Yourlifetimecoach Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	In desperate need of help I’m sorry you are going through that. If you need anyone to talk to or just vent while you’re going through this, DM me.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/20 04:28 AM
1	My marriage is dragging me deeper and deeper into depression 🙂	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/20 12:40 AM
1	My marriage is dragging me deeper and deeper into depression I'm sorry things are not going well in your marriage. If you truly would rather not go to counseling to try and resolve things, then perhaps you can forgive her and move on. Our environment and the people we are around make a big difference in our motivation and how we feel about the life we are creating. Since your lease is ending next month, this is a good time to make that decision. DM me if you ever need to talk. I know things like this can be challenging, and having someone to chat with onc…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/20 04:35 AM
1	Resentments and her decisions and how they hurt our marriage I first want to say I'm sorry you and your son are going through this. I know things will be better when you can get her out of your life. Have you considered getting a therapist or life coach for your son? Perhaps getting him someone outside of the situation would be good, as he can confide in them confidentially and get support while all of this is going on. It will benefit him to resolve how he feels now so he can live a good adult life (believe me, I've been in a similar situation when I was…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/20 04:30 AM
1	Need help in Illinois I’m sorry to hear what you are going through. This is definitely a challenging time. I love that you want to make sure your kids are taken care of. I think what you are offering is fair, but not sure what will be decided. If she’s looking for money, she might get her attorney to ask for more. Hang in there. Soon the divorce will be final and you’ll be able to open a new chapter in your life 🌸	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/19 05:01 AM
1	Help for a dear friend going through Hell... I’m so sorry to hear about your friend and what he’s going through. I don’t have a legal background, but I am a Life Coach with a background in psychology. I would be glad to talk with him if he needs emotional support or to get his life back on track. I can send you my information on private chat if you’d like to pass that along to him.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/19 08:56 PM
2	Stay or go - need advice I’m proud of you and her for going to see a therapist and trying to work on the marriage. I’m sorry to hear that you are not wanting to stay, but I can understand how you feel because of the issues you’ve had in the marriage. Perhaps you could give it a month and put a date in the calendar to evaluate how you are feeling after that month is up. You could work with the therapist or a life coach and see if they could give you ideas to try during that time. Then if you decide to leave, you will kno…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/09/19 05:22 AM
3	Family therapy? I believe going will help and be a good healing component for you, her and the kids. You can feel good knowing you tried to get things moving in a positive direction. If things do not work out in the end, you will feel satisfied that you tried to work it out. There will be no regrets. Therapists are really good and can help get the communication going. Even if it's to realize that things are not able to move forward with the two of you. Good luck and keep reaching out like this. It's good to hav…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/19 03:15 AM
1	In Limbo This is a tough decision that a lot of people go through. You could stay, but being miserable will take a toll on your mental and physical health. You will live a life, but it won't be thriving and you will not have much motivation to do anything because you will feel stressed out most of the time with no energy for the things you enjoy. If you leave, you will have less money, however, you could figure out a way to maybe get a higher paying job or do something online to gain more money from home…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/19 07:22 PM
1	24 going on a 2nd divorce Sorry you are going through all of that. You have a lot going on right now. Do you have anyone in your life that you could reach out to? It's important to have someone that will listen to you and ask you the right questions that will guide you through the steps to getting things in order. Transitioning from the military can be a big change, and you also have other things going on as well. It's good to take a moment and step back. Try and relax and write down the things that are most pressing now…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/19 07:04 PM
1	Ready to kick her out I'm sorry to hear that is happening with you and the kids :( Have you suggested to your wife that she should see a counselor or someone for help? I'm thinking she is unhappy in her own life and therefore, making things difficult for everyone around her. Unfortunately, the saying "misery loves company" is very true. In my opinion, the kids would be better off without that situation. Being in that type of situation can really take a toll on them mentally.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/08/19 06:49 PM