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If you think kids can consent to sex with adults, you are a pedo or pedo apologist.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/22 01:06 AM
0

Kids can't consent. Kids do not have the mental capacity to consent. Stop being stupid.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/22 12:42 AM
1

And me calling you a pedo apologist is how I show endearment. So don't take it too personally. Just how I communicate.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/22 12:21 AM
1

You're the last one who should be complaining about personal attacks. That's all you've been doing.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/22 12:09 AM
1

dude, if you want to fuck a 14-year-old, you can just say that.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/07/22 12:00 AM
0

No, no they are not.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 11:48 PM
1

I shouldn't really have to explain why I don't like pedos, now should I?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 11:47 PM
1

Jesus Christ your sensitive? I'm sensitive? You're the one blowing up on me over a typo and then proceeding to go on this never-ending tirade of whatever the fuck. I'll say it nice and clear for you so you understand better...adults who have sex with children, especially kids under their care, deserve the worse parts of hell, as well as the people who defend them. Have a nice life.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 10:34 PM
1

Bitch the fucking headline was 25-year-old woman and a hot one at that So if the woman was ugly, then it wouldn't be ok to you? You need to get your priorities straight.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 10:20 PM
1

Why are you calling me a bitch over a mistake? Just christ relax yourself. I've already corrected myself. And just so you know it has happened.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 10:19 PM
1

We are talking about a 25 year old having sex with a 14 year old minor here.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 10:13 PM
1

Would you be saying the same thing if it was a little girl and a grown man?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 04:40 PM
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14 years olds can't consent. At all. That's the fucking point.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 04:37 PM
1

Lol, Can't read it now.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/07/22 03:49 AM
0

You still didn't answer their question.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 09:39 PM
2

And y'all wonder why male victims of rape and sexual assault refuse to come forward.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 09:38 PM
2

You can go to build a bear instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:37 PM
1

No, I don't expect anyone to risk themselves over shit I can replace the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:18 PM
1

I am 22 years old. I'm about to date someone I can't go into a bar with. Where am I to meet an 18-19-20-year-old in the first place? I'm not in university anymore, and I know I don't frequent places where people of those ages hang out. The only way for me to meet someone that age is if I am actively seeking them out, and that is my problem with age gap relationships. They do not happen naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 06:59 PM
3

Lol, I'm not about to use my body to become a birthing pod just cause other people can't have kids. That's their problem not mine. If a couple of parents want a kid so badly, they can deal with the half a million kids already in the foster care and adoption system in the USA today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:50 AM
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I totally oppose to the view that contraceptives are a “burden”. These are the most common side effects of the birth control pill: • Weight gain • Cramping • Nausea • Irregular mood swings • Bleeding during your entire menstrual cycle More serious, rarer but not improbable side effects include blood clotting, high blood pressure, and breast cancer. But sure, no burden here. Condoms are totally comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:36 AM
3

Our rights were not "freely" given. Women had to demand they be given, had to fight for them. What the hell are you on about? I'll say again. You're struggles to getting laid OBJECTIVELY will never mean more to my right to vote, my right to financial security, or my right bodily autonomy. Get that through your head and move on, and maybe also think that you might be the reason women don't want to be with you in the first place. Most women don't like misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:55 AM
3

And what that have to do with you wanting to take away women's right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:45 AM
2

So women are to get the short end of the stick cause men what to be misogynists?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:31 AM
3

I don't really care what you want. My rights matter more in this world than your ability to get your dick wet. Deal with it, go touch some grass, and do something productive with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:07 AM
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You are aware of how stupid you sound right? You want to go back to the time when women are forced to be financially dependent on men no matter how abusive the relationship is because otherwise, they will die because they aren't being given equal opportunities to jobs or housing... because you don't feel useful enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 03:33 AM
1

So yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:55 AM
1

It leads me to a couple of hours of constant migraines yes. Though I don't think that's the kind of "instability" you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:53 AM
4

So you just don't want women to have rights cause we're too much for your poor soul to handle now that we have agency over ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:51 AM
3

Yeah. Cause age differences don't really matter much when both parties are greater in age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:35 PM
8

You don't mind me asking how old your girlfriend was when you first met her, do ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:54 AM
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Literally all you have to ask yourself is if you would allow your 18 year old daughter date a man 10+ years older than her. If your answer is no, then I shouldnt see you trying to defend yourself trying to date someone else's 18 year old daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:43 AM
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You cheating is not the fault of social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:51 AM
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I used to be extremely conservative in my late-teens. Ya know, the stereotypical pro-life, anti-trans, anti-SJW type of fucker. Me growing up in a black conservative household really fed into that. When I entered university, I attended alot of conservative events like WalkAway and YAF, personally met prominent conservative influencers like Blaire White, Ben Shapiro, and Can dance Owens. I was having the time of my life thinking what I thought and saying what I was saying. That is until I just...…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:19 AM
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So me posting picture of my and my family at graduation on Insta is equivalent to men watching milf x stepson videos? Right...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:23 PM
1

That's not wants being argued here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:11 PM
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I really don't know what to say to that. I like to think people have more positive and kind things to say about the friends they keep rather than whatever this is. To be a friend is not a demotion to me, it's simply just a different category. I still care for you, have your best interest in mind, and want to help if you need it. Just because we aren't in a romantic relationship, doesn't mean our relationship is less than. No offense, I just find people who think like this just...weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:38 PM
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Those are a lot of heavy and negative feelings to have over getting rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:30 PM
1

My point would still be the same if I said it with third person pronouns instead.why are you assuming someone see someone else as lesser than cause they aren't attracted to them? Thats not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:02 PM
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I’m always left wondering, “Do these women not understand what it’s like to feel lesser than in the presence of a man who rejects them?” Where does this come from? Why do you think being someone's friend makes you lesser than being their significant other? Just because I am not attracted to someone does not mean I see them as less than. The can still be a person I care for and appreciated their company. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:54 AM
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Or maybe they're just assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:50 AM
3

I'm sorry, where are the pros in any of these?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 01:33 AM
2

It's posts like this that confirm that men do not care about male victims of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:45 PM
3

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:32 AM
2

I've been told I'm attractive, so I base my attractive on that. I'm not about to rate myself on a number scale of all things. I find that demeaning. Think whatever you want about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:58 AM
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Lol hell if I'd know. I judge how I look based on if others find me attractive. Rating your own attractiveness is how you become wither self conscious or high-handed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:49 AM
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That matters why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 05:44 AM
3

Yeah... You thought we would say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 04:43 AM
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What is it that y'all always say? "Actions speak louder than words"?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:52 PM
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Y'all are the same damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:46 PM
1

Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:15 PM
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It doesn't until you want to make it matter. No one's sexual past will tell you they are a cheater or not, unless they've cheated in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:08 PM
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It really doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 12:01 PM
1

So why is there so much pressure for men who are naturally more feminine to be masculine, dominant, and so on? Some men are just more feminine than others, not because of social engineering, but because...that's just who they are. You make fun of the concept of toxic masculinity by saying it's promoting "masculinity being discouraged and pathologized", but what you just described is quite literally the fault of toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:38 PM
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Beard and an actual strong man build.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 08:37 PM
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Never in your life will you meet a person who's slept with over 1000 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:18 PM
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I will never understand being mad your SO had other partners before ever even meeting you. Like you expect every girl you're interested in to have stayed pure only until they met you; like you think you're that special? Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 03:10 PM
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And what study would that be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 09:13 PM
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How are excessive tattoos a sign a girl gets around? Where is the correlation there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 07:28 PM
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The fact that bisexuality, homosexuality, or any sexuality other heterosexuality exists means that no, men and women are not created to just be attracted to each other. Any exception to your rule disproves your rule. And again, reproduction is not reliant on heterosexuality. Even if the entire world being gay tomorrow, we won't die off anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:18 AM
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Because you seem to be under the impression women are forced to be attracted to men for the sole purpose of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:11 AM
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Alright? Which brings back to my point. Heterosexuality does not need to be a factor in reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:06 AM
1

You seem to be under the impression only homosexual and heterosexual are the only sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:04 AM
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What is there to elaborate? You don't need to be heterosexual to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:59 AM
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You don't have to be heterosexual to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 06:57 AM
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The analogy doesn't make any sense whatsoever because: 1) Women aren't fish. We can communicate and have our own free will and desires. 2) Fish hunt other fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:49 PM
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This is a simple fix. Stop befriending people for the sole purpose of you trying to ask them out later on. You're only putting yourself in a situation where it's impossible to see you as anything but a friend. It's you who played yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:29 PM
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I asked the question, didn't I?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:19 PM
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How is anyone gaslighting you into thinking that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:16 PM
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It is people in general. Everyone is a little nicer to people they like or find attractive. So I don't know why men on this sub try to paint it as only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:11 PM
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I don't care for the concept of alpha/beta. I'm talking about men going above and beyond for women they like. Men are notorious for only being nice to women they find attractive, and not so nice to women they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:08 PM
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You do know men follow this kind of behavior as well, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:59 PM
1

I honestly have no idea where the hell this thread was supposed to go tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 07:33 PM
1

Very strong I'd say.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 06:33 AM
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Dont really care how they present themselves. I'm a bisexual women, so both masculinity and femininity can look good on whoever, I just need to find them attractive in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 05:06 AM
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I did. I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:05 AM
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Last I checked, it takes two to want to be in a relationship for there to be a relationship, so...what's the point of this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 12:00 AM
5

Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:11 AM
10

Do you think women just spread their legs then poof baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:08 AM
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No. What causes single moms is women mating with irresponsible scumbags. Men are still the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:58 AM
3

Lol, hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:22 PM
5

How long has it been since you left school? Cause they very much still do that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:19 AM
2

I know once the child is born, the law cares more about the child than the parents' wellfare. You just answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:43 PM
0

What does it matter what we say? If we say above 5, you'll agree. If we say below 5, you'll disagree. Regardless of explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:41 PM
0

Reducto ad absurdum is a logical fallacy. You're not proving anything here. You're just spouting a flawed argument a bunch of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:12 PM
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If commitment to sex is not commitment to parenthood, then under what pretence should a man be compensated for a woman's choice not to carry to term?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:04 PM
0

In a fair world? In any world, men and women are not equal in terms of pregnancy. Women are the ones pregnant, women are the ones that's have to deal with the health risks that come with it. And you think men are owed financial compensation for a women not to want to deal with that? Don't be ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:16 PM
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If you go into a relationship expecting it to fail, then it's going to fail and with your attitude, it's more than likely going to be your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 04:16 AM
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Cause most men don't know how to care for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 10:23 PM
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Probably, blacktwt was having a field day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 10:08 PM
1

Well, you're right about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 05:02 PM
3

I have barely seen women mention this guy since he died I don't know where you've been, but both men and women made his name a hot topic before his death was even officially confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 04:52 PM
0

Y'all, move the fuck on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 03:26 PM
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I matched with a man on Tinder itself complaining about women being gold diggers, and come to find out he has his yearly income in his bio. I'm sure the women just thought he was looking for a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:47 PM
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Lol, I don't expect anyone to pay for me, but plenty of the men I've been on dates with will happily offer, even go so far as to get offended if I choose to pay for my share. So who am I to argue?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 12:17 PM
1

That's New York-phobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 02:04 AM
2

My guy, nothing that comes from you is harsh.😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 01:54 AM
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I have sex with people I find attractive. I don't know why you choose to complicate that with irrelevant buzzwords.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:25 PM
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Lol we are just repeating the conversation some of y'all have on this subreddit. Don't play dumb and think all that comes from nowhere. Edit: I just realized who posted this, and I'm not the least bit surprised. Dude, get a fucking life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 09:13 PM
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Why do you need a benefit? You should be trying to date people around your own age anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:47 PM
9

This is literally just the "Well, I wouldn't want to fuck you anyway" excuse. Like yes, you would. That's why you mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:43 PM
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Oh, it's you again. Let me get this straight. A man is mad that a woman rejected him because he believes she is "less attractive" and should take what she can get. So he has no standards and thinks he's entitled to sex. OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:04 PM
2

Oversexualization is not what's making those positions unpopular.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:12 PM
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Cause y'all got no standards. That's not women's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:36 PM
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the celibate monks/priests/hermits/etc Those kinds of people didn't have strong social standing because they were celibate. They had high social status because they were religious leaders. They actually had a purpose. chose to have a purpose. What purpose does a guy desperate to get laid have other than complaining about it all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:32 PM
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It's already normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:29 PM
0

Makeup was made for men. Heels were made for men. Wigs were made for men. Once you recognize that, what men do today should not be bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 10:10 PM
1

Your argument makes no god damn sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:08 AM
0

At the end of the day, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:05 AM
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How am I supposed to answer this question?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:34 PM
2

A woman not shaving her armpits or chin or whatever is not her "not taking care of herself". If that was the case, men would be shaving as well, something I bet you don't do yourself. You have just as much of a double standard as the people you are complaining about in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 06:42 PM
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Fat women are aware they are fat, yes. Most really just don't care what you or whatever "high value" have to say about it. They will simply just date someone who's about to accept what they look like. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:38 PM
1

I blame you for what I'm experiencing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 02:08 AM
-5

I don't count stereotyping as a win.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:10 AM
1

I then found it amusing that you happened to be the one defining the term in a manner most people would in fact find incorrect Have you read any of the comments under your post? Most of them are defining it nearly the same way I am. My question above is designed to prompt debate. Ok. It would help if you would explain how you came to asking the question int he first place. Because this is the first I'm ever seeing the terms "Karen" and "sexual desirability" in the same sentence. It is sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:09 AM
1

I guess women are the Borg now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:00 AM
-7

You're fine with being insecure? You're fine with not being confident in yourself to keep your man happy and satisfied?Whatever but that's not bi men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:56 AM
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Is it insecurity? Worry of infidelity? Disapproval of non-straight orientations? It's all of the above. And it's stupid as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:55 AM
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This is stereotyping. Absolutely none of what you just said is rooted in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:53 AM
-2

Girl, this is just insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:51 AM
1

I'm well aware of the history of a Karen. And you can ask anyone the definition of a Karen, they will tell you almost the same thing. This is the internet, not a sociology class. We simplify things here. What I'm asking you what the hell does that have to do with sexual desirability.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:42 AM
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Karen is just an entitled, arrogant child that doesn't know how to take no for an answer. Anyone of any age and any gender can be a Karen. I don't know where you get this "sexual desirability" correlation from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:24 AM
3

I don't think you know what a Karen is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:08 AM
1

Something have the potential to be something doesn't make it important or worth having. An unwanted fetus is nothing more than a parasite and doesn't have the right to a body that doesn't want to provide for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:35 PM
2

Lol, so a fetus is like bacteria then? And you're okay with killing bacteria? Doesn't sound very pro-life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:18 PM
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There is no killing a fetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 05:53 PM
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I don't owe you a serious answer. You want a source, find one yourself. I've had enough with dealing with y'all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:51 PM
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You're point is that life doesn't matter to you and you'd rather a dead woman that one with the right to bodily autonomy. Youre a sociopath. You have no virtue, you have no moral. But I expect nothing less o more from this sub anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:46 PM
0

My apologies. Forgot to say common fucking sense as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:44 PM
1

Prohibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:41 PM
0

Dude, there are people in this world that believe pregnancy isn't even supposed to cause pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:55 AM
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If that means women have to risk dying in some backwater ghetto to get an abortion, maybe more of them will reconsider, which is a win in my book. Yeah, yeah it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:19 AM
10

You get off to dead pregnant chicks or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 04:00 AM
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The ‘then what’ should be figured out before you decide to have sex. I get that a lot of times it’s not a great situation, but the reality is that if you choose to have sex, you need to be prepared for what it could cause. The "then what" would be an abortion. I chose to have sex, I didn't choose to get pregnant. If the parents truly cannot take care of the child, there are over 1million couples currently waiting to adopt a baby And yet in America alone, nearly half a million kids are currently …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:14 AM
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Condoms only prevent a pregnancy, they don’t end one that’s already begun. ...So does the morning-after pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:49 AM
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Don’t have causal sex You don't need to have casual sex to not want to get pregnant. There are women in long-term marriages with two or three kids who get abortions when they know they don't want kids anymore. don’t get an abortion. And then what exactly? Do you not seem to comprehend why women get abortions in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:48 AM
15

Are you against condoms too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:45 AM
12

That is not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:44 AM
96

The only thing that is going to happen is a lot more women are going to end up dead due to botched back ally abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:07 AM
4

Y'all are a weird group of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 01:10 AM
16

You got rejected by a fat girl, didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:31 AM
5

Getting hit on is not the same thing as getting harassed, which is what women on this sub are really complaining about. You don't have to be hot for men to be assholes. Some just do it cause they can and want to see how far they can go. The behavior you mentioned is indiscriminate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:17 PM
1

New York City.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:08 AM
2

America. I meant my city.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:06 AM
1

Most of the women where I'm from are automatically seen as masculine, and they get into relationship just fine. Of course no one thinks of the men any less masculine. That's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 01:00 AM
1

I'm good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:04 PM
3

Dating is being both romantically and sexually involved with someone. I am not romantically involved with anyone. Sex does not have to include romance. Please do not try to define my own dating status to me. You don't know me, so stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 09:03 PM
3

That's not how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:59 PM
1

You know I can have sex and not want to date people right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:55 PM
-1

Like 6 days ago. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:48 PM
2

I laid off the dating game for a while. I'll try again in like 5 years maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:41 PM
5

I asked out three men in my lifetime, got rejected everytime. So I don't do that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 08:21 PM
1

The "niceguy" archetype is a pretty popular internet concept, there are blog posts, video essays, and a whole subreddit dedicated to highlighting that type of behavior, so I find hard to believe you've never came across the definitive definition, but I digress. A "niceguy" is a guy who expects physical and emotional affection from someone simply for being nice or helpful (most of the time without being asked) and when they inevitably get rejected proceed to weaponize their nice gestures in order…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:12 PM
2

Of women are perceiving the way you approach them as creepy, them maybe you should change the way you approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:32 AM
3

Because women know better and have the balls to end what they know isn't working out before moving on. Men also know shit ain't working out, but they would rather cheat than just leave their spouse for good. This is true for both hetero- and homosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:44 PM
2

I take what I see here very seriously. Some of yall I do not want to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 02:10 AM
2

There are three known body type (Ectomorph, Mesomorph and Endomorph) and four known female body shapes (Banana, Apple, Pear, and Hourglass). Depending on the body type and shape a woman has, they are going to carry their weight differently. There are 5'4" and 170 pound women out their that have flat stomach but thick hips, and there are some that are the complete opposite. This is the same for all women, all sizes, all ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:11 PM
0

Do you know what body type is? It's not the same thing as height.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:56 PM
1

There is. You just don't find it attractive. That's fine, wasn't the point I was trying to make. At any weight, at any height people are going to look different. So paying attention simply to some arbitrary number on a scale and nothing else is just selling yourself short. Just focus on the body type. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:49 PM
0

Dude, I'm serious. Just look at the pictures he provided and try to tell me they all look the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:37 PM
8

Why are you guys so worried about weight rather than body type? Obviously not everyone is going to carry weight the same way. Your second link proves that. Heavy is not the same thing as fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:24 PM
2

This is exactly what the conversation is about. You are trying to make women accountable for what men do. Youre trying to prove women perpetuate rape culture because they sometimes like assertive men. That's wrong, you're wrong. That's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:45 PM
2

No one is "tempting" to be rape. That's the problem. What a woman does doesn't matter. Stop trying to make it matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:31 PM
3

Maybe you guys could stop comparing women to inanimate objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 04:19 PM
3

This is literally just you trying to shift accountability. No action done by the victim is cause for their victim hood. A robber chose to rob. And rapist chose to rape. That's the extent of it. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:53 PM
7

No means no. I don't know what to fucking tell you. If no means something else, that's something that would have been clarified before the fact. Aggression is not an excuse to ignore someone telling you they don't want to continue. Tell me, what in my post did you read as me not being able to understand consent, so maybe I can word it a little better. If you think anything about rape is somehow even partially the victim's fault, then you shouldn't have made the post in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:18 PM
5

Man, what on earth are you talking about? Do you not know how consent works?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:08 PM
5

Please don't worry about something about this, nor try to ask men on this sub of all places for advice. My mom met my dad when she was 29 and then had me 6 years later. If you what to find love, just go find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 03:50 AM
5

Neither is staying married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:18 PM
4

You can have a "lifelong relationship" without getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:03 PM
3

Bro, stop using words you don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 01:45 AM
4

No, you guys just don't know how the real world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:59 PM
1

Lol, yeah. Especially in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:49 PM
2

Date men, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:42 PM
2

This is not a just women thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:19 PM
2

I don't care. I just like an attractive face with a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 02:06 AM
2

Without talking to them first? No. If I had a conversation with them and like them after I would give them my social media and they can contact me through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:34 PM
8

No, I'm pretty sure anyone with a functioning social life would think that doesn't make sense. What also doesn't make sense is that you expect women to sleep with someone that doesn't like them, and yet still want to think women are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:55 PM
7

Why would you have sex with people you don't like? That's doesn't make as much sense as you think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:26 PM
5

Yes, the millions of likes and views are just from those people. None from the hypocritical men who were just misogynistic assholes in the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:02 AM
2

You should look at the dude under this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 03:59 AM
6

And yet those are the posts that are getting millions of likes and views.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:46 AM
21

Reading through this sub for the past few months really makes me doubt that these men are really attracted to women as much as they say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 01:34 AM
7

Then, Madonna That's what got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:07 AM
3

I speak perfectly fine. African Americans as far as we're concerned want nothing to do with the "broader culture". We like our culture as it is. If that isn't your ideal, then oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:06 AM
2

I know he won't, I definitely know he won't, I just mean in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 11:25 PM
11

Yeah, I can't read whatever it is you just typed. I'm not a red-pilled women, I don't care for red-pilled women. Any decent human being should be able to tell you cheating is wrong, no matter the gender. That is not a feminist ideal, that's common fucking sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 04:19 PM
3

That really doesn't matter whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:58 PM
4

I AM A WOMAN.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:55 PM
3

You're anecdotal experiences means nothing to me. Do you even know those women's opinion on the subject at hand?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:50 PM
5

So so since women are biologically weaker than men, it would be acceptable for us to physically abuse them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:33 PM
14

My guy, you need to lay off listening to the FitandFresh podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:30 PM
5

Right. Cause you know the life of my friends and acquaintances better than I do. You do know I'm also a woman right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:01 PM
1

Lol, you don't think they hate those women as well? They probably hate them just as much as they hate men. The point is they are not the same women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:45 PM
0

Why are you assuming the women complaining about porn are the same women contributing to it? Obviously they are just different people doing differently things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:37 PM
1

Lol, the fact I just pointed this out a couple of hours ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 11:08 PM
1

I mean yeah, the older you are, the less likely people are going to see age gaps as predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:53 PM
3

I think he's trying to say that an 18 year old girl is as mature as a 30 year old man... That's even worse, Jesus christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 10:20 PM
14

He's confusing "women age faster" with "women are shamed for aging more than men".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:38 PM
4

I make sure to point this out every fucking time, and of course, I never get a response after. It's refreshing to get them to open their eyes for once, cause I know it's never something they think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:27 PM
0

Lol, I'm a woman. But thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:18 PM
18

Honestly, I find it weird how men on this sub love to complain about women being financially dependent on them, only to want to get into a relationship with a woman where such dependence is inevitable. They out here trying to get with a college student with no steady income and probably still living with her parents or in university housing, but then it's "boohoo, I can't get her to pay half of the bill with the money she doesn't even have."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:36 PM
24

Dude, I'm 21 and I can tell you it's weird as hell. Most women I know around my age agree with me. I don't know where you get it's only older women who think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 07:19 PM
2

I would just tell him. In the end, the choice is going to be up to me no matter what. If he wants to break up with me over it, then oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:33 PM
0

You're never going to see me date anyone with a career that revolves around beating other people up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:05 AM
1

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:19 PM
1

Women can just just fine to one another. Again, just cause it makes no sense to you doesn't mean it doesn't make sense period. If it's confusing, just mind your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:03 PM
2

What does that mean? If they can understand each other, then they are communicating, doesn't matter that you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 06:41 PM
1

Way to victim blame from your position of privilege What victim blaming? You're not a victim here. You just expect different treatment and are upset you're not getting it. You have standards that aren't being met. That's not a bad thing, but it's not oppression
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:26 PM
1

Men are right now denied love because the system is riged due to societal conditioning. That's not oppression, that's you wanted specific treatment. You can in fact find love, you just want to do so without the added requirements that' the other party expects from you. You can very find someone that doesn't expect those things, you just don't want to put in the effort. That's not women's problem. You're not oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:17 PM
1

Then be alone lol. I don't know what to tell you. You're not oppressed just cause someone expects you to do something you can choose not to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:57 PM
1

"You don't have to cater to your employer's abuse" Most people would just quit in that situation. Why does one gender get to be the employer while the other the have to be the job seeker? They don't. Yiu don't think men have certain requirement for women before they date them? Yall highlight them all the time on this sub. The point is you don't have to meet those requirements. No one is forcing you to do so.. You aren't going to be persected, abused , or killed for not doing so. So I don't know …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:45 PM
0

Right. You so know you don't have to do those things, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:30 PM
0

You really think that's oppression? Good god.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:14 PM
1

The Duluth model not a law, it's a domestic violence intervention program. Where do you see that written into law?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 01:20 PM
7

They have been told all their lives that the greatest show of masculinity and status is how many women they've fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:17 AM
7

How is that the women's fault? Those decisions are at the judge's (most likely male) discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 05:11 AM
6

You know that shit fucking hurts right? Like seriously? Stop relying on hard-core porn to figure out what real women like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 04:34 AM
13

I'm not comfortable getting into my sex life in detail, but there is one thing I want to clear up with you and all the other men that think this. Bigger does not equal best. You can be big and still be shit at sex. Not to mention, the bigger you are the more likely that shit is going to hurt. I'm not a fan of big dick for the simple fact it's big. I don't think most women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 02:54 AM
3

Yep. Not having kids of my own so saves me the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 03:41 AM
1

Right, well as I said in my comment on the other thread, I'm done speaking with you. You can go ahead with entertaining the other 3 or 4 different people your speaking with without much of the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:37 PM
1

No. But you are speaking to me in a separate comment thread and said the same damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:34 PM
0

It's funny how you think another person tragedy is a excusable sacrifice for fortune. Your fortune isn't really worth the trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:33 PM
1

Lol, you haven't realize you been speaking to me on both threads?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:31 PM
2

If a man physically forces you or threatens you to not get an abortion, then that's obviously a crime. That's not going to be the case the vast majority of the time. I'm not just talking about men. Friends, family, hell even health providers can coerce a women to go to full term in their own ways. And coerce does not always mean physically force. I have no idea what you mean when you refer to finances. Abortions cost money. If she doesn't have the funds to get one, them she's struck out of luck.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:27 PM
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I'm obviously referring to the fetus being cut out, not the child. Do you struggle with reading comprehension? If this is the sentence you are responding to, Having an abortion is not the same thing as denying responsibility. then how the fuck do your you expect me to know you are referring to fetuses? I don't even refer to fetuses. A child and a fetus aren't the same thing, so if you mean fetus, then say fetus. Wrong, the woman is far more responsible because she chose to carry it to full term …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:08 PM
1

And what data is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 05:03 PM
1

IF she's forced. If you live in an area where abortion is illegal, child support is also sensible. Your argument falls apart if the woman has the option of abortion yet chooses to carry a child the man doesn't want to full term, and then forces him to pay child support. My argument doesn't fall apart, all I said was there no double standard. Women are forced to carry their babies to turn, not just legally but coercively and financially as well, this isn't a "what if" scenario. When that happens,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:58 PM
0

How old are you? Cause unless you grew up in the late 1950-early 1960s you have nothing to mourn over. The past was a hell hole for people who weren't cishetero white men. You expect me to go back to a time the my mother and grandmother dreaded since the day they were old enough to understand the mistreatment they had to go through. No thank you. You can say that only cause you know you'd be the one to benefit. There is no tragedy. The past can stay dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:46 PM
1

It is, in effect. You don't want the responsibility of a child in the future, so you cut the problem out at its roots. It's not. The baby exists, so there is no cutting it, unless youre out here advocating for infanticide. So take care of it yourself, since you unilaterally decided to carry it to term instead of aborting it even though the man didn't want that. Your body, your problem 🤷 Last I check it takes two to tango. Unless women being to reproduce asexually, then you're just as responsible…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:42 PM
3

Except the woman had 100% of the choice over the whether or not the child is aborted. If the man doesn't want it and she chooses to have the child, it's now his responsibility and he's on hook for 18 yes or child support. And if the women doesn't want the baby, but is forced to have it anyway, then she is responsible for it as well. Men aren't the only victims of this, youre some sort of double standard that isn't there and you're just wrong. It doesn't matter what condition the child was born i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:38 PM
2

If a man doesn't get the same choice after the pregnancy, it makes perfect sense that he should be able to deny responsibility for it. No it doesn't. Having an abortion is not the same thing as denying responsibility. In one of those two scenarios, the child has been born and needs to be taken care of. If either of you abandon it at the point, your both just terrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:29 PM
5

If the child is born, both you and the mother are responsible for it. It the fetus is aborted neither you nor the mother are responsible for it. I will never understand why men don't realize abortion is just as beneficial for you as it is for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:26 PM
3

There was commitment, family ties, affection, child rearing and other stuff involved All of this can exist even if the concept of marriage never did. All of this is not guaranteed in a marriage. I really wish y'all on this sub would stop romanticizing the past so much. It's gone, in my opinion for the better, so move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:17 PM
4

Ok, no. Parents in relationships they are unhappy with do not help the children. They just get caught in the middle of it. Abusive husbands or wives become abusive parents as well. Neglect is a common problem as well. And don't even get me started on the treatment children go through if their parents didn't want them in the first. Where the hell do you get the idea forcing parents who do not like each other or their children to stay together is better for them? You're out of your fucking mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:53 PM
5

What part of marriage being permanent meant it worked? People were just not able to back out of it. Abuse still happened. Infidelity still happened. You'd be naive to think it didn't. There is a reason why the number of divorces skyrocketed once it became legal in America. If it worked as well as you say it did, no one would have left the second they had the chance. The concept of marriage is obviously flawed, which is why you see fewer people getting married today. The only benefit it can give …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:15 PM
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Divorce should be illegal Yeah. let's force obviously unhappy or even abusive people to stay together for the rest of their lives despite the obvious harm they are causing themselves and others around them. That'll work. Fuck this narrative of women getting no responsibility for their choices. You do know men can file for divorce as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:49 PM
2

No your point doesn't stand if you can't even recite basic statistics correctly. How do you go from 44% of men to the 60% in your post? The statistics in this article are not matching up with the statistic you used. It sounds like to me you pulled out all those statistic out your ass and had to scramble to find a source you did not use. Could have at least read it before giving it to me, or just have not answered at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:32 PM
1

When it comes to actually doing the deed, however, a fifth both men and women (21% and 19%, respectively) say that they have cheated on a partner. Where the hell are you getting 28% and 24% from? This says completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:18 PM
1

Seriously, where are you getting these statistics from?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:59 PM
3

That's not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:35 PM
1

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7074242/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:05 PM
2

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7074242/ Here ya go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:05 PM
8

So do most men. I really don't see the point of discussing such a common preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:40 AM
7

I don't, that's why I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:26 AM
27

Did you know 1 in 10 men have cheated on their wives during her pregnancy? That's 10% of husbands. So yeah, it's because of lack of intimacy alright, but in no way is that the woman's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:25 AM
8

I mean my answer is obvious by the question. It's a stupid thing to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:43 AM
17

Why would I care about something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:36 AM
1

I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:52 AM
1

Not really. What they're asking is where does the stereotype "Women stab their friends in the back" come from when reportedly women have healthier and more supportive friendships than men. Which that's all that it really is, just a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:55 PM
2

Nah, it's just that women generally can get sex on demand and men cannot me thinks. Rare would be a man who can get sex as easily as a women who also says he is lonely and is in need of emotional support. They're talking friendships, not sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 11:23 PM
1

Good for you then? Just cause you think something is good doesn't everyone else has to. Some of us just find it unbearable, you don't get ti dismiss that cause you think differently. Just have some empathy and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:29 PM
1

Those are definitely not the same thing. And you didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:11 PM
3

Some men like sports, right? Good luck participating with boobs almost the size of the balls you playing with and almost no sports bras your size.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:10 PM
5

How the hell is complaining about back pain, expensive undergarments, and sexual harassment humble bragging?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:08 PM
1

Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:43 AM
1

Lol, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:36 AM
1

Meh, i'm just used to it. You know the shooting that happened yesterday on the D train? Was on the train before that one. Once I found out, I was like, "Yep, That's New York." I'm never leaving this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:35 AM
3

Three year age gap. I'm still in university and they have a full time job, so our schedules never overlapped. They also lived deep in Brooklyn, which was where I had to travel for two hours. The pandemic made this worse. So we just ended it after like 9 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:19 AM
3

You seem fun, bet you haven't been single long. Thank you. I've been single for about a year now, but that you for the compliment. I'm told I'm fun to be around alot. As long as people are happy, I'm happy. As for my ex, I'm fine. It was short, so once I accepted it wasn't working out, I got over it pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 12:05 AM
5

How long term? Until death do us part? Until you're done with school? Until you find someone better? Until you're bored with him? Until the end of the week? I don't really expect anything like that. Doing so will stop me from letting go of relationships that are obviously not working out. If it works, it works. Children or no children? How many if so? Don't plan on bearing any children of my own. If I ever want kids in the future, I will be adopting. Marriage or no marriage? How long are you wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:26 PM
2

They're joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 07:07 PM
3

You want my signature as well? A thumbprint, perhaps? This is written like a business contract. Why would I want to be given such responsibility over someone I don't know, especially if you think so lowly of yourself already.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:41 PM
3

This is such a heterosexual centric take. How do you explain same sex attracted men and women who have platonic relationships with the same sex? If they can do it, I'm sure you can do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:43 PM
3

This is the one topic I see discussed on this sub at least 50 times a day. You talk about it so damn much I wouldn't be surprised the entire world's population of women know at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 04:16 AM
19

Lol, I got my first tattoo two years before I lost my virginity. Y'all need to chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:55 AM
2

Wouldn't the easiest thing to do...is to date women your own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:24 PM
1

Right...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:08 PM
0

Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:05 PM
1

How do you even know which one is a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:03 PM
-2

Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:59 PM
6

Who are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:58 PM
1

Right, apologies. I forget how impossible it is for men to not be able to sympathize with others and downplay the experiences of those who aren't them. How silly of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:28 PM
1

Are you serious? Black women have been seen as a violent threat by both white men and women due to our race. How are you as a black man questioning that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:23 PM
1

There obviously isn't, because as I said, myself and other black women have received the same treatment. If you find a woman is avoiding because of you being a black person or any other minority, then yes, they are being racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:18 PM
1

That's a racism problem. I as a black women can have received the same treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:35 PM
2

Lol, do you know any real life women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:23 PM
1

You seeing it as am issue is what makes you entitled. What issue are you finding her? Women not giving you the time of day? Women learning from experience not to automatically trust the intentions of men they just met? Give me a fucking break.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:21 PM
1

You're the one that needs therapy. I've never met a person filled with this much entitlement and apathy concerning something as serious as sexual assault. You need professional help, I'm not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:49 PM
8

It's not normal for us to be mindful of the people who approach us unwarranted? When me and half my female friend group has had to deal with both verbal and sexual harassment from random men whenever we dare to go outside our houses, I don't what to hear from another man what is or isn't a "normal" fucking response. You want someone to get mad at, get mad at the ones that caused us to have the response in the first place. Don't call us crazy cause we are tired of dealing with disrespect.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:17 PM
17

Then what the point of this post? If it's our prerogative, why are judging us for it? You're complaining about what women to do protect themselves and whatnot. Not really something to demonize women for. We don't owe you the time of day just cause you come and talk to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:31 AM
31

Does women not wanting to talk to you offend you that much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:12 AM
42

In the sense their dating pool is smaller than older men, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:38 AM
2

So then you're agreeing with me? Being nice isn't what makes you attractive. It's literally the first thing you emote when you meet someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:21 AM
2

How is that not standard? You're not nice to people that you want to like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:32 AM
1

Is it? I would consider like 2-10% of the population at max of being nice. I don't know where you're getting that statistic from. But regardless, whether being nice is rare or not, if isn't a unique or spectacular trait to have. I'm not going to be impressed by that. No woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 05:37 PM
9

Women don't want a nice guy, we want a good and respectable guy. Being "nice" is in fact the bare minimum, and just cause you say you are nice doesn't mean you definitely are nice. There is a whole subreddit dedicated to archiving the kind of "nice guy" behavior we aren't attracted to, I suggest you give it a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:08 PM
2

Women want a man who is masculine, dominant, and chivalrous. Lol, no I don't. I want someone I can connect with and has similar hobbies. Literally that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:28 PM
1

What does that have to do with women having body hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:39 PM
-1

Lol I like how you just ignore the entire second half of my post. But sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:29 PM
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it is their business to know what kind of person you are, thats why they are dating you in the first place. I thought this was fairly simple to grasp, I was wrong. Me multi-dating has nothing to do with what kind of person I am. If I don't know you well enough, I'm not about to tell you what I do in my free time. I dont care how you tell this but it is wrong to hide that and if you are making all the guys you are ''dating'' pay while hiding the fact that you are dating multiple people that is ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:43 PM
-4

I hide it cause it's none of their business, not cause I think I'm doing anything wrong. Where do you think that even would come up in normal conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:15 PM
5

How exactly? The whole point of this thread is discuss whether or not the dating advice given on this thread is legitimate. I say it's bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:35 PM
8

No, but the men on this sub are. I just find it a bit hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:30 PM
10

I thought men didn't like when we generalized their whole gender based on our own experiences? Y'all were quick to tell women that out safety concerns when around men were irrational since "the majority of men aren't a threat". But somehow when y'all want to paint most women as golddigging, shallow apathic leeches, then it's a valid assessment based on your own experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 02:20 PM
9

Once you realize that women as a demographic aren't a monolith and every man on this sub hasn't met every women in the world, then yeah you'll also realize most of what they say concerning women's behavior is bullshit. That's not really something women themselves need to point out unless you're someone (not you personally) who shares their biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:42 PM
2

Lol, of course you would think that, it's your post. If you don't want to elaborate, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:52 AM
3

Seriously, no you haven't. That's why I'm asking you to explain yourself in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:50 AM
5

Not really. All you did was call women a bunch of negative adjective, said you ditch dates you don't like (which is normal), and aren't afraid to call women bitches. The title of your post is literally "Women do like asshole", then you say in your post women now like you cause you changed your attitude. What conclusion do you expect me to have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:43 AM
2

Ok. And what exactly is this behavior that you display?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:32 AM
4

The question is why would you be willing to date women who are attracted to asshole. You are the company you keep, and those women would not be nice company. Your bar seems to be much lower than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:18 AM
1

You might want to start with what exactly you think commitment looks like. Most people simply just see commitment and monogamy and strong dedication to a person and the relationship you share. You know...just don't cheat on me or treat me as lesser than
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:10 AM
16

If you think Eva Mendez is dating down, I'm not inclined to take you or this post very seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:07 AM
1

Ok, now you're just going of the deep end. Let's just agree to disagree. I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:39 PM
1

I don't believe in a god, so I don't really care for such a statement. I have nothing wrong with helping women who can't naturally conceive their own children, what I have a problem with is the concept of designer babies and trying to artificially created a child that you want. If you aren't prepared to deal with whatever child you may get, then you shouldn't have children in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:30 PM
1

Yes, I would rather you not mess with your child's own genetic makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:25 PM
1

It's funny that you think it will just stop there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:21 PM
1

You're really asking me what is the downside for eugenics? That practice that was created to breed out the undesirables of western society such as racially and ethic minorities and the disabled? The practice that forced many minorities women to be sterilized should they have an arbitrary lower IQ that average?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:19 PM
1

That is a use of IVF, not it's sole purpose. That is the part that is eugenics. That is the part that is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 04:15 PM
1

IVF pregnancy...does not do any of that. Birth defects and premature deliveries are still risks at stake just like any normal pregnancy. In fact, babies conceived using IVF might be at an increased risk of certain birth defects. Where the hell are you getting this information from?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:59 PM
1

Do you even know what the IVF process is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:53 PM
1

Anything that artificially arranges reproduction in order to get desired characteristics is eugenics. Read that again for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:46 PM
1

No? IVF is fine, just not with the outcome of sex selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:43 PM
1

Sex selection is eugenics. Anything that artificially arranges reproduction in order to get desired characteristics is eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:40 PM
0

You should very much have a problem with eugenics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:35 PM
-1

Ok. Still should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:18 PM
-1

Cause eugenics is a kind of bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 03:14 PM
5

Why are you watching Fresh and Fit unironnically? All of those women are paid to be there and are probably just saying whatever those to bozos want them to say to prove their stupid ass points. Even if they were telling the truth, why are you taking the experiences of four (4) random women and coming to the conclusion that every women here is lying? Cause they are conveniently confirming your already existing biases against us? Give me a break. If you don't want to believe us when we tell you, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:52 AM
1

I think you're the delusional one here, my guy. I am a woman, and I swear I am more sexually obsessed than most of the guys I know. This is so weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 09:28 PM
3

Lol, anyone can read that a hundred times and come to that same conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:26 AM
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Bro, do you think there is an epidemic of men not knowing their child is their own or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:22 PM
1

Look at what you said, then look at what I said. Those are two completely different statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:24 PM
3

Stop projecting. You'll get just as much. You could be carved from the image of the gods himself, that stop you from being a danger to me. I don't know where you get your thinking from.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:12 PM
4

What message exactly? That you want women to trust you unconditionally after the first date or whatever? That's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:07 PM
1

There is really no nuance to it. The problem with your comparison has everything to do with outcome. Black people in this country are historically and systematically affected by generalization and assumption such as "all black people are criminals" whether that be by over-policing, higher jail sentencing or wrongful arrests. Men are not. They're just butt hurt women don't trust being alone with them on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:06 PM
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Jesus Christ, what part of "go for" don't you understand? I'm not being definitive here, I'm not talking about who they may end up with. I'm talking about who they target for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:53 PM
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I didn't say only, but men so usually go for 18-20. Maybe a bit older, but it's almost never women around their own age. There are those on this sub that admit that themselves. They want women in their peak or virgins or women with low n counts or whatever. Women in the late 20s - early 30s hardly meet those requirements. Just think of Leonardo DiCaprio.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:48 PM
1

No? Because that is a statement based on a racist stereotype. Women's interpretation is based on actual experience and statistics. Also men aren't in a discriminatory state as black people are. You can't just correlate two different demographics that have two different experiences and expect to get the same conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:44 PM
9

What's with this assumptions that all women are attracted to Brad fucking Pitt?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:39 PM
2

Your dating pool increases as you age because the age range of possible prospects increase. This is true for both men and women. The only reason it seems women have the higher dating pool is because most women choose to eat people around their own age and not limit themselves to 18-20 year old college students like most men of any age do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:32 PM
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I don't know why we need to discuss this. Women don't need to justify our "paranoia" when this shit is something most of us have already experienced. Sorry I care more about my own safety than whether or not a man is offended I cover my drink when I'm around him. Give me a break. You want my trust, earn it.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:57 PM
1

If you say you are so called "above average looking", and are still not pulling women less attractive than you or whatever, then maybe idk...something else is the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:22 PM
5

It's really not, all these "hostile reactions" should tell you that. The only thing you've pointed out in this post is that Emma Watson looks older now than she did when she was in her early twenties which...duh. That doesn't make her unattractive, you're just not attracted to older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 03:36 AM
20

Congratulation, you just spent an entire post, more than 600 words, describing the concept of aging. Time well spent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:48 AM
0

Lol, you are. Own up to it. If women don't want to date you cause of it, oh well. Thats not their fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:02 PM
1

So because there are women that don't want to date you cause you're transphobic, they're the problem? Would you date a racist? It's the same thing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:56 PM
3

I don't do hypotheticals. I don't argue my rights. I said what I said. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:27 AM
4

An unwanted fetus is a parasite, it is not a being. If I don't want it in my body, It doesn't get to be in my body. It doesn't get to use my body without my permission. It's as simple as that. Now I'm done. You can talk to the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:13 PM
5

If you don't know the meaning of BODILY AUTONOMY, then just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:09 PM
2

Obviously. Just don't reply to me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 11:01 PM
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Some people believe heartbeat. Some people believe fetal viability There is objectively no viability during the first trimester, which is the time the majority of abortions are performed. A "fetal heartbeat", which is not a medical term but a legal term republicans decided to latch onto ignorantly to play on people's emotions, is far from detectable before or at the 6th week of pregnancy. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists also has said in a statement, “What is interpreted a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:59 PM
6

If it's not alive what the fuck am I killing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:39 PM
3

Lol, you can't just say wrong and expect me to take you seriously, my guy. And how the fuck do you know who is and isn't happy lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:38 PM
2

Men are pressured to be promiscuous, women are pressured to be virgins. Let's just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:54 PM
3

The Bible teaches that everyone is ultimately responsible for their own actions So the Bible teaches that women are responsible for their own rapes and sexual assault? Right. Sodomy is sinful, whether you're a "queer person" or not. Good thing sodomy was never mentioned in the Bible at all then. And if your so worry about "sodomy", worry about the pedophile priest you got on your hands instead There's nothing wrong with nationalism. Why don't you look what nationalism brought upon this country a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:19 PM
2

Lol, that's hilarious. Last I checked slut shaming and anti sex positive sentiment was still prevelent in our society. This whole sub is an example of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:06 PM
0

Most men seem to already do that any way, lol. I'm not here to argue why you do shit. All I'm saying most men have a phobia of women due to traumatic occurrences that happened to them when they were younger. Maybe I should have made that clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:05 PM
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Most men on this sub seem to already do that, lol. I'm not here to argue why you do shit. All I'm saying most men have a phobia of women due to traumatic occurrences that happened to them when they were younger. Maybe I should have made that clearer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 08:04 PM
2

Have you ever taken a statistics class or a sociology class before? Cause when it comes to questions like this, compound questions are recorded separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:41 PM
-1

That is something that does happen, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:32 PM
1

"have you or anybody you know been sexually assaulted?" What's the problem exactly? If they know someone that was assaulted, what is the problem with that being counted?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:28 PM
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No one is really asking you to do anything major. The bar minimum you can do is call out your friend's predatory behavior when you see it (and not perpetrate the behavior yourself) and stop being antagonistic towards women who care more about their safety than whether or not you find it offensive they cover their drinks around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:25 PM
2

Yeah? Unless you wanna assume the women who participated have an incentive to lie for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 07:03 PM
1

Do you think a woman that attacks her bf in the bar is going to jail? No fucking way. So her violence is never recorded. Just cuase she doesn't go to jail, doesn't mean the violence isn't recorded. Those are two different studies. Most of the statistics being cited are sourced from women who claim they never reported their abuse to authorities. Their abusers never went to jail, yet the violence was still recorded.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:59 PM
2

Because male statistics aren't misinterpreted, nor are men systematically affected by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:49 PM
0

The reaction a man gives to getting rejected can be abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:44 PM
4

Lol, that's a racist, misinterpretation of the statistic, but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:33 PM
1

This statistic was made up. The number could be anything and still get the same npoint across. You're not supposed to take it literally, my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:22 PM
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No, but thinking all women are subservient to men, the 19th amendment was a mistake, and body autonomy isn't a human right is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 06:15 PM
2

That is exactly what purity culture teaches you. Purity culture teaches women are responsible for men's lust, which is why modesty is a must. Purity teaches that when married, sex from a women is a requirement, consent is non existent. Women are the ones punished, never men. It's never men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:44 PM
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No inequality? That's hilarious. Tell me how the culture that teaches that women are responsible for the sexual thoughts, feelings and choices men make, is discriminatory against queer people, and centers nationalism and white supremacy in its ideology is equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:33 PM
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What you just described wasn't all what purity culture is, lol. You perceive it in a place of power and privilege. It literally benefits you. Of course you're not going to see the bad in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:21 PM
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Purity culture is a homophobic, misogynistic, and racist ideology. None of that is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 05:17 PM
1

...No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:45 PM
1

No, it's not, my guy. Learn what an analogy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:17 PM
3

You're not supposed to take the analogy that seriously, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:04 PM
2

And what? What's your point? Men are still the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:56 PM
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Did a woman not want to go to your house after the first date or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:55 PM
2

By other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:49 PM
1

Dude, what are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:43 PM
3

People has sex with each other, not to each other. If you want to "use" something to get yourself off, get a pocket pussy or whatever. You're just telling me you treat women like objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:37 PM
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Again, that's not you making yourself cum. If you have to "use" her body to do that, which by the way is not how youre supposed to treat a human being, but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:32 PM
1

So then it wasn't you thank made you cum, was it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:26 PM
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If you're the one that made yourself cum, then why have sex in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:55 PM
3

I'm going to be honest with you, don't do this. If your sole purpose in joining a club is to get a girlfriend or get laid, your intentions are going to be obvious as hell. If had an instants starting in my freshman year of university where a guys had to be kicked out of our majority women crochet club cause all they would do is chat us up and not leave us alone to do our work. They had no interest in crocheting and it started to really piss us off. It doesn't matter what you look like, we know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:40 PM
0

That a concern for all people with something to lose. What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:38 AM
2

Um...alright. Getting robbed doesn't mean people literally stealing from you in the moment. It can b something that happens over time, something that you wouldn't even notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 03:19 AM
1

You're content with getting robbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:59 AM
2

You're not going to get that though. The majority of men aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 02:54 AM
1

Most people in the comments already highlighted them - less privacy for you and your SO, the chance of there being a lack of sincerity, etc. Also being famous doesn't make you desirable, it makes you tolerable. If you don't have the personality or charm to boot, people are just going to take what they can get and leave you to dry. If you want any meaningful relationship, the person you are dating is probably going to have to be famous too. Not that the effort is worth it. It's much easier to jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 12:21 AM
2

Sex? Yes. Dating? Probably, but that's going to cause more problems on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:21 PM
1

Periods were a bitch I'll tell that. Still are, but being a nine year old with copious amount of blood coming out you every other month (my cycle was very irregular) was probably the most traumatizing thing to happen to me at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 07:01 PM
1

Sure. Probably go as far to say I prefer it. Saves me the trouble of having kids of my own. Too many pregnancy horror stories have turned me off of the idea of purposely getting pregnant myself, so in the future, if I ever do want kids it be either getting with someone who already has kids or adopting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 07:13 PM
2

Let ask for clarification if you don't mind. It's obvious that those who spend time with a demographic of people they are attracted to they are more likely to find someone to enter a relationship. But I think what your asking specifically is how men who participate in more "feminine" or female directed activities are more likely to be attracted to women, despite the fact you've been told all your life masculinity is more important. Like how a painter may be more attractive than a woodworker. Is …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 05:54 PM
1

Dude, all I said was trans people have a hard time dating cause transphobes exist, which I don't know how you can refute regardless. Your assumption as to what I meant was just that...an assumption, cause nowhere did I say you're transphobic for wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 12:05 AM
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They don't really care about their feelings either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:35 PM
1

I was mainly talking about the people who hate crime trans people. Luring them off of dating sites in order assault or rape them or those who end up killing their trans SO cause their friends found out their dating. Ya know, the actual problems no one seems to want to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 02:33 PM
0

Now did I say all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:46 AM
0

You bringing that up is what's irrelevant. Heterosexual people can still date trans people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:52 PM
-1

Transgender is not a sexuality, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:49 PM
1

I'm very active on the sub. You can see that from my comment history. I'm well aware of the tendencies of the sub. Doesn't make it anymore non-idiotic to me. But I'm glad your having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:10 PM
2

I'm not trying to argue for or against anything. I just find it weird you want to label someone based on a relationship you yourself aren't apart of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:53 PM
1

I think you need to look over the definition of a cuck again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:02 PM
1

because for all we know he hasnt had sex with another woman, But you don't know, so why are you making all these absolutes for?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:33 PM
2

Lol, you can think whatever you want. It's very much both. I'm a dark skin black women, and in the black community, colorism and the masculinization of dark skin black women is very much present. Black women are more likely to be sexualized as well, and no matter how conservatively I dress it always happens. There is also black men and women who call me "bedwench" and "house slave" for my interest in cottage core and prep fashion, aesthetics that in the black community has been equated to fashio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 04:03 PM
2

And I'm a overtly feminine black women. I'm still gonna get ridiculed regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:20 PM
1

Are you a feminine man/women or masculine women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:09 PM
1

Despite my age I am not at all interested in settling down and starting a family in the short term, consequently I am much more oriented in enjoying life as a twenty year old would, obviously while studying and working. I'm not saying you can't do any of that. What I'm saying is the experience you hold as a nearly 30-year man means you automatically hold more responsibility in this kind of relationship. A 19-year-old knows nothing. This is not a personal attack, in general people that young are …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 03:01 PM
3

I can only speak from the perspective of the black community, so it may be different for you. For me, the attitude towards each demographic is about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:35 PM
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all women are valid and are mostly free to define it as and how they want. Overtly masculine women and overtly feminine woc are definitely not treated like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:08 PM
1

You may or may not agree with me, but as far as I'm concerned, from your perspective, she should be a child. She is nearly 10 years your junior and only 2 years out of high school. I know from experience, you can still be naive as can be at that age. That kind of age imbalance can cause a lot of problems both socially and emotionally in that relationship. You're the one with the knowledge and experience when it comes to life and love, not her. You should have a partner that you can grow with, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:18 AM
13

All it's done for me is teach me how to spot the type of men who follow TRP strategies and ideologies...so I can immediately avoid them completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 02:09 AM
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Trans men have a hard time dating because people are transphobic, not because they are men. The same is true for trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:54 AM
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You can be attached to, attracted to, and feel joy when with someone youre having sex with without falling in love with them. Two out of those three things are kind of necessary to want to have sex with someone in the first place. I feel all of those things with my current fwb and the last thing I want to do is love him like I would a significant other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:36 PM
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My first boyfriend was four years older than me. I was 18 and he was 22. It was bad. We hardly got to see each other because of our different time schedules, I was a student and he was a full time worker. We had no similar interests, he thought my hobbies were actually pretty childish. It took weeks to even convince to take me to Six Flags of all places. I wasn't of age to drink, and for some reason the only places he could think of taking me were bars and nightclubs, so we didn't have a lot of …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:04 PM
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Will and Jada are in an open marriage. That fact alone makes this whole post pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:40 PM
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There was no cheating. They are in a non-monogomous relationship lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:37 PM
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Lost mine at 18 to my first boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:05 AM
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The last few times I've had sex with someone I barely knew was the worst sexual encounters I have ever experienced. For some men, sex is nothing more than something they do to women, rather than with women. They don't consider our sexual pleasure at the moment, and it's safe to say they are even less so to do that if it's a complete stranger they are only going o have sex with the one time. So yeah, for me, I'm no longer someone who fucks as soon as I see them. I need to know if they are willing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:17 AM
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Tinder is in all intents and purposes a hookup app. Hardly anyone actually thinks you can get a serious LTR with someone off of Tinder. https://datingzest.com/tinder-statistics/#:~:text=%E2%80%9C22.22%20percent%20of%20Tinder%20users,the%20app%20for%20other%20reasons.%E2%80%9D “22.22 percent of Tinder users surveyed answered that they are “looking for a hookup,” 4.16 percent said they are “looking for a relationship,” 44.44 percent said they use it for “confidence-boosting procrastination,” and 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:07 PM
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I really think that's just you only using tinder to find dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:48 PM
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I certainly don't. I just care if you're good at sex. If you need a high body count to get that kind of experience, so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:37 PM
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Cause I don't like getting comments like "Hey sexy" under a pic of me and my grandmother at her 90th birthday party.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:27 PM
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Good luck with that cause it's not going to happen anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:16 AM
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Then stay single then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:00 AM
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You've been romantically attracted to every women you've found friendships with? Despite physical attraction, commonality of relationship standards and availability?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 12:29 AM
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If I don't find a girl's personality attractive in the first place then I wouldn't even want to talk to her and get to know her Uh...yeah. That's how all friendships work, regardless of gender, bro. If you have nothing in common or find them engaging to talk to, why would hang out with them in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 11:40 PM
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Nothing is wrong with having a "shallow" preference. Just keep it to yourself, don't shame others that don't have the same preferences and/or don't shame those who don't fit your preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:45 PM
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What part of being self confident means you have to hide your feelings and mental health from others? I don't remember reading that criteria anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:15 PM
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If we had more "better men" then there wouldn't be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:13 AM
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What kind of logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:41 PM
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You going around treating women like objects and think the problem here is a high body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 01:07 AM
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No. Men are just less likely to come out, especially bisexual men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:10 PM
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If the intention isn't to get male attention, then we aren't doing it for male attention. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:50 PM
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Yeah, I'm confident that you would sleep with a 14 year old if it wasn't illegal. There is something mighty wrong with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 11:23 PM
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This is whataboutism. It's obvious that you know what you're doing is indefensible if you're going to just ignore it now.If you think wearing makeup is wrong, but see nothing wrong with what you're doing, you're a hypocrite and need to stop doing it. You have no room to be complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:26 PM
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If they have assumed your their age, and you don't correct them, that's still lying my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:09 PM
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I'm bitter? You're the only one that can only get laid by lying and getting mad women have their own agency when it comes to who they will or won't have sex with. That's the saddest thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:18 PM
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So you're willing to deny women the choice to get with someone they feel comfortable with because you feel slighted by our "ageist culture"? Newsflash my guy, you're not entitled to having sex with women significantly younger than you. If they don't want to fuck you, you should be mature enough to respect their boundaries and move the fuck on. You're the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:55 PM
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Then why are you lying? You keep dodging the simplest of questions. If age doesn't matter, why are you lying? If it's irrelevant, why is it ever brought up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:43 PM
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Age doesn’t matter for either party You said that word for word. That's what you were arguing this entire time. Now you wanna say age does in fact matter to women. Which is it? Obviously age doesn't matter to you, you trying so fucking hard to justify lying about it to get some action. But if it does matter to a person, and you lie about it, then you are fucking wrong. Own up to it and stop trying to justify your creepy ass actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 08:33 PM
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I'll ask again, if age doesn't matter, why do you need to lie about yours? You should be able to be truthful about such a thing and not have to worry about being rejected after the fact. If you are being rejected because of your age, which you yourself admit that has happened, then it obviously does fucking matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:23 PM
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If age doesn't factor in terms of physical attraction then why are you trying to get with women younger than you to the extent that you are willing to lie about you age to do so? Why not try to get with attractive women within your own age bracket? What was the point of you posting at all complaining that men are at a disadvantage because women become less attractive as they age if age does factor in how attractive women are? You're starting to contradict yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:18 PM
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If the idea is to know as little as possible then why the hell do you need to lie about your age in the first place? Obviously, it must matter if you need to disclose it, and you're lying about it anyway. That is still decieat, that is still catfishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:14 PM
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I like the fact that this is the comment you reply to and not the one that is me pointing out that you just a huge hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 07:06 PM
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It doesn't matter. There is nothing mutual about it if you have to lie about your age to get anything out of it. And you have the nerve to find it baffling that women want nothing to do with you after they found out they lied to you. That's delusional behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:52 PM
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You don't think lying about your age is counts as catfishing? You're literally concealing a factor of yourself, you're being deceptive when doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:48 PM
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White lie? You think lying about your age of all things is a white lie? If I got into a relationship with a man who told me he was 23 and ended up being 27, that's would have been it. That's not something normal people do, so don't talk to me about being authentic if you think that's okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:41 PM
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You really don't know anything about makeup do you? Again that is not more egregious than you lying about your age to get with younger women. And what exactly does that tell you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:35 PM
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Makeup is not a "lie" if you know it's there. If you think a woman has red lipstick and sparkly eyelid naturally, that's that's your problem. If you think that more severe then lying about your age to get with women 7-10+ years your junior, I don't know what to tell you. I'm 21 years old. It's still creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:26 PM
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Sorry to tell you this, but a lot of us already know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:12 PM
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Most people do not believe me when I tell them I am 32. This allows me to still easily attract girls of all ages, and I get most of my attention from the 18-25 crowd. This creates a conflict where I am either forced to lie about my age (or not volunteer it and hope they don’t ask) or give up most of those opportunities. I have had countless instances where I have had girls very interested in me only to lose interest when they found out my age. This entire paragraph makes you look creepy as hell.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:10 PM
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David Mech introduced the idea of the alpha to describe behavior observed in captive animals. Alphas, he wrote in his 1970 book "The Wolf: Ecology and Behavior of an Endangered Species," win control of their packs in violent fights with other males. Last time I checked, men aren't going around violently attacking each other the "win control" of nonexistent human packs. This kind of behavior is not natural, it comes from the change of environment. If they don't act this way in the wild, then it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:53 PM
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Please enlighten me then. What is your substantial proof that the Alpha male archetype exists that goes against the very study by the man that created said archetype?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:12 PM
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Stay in denial then. I don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:07 PM
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Yeah, actually it does, if you took the time to read the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:04 PM
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It prove alpha males just don't exist period, my man. Which was kind of the point I was trying to put across.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:01 PM
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What are you on about? Did you read the last paragraph? All of which is to say: Humans who enjoy the idea of "alpha males" might want to keep in mind that there isn't really any such thing. And to the extent the term has any meaning at all, it describes the behavior of captive, lonely creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 07:04 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.businessinsider.com/no-such-thing-alpha-male-2016-10%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:39 AM
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None, cause the Alpha-Beta-Omega model is bullshit that has been debunked numerous times, including by the very person who conceptualized it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 03:34 AM
1

I never said the minimum wage was fair. I said a business is underpaying if they don't pay minimum wage at least since by law that's what they have to do. Though I do believe the minimum wage should be raised, that is a entirely different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 11:00 PM
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Why? Society is supposed to be about give and take. If you do nothing but take...why do you deserve the comfortable and stable quality of life that society is meant to provide? You deserve it because you are a human being. I don't know what else to tell you. Things like food, water, and medical care are not things we should be waving over people's heads and telling them if you can't jump as high as the others then you deserve to die in the streets. Capitalism by nature is there to benefit the ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:52 PM
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What is with your line of questioning, dude? "Forced"? By who? Nature? "Forced" as in there is no alternative. "jobs deemed underpaying"? Deemed by who? You? God? It's not hard to determine whether a job underpays or not. They either pay less than minimum wage or don't pay in proportion to the work performed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:19 PM
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I was talking about people being forced to take jobs deemed underpaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:04 PM
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Okay. You do know that same scenario can occur in places like America as well, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:57 PM
1

So workers of sweatshops and labor factories who are paid as little as $1 per hour and at most $6 per hour, you're going to sit there and tell me that is all the money they have fairly earned in comparison to the amount of work that day, including overtime?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:43 PM
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It really doesn't take as much as you think to survive, For the most part this is about quality of life, not raw survival. A lot of the time we are paying for something like someone's drug addiction, not their actual physical requirements for survival. If it's about quality of life, it is comparable to dating You're right, it is about quality of life. People deserve a comfortable and stable quality of life where they don't have to worry about when their next meal is or if their child will die fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:27 PM
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They aren't. That's not an opinion. Edit: Clarification. Nike isn't. Amazon's exploitation is an entirely different can of worms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:02 PM
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If you give people less then minimum wage, you are giving them less then what they earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:00 PM
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Nobody is forcing those companies to exploit there workers. "They can work somewhere else" is not an excuse to allow the companies to not give the people that work their less than what they earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:53 PM
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Dude, all you're telling me is you lack basic empathy and moral principles. People deserve what is needed to survive comfortably in our society. And yeah, that includes the drunk guys on the street. That's all most people under those kinds of terrible conditions ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:51 PM
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Um...yeah they do. You can look at the conditions workers at companies like Amazon and Nike have to live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:47 PM
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Not dying doesn't mean not struggling. I come from a single mother household in Harlem living off of a preschool teacher's salary and more money would have definitely been helpful for us growing up, and there are plenty of people who worse off than that. I don't know why single parenthood is what your focused on. It matters because more likely than not the people who need the money more than they do are the ones they are exploiting. Paying them less then what they deserve, not offering medical o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:38 PM
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I care more for them tapping into more stereotypical feminine traits than masculine. Masculine traits is too easy of an expectation from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:29 PM
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Romance and finance are not comparable with each other. Billionaires specifically do not gain that amount of wealth and status from hard work alone, no one can do that. They get it for either inheritance or exploitation. The poor while some end up that way through personal choices, most are poor due to external circumstances beyond their control. These people don't have the bare minimum of what they need to survive, while billionaires have more than what they can spend in their own lifetime. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 08:24 PM
2

Then what do you consider harassment or predatory behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:42 PM
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“I don’t even know you” “It’s sexual assault” “Dicks are ugly” “I like what they can do, not how they look.” “If it’s someone I have already slept with, I’m ok with it.” I don't know why your framing these like they are unreasonable responses. I get how third one may be a bit harsh, but I think for most women, something is only seen as attractive if we are attractive to the person themselves. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I would assume the same is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 05:36 PM
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Well, there are times where I will insert myself into a group that happens to be a group of guys cause of my personal interests or hobbies and whatnot, but definitely not because they are guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 03:28 PM
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Yes.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 09:22 PM
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Sure, dude.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 05:21 PM
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They don’t...
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 05:01 PM
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Dude please. You know damn well what I meant
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 05:00 PM
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When have I ever done that?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 04:59 PM
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Literally all I said was don’t compare women to inanimate objects. If you think that constitutes as bitching, I’m not the one with the problem. Go talk to someone else who cares.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:51 PM
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That’s...where does that assumption even come from?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:45 PM
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Again, women are human beings. All of these analogies y’all have comparing us to a bunch of objects is literal dehumanization.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:44 PM
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Why am I not surprised this subreddit has a rule against racism, but no rule against sexism? Why is this post still up?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:40 PM
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Do pray tell what have women done to mean that is so much worse?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:35 PM
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Yes, me telling people to not treat women like objects is bitching.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:33 PM
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Dude, what are you talking about?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 03:30 PM
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Um...ok?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 02:15 PM
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Lol, you guys call yourself animals. That’s the exact excuse y’all have for this exact kind of behavior.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 01:54 PM
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Someone in the comments compared us to condoms so...the possibilities are endless it seems.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 01:16 PM
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I'm not even the one you're responding to. At least they spelled the word correctly. You're the only one being made a fool out of.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 12:42 PM
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You didn't even spell it correctly.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 12:37 PM
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Scraping the barrel with this one dude. Stop comparing women to inanimate objects for fuck's sakes.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/12/20 12:25 PM
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He’s literally just making fun of random people. This isn’t a murder, the girl wasn’t even responding to him. He’s an ass.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/20 06:24 AM
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He’s the asshole.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/12/20 06:22 AM
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