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| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI criticize what you say, you criticize who (you think) I am. How long ago would you have been banned if the rules here were enforced equally for men and women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen you hate men so much you need to invent fake lives to criticize them for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot stalking, just read the threads and notice you’re always the one with bad takes telling men their experiences are false. Height definitely isn’t my problem, I’m 6’1”, but gaslighting misandrists like you certainly make life difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell, that’s the same poster who figured telling short men to stop complaining because some famous actors are short was helping them out, and can’t understand why they’d get backlash for that gaslighting. Tether to reality is not strong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYet somehow when men live by themselves they learn how basically everything can go in the dishwasher to avoid needing to wash it by hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 10:45 PM |
| -2 | The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western cultureSo not anything current. It was just over 100 years ago that the 19th amendment was passed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western cultureWhat natural right to autonomy and happiness do men have that women don’t? Men can be held responsible for children that are not theirs or that were conceived out of rape, in most areas that is not true for women. If two people get drunk, too drunk to consent, and then have sex are they both considered rapists, or just the man? My company recently posted a job opening that was not open to the public, they were only taking candidates from a women’s only technical conference. Where are the men’s o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou: I have an opinion. Me: I disagree because … You: I disagree, because you just stated an opinion. That’s not engaging in constructive debate. I’m beginning to understand why you specifically might think women aren’t valued much beyond their looks though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 05:17 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, I should just state an opinion and then dismiss anyone who disagrees by saying whatever their disagreement is is just an opinion, so it doesn’t mean anything. Thanks for proving my point on not wanting to engage constructively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhich is why I went into more detail about why I reached the conclusions I did, so we could pinpoint which part you disagree with. But you’ve chosen not to engage constructively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell you just keep saying things you've made up, at least I explain why I reached the conclusions I did. Your response to any criticism in this thread is just saying "nu-uh, I'm right" over and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadbased on my observations Which ones do you disagree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut men don’t? Here’s the breakdown of treatment (5 being best, 1 being worst) based on my observations: Men treat attractive women a 5. Men treat average women a 4. Men treat unattractive women a 2. Women treat attractive men a 5. Women treat average men a 3. Women treat unattractive men a 1. Men treat attractive men a 4. Men treat average men a 3. Men treat unattractive men a 2. Women treat attractive women a 5. Women treat average women a 4. Women treat unattractive women a 1. There’s a benef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen and women are both treated better if they’re attractive, it’s just that a higher percentage of women get this extra benefit. Women being treated better for being attractive is not the same thing as women only being viewed as objects. It just turns out being viewed “as people” is not that great since it mostly means people just view you based on what you do for them. I don’t understand why women treat unattractive women so poorly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen aren’t treated like “the only thing they could possibly offer is sex or attractiveness”. Men and women are both treated better if they’re attractive, it’s just that a higher percentage of women get this extra benefit. It does seem like men treat unattractive men better than women treat unattractive women, but that’s not really an issue of them expecting sex from their own gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 02:41 PM |
| 0 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.I said that men who are not conventionally attractive are given more room to be famous than women, thats reality. You’ve said that but haven’t supported it. Your examples of men who fit this definition are either men who got those roles due to their background in comedy or men who are conventionally attractive, but just aren’t super attractive. Women who have a background in comedy have similar success, as do women who are generally attractive but not super attractive. The difference is that the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 10:01 PM |
| 0 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.Proving you wrong using your own criteria is goal post moving? Or do you think Watson is a bad example of a Hollywood leading woman? I want to see you type that out. Just how much gaslighting do you want to do to ignore that beauty standards for women are as simple as “don’t be at risk for type 2 diabetes”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.I’m saying there are things we do as humans to present status to our own gender and things we do to become more attractive to the opposite gender (at least for hetero people) and they are not the same things. Women do spend a lot on various hair and makeup, that doesn’t mean men expect that or hold women to that standard. The same way a man might buy a sports car thinking it will get him women when in reality it’s more other men who will view him more highly for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:40 PM |
| 0 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.we are not discussing what movies made them famous Why not? If the only way that “average” men can get roles in Hollywood is if they were first famous for portraying children I think that’s very relevant to the discussion. The dudes I went to high school with can easily measure up to Jonah hill snd Michael Cera and the dudes I listed. The athletic dudes I went to school with could easily measure up to will Smith in independence day or men in black. So… Comedian, got famous playing a child, and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.What roles did I list where rhey were kids Chalamet in Dune is a child, Radcliffe in Harry Potter, Will Smith in Fresh Prince, Michael Cera in stuff like Juno, Elijah Wood was a hobbit but they’re basically are presented like children physically. Then Peter Parker 3X over for 3 different actors. Male celebrities are allowed tonlook more normal than women. Both men and women have the same “normal”, they can be in movies as long as they’re thin or funny. The difference is Florence Pugh can play a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:33 PM |
| 0 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.Do you know the science on building muscle? Your body basically maxes out at being able to add 2 lbs per month, and can only sustain that for about 3 months before hitting a plateau. Realistically if you see somebody gaining more than 10 lbs of lean muscle in a year they’re probably on something. If they have a super well defined six pack they probably needed to dehydrate before the take and do a bunch of crunches to get a pump. You know how I know? Because I play sports with actual athletic peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.Things women do for themselves is not the same as beauty standards expected by men. If we want to play this game then male standards are even more expensive because you need to spend $100k+ on a car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:55 PM |
| 0 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.If they've been in multiple famous movies, they're actors. Comedy movies are not suddenly not movies. And almost all actors in Hollywood started out trying another medium first, like being a comedian But it's the same standard for men and women: the fat male actors are there for their comedy chops, same with the fat female actresses. just a dude who works out daily You know all those guys who say a woman looks "tired" or "sick" or something whenever they see her not wearing makeup? That's how ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:53 PM |
| 1 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.Again it's a simple fact anybody can name several more fat male actors than female actors Not actors, comedians. Same for women as it is for men. The difference is the thin women actresses just need to be thin while the men need to be chemically enhanced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:12 PM |
| 14 | i don't think fat/ugly women are any less invisible than fat/ugly men. society treats undesirables of both sexes badly.If I asked you to make a list of fat male actors who played romantic leads in a movie, most people could easily name 5-10. Only if those men are comedians, which is the same as the list for women. Here’s the fattest male Avenger. He’s so fat we give him a CGI body in superhero mode that has like zero body fat. Here’s the second fattest male Avenger. We hide him in a metal suit so you can’t even see his face when he’s being a superhero. Florence Pugh isn’t even overweight but if she were a male a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.So the UK is different from US I guess? The Pew research is from the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 3 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.3 single guys for every 2 single women. So let’s say we have a group of 30 single guys, evenly distributed: 3 10s, 3 9s, etc. all the way down to 3 1s who are overweight neck beards with no job who just smoke weed all day. The 3 4s would be the 19th through 21st most attractive guys. To keep the 3:2 ratio you’d have 20 single women to pair up with this group of men. Assuming are also evenly distributed, 2 at each number from 1 to 10, and they pair up according to attractiveness the male 4s would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 12:27 AM |
| 2 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.Well you could link the actual study, like I did with the Pew study in my first post on this thread, which had 51% of men 18-29 being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.Yeah, I’ve basically only done in person meets and haven’t really been on apps, it’s more an issue of just how much a 3-2 ratio stacks things when you look into the actual numbers. Dating is broken for most people, men and women, but IMO the changes men can make are almost solely about being more attractive, while women have more room to change behaviors within the system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 09:07 PM |
| 3 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.Since we're experimenting, I have an experiment for YOU...go to a small dive bar where even you, as a man, might fear for your safety, and then go a "trendy" place with velvet ropes, valets, long lines (unfortunately), a dance bar, and a good wine selection. Tell the me the ratio of women to men, in both places. Hell, forget all that, and just use the dress code as a guide. I totally agree that the dive bar will be 90-10 if that. My point was more that the trendy bar you think is 50-50 is really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 4 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.Well based on the data they aren’t, at least not those under 30. Of those 30-49 and older I’d say most entered relationships when dating attitudes and behaviors were different. Also the disparity is less of an issue the more attractive you are. For a guy who’s an 8 or 9 you might be “settling” for a woman who’s a 7 or 8, it happens but it’s not too big a deal. What you have is a huge group of men in the lower half who basically aren’t ending up in relationships at all, or doing so with very poor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 3 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.Well obviously not given the results of the poll. I get your claim that women might choose to behave in a way that would even put these numbers, but since we have the actual numbers we know they don’t behave that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 0 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.I’d encourage you to actually do a count at some of those “pretty evenly gendered” events in the future. I remember thinking classes in college were fairly even until I did a count and then it was actually 60-40. You also have a similar issue as getting biased responses in the survey if there are any kinds of controls to keep gender ratios fairly even. Things like bars limiting the number of men who can enter to keep ratios relatively even can hide the fact that the market for these is male domi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 3 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.but for relationships the majority of men have a good chance. Only if there’s some force pushing women to “settle” for relationships with men less attractive than their normal dates. Why should the 2 settle for a relationship with the 5 when a good number of her dates are with 8s? Eventually those darned men will need to commit and that’s when her 8 will stop ghosting her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.Which means, either women under 30 are dating men over 30, which the over 30 numbers don't support, or women are unknowingly paired with men that don't consider themselves "single" (players), or women are simply less willing to admit to "singleness" due to the greater stigma. Yes, I think exactly those reasons are behind the numbers. The point is whether behavior in the dating market matches those numbers. If women under report being single but also stay off apps and away from in person social e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:35 PM |
| 7 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.If you assume all women are datable. If you’re a guy who’s a 4, just below average, your match would be a woman who’s a 1. Could be that men just below average prefer being single to dating a woman who is obese, has a large amount of unsecured debt, and is a generally mean person (rude to waitstaff, physically abusive, etc.). This also assumes dating among those single men and single women is evenly distributed. Say the top third of men go on 3X as many dates as the middle third, and the bottom … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:19 PM |
| 10 | A 6-9/10 guy should not struggle to land his equivalent for sex or LTR, but he does. A 4-6/10 woman has zero problem snagging a 7-10 dude for sex or LTR. This is the problem with modern dating.It’s either an issue of men having multiple partners or massive age gaps. There are significantly more single men than single women among people below the age of 50. For every two single woman aged 18-29 there are over three single men in that age range. Less of a gap in 30s and 40s, but still more single men than single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 3 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)I think the biggest benefit for anyone with fitness is being able to compare yourself to where you used to be rather than where other people are right now, so much better for your mental health and confidence. That gets so much easier once you can look back and know you’ve improved. The weight on the scale is less important than the weight on the bar, or your reps with body weight exercises, or your time on runs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:34 PM |
| 3 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)I’d say especially on the thinner side muscle mass will play more of a role in determining weight than body fat percentage. I wouldn’t be surprised if the first 3 pictures for women all weighed within 5 lbs of each other if they were the same height, since the lower percentage pictures also seems to be more muscular. As a guy, since the start of the pandemic I’ve gone from looking like the 4th picture to looking like the 3rd, dropped from a 36” waist pant to 34”, and gotten stronger going from b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 03:18 PM |
| 5 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)Average guy on Reddit is probably more like the 30-34% male picture, although red pill ideology is likely going to pull in a lot of guys at around 20% body fat who go on apps and only match with women at around 40% body fat and think women are being unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 01:41 PM |
| 40 | The average men does not want the average women (in the US)The CDC says roughly 40% of US women aged 20-39 are obese. It’s probably not a perfect conversion, but “The preferred obesity metric in scholarly circles is the body fat percentage… Levels in excess of 32% for women and 25% for men are generally considered to indicate obesity”. And again, not perfect, but here’s some general examples of women at different body fat percentages. So the “average” woman in the US would be slightly thinner than the lady in the zebra print swimsuit. I’m sure some guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 01:28 PM |
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