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You really believed only one gender could be cruel? Not all men are desperate for women, in fact I’m pretty sure the majority aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:14 PM
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Oh I guess those guys never told me I was ugly and to kill myself then lol. I must have imagined it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:22 PM
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That’s not really the rebuttal i see but that’s too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:50 PM
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Idk I’d rather never have sex again then see it become so meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:50 PM
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So you can’t be upset over losing someone you like anymore? Are these threads disparaging and saying the man in manipulative or are they just expressing sadness? Can you link this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:49 PM
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And this is a common thing among women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:48 PM
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Is this a trait specific to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:48 PM
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Where is it a constant complaint? The data says it’s not a constant thing, do you really believe it’s common?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:47 PM
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I was asking out random people. Some of them let me know I wasn’t attractive to them What the do you mean women don’t have to be appealing? 😂😂 I feel like we wouldn’t be such big consumers of the beauty industry if that was true lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:46 PM
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But there’s so many people in the world, there’s not really much sense in settling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:45 PM
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Nah every guy I’ve asked out has said no. A lot have been pretty uncomfortable. Just depends on if you’re charming/appealing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:23 PM
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Do you genuinely belive women are so hateful we spend our free time filled with vitriol rather than enjoying ourselves? Jesus. It doesn’t even make sense? Why would I spend my time doing that? Would you spend your time doing that? I don’t believe guys spend their time scheming about women and thinking about us. Like did something happen with a woman to you where she was cruel so now your suspicious of all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:22 PM
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Nah I’m here to show y’all that women aren’t a hivemind and repeating the same worded facts all the time and not actually trying to make connections might be your issue
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:19 PM
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Are you saying men just take what they can get rather than trying to find the person they have the best compatibility with? Bc most people do that? Most of us don’t just settle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:16 PM
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Lmao wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:13 PM
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True true, i was just reading too many comments saying most women do this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:10 PM
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Why did this tell me I’m ugly and look like a man 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:57 PM
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It sounds like you find it unfair a man could be rejected for a bad selfie while the same wouldn’t necessarily happen for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:52 PM
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That’s really sad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:47 PM
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The issue is that you assume everyone is doing both. In fact most people have relationship sex, not casual sex. You’re asking a hypothetical question that’s not even common, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:46 PM
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I guess? Most people don’t really engage in behavior like that tho? Where are women counting men as lying and manipulating for staying the night and calling it love bombing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:44 PM
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Not all women hook up..in fact only a minority of women have casual sex. The ones that do hookup probably treat both guys the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:42 PM
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Does this guy think women don’t like having sex…what the hell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:40 PM
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It’s entitlement to be single bc you couldn’t find someone to date? To not be entitled you’d have to date a guy even if you’re not into him….weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:35 AM
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But why have sex with her? Why not have sex to someone you’re attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:29 AM
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You don’t tell your bf about you’re far more successful ex and how you’re settling for him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:25 AM
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Then why is he dating me 😂 this scenario makes no sense. Wouldn’t he just get with the girls he actually likes? In fact it doesn’t sound like he likes me at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:24 AM
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Yeah tattoos are correlated with stinky girls /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:19 AM
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Well if you did the ice bucket challenge then I guess you’re a real ducking red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:17 AM
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Is big earrings a racial dog whistle lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:15 AM
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Not being a liar doesn’t mean you’ve never told a lie, at least that’s how we grew up using that word
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:12 AM
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Oh I guess I’m dumb and ugly then. Damn I’m gonna go cry. I’m so sad I’m dumb and ugly :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:11 AM
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You’re quite rude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:10 AM
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What does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:06 AM
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Sounds like sex addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:01 AM
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Why wouldn’t they admit they had sex with her but have sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:00 AM
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So to be top 20% you have to be tall? Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:25 PM
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How do you know that if you’re not actually in the minds of these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:25 PM
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.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:55 PM
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I know she's not shy because I saw her interactions with people at my workplace, and those people don't even know their name, so I can assume that's something about me she doesn't like. (in fact she doesn't even know what personality is like, she's just judging me for my looks or whatever) You don’t know she’s not shy. You’re making assumptions. This could literally be a description of me tbh. I’m super shy to certain people. Answering your question, the only places that I do go is a park which …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:53 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:51 PM
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Most of my friends from were relentlessly pursued tbh. We have a huge social circle filled with very big personalities
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:50 PM
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See I’m a bit confused bc in my observations I don’t see that behavior so I thought maybe there was some example or something of it. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:48 PM
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I was being sarcastic, I forgot the S. This sub is racist considering it’s kind of in the core of the RP. Like someone told me objectively white men were better than Asian men, and this came from an Asian man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:48 PM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:46 PM
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How? Because, I’m average, average people don’t turn heads or attract a large amount of people lol If you are an average looking woman I can promise you there are going to be at least handful of guys who will want to go on a date with you today if you sign up to OLD. I had online dating for a good while. Finally found someone thank for but it was hard FDS is basically the crystallized form of that, a bunch of women who are not really special in any regard but think they deserve a handsome, tall,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:44 PM
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Good source
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:40 PM
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Sorry where does this lay out the single ladies mindsets?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:40 PM
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Is this sub…racist?!?$
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:45 AM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:36 AM
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Oh dear. I wonder why people on this sub struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:36 AM
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I’m super average. Always been thin, told by only women I’m very pretty. I’m pretty much invisible to men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:35 AM
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Nope I just am extremely extroverted and NEED friends so I force myself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:30 AM
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The people in my city are pretty anti-social too and they don't like foreign people, people who have no social circle and etc. Which city? They just like people who they know. I try to do friends at church and it's fine, but it's kind hard because there's such a low of amount of people there that's just frustrating really. I'm just friends with older people really and try to keep my head down because I don't want to bother their life's. That sucks. Are there places other than church to go? Like,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:29 AM
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We’re peacocks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:26 AM
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Wait. Divorce means the dad exits the kids life? Is that a rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:25 AM
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Wait. It’s a woman’s fault if you decide not to take care of your kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:24 AM
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I’m tired of people not knowing how averages work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:15 AM
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Bahahaha I’m not trusting this site to accurately rate POC. Someone told me white men are objectively better than Asian men the other day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:07 AM
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Weren’t they rating dating profiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:06 AM
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I’m confused why don’t you try to meet new people
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:02 AM
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Which clubs are sausage fests? I keep seeing this but it’s like not true? There’s so many mixed gender clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:58 AM
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Yeah that’s what my parents said. If you want friend or a relationship, join a church
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:57 AM
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Social circle - who's friends are constantly and regularly introducing them to single women? That never sounded realistic to me. In reality social circle is extremely low volume and largely based on luck. I mean…in your social circle aren’t you constantly meeting new people? I always have a friend who brings another friend form a different social circle and then we click. Like how small is your social group that your not meeting new people? I had an argument here with someone about this. The sol…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:57 AM
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It’s not the only hobby. I used to do adult gymnastics and met a ton of adult men and women there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:50 AM
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Most cold approaches don’t work. People don’t like talking to strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:49 AM
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I’m autistic. I really like making friends and dating. Unfortunately yes, I had to get out of my comfort zone and I was usually overwhelmed I mean what else are you supposed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:48 AM
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Then you’re gonna have to change your lifestyle by picking up a new hobby or something yes. You gotta change something to lead to meeting women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:47 AM
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The guys on here admit they don’t have a social circle and then say their dating problems are womens fault. How you gonna date when you can’t even make a friend 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:46 AM
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How are they anti social if they’re your friend AND married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:43 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:43 AM
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Do you have a source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:40 AM
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Many women take advantage of guys got it. Women sound like horrible monsters, maybe just avoid us?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:37 AM
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But most men get into relationships. Below average men are the ones struggling. Averages don’t work based on how you want them to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:35 AM
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But why do you have to say anything? Do you say anything when you see people smoking or talking loudly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:35 AM
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Right? Like sure Tiffany is going “out of her league”. Why ar e you obsessed with that? Leave her alone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:34 AM
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Where are you getting this info
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:32 AM
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You mean the perfect man whom is "the full package"? Men like that are rare. And the blunt reality is that men like that typically have options and can date younger and hotter women. Huh?? Where do you live that men who are secure and sexy are rare? This is so weird. If that was true then there would be waaaay more single people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:22 AM
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Tinder The dating app of mostly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:21 AM
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How is anything I said at all racist? I'm Asian myself Any race can be racist including to your own race and I don't see what is racist about admitting that white men are objectively more attractive and higher status than Asian men in society. It’s incredibly sad you believe something so derogatory about your own race. White men are more attractive and high status than Asian men???? We must live in different realities bc last time I checked, your race doesn’t determine your attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:20 AM
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You’re only open to people hot to you???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:18 AM
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I mean I explained it and you didn’t seem to understand what I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:18 AM
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You have it incredibly difficult as a woman? How so? To be honest I can't imagine a woman having great difficulties finding dates unless she is exceptionally unattractive, like 400lbs heavy or seriously disfigured. Ok well I’m neither of those things and I had a pretty hard time so Well no, there is not someone for everyone even though it's 50/50. There is a decent portion of women who don't want to get with a man that's equal to her in looks and other qualities. Source? Even so, why do you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:18 AM
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When did I say I’ve never told a lie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:16 AM
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lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:19 AM
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Wdym whats wrong with me? I’m not the liar at least
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:17 AM
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That implies people are only open to those hot to them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:15 AM
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How is that making it equally difficult? If you did that to me, it would go from incredibly difficult to even more difficult. 50/50 seems pretty fair. There’s someone for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:14 AM
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That’s literally racist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:11 AM
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Many women, particularly when they're in their 30s, will start being willing to "settle" for someone without the "sexy" part of the package in order to get the other benefits. Why wouldn’t they get with someone safe and secure AND sexy? This implies you can I either be safe or sexy when you can actually be both or neither
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:11 AM
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I wonder if it was a hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:09 AM
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I feel like people don’t get what I’m saying lol but whatever you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:07 AM
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Yeah I read it again and I don’t think you understand my sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:05 AM
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That’s always how it’s been. The only women that didn’t work in the past were rich women bc they outsourced their work. Happens to this day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 12:04 AM
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Did you think she were gonna say SAHM?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:57 PM
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When you’re cleaning and cooking and you’re both in a rush and he’s just on his phone talking to you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:55 PM
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You only change your bedsheets every two weeks??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:53 PM
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I don’t think you understand the sentiment of what I’m saying so whatever yeah you’re right I’m wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:58 PM
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Do you put yourself in social situations a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:36 PM
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It’s really hard and it’s super duper uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:29 PM
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Like do you go out of your way to talk to people? You get rejected A LOT or weird looks but you also can meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:27 PM
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A lot of autists love socializing but are really fucking bad at it (me) Do you like get out of your comfort zone and put yourself out there? For example, my job is offering dance classes for this event later In the year. I hate dancing in front of others but it’s a place I can meet new people
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:20 PM
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I met a lot of people when I went on a bar crawl alone recently If you do activities and join club you’ll meet peopel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:18 PM
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Bc the men of this sub are the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:15 PM
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Wouldn’t that make dating harder on women? Also you’re favoring girls by making it so more are born than boys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 09:13 PM
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Women : men are soft today , we want masculine traditional men!! Pardon my ignorance but is this really a common sentiment among women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:42 PM
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What’s stopping you from meeting more? I moved like a year ago across the country and met people. It was really fucking hard especially with the pandemic but if I wanted friends it’s what I had to do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:23 PM
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I’m autistic. I really love socializing so I pushed myself to do so and meet people I don’t understand why they can’t meet people. Also all of them are autistic introverts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:21 PM
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Oh I’m not redpill I feel like someone made that up so they could feel better about never getting married 😅 The narrative is literally “Oh you got a girlfriend after struggling for years? Well actually that makes you a loser” And people belive it??? Reminds me of dudes who believe giving oral makes gay or holding hands makes you a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:20 PM
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I feel like my comment was dumb af bc they’re not really doing much now. You’re basically describing what happens in the Handmaids tale lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:16 PM
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How do they not know any girls? Why can’t they meet more? Cold approaches don’t work for most people lol. People don’t like dating strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:13 PM
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I feel like people would have tried to figure out a way to help them if it was that many men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:10 PM
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Thinking like a sociopath seems like it would be the least happy path. I’m much happier thinking sweetly and kindly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:08 PM
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So only white men can be HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:06 PM
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Why do people keep saying this with no basis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:05 PM
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Why do you assume that women’s decision to not date have to do with men hitting the wall rather than them just not being interested? How does that imply there’s a wall
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:03 PM
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I thought that was gen x
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:58 PM
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How? Also how would society collapse
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:56 PM
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Did you grow up around conservatives? Even in marriage sex is a sim if it’s not for the purpose of creating life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:55 PM
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And what would that be like?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:54 PM
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No. If the only way to have a functioning society is to go back to the toxicity of conservatism I say let it die
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:54 PM
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If he wants? Dating someone bc of their age is pretty weird tho. I find it easier to date someone bc I like them but i guess I’m weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:53 PM
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Wdym they don’t have anyone to ask out?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:52 PM
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Ok this is my family dynamic but instead of assuming all men are like my dad I found an individual who isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:51 PM
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That’s the only way you can tell? You can easily figure out if someone is a gold digger too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:50 PM
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Yes we are. That’s what ‘average’ means. The average height for a male in the U.S. is 5’9, meaning most men will be around that height. But that doesn’t mean every man is going to be that height, right? Especially if you count race in. Same goes for the dating experiences of women. Most women will have a decent amount of opportunities in dating, but that doesn’t mean every woman is going to get dates. And with every aspect of life, there are going to be extremes. Like there are men who are 5’1 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:49 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:46 PM
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So they shouldn’t try?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:45 PM
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You don’t see a moral judgement in favoring one gender over the other for the purpose of making dating easier for a minority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:43 PM
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For sure. Some don’t. Depends on the women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:16 PM
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Maybe they keep bringing it up bc they want government regulated laws that pertain to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:58 PM
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Dating is a game?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:56 PM
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Well what does it mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:56 PM
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I just think people aren’t constantly deciding if they’re attracted to every guy they come across which somehow translates to picky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:56 PM
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That sucks but it is what is it? No point on dwelling on it right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:55 PM
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That’s not what I said. I said if you don’t pass the personality bar then your looks don’t matter Sarah might fuck Matt even tho he’s an asshole bc he passed her bar Dana isn’t bc he didn’t pass her bar You’re just operating under the assumption everyone has the same bar as you Hot people get fucked yeah but it’s bc whoever they’re with is cool with their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:37 PM
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Is that like an 100% guarantee? Wth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:35 PM
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The wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:34 PM
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But only 20% of people engage in casual sex, aren’t you more likely than not to meet someone similar to you? Also even if you were single for years and your gf wasn’t, that’s ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:33 PM
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If they don’t actually desire you, wouldn’t you be able to tell and avoid those types of women? It just sounds like gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:32 PM
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If they don’t actually desire you, wouldn’t you be able to tell and avoid those types of women? It just sounds like gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:32 PM
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That doesn’t really make sense? If women are more independent there’s less pressure to just choose someone and in fact you don’t have to think about other factors such as his job
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:30 PM
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If they’re not sexually desirable how did they even get a girlfriend or get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:29 PM
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What do you mean by not in it for free? What is free? Also “now you gotta make sure she’s in the “mood”, take her out, cater to her needs, and pay for everything including her bastard kids” Who the heck does this happen to? And if they don’t like it why don’t they just not do it and date someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:28 PM
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Especially if it’s just a hook up, why would I care what you look like lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:27 PM
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Some people are super social and can’t stand staying inside
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:25 PM
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Thank you for deciding our opinions for us
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:24 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:20 PM
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What do you mean? Why don’t they have opportunities to meet new people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:19 PM
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I’m confused. Is it bad she’s mostly defended women? How is that OP’s point? Wasn’t he talking about dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:17 PM
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I think he’s just older. I’ve noticed the older people in this sub discuss how their social circles date (traditionally) but then they complain about the omen wanting to be independent (the newer generation). They’re conflating two types of people to make themselves mad bc the traditionalist woman isn’t working and the independent woman isn’t gonna clean your house. You gotta choose one and deal with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:16 PM
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You seem awfully frustrated about the whole dynamic of a guy paying for a girls date Ok I get it, it seems unfair but you realize it’s an old tradition and those take time to go out of style? It’s already happening, most couples on the younger side split stuff 50/50 If you want a 50/50 relationship you gotta find that type of girl, you can’t force a traditional woman to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:14 PM
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Men don’t suck wtf, how can you say something so misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:10 PM
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You realize you’re allowed to complain about dating issues? We all have them, man or woman. Do you really believe society only makes life easier for women and doesn’t help men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:10 PM
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If someone is treating you like this, you realize it’s not ok right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:08 PM
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This is framed as if the only reason to get into a relationship is to get something from someone not bc you enjoy their company… Do you not just enjoy your current gf or do you date her bc she cooks and cleans for you Why is anyone doing anything for anyone else? Most 20 year olds nowadays cook for themselves, clean for themselves and work to support themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:07 PM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:06 PM
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But…how common is this? Especially among the new generation? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:03 PM
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Why do they always bring up the lawn when most young people can’t even afford a house. Most of us live in apartments. There are no lawns or garbage to take out
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:03 PM
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It lowkey sounds like you’re talking to a bot with pre programmed answers I’m scared
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:02 PM
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No….I have been physically stopped from paying for myself on a date. If you don’t wanna pay don’t but don’t act like every woman is forcing a man to pay for her date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:01 PM
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My bf doesn’t pay for my food…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:00 PM
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What is literally
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:47 PM
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The halo effect: “the tendency for an impression created in one area to influence opinion in another area” What does that have to do with anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:46 PM
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Why would anyone pick the ugly guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:45 PM
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I mean by saying that in order to discuss women in a general sense you must not include a certain type of women you’re not really taking in all experiences to get a good average
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:45 PM
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Ugh why do people in this thread sound like they hate the opposite sex all the time Men do not lose a “bang maid” a majority of the time. They lose their love. Also if all their friends died (men die younger) they lose an already probably not that emotional support system. Women have better support systems and are typically living off some type of retirement so they don’t find a need to remarry This dynamic will probably start to change in a few years as gender roles become less rigid
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:19 PM
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Wdym others
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:42 AM
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Uh feminism literally advocates for the choice of being a house wife or not lol wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:24 AM
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I guess I should have said approach method
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:25 PM
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In person as in meeting in real life whether it’s through cold approach or through friends or through clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:11 PM
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What? I found dating miserable bc I couldn’t even get a date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:02 PM
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I’ve always been a skinny black girl. Being skinny is my defining trait. Hell today someone told me I’m skinny. I was still treated how she described
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:55 PM
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You’re a 7/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:46 PM
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So since we’re not a large portion of women, we aren’t women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:46 PM
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Oh you mean online dating. Well that’s the thing, if you don’t put it in your profile I’m not gonna reject you for it. Like my friend has swiped left on a guy she’s otherwise liked bc Of the shirt he was wearing in a pic or the face he made. Most gamers put that on their profiles and they might get rejected for it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:40 PM
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I prefer your gf too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:34 PM
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Did whatever study you looked at specifically say financial issues = woman makes more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:30 PM
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Bc you can’t talk about how easy dating is for women but exclude an entire race of women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:27 PM
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Gym won’t change your race
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:22 PM
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If someone isn’t responding let them go
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:19 PM
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They usually describe their relationships with female family members as all bad and assume everyone is like that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:17 PM
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😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:16 PM
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Oof
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:07 PM
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But that’s not how things work? There’s no looks score There’s just people deciding if they’re attracted to someone or not based on how much they like their face and personality combined
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:06 PM
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If you don’t pass the personality bar, your looks don’t matter at all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:05 PM
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What’s a “good personality” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:04 PM
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Not really. Hot people aren’t compatible with everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:03 PM
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No. If I can tell you’re a basketball fan and I’m not into that, I don’t have to date you first to learn this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:03 PM
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Who is saying it’s more important 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:01 PM
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I’m balding and short
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:04 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:01 PM
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Wait we’re talking about OLD? Yeah ofc looks matter there. Isn’t that obvious?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:59 PM
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This implies that someone’s attraction or lack thereof to you can’t change
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:49 PM
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Like what’s his career vs hers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:11 PM
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I’m sorry, my dumbass brain read settle down not settle. I thought you were saying hot people never settled down and I was like wtfffff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:11 PM
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I think i saw that exchange That’s a really sad way to go to life. He must have been treated horribly for him to mainly have negative experiences with 50% of the population I’m confused on why he’d be interested in dating if that’s what he thinks women are like tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:06 PM
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Like more successful career wise? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:05 PM
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Most guys I’m my social circle never even tried dating apps and they’re all in their forever relationships. I just think online dating isn’t it. People need to go back to meeting in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:02 PM
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So then how do we actually know if your life that an ok looking girl is dating a good looking guy? What if it’s the opposite and your judgment is just off?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:00 PM
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But who is deciding if she’s good looking or not or if he’s better looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:58 PM
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So random women saw him online and then approached him in real life? Not random, in the same social circle. You know how you have your core group of friends and then acquaintances and then people you know through people but don’t know well? That dude either looks like Michael b Jordan or he's lying. That simply doesn't happen, people swipe quickly you wouldn't recognize a random stranger like that Well he’s white and I witnessed him dating throughout college. Like most of my friends tho he ended…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:56 PM
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What’s a mediocre life or job? What’s ok looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:52 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:51 PM
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girls don’t need a personality Scariest thing I’ve read today
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:50 PM
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This matters where you are. Big city or small? Which part of what country? Bc if it was like LA, I would say just go to all the free events everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:49 PM
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That’s a gross way to talk about women tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:48 PM
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Then don’t date her??? Like font date someone you’re not excited about and then stew
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:47 PM
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Yeah they do. One of my friends told me that after he made his tinder, girls were coming up to him more bc they saw on tinder he was single now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:46 PM
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Why are they fucking down. Oh wait isn’t that just your opinion tho. Like you might think a guy is out of the League of a girl but what if I think the opposite? Like who is deciding these leagues
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:43 PM
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If I’m seeing someone twice a week like we were, and I’m attracted to them, of course I want to have sex. If it was just a FWB thing and it was just sex why didn’t you make that clear to her and stop letting her in if it wasn’t for sex? The worst part was that she did not see a problem with it at all. I don’t really see the problem either but I’ve never had a solely sexual relationship either Of course I was supposed to hold up my end of the bargain and do everything she wanted. Like what? The w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:42 PM
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That’s super weird and illogical of them considering a big part online dating is seeing how attractive the person is. Maybe you should spend less time with weirdos like that? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:38 PM
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Then carry on lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:37 PM
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Well I didn’t get many matches in the first place. They all look like the average men tho I’m sure this sub would call them betas or something. They just have healthy and large social circles
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:37 PM
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That’s so bad bc then it leads to not coming up with solutions bc “it’s only a minority”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:32 PM
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So naturally there’s more attractive men than women but women are using products and surgeries to become more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:30 PM
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Wait…y’all really believe that in our sore time we stew over ugly men thinking they’re hot and plot to change that? At this point you’ve just created a cartoon villain in your head. Dude most people are thinking about themselves not..this whole convoluted mess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:29 PM
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Where are we getting this concrete data that women are getting compliment from men out of their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:27 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:26 PM
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Hypergamy is when you date until you find someone you’re compatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:26 PM
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What? You can find someone attractive and not want to date them? Why are you assuming they’re kying
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:25 PM
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Sometimes it’s doesn’t sound like the men and women on this sub even like each other. Like why are you interested in dating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:23 PM
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This is unfair, if anything it’s probably bc men usually only have one emotional outlet; their partner while women have bigger social networks. Like your true love just died and you lose all your support, ofc you’re gonna die soon after
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:23 PM
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Which part
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:22 PM
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I’m concerned by those that take it seriously here, someone just said “It’s not normal to hang out with women” on another thread and I’m dying omg
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:20 PM
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I got as many as my guy friends People weren’t attracted to my face/profile so they didn’t swipe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:19 PM
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No, because there are still other options such as online. But most people don’t online date or even meet partners online. In fact, isn’t online dating mostly men? The problem is that women's standards are rising like crazy such that a lot of men don't qualify anymore What standards do men not qualify for anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:18 PM
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I feel like that’s what unattractive people would tell themselves s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:17 PM
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I see it everywhere but you cannot describe the experience of women and bar one race bc it doesn’t fit into your narrative. It’s not the experience of the average women anymore. It’s the experience of the average women (barring one race). Or it means you think that one race of that group of women don’t count as women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:16 PM
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It's not "normal" to be able to be in social situations with women it's disrespectful for you to imply that Bro this is peak like Idek 😂😭😭😭 It is abnormal to socialize with the Fe-Male!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:14 PM
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The more attractive the woman. The less her body count. It's reported but if you see a trend of less a bodycount and the more her perceived attractiveness. It tells you a lot about women. They don't want to be smashing every random attractive guy. Source? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:12 PM
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No he doesn’t, I think that might just be you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:11 PM
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Huh? At least in my experience people make it clear that they just wanna keep things casual and don’t want anything serious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:11 PM
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Have you never been to a college?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:09 PM
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I didn’t just go online and pick someone But my story is one many men on this sub have told, they were rejected a lot, didn’t date during school like everyone else, finally met someone after online dating for so long. Why doesn’t my story count?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:06 PM
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Isn’t the reason dating in general is decreasing is bc people don’t have tenets of socialization such as church, school, clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:05 PM
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Yeah then I could dance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:04 PM
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Yes that’s how I finally found someone. His bio made me laugh and the rest is history. Took a really long time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:59 PM
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Isn’t that specifically this generation? Like not most of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:59 PM
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Women say looks don’t matter to cope with what exactly? I usually hear people say personality is important but not the only things that matters obviously. Like you can’t only depend on your looks unless you’re crazy hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:58 PM
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what options did I have? I never got asked out or hit on. If I asked someone out they said no. Really wasn’t anything I was doing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:57 PM
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If I had options they didn’t speak up Um MOST men do not have no options. It is not a common trend among men to never date
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:56 PM
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They said most not all. In general most of the population doesn’t have casual sex, I believe it’s only 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:53 PM
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Aren’t they both alphas then? They both had sex with no commitment successfully
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:52 PM
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Huh? All women? But I’m not? Plenty of women in this thread aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:51 PM
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What? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:50 PM
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Wtf who thinks hot people don’t settle 😂😂😂 this is so funny to me. The only married people are un-hot people??? Sorry this one just is truly confusing me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:48 PM
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I’ve literally never heard someone say ONLY personality matters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:45 PM
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The homeless shelters?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:44 PM
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That’s pretty discriminatory, how are my standards too high
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:44 PM
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When I was single I was known for not being picky and talked to every single match I got, not that there were many I think it’s scary y’all have these ready to go responses when someone says something against your narrative. Like it’s weird how quick you decided it’s bc I’m picky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:43 PM
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Why is it bizarre a woman sometimes wanted to have sex and other times just wanted to hang out? I’m so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:42 PM
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Ok as a black woman who has been rejected for my race, why would I want to date someone who expressed they don’t like black girls? That’s kind of pathetic for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:40 PM
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So like only 20% of dudes get action?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:39 PM
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Bc men have low standards of what you’re saying is true?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:37 PM
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Well based on profiles right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:37 PM
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I’m confused, the government funded two apt for your former gf with tax payer money? Are these golf clubs government funded?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:35 PM
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Are they private shelters or government funded? Like do you have a state or city to use as an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:34 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:33 PM
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What same argument can be used for feminism? Feminism is successful bc it involves changing laws and regulations It’s not like they can make a law you can only date guys that are nice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:33 PM
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Where did you get that fact
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:31 PM
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What’s your “looksmatch”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:31 PM
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But you can’t talk about how women don’t experience the same as men why not including a large portion of women no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:30 PM
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How can you just say that like it’s a fact lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:29 PM
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I’m a black woman who had an incredibly hard time in dating, do not speak for us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:29 PM
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Bc we’re not women. I learned that a lot here that when people talk about women on this sub, they’re not including us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:28 PM
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So if you get likes on tinder you have hordes of peoples attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:15 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:14 PM
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When you say women have higher standards, what do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:14 PM
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That’s not proof? It’s specifically looking at tinder It’s look at swipes Just bc I hate your profile doesn’t mean I think you’re ugly no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:13 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:12 PM
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I mean when people say they don’t like someone for their personality, why do we assume they’re lying? Like there can be two gamer nerds and I might like one over the other bc of the difference in behavior in gaming. Like you can’t ignore it’s a factor in deciding to date someone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:12 PM
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It’s stupid bc Sarah might have been really attracted to mikes personality bc he’s a coke head and she is too. Or like Darlene won’t date you, not bc you’re ugly, but you’re a huge metal head and she’s just not into it. That’s when personality becomes relevant but people are being willfully ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:09 PM
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Who is saying personality is everything? I hear people say personality is an important factor that can make or break if dating continues and people interpret that to mean it’s the only thing that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:08 PM
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No bc i people care about personality + looks. Dating apps already have that covered. These apps just took away a factor, ofc it’s not gonna do better
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:04 PM
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Doesn’t that mean personality isn’t the only thing that matters? I thought everyone knew in dating for MOST people it’s looks + personality ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:02 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:01 PM
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Ugly women or even average women don’t have hordes of mens attention lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:36 PM
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Yeah he was adamant on it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:35 PM
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That’s super pessimistic to say men are just as bad I feel like More people are good than bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:46 PM
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There’s way more women on tinder than men This is referring to swipes. I swiped left I plenty of attractive guys bc I didn’t like their profiles. Not bc they’re ugly. The point of tinder is to create a small pool of people to date from no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:44 PM
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Yeah it’s a wonderful profession if you chooose to do so. Don’t think I said there was
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:42 PM
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Ohhhh so like old people. That’s where this disconnect keeps coming from for me on this sub. Older people describe the dynamics of men and women and I’m shook bc my social circle isn’t like that but I’m also gen z not “men and women can’t be friends EVER” generation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:42 PM
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Ok if a liberal woman like ME says share your emotions but then you go do that to my super christian traditional friend and she reacts badly, maybe the same people asking aren’t the ones that hate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:41 PM
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Like 75% of women have been found to dislike men showing emotions? I would’ve thought it would split similar to conservatives and liberals considering one side hates men showing emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:40 PM
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Wow that’s crazy. Women as a whole seem like a cold gender with that perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:38 PM
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What? I’ve had a boyfriend tell me he’s not my therapist when I came for emotional support. He said he didn’t want me to accidentally associate crying with him so I shouldn’t come to him if I was ever sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:37 PM
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Oh yeah? And where did you learn that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:37 PM
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You truly believe that? That’s sad. That means you’ve never had a female friend hold you while crying and rubbing your back? Or recreating a comforting childhood tradition when you’re upset by your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:35 PM
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But where did those numbers come from
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:33 PM
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They say they’re more attracted to men in relationships? That’s super weird and indicates some commitment issues tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:33 PM
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Did that happen recently omg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:32 PM
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Did you care for him outright, or did your care manifest once you deemed him a suitable partner ? What I mean is that if he was in dire straits before,while you were only acquaintances (before romantic involvement), would you have helped him without hesitation? I didn’t know him before we dated. If we were friend before I would’ve helped him just as I’ve done with many male friends/acquaintances. You’re kind of shitty if you don’t help people you know no?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:32 PM
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But the common denominator is that every woman's type is ALWAYS conventionally attractive, and conventionally unattractive men are no one's type. Isn’t this the case for everyone? Both genders? For instance, some women may like roided out meatheads, some may like kpop pretty boys, some may like edgy guys with tattoos and piercings, some may like more "conventional" chads- but all of those men are tall/have an attractive face. A lot of us didn’t want our friend back with her bf bc he cheated on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 03:31 PM
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How so? I care strongly for my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:09 AM
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Are they not going after these guys that are taken like in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:08 AM
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Nope. I remember my straight male friend pointed out this cute guy with frosted tips and was like “Yummylicky look at that guy, he’s so ugly right” A lot of us didn’t want our friend back with her bf bc he cheated on her and some of us agreed he wasn’t even that cute but he was so hot to her And then I’ve had so many awk conversations where people reiterate the races (usually mine awkward) they could never date bc of dumb things like their parents hating that race or looking out of place in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:07 AM
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It's interesting that you didn't say never coming up to approach in a dating context. Sorry I thought it was implied. I’ve literally never been approached for a date. Never asked to a school dance or on a date in college or stopped on the street and gotten my number asked for. I know other women like this too, they’ve usually given off shy vibes like me. Now the majority of women I know do get asked out and approached on the street. I’ve been there a lot for it And what's the problem with ppl no…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:04 AM
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Thanks for the description
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:01 AM
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Not really. I care about my male family and friends a lot and then I care about the general male population in the same way as I do for the female one Everyone deserves empathy/sympathy. Even when you’ve fucked up, done something terrrible or believe in vile things I will always wish safety on you and feel for the negative moments in your life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:00 AM
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I mean not that many. You said most girls you know. I know like one shitty girl
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:58 PM
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No apparently Dumb in man = too much sex in women 😂😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:57 PM
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Mmm doesn’t necessarily even mean he passes my looks threshold. He’s probably just fine at sex and good company in my social circles preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:56 PM
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Hey OP, what does an ugly starter girlfriend look like/act like
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:55 PM
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When did the women council declare this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:54 PM
2

You know a lot of shitty people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:54 PM
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You don’t go outside and stare at men in your precious free time? Weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:53 PM
1

Ooh ooh aah Who tf says mating strategy in real life Jesus Christ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:52 PM
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Really? I’ve been told I’m good at noticing tiny shifts in moods from both men and women while like my mom can’t tell if I’m upset and I’m also a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:34 PM
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They can be as masculine or as feminine or anything in-between as they want and it won't harm their chances of finding love...or at least a sex partner. This like…isn’t true tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:32 PM
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Oh I don’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:31 PM
-2

Is it also one of the worst things men can say?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:31 PM
2

Is it set in stone concrete that all women freak out when their man tells her his emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:30 PM
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Are the women that are asking men to share their feelings the same ones chastising them for it? If a super liberal woman asks you to share but then you open up to a very traditional SAHM type, you’re gonna get a differing response no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:28 PM
1

Yeah I felt like I was unattractive to most men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:27 PM
1

Me too, he’s the best :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:37 PM
1

Well I’m taking statistics, coming up with a theory, testing it and then documenting the results
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:36 PM
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I dont care about ppl that have made bad choices in life. Wdym? Also you don’t have to care about anyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:36 PM
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That’s what I mean their radar isn’t an actual radar It’s not radar. It’s just what we call it. It’s a combination of being not naive, perceptive, and good at socializing Yes it is because the other misogynistic men are getting play. The only diff is that they were born with better looks That’s not it only it tho. For some dudes it bc they look better. For some it’s not, they may not look that hot but they’re wildly charismatic or just good at masking. If a naive women is approached by a misogyn…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:35 PM
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If you specifically talking about the straights I do have to say I don’t really have experience in that dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:30 PM
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I assumed it would be offered to women who don’t believe in abortion and opt for adoption but the man wants to keep the child. There’s a few situations like that, ok sure they’d request paper abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:30 PM
1

Ok I must have misinterpreted something I read. Also thank god bc that would be terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:28 PM
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I think I replied to the wrong person And what I’m saying isn’t super clear I was saying it’s dumb to get mad women aren’t taking the fact that OP is educated over non educated men bc why are the educated men immediately “better” and what women should choose
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:27 PM
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Maybe. Truly only he knows but we chose each other when there’s others we could choose instead
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:25 PM
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I mean doesn’t that depend on the person? You can’t tell a man that prefers the intimacy of a relationship that no he actually wants only sex Also have you only had mediocre sex i relationships or something? What’s up with the assertion it’s always worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:21 PM
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Not from seeing the child but forces him to sign it so the can’t see a wanted child. So women wouldn’t be able to paper abort? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:16 PM
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Also how do you solve these scenarios A: pregnant man and woman divorcing, woman withholds contact until man signs papers shortly after giving birth B: man forces woman to sign papers through intimidation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:48 PM
1

Sorry I meant those stats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:46 PM
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That would be something nice to explore and change (along with making circumcision illegal and change the definition of rape) but how tf do you get the gov to listen to such an idea It would solve a lot of peoples problems, there’s lot of women/men who gladly want the other person to legally not have rights I suppose it’s not practical bc of the whole child support argument and lack of DNA privacy nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:42 PM
1

Assuming you live in America, I guess it’s relevant that finding someone that makes that much is actually kind of rare
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:40 PM
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How do you apply statistics? Use them to help inform decisions Stats don't tell you what to do, just what is in general. Stats can't be applied to individuals. IE average woman has 2.1 kids, who the fuck is having 0.1 kids XD fuck i gotta learn how to split a kid in half now! Knowing the average woman has 2.1 kids gives me an idea that the average woman responds best to ads with two kids. I can go out and test that and come back with my findings Idk. Learning that percentages existed of individu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:39 PM
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They range. One was thin, young, hot, smoked, social, had low self esteem (what girl doesn't), fun to be around, generally pleasant. She liked me and heavily pursued me (I was in highschool at the time and had a car, not many guys did in a farm town) but couldn't handle me being shorter so it ended fast. But on the other range, one was fat, butch, complained a lot, had a low self esteem (again, what girl doesn't say that), boring and used Netflix as a hobby. Like what a broad question. And that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:36 PM
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Well just like with socially awkwardness and depression, some people are really good at hiding it? How many times have people said they had no idea after a suicide? But also some people are really obvious with their depression If you’re misogynistic and struggling in dating, suggesting that those views might be appearing in your interactions isn’t shocking or bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:33 PM
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Being fit is important, physical health is important for everything in life. Many don’t believe this Having a good job is important in life. Not everyone believed this it turns out Want to afford to have a family? A lot of people don’t have even want one Want to live long enough to have a family? Need good health. Again a lot of people don’t want this ⁠That's been my experience, the only complaint I've received from women is my height Ok but from a scientific perspective, how common is it women …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:31 PM
2

Don’t most Americans live below the poverty line?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:25 PM
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Well there’s things women can do to cut down on the amount of sexual attention they receive but they refuse to do it. Oh wow like what? Plus I see what happens to women when they don’t get any sexual attention. They’re miserable. Oh I was fine. Guess I was just a super rare outlier. But a lot of my friends are fine too. Maybe we’re all just outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:24 PM
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How many dudes be going to jail tho 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:23 PM
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So is it only secluded to straight men and straight women making friends with straight women? Or are any bisexuals allowed? If not then imma have to remove myself from this convo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:22 PM
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You’re insane Wait Dr. Fitzpatrick…did you find me???? I’m not putting the onus on women to initiate I’m saying that women are not receptive of men just talking to them to the point of being friends. Ohhh that’s fair I suppose. Of the people who are open to friend ships I think some of them are women but they might assume they’re being hit on I make small talk all the time to everyone lol that doesn’t mean I have lots of friends. I could make jokes at the grocery store about shit and they laugh …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:21 PM
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I get where you're coming from, but the fact is that people are far more open to making conversation/randomly befriending a woman over a man. It makes no difference what approach, quite honestly. Yeah but why? Why are people more receptive to women rather than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:17 PM
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Yes. And not all women have the luxury of anyone coming up to them either. Whether it’s never having people come up to you when making friends or never coming up to you to ask directions, some of us just don’t experience it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:16 PM
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Certain men get the benefit of being social butterflies and shit. Some do just because they’re tall or good looking But that’s how it is man? Sorry? I don’t het the benefit of being a social butterfly but I have gorgeous friends that do. If I try to throw a party maybe one person will show up. If my best friend does and invites the same people everyone will show up. Once she walked into a frat party and came out with a committed boyfriend and this was me going into my second year of college stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:15 PM
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No? My current boyfriend is dating me bc he likes me not just bc I was the hottest he could get lol. Like he could definitely pull harder and better, he doesn’t wanna bc we love each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:06 PM
1

What’s a paper abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:05 PM
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Lol how does this work for guys with racial preferences. I wasn’t obese and I was unattractive to many
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:03 PM
1

Wouldn’t statistics be more practical than trp advice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:02 PM
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I feel like valuing education wouldn’t make you pretentious that you’d reject people for it no? You’re never done learning It’s kind of pretentious
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:01 PM
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The only complaint i have ever received from women is height. 5 7 is too short for them. Some gfs were 5 8 or 5 9 but dumped me or had major issues with my height. One had a mental break down and started screaming when we both measured ourselves one night. Describe these women if it’s not too big of an ask
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:59 PM
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Why would you date a 20 year old woman if you want someone similar to you with 6 figure savings, six figure income and a college degree? Like you’re playing yourself no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:56 PM
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Being 6 foot tall does fuck all for making a relationship good. How many women actually have this as a preference? “Be taller than me” is a common preference among some women but how many have a hard guideline of 6 feet? Having an education Important to those who value education. Studies show educated people marry educated people and vice versa being fit good job Why is this even important no addictions, no history of abuse Most people go for those with similar experiences Notice a common theme?…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:55 PM
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I mean yeah? Does anyone actually believe they’re the best looking person ever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:50 PM
1

Could you actually expand on that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:28 PM
1

Yeah but my thoughts are like “Oh I need more TP”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:15 PM
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Can confirm my friends and I usually do not find the same dudes hot. Including straight male friends in this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:12 PM
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But people can sense it? Just like people can sense if you’re socially awkward or depressed
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:11 PM
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Jail???
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:11 PM
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Yes they can, this is how I’ve befriended plenty of gay men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:10 PM
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Ok but…why is this all on women? Why can’t men go out there and bond over cheesy bitz with other dudes. Do you notice you’re putting the onus on women to approach men and befriend them? Also how are you supposed to do that when women are more likely to small talk. I small talk at the grocery store all the time, dudes usually aren’t receptive to me commenting on how big lemons have gotten unless they’re way older, I can’t force men to socialize lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:09 PM
2

My mom comes home all the time saying she made a new friend
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:08 PM
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But this is how my mom makes friends all the time? Aren’t women just socialized to well, be more social Any other ladies out there that have made friends in a bathroom? Ok what about men? I went bar hopping alone, you know who approached me? Women. Literally no men. We’ve had a couple parties at work for our coworkers, who shows up? Who volunteers to set up? Women. Men just aren’t taught to randomly socialize and make small talk Am I wrong? I’d love some discussion and nuance
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:08 PM
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You think women want sexually charged compliments on the street??? It’s scary and threatening, isn’t t common sense that we’re fine without them? Man I am concerned that you believe women like those comments
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:05 PM
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Well I mean I believe my friends on Face value? Why would someone lie about something someone else is talking about? That’s super weird dude…red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:03 PM
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Um I’m not forcing you to do anything? Why would someone be allowed to get out of paying for their child just bc they don’t feel like it? Like the kid needs support no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:03 PM
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Oh I was saying that a lot of people seem to have a very black and white thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:02 PM
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But how would you force a person to do something with the baby in their body without being inhumane? Like even if Jack wants to abort, what’s the court gonna do? Hire armed guards to take force the woman to an abortion lol? That’s why I don’t understand why men would be involved? Barring force how do they have a way to enforce decisions about someone else’s body
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:01 PM
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How are they ranting….this is a text medium? what they’re saying isn’t wrong? Tinder and most OLD has been found to be mostly male. Those are just facts Also it’s not wrong to point out the validity or lack ther of, pf your data source no?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:59 PM
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I’ve never seen that. Guys usually just ignore us when they think we’re ugly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:57 PM
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I don’t wanna date someone that would only choose me bc I’m currently the hottest in the room lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:57 PM
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But how do you force someone to abort
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:55 PM
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That this sub is super weird. I only know one of them that uses Reddit and he’s confused by my interactions here. I r really doubt the other ones are on Reddit. Their social media is more so Instagram. They also just don’t really live online like I do, they’re usually going out or throwing get togethers or gaming
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:22 PM
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Why would I stop hanging out with someone bc they’re more attractive than me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:20 PM
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I feel like your relationship is like most then. I do plenty of stuff with my bf I don’t actually like bc I love him and it’s enjoyable with him. I also get the appeal of traditional relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:19 PM
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That’s super weird that you do that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:12 PM
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Ohhh i thought you were saying otherwise My b tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:11 PM
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I’m ok looking
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:10 PM
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Isn’t rape about power? That’s why men get raped by other men at similar rapes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:10 PM
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Ty 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:08 PM
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It’s really funny tho when they say dating is so easy for me and then I point out I’ve been rejected for my race and they’re like “oh yeah, racism exists”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:09 PM
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Ok so you’re not like subservient to him, you just prefer to defer to him Like if he wanted to shit in your mouth in the bedroom you’d be allowed to say no?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:08 PM
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I really didn’t know what you mean. That’s different then what you were initially saying. There’s less resources but they’re not becoming homeless bc of their gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:08 PM
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Most women would just rather be alone. Literally last week my 50 year old coworker dumped her bf and told me she’s having way more fun with her friends
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:07 PM
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If I only tried dating black guys, I literally never would have dated. White men are the most open minded hen it comes to dating outside of race imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:03 PM
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Bro I’ve been sat on so many times My friends would try to pawn guys at clubs off me and they’d be like ew lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:01 PM
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Yeah as a black woman, when I was younger they would hide you, their friends would look at them weird, they’d invite you to their house but oop only off they can sneak you in even tho we’re 21
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 07:01 PM
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They do seem to forget non-white/Asian women exist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:59 PM
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It’s weird bc when I’ve gone out my friends have rejected drinks but this guy said we love it so I guess I’m a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:55 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:54 PM
1

It’s pretty common He’s just not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:53 PM
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If I ever get asked out, I’m gonna assume it’s a prank lol. I know so many other women who feel this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:52 PM
1

As a result woman who fits this description and knows other women that do too…we’re fine?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:50 PM
1

I have never received a free mea or ride for being hot lmao What’s an emotional tampon
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:49 PM
1

Remember, only hot people get approached
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:47 PM
2

Honestly Sims 3 is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:44 PM
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Weird. Only my really pretty friends get male attention. Like we talk about in groups how only a few girls receive all the attention when we go out. You sure you’re not just thinking of hot women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:43 PM
3

Is the other parent taking on the same amount of parenting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:42 PM
1

Most women do not want to do this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:38 PM
2

How
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:34 PM
1

Like if he wanted another girlfriend or to do something weird in the bedroom you’d agree bc he’s always right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:30 PM
3

So you’re supposed to just take it all on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:25 PM
1

You’re 16????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:17 PM
1

Who advocates for 8+ month abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:16 PM
1

Men become homeless bc they’re male? How the hell does that work? Is someone targeting men to make them homes less?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:03 PM
2

Isn’t that based on profiles not the actual guy? Also isn’t tinder way off in guy to girl ratio?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:02 PM
1

Wait zombies? Ooooooh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:01 PM
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I mean…being cat called isn’t reLly the same no…? I have a friend that kept getting harassed on the street bc she’s really small but she was single for like 5 years, no guys showing interest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 06:01 PM
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Do you really think most red pillers started out that selfish way where women are treated dismissivley Why is their reaction to constant rejection to externalize it and go red pill when women put in the same situation don’t (me) i can guarantee that a large portion of them started out self sacrificial putting others first and viewing women as these absolutely wonderful creatures who are so kind compassionate loving etc, It’s wrong to treat people like this but their experiences with women change…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:55 PM
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They’re literally saying on average women aren’t destroyed by cheating which….isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:51 PM
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Moving goalposts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:50 PM
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Man y’all have no nuance for abusive relationships. I hope you’re never caught in this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:50 PM
1

Wait do those things happen because they’re male or is it just something that happens to a lot of men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:47 PM
1

“Separate but equal” wasn’t very equal at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:43 PM
1

Why would men have say in abortion? How would you force someone to abort/not have a baby without physically assaulting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:40 PM
1

Reciprocate what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:33 PM
1

Organically like outside
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:32 PM
1

Yeah they’ll physically take your card to keep you from paying and then venmo request you later
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:32 PM
1

Where’s the data
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:31 PM
1

This is a weird comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:25 PM
0

Guess I’m a man now. Where do I get my card?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:24 PM
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No when I send my guy friends screenshots they all get really weirded out by y’all AND me for engaging
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:24 PM
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What does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:22 PM
0

I am fully addicted to weed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:21 PM
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Why do people on here act like there’s a war of genders??? Jesus don’t y’all have friends you love if the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:20 PM
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SAME! I’m currently decked out in all pink and look super girly. My friends think I’m such a weirdo for using this app but I’m autistic and live online lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:16 PM
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Yeah seeing some responses it’s like, bro do you even know any ladies? and why do you want to date us, that description sounds terrible lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:12 PM
4

If you’re pretty
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:11 PM
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If I go alone to a club I won’t get in for free lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:11 PM
1

I don’t like beer and every time I travel I lose something
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:10 PM
1

When were you attacked? Ngl but you sound triggered bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:09 PM
5

Not you describing my bf who’s obsessed with tok tok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:08 PM
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I’ve literally never gotten make attention in everyday life 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:07 PM
3

Once a vampire broke into my house and it scared the shit out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:07 PM
1

Omg what mods do you have???? I love murdering sims
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:06 PM
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What? I play the sims to lock families into walls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:05 PM
9

All my plants are dead
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:05 PM
1

Are you watching me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:04 PM
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I mean…the bar fir looks is also lower for casual sex. I have a much higher bar for real relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:02 PM
4

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:09 PM
1

Sorry, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:09 PM
1

They’ve never set you up? You’ve never clicked with anyone from your clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:09 PM
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I don’t think anyone likes that. I think those are abusive relationships and they don’t only involve female victims
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:08 PM
0

Idk I know gamer couples
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:07 PM
1

Those are gaining traction among women no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:06 PM
1

How often does it happen tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:05 PM
2

Like what are the traits of the good guy she’s making wait for her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 04:05 PM
3

Bumble banning fatphobic messages proves men are expected to lower their standards…?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:58 PM
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No there were plenty of men I met who weren’t interested in a relationship and would never do casual sex. It’s perfectly possible
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:56 PM
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Do you think most women are single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:55 PM
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Ok where did you learn this lol. People are different. Some are fine alone and some aren’t. In anthropology we learned women do better single bc they usually have bigger support systems Where did you get it that women prefer disrespect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:55 PM
1

No but people who so desperately don’t want to be alone are sad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:51 PM
0

What hobbies are you in? How many female friends do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:50 PM
4

Who is having casual sex once a month lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:48 PM
4

Wow I have to tell so many of my friends they’re chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:47 PM
1

Why isn’t he good? Also what’s a “good” guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:46 PM
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Not really? Doesn’t that depend on the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:46 PM
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So it’s a hypothetical? Chad is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:45 PM
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I mean they’re hot to gamer girls no?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:44 PM
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That’s how most relationships should start I thought. You get to a point where you’re happy and a byproduct is the relationship. That’s what everyone should strive for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:44 PM
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I really don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:28 AM
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Then what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 01:43 AM
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How do you know they were out of my league? I’m cute and I asked out guys whose personality I liked
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 01:19 PM
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Oh in the literal sense of the word I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:31 PM
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How often do people settle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:30 PM
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But how often do people date people they find less exciting than what they actually want? There’s plenty of exciting men who would be awesome to settle down with, she can just go find him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:05 PM
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How do you know it’s 10%? Being rejected doesn’t necessarily mean there’s anything wrong with you. If I reject you bc you’re not a ginger, it doesn’t mean you’re unworthy, you’re just not WhT intrigues me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:04 PM
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How is Brad more exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:01 PM
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Where’d you get the numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:56 PM
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Why doesn’t she just date sims else other than Jim if he’s not exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:55 PM
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Ah yes, YouTube social experiments
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:55 PM
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That’s…not true? Wdym. Most people sympathize with those they are close to, man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:30 PM
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Nah not incels. I’m not overweight. Average people don’t catch peoples attention. That’s why we’re average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:29 PM
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I’m not fat and black?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:28 PM
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But how little women do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:28 PM
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The campaign to encourage girls to join math and science? How is that a quota/incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:27 PM
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Some of you do sure, but that's not the common experience. you ask most women if they have approached, they normally say no.... or they approached like 5 times in their life. I wish there was a way to know for sure Atypical women and more logically based women may approach men, but those women are the exception. Logically based??? Other women in this thread admitted to only asking guys in their friend group or social circle. Like there's no way you are cold approaching many men and getting rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:26 PM
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The AF/BB argument states that women get with BBs once they fail at locking down AF, but eventually the contempt builds and they break up with the BB who they weren’t that attracted to. So high divorce rates would jive with this. This implies there’s only two possible men and the choice of singlehoood isn’t existent Sun exposure causes cell damage and cell damage causes cancer. I feel comfortable saying sun exposure causes cancer. It’s dangerous to say that. You might scare some people into avoi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:24 PM
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Oh wow, what a cold way to navigate relationships. I suppose that’s where we split off
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:22 PM
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Men who claim they need women (which is like not the majority) are probably just craving intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:20 PM
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So it can’t be that she’s taken, not interested in dating, or just doesn’t click with you?? Bro people do not think about others as worthy or unworthy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:14 PM
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Like other men avoid and ignore you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:07 PM
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The average women is not. I’ve been called ugly a lot by guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:07 PM
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How does that work? Only a small minority of women use dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:06 PM
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Do you have an example of this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 07:01 PM
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Also does it follow how people are choosing their partners/if they had knowledge of income before getting together?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:59 PM
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But I already do that? Now what else do you want
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:57 PM
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There doesn’t need to be a gendered victim. If you struggle with dating, you struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:56 PM
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Yeah…when I wanted just sex I would tell guys this? I’m confused on the issue here
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:55 PM
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Or just not date?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:53 PM
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Yes we do. Some of us get rejected and ignored and we don’t have the same mindset as y’all and that’s what we don’t get
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:51 PM
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That’s kind of the point. Why pay for sex when you can get it for free with the woman interested in you? I’ve often said to a guy I’m crushing on I don’t understand how he’s single. Like you obviously don’t have zero options
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:50 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:48 PM
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Not ugly but just average. Datings a struggle but that’s just how it be. Get a pet and a hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:45 PM
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I’m confused, you don’t individualize the people in your life, you just categorize them? How
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:42 PM
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That’s business not an intimate relationship Do you use marketing tactics in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:40 PM
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But relationships are an individual thing, not a government agency? I’m a black woman but if you tried to use generalizations to get at me bc I’m an individual not an amalgamation of generalized traits
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:39 PM
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Divorce rates are 50% right? All that means is people are leaving unhappy relationships no? If the goal is to settle with a BB, shouldn’t divorce be low? And money is the #1 driver of divorce? So it’s not a stretch to say the fact that a couple is together does not mean it’s a happy healthy relationship. Financial issues cause stress and stress can end relationships That’s why the bluepill line “I see average people in relationships all the time” does not prove much if there are legions of unhap…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:37 PM
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How do you know that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:35 PM
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Women not needing men is good? Instead of depending on someone they can support themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:33 PM
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Yes? Wdym??? People are attracted to what’s similar/comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:29 PM
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I saw some guy on here say “I can even cook” like it was impressive for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:12 PM
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I remember our friend group was watching a movie and a character did something like pick up something a girl dropped, my friend acted like it was the most amazing thing ever to the point where a guy was like “Jesus Christ the bar is on the floor”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 06:11 PM
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Wait so are you using two accounts
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 09:07 PM
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The problem is that nobody ever ascribes women any responsibility for anything they do. Wdym
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 09:06 PM
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How are men and women responsible
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 09:02 PM
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Why
/r/ExRedPill08/06/22 09:01 PM
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That lines up for some women and not others as well with some men but not others, it’s a trait if certain people, not just all women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:57 PM
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But…I am a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:55 PM
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Someone not being attracted to you doesn’t mean that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:25 AM
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How are women the compassionate wonderful sex? That’s not how traits wotk
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 04:48 PM
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“Why does manipulation work?”
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 11:20 PM
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Can you show me? This thread is pretty long
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 09:03 PM
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Do you think we get paid in American dollars? 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:59 PM
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Aren’t you agreeing with them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:57 PM
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Like did people go to college, it’s pretty well known you can finagle your way into any job (barring like doctors/lawYers/specialized jobs) if you have the skills and a bachelor with almost anything. I know a theater major who’s a coder bc even tho she was doing theater she took a bunch of coding classes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:57 PM
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I mean a lot of jobs don’t care what your major is, just as long as you have a Bachelors You can get a communications degree and a bunch of media internships and get a media job or go to law school Like it’s dumb to judge people by majors. I have a BA but I work in data management and looking at a promotion already
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:54 PM
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As an autistic person, I feel like a lot of us ignore looks bc we’re looking for someone who we can be us with I didn’t go for my bf bc of his face but bc his humor was as weird as mine. Now we act like total lovey dovey weirdos in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:47 PM
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Ok but have you actually looked at data? Not your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:36 PM
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Are you saying people don’t date people they meet in college? How did your friends meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:35 PM
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I interact with lots of people, most men in my life don’t struggle dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:56 AM
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Well there’s a lot of stunning men and women but they’re not common. Then there’s people like me who look fine, might look really pretty on a day I pull my hair back or wear a specific outfit. I’m interested in what people mena when they talk about makeup Rarely does make up IN PERSON “fool a person”. Like you can tell if someone is wearing a full face. Way harder like online. I don’t think most people wear a full face on a daily basis. I personally wear eyeliner which gives a little something b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:41 AM
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No. People who want to cheat will cheat no matter how perfect things are. There’s never a reason to cheat, you can literally just break up first
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:37 AM
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I didn’t say anything grinded my gears…I’m really sorry for making the post. I’ll delete it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:44 AM
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Gonna be honest… you’re being reductive in all these sub-threads, breaking down and challenging every last line. Wasn’t my intention What men are sharing is a large collection of corroborating experiences that they’ve had, experiences unique to their gender, experiences and perspectives that you are unlikely to ever uncover in your own life. I mean I know how they feel, I’ve experienced some of the same things. I don’t think was denying anyones experience anywhere but in trying to see if anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:43 AM
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I don't think you understand how statistics work. If the majority of 20% of women think something, it's highly likely that the entire population thinks the same way because the odds that the randomly selected 20% are all somehow biased is extremely low. You’re not taking into account that only a minority of people use dating apps. Is there something those people might have in common? And yeah that's what everyone says. Meet women through hobbies. And then in the next breath women will say it's "…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:31 AM
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Why race and Econ status?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:28 AM
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Or it’s not that? I should check if they account for that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:02 AM
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I mean I found “According to statistics, today's average American woman is 5'4”, has a waist size of 34-35”, and weighs between 140-150 lbs with a dress size of 12-14.” Like would that just make me above average bc like my dating history wouldn’t reflect that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 01:01 AM
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Okay, I’ll look up studies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:59 AM
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That seems..pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:56 AM
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So if I take a survey I will find the average man is lonely, unsuccessful in romance, and doesn’t have female friends? I’ll be back
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:50 AM
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Your asking for literature on the fact that it's possible to observe differences in groups of people??? I must be missing something The patterns of women, sorry shouldn’t have asked Because that by and large seems to be how most people see acceptable discourse regarding men and women. I mean it’s obviously not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:49 AM
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That’s like not the only way to date tho? Not everyone dates like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:48 AM
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Well, I hear much hubbub about sharing household chores, but never a peep on sharing the car or house maintenance responsibilities. That seems kind of one-sided, don't you think? Maybe this is showing my age but guys I’ve talked to don’t really know how to any of that stuff. Like everyone hires people now. Like yesterday I was lowkey surprised my bf has never mowed the lawn. I’m even starting to see people hire housekeeping instead of…just doing it But in regards for situations with car and hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:47 AM
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The fact that people are not identical homunculi, Does not take away from the fact that are observable patterns amongst people who share certain traits. Is there literature on this I swear this "people are different " line PNLY comes up when women are criticized as a group. You wouldn't dare try to say something like that if the collective criticized behaviors men exhibit were brought up Yes I would. I think it’s ridiculous when people on here say men only want sex. Like it’s very much not true.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:43 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:40 AM
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This makes it sound like life as a man is just utter loneliness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:40 AM
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The most attractive girls I know (as in they are pursued like crazy) off the top of my head (just 2) aren’t dating guys over 6 ft This sub likes rules and I like them too but it’s not how dating works
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:39 AM
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It differs from person to person tho. It’s not dependent on gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:37 AM
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Used? Match?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:33 AM
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Honestly I don't think anyone has a study for that. However I would actually say that all people have a height preference in one way or another. I mean I think there are With that said, it is actually enough for my taller nerdy friend (6' 4") to be insecure about his height and if women actually like him or just his height. That sucks A tall guy can cold approach with a "hello" where a normal or short guy cannot. Oh that sucks Just in how people find them attractive and how much attention they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:32 AM
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Well not just that but rumors grew from their flirting. You’re right tho, might as well be a lie, this is the internet. Also I don’t really know if that’s even a common phenomenon, my job wouldn’t have allowed something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:29 AM
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So like if a guy asked you to fuck and you said no you’d think it’s fair he blamed you for him not getting sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:25 AM
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It's a really big problem in apps. I mean do you date outside dating apps? Sorry if I didn't clarify but we are talking not in terms of days or weeks, but a day or even hours. Yeah it’s different for different people no? There’s not like a magic number. Also it only bothers certain people not everyone There has been a pandemic going on for the last 2 years, so there hasn't be an outside the app. Oh it just seems like there more guys than girls on the apps However before the pandemic, it's was th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:24 AM
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I suppose but it’s just strange when there’s no blame to be had
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:22 AM
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Like that’s been scientifically confirmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:21 AM
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What exactly is your point with this thread? To discuss? Is that ok? I won’t make another one like this if it’s not You acknowledge that's what women want, but claim it's not a high standard. For what? It looks like you just don't acknowledge anything as being a "high" standard. Which is fine, I guess, because that's just subjective after all. Well I guess if we set a definition for what a high standard is. Someone said unattainable earlier But regardless of what you call it, most guys here feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:21 AM
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You can be upset but you can’t blame the other sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:17 AM
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Youre correct, but let's be honest, the majority of men get little to no female attention. So are most men really choosing their "best option" or are they settling? Like women don’t approach men? I mean isn’t it going for your best option when you choose who to ask out? Most women get way more attention than your typically man, so I'd say women really do have the liberty of choosing their best option, while the majority of men have to either settle or go their own way. This implies that there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:15 AM
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This is not true. The happiest times in my life were when I was in a loving relationship. You haven’t had happiest times when single? Of course, because women are wired differently than men. It's that simple. Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:13 AM
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I’m not doing anything, I don’t know where I went wrong. I really don’t know what the average woman would necessarily be but you don’t have to explain if you don’t want to. Sorry for upsetting you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:12 AM
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Like you won’t die if you don’t have sex And there’s not a way to provide for men like you could with food or water or money anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:11 AM
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If you’re not happy single you’re not gonna be happy in a relationship The women I’ve met who have never dated aren’t suicidal by it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:10 AM
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Although I do agree with what the other guy said. For the most part a guy has to "prove" himself to his date, and this is just accepted as normal and healthy... In terms of the actual complexities, most women tend to be pretty fickle (they can catch the "ick" at almost anything). As a guy it makes it feel like I'm always forced to walk on eggshells. I don't think getting rejected would case as many problems if it wasn't such a struggle to get dates. I woman will lose interest if you • ⁠Don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:09 AM
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Man what a dummy I am. I’ve had that stat in my face this whole time. Now it makes sense why some people are like “it’s the average man’s experience!” And others disagree. It’s 50/50 so it’s pretty split. I’ll have to keep this in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:06 AM
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What’s a normal or average woman look like? Like how am I supposed to even know what to compare myself to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:04 AM
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50% of men ages 18-29 are single, while 31% of women ages 18-29 are single. By and large, younger women are choosing to date men over 29 more and more than men around their age. Do they note how many were just like 29-31, 28-34, etc? Because of this, more and more middle-aged women are single, because men their age are choosing to date down (having lost out on dating in their 20s because girls their age were dating older men). Where has this been noted? No. Sexual education has no effect on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 12:03 AM
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It wasn’t that, I’m just not a lot of peoples type. Especially where I lived
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:59 PM
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Sometimes one or even zero. Oh weird. Is that like your personal belief? But we are not talking about all women are we. I would say at least 50% of women have a height preference and 20% have a hight requirement. I mean what is it actually? What percentage of women have a height preference (Being tall as a guy, is like having big boobs as a woman.) How? I would say you can, as lots of people use old to find partners. This does have an effect on the in person dating market. Yes but if you’re stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:50 PM
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How do you know your match?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:48 PM
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But is it a concern for women? Like if me and my bf break up and I just never click with any guy again, it is what it is. Like where does the issue lie? No one is affected but me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:47 PM
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I thought the most common way was work/church/hobbies/friends. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:45 PM
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The only issue is that women complain. They whine, "where are all the good men" - and mainstream society entertains this whining. If you swipe reject 99 men and then get ghosted by 1, that's a "you" problem and people are right to laugh at you. Like in tv shows and stuff? Bc is it most women complaining? But if you spend your 20s being passed around by 1% of men, and then in your 30s you whine that nobody wants you, expect to hear a word or two of criticism. Because it is your fault. Is this a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:45 PM
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I can’t spot where 18-40 40% is, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:41 PM
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The same way we know that women face sexual harrasment. We know men face extremely unrealistic standards from women. Well we are only as a society willing to listen to women so eh? I just want to see if it’s a common trend. Like when it came to sexual assault I looked up the data first Also a lot of studies on how women rate and perceive men when it comes to dating line up with FDS sentiments though marginally less explicitly extreme. Such as? I feel like being in this sub as much as you have yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:39 PM
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That’s why I get confused. My guy friends who said they struggle with dating get interest, just not from who they want or it’s only for a short period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:37 PM
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How do you know which women have settled?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:35 PM
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Yet these women also talk about being college educated with good jobs, not the types to be around broke people. I just graduated from a really good school and got a decent job. I’m still pretty poor. So are most of my friends. A lot of them even live with their parents still out of necessity and the only ugly people who slay are the rich and famous not your average joe. I mean if that’s what you believe it is so Plenty of guys on here have female friends but struggle with dating. Really? I would…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:33 PM
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Yeah. As a guy I'm the one who has to initiate, but I can't come on too strong or too softly, I have to plan a good date, I have to pay for the date, I have to be the one who has to put on the charm. Basically it feels like I have to do all the hard work on top of the regular dating work that both Men and Women go through to even have a chance. I guess this is where I get lost bc I have to do this too as a woman or there’s the option of my male friends where they just dont date those types of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:24 PM
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You are not here to understand anything. Yes I am You are simply here to flex about being a woman and troll everyone. Point out my flexing and trolling. I am not a troll, just bc I do not adhere to your viewpoints does not make me a troll It's ok when you do it to the hardcore delusional redpillers But you do it to people who do bring up legitimate points as it they are not worth considering. Point out where this is happening. I’d love to learn from my behavior I mean ignore the issues. You dont…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:21 PM
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Men lust after many woman/types. They can get truly attracted to many women. I have been actively witness to behavior that is opposite to this. Interesting Women find a smaller subset of guys to be the kind that can really light that fire (lust, physically very attracted to). Like in their lives? That’s pretty normal right? The issue is that many guys at no fault, will never have anyone feel very attracted to them. It's biological. How much is many? Woman are wired to go for guys with good genet…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:13 PM
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Not your fault and ty for linking the Twitter too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:05 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:05 PM
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At the moment, something like 50% of 18-29-year-olds are single, and 1/3 are virgins. Of just men or men and women bc if it’s both how does that indicate it’s hard for men to get LTR, isn’t it just hard in general? That number used to be a lot smaller. Just one generation ago, 10% of 18-29-year-olds were virgins. I mean is that bc of sexual education, people rushing into relationships less. Why do you assume a decrease is a bad thing? IDK how "common" this is, but you can figure it out over time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:03 PM
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Can you link it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:01 PM
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Women will actively step on and belittle the ugly men. I have seen my wife burst out ridicule at social media video posts made by an ugly man. The man is clearly advertising himself as single though he is also bald, short, and/or fat, plus into nerd hobbies. Sounds like your wife is just a mean person…. I think it’s her biological instinct kicking in, saying this man should never mate, get laid, have kids. She just screamed “I’m a loser who has never touched a vagina!” as an impression of him. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:00 PM
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Do you have an example of having to jump through hoops?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:57 PM
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You hold men up to standards that you would never fulfill yourself, or trust us to tell you they correspond to your standards of us without accusing us of misogyny. Such as? Secondly, just because a socially desirable man lay with you once and is willing to do a one night stand with you again doesn't mean that you're at the same social level as him. Ok but like most people don’t think like this. I don’t think through the guys I’ve slept with an classify themselves like this You're not "settling"…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:56 PM
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How is it accurate? In real life dating talking to strangers wasn’t the most common way to meet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:54 PM
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Pay wall :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:54 PM
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Sorry but there are so many women on here who use the anecdotal evidence card to dismiss what men are saying. I don’t believe in anecdotal experience dismissing what someone else said. We are all biased in our experiences and we don’t take into account context when someone says something. Actually I lied, I have used my own experience, every time I talk to someone here they throw out “oh yeah well didn’t you get asked out all the time” or “you don’t know what rejection feels like”. I sadly do ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:52 PM
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Women on dating apps are given an automatic handicap in terms of their looks and desirability. This is because there are roughly three guys for every girl. Meaning not that many women use dating apps and this is for a specific subset of women got it This automatically means that women can be more picky and choose men that are better looking and ignore vast swaths of men that are your average guy. I mean the better looking guys like them too no? Yes you are two consenting adults, but because wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:45 PM
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Like no one made her leave but she just couldn’t take the bullying. There’s nothing he could lose his job for, they were both adults
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:37 PM
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You can find someone attractive and not want to date them but then as you get to know their personality you become interested. I’ve seen it happen plenty of times in friend groups and such
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:37 PM
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If a girl has a standard of only liking men who are 6 foot tall, and most men arent that tall (they arent, only a small percentage of men are), then thise standards are high standards. And most women have this preference? Your example about racial preference is a unique standard, not a high standard. A high standard is when something is statistically rare or hard to achieve from an average standpoint. So if I a guy doesn’t want to be with me bc I don’t have huge boobs, a tiny waist and a big but…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:36 PM
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What’s appropriate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:33 PM
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Yeah but people forget to acknowledge that unlike in irl you’re judging profiles not people and you actively have them up to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:32 PM
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Where has this trend been documented? Like how do we know this is happening
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:28 PM
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Not me either :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:28 PM
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Oh look another women who is living a perfect life I live a far from perfect life, it was a struggle to get here lol and don't see any of this stuff surrounded by men who don't have any issues You said to ask older men, I was just honest that 1. The older men in my life aren’t American, their ease in dating doesn’t necessarily dictate it’s easy for American man no? Like apparently America is unique in having such a strong height preference jesus there are a lot of you on here I wonder what the o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:28 PM
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Can you link the study
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:23 PM
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Karen is a pejorative term for a white woman perceived as entitled or demanding beyond the scope of what is normal. Not me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:04 PM
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Some of these are possible to work on, but with height requireme ts flr example, you really cant do much. Im lucky that i am 6'1", but if i were 5'5" that could disqualify me for a lot of girls. Or i would have to work a lot harder to make up for it. It’s a high standard bc a lot of people wouldn’t be attracted to it? Couldn’t I say people with racial preferences just have too high of standards then? The dating world reflects it somewhat. You will see average couples often but the women are ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:04 PM
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So like it’s impossible for it to be their personality or chemistry or anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:01 PM
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It was her internship. She had to leave the job bc people started calling her certain words after he started flirting with her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:00 PM
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The men in my life definitely would have a different opinion. Family isn’t American and guy friends have never had issues dating. I got rejected a ton by virgins and such so I know not every man is desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:00 PM
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Concerning
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:59 PM
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Well it’s 18-29 If I’m 29 and he’s 30…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:57 PM
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Even with 29 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:57 PM
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Ohhhh you’re a troll lmao 😂 you got be good dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:54 PM
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They expect men to marry them and enforce monogamy at that point, and divorce rape men for non-compliance, so they do not have to compete with younger women. Oh is this like the norm, like the is a common thing that happens?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:53 PM
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Why won’t anyone just link a damn source 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:52 PM
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Oops forgot an age range. I mean my current bf doesn’t even have a job so? The prettiest girl I know, her boyfriend doesn’t have one either and she’s def not with him bc of his looks 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:51 PM
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And how tall does this "funny guy" have to be? How much money does he have to make? Yeah so those aren’t thing I think about? I’ve never gotten together with the girls and been like “I hope my man makes 600,000”. Like even if I did date someone like that…so? I’m not gonna get that money. I still need a job and shit. And yeah I don’t have height preferences. I don’t really have a physical type other than cute I highly doubt reddit is full of engineers, lol. "Gamer" is pretty much any guy. Oh I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:47 PM
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I guess but who regrets anyone they’ve had sex with anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:45 PM
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Cannot even stay consistent for two paragraphs but what do I expect people on the internet Please do tell how that’s shaming anyone. It’s sharing someone if I find their self inflicted barriers a little ironic? If it is than I sincerely apologize
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:45 PM
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You're a 24-year-old with no life experience. Well if you say I have no life experience I guess it must be so Amazingly, you've found the woman who is like that! Nobody else has been able to find her! But you did! No. There’s plenty of people I could call up rn who would agree You're such a goofball asking for sources for demonstrable life experiences. So it’s not necessarily the norm?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:43 PM
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And that’s like the experience for the average man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:42 PM
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I forget what to look for in studies so thank you! It was a study someone else linked. I remember vaguely learning in school that like customer service surveys are skewed bc the only people that would respond are people who had a really good experience or a really bad one. Like how you present a study matters too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:42 PM
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Damn I have this gorgeous friend who just can’t catch a break in dating y’all should meet. She’s so sweet :,)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:40 PM
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I was just wondering how you knew on a bigger scale, if there was some kind of confirmation. There’s nothing to win?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:39 PM
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How do you know that? And what is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:39 PM
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How do you know it’s height
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:38 PM
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Convenient it happens once commitment has been achieved. It’s also usually when kids come. Is this something that happens to like 90% of couples? Yes Like after a betrayal No you can't as lust is the desire for sex, if you don't want to fuck him (due to being ill or upset etc) then you are not lusting for him at that point. Another example of me being dumb with words Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:38 PM
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I would never take a Reddit pill seriously, most people on here have a different POV from being mostly nerds
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:36 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:36 PM
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the action of marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or educational background. Isn’t most hypergamy from the fact that men were usually and still encouraged to be breadwinners rather than some evolutionary trait? I mean tides are changing Because dating site stats+ other research shows that women gravitate to the small% of men at the top. Wouldn’t that mean that only in the case of dating apps only a small percentage of men get attention which would m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:36 PM
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Bc if it’s something that’s not happening on a mass scale like you say then you’re lying that it’s average couples
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:34 PM
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Because it just does? I don't know how I can explain it in simpler terms. If women aren't having as much sex, it tells us that the standard of most men is not good enough for them. No. My friend Rachel just got out of a 4 year relationship and then went to grad school. She’s super pretty so I thought she would be dating and going wild but she isn’t. She’s more interested in school, exploring a new city and making friends. I’m sure if she really clicks with someone she’s date him but she’s not lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:32 PM
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No I didn’t say that. But how did you find out the specifics you listed?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:26 PM
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If she shows her interest or lack of, why would the guy get in a relationship with her…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:25 PM
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As yes OLD, the perfect representation of all dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:24 PM
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What are the usual critiques? I don’t want to just discount a study
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:24 PM
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Idk what the guy thought but it seemed like he regretted starting a relationship with her bc of how much of a kid she was and how fast she got attached. Next we saw him he was with a 40 year old. How do we know the age? The girl facebook stalked him lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:23 PM
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A study a while back (have to search for it again) mention women describing having more passionate sex with one night stands compared to what they dish out to men in relationships. Nowhere did the study say this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:21 PM
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The high standards are dating out of your league. If someone agrees to date me, are they really out of my league? What decides leagues? Like who is in my league? Most women go for a tiny statistic of men. What type? Basically, not enough supply to meet demand and a lot don’t realize this. But this isn’t true, most people are dating someone they like This conclusion can be both reached through statistical data(how women rate attractiveness, etc) The OKcupid one? The one about profiles? The one th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:19 PM
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The stock market? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:11 PM
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So FDS does represent a good majority of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:11 PM
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And that guarantees humans engage in the same behavior? What is hypergamy again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:11 PM
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Please explain again the relevance of sexual activity for seals but not their other behaviors when it comes to comparisons to humans. I’m genuinely asking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:09 PM
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I would posit they didn't really like it to begin with but did it anyway to impress the man and get him to commit. Could be that. Tastes also change. I used to HATE bj’s The first 2 are temp things and the 3rd should be dealt with, but again we are talking of the complete lack of lust from her. What’s a complete lack of lust? Like it will never come back? It does if the women no longer wants sex or only has it occasionally. I can still lust for my bf and not want to fuck him if there’s something…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:08 PM
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The right guy is probably conventionally good-looking and wealthy and has multiple options. And this is what most women see as the right guy? So if a woman sleeps with let's say "Chad" right away without making him wait since she finds him irresistibly attractive but after "Chad" gets bored and decides he either just wants to be fwb's or just friends along comes the 2nd guy "billy" After getting rejected by chad women might want to take it slow with billy and wait months before having sex even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:06 PM
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Social media also has a lot to do with it, not just OLD. We can easily accept that a guy looking at Instagram models probably warps mens' perceptions for how women are supposed to look; likewise, looking at "perfect" good-looking couples on social media probably also affects how women view relationships. Is this an established trend? It means even single women that aren't using the apps are still looking at boyfriends as more a "means to an end" to achieve validation on social media Where do we …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:00 PM
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But definitely not a someone somebody would say is ideal. I workout and keep myself in good shape and groom. But I don’t have any features that stand out. What if plenty of people have thought otherwise The hottest guys aren’t destined to sleep around? That’s definitely true. But a good portion of men are whores lol. Really? I thought only a minority of men participated in casual sex And when a guy knows he’s good looking, he’ll be hard pressed to just wanna settle down with one girl u less he r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:57 PM
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The paradox of choice is real thing Does it have like a 99% chance of always going that way or something? Online dating strongly favors women And are bombarded with options Most women aren’t on OLD and this makes sense since it’s mostly men and only fans creators It’s fine to not date someone because of your boundaries but what about not dating someone because of an ick you get or because of any other minor obstacle ? What’s wrong with this? Like what business is it of mine if someone else does …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:55 PM
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They don't say they couldn't do better that would be insane, but the fact they end up with men they don't really like shows they settled because the men they actually wanted they couldn't get. This is a very one or the other thinking So many things can happen to make one person in a relationship start to resent the other Like maybe it was happy at first but it turns out he cheats, or he doesn’t clean, or he’s done this or that. Like your comment implies that women who end up complaining about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:50 PM
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Is it as rampant as people make it seem
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:47 PM
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Are you a troll? No being able to date younger women as a guy in your late 30's is, its not easy as plenty of women will tell you they find older men "ew" Yeah but the dumbest I’ve seen a girl is when she was dating an older 😂 like a lot of us just found it gross and weird. Dude was 28 sleeping in a bunk bed with her bc we’re freaking college kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:45 PM
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How does that negate that “[w]omen were subordinate to men, in both the peasant and noble classes, and were expected to ensure the smooth running of the household” Like how you gonna ignore that Sorry that was just a cursory search
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:43 PM
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The dating world DOES reflect these higher standards. How? Men and women having less sex than 20-30 years ago. Women control sex so if society as a whole is having less of it, it's because women are choosing to abstain from having sex. How does women abstaining from sex indicate standards are high? Women not even considering to settle down till their 30's, if they even settle down at all. This is fine If you're 21 year old man who wants to marry and start a family, you're forced to wait till you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:39 PM
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I’ll have to go through it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:30 PM
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Lol why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:29 PM
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I mean it sounds insane so it seems news worthy to me but you’re probably right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:27 PM
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So practically a teenager experience wise. Oh. Ok In the words of the great Colin Cowherd: "Men try to find the best-looking woman who doesn't have a meth habit and hope she marries them. I don’t know any men who think like this… In other words, men are simple. If a woman has sex with them and lets them have time with their friends/hobbies they are usually incredibly content. I mean this depends on the person. There’s women like this Women will lie about all their behavioral truths. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:20 PM
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Everyone should try to go for the best tho right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:18 PM
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I’ll link something after work if I remember but you don’t have to believe me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:15 PM
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That's your response? I genuinely don’t understand what I did wrong. I thought I also applied a seal trait to humans since we share 80% of our dna like you said Well at least we all see you have no intention of actually discussing unless people agree with you. I don’t care if you agree with me. We’re having a discussion, is there stuff off limit I can’t do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:14 PM
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Really? Again how old are you? If you don't understand that then it appears you are young. I’m 24 how old are you? Some women once they get the commitment from a man will stop some or all of the sexual acts that the man enjoyed form her when they was dating. I assume bc they don’t like it anymore We are not talking about a one of incident where she was upset or something but a continuous thing. But what if your stressed from work, or the baby is up all night, or you’re just depressed? It's not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:13 PM
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But I have had girlfriends in the past hop on a stereotypically attractive man weeks after we broke up and so have my other friends. Aren’t you attractive? I’ve had women tell me “do you know how may men want me” and such before as well. This is so out of pocket 😩 do they think life is a movie tf. Sorry you experienced that :( It’s not hard to believe that a woman that finds it hard to find commitment from the men they find ideally physically appealing would settle in terms of looks for a man wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:11 PM
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Is dating an 18 year impressive? They’re literally the youngest and most naive, wouldn’t it be really easy to date one? Why did she tell you that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:09 PM
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They admit to one another they couldn’t do any better. That’s crazy that’s the norm around you. Where the hell do you live
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:07 PM
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Is evolutionary psychology considered a valid science?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:06 PM
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I don’t sense that you are coming in any good faith in this debate How do? Tell me and I’ll adjust Having too many options turns one into sort of an indecisive diva. Is this a confirmed rule? Also what’s too many? It’s all fun and games to say “ well he did something minor that I dislike therefore I’ll wait for someone else cause I can afford to “ you are essentially hogging the ball in dating. Huh? Hogging the ball??? Not wanting to date someone bc of some boundary I hold isn’t unfair lmao. Peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:06 PM
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There’s no news covering such an epidemic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:03 PM
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What does this mean
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:02 PM
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Bc it’s usually a comparison to another animal. Like ok??? We got stuff in common. I can still talk and they can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:02 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:01 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:01 PM
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A common enough expectation that more young men today than ever are taking steroids in order to fit societal expectations surround male bodies. A common enough expectation that men break their legs in order to grow a few inches, or where high enhancing insoles. A common enough expectation that male sexlessness has risen incredibly while the majority of the young male population remains unchanged. I know plenty of my buddies that have legit eating disorders because they know they won’t find a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 08:00 PM
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https://courses.lumenlearning.com/atd-herkimer-westerncivilization/chapter/daily-medieval-life/ “Daily life for peasants consisted of working the land. Life was harsh, with a limited diet and little comfort. Women were subordinate to men, in both the peasant and noble classes, and were expected to ensure the smooth running of the household.” Sorry that was just a cursory search
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:56 PM
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Most women want a tall man or they’re rejecting dudes two inches taller than them? Aren’t men taller than women on average ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:55 PM
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Enough that a bunch of men started a movement about it in order to avoid being that guy. I’d certainly avoid any woman who had casual sex more than once, even if I don’t consider myself a Red Piller and disagree with many of their generalizations about “all women”. So men as a whole avoid women who have casual sex? Or what movement to avoid being which guy? There are always exceptions, but most people in relationships are attractiveness matched. If most people in relationships are matched in att…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:54 PM
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Like he didn’t have more capabilities than her at all or wasn’t considered more highly ranked? They would be treated the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:50 PM
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Isn’t evolutionary psychology highly questioned as a science?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:49 PM
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You're obviously a pre-teen. I’m 24 but ok Nature matters as does nurture. Men have shared traits as well. The difference is that men actually cop to it. Women pretend that it's not true. Such as? That women are uniquely averse to accepting blame or responsibility. Source? Again, denial isn't just a river in Egypt If it’s true just prove it then lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:47 PM
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Seals can also lower their heart rate incredibly, does that mean humans can too?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:46 PM
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Sorry it’s 30% https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/02/06/10-facts-about-americans-and-online-dating/ It’s 48% 18-29 which lines up with my experience. Most of my friends had never tried it. A couple of guys in our group admitted they never used the app, they were just on there so girls on campus knew they were single Social media also has a lot to do with it, not just OLD. We can easily accept that a guy looking at Instagram models probably warps mens' perceptions for how women are suppos…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:42 PM
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The majority of dating age single woman are doing “credit checks” on men they are dating, seeing if he’s been with others in the group, how good he is, why they stopped dating and all this? Despite most young people deleting Facebook? And I’ve never encountered it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:38 PM
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You commonly hear women whining I mean about their lazy POS husbands they married because they couldn't get better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:36 PM
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Women standards are not too high but they have too many options which makes them very unforgiving of the tiniest of details . One wrong word or move and you’re ghosted Why is that bad if they don’t want to be with someone bc they did something they dislike ? Men have a scarcity of options which makes them very accepting of flaws And this is how it is for most men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:35 PM
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In relation to what we are talking about that is not the case, plenty of women put the brakes on the wild side once they have settled in the relationship. Wdym by this? In all cases they are not lusting (if they were they would be having sex) what is causing the lack of lust is a different question. I mean you can lust after someone but not want to have angry or crying sex Lust isn’t the only factor in sex for some of us
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:34 PM
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Most women do not do casual multiple times but plenty has tried it once or Is this documented? will do it for the right guy, What’s the right guy? if you are the guy that can get casual great, however, if you are the one she wants to take it slow with since she sees "potential" for it working long term that is just insulting. It’s insulting? Why? Not saying women need to sleep with every guy they go on a date with if they have done it once, but they can't say they don't do casual if they have in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:33 PM
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Idk why you sent a million but I’ll have to look through those later
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:28 PM
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So there’s a common phenomenon of women admitting to there spouses about settling? And there’s no studies? Where is it online? Is there a sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:27 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:26 PM
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In the UK out of these 1000 women we’ve found it’s a general trend of women to have back up guys? Crazy I’ve never heard of it but I guess that’s proof right there. You cmv ty
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:26 PM
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But we’re humans? Not seals? It’s biology that bees have wings but I’m not flying anywhere no matter how hard I try. Perhaps I’m just dumb but how can one biological occurrence that happens to one species be applied to a completely different species? Idk, I didn’t major in science
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:23 PM
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I mean I’ve seen memes but I’ve never seen it in real life from anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:21 PM
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It’s a majority of women engaging in this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:20 PM
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They have to be over 6ft or close, have to look near model status, be incredibly fit etc etc. Is this a common expectation among women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:20 PM
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All the guys in relationships moaning they don't get laid or only get boring sex?? The case of not getting sex does not always mean it’s bc he’s not bc lusted after, no? There’s a multitude of reasons. And if sex is boring maybe you’re just incompatible? A lot more common then you probably realize. The fantasy? of course its not the only action it is an example to get a point across. But are a majority of couples suffering from bad sex lives bc the woman doesn’t list for the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:16 PM
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That’s insane, you would have to date so many people to find that specific size I don’t think it’s a common sentiment tho….what do I know I’m just a woman 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:13 PM
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I mean I personally haven’t heard this but I’ll take your word Like my mom seems unhappy in her marriage but it seems to do more with the fact she’s kind of treated like a servant
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:12 PM
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Like they would only date someone with a specific dick size?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:08 PM
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I know 20% of all people use OLD but I can’t remember in specific generations. Especially since idk if you mean gen z or millennials
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:07 PM
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Is this a standard the majority of women hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:06 PM
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Yeah I love learning new things or that I’m wrong about something. It’s just that they usually never come back with a source and I can’t find anything on Google
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:05 PM
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A lot do LIKE the man they are with but its the ones who don't LUST after them as well that the problem lies. How do we determine someone isn’t being listed after? Men want their partner to look at them like they want to rip their cloths off there and then. So this is uncommon? And this is the only action that represents lust?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:04 PM
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.... Are you saying that we do MORE physically taxing jobs now? Nah that’s not what I’m saying. In saying if you remove technology, it’s gonna being back a lot of jobs that used to be human beings. Especially those jobs that have to do with fine details Uhm, obviously? You realize we are talking about history, right? Idk I disagree See previous comment. That men would kill her? Men wouldn’t be able to kill her if she could get a home from making money from being allowed to not only work but lear…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:00 PM
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It boils down to evolution. About 90% of male seals die virgins. Why did you bring up seals The human dna record reveals we have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors, meaning at least half of all men to ever exist never reproduced. Is that the same trend to this day? In the last couple hundred years, more men have been able to get with ladies, but that isnt representative of our evolved nature. I feel like your discounting people who just aren’t interested in dating/fine being single…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:57 PM
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As I’ve said, average women having sex with better men and settling for men in their league creates a lot of tension and bitterness in the dating market. Average women are often mad because Mr. High Value has pumped and dumped her and didn’t catch the same feels for her that she did for him. And how often does this happen? Average men are often mad because they get settled for after she was already ghosted by Mr. High Value. Do you really think this is really how contemporary gender relations sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:55 PM
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I need examples my man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:53 PM
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Look up war age? So bc men didn’t get to choose war it means they never had more power than women in society?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:50 PM
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Ty for sharing, sorry for experiencing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:47 PM
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How? Not only would they have to compete with men, which isn't something they are very good at without government support and modern technology, but there would also not be enough jobs that they would be able to physically do. There’s not enough jobs out there that aren’t physically taxing?? That’s straight up not true dude. Especially if you remove modern technology lmaoo They would be killed by other men or starve in he streets. Men would kill her??? She wouldn’t starve if she was allowed to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:47 PM
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They’re considered fringe bc they’re not even popular amongst women I’ve never in my 24 years had a female friend say she needs 6 6 6 😂 There was one girl who talked about six feet six feet who didn’t actually date anyone There’s been the girl who would only date asian men There’s been the girl who wanted to date one guy but her parents would never approve of her race Like how common amongst all of women is this 666 thing? Wouldn’t most dudes be single?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:45 PM
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Even so, there's the OKC study ("80% of men are below average") The study only studying not only OLD but one online dating app where technically the profile is being evaluated not the man. I told my bf I almost swiped left on him bc his photos looked old or I couldn’t see him but it was his bio that got me the tinder data (pretty sure women would only "like" about 5% of men's profiles), and real life. Once again, this only covers dating apps and specifically a dating app reported to be made up o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:43 PM
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Nothings wrong with it per se, but we all know you will be back in 10 years asking where the good men are. Probably not Fuck all the 7s you want Commit to all the 5s you want I don’t even know who’s a 7 😭 most guys I dated I thought they were 10’s Just dont complain about non-commiting 7s and how you arent happy with these worthless 5s Why do you say this like there’s only this? A lot of people like the person they committed to?? Don’t you have a girlfriend that’s happy with you tf?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:39 PM
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I used to read a lot about what they would do to slaves. Oof we’re they jealous for no reason. Thank god I was born in the nineties
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:37 PM
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What are the minimum criteria a guy would need to meet in order for you to consider him? I like his personality, he’s funny, sweet but can dish it out, I like his face, he’s touchy Also, what is your idea of an "average" guy? A lot of women's perception of average is skewed pretty badly. In terms of Reddit, I think of my one friend. He was an engineer in college, super introverted, gamer In real life? probably into sports and gaming, has the same friend group since high school, kinda social
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:36 PM
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Oops. Ty. How do I change that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:34 PM
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This is basically FDS philosophy. Men have to follow their rules or they won’t continue dating or eventually sleep with them. Women expressed it all the time there. So not common It’s about relative value. That same man who will simp for a high value woman will pump and dump an average value one. Isn’t this individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:32 PM
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⁠For some men it’s way too hard for them to either get casual sex or enter an LTR How common? ⁠Once they enter an LTR they discover that their GF settled and aren’t even that attracted to them in the first place How do they figure this out? How common is this? So that’s where the standards come into play. She is plain Jane and he’s your average Joe but she wants more but he was fine with just her. Behind closed doors those average couples aren’t happy since most women have back up men and option…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:31 PM
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you should always aim high for anything, sometimes it works out right? This give me the same vibe as the ads for the lotto that tell you you can't win if you don't play. Sure they are technically correct, but you have to be missing quite a lot of braincells to think its a good idea. But we know the lotto has a high likelihood of failure. There’s no study or confirmation that going for someone out of your league will end in 0. There’s too many factors. Also what if you don’t even realize you’re g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:21 PM
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What’s wrong with that? In most cases she’ll end up with someone or she’ll end up single Also don’t only a smaller percentage of women even do casual dating anyways? Doesn’t seem like it’s anything to worry about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:15 PM
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FDS. The ostracized sub that less than 0.1% of the US population uses. It’s definitely representative of what most women believe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:14 PM
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What? If they had been allowed to learn and develop skills and get jobs then they could leave and do that?? Also there’s so many women out there in the Middle East rn that would rather have freedom than “protection”. Many women expressed this in the past too. Like explain to me why without a man supporting her a woman would die in the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:12 PM
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Gee, I wonder why people don't listen to advice from 12-year-olds? Random Because they're female and behaving in a certain way. This implies all their behavior is solely derived from being female which isn’t true I love when people who refuse to change their minds cling to specific language. Refuse to change my mind that apparently all women are the same? I’m not clinging to anything? Just using what you said I'm not saying they're bad people. I'm saying that they share traits that become pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:09 PM
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Don’t really know any fat or ugly girls demanding good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:04 PM
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I have no issue with average women having high standards. They should at least try to have them. They just shouldn’t be having casual sex with the few high value men out of their league who meet those standards. It makes for a lot of bitterness in the dating market when they do. Why lol. I did lol When a woman’s waits for the men in her actual attractiveness league to impress her and doesn’t date them and have sex with them until they do, this is what motivates men to improve and become what tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:04 PM
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I’ve had guys try to get me to say they’re so ugly and they’ll never get a gf while we’re talking. It’s super weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:00 PM
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No. How are those people representative of female nature? They’re all your family members and presumably raised by one another. Your mother, sister, and aunts represent female nature??
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:59 PM
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Yeah that’s what it was in my family lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:57 PM
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Where are you even talking about and when?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:56 PM
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Having the ability to build wealth will always give you a leg up. Who was welcomed into doing so? It’s ok to admit that men were considered superior to women in the past…it doesn’t mean we think that’s exactly how it is now damn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:54 PM
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You brought it up with no sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:53 PM
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They also weren’t allowed to grow and learn things and support themselves. It’s not protection if it’s against your will lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:46 PM
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Raped than lynched Or balls and penis cut off or something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:44 PM
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No money Lots of college debt
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:38 PM
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I have never asked out a man twice. Seems like a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:31 PM
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Which is just so very morally wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 05:30 PM
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I mean there’s like news coverage and video out there lol but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:28 AM
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I mean I don’t agree but ok :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:27 AM
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I assumed you said a lot not majority without checking but that’s still a large amount
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 01:11 AM
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Have you not heard that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:31 AM
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I mean Greg might think he was rejected for being short when the reality is he lives in the south where interracial dating is looked down upon Or maybe his parents are immigrants Or something like that that changes from area to area. The Bay Area is a different dating scene than Clearwater, Florida
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:49 PM
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Even in Western culture there’s a myriad of cultures
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:38 PM
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Where are people saying those things? I mean I’ve been told on here that single moms being single moms is their own fault If you don’t wanna get assaulted don’t dress slutty You can find stuff like that on both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:51 PM
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in both time periods, the tendency for women to marry up in income was generally greater among couples in which the wife's education level equaled or surpassed that of the husband than among couples in which the wife was less educated than the husband ETA: oh I guess I got blocked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 10:34 PM
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So the whole first article is dripping and bias and then the studies linked within the article don’t really prove their point
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:48 PM
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I mean, did ya even read it bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:42 PM
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It's just that, as the OP stated, if I spend too much time in or near a women's life, she will attempt to corral me. Make sure I don't spend too much time sitting around playing video games. Giving me things to clean and fix. Coming up with activities for me to do with the kids when I'd be fine coming up with ideas on my own. Like your wife? For your kids? In your house you should be cleaning lmao It's isn't abuse. It's nagging as the OP discusses. We believe that female nature dislikes men who …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:20 PM
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I mean do you say things like you did here? Also how do these women in public know she’s trans
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 09:04 PM
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Was this question meant for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:37 PM
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I totally read your comment wrong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:10 PM
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Most men have (I’m going with what your describing) mostly abusive women in their lives. Like that’s the norm? If it is that’s horrible and I really wasn’t aware not just bc I interact with women but my guy friends express differently. If this an epidemic it should be addressed What’s the lesbian thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 08:09 PM
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YouTube???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:27 PM
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How is it that 100 years ago men my age (MEN not boys) had already gone to war, came back, married, had a home, a car, a job, and several kids. I’m really glad it’s not like that anymore Today we got these 30-somethings idiots that are completely incompetent at life. That insidious mentality that we are all supposed to just be perpetual children is what pisses me off while these same assholes would be the first ones to bitch and complain that someone else (usually men) should be the responsible …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 07:06 PM
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What if it’s wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:49 PM
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Why :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:34 PM
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“damn that was a good time, I wonder if someone else can top it” But like how do you know that’s the reason not just she didn’t like you enough
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:25 PM
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Isn’t that what Romeo and Juliet laws are for?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:08 PM
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So are things fizzling out or is she looking for someone better like you said? Like I’m still wondering how you know this without her telling you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:08 PM
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And there’s no single women like that? Might as well just give up on dating huh? Also what makes you a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:06 PM
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Where did you get 10%?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:04 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:03 PM
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Wouldn’t that just imply you have a terrible family which has given you a bias? Like all these terrible women are from your family
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:03 PM
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Oh your state is gross
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 06:02 PM
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Legal for?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:48 PM
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And all the women you’ve been with have been like this? Wow that’s a crazy coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:47 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:38 PM
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Like in what way? Have any examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:38 PM
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Oooh can you provide a source
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:38 PM
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Like what? Like all women? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:37 PM
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But if she had a good time she wouldn’t go on another date with you? I never said men can’t tell when you have a good time I’m just asking how can you know for sure she’s looking for something better? Like they may have said they had a good time but I’ve done that on dates I didn’t enjoy Like you really think these women like you but they’re still rejecting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:37 PM
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Like I’ve commented before and someone has responded asking if I liked my bf and found him attractive and when I said yes they called me shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:35 PM
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Being dependent on your parents doesn’t make you a child
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:34 PM
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Sorry I was like speaking to myself/out loud if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:34 PM
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All the good ones are taken? What’s a “good one”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:32 PM
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Shouldn’t they hang out with below average girls
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:32 PM
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Who has told you this? Those are the only three things women can be? For example how did you improve yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:31 PM
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Tag me or smth
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:31 PM
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I think it’s true for some people but not a blanket thing
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:05 PM
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That’s…terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:05 PM
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Yeah it’s not just fertility you need to take into account
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:04 PM
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No you’re an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:52 PM
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No but I want them to be around and meet my kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:43 PM
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https://www.justforkidslaw.org/what-we-do/fighting-change/strategic-litigation/past-cases/still-child-17 Like it’s a fact bro Also that’s not how pedophillia works my man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:42 PM
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So old
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:41 PM
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So you made an assumption not based on what these women you date tell you but based on what you feel? So there’s a chance that all of them actually had a terrible date and you’re pretending it’s bc they really enjoyed their time but could do better. Yeah…that’s the logical choice…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:41 PM
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Ohhhhh. Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:39 PM
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People are attracted to fat people tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:39 PM
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I’m still waiting on these guys to do everything for me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:39 PM
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Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:38 PM
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Ok here i go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:38 PM
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Where does the linked study actually refer to where women high anxiety makes them nit picky in dating? Like what’s nit picky
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:20 PM
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They say they don’t want an average guy??? Can you link me a comment? You sure they’re not saying they’d rather be single than be in a relationship with someone they’re not super into?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:18 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:17 PM
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Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:17 PM
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16 is a child…. Just bc adults flirt with children doesn’t mean it’s ok
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:16 PM
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Then how tf do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:16 PM
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I definitely am lol. Maybe even below average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:15 PM
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I’m 24 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:15 PM
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But only a subset of people cheat Also that makes me hurt quite a bit you’ve never experienced being in love. I’m so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:14 PM
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When you meet a woman she gives you a score between 0 and 100. In general the score is low unless you are very good looking. Your score is based on her personal upbringing, environment, dating history, society etc. After your initial score placement you can influence your number based on interaction. Do/say something she likes = plus points, Do/say something she dislikes = minus points. Cold approach: If your score on first impression is too low she won't engage with you. If it's very high she m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:11 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:08 PM
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That’s…psychotic, good luck op
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:07 PM
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Why do women have to improve? And how? Also you shouldn’t be bettering yourself for women. How have you improved?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:06 PM
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So there’s no fat dudes with gfs? Also you are aware fat people date each other, seems like you don’t want a fat gf Also you can only have a six pack or be fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:05 PM
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Right??? Like only a teeny percentage of people are over 6 feet/make 6 figures
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:04 PM
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The majority of women want a 666(demon!) man? Source? Especially on the single mom, unattractive, retired hoes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:03 PM
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If you think they’re so mediocre stop going after them???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:01 PM
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Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:58 PM
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I mean how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:58 PM
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I always ignore those
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:56 PM
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Expand?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:55 PM
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She tells you she had a good time but wants to find someone to top it That’s cold but honest of her I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:55 PM
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Yo that’s me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:53 PM
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Oh maybe it’s bc they had two kids I want to have kids younger so they don’t have to deal with my death at such a young age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:51 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:50 PM
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Hope she gets better
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:47 PM
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ALL the dudes in my life are above average? How did an average gal like me score that 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:46 PM
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I meant that’s one of the reasons I overlooked it. It was hard to find a gaming bf. Also it was only once in awhile bc for some reason he showered every other day I dumped him bc he was to busy and now I’m dating someone who showers everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:45 PM
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She’s going to cheat on you? Guaranteed? Don’t only a minority of people cheat, and of that mostly dudes? You’ve never experienced love?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:44 PM
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I thought risk doubled As in from 1% to 2% I could be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:42 PM
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My mom had me at 37 Would not recommend, both of them were always too tired and they’re so old now
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:41 PM
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Bet
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:39 PM
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No I think he just likes white women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:38 PM
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Maybe you just have racial preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:37 PM
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You obviously don’t follow celebs bc honestly Zendaya is more appreciated for her modeling lol You really think she’s only used for diversity and not bc millions of people find her gorgeous?? I mean she’s dating Tom Holland
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:37 PM
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Can you expand on why
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:36 PM
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That doesn’t work. People on this sub who have seen me say I should get attention (news to me) but I don’t when I go out. In fact until recently I thought I was like really really ugly It doesn’t work
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:33 PM
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I mean she’s reallly really gorgeous lol Model looks imo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:31 PM
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So pretty, love your hair
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:31 PM
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I thought the phrase was “Believe Women”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:30 PM
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Yes. I’m honestly a dumb blonde. I can’t even share examples bc people will just be like “yeah you’re stupid”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:29 PM
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Is that like a universal thing or is it just your feed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:28 PM
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No it’s fine. I’m happy two people found love
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:26 PM
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I mean if all men decide dating trans women is better than cis women, why should I dwell on that? Good for them! Hope they get what they were looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:26 PM
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Couldn’t you say this about anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:25 PM
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I was single for a long time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:24 PM
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Your daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:22 PM
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Is that all looksmaxxing is?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:20 PM
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What is women “looksmaxxing” advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:20 PM
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Can someone let me know why some people on this sub think you’re a monster if you find your bf attractive? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:19 PM
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Why would I plan for that? That’s like a self fulfilling prophecy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:18 PM
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Awww
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:18 PM
1

You’re 16?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:17 PM
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Only 16 year olds do love now? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:17 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:14 PM
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Bc the original person asked about a 16 year old child
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:14 PM
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I’m a woman but I just don’t fuck with kids. It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:12 PM
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You really shouldn’t use this place as a representation of reality. I’ve never even met a man that talks like most of these dudes do. They make it seem like all my guy friends are above average and not the average man which…isn’t true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:10 PM
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It ignores those of us who have never been pursued as well
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:08 PM
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I dated a kind of stinky guy. It was only rarely and he was a gamer who was sweet so I overlooked it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:08 PM
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This is such a tangent but people with washers and dryers who say they don’t know how to do laundry look kind of crazy Like until the modern era doing your laundry was washing by hand with tools. Like bro it’s a machine…you don’t know how to operate this magic machine that does work for you???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:07 PM
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The average guy is short and bald? Also how does women being attracted to hot people make them look superficial…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:05 PM
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How are women too picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:05 PM
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I learned to not go down on anyone that’s just peed/freshly showered I never let anyone go down on me if I’m not freshly showered either That area is a great place for smells to develop
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:03 PM
1

Your advice is to not believe the words coming out of a woman’s mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:01 PM
0

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:57 PM
2

Is that how most of your relationships have been?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:56 PM
2

Rob you of money? Stop dating gold diggers my man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:56 PM
0

We must have different definitions of relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:56 PM
1

What’s wrong with that? Why do people quip this like the worst thing in the world is being single? Like chill
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:52 PM
3

Lmao what
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:52 PM
8

I was told boyfriends are stupid and to focus on school by dad Mom said never let a guy have all the money and be trapped like she is 🥴 So
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:51 PM
1

I manage my time fine. I don’t have to have my phone on me constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:44 PM
1

Wow in your life the women that rejected you not only all have kids now but are begging to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:44 PM
1

Like if I lived life based off at that sub I would assume all dudes sucked lol. Which just straight up isn’t true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:43 PM
1

Ok I will but if you could to it would be great
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:40 PM
1

Yeah I totally relate to this Like you can tell when I have more downtime depending on how I text you Every weekend I get texts asking if I’m alive bc I spend it with my bf and only pay attention to him. Like mom is actually really mad right now I keep ignoring her
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:40 PM
3

Ok but you gotta admit college was cheaper in the past and jobs paid more 😅 I shared a three bedroom with 7 people, worked two jobs and still needed loans lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:36 PM
1

In 2017, “39 percent of opposite-sex couples first saw each other as clusters of pixels on a screen” I assume that will increase too but still it’s not the majority people as of now. It is a pretty big chunk tho you’re correct
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:35 PM
2

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:06 PM
6

They know guys who caught a charge for just talking to women? The police went through all that to fake a crime they didn’t commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:13 PM
2

Yes but not everyone uses online dating nor is it a good representation for all dating. Only a minority of people even use it. Those other apps aren’t dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:12 PM
-1

How do you know the clothing amounts to lingerie? I’ve never seen party clothing like that Also why is he trying to control what parties she goes to? If he thinks she’s gonna cheat on him he just doesn’t trust her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:10 PM
-1

Like what kind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:47 PM
-1

They stress not to have boundaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:41 PM
10

I wonder how many are just like 26 year olds dating 30/31 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:41 PM
1

When I was a virgin I def consumed a lot of porn, wouldn’t that just mean she had a low sex drive/none at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:38 PM
2

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:36 PM
1

I like your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:36 PM
0

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:36 PM
3

We’re drawn to each other, I can’t help smile when I look at you, when I see you I immediately get horny, I want to touch you and kiss you constantly, I feel butterflies. You know, vibin
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:35 PM
1

Thank you for explaining that was interesting!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:34 PM
2

You’re only talking about online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:33 PM
2

Not really bc people seem to pick and choose from studies. They don’t reveal the whole context only picking what serves their view. That makes it not science I’ve had plenty of discussions where it’s obvious the person didn’t read the study just the title
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:32 PM
1

My favorite thing is when I say me and my friends do something and someone on here kindly let’s me know that they a man knows better than me and we never do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:29 PM
0

That’s a horrible source, half those stories are fake my man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:27 PM
1

You don’t date friends? Weird I mean I’ve not texted my bf back bc I’m hanging out with someone and that’s rude af
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:27 PM
1

I personally don’t have any friends that do this bc most of my friends don’t have casual sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:25 PM
1

Maybe you just have really terrible friends lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:23 PM
0

If my friend fails in dating how am I supposed to know why she’s fucking up? Idk why she’s being rejected. I never did this to guy friends either. Just empathize with them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:22 PM
1

The body positivity movement telling you that you shouldn’t hate yourself bc you’re not the ideal body type proves women aren’t honest with each other? Are you a woman My female/male friends are the ones that call me out on my shit
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:21 PM
1

Can you tell us specifically what you heard at the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:19 PM
2

What? Older women give younger women advice all the time lol. Like our moms? Also you got a source on the rest of that that isn’t mean girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:18 PM
2

I have this issue where I’m good at getting people to open up so I’ve had a lot of male friends share secrets/cry to me, esp if they’re single. I wish men were more emotional with each other. Seems lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:17 PM
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I keep saying I know so many women who genuinely do not care about dating and people don’t believe me 😩 I had one friend I chalked up as asexual bc she never expressed romantic attraction in college. In grad school she made a friend and started crushing on him. When he stopped responding/she felt lack of interest. She went back to being uninterested in dating. Like most people have more important things in life to do than date
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:16 PM
1

Well since this study contradicts your personal unbiased anecdotal experience it must be wrong 😂 Sorry I do the same thing but I’m realizing what it sounds like now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:13 PM
2

Nah I have a friend that gets hit on everywhere. She hates it. She came into a party single once and came out with a bf. These guys aren’t really attractive and usually try to cheat on her . She could have anyone but she wants them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:08 PM
3

Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:06 PM
1

How does this work of you’re bi? No friends ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:03 PM
2

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:03 PM
6

This makes sense. In college so many men and women I knew opted out of dating bc they had no time or bc they had no money and plenty of platonic relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:02 PM
0

What’s the age range of “young men”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:02 PM
2

Copped a charge?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:01 PM
1

This thread is funny. I used to have the same mindset with I was super overbearing and didn’t have much of a social life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:00 PM
1

Or her friends or family tf. You only text romantic prospects?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:59 PM
1

When? I gotta make myself lunch, shower, tend to the pets, take the trash in etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:58 PM
2

Nah I hadn’t texted my best friend back for a few days bc she sent a text about this skin care product and I really needed time to sit and think about it to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:57 PM
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I mean work, socializing, and then cooking/cleaning etc makes me busy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:56 PM
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Same. Also I don’t look at my phone when I hang out with people. Maybe the guys on here just have a lot of free time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:54 PM
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I mean I haven’t responded to my best friend for days I had friends that wouldn’t text you for months if they didn’t see you in person It really depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:54 PM
1

Not everyone obviously but most people aren’t evil in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:52 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:51 PM
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Is that something that happened to you? Or did your lady friends admit this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:51 PM
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I have lol And they call themselves ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:50 PM
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I think only like 20% of people have casual sex. Idk why they worry about it like it’s rampant
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 12:49 PM
1

Has that happened to you a lot? It’s not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:53 AM
1

How do I confirm it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:53 AM
1

How
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:52 AM
2

Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:47 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:47 PM
1

Oh wow and what study noted that trend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:45 PM
1

Do you have data on that or are you assuming
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:43 PM
0

Example?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:07 PM
1

If you’re choosing not to have friends that different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:07 PM
1

Most?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:05 PM
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You say this likes it a phenomenon but I’ve only seen it in memes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:04 PM
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No apparently that makes you fickle and flighty 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:04 PM
0

Why? Please expand
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:03 PM
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THANK YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:03 PM
0

Men and women don’t need to learn anything other than just be yourself and don’t obsess over dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:02 PM
0

Wdym by flighty?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:01 PM
3

Oh is this the average man’s experience? Just constantly protecting girls from fights
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 06:01 PM
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Or when you try to talk to them but they won’t stop talking about how no woman will give them a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:59 PM
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Why?? I can’t see into the future
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:58 PM
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Like it would be impossible for all men or all women to be evil lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:48 PM
2

How so? I asked if you have anything to back up those claims like a study or a journal. You said only your lived experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:47 PM
2

Yeah I don’t understand why one of the prettiest girls I know is dating her bf but I’m like ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:47 PM
1

Um ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:46 PM
1

Wait is that what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:46 PM
0

How does this prove that women only like one personality type exactly?? Lol only a minority of people even use tinder, how can you blame tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:45 PM
1

Ok who represents the majority?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:44 PM
2

You don’t have to be popular to have friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:44 PM
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It’s a good thing you’re not trying to date them then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:44 PM
1

What are ridiculous demands
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:43 PM
1

Prove. It.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:42 PM
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Do you have the stats on the men that pretend? Lemme ask my bf if he’s faking his personality and a couple of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:41 PM
1

But it means you don’t know how to deal with people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:41 PM
2

So women are dating not hot men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:40 PM
2

Oh so you don’t. Phew
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:40 PM
0

Ok 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:40 PM
2

So if I ask a girl out and she says no you need to insult her got it. That’s not unhinged at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:39 PM
1

Yeah literally wtf. I’m a person with feelings and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:38 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:38 PM
2

Well, and autists
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:38 PM
1

I Stan you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:37 PM
2

No one has ever dm’ed me on Instagram Most people don’t respond to random DM’s anyways Instagram isn’t a place well known for dating 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:37 PM
3

I don’t know one single person who has gotten a gf from Instagram? Is that common I do like how quickly he abandoned the dating stats. Breaking news: an app with very little women makes it hard to get a date!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:36 PM
1

Yeah and half the women are reported to be bots 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:35 PM
1

Right???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:35 PM
3

Wait to be nerdy you have to program for 16 hours?? So there’s NO social nerdy men? The person you described sounds like a socially awkward work-a-holic Why would someone want to date someone like that? Thy don’t sound appealing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:34 PM
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😂😂😂 I can’t I’m crying laughing honestly. I gotta show this shit to my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:33 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:33 PM
1

Such as??? Also why should women adjust their preferences? If they’re finding men they like and getting into the relationships there’s no real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:32 PM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:32 PM
1

How does makeup make you fake 😂 That’s like saying clothing makes you fake Makeup can’t change your face. The looks that can aren’t usually everyday looks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:31 PM
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The issue is what’s attractive to one person might not be to another That’s why it doesn’t work to say “wOmEn oNLy lIKe OnE pERSoNaLitY tYpe” Like anyone who genuinely believes this obviously has no friends, especially female ones I don’t know one friend that has the same type as me I know one girl who will ONLY date Asians and one that refuses to. If you’re white no matter what personality type you have that one girls is gonna reject you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:30 PM
2

That’s cruel
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:28 PM
2

Ok then go lie but it makes you a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:28 PM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:27 PM
1

So women don’t like mens real personalities Y’all are so funny 😂😅😅
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:27 PM
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Lol he really said “introverts don’t hang out in bars” My man doesn’t seem to understand what an introvert is
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:26 PM
1

Which are?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:22 PM
4

Right? I don’t know any woman in my life that has even ever responded positively to being choked
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:22 PM
3

Oh really now? So every woman is dating a guy like that? Guess I should let my bf know
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:21 PM
2

Do you have anything backing those absurd claims up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:18 PM
1

Aw good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:18 PM
2

So woman will only date tall men Who make up a tiny percentage of the population
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:17 PM
1

😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:17 PM
0

All women only like one personality type? That’s crazy 99% of the population must be single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:16 PM
1

Which personality types???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:14 PM
1

Who plans how long they’re gonna stay with someone? At that point don’t enter relationships if you have no future for them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:14 PM
0

But no one has to misrepresent themselves… I don’t know a single guy in my life that changed his personality to get a gf
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:13 PM
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Have you never had a good female friend? That’s sad. Plenty of us have great relationships with men and women. Some of my best friends are men. Gender doesn’t matter in friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:11 PM
1

Lol yea. Do…do you not???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:10 PM
1

What a….random tangent LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:09 PM
0

Lack of friends is a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:08 PM
1

I mean isn’t that how it is for everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:01 PM
1

So my friends just have low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 03:01 PM
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Put them on their place how?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:59 PM
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Yessss. When they’re like “well all the women I know are vindictive and evil” Have you considered the people you hang out with? All the women and men I know are awesome lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:57 PM
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I believe the final example was social status, and if you weren’t rejecting that very premise, then exactly what did you mean when you asked I probably messed up threads I was replying to tbh lol How can you know she likes one person better? Wanting to have sex with a condom with one person vs another doesn’t necessarily mean you like anyone better. what did you mean by this? So in casual relationships which I don’t think the study is talking about I maintain that you really don’t know why she m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 09:55 PM
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First of all, our “heather“ hypothetically banged both of these guys on the same day, so she is probably in a very similar place in her life for both of these shags. if a woman is in an entirely different stage of her life before and after lunch, then we might very well be discussing a crazy person, whereas I had previously assumed that our “heather” was more or less of sound mind. I mean before lunch I could’ve been in a good place and after lunch I could’ve gotten devastating news lol. Also I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 08:30 PM
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Oh so bc a bunch of people said something does happen it’s true 😂 Like you got any data? Also tf. Just like with men not every woman likes hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:39 PM
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No I don’t but how am I supposed to answer why a person who doesn’t exist did something with one guy and not another 😂😅 Unless you meant what reasons I think, if so sorry! It very well could be she liked one guy more than another Could also be she’s just in a different place in life and her priorities have changed Could be she just thought one dudes dick looks weird so she wanted a condom That’s kind of my point. A lot of the time when a woman does something this sub insists there’s only reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:37 PM
1

Oh really? As in the majority of people engage in hook ups?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:16 PM
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You heard first here folks Women not randomly messaging strangers to date is hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:14 PM
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No because the study doesn't mention marital status as a factor, just the attractive qualities. It's shocking because some men (possibly OP) only ever encountered women who made him jump through hoops. I mean it said commitment so it’s at minimum a bf In the example i provided... Rules would be her requiring Billy to wear a condom. Rule breaking would be her requiring Bob to not wear a condom. But you think this is heathers rule. It very well could not be It's not specific about the type of wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:08 PM
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Well heather isn’t real so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 07:04 PM
1

What age is that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:32 PM
1

Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:32 PM
1

I think OP just used the general term because OP didn't say physical attractive only. the point still stands, that if a man does check all the boxes she's willing to throw precaution to the wind, VS a man who doesn't. Then all in all isn’t the study saying women are more likely to “be risky” with their boyfriends/husbands? Why is that like shocking to OP lol I personally don't care, but to the man who has "Rules" placed on him it makes him feel and know he is inferior to her preferred choice. Ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:32 PM
1

I did in Starbucks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 04:00 PM
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But it’s disingenuous to have a study say women reporting greater willingness to risk pregnancy with physically attractive men, and men who show commitment, good financial prospects, as well as moderate to high social status And only focus on the attractive trait. Like commitment seems like a really big factor into why a woman will be more willing to risk pregnancy right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:53 PM
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They’re willing to take more risk with physically attractive men, and men who show commitment, good financial prospects, as well as moderate to high social status I can’t tell if they mean those individually or all together but you left out the other reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:49 PM
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Actually the study points out multiple factors when I went to read it, don’t know why OP only stuck on one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:48 PM
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My mistake for some reason I thought we were talking about this I am a woman. I know women. The whole idea that women marry men they aren’t attracted to and don’t like is a stupid misogynist lie. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:30 PM
0

Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:28 PM
3

women reporting greater willingness to risk pregnancy with physically attractive men, and men who show commitment, good financial prospects, as well as moderate to high social status
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:28 PM
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How can you know she likes one person better? Wanting to have sex with a condom with one person vs another doesn’t necessarily mean you like anyone better. Circumstances change. I didn’t have condomless sex in college when I couldn’t afford a baby, my bf and I are looking into BC for condomless sex bc this is a more serious relationship and I’m not kid anymore that getting pregnant would be devastating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:25 PM
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In terms of me.... My current partner does whatever I like sexually. So I know she's not settling for me... Although I base that answer on more than just sex. Sorry I guess i just read it incorrectly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:23 PM
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Tell you what we as women personally fee and belive in relationships is not the equivalent to telling a black man what it’s like to experience racism and the fact that you find them equivalent is baffling Wouldn’t a woman know what she wants in a relationship??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:19 PM
2

It’s settling if your partner doesn’t let you do whatever you like???
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:03 PM
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This sub has an obsession with settling Are there really that many relationships in your life where people settled??? Also if you can’t trust your bf/gf to be with you bc they love you but instead they’re settling, maybe you shouldn’t date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 03:01 PM
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Are you saying the majority of women don’t take accountability? What study points that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:59 PM
2

What even is weird slutty stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:58 PM
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Am I reading it wrong? Doesn’t it say they engage in that behavior with some partners and not others?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:57 PM
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Sir, we are literally women telling you our varying feelings and beliefs. The fact that you don’t actually listen to women and go based off assumptions is frustrating and depresses me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:54 PM
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