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Question For MenYuekiXC/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:45 AM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:52 PM
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Other than being tall
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:08 PM
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As you should 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:05 PM
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His description just screamed 6+ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:04 PM
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I don't watch them anymore because I finally realized that most of the women they bring on the show are women I will never even date. However, I did learn somethings from F&F (I wasn't new to the Red or black pill, as I've been following TRP for years when I started watching) The key thing that most dudes should take away from F&F is that at the end of the day, women in our age will have way more options that us dudes will ever have. From this, you can theorize whatever you want. And to challeng…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:02 PM
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Thanks for telling me this? Really makes me feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:50 PM
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This is one of the reasons why I stopped looking for women. I would never be able to keep her excited, as I'm a very boring person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:03 PM
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This is why I don't blame women going after chads tbh. A lot of them to be romantics because they have tend to have their interests reciprocated, unlike the "weird nerdy" dudes who probably has never had a girl talk to him in a romantic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:56 PM
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Any other dudes here use r/sex or r/relationships as rage fuel LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:49 PM
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Only for the attractive ones, which is why I personally don't get the whole "popularization" from a Korean POV. If you aren't attractive, your SMV simply doesn't matter, no matter how much clothes you buy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 04:15 PM
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You know what, im gonna call that the iphone test now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:20 AM
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If there is one thing I've learned from older men (and trust me it's not a lot because frankly I despise most older boomers and millennials), it's not to get married in this age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:47 PM
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Imagine wanting women to care about a man's problem. Bro, I'm in the same boat as you and I will never expect women to ever care about our issues, period. Too many biological and pyschological differences. I heard this good quote that really helps explain this difference between men and women, "Men are born to die, woman are born to live." Sure, it might be too much of a generalization, but it gets the point across nicely. How can a women, who was born to do something entirely else from a man, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:29 PM
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Bro needs a grammar lesson, this shit hurts my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 03:52 AM
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You say/think that and I don't blame you, but I think of what would've been required in order to even reach that point, which is way more than the coffee and the kind gesture, as I'm sure you're aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:08 AM
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Apologies then, I was referring to your statement about "then I prefer betas," not you being a beta (beta pretty much refers to men either way), while clearly knowing that you have the usual female dating mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:46 AM
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Then it dawned on me: Ugly people are not being created by unattractive men. They are being largely created by unattractive women who use make-up to appear more attractive then they are. ... This is eye opening tbh. Never thought about it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:35 AM
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You're a women, who hangs out in a gender debate forum, who isn't a serial femcel or FDS poster. Your actions speak volumes about your experience, just like the rest of the women here. Betas settle, which explains why there are a lot of them in relationships. I'll admit that even I have the urge to settle and choose the easy path, but I'd rather die than reduce myself like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:30 AM
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Well, you're a bit wrong with the theory then. Beta isn't "cute/average" persay, it just describes a dude who fails to get pussy because of his looks, status, and height, which is why money usually is used to achieve some sort of sexual activity. This is why I said what I said, regardless of your dating experience (you don't have to tell me, I already have a good clue). "Focus on what a women does, rather than what she says."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:59 AM
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Your dating experience most likely differs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:49 AM
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I don't see it as torture, but God's perfect plan. Women, due to their inheritant nature, slowly but sure bring in better genes every generation. I don't personally care about the "species" as I don't have kids, but I'm at peace now and I find his plan to be brilliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:40 AM
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I get tattoos to remind myself of my regrets and mistakes, not for fucking women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:37 AM
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A dude here said it perfectly but I'll add my own version to it. I was a big romantic growing up, but at some point, I realized that things like that are only meant for a certain small percentage of the population. No matter how much time in the gym, money spent on clothes, there is nothing that can improve a man's looks to the same extent a women can (women going from 2 to 6, while men go from 2 to 4). No matter how much other women here, blue pilled feminist allies, or old boomer/millennial ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:32 AM
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Fine, if you pee while powerlifting of course. Fuckk 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:58 AM
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Fixed my appearance, developed a sense of style , worked on how I spoke to others. Got some hobbies and started being more social. And will you look at that suddenly men that I actually was interested in were paying attention to me. This is typically only a female only experience. Most men will get nothing out of self improvement if it was to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:16 AM
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Never would I have thought that I would see the day an 18 year old girl tries to give dating advice to men and charges too 💀. Anyways, it seems like your whole post was just saying "go to the gym" or the stereotypical "just shower bro." I've heard this too much and I'll be happy to shoot this one down as well. For women, improving their looks will always up their chances at getting a relationship due to the fact that they are a female. For men however, going to the gym or buying new clothes gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:07 AM
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I'm not the OP, but I just want to say that those are some wise words, but at the end of the day, I choose to still live by red pill principles. I'd rather die alone than become some beta cuck provider for a women who doesn't even like me for who I am (which is a lot of women I assure you).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:09 PM
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Well hopefully the men here that are desperate for a partner realize that in a relationship, it was only his turn and she was never his. You're right though, a lot of dudes here still believe in oneistis 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:07 PM
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And why are they desperate for attention? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:35 PM
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Tbh, I would rather die over an AI women vs an irl women, just because of the fact that at least she might have been programmed to like me while an irl women never even gave me a look
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:18 PM
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I agree, but I want to try to make you see another view as well (which is why I'm not posting this in the automod) I'm of the belief that if this women isn't 100% into you, and you shower her with affection, than this will happen. Most people (men and women) don't know what they want, and when it comes to relationships, this applies to women especially. So if she isn't 100% into you, this will cause that "ick." So not the "majority of women" or "women," just women who aren't into you 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:03 PM
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I am a 17 years old male. I fail to see there is a saying called "don't fix what's not broken", Bro you're 17, what the fuck do you know 🤣. Come back once you're able to go to the bar and have to pay for drinks in order to get women to talk to you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:14 PM
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Chad can play 1000+ hours of game time compared to me, and still have a roster of girls to call whenever he feels like fucking. Your husband's argument means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:08 AM
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That describes a lot lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:55 PM
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Chad is on his phone way more than I will ever be, and he has a roster of girls to call to fuck. Your argument means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:50 PM
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Exactly man. I never realized how emotionally ugly/damaged a lot of women are. Makes sense when you think about it though. Most women are able to go through at least 20+ relationships through their lifetime at minimum. Think about what that does to a women, especially if those experiences have been negative. This is why im personally glad to be a man. Especially as a virgin, I've had a lot of time to self reflect on myself and my environment, and came to the realization that I value my own times…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 09:14 PM
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That's the mentality I adopted a while back. I just don't have the time for women who constantly talk about their ex/want to go back to them. It's frankly annoying and my more "romantic/simp" side died a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:15 PM
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When I was in the dating market, maybe 2-3, but they were never interested, which I understand as I'm not the best looking dude nor are they female oriented hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:11 PM
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They aren't your typical "foot in the door" methods for the average dude, including myself. Maybe if I had an extra level to my looks, my personal interests would've made an impact in the dating market, but it never happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:10 PM
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Of course I do, but I don't share my hobbies with most of the women I interact with. I've learned a long time ago that most of my personal hobbies mean nothing when it comes to attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:55 PM
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Interested to see the replies. Im under the assumption that most women are at least somewhat bi, even the religious ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:04 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:34 PM
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Isn't this common knowledge?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:30 PM
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I just don't trust women nor do I respect them, which is why Im not upset that women really don't like men as much anymore. I only see women as eye candy these days to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:09 AM
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I don't get this as well as when women try getting back with their ex who constantly abused them physically or mentally. I'll never understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:06 AM
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The big difference between men and women is that for a majority of women, self improvement will get her a partner, while for men, self improvement does not guarantee a partner. Hence why, men, do not do self improvement just to get a partner. Do it for yourself only.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:03 AM
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Real
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:59 AM
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Female nature is more 'facist-like" than Hitler could ever have been fr
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:50 AM
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This dude fucks. Physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:45 AM
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I guess it's just a me thing cause I'd rather spend time on my hobbies than go to the gym, but I start feeling like I wasted all the years I've gone to the gym if I miss a day
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah, I initially started for women, but now I just hit the 1000lb club and it's more like a sunken cost fallacy for me. I've put too much time into the gym for me to just quit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:48 PM
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Yes, men are definitely seen as expendable by both men and women and this will never change. I did my time in the military, but if a war popped off, I wouldn't mind fighting, bevause even though war is horrible and nobody should ever experience it, there is a part of me that wants to experience it and I bet it exists in all men to some degree as well. But there is a certain beauty in being seen as expendable that women will never experience. You just have to be able to leverage those effects tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:26 PM
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A comment said the same thing, but I'll add my own analysis as well. Women are very socially constructed so they care what people think of them, but I believe it's from their biology/evolution that causes women to be like this. Women were always at the mercy of men, and although in this age, I'd say most women are equal or have more power over men in a lot of things, but female biology still persists to this day in other aspects, such as dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:37 PM
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I remember working those brutal jobs when I was a young man, and I remember what I was capable of doing at that time. Exactly. I never worked a blue collar job before the military, but those moments when it was just the guys, all tired as fuck, working throughout the day without food sometimes, it's something that most women will never understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 05:21 PM
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I'm not from the deep south so ik that most women I interact with are not virgins and have been with several men or they aren't religious lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:59 AM
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Kanna Hashimoto and Minami Hamabe 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:49 AM
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One bj away from the plantation 😭, this is what scares me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:26 AM
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female partners as people or enjoy their non-sexual company, I have found most women to not be wife material these days so I'm going to have to say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:36 PM
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Hooah
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 12:29 PM
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I didn't make the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:40 PM
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I need whatever youre smoking bro, maybe that'll finally make me happy again LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:18 AM
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I began to actively pray for a righteous, attractive, good, healthy and loving wife and that I will be a righteous, attractive, good, healthy and loving husband for her. I consider myself somewhat of a Christian (I'm definitely not that "white version" of Christianity though), but bro, "soulmates?" Even as a kid, I knew that was the peak of non existent fantasy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:09 AM
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Yes, and a majority of them are typically male
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:51 AM
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Nope, this is childish thinking. Everyone does not deserve love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 03:51 AM
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I've realized something about myself. I found myself blaming women because I was disappointed by how different female dating worked, but I got it wrong. The issue is me. For the longest time, I thought I could find that dream girl, but now I realize it's because I kept dreaming of this "dream girl" that never existed. She might be out there, but I don't have the looks or status to ever reach that world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:54 AM
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Interesting, good luck ig
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:31 AM
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What is the point of being friends with a woman? Do you guys even have anything in common?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 03:29 AM
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FUCK I JUST WASTED MY FUCKING PRECIOUS TIME TALKING TO A GIRL THAT JUST WANTS TO TALK ABOUT HER EXS. FUCK WHY DO I KEEP TRYING FUCK IM SO STUPID
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:10 AM
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FTR, this is the third man in this thread advocation lying about hobbies and interests. Of course, why would a dude try using "hobbies/interests" as a way to get a romantic relationship? And no, this "dude" is not Chad, he is part of the 80% of men on this planet. Nor does this dude just want to be friends, that's some stuff women want. Brought to you by the same people who are unilaterally outraged by the divorce rate. I personally don't care about the divorce rate. That's on the men who decide…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:02 AM
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This is the real red pill. Go where you are desired. Find out what styles attract the type of women you want. For example, for my POC men, don't try dating in an area that has always been predominantly white. That's just gene pool suicide. Research where your native diasporas/enclaves exist or go overseas if you have the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:49 PM
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Telling women up front “I’m kinda shy, have nerdy hobbies, I like to read, not a fan of clubs or loud music… along with a list of hobbies and interests would go a long way in relating to others who share the same habits. Please, if you're a dude who happens to be exactly what she described, DO NOT DO THIS IF YOU WANT ANY CHANCE OF BEING WITH A GIRL. She is saying this because she is imagining a friend zone, not a romantic/sexual one or a "shy/nerdy" Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:42 PM
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Is that not normal? Nope, that is what most men dream of having, but it really is like a job interview most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:53 PM
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I'm personally glad that porn of such high quality is around. Ive given up on women/relationships a long time ago and I'm too busy to go to escorts most of the time. Modern day porn gives men that view into a world that most dudes will probably never experience unless they spend money on escorts or waste time trying to date
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:51 PM
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I've never been in a relationship before and only have one sexual experience from 2 years ago with an escort. I just dont know if that sounds worth it just for the sake of increasing my chances of finding a woman. Bro, this is coming from a dude just a couple years older than you. If you haven't had a single relationship before 21, you already know what the future is going to look like. I also highly recommend not thinking about "finding a women." Especially this age, most women our age are not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:43 PM
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Paragraphs please 😭 that shit hurts my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:36 PM
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We get it bro, youre a Chad and you fuck 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:18 PM
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Boomer mentality 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:34 PM
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Bro women do lust after men's bodies, just not yours 😭 You still have time to take this post down man before you end up exposing yourself more fr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 11:23 PM
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I'll admit that some of the sex dolls out are so realistic that they look better than actual women sometimes, but I'm talking about robots that can move, cook, talk, etc by themselves. Once that happens, I don't know a single reason why men would pursue a real flesh and blood woman tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:50 PM
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Hmm I think the two most important factors for the current scenario we have today are: The sexual/economic freedom women have received (I agree with your post) Too many men compared to women In the past, wars usually solved number two, but obviously we don't have massive wars anymore. I think the only realistic solution is sex robots imo, which is probably like 300+ years out, but who even knows what the world will be by then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:26 PM
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For context, I left the military for two reasons: To go back to school To live with my mom as she's very dependent on me I'm a very filial son (Asian background) which is why I don't mind having my mom live with me until she passes away, as I don't want to stick her in some retirement home. Growing up without a father, it wasn't as bad, cause I grew up in that age where video games were becoming extremely popular. My mom taught me whatever she could as a single mom, which I'm always thankful for…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:01 PM
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u/wtknight please hold her to the same standards as you guys do for the crazy men on here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 02:13 PM
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Don't even have to worry about me, I don't participate in the dating market or in the gene pool as of right now. You still have a good top 10-20% of the male population to worry about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:41 PM
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Yeah that's something I've noticed too as well. I don't play as much games as I used to, but when I did, I did have some female friends here and there, but those friendships, when taken outside of the gaming community, rarely continue on for long. The only common thing between a dude and a girl was the game, nothing else. Can't talk about locker room stuff cause she's either gonna get disgusted or scared. Can't do stuff like working out together because she's usually already in a relationship or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:01 PM
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I've never had a "companionship" with a women as I have never learned anything useful or had meaningful self reflection with a women other than my mother. I've had multiple situations where when push came to shove, the only people I could relatively trust my back to were the dudes to my left and right, not my mom, female peers, or s/o. I can say with confidence that most men will never experience "companionship" with a women outside of a relationship cause man and women live in two different wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:50 PM
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I see no other reason to be in a committed relationship if a family or kid isn't involved. Most women these days aren't wife material and are not to be trusted (could be said for men as well tbh). Besides, the women that I want don't exist either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:32 PM
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I always thought it was because the fat girl in a girl's group always tries to cockblock dudes from getting with her friends tbh. Side note, personally, I won't say anything straight to a fat girls face that she looks horrible cause that's straight to HR for me. With my guy friends though, I'll let them know that they're starting to look like a fat piece of shit and that they should probably start getting a hold of themselves. Idk why women don't do the same in girl groups. All I see is them lyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:26 PM
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I really fucking hope not. I basically described an utter harpy. Everything comes down to cost/ROI and her looks. If I only have to pay the equivalent of some fancy dinner meal to get sex instead of the usual 300-500+ it usually costs for an escort, I don't care if she is a "harpy." Her looks also play a factor in how much motivation I'll have to even entertain the idea of buying or providing something. Why bother staying then? What benefit would you gain? Again, cost/ROI. If it's cheaper than b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:12 PM
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Such as disregard your opinions, only has sex after you buy her things, admits that she's not attracted to you except as a provider, Pretty sure this is the reality of the situation for most men in their 30s who have to deal with women who are setting down. Tbh, nothing in your "horrible" description sounded horrible, it described the attitude of most women when they're settling for the average dude. As long as I don't marry her and have a kid with her, I'd be in a relationship with her. It's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:51 PM
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Jfc, typical women mindset fr 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:15 PM
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I feel you man, and I'm a bit younger than you. Growing up seeing women's true nature made me bitter and jaded af. I think I can finally understand why a lot of women straight up don't trust men after seeing how men truly act, as most dudes act without that "social filter" most women do. I went out with my sister's bf and her, and whenever they started acting all lovely, I couldn't help but cringe inside. I might not become a cheater, but I don't think I can ever take women seriously anymore, bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:44 AM
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This is why I advocate men to always carry at least a gerber/multitool on them. A quick helpful tool when you need it and a knife when someone is trying to threaten you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:41 PM
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I advocate for men to not get too invested in the study itself, but what it means. The majority of women only find the top percent of men attractive in any given society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:59 AM
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Why do we always tell dudes who have a fundamental issue attracting women to go straight towards the bar scene and OLD? Like don't get me wrong, I totally agree with the gym part, but most men here aren't going to go straight to the bar and start talking to women there. I truly believe that for most men who struggle with women, they should throw any ideas of women/dating out of there heads and involve themselves in some form of healthy but aggressive sport/hobbies, like boxing or some form of we…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:05 PM
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Bro you're posting on a sub where the majority of the women lean left and have some very negative takes on the "patriarchy." Give it some thought fr
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:25 PM
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Damn ... I'm sorry bro. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:35 PM
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This is the vibe I felt too. It seems like just another attention seeking title for women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:04 PM
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Ngl, this is how a lot of my friends perceive women where I work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:55 AM
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What does demi sexual mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:50 PM
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Although I'm not in favor of the current gender dynamics (top 20% of men for 80% of women), I'm glad I was born in this age. Do whatever I want and when I grow up, I'll have a large enough taxpayer base for me to retire. Don't really care what happens once I die, so I don't really care about society as much anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 05:48 PM
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There is no advantage for men when it comes to women and dating. God and nature intended it to be that way. Once you accept this, you'll already be on your way to becoming who you truly are, for the better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:25 AM
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Exactly but that's why I strive to be the best at whatever I do and give good first impressions to anyone I meet, especially my seniors and bosses. Im not oblivious to the power most women have when it comes to things like HR, which is why I have plans like witnesses, being good friends with the higher up men who I work with, and lying to women I meet at work that I'm in a relationship, in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:11 PM
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This is why I'm lowkey terrified of interacting with women at the gym or work without any other male witnesses/friends around me. My word compared to a women's word is nothing when it comes to law/ethics. I've seen too much shit similar to this happened where I work, which is why I try to keep conversations short and usually put a distance between myself and a women in those environments. Chad can have the women, I just want my job and my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:16 PM
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Just copying and pasting my response from another post. This is an opinion coming from a Korean dude, so I definitely don't have those rose tinted glasses that a lot of my white bros have when talking about geomaxxing/passporting up. No matter where you go on this earth, women will always be women. It's just the cultures that add the main differences in personality and interaction with other human beings. If you're trying to move to another country with the sole purpose of having sex with a wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 11:08 PM
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I'd rather die than be an ungrateful son
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:36 PM
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Mainly my looks and personality. I work out but it'll never improve my base looks. Personality wise, I'm just a very boring person, which never did me any justice while trying to talk to women. I tried to change both aspects but I just felt disgusted trying to be someone I didn't see myself as just for a women that probably won't give me a simple hello either way. Maybe if I had more drive to get laid (as I'm still a virgin) I'd go out and talk to more women, but I frankly don't have the passion…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:27 PM
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Nah, I've dipped my feet in the dating game and I know that if I tried to approach women as myself, I wouldn't get a girlfriend. I used to try and trick myself/cope into thinking that it wasn't me that was the problem, but the facts have shown me that I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:19 PM
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I grew up very poor and my mom sacrificed everything to raise me so I basically owe her my life. I trust my mom's input/perspective over any women either way. I'm just ashamed and scared of eventually telling my mom the truth, as I've been making excuses for a long time now ...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:08 AM
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Damn, as sad as it is to hear that you're in the same situation as me, I'm glad I'm not the only one dealing with this issue. That's also the same mindset I adapted a couple of years once I fully accepted my fate. Lost interest in most girls and relationships and solely focusing on my job/money so I can take care of my mom before she passes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:58 AM
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This is what is going to kill me in the future. My mom told me that if I don't have a family, she'll die of sadness. She just doesn't understand the different society most men live in now. My heart hurts everytime I think of what I'm going to say to her in the future, that I wasn't able to have a family because I didn't want to treat women like shit or become a man that I'm really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:50 AM
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I would return to my childhood simp ways if I met a girl who was a fellow loner, intentionally or un-intentionally, who shared the same hobbies/interests as me. This is coming from a dude who is trying to get a career in foreign relations, so I'm a bit extroverted when I need to be. I just don't like to spend my personal time around people who think they need to be assertive 24/7 or people who have too many people around them constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:58 AM
3

Something about warrior women with that look of fighting to the death is really attractive for some reason 🤔🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:00 AM
1

Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:54 AM
1

What does git mean? Like GitHub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:25 AM
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It's just supposed to be a self insert lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:54 PM
7

Idk, I realize the value in getting other people's opinions, but to the point of paying and book appointments like in therapy? I'll pass lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:26 PM
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Ironically, im glad you believe in this, as it's taken the joy out of having a child for you in the future. I couldn't imagine being a son under a mom who believes in what you have said, that kid will either have severe depression or do exactly as you said in your post because he/she wouldn't want to live with you anymore. I love my mom for taking care of me as a single mother who sometimes didn't have the money to put food on the table or the money to buy me things as a kid. That type of mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:50 PM
2

Damn, sorry to hear that, even if you hated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:34 PM
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Idk if you're eastern Asian or south Eastern Asian, but I've seen the current trajectory in the US as dating as an Asian dude, and if you aren't living in some Asian enclave (mostly California in this case) and you're average in looks, you're essentially fucked. I'm trying to move to Korea for goals not related to woman, but I already know that I'll have more luck getting my "foot in the door" with native born Korean woman than US raised Korean women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:33 PM
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Yup, my whole life. I don't really care about white women, as outside of their looks, I couldn't share their lifestyle tbh. Mostly western white woman, I don't know about women Eastern Europe. I could probably get with them as I've had some Russian female friends and they seemed awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:28 PM
3

Same question I'm dealing with too brother. Once my mom dies, I probably will start making plans for my eventual death. That's if I don't have a girl to be with by then, but the future is still looking bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:23 PM
1

Sorry if I didn't type it out as well, I was trying to say a women saying "no" is the easiest way a man could get rejected. On my case particularly, she screamed and starting running away from me while in front of school. I still remember it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:00 PM
2

Most true statement on here for the struggling dudes on here fr
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:25 AM
2

I remember when I was 18 and I got absolutely destroyed by a girl when I tried to ask her out ("no I don't like you," is in fact, not the worst way a girl can reject you), and had the same mentality as you have rn for a while. I still tried though, but I'm still in the same position as I was in those couple of years ago. Is there even a point in dating these days? I'd say no tbh, but life can change in a blink of an eye so I can't say for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:23 AM
1

Could write a small book on this. But I think a lot of single people think it’s trendy/cool to shit on the opposite sex. Exactly. I'll admit I was definitely one of those people a couple years ago, but I've definitely moved on past that mindset, and it's more like I blame the cultural and political mindset of a certain group of people rather than their gender nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:13 AM
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Plan to marry outside of the country Where do you plan on going? I'm not going to intentionally move to another country just for a women (I'm planning on moving for other reasons), but I'm 100% not planning on settling down with any women from the US/the west at this point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:11 AM
2

My plan for the future is to suicide my 20's with hard work and no enjoyment. The next ten years will be career only and no dating. Same here man, but I guess for me it was just an inevitable path. I wanted to date when I was around 18-19, but I slowly came to the realization from OLD and trying to meet girls that dating was going to be harder and more time consuming and not worth the squeeze, compared to studying and working, which I was always better in anyways. So I was like fuck it, I'll sac…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:08 AM
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The internet has claimed another normal woman 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:38 AM
1

Hey man, could you dm me some of these forums? I'm looking for some other dudes I can talk to my issues about instead of coming here and having to engage with women who clearly have no stake in the dating game or men's life in general
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:34 PM
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I couldn't give a shit about politics both in the US or Korea. I'm only going there so I can fulfill some dreams of mine and hopefully get a girl if the opportunity arises. If not, then oh well, at least I'll have some good food and drinks before I die or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:48 PM
1

Nah I live in the US, but Im planning on moving to Korea for work possibly soon. I grew up speaking Korean too so moving into Korean society doesn't really scare me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:24 PM
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Women are psychotic because there are women who enjoy living alone? Not women at this point, western ideology in general at this point At this point, I'd rather live in Asia surrounded by dudes who look similar to me and have the same type of cultural mindset than living in the west and having no similarities to the majority of people I meet + getting absolutely destroyed in the dating game
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:23 PM
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For the average dude in the west who isn't white, dating does suck. It is what it is and I'm not too angry about it. It's probably not the only reason why, but it's a big factor and it's something that I'm tired of having to deal with as a dude who doesn't conform to a lot of modern western culture/ideals. I agree that girls have something like a hot and cool preference, you dont think that your looks and race act as the "foot in the door?" Only the very attractive Korean dudes can pull off that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 07:22 AM
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Ty bro, good luck to your future endeavors as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:33 AM
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Absolute boomer mentality fr 💀. What's crazy is that the OP probably read it over as he was typing it and said "this is fine" 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:32 AM
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Yeah bro dw, I'm definitely proud of who I am and I wouldn't want to wish to be anyone else/white. It just sucks trying to date here in the west, so much energy put in without any ROI, and I know exactly why now. I've never really fit into society here either way, so I'm actively trying to reorient my life towards Asia little by little. If by the time I get to Korea, and magically all the women there are only into white men, then oh well. I'll just be proud of the fact that I was able to pull my…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:24 AM
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Shit like this is why I'll never take dating in the west seriously ever again. This plus the amount of psychotic women there are in the dating market these days, I really have to gtfo soon 💀🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:43 AM
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Pretty sure this is mostly a western thing cause this stuff definitely doesn't fly outside of the west lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:31 AM
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You're definitely right about the handicap and hell yeah bro, I'm glad you've been getting a lot of action. I've just resigned to my fate that I'll never have physical attraction to succeed in the west. I'm not extremely ugly, yet I would consider myself at the bottom barrel of average at best. I just know that once I'm able to move to Asia, my chances will at least increase a bit more compared to staying here in the west for the rest of my life. I guess it just comes down to the issue of gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:26 AM
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Bro I honestly have no clue what you're talking about, especially this part: maybe if you tried internalizing girls do like you for your ethnicity instead of the opposite you would be having a better time. Ig the only insecurity I have is that my average looks hold me back a lot here in the west, and no amount of personality or money would ever help in any positive way. But I do know that at least in a country where I can fit in and look like 99% of the people there, I'd have way more of a chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:21 AM
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Posting this here as to help out my brothers with their decision making TO MY POC BROTHERS!!!!!! to my brothers who aren't of white or western descent, I can't stress this enough. If you have a hard time with the women in the western world, it's probably because of the majority of western women are not attracted to non western dudes 🤯🤯. Crazy right? So decide on what to do with that information. I myself will be trying to get a job in Korea/asia (if the opportunity presents itself) and hopefully…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:51 AM
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TO MY POC BROTHERS!!!!!! to my brothers who aren't of white or western descent, I can't stress this enough. If you have a hard time with the women in the western world, it's probably because of the majority of western women are not attracted to non western dudes 🤯🤯. Crazy right? So decide on what to do with that information. I myself will be trying to get a job in Korea/asia (if the opportunity presents itself) and hopefully find a Korean/Asian girl to settle down with. Put the time and effort t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:49 AM
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Yeah, that's true with both men and women though. A relationship isn't gonna last if the other person has no physical attraction to the other person, it's just how humans work
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:30 AM
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Replying to your title, ofc not lol. Idk who told you otherwise other than the occasionally "date an ugly women instead of pretty women as the pretty women will cheat on you later" phrase that older dudes will tell younger dudes 🤣 But honestly, I'm starting to shift more to that side anyways. When I was a teenager, all I cared about was looks, but nowadays, I care more about whether the girl has the same culture, lifestyle, or mindset as me rather than 100% pure looks. Is that settling? A bit I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:23 AM
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If we’re using anecdotes, my roomate is turning 26 next month and is a virgin. He seems pretty mentally stable to me. Either way, doesn’t prove anything. Damn, if I'm still a virgin by 25, I'm going to an escort wtf 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:56 AM
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Younger me would've gotten mad hearing this, but as I was reading your comment, all I could think of was "of course a women would make a roster, it's just natural because women will always have way more options than a dude." Everything just makes more sense nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:51 AM
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Idk, this definitely isn't true for younger women but ig it could for mid 30s to 40 women. I got some older dude friends and all they tell is the amount of single moms that are in their dating market now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:21 AM
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Hell yeah man, sounds like you're living the life. It sounds like your obviously way older than me, but I'm hoping I'll be able to have that mindset and lifestyle once I get a bit older too 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:17 AM
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I can tell my sister is slowly becoming the typical "I hate all men" type of women while having a bf, and I had to call her out on her stance. I just feel kind of bad for the bf, like how do you feel knowing that the women you love basically hates everything about you that makes you a man 😭🤣. Kind of a tragic path she's going down, but hey, it's her life in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:11 AM
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More pussy for the top 20% of men though. I don't really think feminism has changed the attraction factor for a lot of women 🤣, moreso just amplified existing preselection factors tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:05 AM
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Feminism has also largely advocated in favour of reducing gender roles for men, including men taking on more active parenting roles. This is the bait that feminism tried to use on men, and I'm glad that more and more dudes are realizing how destructive this bait/feminism has had on society in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:01 AM
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Nope, never really gave it much of a thought
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:22 PM
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Yeah I'm serious. I only found out what an IUD was maybe like a month ago as well. There's a lot of stuff about women that I know little of, and it'll probably stay like that for a while 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:20 PM
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Damn fr? I never knew that, but ig it makes sense cause I've actually never seen a women wear a belt for practical uses 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 07:16 PM
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You will never relate to women, it is impossible for us to empathize, unfortunately we are too different biologically and have completely different experiences, there is no way to empathize, but we can understand with enough trial and error. Please consider you future. And be a bit more critical of what others tell you. Thanks man, I guess I needed to hear that from another dude. Although I don't necessarily agree with your take that alt right people aren't on the right, as I've met a fair amoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:24 PM
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I saw a TikTok and the dude said, "if it's called leggings, why are your tummies tucked in there as well ladies?" I was dying 🤣💀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:15 PM
2

Everyone was fucking back in highschool 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:26 PM
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I guess some hobbies would be fixing guns, calligraphy, digital art, and the gym. I don't doubt that fact that probably a lot of women share some hobbies with me, but it's the fact that a lot of these women, or women in general, seem to be in a whole entire world/league thats separated from dudes, and at that point, can hobbies even make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:33 PM
1

If only I was 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:10 PM
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Seems to be the path I'm going on tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:10 PM
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Just reflecting on my current life path and choices and some frustration from my non existent dating life. I just found it funny how in the end, I still had no connections or similarities with the women I was attracted to no matter what I did, while my similarities with a group of men I don't like increased over time 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:57 AM
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Ngl it sucks realizing more and more everyday that I'll never really excite a women, on a date or platonically. I'm in my earlier 20s and I can't even relate to most women anyways, ironically, I relate more to the fking TRP/alt right dudes even though I'm left leaning/moderate 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:28 AM
2

Absolute shit. I was running off of pure nicotine and caffeine at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:16 AM
2

72 hrs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:00 AM
1

Weird how the calm ones get in your head even more. I always felt like "am i doing enough" so then I'd do more. A quiet woman will ALWAYS have more 'control' over a man than a bossy or crazy one. Their special skill is quietly watching us try and please them. I need these problems fr 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:59 AM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:52 PM
2

Frfr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 05:52 PM
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Not gonna lie, maybe I'm a huge porn addict, but that short time frame when I watch porn is the most I'll ever look at a woman, as I usually don't look at women when I pass by them, or I'll usually keep my head down cause I don't want to be seen as a creep by them, especially at the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:06 PM
1

I'm all for our future robot overlords, just leave me and my perfect wife alone 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:03 PM
3

😭🙏 for real
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:22 PM
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Works wonders for real haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:19 AM
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Just gonna copy and paste this reply haha Idk, it feels like that whole "you need experience to get this job, but you need that job to get the experience" type of situation haha. Maybe that's just the gene pool kicking me out though 🤷🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:19 AM
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Idk, it feels like that whole "you need experience to get this job, but you need that job to get the experience" type of situation haha. Maybe that's just the gene pool kicking me out though 🤷🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 04:18 AM
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Ngl, what I'll do before I even think about trying to find a girl's insta or try and get her pics is do quick nut and see if I still want to go through the effort of finding her 💀😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:40 AM
2

Ig you're just taking the mean "fake it till you mean it" to a whole new level then 💀. Good luck though fr
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:30 AM
2

How about this, go tell your friend groups about how you believe that men hold women in contempt and ask for their opinions to. Assuming that theyre not filled with complete anger and not insane, I think you'll find out that you have been touching the wrong grass 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:28 AM
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For me personally, I have given up as of now, but once I'm older, I'll probably get back in the game. The girls my age (early 20s) have so much more experience in the game, that men like me with almost no experience can't even compete, so there really is no reason to try right now. Obviously with time, money, and more confidence, I think I'll be able to compete in the dating game or just move to my mother country and most likely succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:21 AM
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I can't believe I'm saying this because never in my life have I had to use this phrase as I, myself, am a social loser, but ... You have to go touch some grass, for real 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:15 AM
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Exactly and there is nothing wrong with that. Most men and women get together because they want a romantic and sexual relationship, not a regular friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:09 AM
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Hey I don't wanna tell you how to live your life, but I've seen this exact scenario play out many times and they all end the same. I will say though that your thoughts seem to be extremely clouded with anger and I have to defend men like me about your claim that with a sex that has utter contempt for my own. All the men in my life, including me, treasure our mothers, sisters, and girlfriends. I don't know where you're getting this "contempt" idea from, as the women in our lives are one of the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:07 AM
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Bro don't even waste your time. Ironically, these women are the ones who preach about women being oppressed or how unfair society is yet they don't care about protecting the very civilization they live in. Lucky, as history has proven many times, the fate of the world will be shaped by the men of those times, not the women, for better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:55 AM
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I'm lowkey glad to hear that ngl 💀😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:19 AM
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Exactly bro, I wouldn't even argue, just start crying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:09 AM
2

Yeah I think that's what a lot of dudes these days have got to accept before they can fully move on with their lives. It definitely isn't easy either. But hey, there are a shit ton of women in this world so there's a lot of chances for encounters 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:08 AM
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Hmm idk, youre asking the wrong dude fr. But then again, you fell for the PPD trap if you start believing whatever people say in this sub. Only the failures and outcasts spend their time making posts on here 💀, not the winners in the dating game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:51 AM
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I feel you bro. I used to have a big doomer mentality but I've decided to have a more hands off and positive attitude to life and I feel more and more optimistic about the future, even if I end up dying alone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:49 AM
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I believe it lol, just comes with the nature of having a really politically charged society I guess. But still, I'm pretty sure there is a girl out there who has the same mentality as me so I'm not too pressed about it. I just can't imagine dealing with these people. Apparently the OP is married too. Imagine coming back home from some night shift and your wife starts going off about this stuff 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:47 AM
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Yeah it sounds weird/sad af ngl, and I'm not even that much of an empathetic person 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:34 AM
2

Not the original dude you were replying to, but I'd like to give my opinion in here. I'm of the belief that before entering a relationship, the vast majority of men and women share little to no common interests other than their interest in the other person's looks and personality. It's just the way men and women were made, different hormones, different though processes, etc. That in turn leads to different interests in life, which explains why the it's common for men and women to have little in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:32 AM
1

Damn that sounds depressing AF not even gonna lie with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:21 AM
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I'm so glad I found PPD when I was going through the red pill rage all those years ago. The more I see posts like these, the more I realize how stupid all this gender war shit is. I pray to God that I'll be able to find a kind cute girl who doesn't partake in this subs and live a nice happy life 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:11 AM
2

Well said 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:45 AM
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I'm glad dudes my generation are slowly realizing the lie within this statement. This lie is what created the modern incel group in the first place. A bunch of dudes getting told that their unseen personality is what attracts women 🤣, only for them to realize that it really wasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:00 AM
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I don't get why people have such a hard time with stuff like this. The main truth to dating is that your looks is the end all, be all. Sure there are expectations, but exceptions don't make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:43 AM
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I'm a virgin and I have major respect to the dudes who hustle for pussy. Maybe it's because I have low testosterone or I'm just not motivated enough, but I don't have any energy for women anymore and I'm only in my early 20s. Shit was fucking exhausting when I actually did try and whenever I think about going after a women I am actually attracted to, all I can think about is the infinite amount of fucking hoops and loops I'd have to jump through to even get a response from her. I'm probably goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:07 AM
1

Isn't that what she is telling men to do though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:22 PM
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Holy shit, those examples are brutal af 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 10:22 AM
1

I'll never understand ig. Like attractive women are a dime a dozen, tons of them out there. Why waste that energy chasing after a women who won't even reciprocate that energy back
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:12 PM
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Ive never understood dudes who relentlessly chase the women, knowing that she doesn't even like him or has even rejected him once. If there's one thing I learned from RP, it's that men should never ever be in a relationship where the man is more interested in the women than vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 10:08 PM
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Ass too. As someone who trains daily, I love me a gym bunny. That said my wife used to cycle a lot. Even after her two kids she's still quite petite. Though she's starting jump back into our gym with me, so that's nice. Unfortunately I am a boob type of dude 😎 I can't understand how people allow themselves to get so big. It's certainly indicative of their mental health. Definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:06 PM
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Just gonna copy and paste this lol It's not even about the shape, it's about the lack of muscle/flesh 😭. But don't get it twisted, an attractive girl is still an attractive girl at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:04 PM
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It's not even about the shape, it's about the lack of muscle/flesh 😭. But don't get it twisted, an attractive girl is still an attractive girl at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:02 PM
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Idk, something about it seems like I'm looking at a starved person. Very off putting sometimes ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:52 PM
4

I'm extremely not attracted to fat women, like if she's over 200 lb (I've seen some really good looking 190lb ish women whose weight is mostly concentrated near the waist/thighs) because she overeats and you can tell. But at the same time, I'll see some really good 10/10 girl, has that nice curve and boobs, but her arms look like it's nothing but the bone and I'll lose a lot of my initial attraction. Like damn girl, you need some meat on those arms wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:45 PM
1

Depends on the type of guy ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:56 PM
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Romantic guys are only attractive for women who were already interested in them. This applies to everything else. As long as the women is into you, she'll like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 09:54 PM
1

Wholesome vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:47 AM
5

True true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:16 AM
1

Everyone is insecure about something about themselves deep down, it's part of being human
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 10:04 AM
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Bro as someone who was in the army, it usually isn't all about pure strength or big muscles, although it helps obviously. It's all about how well can I trust you to guard my back, how competent you are, and can I trust you to not break down when shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:19 PM
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I'm definitely younger than you but I'd like to suggest to take a break from this sub, no matter how addicting some of the more depressing content can be. I hope you're able to find someone to love soon 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:02 PM
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Nah, hate implies more of a "all men are evil" type of hatred. It's more like indifference to the existence of most men that women come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:03 PM
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Yeah but their physical looks was the initial foot in the door that developed the attraction. I don't know anyone who stays with their s/o and thinks that their looks are "average" or not that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 11:28 AM
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Ofc not, but let's not forget that both women and men are visual creatures and a certain level of physical attraction is needed before anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:40 AM
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That there is so much more to attraction But you can't get there without the looks, which is the problem most men have with women these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:59 AM
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Ofc not. I'd argue that most women don't have the capacity to hate as a man could, but most women definitely don't see them as living humans though. Probably more as a non sexual NPC, which could be better or worse depending on your POV
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:55 AM
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That's just the natural progression of the western world. Freedom/civil liberties = long term social/religious decline
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:51 AM
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But is anyone tired of this already? Do you guys think there are more productive conversations to be held when it comes to dating? Probably not. I originated from probably one of the first incels forums long ago, and I've seen a lot of the same arguments (though I'll admit that seeing women enter these "dating debate spaces" and hearing the arguments from women after only seeing arguments from other dudes for so long is quite enlightening) just repurposed over and over again. Most men who are an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:27 PM
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This is reddit though, and this subreddit in particular, probably doesn't bring in "normal" people, both male and female. You're definitely right though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:20 PM
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Yeah and the typical male living in 2022 won't get any compliments till the day he probably dies. Hopefully you're actually starting to see the environment you want changed just a bit more clearer cause this "equality" you want will never exist within humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:08 PM
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Women and men were not made to be equal, just like how women and men cannot really be true platonic friends. The average man just can't relate with the life experience of the average women. For example, from reading some of your replies, it seems like you have some sexual experience in your life, even though you called yourself "ugly" for a certain amount of years in your life. The average dude today who is the same age range as you is probably a virgin. How can he possibly relate to your life e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:16 AM
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My mom would be a "tradwife" in a sense, but not the typical white/western association that the word tradwife comes with as she is from Asia. However, our dad left to go get milk, stole some money too, and my mom had to raise my sister and I by herself. After discovering the RP, I just realized that the world just doesn't make women such as my mom in large quantities anymore. Different age and different social settings (feminism etc). If anyone layed a hand or finger on my mom, I would get my pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 07:20 PM
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Yeah you weren't, but this is what I've heard many people try and tell men to do, and this is how many of those dudes interpreted your type of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:08 PM
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I'm on the fence on this one ngl and this is coming from a guy who falls into the category of unable to smash. Obviously don't jerk off to the point where you gotta go to the ER, but sometimes, it's better to get rid of the testosterone when you need to think with a calm mindset (I don't believe in NoFap), and keep it when you gotta do some things that require ... some aggression. Keep a balanced mindset and use your tools (in this case, your nut 🥜) when it seems necessary lol. On the other side…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 01:01 PM
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Missing out fr
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:52 PM
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Ironically, your name is exactly the reason why. It's because every human still has that monkey/primal part that never really disappeared from our state of being.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:50 PM
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Yup ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 07:17 AM
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Same here bro, dw 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:18 PM
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Alright alright 🤣 A lot of the stuff I saw was when I was in garrison rather than deployment ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:43 PM
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Weight/fat. I understand if a woman has a slight belly or lower body fat because of her body composition, but if it gets to rolls of fat/signs of uncontrolled eating, that's my no go line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:00 PM
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We meet again Squid 🦑 But fr, the amount of sad stories that took place in front of my eyes definitely reinforced the somewhat red pill ideas I had in my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:55 PM
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Friends at work/professionally= benefitial Friends outside of work/platonically= waste of time and not worth it for most men Unless a dude is trying to become "friends" with a girl so he can turn it into a relationship, a platonic friendship with another woman is generally just a waste of time and a dead end for most men. Most dudes have different interests and hobbies from most women and grow more as a person by having male friends. For example, I've never seen another woman go up to a dude and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:33 AM
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The military
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:48 AM
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Yeah, I've met dudes in the service that had that happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:36 PM
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This is what I've been theorizing for years. The women I've seen on these forums were never really the women us men were arguing about. They were either married women who have been long out of the dating game, women already in relationships, or man hating feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:33 PM
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"an emperor who has to constantly remind others that he is the emperor is no emperor at all"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:30 PM
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Damn 40? Here I am hoping that my sex drive drops when I'm in my mid 30s or something (currently early 20s)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 09:06 PM
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Be glad you didn't have to live in the past where you were forcibly conscripted into an army and died fighting for the rich and wealthy, just because of the single fact that you were a "man"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:48 PM
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It all comes down to preference/your version of attractive tbh. I find myself attracted most of the time to girls that my friends consider average or below average, which all the better for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:53 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:50 PM
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I hope your DMs go favorably Squid 🦑 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:38 PM
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Damnnnn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:00 PM
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I just find it crazy how someone came up with that design. Humans are really something else. Imagine being the future creator of the cure for cancer, only to get prevented from living by copper atoms 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:02 PM
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Is it sad to say that I just found out what an IUD is? (I'm in my early 20s). After some googling and image searching, the designs of these IUDs seem to be very interesting and well thought out ngl. It seems I learn new things everyday 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:56 PM
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Hooah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:35 PM
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-has no tangible masculine skills (can’t shoot/hunt, fix cars, build things, fight, etc.) I get shooting and fixing cars cause I dont know a single girl who knows the difference between ammo types or knows how to remove a starter, but building things as in building a table from IKEA or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:26 AM
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Exactly man. I find it so strange and just pitiful. Like how much hatred must you have in your heart to basically toss away your parents away after theyve raised you? I'll never understand this modern western mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:38 PM
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Maybe its because I'm from an asian household, but I am a very filial son. I give money I earn from my job to my mom, I plan on having her live in my house, and I will see to it that she never ends up in a retirement home. This is also why I could never see myself dating western women, the culture difference and the general lack of respect toward parents/elders is repulsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:05 PM
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