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| – | The majority of women can’t make men feel as desired as women who engage in casual sex with them.This is a plain perception of your personal annecdotes. It is neither false nor true because value systems are the most diverse things about humans, and just about everything else can have it's contemporary across gender divides, age groups, financial class, disability, or otherwise. Humans react and respond with human behavior, and I believe almost nothing seperates most people from one another besides adopted values. There are men who absolutely feel the most attractive and valued when they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Every Guy I Know That Dated Around a Lot, Enjoyed the Idea of Soft HaremsPsychology that appropriately weighs cultural pressure with biological influence tends to come to the conclusion that humans have the healthiest romantic and sexual relationships when there's little to no judgement, stigma, or specific responsibilities associated with pursuing, whenever. This is juxtaposed by the higher level of satisfaction reported by unions that last many decades- and additionally increased with children being a factor- but that's not generally an achievable goal for the majo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/25 08:24 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winTbh I failed to find the numbers you were referencing, and that's why I asked. One of those, "I'm just not sure" receptions where I was damn near certain that men voted more. Point taken. Hopefully more minority groups and marginalized people vote, regardless of whichever direction they choose to. Can't help those that won't help themselves and such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:15 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winIf people perceive that you don't encourage or amplify voices of reason within your political party, because of their gender or race, that matters. You are correct in saying that holding hard stances on policy that tons of Americans have lived experience with is stupid. However, if I saw such significant policy change within the democratic party as an about-face regarding illegal immigration, I personally wouldn't engage with it initially whatsoever. Honest to God, I'd assume that they were tryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:08 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winThank you for the info 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:54 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winThanks for the link 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:54 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winYes and I'm saying there's a massive amount of young voters who are insistent on their unwillingness to engage with that. I'm not disagreeing with what you are saying. I'm pointing out that totally disillusioned voters are further and will be further disillusioned by the party- they claim they're willing to reform by force- engaging with that. These are the people I'm saying definitely care about how latino men and women voted; their ideas for change would be equally incapable of reaching the La… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:53 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winWe can discuss the particulars of progressives investments into whichever brand of identity politics they choose, but it still stands that competing on that front with a party- who's unified their base via religious and right/wrong ideological precepts- is fucking idiotic. It's the claim that, "people become more conservative as they age/you get more contemptible as you accrue more money" unironically. Reality is that society tends to become more progressive, but Democrats here insist on not exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:33 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winI'm gonna absolutely need a source for white women being the largest voting demographic. Claiming they don't have motivation then claiming they're the highest percentage of voters is contradictory. Regardless, Democrats were becoming downright giddy at the gender gap in early voting between women and men. Plainly, women outpaced men in regards to pre-election votes cast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:18 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winDemocrats never learning that campaigning on identity politics- when their opponents have one of the most consistently loyal bases in modern political history- is a losing strategy is as iconic as peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. Maybe as American as apple pie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 08:02 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winIf we're talking about changing political structuring, as at least 15-20 million progressives demanded by not voting this election, having a demographic that you endeavor to assist and assimilate vote against their primary interests is absolutely important. You cannot enact change via any method if the people who you target aid towards don't accept aid. 15-20 million progressives are not interested in fighting for or contributing to dancing for a minority of voters. Loads of left-leaning voters,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 07:55 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winThat could easily be the case. Progressives loving to lose isn't a meme for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 07:11 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winTrump's change in margins vs 2020 are kinda fucking insane too. White men; -3, white women; -6, black men; 2, black women; -4, latino men; 33, latino women; 15, all other; 15. Trump accused Latinos of destroying this country and they voted him in; so I guess Trump isn't wrong about that assertion. Catholics haven't ever given a fucking shit about criminal rapists being in power after all... I'm not interested whatsoever in accepting blame. If Democrats push that message, they've lost the next el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 07:10 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winI've been saying the alienation that tons of young adult men feel towards progressives would be a pivotal factor in this election. I was hopeful that women being so widely motivated would be enough, but it isn't. If progressives choose to amplify voices that accuse young men of being racist or misogynists when they become unmotivated about supporting a candidate that shouldn't have been the democratic nominee, we will see the repetition that's occured here occur again. This has been going on for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:37 PM |
| -1 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveIt is the Internet, you're going to see unwarranted hatred towards just about any demographic(but especially commonly mistreated demographics). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 05:50 PM |
| 3 | FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and womenI don't think friendships aren't real relationships. I just haven't had many friends who I've been attracted to, and I've never had sex with someone who was my friend without progressing that relationship into a romance. This isn't also to imply I haven't made mistakes within romantic relationships or friendships, but that's something which everyone does and I don't consider it to have much bearing on the discussion- at least not without more context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 05:54 PM |
| 2 | FWB is the best relationship for both modern men and womenI disagree. I am a man who's had about 7 sexual partners by my age of 31, and I'd never had sex with a single one of them without having felt pre-existing, strong romantic love. I do not think having sex with a person I have no intention of incorporating into my life would positively contribute to me. What other people do or not do is fine by me, but their ideals are definitely not mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 05:46 PM |
| – | What is the evolutionary advantage to having the orgasm gap?Reproduction only needs for sperm to meet an egg. Technically, no orgasms need to happen, but if you want higher probability then introducing more sperm is the more likely way of insemination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 03:47 PM |
| – | CMV A Man that takes care off himself will be in his physical Prime till hes ~35.Several grammatical errors in the last few sentences alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do women settle for men who are not super rich?Attraction very often has little to do with reason or total optimization. Similarly, if you want to egregiously damage your chances of finding someone who you are mutually attracted to, rely on a list of heavily enforced, non-negotiable traits which people must meet before initiating any peep of interest. Considering that I've intervened, and seen numerous cases of others doing so, on a woman's behalf, over her tantrum throwing partner, in public, I think quite a few women legitimately ask thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 10:30 AM |
| 7 | Men, under what (hypothetical) conditions would you become a sex worker?Extremely good pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 07:22 PM |
| 5 | The left doesn’t need to cater to straight young men because they largely don’t need helpThe explicit reason so many men go into red pill, conservative ideologies is because they give actionable advice. Is the world dying, the rich more privileged than ever before, the common worker struggling unjustifiably, stigma against science and medicine increasing, and people's individual lifestyle choices being made to be publicly justified under outrage culture? Yes, to all of that. Blue pill and progressive ideologies will tell you that, too. They'll also ridicule you if you're a white you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:37 PM |
| 4 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.Nice. 👍😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?I think that quite a few men have forgotten that, when you meet someone who makes those chemicals go bonkers, you will not interpret a majority of your efforts as tasks. I remember being giddy about buying flowers, grabbing takeout, planning an evening, and inversely about her having swung by the alcohol store, brought food from work, and working up a plan for our time. Everything was easy and natural about it, and really I'd only be happier when I was enshrouded in her presence than when I was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:49 PM |
| 3 | If women used the word "compromise" instead of "settle", things would be better.I think this is a well thought out breakdown of the issue, well done. For men and women, I believe both can often forget that an enormous point of validation, both in and out of relationships, is trust. Specifically your trust being rewarded/having been well placed. It's a tricky issue because there are different depths of it as well. The more nebulous being, "Will they cheat on or leave me for little to no fault of my own?" and the more concrete being, "Have they cleaned/talked to their doctor/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Are female beauty standards really that bad?If women hate themselves, quite a few billion-dollar industries just wink right out of existence, or down to tens-of-million industries. Cosmetic and beauty manufacturing industry is worth $48.8bn as of 2023. That's an insane amount of human effort and value put into changing physical aspects about oneself, that ultimately have positivity or negativity attached to them via social engineering. Dysphoric and Dysmorphic perceptions affect everyone, probably for a majority of human existence as well… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Why do men hate open relationships?Wait, so men should potentially lower their standards for commitment, monogamy. I can give you that, sure, that could get more men laid. So shouldn't women who can't stay hitched lower their standards for provisions and independence?? I mean that would also, likely, see more women satisfied with a standard they've lowered themselves to accept. Specifically from the man who is their partner also, since this is an inherent benefit for men AND women who choose to be single and sleep with whomever, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsHuh, interesting and well thought out opinion. Do you think that could then coincide with how many women get so obsessed or flustered over marriage? Many men don't really see the need for that level of commitment, they're absolutely content with the provisions they receive as well as give, even if they're not exemplary, whereas women may see it more as that final thing, the effort of which they've performed by returning committed emotions and stability, therefore having earned both the right and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Online dating for women is not "better"Yes, I would consider my previous employers and some friends having received irl harassment, over my ownership of animals, as dangerous behavior. I would also consider having food, a plate, a glass, and cutlery thrown at your face for saying the phrase, "You do not look like your pictures" as dangerous behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 08:41 PM |
| 5 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?It's the ol' suffering from negative parts of a good thing. Women being more sexually liberated is a good thing, in my opinion. However, that makes them the most responsible for their sexual inclinations, e.g. if you get "so horny" when you're drunk or high, don't be around people when you're drunk or high, or better yet examine your relationship with your preferred recreational drugs. A common example here is men being torn down for describing or suggesting sex is a need. Yes, we understand tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Online dating for women is not "better"IDK about all that. Myself and any man who's admitted to using online dating has horror stories, consistent one's at that. I've been torn the fuck into over what Halo game is my favorite, sworn at for my sister having encyclopedic knowledge of F.R.I.E.N.D.S, irl harassed for being an avid pet owner, and, obviously, belittled over being not an ideal pick for a dating app. The advice given, from most people, is always consistent too. "Just try again, those people just proved they're not worthy of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Should “trapping a man” count as rape by deceit ?If lying to get sex is rape, then absolutely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 03:24 PM |
| 3 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?Who knows? Maybe the child of the people who you're discussing?? Besides the fact, putting forth a scenario where you're essentially just saying, "...But MAYBE..." is FOR SURE a judgement call. This is some of the most internet idiot-brained shit I've seen for several days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?They shouldn't judge other people's relationships? Are you a brain-dead troglodyte, subsisting off licking cave lichens? You are literally passing your judgements on their relationship with their mother, within the same reply judging them for doing so. Holy. Fucking. Shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you care about a women's career or level of educational attainment in a partner?Yes, I care that she has them and is satisfied with her level of expertise within them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implySex has an inherent risk. Sex can cause pregnancy, which a woman will be the primary bearer for the responsibility of. Roe v. Wade SHOULD be federally protected, to ensure that women who do not feel they're capable or responsible at the time are not punished, for the sex they have, with being pregnant or giving birth. Pregnancy is a terrible thing to force a person to go through as a consequence to actions they've done. Men DO NOT have the option to decide that they're not capable or responsible… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 03:49 PM |
| 0 | Single Parent Inherent Rights and Financial Abortion.Sex has an inherent risk. Sex can cause pregnancy, which a woman will be the primary bearer for the responsibility of. Roe v. Wade SHOULD be federally protected, to ensure that women who do not feel they're capable or responsible at the time are not punished, for the sex they have, with being pregnant or giving birth. Pregnancy is a terrible thing to force a person to go through as a consequence to actions they've done. Men DO NOT have the option to decide that they're not capable or responsible… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Using bullshit "science" and self deluded garbage to justify being cruel to women - how can "red pill/manosphere" stuff ever be considered legitimate if they tolerate this community?I don't agree with a majority of the edicts that include inherent judgement in MGTOW/Red-pill. If however, I HAD accepted the principal of focusing on oneself in order to build a base to specifically benefit your future, while being utterly disregarding of all else, I wouldn't be where I am now. I used to be woman obsessed, how else would you describe a guy that housed and fed two different ladies he was dating(not the same time) over 7 years while making under 30k, often under 25k? If I'd spent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Is the virginity rate among women rising too?Wasn't something posted to this sub yesterday about this very issue? And that yes, virginity amongst very young women is also rising? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Redpillers make women not want to date menIf egalitarian policies which focus on alleviating societal disparity are put into place wholesale, then the brunt of reproduction issues which women face now will be drastically reduced, especially mortality rate. That's what that has to do with your points. If you do not seek equitable solutions to deeply ingrained societal issues, you will just see the issues reflected later on. If you do not support men having more reproductive agency in their lives, explicitly to benefit men, then there's n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Redpillers make women not want to date menI think we should have many more social systems in place, so that having a father-figure in a child's life isn't dependent on one person. Until we accept that we're responsible for our most egregious failures in society AND actually manage those factors, nothing will improve. Do you think the agency of a child being born and people being responsible for it should come down to a woman saying yes or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Redpillers make women not want to date menCan't speak to the other claims being made, but here's a thread on my thoughts of abortion being available to men. One deleted post I replied to claimed that vasectomies being mandated at an AGE was a good solution for men's reproductive rights. My reply to that got down voted for saying that forced abortions would be just as appropriate of a solution, in that case. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10pgeb1/rp_and_related_manosphere_ideologies_are_only/j6ndz0z?utm_medium=android… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:29 PM |
| -1 | Redpillers make women not want to date menSounds like a you problem. Similarly any woman who comes to these conclusions and actions after willingly subjecting themselves to shitty, reductive, gendered content of the manosphere has a them problem as well. You're treating men, who've directly benefitted your life, worse after reading about an extremely misguided ideology? TBH keep it up, those men deserve better people than you in their lives and they'll come to that conclusion after enough of your treatment. Inviting judgement into your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:53 PM |
| 3 | I think the main cause of inceldom is lack of social skills.To be fair, the term incel without any clarifying definitions, can quite literally mean anything today. I've seen ex coworkers phones on tinder, where they were called incels for asking "Why?" to the question of "How y'all are you?" I've seen men be called incels for having certain political beliefs, despite that they're married with kids. I've seen men who were previously in long-term psychiatric care due to rape-related trauma be called incels. I had someone implying I was an incel just yester… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are frustrated, and potentially giving up, because of wildly differing opinions from women on the core aspects of relationships.I've never had a "bar" for dating, at least consciously. The people I've been attracted to is usually due to my regular proximity to them, my eventual confession of feelings, and the request of knowing/spending time with one another. I'm typically highly unconcerned with what they consider normal within their lives, as in who've they dated before, who they're friends with now, and what sort of things they're into. Rather, that is to say I'm unconcerned with how I fit into all that; I certainly w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do short guys want to be victimsIt's easier for a lot of them. Being a perpetual victim means you've got only so much agency in the wrongs done to you, if the world rejects you, you cannot be something other than a reject! I will say I've heard some tall women complain about dating. Not most in the sense of finding a guy who's tall enough for her, but rather that it seems like most men who try for them/they try for are intimidated or someway put off by their height. Kinda a funny dichotomy all considered, but I doubt it has mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 10:02 PM |
| 3 | What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship?Ah, I must've just misunderstood the inherit disrespect of calling a bunch of people liars in your opening statement being personal, flagrantly inflammatory, and opening yourself up for unfair criticism. Sorry you can't handle people getting personal, after you explicitly came here to get personal with stories that have literally nothing to do with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 06:04 PM |
| 4 | What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship?More sagely advice for men about how to better pick partners from someone who is divorced from their children's father? Sorry, again I'll regard your story as lazy confirmation bias on how family court treats men totally fairly as long as they ask for custody, as I think you'd said in our first interaction. Prove it, liar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 05:21 PM |
| 4 | What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship?Wasn't it you awhile ago that said you had an amicable, 50/50 custody, divorce with the father of your children? Care to prove that? I have lots of real world examples of the opposite, so you must be lying. 💀 Provide extensive proof please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:39 PM |
| 5 | What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship?Proooojectiooooon. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 04:05 PM |
| 5 | What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship?Fun fact, this piece of shit, weak woman quit/threw the towel in one of her fights because leg kicks were causing too intense pain. So much for being, "fuck you" even on your way down from a KO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | What did you open up about that caused the end of the relationship?Hated my current job, wanted her around on the worst day of the week to talk. She had other days off, and I didn't prevent her from seeing friends, it was a matter of her not wanting to hear my complaints of my work while she did the same thing. Admittedly, I got into the relationship too fast. Cheated on by my ex of 5 years emotionally, 1 year and a month before I met her. I thought I was over that, it'd been just over a year ago after all, and I put the blame onto the person responsible. When … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?As long as men's reproductive rights come down to the last decision being made by someone who is not them, we have a problem. This isn't just an easy band-aid fix though, society isn't just going to let children not be cared for, so other solutions focusing on equity rather than equality is going to be what gets men's reproductive rights to where they need to be. Don't worry, I'm not suggesting that women be forced to carry to term or anything like that, both parties have agency in the actions w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 04:03 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man and you want sex and relationships but aren’t able to get them, you have no right saying women’s standards are unrealisticIt's a matter of real dating. I hate to imply that online dating is somehow lesser, but look at social media. Everyone is their best there, life is only going up, and murky shitty days no-one ever wants to have(pet or family dying, divorce being announced, etc) are just another opportunity to gas-up and talk about how strong you'll be. The internet exacerbates dating life. Social media is designed from the ground up to incite confrontation and jealousy. What's a worse platform for basing your at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What is "status" excatly? Is it your value currently or your value in the future?Status usually signals to me a sense of inherit worth when controlling for other factors of value. I'd personally say I believe it has more to do with your value now, as it is usually tied to things like influence, ownership, and entrepreneurialism which are all things you have or do not have. Then again influence can be something which you'll see having greater effects in the future once decisions made regarding influence have had time to cause an effect. Similarly, when people judge a partner … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:23 PM |
| 6 | Why is a man "responsible" for making a woman cum?Outside of weird fetishes or preferences someone may not be comfortable with fulfilling, I think it's anyone's responsibility to do their best to be pleasing to a person they're sexing. Most people just do not give a shit about the minutia around sex, only online is sex dissected and examined in such detail as to create such questions. Asking someone this in person would get you a confused stare and the answer, "Uhh...because." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI replied to the other person discussing my argument here; I want higher taxes. I want a competent government which ensures financial independence, I want a healthcare system which fucks-off ALL cost for the express purpose of ensuring healthcare access, I want a middle class which is strong enough to give it's government a fucking highschool toilet-swirly when the government fucks up. You're suggesting that my beliefs are as shallow as, "Just write it into law, that'll work!" I am telling you, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 07:04 PM |
| 3 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherThe most important part you neglected to mention being IF the woman chooses to carry the child to term, after a man has waived his rights. Objectively speaking, is a woman killing something when she has an abortion? Yep, a clump of cells. You know why I would never, EVER refer to an abortion as killing a clump of cells? It would be reductive of the arguments and discussions surrounding the issue and cause harm to human rights I consider, should be, inalienable. You've just done the same towards … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 06:27 PM |
| 0 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherI was gonna edit one of my replies to OP to call this out, but like Jesus fuck, why even bother? Great point. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 05:25 PM |
| 0 | RP and related manosphere ideologies are only going to result in women becoming even more selective, less sexually available, and purposely choosing to avoid men altogetherBut let's be clear, I am not a person who will or ever has cheered on these things happening. I will call this out as an issue for which women are responsible, because they are and it should be called out. Women disavowing an action a woman has done doesn't make the issue no longer their issue. Additionally, men cannot be raped, in that way, based on the literal letter of the law in many places. The law does not make provisions for male rape victims in quite a few cases, excluding where those ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/23 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.I said this in a thread the other day, the most desired I've ever felt in a relationship was when my ex wanted me vocally, voraciously, and exclusively. We were having sex 3-6 times a week and it felt like I was high 24/7. It felt like a dream, I'd never experienced something that so thoroughly validated me from a partner before, and have not since. Come to think of it, my previous relationship before that was 5 years of wishy-washy, unenthusiastic sex. Unwilling for any position out of missiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.That sounds like a terrible deal, without gargantuan justifications at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Okay is the wrong word, for my personal spin. Excusable would be a better word. I think it's excusable if someone, man or woman, cheats on a person who is abusive(emotionally, physically, financially) for example. That doesn't mean I'm condoning the action of cheating, the ideal would be that they allow the abuse to speak for itself and remove that person's capabilities of control over them. However, I am a nuanced and introspective person, therefore I understand that being/feeling utterly weak … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | You must pick oneI find that people are walking contradictions without realizing it, more often than they're not that. Really, I think the modern era has actually made being that person A LOT easier, specifically because of the access to information that anyone has. That being said, I think mass access to information is a good thing! Just to be clear lmfao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:01 PM |
| 7 | You must pick oneThis is true, I really like enthusiastic, regular(3-6 times a week) sex. The only time I've had that with an ex felt like a dream TBH, so I know accepting less would have a negative impact on our relationship. Having a lady I like want me vocally, voraciously, and exclusively was like being high 24/7. 🤯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:51 PM |
| 14 | You must pick oneFirst option. I'll make chore days more symbiotic, meaning both of us on specific days go hard for just two hours then we're good. The added benefit being that I do not like makeup, it's bad for women's health, and the industry makes a killing convincing women they need their products to fix whatever they've made them think is wrong with their appearance. I'd be willing to compromise on quite a few things for this + some mutual interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Are there men in your life who are good overall but fail at dating? What does this say about modern dating?It's because they want genuine, deep connection. Most dating is just not about that. Remember the story about Gundam guy? It was an actually heart-melting story of this girl, who ended up making the guy she'd date(and marry) a meme. In one of his opening messages, he literally sent her the text, "I'm going to send you a picture of my Gundam." Of course thinking this was innuendo, she posted about it, exasperated thinking she knew what she was about to receive. Lo and behold, he just liked Gundam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?Yeah I can't say I saw privately schooled kids getting twisted up in all that lol, though I still saw a few getting in with too much drugs and doing dumb shit with cars. I think that has more to do with parental neglect though, specifically not teaching your child just how valuable a disciplined body and mind are as well as failure to properly instill monetary value/consequences in relation to the general privileges provided by the developed country they live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 09:05 PM |
| 4 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I knew guys who were almost exclusively dating from the local highschools when I was employed. It was rough and always ugly, I think about it a lot because I find it odd that both parties would seemingly submit themselves to all this drama and high-profile moodiness over and over. I guess that's what you get if your dating standards don't adjust whatsoever 12 years from becoming an adult though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:26 PM |
| 4 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?I'm going to be 30 very soon. I've had some past experiences that badly damaged my life and self. I'm in MN so I could be icky and date 16y/o but...yuck... I think if I date again I'm not going to really be all that focused on age, more if the expectations and anger of their past is brought into my life, how they handle having shitty people in their life, what are and how do they deal with stressors, and if they have mental issues how much of their worst will they expect me to deal with while re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenBut what is your actual rebuttal to the previous point made, "cum in a woman you don't care enough about to raise a child with"? What do you genuinely believe should be the consequences for a man who does that? As it stands, whether you believe a single mother should or should not bear the majority of responsibility for being a single mother, is irrelevant. The outlining of the scenario you're proposing would literally instantaneously alleviate the main burden shit-tier men face when playing gam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Our ancestors did not get laid for centuries, we threw sh*t at each other and waged tribal warfare in the African savannah until someone figured out that guaranteeing everyone a wife thought monogamy would mean every man has a reason to cooperate and maintain society, this now has been brokenI don't care too much about your assertions regarding modern day problems, hell there's probably some truth in the idea that men fathering children with many multiple women is bad for a society unwilling to shift it's social and community paradigms, I wouldn't doubt that whatsoever. Your assertions that the majority of people were sexless/childless is literally hilarious. The idea of marriage was invented in mesopotamia, a region which was very much about god-kings and the absolute strongest of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 06:10 PM |
| 0 | No, most men DON'T overestimate their own attractivenessParenting might be hard, but it sounds as if your family is working through a hard problem correctly. Well done, make sure to reward a hard working kid for their growth and for the sub to hear something positive and hopeful. My personal suggestion for your son's teen years, make sure that he can spend time doing whatever while his responsibilities are cared for, while still having things he'll want to explicitly do(for fun, to be clear) with his parents. If you do that, it'll make your kid 1000%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 06:50 PM |
| 2 | If you think one gender is superior/has it easier, would you prefer your children be that gender?Great answer. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:55 PM |
| 7 | This entire subBruh there have been women here saying shit like, "the dating market isn't fair for men, and that's a good thing which shouldn't change", then when asked for elaboration say they think men who haven't had sex in 1+ years "are just fucking creepy weirdos" and explicitly said they didn't care about ugly or broke men getting literally used and abused, nor the fact that the legal system would give them more consequences if marriage or claims of abuse were part of the picture. Why even bother debatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 06:03 PM |
| 26 | This entire subI've been called an incel over mic for listing off some weapon spawns on a Halo match, then insisting on my stated spawn points after the girl said otherwise. She threw a fit and demanded a bunch of people leave a discord over it(never swore at her, never called her a name, was a little cheeky once proved right which was after she called me names) and two people actually did leave lmfao. Also been called it for how I had smoked and for the way I've talked to customers in service jobs. People who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:45 PM |
| 2 | The difference between men and women is that the former blame elites for all their problems and the latter blame menYes, I'm sure no massively rich individuals have never conspired to control the public in any way that would be considered significant. Just ignore banana republic's having existed to ensure the availability of crops at the expense of human life and freedom. Or the Koch brothers in general, manipulating elections, access to voting, and even some segregation mixed in? Any diamond trader? Or take Martin Shkreli, I think a bunch of people who need to medicate for HIV/AIDS would 100% disagree that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Do women care more about children than men?Every divorced father I've ever met fought hard for their kids, to the point I've seen them crying hard enough to shake in the middle of work environments, public parks, etc. I would say of those divorced father's I know, most of them had ex-wives threatening to constraint their relationship with their child, none of these divorcees had violence in the relationship necessary to make such an action justified. This is not all father's, just like all mothers are not ready to die for their children,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Men aren’t attracted to real women anymoreThat's wild, you know some toxic fucking dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Men aren’t attracted to real women anymoreEvery single man I personally know, including myself is the opposite of this. I do not want a person who feels the need to be seen as uncontrollably/unnaturally attractive by as many people as possible, I do not think that's a healthy desire. Everyday, I say it's a crying shame that beauty and make-up companies make as much money off of women as they do, doing the severe amount of damage to women's self-image they do, while insisting that things are wrong with them and they need to spend money t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | The whole “Women reward bad guys with sex” complaint isnt just misogynistic. It’s misandranistic too.Lmfao 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?The simple thing about slim pickings is how loneliness wears an individual down. After months/years of zero sexual/romantic contact, a lonely individual is not looking forward to the incoming months/years of zero sexual/romantic contact. Just like youth does, this will make the affected person much more likely to accept less than is deserved in a relationship/ignore red flags/see more than their partner will actually give them. Just like with a surprisingly large subset of women, there's a large… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what should women know about sex?When having sex, I would say no, the experience of feeling good about yourself and your performance is basically exclusively on your partner. After all, that's how you get the problem of starfish sex. One partner in a sexual act believes that their contribution of lying down silently, with little to no feedback before or after should be enough to satisfy who their having sex with. Afterwards, little to no discussion of desires or anything you'd like changed/tried will be received well. You'll be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the anonymity of online platforms brings out the worst in people?Social media is very intentionally designed around creating conflict, it makes users use the app more. 🤷♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What's your stance on the post Roe v Wade vasectomy advocacy?As a man, supporter of abortion, and supporter of abortion rights I think it's hilarious. Women were loud, red-in-the-face, and willing to screech in a man's face even if he was voicing support when they were saying shit like, "We don't need men's opinions on this issue, this is about women's rights!" and "Your opinion on our bodies is irrelevant, it's OUR bodies." Now what's being asked? "Men, use your voice, speak up!" and "Where are all the men? Why aren't men being vocal about their dissatis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 08:46 PM |
| 0 | It seems like a lot of people on here are so afraid of being fucked over that you’re missing out on the dating experienceI don't get how more pay-gap arguers don't get the very basics of the argument; if you reduce the value of jobs which KILL YOU by either literally paying them less, or by paying more for jobs which involve comparatively no risk, then you won't need to worry how much teachers, cleaners, vendors, receptionists, nurses, and child-carers earn. We WILL NOT have the infrastructure to employ the enormous dredge of workers that would immediately get the skills and education to work those jobs! In this s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/22 07:54 PM |
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