18 PM
1	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Yes. That to them is dating up. A model might think a cosplayer is a catch cause that’s what she’s into. In her world she’s dating up not everyone lives the same world as each other. Hypergamy means dating up but dating up means different things to people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 09:05 PM
2	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Not if the fat guy has money, if people see a fat guy and see he has money, they will see that he must be of some type of class. Even if that’s just $ 500 more a month then the next guy that’s still higher. If your fat broke and have no car, really nothing going on for you and youre with a successful women. Then people might stop to think about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 09:01 PM
1	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Again. Preference matter, your not getting it. Hypergamy is wanting to date up, You don’t know what dating up means to the other person but generally it’s having status. You can’t judge a fat man dating a model because for all you know it’s still hypergamy. He could be the best live action replayer/ cosplayer in the world and maybe that’s the world she’s into, so I’m her eyes that’s him being in higher status. A woman can fall in love with the ugliest guy if she’s an e gamer and he’s the world c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:54 PM
2	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? What social standard?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:46 PM
1	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Caring about something or having thoughts about a matter do tie into how you feel and what your preferences are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:46 PM
1	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Preference are dependent on Hypergamy. Cause if you don’t care about it. You wouldn’t want it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:44 PM
1	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Hierarchy is like a ladder. Hypergamy is more like a spectrum horizontal. It has different levels and those levels are different for many people. A women can want to date a rich man. But she’s a human being capable of having other preferences. Hypergamy is real, but it’s just a desire it’s not ultimate truth Would you rather have a really good friend that’s broke? Or the exact same friend who has the exact same character and hasn’t changed but is now rich still your good friend. Most would prefe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:41 PM
2	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? No one can determine what standards people have, if the sexiest man in the world who’s also rich wants to date an ugly women who lives a bum. It’s no one’s right to tell him he deserves better, you don’t know what he deserves but him. Same with a woman. Just because it’s more likely a women would want to date someone who’s in higher status doesn’t mean all women do and judging a beautiful women who dates ugly broke fat men as having low standards is petty. For all you know that man could be in g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:35 PM
2	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Validation from your peers. Men want to be you and women want to be with you. You get there by being yourself and working hard in your work. Having ambition is a positive trait that leads to approval of your pushing in life the right way. When your friends see you happy while they’re not. That rubs off on people. That want a piece of it. That’s where having the confidence is key cause it shows the world you know what your doing, even if you don’t know what your doing. It’ll get you picked as a s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:24 PM
2	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? What do you want? The power to be picky? No one has the absolute power. Even pick up artist and handsome men with money. Only women get to truly be picky.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:18 PM
1	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Hypergamy means to date up to a superior class. That’s real but doesn’t really matter too much. Anyone would date anyone in a higher position if they could. So it’s real but also not important. If you have the options you would always chose the best no?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:15 PM
2	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? It’s not entirely up to you what she prefers. She is also a person who may enjoy all that. Not every beautiful women has top notched standards. Most don’t really and just want someone to talk to and communicate with. Not every women is shallow and has a wall of standards up all the time. You only have standards when your thinking about it. You got to stop that and just go talk to women you fancy and understand what they’re into. You and many other people might think you don’t deserve her but tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 08:12 PM
3	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? You need to bring value to your own life. It’s not about you joining them but having them wanting to join you in on your life. If your not happy inside it would show in how you carry yourself and what kind of hobbies you have too. Some big breast women might be into sports others gaming only way to know is by interacting with them and during that interaction you have to put your best foot forward to have a good first impression, you can have a good impression by being positive about your own sta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 07:50 PM
5	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? No one has the same standards. Not all men want big boobed women. Not all women want tall guys with big dicks. You can influence someone’s standards with money if you don’t got the looks. But I suggest never forming a relationship that relies on money for attraction,p,	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 07:44 PM
3	What qualities should a man have before he can raise his standards/be picky about how his partner looks? And what things can he be picky about? Hypergamy is real, your trying to quantify one thing when there’s many reasons to get into relationships. You could be a total piece of shit with no standards but your big red shoes got you the girl. Cause well maybe she’s into clowns who knows but everyone knows we all have different standards. A beautiful women can fall in love with an ugly man if he fits into her standards,	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/22 07:41 PM
3	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? Your bringing kids into this? And let me get this straight, Your calling me a psychopath? Do you even think? So your defense is to call someone a psychopath? Remember when I said people walk around with certain terms in their head and that’s the filter they see life with. Psychopath is one of them. Your proving my point, you have a certain mindset already. You are conditioned like that, it’s up to you to uncomdition yourself. Not every man is out to get out. There are people that are unfortunate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 08:05 PM
-3	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? Non respectable women? I never said that I said places, there you go putting a twist to it. And education in street smart? What does your education have to do with anything. Does knowing math help you with interactions? And I don’t judge my women friends. There’s a strong reason why I have so many women friends. It’s not cause I’m cute. It’s not cause I have money. If I’m so terrible why even interact with me? It’s that dumb mindset. So if you don’t like some place or someone then leave right? O…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 07:55 PM
-1	What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better? Almost every women? God damn where do you live? Almost every women I know has never had a fear of men or rape but they do fear being cheated on and would probably make men very fearful if they did cheat and the women found out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 07:17 PM
1	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? Men just go to war so our loves ones don’t have to. It’s a instinct that men have like a mother has for a new born. Men have an itch to provide, protect and feel needed. Women have there own set of instincts. We’re just animals But no man ever wants to just fight if we don’t have to unless intoxicated or other psychological problems	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 06:13 PM
0	Is it just me or do women nowadays have so many dating options that it makes it hard to be their first hand choice? And if women were president what do you think would happen ? Who starts fights more women or men? It’s women who start problems and men who finish them. Men want to avoid confrontation just like women do but men know limits that others are willing to fight for, but most women test those limits fuck around and find out. Then go on to hate men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/02/22 06:02 PM
2	If women suddenly switched to being the stronger sex, how would it affect dating dynamics? Look if the roles of strength flipped suddenly. Then we would have a series of crimes. Assault as women who think they’re just messing around start assaulting men. Some to just test out what is happening and others to get back at men who did nothing wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/22 07:58 PM
11	How do you view the redpill's "never pay the entire bill/as cheap as possible dates" mindset? Correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t red pill never let a girl pay for a date as it lowers your perceived financial status? And not paying the bill and going Dutch or choosing cheaper spots a soft move? Also like you want to be more assertive and controlling by doing so. Playing the typical male part	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/21 05:10 AM
2	Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting? I hate to break it to you but that’s not normal human behavior especially for a male to be that reserved sexually. If that’s what you want then yes. There will be men like that. We are talking a statically small percentage of men. Like 5% of men Then which such a small already dating pool what are the odds he’s handsome himself where you find him sexually attractive? That always gives you a less then 1% chance we’re talking decimal percentages like 0.008% Then he probably has to meet other crite…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 06:25 PM
4	Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting? You could be sexually attracted to someone and not give a fuck about them being a man. Like someone else pointed out it’s a biological thing. You can’t override thousands of years of instinct. But a man normally is highly reserved when it comes to romantic feelings. He can think someone is sexually attractive and not love her at all. He would (I want to say always;there’s of course outliers) chose what he loves. Being in a relationship and having let’s say a celebrity crush is common. I’m not a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 06:16 PM
2	High value men would not date a McDonald's worker just because she is hot A high value man will date anyone he wants with out fear of judgment of any man or women. Date even a McDonald’s worker. Status really doesn’t matter as much. Your trippin, now marry? Maybe that’s different yea. But you wrote date not marry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/21 09:51 AM
2	CMV: Tom Leykis was more valuable then Rollo, Cooper and the whole TRP crew You might be getting too wrapped up on the person. What people are saying to you is that the person isn’t important it’s the message delivered. Doesn’t matter what source anyone heard it from the over all message has not changed in all these years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/21 02:44 PM
1	How true is the phrase "men are the gatekeepers of relationships" in this modern world where the dating pool is so large? I believe instinctly both men and women want to be in pairs as we are social animals. You can’t over ride thousands of years of programming that’s why depression is now at an all time high for both men and woman. Men are more capable of being alone but women were always left behind during hunts to maintain the society. They rely on groups far more than men. A womens circle is usually tighter than mens. At some point men want to protect something and be possessive of it while women will want to n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:17 PM
1	What is so bad about Female Dating Strategy's teachings? What’s bad about it is that there are more women than there are men. All men in the world can pair up with a woman and there still be left overs. So not giving a man what he wants he’s just going to find it somewhere else. Thus making it much harder to secure a man. Because why should a man chose someone who neglects him if he can find someone else who does Moment he finds somebody who will he will dump you or cheat on you. Which is why and what they all have in common. They share negative exper…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/21 11:50 PM
1	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? No. I wouldn’t live someone who’s a sloth and disgusting like that. You could be messy and also unorganized but to be that level of dirty. Why would you move in together? If you decided to move in together without laying those grounds rules, You cant blame the other partner if they never knew your standards and even if they did it’s up to you to by communicating the problem and not letting it become a habit if they’re not listening. And if they continue to not listen you have so many option like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 05:16 AM
3	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? Not everyone has a dish washer and it’s practice to at least rinse out the plate. I’m sorry but if that’s how dirty your dishes get that’s disgusting. You could have days old dishes and have them look clean upon inspection.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 05:10 AM
1	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? It’s like washing the dishes everyday vs letting them stack up till the weekend. The work is the same. The amount of time spent cleaning is the same just spread out or all I’m one go. Those are two different clean standards but the same work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 12:43 AM
1	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? Again, we both have different standards, Clothes on the bedroom floor and only clothes to her is dirty even clean clothes. That’s her standards and for that room they’re higher than mine. In the bathroom that room is the one that gets cleaned the most. The uphill battle with dirty clothes and water bottles, make up stuff just chaos. But I clean it. And that room is the hardest to clean in my case in the house, I’m the one doing the hard part in there. My standards in that room are higher. Hers a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 12:40 AM
1	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? Yeah I agree with communication. The problem lies when you communicate and they don’t listen. But how are we supposed to know a particular mess in the corner of the house is troubling someone unless they communicate and if it’s troubling them they should be the one to deal with it in the current moment then bring it up and communicate it. I’m not a fan of when someone has a problem and they leave it for you to come back home and nag and guilt you into fixing it. That’s a problem to me. I would n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 12:31 AM
1	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? But going back to my point having different standards doesn’t mean one is more dirty than another, for example the bathroom is my favorite room in the house, I keep that shit clean and the kitchen my second domaine I love to cook. Don’t scratch my pans! That bathroom is filthy because of my partner clothes and make up everywhere. Bedroom I keep that dirty. Clean clothes on the bed or corner not put away. People have different standards of clean for different things. So I do not believe a person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/21 12:23 AM
0	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? Why do you need someone to rise or lower standards? Why can’t it be accepted that people have different standards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 11:14 PM
2	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? Why do you need someone to rise or lower standards? Why can’t it be accepted that people have different standards?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 11:14 PM
3	Do Men Do Their Fair Share of Work Around the Home? This is an opinion I believe In. If I leave my shirt on the bed one day for an hour and it bothers you. That’s your problem not mine. Toilet seat up both our problems because reverse flush is a thing and I don’t want my bathroom smelling Ike toilet water. Dirty dishes both our problem. Dirty toilet. I’ll clean it on Sunday and if you really want it clean now. That’s your problem. We can’t always shove our different standards in our partners faces. We should take notice and put in effort to all t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 11:13 PM
1	Women play a numbers game for relationships, Men play numbers game for sex The statement was about numbers for relationships, not romantic relationships. There’s sexual or even platonic, and familiar relationships. You choose trial and error who to hang out with. That’s a numbers game. I would have to think your lying if you have zero relationships with men, no platonic or familial	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 06:40 PM
1	Women play a numbers game for relationships, Men play numbers game for sex So you have zero men in your friends and family? All girls? I doubt that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 06:27 PM
1	Does women give bad advices about dating and relationships to men? It’s not that it’s awful. It’s that it’s that it’s not long lasting. A can you telll you she feels a way about something and then change her feelings a week later. For no reason. And yet too also it’s that they cannot pinpoint exactly what they want either, like they’re always trying to discover it and have a general idea what it is. So generally I’d say their advice for the most part is good. Just that they would mix some advice based on more feelings that can change at a given notice. You got …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 06:15 AM
4	Unpopular opinion: You don't need to marry to have a life-time relationship 😀 I think the benefits are tax issues and shit like that. Financial. Legal loop holes. So if your in it long term then marriage is a smart choice to save some money. Even a smarter move if you plan to have kids	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/11/21 12:43 AM
4	Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman? I would test it out but have enough self respect to immediately walk away once the typical FDS misandry begins	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 05:55 PM
1	Could society collapse because of picky women? Stats show 80% of divorce or breakups are from the female side. So if the father takes the child he’s taking responsibly because it’s not usual for the father to get the child it’s usually the mother, he would have to be stepping up for him to assume the single father role but yeah he chose to have sex with her without a condom. But the women has the most power and choice in who is able to be given life and not. Birth is a woman’s choice, someone will always have the greater power and it’s usual…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 04:35 PM
9	Could society collapse because of picky women? Men can do wrong. But people have to take accountability. Who chooses the men? It’s the women. A man cannot force a relationship with a women. Those are their choices and men lack those choices. A women has more options in finding a relationship than a man does. Edit. And most of those choices lead to single mother hood or single for long periods of time where it starts to effect your mood.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 03:53 PM
3	Could society collapse because of picky women? Because it’s the women who chooses who has sex with her and most of the time they pick the bad boy who’s not father material in hopes of making him one. Only to become single mothers. Most women go for a man that has game. A person that has game is a player. Players can cheat	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 03:50 PM
1	Is porn ruining average sexual experiences for men by raising their expectations on how much sexual women should be with them? No. Every body has different sex lives. You broken up relationships over just sex? Did you not love them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/21 01:05 PM