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For most men dating gets better. Also, some body shapes get more masculine 40+. Like fit example Steve Buscemi. <image> Some guys who looked great in their 20's don't look good 40+. Also, men in their thirties are more desirable because they have more life experiences. The trouble is discerning between hot single moms and less hot women ready to start families.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:00 PM
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Here is the sweet spot: you don't care about how others perceive you. You own everything about yourself. If you want to cry, you own it. If you think crying is shit, you own that. Somehow adapting to others is what you need to avoid. Assume control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:15 PM
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Yes. You think Tomb Raider would have been successful if she wore overalls? Sex sells, and yes its hypocritical to shame men while doing the selling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 06:14 AM
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So if you would show off a tattoo that says ”insert here”, along with nearly no clothes, would you still think men are creepy for thinking about ”inserting here”? Men are rewarded hormonally for watching women and thinking about them and sex. It is a cultural thing how much sexual response you are allowed to elicit in strangers. For men and women alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 06:04 AM
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We could abolish gender. Surgery and hormonal treatment from an early age and we could do away with gender differences once for all. No more whining. Next would be equal distribution of wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:28 AM
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Nope. A beautiful woman is beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 05:45 AM
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this is it really. these men haven’t come full circle yet. its like claiming you dont want to be rich before you have lived rich and decided it wasnt for you. these men are repressed basically
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 07:17 AM
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I dont think you can accept red pill until you have experienced abundancy. So it wouldnt have mattered to youngMe. Actually when I was 20 without romantic success I embarked on a 7 year journey to become who I needed to be. Get well read Do weight lifting Get a good job I figured this would take me approx 7 years. No red pill needed to understand that 20 yo ”me” wasn’t enough. Well I did it, and it worked. By my late 20’s I had reinvented myself. Some would call this creepy or fugdup, but for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 01:48 PM
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This. Pretty much. AWALT sure, but I would be hard pressed to replace my current. She is the perfect mother, earns (even) more than me, and treats me with kindness and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 05:51 PM
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I dunno, a fair amount. At first I thought it was cute. Was with a girl who would have different guys do all her home repair, they all vanished when we got together (and resurfaced when we split). My last ex had even more orbiters. Not only nerds but also really good looking social guys. This time I recognized it for a red flag as she explained how she couldnt get along with girl friends and mostly had guy friends. Very pretty girl, but she basically lived for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/19 06:12 AM
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435 matches, 25-35:ish range. 47m. I used Tinder for maybe three months. I actually met up with three. Made a few really funny friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 01:41 PM
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Let me suggest that you are deluding yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:41 AM
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Yet you chose to be with the man who would start a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 09:21 AM
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Let me start by saying that both ”sides” really know whats up. All this discussion is basically a CMV from two sides: disillusioned RP’ers who deep down really want the picket fence, and want women to admit they were lied to. disappointed women who want men to admit to being pigs, because they have a history of being manipulated by men. BP men know that Chad gets more sex but RP men know that Chad gets most of the sex. Breaking the rules, in any endeavour, is how you succeed. That is what guys m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:33 AM
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Actually no. After a breakup wanted nothing to do with girls. Made out with a great looking girl on a night out, she got hold of my phone number and texted the next day. I turned her down. Met her at a party 2 months later, so we went home together and ended up a couple for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 07:29 AM
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Yes and no. A males preference is shamed if it doesn’t fit the narrative; similar age, big is beautiful, etc. That is the No. That doesn’t mean a male doesn’t have preferences, you are just not allowed to be open about them. This is the Yes. Then you have the men at the top, who openly chase young slim women. They don’t get the flak Billy beta would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:01 AM
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Sure I’m not attracted to her college degree, but accomplishments of various kinds are evidence she has her shit together. My current so always mentions how I early on said that I needed her to have her shit together for it to work. My previous were mostly hot, but unstable. Maybe no coincidence I met them all at bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 07:30 AM
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Actually, I first thought your bf was an egocentric dude imposing his man-centric will and worldview on you. Now I see you actually deserve each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:52 AM
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You shouldn’t be having debates at 18 about these things. Enjoy life. Find a BF that is fun and who enjoys life! To me it sounds like your bf is immature, egocentric, and is trying to impose his will and world view on you. When you are 30+, have fun discussing gender issues. Before that, enjoy being young! There is no right or wrong with these issues so you should ask yourself if you enjoy debating with your bf. It sounds like both you and him need to be “right”. Why are you debating? With your …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 10:42 AM
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No its chemistry. I’ve made sure to remember it. You basically walk around on a high. Breathing has a taste of ... metal? A slight adrenaline high is always on. When you hold her your body tingles, like a tiny electric field. Sometimes you can ”merge” with the field and loose bodily sense. ... and what OP said. Its real, but you can stay rational while high if you so choose. Nothing about being weak or scarcity mentality. Its chemistry, hormones, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 06:04 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 08:25 PM
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At my office workplace you never see 20-25 year old guys. You see many young pretty women though. I suspect the requirements are different for guys and gals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 11:58 AM
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Thats why she broke up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 03:06 PM
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What are you 19? Adults try to spend as much time as possible with their SO, including dinner. 1 hour ME time a day is alot, 4 hours is a part time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:01 AM
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So you would ask the fish how to fish? No, men should emulate successful men. Thats it. Women are attracted to masculinity, but only a fool would ask them what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 06:43 AM
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I had my first kid at 46. Not married.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 02:03 PM
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You get my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:46 PM
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Thats what all the dingdongs say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 05:28 AM
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For women it might be, not for most men since it isn’t available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 05:20 AM
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When you drink wine for the first time, you dont taste it, you don’t particularly enjoy it. Sex is the same, the first time you just hope you won’t mess it up; you don’t really taste it, you won’t really feel it.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 04:27 AM
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I spend an hour lifting or cardio basically every day and do not succumb to escapism such as drugs/tv/games. I have goals and a carreer at work. At home I have boundaries and interests (gym) of my own. I am also a kind and goofy person and want the best for her and I support her when she needs it. Also, I am a beautiful man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:28 PM
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Women mostly forget about sex unless they’ve recently had it—then they crave it. Its like a fire you have to keep fueling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 07:10 PM
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Good post! Was in a 3 year LTR with this. Total hottie, amazing sex. She started fights and loved to argue. Could start in the evening and end like 6 hours later when I managed to appease her somehow. I would often fall asleep while she was harrassing me, which angered her even more. She would basically accuse me 90% of the fight, with me trying to apologize the other 10%. Always threatened to leave, and self diagnose various mental illnesses of mine. She never forgot anything I did or said (or …
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 01:55 PM
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Yes, but his problem is the opposite
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 11:09 AM
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This is it really. The stark realization that to win you gotta break the rules. A guy should only adhere to one set of rules; his own. Rules and ”doing good” are for chumps really, but they don’t teach you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:17 PM
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Agree. Yates rows, tons of them. Lats and traps!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:35 AM
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Deadlifts and to a lesser degree squats. Will work your hip flexor, quads and lower back to counter that rotation.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:34 AM
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For APT, wouldnt it make sense to strengthen hamstrings to assist the abs in rotating the pelvis counter to APT rotation.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:32 AM
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Not at all, or rather I prefer smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 07:02 PM
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RP remake: ”You are overestimating the amount of people aware of TRP”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:41 AM
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They may not have found TRP on reddit, but PUA and RP ideas have been around for a long time. Youngsters interconnected life today is about appearances. Guys lift and girls diet down. Kids are astutely aware of it, though they may not know the mechanics behind it (RP).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:37 AM
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So we have TRP for that. Most young guys nowadays know that you gotta lift and be forward with girls. The truth is out there. sic I was a kid during the 70:s. The perfect BP environment. I got a load of that shit programming for sure. Be nice. Be yourself. Haha. Took me well into my 30’s to ”get it”, and so destroy my cherished BP illusions. I dont think that is as big a problem for young guys today. They seem much more aware of the difference between male/feminine drives and don’t attempt to so…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:21 AM
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When kids ride bikes we make them wear helmets because they are reckless and don’t know any better. What are we supposed to do with women who are reckless? I am a guy, and I plain out refuse to take some kind of collective responsibility for rapes. Do women take collective responsibility for all drug addicts, incels, gamblers, or sharia law for that matter? We have laws for a reason. Mankind is a bunch of effin wnkers. Any decent guy who feels responsible for this has issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:58 AM
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Actually most men dont like dating, which usually involves spending money and dressing up. ”Enjoy the decline” right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:33 AM
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Most guys have never forced themselves on a woman. You must be lying here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:32 AM
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Toxic to her entitled mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:29 AM
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Oh but a large amount of women do hate men. That is just a fact. I just try to be truthful about the lying nature of women so men can be wary of that when considering relations with women. See how that works? ”Large amount”, ”facts”, ”nature of..”. Toxic femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:27 AM
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Society is what makes singlemom-dom possible. No social safety net, no getting pregnant with chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 08:30 PM
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”according to a study if I recall correctly”, what am I supposed to do with that?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 05:59 PM
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Go monk mode. Loose the weight. Start lifting. This is what we would say to a guy. You want to win? Start doing things winners do!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 09:09 AM
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I had a late 20’s fling on tinder 13 years younger trying to assure me that 13 was nothing these days and we could make it work. Its all about what you can get. If you are a 4, you will have to compromise somewhere to get that 8. For guys it might be a single mom, for girls it might be an age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:56 AM
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Except, what you think is your looksmatch at 24 really isn’t. Take all 24 year old women and ALL 24 year old men in a vaccum. Pick out the average 50% girl and the average 50% guy. The girl will be perceived way out of that guys league. Why do you think that is? SMV-wise the difference will be huge, even RMV will have a very large difference in the girls favor. Now do the same with 40 year olds, you will notice the opposite in gender SMV/RMV. You need to be top 10% or more as a 40 yo guy to land…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 08:37 AM
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Good question. You should not think long term actually. This is what I would do if I was a woman: Work on a well paid carreer up until you are 28-29, hold off on kids. Have sex with good looking men, even have short relationships, live life, focus on you! At 28-29 you are at you peak for kids for YOU. Regardless what the TRP guys say. This is when you find out your real RMV. You will now have a good income, a fit body, childless, not naive like a 23 yo, and can find the top of the litter guys to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:15 AM
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Oh come on....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:31 AM
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I did it twice so I’m jaded, but it did set me back a good amount of years. Those families are only memories to me now, no contact. I think it possibly works if the couple also has a few children together, but its always better if the guy comes into it with children from a previous relationship. Also, guys without kids might not be mature enough to put her kids first, and there will be many situations like that. There is often a reason why these guys are not dads, and expecting them to act like …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 07:19 PM
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Not a fault on the woman, but if he goes for a single mother he is expected to invest: emotionally financially time ....into kids that arent his own. If he doesnt have kids of his own, my advice is that he doesnt LTR a single mother with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 12:15 PM
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Emotional investment, economic investment, both are null and void if 10 years later she wants to break up. Expect no contact with the children as well. You have little authority as to how the family unit should be run, since they arent your children anyway. Its fine if you dont mind spending, and live in the moment, and love children. But when the relationship ends, you will be absolutely alone, possibly still childless, with your savings spent in a family unit that you have zero contact with. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 11:50 AM
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If you already have kids of your own, sure fair game. Otherwise it is just a mess, believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 05:40 AM
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That is also in the genetic lottery, obviously.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 04:55 AM
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Yes. This is pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:21 PM
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Believing that you are someone else than the person you are really projecting into the world is a feel good fantasy. People do that because they cant confront present time. They live in an idealized version of the past or the future; spinning their wheels, dreaming, hoping. ”Be yourself” is the worst advice; people do that all the time. In fact they can’t do anything else. Take a good look at yourself, thats where its at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 01:39 PM
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You should ask the fisherman how to fish, not the fish. The fish doesn’t know. Most BP guys listen to female advice because its comforting. What they should be doing is emulating men who get laid alot. You want to change nothing? Be yourself. Works every time. To OP: I agree. It is because women need the potential mate to display his value, which includes sexual escalation. ”Tension” is sexy and yet hard to define because it depends on how the guy is demonstrating value (outcome indifference). W…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 07:40 AM
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Thats me, except I spend the next 4 hours trying to make her feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 12:20 PM
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This. Going to the gym is much more rewarding than doing laundry. No joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:46 PM
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You are right. Unsure why people say its fine, because its usually considered creepy or immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:30 PM
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But it is, op is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 01:29 PM
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Exactly. Frame is how accurately you project your true self. I used to toil away at lower work positions and one sided relationships. I now realize it was about seeking validation, about being ready to compromise, to be submissive in dealings with others. Basically displaying low value. As you grow older you become comfortable in your own skin. So as I started to question idiocies, and disagreeing with people who were objectively wrong I was moved to managerial positions and my relationships inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:16 PM
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So we have TRP. It explains the realities of the SMP. What else?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 06:02 AM
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Or you keep her for sex and stop doing LTR stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:54 AM
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It depends on if the act is a sign of disrespect towards the husband. In most cases, a girl who doesn't shut down strange men when she is involved with a guy, well she is not worth a LTR. A guy should view it as just another way to weed out bad apples. You can keep her but you know it won't last so you invest accordingly. If a guy does it in front of me, it is a sign of disrepect towards me and has little to do with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:50 AM
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You get to decide what you consider beautiful of course. You can also choose to hate all people if that is your preference. Most people don’t hate everyone else though. (Google: ”I’m ok You’re ok”). Most people can also agree on what is commonly considered beautiful. A sunset, a Victorias model, a piece of music, whatever. You are free to disagree. I could hold the opinion that Hyundai is a luxury car, but I wouldnt expect people to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 09:24 AM
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I get that. Personally, I would probably feel the same if I was a girl. Baggage isn’t all bad though. I handled my first few relationships with the maturity of a 5 year old. I also hang with a group of ”single guys” who have no kids. They are in their late 30’s and still party on weekends. High earners, good looking, social, MGTOW if you will. Some would consider them undateable because they have no kids or long relationships in their ”history”. I get that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 09:13 AM
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A virgin guy at 30 would be weird and low value. A guy without children at 40? Something is wrong here as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 06:13 AM
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Nah this is a cop out. Of course people have individual preferences but beauty is generally not in the eye of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 06:09 AM
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DNA testing will be so common that everyone will know who their biological parents are. I’m tested and my kid will be too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:09 AM
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I hadn’t seen posts about race here until you showed up. What is your problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:02 AM
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This is pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:54 AM
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Since welfare exists, a below average man has very little to offer in a relationship. Whereas before state welfare he would provide food and housing. That is no longer needed. Conversely, this means there is no incentive for a woman to choose a below average man either, which is why you see so much single motherhood in societies heavily on welfare. The men in demand follow their incentive to father as many children as possible without having to commit, because they can! The men -not- in demand g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 10:42 AM
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Because I want to help others so they won’t suffer like I did. TRP is a decent description of how the world works. That is why it is described as a pill, and like in the movie; it is tough to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:51 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 03:32 PM
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I don’t think the problem is a smaller dating pool, rather the foundation of a prosperous civilization. Can’t have good things without the worker ants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 01:32 PM
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It is mature to go for what you really want in life, rather than what society tells you to want. You got it backwards bud. It is a sign of maturity to not care about appearances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 06:20 AM
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Also not illegal to lie about your occupation or wealth to get laid. Still a lie though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:43 PM
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So why are there single parents? Why should the people (state) pay for someone elses kid. That is the question. The answer is not ”so they dont starve”. It is similar to any other thing you are taxed for that benefits someone else, in this case a particular group -single mothers-.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:30 PM
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How can people not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 12:25 PM
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Luck has nothing to do with it. I was like a stick figure at 25, not anymore. Just keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 05:51 PM
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Pretty much this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 08:44 AM
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This is it. Same here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 08:37 AM
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Sure the father might be a lesser man, fine. But talking shit about his ”frame” here on TRP is like an entitled woman talking crap about what a fag beta pussy her boyfriend is, while he works overtime to pay the rent, buy her food and to pay for her credit card bills. We call them entitled bitches.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 10:35 AM
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One thing? Age? Who slaves all day to buy clothes, food, rent, vacations, etc? You are right its not your life if you feed off of someone else. Sad but true.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:01 PM
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They will get it when they have kids.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:58 PM
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This. Babbling about your fathers frame when he is putting your food on your table and a bed to sleep in. Seriously? You have no idea what he sacrufices for you on a daily basis. Make your own money and move out. Then feel free to bitch about whatever. Until then you are not a man.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:56 PM
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Wow... here you have your answer op.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:00 AM
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You don’t get it. What you think is ”the right thing” is your own moral code. That code might not even be self serving to you, but it is to someone. There is a fog of oughts, shoulds, justice, sin, blame, rights, you name it. A fog designed to evoke feelings. It lies on top of objective reality. The axioms of TRP deal mostly with what is going on below the fog in objective reality from the perspective of male mating strategy. The ”woman hating” you see in TRP belongs to the fog and does not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 06:49 AM
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That is just insane. Can we just let young men do whatever they want as long as they dont break the law? Selfless.... pfffft.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 06:26 AM
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False. Opposite for me. At 20 no chance with women. At 45 everything is so easy. Considered good looking now, below average as young.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:50 AM
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Sorry didnt know it was paywalled. Couldnt find it anywhere else.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 05:38 AM
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Noomi Rapace (Prometheus girl) said the same thing: ”Many women have played the game and climbed the ladder. They have used the game to their advantage.” https://www.svd.se/noomi-rapace-on-weinstein-im-not-for-sale
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 01:46 PM
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You can develop your body in whichever way you want within your capabilities. If you want girls, you go for bulk. If you want to run a marathon, you slim down and start running. It is that simple. Drop the morals and shaming if you want results.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 10:11 AM
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Yeah this so much! How can people who want a nanny-state, globalism and censorship be called liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:36 PM
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Yeah he probably did. Then he got scolded for it and consequentially apologized for being an insensitive jerk.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 03:29 PM
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That means he doesnt really want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 11:46 AM
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That was a cringe to watch. Please can the dude just stop smiling and laughing. He looks good but demonstrate about zero value.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:02 AM
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Hot women (and men) will get away with mostly anything yeah..... ....in my case she had a mental illness which I foolishly ignored because she was wild and hot.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 11:37 AM
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Think you got it. Provide to the extent that it makes you happy. Also yes, make her understand that her part in this is helping you achieve your goals. Men arent really wired for modern family duties, but there can be compromises. Every relationship should be a unique agreement. Men would do well to avoid the standard relationship templates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:47 AM
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Yes, this is something that I relate to. I am on my last legs regarding family and relationships. If I have to do it again I will be 50+ and things will be different. I posit that happy relationships aren’t possible for most people. At 45 I am just only scraping the surface of what works. Men of today arent up to the task mostly. They see a relationship not as the mean, but as the end. This misunderstanding is fatal. Means to what? Aligning life goals is what relationships are. Not ”being togeth…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 10:18 AM
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Sounds like one of many episodes with my ex. She was batshit crazy and super hot. They take you on an emotional rollercoaster. So glad I got out of that shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 05:41 AM
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This is a good post. People would do well to remember that AI isn’t the same thing as robots. AI will be mostly used in your mobile device, rather than a walking robot. That means the service sector will be hit first. Humans will mostly be working with labour that we have yet to develop robotics for.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 09:54 AM
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My wife would not have a high n-count because I wouldn’t marry her. FWB setup? Totally different. The more experience with sex the better. Also less risk she would develop feelings for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:10 PM
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So what? Everyone is different. People with glasses suffer more. Poor people suffer more. Why should suffering be equal? .... and the fact that you are on reddit makes you privileged tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 01:04 PM
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Man, life is 99% dislike and the rest of it makes it worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 01:01 PM
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It is a feature of reproduction for the female to select for the best possible genes. Physical prowess is just one way to prove ones genes are worthy of reproduction, there are many ways and most guys have their heads in the clouds. Has it ever been EASIER to be 20%?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:52 PM
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You are looking at men as a whole. Don’t, they are your competition. There is an upside to being born male, IF you are willing to tough it out and be a 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:44 PM
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Nailed it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:41 PM
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There is no justice, or equality. Being angry about that is fine, because we were all led to believe otherwise. It took me 40 years to finally internalize this, and whoah so much relief and freedom from idgaf. 20%? Everyone who wants it bad enough can be 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:39 PM
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Why be angry? Men and women are simply different. We lead different lives, enjoy different privileges and suffer different hardships. Read that last paragraph of the post you replied to again, it really sums it up. Young men don’t deserve women at their peak, and neither do old men who did nothing with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:30 PM
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You nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:27 PM
1

This is it, really. You need to have your shit together on spiritual hardmode.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:23 PM
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True enough. Males settle as well, and loosing hair/getting fat has an effect on SMV (esp combined).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 11:11 AM
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Sexism is just one of many forms of discrimination. Preferring to first serve asians is racist. Preferring to first serve that old lady is age discrimination. Serving that big rowdy guy before that unassuming little fellow is discrimination. Everything isn’t sexism. Discrimination happens all the time, everywhere. No one speaks for the short, quiet and tiny guy when the managerial position is being filled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 10:55 AM
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First we need to look at the male/female sexual imperatives. The goal is to propagate your genes. Man: Impregnate as many women as possible. The more youthful (higher change of successful pregnancy) and beautiful (indicator of good genes), the better. Woman: Since women carry and provide for the child, she has to make sure every pregnancy is optimal. She selects for the best genes possible (high testosterone, beauty, dominance). Since we are social animals we see many variations on this, and thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 08:37 AM
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Oh, but you aren’t really interested, are you? You just feed off arguing. You parrot platitudes but show no understanding of even the simplest things. Honesty is a beautiful thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:49 AM
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So how is this virtue signaling about ”RP”-psychopaths on Reddit working out for you? Making any new girl-friends? The reproductive strategy you have on display here doesn’t really work. Not to mention, the soul takes a beating from the dishonesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 04:13 AM
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TRP doesn't need to change a thing. It is a set of axioms that can be used to deconstruct misconceptions about flows between men and women. It works. It is a tool to navigate reality. TRP doesn't need to change anyones mind. There is no need to compromise and "meet". The information is just there, free to be used. If you are offended by truth you have invested in lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 06:21 PM
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Touch her. As soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 07:07 AM
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ehrm actually.....
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 05:02 AM
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No. It is what it is. RP is a way to navigate reality. If I could sit my fat ass at home eating burrritos playing league all day getting served by a 9 or 10 I would. ... but the world doesn't work like that. So I have to go to work. Have a carreer. Kiss ass. Lift. Socialize. Bust my ass basically. All in order to be a high value person so I can have a shot at pretty girls. Cuz thats what I want in life. RP just spells it out. Its a dog eat dog world. It was never about hating women. I love women…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 12:45 PM
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Show this post to a woman and she will still not fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 12:30 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to write this. True enough; the worse the lie, the more we cherish it.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:26 AM
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Oh it is true. The only way you loose as a guy is if you squander the "build status" years. It isn't even worth starting a family if you haven't maxed out the easy 80% of your RMV yet (social, physical, financial capital). See, most guys jump the gun too early. The quality of girls you can have when you have a great job, a lifters body and social capital built up over many years is vastly different from what you can get as a 23 year old with nothing going except potential. So we see the in-shape…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:21 AM
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This made me sad. You agreed to sex even though you werent attracted. I sincerely wish women didnt have to do this. If by choice for other gain, fine. Out of pure expectation , just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:37 AM
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Males compete, knowingly or not, in a social hierarchy. This is the game of life. You work to gain wealth, buy expensive attire to show it off. You lift to gain physical presence. You socialize to gain social capital. This sums up into status. Forget equality, justice, fairness, decency, they don't exist. If you are met with pity, you have low status and willingly demonstrate your bad fortunes. Either by visible suffering or supplication. If you are met with disdain you are punching above your w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 06:10 AM
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Not a given. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:55 PM
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Why? I know several moms who concieved late thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:51 PM
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Unkissed at 22 reporting in. 20 years later photofeeler has me top 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 06:48 PM
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Depends on what the woman wants. Sex, relationship or just attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 08:31 AM
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People group up because they complement eachother. If there is no wood to be chopped, no clothes to mend, and the state can provide food and shelter, there is no purpose to family. A more recent post on this sub was about poor black communities. It was spot on; the state replaces the family unit. There is no incentive for males to commit when the added value of committment to the female is so low (when they are unemployed for example). For males committment is a sacrifice. Until females truly un…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 08:06 AM
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If a womans preferred way of working is more effective wouldnt it make sense for a company to employ it? Especially since it would theoretically attract more women and women theoretically earn less? Isn't that simply capitalism? Freedom for companies to choose the most effective means of production?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 12:57 PM
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So you want to take programning and change it to somehow fit women? Programming doesnt exist so males can work with it. It exists so we can have computers and apps. Its like legislating to change the process of mining coal so all persons regardless of brawn can find equal opportunity in the field. Screw actually getting coal out of the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 12:43 PM
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1: yes 2: pretty bad, self pity, etc 3: That only your blood relatives will always be there. To never give without receiving equal value. That its a dog eat dog world. Don't be a chump. TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 06:19 AM
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That is also when you have "society".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 02:00 PM
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Do you think there are any successful men without a chip on their shoulder? Use your anger to be great. If you build it.....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 08:09 AM
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Length is only one parameter. A friend of mine is short but very popular with girls. He is also a man of high status; hard working, bright, fit, funny, high earner. He had to work on these things to have a good life despite his length. It takes many years to "get" this if you are young and just discovered that girls dont like you much. Some guys never get over it; that they deserve nothing, but have to earn everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:44 AM
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You get the woman you deserve, if you have no woman you havent worked hard enough to improve your value. You dont deserve anything in this world from simply being born.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:40 AM
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Oh whatever works for you, but in reality the most "compatible" guy actually competed the hardest. Not over the girl, but in life. Compatible is just a nice word for "best I can get".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:32 AM
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The difference is that you don't receive a prize then be done with it. The woman is the result of your value as a man. Just as your skin is the result of how healthy you eat, and your conditioning is the result of how much you exercise. If you drop in value, eventually that woman will be out of your life, just as your skin and conditioning would. Which is why (if you want the good things in this dog eat dog world) you have to be the best you can be, from adulthood to your grave. If you ever trul…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:27 AM
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Yeah, and an obsession with pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 11:24 AM
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Party girl Fat Keeping male friends / orbiters Flakey Mood swings Woe is me (good one) Smoker / drugs Frequent use of fb/ig No savings/no job Describes her exes as psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 11:23 AM
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You're doing it right now. "bitter loser", does that conjure up an image of a man or woman to you? Loosing at what exactly? Males failing at being "men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/17 11:06 AM
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Don't put yourself in that situation. Not worth it. Bringing a hot girl to a club is basically asking for trouble unless you are physically imposing. ... and even then, a hot girl is just a target on your back for guys looking to fight. Gotta accept that risk in that environment. Always gonna be a struggle "keeping" a party girl. Thats just not what party girls are for. Party on your own and let her do her thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 04:51 PM
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Of course they wouldn't care. Then again, the original question was a rethoric one. The question was constructed as an attack on those who are upset with RP, and RP men. "Since women obviously dont care for men, why should men be expected to care for women."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 08:10 AM
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Yet, Google had been wildly successful the past 20 years. Stuff like this is just an indication to sell your GOOG. You heard it here first. Some company which values merit highest will outcompete them (that is, until the gov starts handing out diversity tax breaks, perhaps not that far away.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 07:57 AM
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Yeah it goes both ways. Men who flirt or keeps plates on the side are just as defunct. I guess flirting or social media could be kind of a swingers kink, but most grownups should have little desire to invest in LTRs with players or attention seekers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 01:22 PM
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Huge red flag for me. Will not invest in an LTR with someone who seeks self validation like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 12:54 PM
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Men are designed to compete and achieve. That is why its dreadful to spent the evenings with mindless tv together, or spend money on various social activities (dinners, movies, travel, etc) that wont get you ahead. A race horse is meant to race. That is why it is so stressful for men in relationships. They should spend their evenings building houses, not wither away in a tv sofa. Without family life (which has a purpose), there are really zero reasons to cohabitate. Relationships without childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 08:33 PM
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The problem with women who marry same age guys at their peak SMV (20-30) is that those guys who will peak in their 30-40 will be looking to upgrade. I see many good looking guys with older kids and unattractive wives that are soon to become single moms. At 24 she was a 6 and he was a 6. At 34 she is a 4 and he is an 8. At first look that seems like a smart deal for the girl..... ....but only if she can somehow manage to keep him. Better would be to have married the 34 year old when she was 24. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 08:39 AM
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If you are an adult you would be expected to behave like one. If I sent "Happy sunday! How are you? :):)" to some acquaintance girl, my real girlfriend would most probably wonder what the f is up with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:52 AM
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If you are in a relationship and it isn't with him? Of course....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:46 AM
2

Yup every extra good looking girl I've been with had a tail of single lower status guy friends that would message her. Without exception. I've since learned that maintaining a male entourage is a huge red flag in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 11:45 AM
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The book "elements of style" deals with this but concerning writing style. It is an eye opener. Either something is or it isn't. Avoid qualifiers!
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 05:56 AM
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Love is a composite of many things and has no clear opposite. Think of love as attachment, then hate is too. The opposite of attachment (merging) is distance/disinterest so I see where that is coming from. Used to love her now I hate her? Sorry still attached.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 10:03 AM
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Women are attracted to rockstars not accountants. Black males are very sexy--because they are associated with the criminal archetype. So young boys want to become rappers or athletes, because girls want those guys. But why do they? Because intelligence isn't perceived as sexy, which means we as a society don't value it much, or Asian males would be top of SMV. This value system is manufactured by media.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:03 AM
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Yes +10,000. Been there myself, twice. They take what they can get away with. No morals or decency whatsoever because in their mind they are victims and need to "get theirs", at your expense. FK that.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:51 PM
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Psycho girls with strong backing will make it a game to bully guys in bars/nightclubs. Can be anything: dance floor, cutting in line, commenting,... Bullying is socially accepted in that environment so it will always be a risk when you are there. How would you have reacted if some huge guy grabbed the chairs? Or some tiny dude that wont give it back? If you escalate with a tiny dude you look like an idiot, if you escalate with a gorilla you get your ass kicked. It is a no win situation. Some guy…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 11:14 AM
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A big thing for me was realizing that suffering through the day so I can live in the evening is a shitty way to live a life. Go to bed early and make the day your life, that is how you do it. When you get that mindset you don't want to stay up late watching tv or playing games. Rather, you go to bed eagerly thinking about what to do the next day.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 07:44 AM
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This is more important than people give you credit for. Many men look for their mothers in a relationship. If you need her like that you are DONE. Instead you need to emulate a father to her. If you don't have that emotional capacity, you have more growing to do before you can have a good LTR. In terms of transactional analysis you need to have the capability to be a parent to her child state, and never let your own child state seek comfort in her parent..
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 08:16 PM
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The state and family law made civilization possible because it put the 80% in the hamster wheel. It is a way to placate the 80% men, by giving them reproductive options (creating a family unit) as long as they support the state. With this social construct all a man had to do was work hard, and he could have children and a family As we know this is not the natural order. A womans optimal strategy is to share the alpha, not raise the children of a lower value (beta) man. The sexual revolution (60/…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 10:06 AM
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The popular Shawn Mendes song is cringeworthy: "I know I can treat you better than he can, and any girl like you deserves a gentleman". Actually most love songs are about 1: a bp man pining for a woman 2: how a woman is conflicted about her chad love
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 09:13 AM
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You think you are a special snowflake? Yeah shit hurts, but people cope, we all do, and then we emerge stronger. That is how life works, what life does. So you pick yourself up and realize that you and your future are infinitely more valuable than this silly, embarrassing kid fantasy you had of women and what you thought the world owed you. You haven't lost anything, and you are bigger for the experience.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 10:58 AM
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Yes, yes and yes. The outrage is a phase in adapting to the truth. Not constructive, but I understand it.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 11:00 AM
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Sorry, have to call you on this one. The truth is that some men are psychotic and violent and women would do well to avoid them. I might "deserve" to get beaten up because I'm in a bad neighbourhood at night, but that doesn't mean I provoked someone into beating me. A woman financially wrecking a BP guy isn't free from guilt cuz he deserved it (should have known better).
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:16 PM
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Yeah, you are 18 but I really liked this post, and I'm 44.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:27 PM
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Its a shit situation. You go to whoever is in charge and you are a wimp. You stand up to her and her orbiters come protect her. I'd avoid that environment. A similar thing actually happened to me when I was in my teens. I handed the girl a rough sexual remark and she stopped dead in her tracks.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 07:39 AM
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You're a foreigner from another tribe. They want your DNA.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 07:11 AM
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Oh I have no problems "getting" relationships. The challenge is staying in them without gradually becoming her bitch to keep the peace.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 09:20 AM
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Dude you are 25 yet you come across as a knowitall 17 year old. Man<->Woman dynamics are hard. Come again in 10 years and tell us your experiences.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:57 AM
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Reading stuff like this is inspirational. I'm in my 40's and have learned at least one important thing: Have something that is yours alone. It can be weights, a hobby, a company, your self worth. Whatever it is you have to own it and never compromise about it. Making a relationship everything is so very dangerous because it is unbearable to loose it. ... and what you can't loose, you can't control. Society teaches men that a relationship is the end goal of being. It isn't. Whatever we use to def…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 02:46 PM
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Well, of course technology will make everyone connected. Anonymity and privacy on "the net" is eroding quickly. Also, a social media (Facebook) presence works as a passport into many, many social circles. If you don't have one, the level of exclusion will only increase. You may play along, but for how long? There is a real danger of a hive mind humanity, which means a requirement to stay connected and share everything you do. That is the next step, and the one after that will mean not only shari…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 02:20 PM
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It is their nature to seek a greater power. Under whatever agenda this is what they do covertly. Feminism is a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 07:02 AM
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That immigration is a shit test and cuck on a national scale. Guys too BP to stop it so they will get what they deserve. Fk them.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 06:59 AM
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Thats true. Most guys find this out after getting much more invested and much older. This at 26 and no kids? Blessing.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/16 06:30 AM
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Im in my 40s and partying does get old. Shrug, even getting drunk gets old. If I get smashed now all I think about is the wasted sun/mon/tue for six hours of sat fun. Plus it destroys the mind, body and the gains. I had that insatiable urge to get smashed and chase tail. Once a week. Had it for like 20 years. Now that I don't, I feel genuine life relief.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 11:42 AM
2

Its a troll, that not obvious yet?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 11:17 AM
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The party asking the questions is leading the convo. Even with witty answers you are still in their game, in reactive mode. Nonchalant disinterested shrug is how you pass. Try a sudden drop in rapport and attention. It is unpleasant and whoever is talking to you will want to get it back. Works in any situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 06:26 AM
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Fat decreases testosterone which changes behaviour in a number of areas, including passitivity. The big takeback is mind&body mastery. Liftning builds discipline and willpower; you download the idea that you captain your body rather than the other way around. Bathing in icy water for example, is a display of mastery and alpha that you can cultivate by lifting.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 07:26 AM
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