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"And all that talk about 'positive masculinity' only tries to obscure a situation that is inherently unsalvageable." Agreed.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/17 01:41 AM
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I suggest looking into "gender critical" perspectives. I personally am pretty sure masculine/feminine are effectively a giant cult. Similar to how different cultures developed different conceptions of supernatural gods and therefore different religions, different cultures developed different mythology around the fact that our species reproduces via sexual dimorphism. That's really what masculinity and femininity are, and the dominant version of masc/fem (had to come up with a term for the thing …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/17 07:41 PM
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If mental health is an issue, it's worth doing regardless, as long as you're in a relationship that's ongoing, a legal technicality is hardly relevant.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/17 07:07 PM
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That's still not good. I didn't assume physical, either. Violent does not necessarily refer to physical violence and I didn't think it would in this case. It's not healthy to have an implicit threat of serious boundary violations from your partner that is effectively controlling your behavior.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/17 07:06 PM
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Why are you with someone whose mental illness includes violent retaliation? If this is a serious issue and you are basically afraid of her harming you because of her mental illness, talking to a psychologist about that yourself, and possibly also couple therapy would be the best option. That's not a reasonable thing to blame on mental illness. You can be a solidly non-abusive person while having a huge variety of mental illnesses. If your fear of her "lashing out in a violent way" is an accurate…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/17 03:50 PM
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I have a few questions here; How do you know about her sexual history if she hasn't told you about it? If she hasn't told you about it, it strongly suggests it was a negative experience for her. It also suggests she might not think you will respect her wish to not repeat the experience, which you clearly do not fully respect as you are here trying to get support for your feeling that she owes you things she doesn't apparently want to do. So she would be correct, if this has dawned on her. Odds a…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/17 02:37 PM
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Brad Pitt is the man women think of when someone asks for attractive men. I've never thought of him, nor have any of my friends -literally in my entire life, and I'm 32 so I'm old enough he still looked decent when I was an adolescent- mentioned him as the celebrity they found attractive. Obviously younger men are also talked about. It's really hard to believe you've actually talked to women about this. I'm guessing there is a steep ratio between Reddit and interacting with women as friends. Bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/16 09:10 PM
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As if everyone prefers Brad Pitt's face (or body). You seem to be fishing for an attractive man who is 1) short (men in wheelchairs or with prostethic limbs don't count! They could be tall!) 2) overweight, because apparently very skinny is still a conventionally perfect body (Prince) and possibly 3) has a really ugly face? I'm not sure why you think Brad Pitt is the most beautiful face. Faces that are beautiful but unconventional are the ones that get described as having "character". Exaggerated…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 11:18 PM
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I'd say I'm slightly upper middle class. My parents are intellectuals, so I wouldn't call them yuppies. Yuppies tend to give a shit about social status. My mom was the child of a real estate agent and a head nurse, my dad the child of a concert pianist and a research chemist. My parents were modeled a certain attitude and weren't too restricted financially in their educational opportunities, so they pursued things they cared about; being bright and passionate lead them to doing well financially.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 11:04 PM
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You cannot expect us to have a better job than you I don't. be wealthier I don't. I also have far more assets than anyone I've ever dated, so as far as I can tell, I've always been defacto wealthier regardless of yearly salaries. more educated than you I don't. And I'm more educated than my partner. My mom also has a higher degree than my father. They are both brilliant people in very different fields. They have been happily married for almost 40 years. take the lead I don't. I messaged my guy f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:24 PM
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How ridiculous. First you imply they don't exist, then you decide nobody really finds them attractive, they are brainwashed by fame and money. It's convenient to post recognizable famous people, especially since you can Google favorable opinions of their looks from hundreds of people. I could post guys I've dated/see on the street who I thought were unconventionally stunning, but that's a lot of effort just to hear illogical conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 10:16 PM
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Dev Patel, Jay Baruchel, Adrien Brody, Prince, Miguel, Zachary Quinto, Benedict Cumberbatch, Ringo Star, Yasiin Bey (Mos Def). Andre 3000, Jeff Goldblum, Pharell Williams, Rami Malek... Tilda Swinton, Kate Micucci, Kate Winslet, Amy Schumer, Devon Aoki, Lily Cole, Helena Bonham Carter, Bjork, Ellen Page, Anna Kendrick, Regina Spector, Rose Leslie, Jayma Mays, Jane Lynch, Erykah Badu, FKA Twigs...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 09:05 PM
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People who are attractive in unconventional ways usually prefer people who are also attractive in unconventional ways, you're ignoring that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:29 PM
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Agreed. It seems like a lot of men are purposefully obtuse. They value women who are impeccibly groomed and good with fashion, but they don't value grooming and fashion enough to learn how to do it themselves? I think a lot of women put up with the crap standard many guys show up with because if you directly try to help them (from experience) you are treated to shit that would be better saved for a therapist; claiming only shallow people care about those things (self-awareness=0)...or only gay p…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/15 08:12 PM
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TRP is a manual for being an asshole (because chicks dig that /s), and all of a sudden that is a token group. And I wouldn't play the Shittiest Life Competition if I were you. You really think TRP users have a monopoly on life dealing them a crap hand? All they seem to have a monopoly on is refusing to find a good therapist to deal with their problems and instead doing the exact opposite, via finding a community happy to magnify all of their cognitive distortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 06:52 PM
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I do. Nut paste would make me (a person) extremely happy because I have a very different criteria as to what I wish to receive from food. Thanksgiving dinner: explosive stomach cramp which I will spend largely in the fetal position. Nut paste: something edible that doesn't lead to hours of painful abdominal cramps? Great! I do not care about Thanksgiving dinners as the association with that kind of food being good, relevant, or enjoyable is not there for me. If you want your Thanksgiving dinner,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/15 10:16 PM
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Great anology, actually. I have celiac disease, so total gluten allergy. Definitely wouldn't even go to that cooking class because I could potentially get sick from handling flour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 10:57 PM
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That means you like to feel smart by insulting people online. Which doesn't come across as a very intelligent thing to do, just a cheap way to get an emotional boost. Lots of people do that online, it's seductive and easy. It doesn't mean you have to hold yourself to that personal standard, because it just dehumanizes people you speak to and also dehumanizes you in their eyes. Then you can fling poo at each other like idiot monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 10:53 PM
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Great answer, appreciate it. I added some edits as I'm taking pains to be clear, but already addressed by your reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:57 AM
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I was asking questions based on how it looks to an observer. It doesn't mean I don't understand the subject. It means your subject is easily misunderstood, and that is something you could acknowledge instead of insulting people. Feminism, for example, is incredibly easy to misunderstand, so much so that it's very dubious anyone should be attempting to seriously comment on it without a relevant degree. If that was acknowledged instead of people endlessly calling each other stupid, the Internet wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:31 AM
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Now please explain to me where this trp advice creates a narrative, where it suddenly says that other relationships don't exist. Not my intention in the post to suggest I think you believe that, though definitely suggesting other relationships get questioned on PPD (I've lurked around for about a year) and some (maybe unscrupulous or themselves unclear) RPers will try to renarrate their relationship to match a TRP model . I'm motivated to ask because of the instances where that has happened. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:25 AM
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My bad, I'll remove.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:20 AM
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Was that supposed to be an aspergers/autism reference, or just generally filling the Internet's daily quota for people calling other people stupid? (Congratulations! You are entry #3,600,540)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 09:04 AM
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