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I said spouse, because we are essentially married. i don’t know why you are attacking me so hard
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 06:32 PM
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I agree. A successful man won’t want a lazy woman etc :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 05:46 PM
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i never said it was my number 1 criteria. You’re assuming. i already have a spouse and a great life. i was saying it’s better to pick someone successful over someone not successful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 05:44 PM
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i’m not saying wallet is everything. and yes I agree as a woman you have to also be built up.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 05:43 PM
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They aren’t, but men can never carry a child. Women typically take on default parent & the mental load. Why have a partner who can’t provide a nice life??
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 05:40 PM
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If you’re assuming both men are likely to leave, it’d better to pick the successful one. Why struggle ?
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 05:20 PM
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The ones who try to one up you, are not your friends. They see you as completion and are filled with jealousy. Sometimes women stick around to watch & copy those around them. She’s rude to you because she’s insecure with herself. You aren’t attracting the wrong type of friend - It’s just genuinely hard to make friendships with women. From a 31F. What i’ve learned is that it’s better to be lonely than have these types around. Another thing to consider is quality over quantity when it comes to fri…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 03:50 PM
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I was never a fan of investing in potential, because potentially they could stay the same. The parents being together AND in a healthy relationship makes all the difference.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/25 02:05 PM
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You’re very welcome! You just have to take it slow and try to remain calm and sweet. Don’t try to control him, he’s a man and he’s going to do what he wants ultimately lol try to ease up in all aspects of your life with him, don’t get angry just remain calm and sweet. this is what I’ve been trying to do in my relationship and I do find it helps. add phrases like “oh gosh, this is so hard” things like that LOL. I know it may sound like manipulation, but I feel like you’re just guiding him into he…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 11:18 PM
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NTA. does he often neg/bully you? I don’t tolerate that, because why is he cb putting you down?
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 06:53 PM
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No. He’s looking for a mother. Please do not give up your life
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 03:27 PM
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As somebody else mentioned, there are plenty of men there who would be happy to support that. there’s nothing wrong with wanting what you want. I too aspire to be a homemaker. I recently just had my first taste of it. my Man was so supportive of it. I just want you to know it’s alright to leave your relationship and wait for the right person for you, you should be with a man who wants you to be rested and who wants you to do what you want. If you guys plan on having kids later, just imagine how …
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 11:31 AM
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Thank you! and i’m going to check out Allison Armstrong myself. Any recommendations? I find tone goes alooooong way with requests. Men do really enjoy being and feeling big and strong. Once I started utilizing the whole damsel in distress type of vibe things genuinely became much easier with men. Now it doesn’t mean i’m weak or incapable, but it allows for my man to come and take charge.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/25 05:18 PM
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i’ve found that taking on the damsel in distress sorta vibes. Say things like “oh would you mind helping me with this” “gosh this is hard, could you give me a hand” make sure you express gratitude. Make sure your tone is sweet and kind. i’ve found since i started embodying the “im just a girl mindset” it’s made life easier. Men like to provide and take care. i would also suggest reading the surrendered wife laura doyle, she has sooo many good tips. You can’t force him to do anything of course. L…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/25 03:30 PM
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Everybody does have a right person. And you won’t be too much for the right person. It’s ok that we don’t have the same thought :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/25 05:50 PM
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when a man is interested, it’s definitely quite obvious in my opinion, one big thing is that he will definitely ask questions. I always think of this “ if he wanted to, he would” the conversation will flow smoothly, and it won’t feel awkward
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/25 04:38 PM
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I’m a glasses wearer and am going to wear my glasses for my wedding day. I want to resemble my wedding photos. You can also take them off for some photos too. I feel like glasses are bridal because they are you!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/25 10:47 PM
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I personally try to avoid these conversations. I have wildly different views than a lot of the people that I know. edit - double word
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/25 11:03 PM
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No its not hopeless, and you won't be a burden. I've got some quirks - lots of mental illness and my man loves me unconditionally. You will never be too much for the right person.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/25 06:04 PM
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Yes! I love to pay, with our joint credit card.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 04:12 PM
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I'd run personally. However if you enjoy being the breadwinner thats okay. However, It seems like he wants tradition, without him being traditional. and also why is it fair the he would get to stay home with the kids while you work? like good for him being so "woke" but also thats prime bonding time for mom imo #3 bothered me. do not let this continue. You should leave based on this alone. Is he going to slap the children when they misbehave too? Going to call them names too? Can you imagine if …
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/25 02:25 AM
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you are reading into 3 words. You are encouraging childish behavior. This isn't a cringe tiktok video where someone presents evidence of cheating - this is real life, their real relationship. Adults communicate. They are adults. I'm not engaging any further into this with you. Have a good night!
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 03:21 AM
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OP I encourage to just end the relationship - if you don't want to do it face to face, just do it via text and block him. You don't have to send him reasons or get into details. its okay to just end it and move on. I hope you can find a man who will not cheat on you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 03:11 AM
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you're sitting here over analyzing 3 words. I don't need to elaborate on everything I say. get a grip.. Next time i'll make sure to clarify, so a man like you can understand better :-) You're going a tangent here because you feel like she needs to go out of her way to do some unnecessary tasks to explain why she left. He is obviously going to understand why she left. They are grown ups. They don't need to provide evidence. Clearly this man she has does not care as he cheated. Hope that helps.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 03:04 AM
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I never said all men are bad. I said don't waste time on a man who is cheating and does not respect her. lmao. You are projecting. women don't need to spend time feeding a mans ego by leaving a "i caught you cheating" type of thing printed out. Thats so silly. Best of luck buddy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 02:46 AM
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So if you were cheating on a girl you'd want her to waste her time and do that for you? wild lmao
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 02:28 AM
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men don't care though, by going through that shes spending her energy - when he doesn't care. its a waste of time.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 02:19 AM
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this is doing too much lol
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 01:40 AM
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This!! He will only convince her to stay
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 01:18 AM
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This, its a waste of your time. Find a man who doesn't cheat. Confronting does nothing.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 01:18 AM
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I'd leave. He doesnt respect you
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/25 01:13 AM
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Please don't give up. There are still lots of traditional men out there. Working and taking care of the house is insane. Men will never have to get pregnant. Nor take on the motherhood role. It will never be equal, never settle. I firmly believe 50/50 is for roommates. You can find a high earning provider. Majority of men are low earning boys who think their women should work & clean the house and raise the kids. It'll take time but will be worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/25 02:26 AM
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It is hard to attract the right man, which is why you have to put the work in - thats why I added what helps. It takes alot of work to enter into the feminine side
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/25 01:38 PM
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Yes, I have. It takes alot of hard work. I did alot of reading. It also takes the correct man - in his masculine energy. what helps: Moving slow, feminine hobbies, trying to speak softer, focusing more on doing researching on what is feminine/masculine
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/25 01:28 PM
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Yes. However the right person will ensure you aren’t being hurt in anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 04:54 PM
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I personally don’t feel like you doing multiple jobs at home is provider energy. I’m proud of you for standing up and setting that boundary. You should suggest he get a WFH job and homeschool the kids since it’s such a priority.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 01:10 PM
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This!! I am so happy for you. A man will move mountains when he wants you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 05:36 PM
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I think its the man not you. I don't find it appropriate for men to be lusting after other women on social media. If you aren't feeling secure in the relationship, its likely him - not you. Once I found the right man, I no longer felt anxious about what he was doing online, or etc. its the man not you. I could never be with a man who doesn't respect me enough to not engage in the lusting of other women online, its humiliating tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/25 03:57 PM
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I do see the same patterns. There are also a lot of new age men who want princess treatment. Modern culture did sell women a lie, for awhile i too thought "being independent is so fun" until I discovered why I wanted to be in my feminine energy. Its also okay for people to be in the type of relationship they prefer. I agree its about finding the right type of man.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/25 01:22 PM
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thats negging lol. i personally avoided all men like this. i dont want to feel insecure or bullied with a man. a man should be bringing you up. i find negging is a man showing you he doesnt like you
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 11:37 PM
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No. I feel when a man goes for a girl who isn't his type he will always have wandering eye. He should also be SURE of you, and hes making fun of you ? thats negging.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/25 11:20 PM
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I would probably leave. He will either baby trap you or think that you’ll change your mind. These are your prime years - don’t waste them 30F also child free
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 12:46 AM
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Yes. When he does that it shows he’s only looking to get the kitty cat. Once he gets what he wants even if it’s just sexual talk he will view you differently.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 06:24 PM
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i agree with what you’re saying. God should come first always. i adore my man and want to serve him but that’s because he’s a good man and makes my life great. Not all men deserve this treatment.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/25 12:03 AM
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You are 100% allowed to feel that way. However, don't allow your judgement to be clouded by what you see online as that is not real. I would suggest focusing on higher education as you have a good situation where you don't have financial stress. This would allow you the lifestyle you seek. As you age a little you will find that materiel things become less important
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/25 03:30 PM
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I love traditional gender roles as well. My previous relationship he was an absolute slob and was a mess of a man. My fiancé now is amazing and tidy. It can be easy to miss read flags when you want love. Its just the men you're picking and tolerating. Men are not messy and gross. You are just dating the wrong men. Its okay to go slow with this men and eliminate them from the roster. you have to determine how to pick a good man and how to not rush into things - especially don't get pregnant until…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/25 08:03 PM
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Yes all women should be aware of finances and how to pay bills. No we have only joint accounts, we are a team. Soon to be married. 50/50 is for roommates. Marriage is for those who work has a team. Right now it’s only him working, (breadwinner he’s always been the breadwinner) however it was the same when I was working.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 08:06 PM
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I recently had a conversation with my fiance, He said he would feel emasculated if I was doing the finances. I am aware of our finances and know how to pay all of our bills if needed. I do keep a detailed spreadsheet for us to track things, but otherwise its his job. I feel like its more of a masculine task (unless you're an accountant, and would be better at it)
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/25 07:24 PM
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Yes!! I just came here to comment both of these lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/25 05:36 PM
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your number of partners does not define your worth. I have spoken to men who have slept with 20-50 women lol. you also don’t have to tell anyone your body count. That’s for you to know and you only.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/25 03:56 AM
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It doesn’t bother me when a man watches porn on occasion, but undress AI seems so weird and would give me the ick so bad
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 12:36 PM
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ooof, you avoided a major red flag imo. at your age i also dated a 35 year old, was the worst relationship of my life, once the frontal lobe develops its easier it root through the men. if he negged early on, also a bad sign. Men should be putting their best foot forward, at the start of the relationship. There's a reason at that big age he's still single. You avoided major trauma. I have also dated older men who used the ""just a little interesting" line. lolll
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 01:27 AM
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For one, you being early 20s and him being 35. Major red flag. also him making fun your boundary of not sleeping with him is major red flag. I am so proud of you for sticking with this!!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/25 01:04 AM
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but it’s not though lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 12:56 PM
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This is an odd comment. I’m sure my traditional views limit what i’m capable of, and that’s fine with me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 12:05 PM
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Personally I believe that I want to take care of my man because I love him, I cook & clean for him because I enjoy doing it. He’s also an amazing person and a great provider. I don’t think all men are created equally, if something happened to him I couldn’t see myself ever being with another man again. I love when women have careers,it’s not who I am. However I will soon enter back into the workforce to get a job, but it won’t be my career. My ideal career is homemaker lol. it brings me joy to t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/25 12:00 AM
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Exactly my point. There are so many men out there that she hasn’t experienced.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 09:15 PM
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then you’re going to be even unhappier when you move in together 😭😭😭😭 been there done that girl. it’s harsh because I only wish that someone had given me this type of advice when I was in that type of situation. it’s not going to change when you move in together. I promise you there is a man who can knock your socks off whenever you want
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/25 01:07 AM
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This isn’t going to work long term. Why do you want to move in with someone who doesn’t make you happy sexually???
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 11:33 PM
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It’s literally not. People in normal relationships to do not post about them on reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/25 11:07 PM
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clearly OP mentioned that 9 months later she finds her boyfriend with many feminine qualities. She’s also posting on reddit about it, People in good relationships don’t make whole posts wanting other people to basically decide for them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/25 09:58 PM
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it will but it’s odd to question comparability
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/25 08:59 PM
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i'm not married yet lol. Even at the year mark I knew I couldn't live without him. I have never once questioned my desire to be with him. The fact shes posting here is a huge indicator that she may not be happy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/25 06:55 PM
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Do you feel like you could live without him? If the answer is yes then leave. I feel like I couldn’t live without my spouse. You also have to remember that the grass won’t be greener on the other side. No relationship will be 100% perfect. I do think sense of humour is huge though.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/25 05:05 PM
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You just have to weed them out. its not super difficult to pick good men (its tricky but not impossible)
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/25 02:07 AM
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exclusive and girlfriend and totally different - exclusive means you're the only person he's with girlfriend is a different title. i personally wouldn't sleep with a man until we had the gf/bf title
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/25 03:17 PM
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exactly!! if a man can’t wait a few weeks he’s not worth it
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/25 12:44 AM
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This!! love it
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 08:49 PM
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until you’re exclusive. If he can’t wait he’s not worth it. I find you have sex before hand he will view you as just kitty cat and not girlfriend material. With my now fiancé we waited until he asked me to be his girlfriend. I don’t like hookup culture
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/25 08:48 PM
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i’m sorry you went through this. A high value man who refer to themselves as high value. They will also actually take care of themselves. It’s better to be single than to be with a guy like that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/25 12:48 PM
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I genuinely feel like when men hate women it’s because they aren’t attracted to them sexually. And this is just from personal experience. he should not be saying things like that to you about other women because why is he even thinking about other women?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 02:10 AM
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The honest answer is that you can’t. You can’t make a man like you. Sometimes when a man hates women like that it’s because he may not be interested in women, and this is something you just need to analyze within yourself and analyze within his actions to understand because the honest answer is, he may not like women at all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 01:48 AM
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he treats you fine? Fine isn’t usually a good way to answer that question for example, my fiancé treats me amazing. I would never think to answer fine. when a man has anger issues that’s not a good sign. I personally would never be with someone who gets angry, but that’s just me. The answer to your question is your boyfriend probably does hate you as much as he hates other women. Usually when a man hates one woman, he hates them all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 01:22 AM
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omg you’re right!
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 01:21 AM
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How does he treat you?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/25 01:08 AM
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I believe in manifesting but you can’t be a loser and expect prince charming, you’re totally right in that. Rich men want a woman who is high maintenance looking and intelligent. They certainly don’t want couch potatoes. It takes work and effort to maintain that type of relationship as well.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 10:53 PM
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of course, you can’t be a lazy woman and expect him to want to provide lol - but this is usually understand
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 10:15 PM
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No. I would pick someone that can support you now. Don’t fall in love with the potential. It doesn’t make you a gold digger - it makes realistic of the lifestyle you want. Many will disagree, but as a woman there are sooo many broke men / men who can’t provide. It’s important to make sure you find a good provider. Majority of men cannot give you this lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/25 07:47 PM
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Stop putting energy into men who don’t show commitment. When a man is interested you’ll know it. Men WILL tell you what they mean and show you by action. Your male friend is giving you bad advice, you have to decenter men. I find that helps.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/25 05:01 PM
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a good way to discuss it saying something along the lines of "if we moved in together how would that look financially" I've always told men that I prefer traditional provider men, politely of course. simply state what you like, the right man will not take this the wrong way imo. I have a provider man and he is great! You aren't looking for a roommate, (50/50) you're looking for him to continue providing. I don't think I've ever paid for a date ive been on lol, all about how you phrase it
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 12:29 AM
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If you don’t have a label you are free to date others imo. He may be amazing but how amazing is he if he won’t add a label. 3 months is plenty of time to determine if he wants to make you his girlfriend. If he can’t add a label now, imagine how difficult it may be when it come times to propose
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/25 03:31 PM
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There’s also a massive pay gap between those two jobs.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/25 03:17 AM
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Show genuine interest in his likes, if he likes baseball for example learn about his favourite teams etc. This always worked well for me. You can always get him to explain the sport (if you are not into sports)
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 09:49 PM
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I don’t think women love working at coffee shops as an example, but I feel the women in high paying fields enjoy their jobs and those who have rich husbands have a choice enjoy their careers, but it’s not all women.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 04:39 PM
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I did, “Buckle up you’re going to be a single mother” this means get ready you’re going to be a single mother. That was the advice. There was no sugar coating.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 04:38 PM
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I can understand this, however I love when I see women who are taking advantage and becoming something. It’s incredible to me to see female doctors, scientists etc. I personally do not love working, I have never had the desire to climb the career ladder. I have always desired being a stay at wife. For the past few months i’ve been living the stay at home wife dream, but it’s not sustainable long term. I’ve been using my time off to bake more, workout and just relax & overall self improvement. It…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 04:27 PM
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I have made plenty of mistakes in my life. But at this point there’s no need to sugar coat her situation. Being a single mother is not a easy situation, she’s already stated she works two jobs six days a week. I’m not sure where she is going to have the time or funds to raise the baby. I was raised by a single mother, we lived in poverty. It’s a hard situation. there is literally no sugarcoating it’s make it easy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 04:12 PM
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I agree. She’s looking for validation and acceptance, but the reality is she knew what she was doing. “we argued all the time, but still tried for a baby” like ??? this blew my mind. You cannot raise a baby in a healthy environment with a man who is causing tension all the time. I don’t know why women stay in relationships that weren’t working and then throw a literal child into it as well.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/25 12:26 AM
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Why are you so heated? This woman knew she was taking risks sexually. She is now pregnant. The man does not want to take responsibility she now has to take responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 10:29 PM
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you’re right i haven’t been pregnant because i wouldn’t get pregnant without a ring on my finger. I’m not being awful, i’m being honest.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 09:27 PM
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this man has clearly decided he doesn’t want to be a father. i’m not going to sugarcoat for her. she made a choice and now this is the end result. he is not interested in parenthood. Women really need to understand when a man is not interested. and like the mother’s advice absolutely wild. In 90 days he’s going to find a new partner.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 09:15 PM
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Buckle up, You’re going to be a single mother.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/25 08:51 PM
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i think bringing up enagagrment is important but when you say “if you don’t propose by x date” it’s an ultimatum
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 11:50 AM
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there’s a huge difference between a date and marriage but clearly you don’t want to understand, so best of luck!
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 02:02 AM
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That’s still an ultimatum no matter what way you try to swing that.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 01:00 AM
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I wouldn’t make a man try to marry me. like what do you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 01:00 AM
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There isn’t one you don’t force a man to marry you lol
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/25 12:42 AM
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I wouldn’t do a forced proposal.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/25 09:50 PM
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I generally didn’t go on a date with a man until we had texted for at least a week to make sure that we both aligned, and to make sure we have the same texting vibes. It also gave me a good chance to ask many questions to ensure we aligned in that way as well. I don’t believe in hook up culture, so I made that very clear from the beginning. At some point, I stopped sleeping with men until we were in an official relationship. I feel like once a man gets you in bed, he no longer views you as serio…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/25 05:20 PM
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