| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | What is the best place and situation to genuinely look for relationships (sick of one night stands) | YungKnug | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 05:26 PM | |
| 1 | Relighting the flame to a worthy relationship | YungKnug | /r/seduction | 02/01/19 01:57 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 54 | How would you compliment an older woman?My girlfriend is 10 years older than me and I call her cute all the time. She’s 32 and I’m 22 | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Where to begin?Models by Mark Manson is a must and a first recommendation. Don’t wait to finish the book though, get out there and give it your best; you have to be in situations where you CAN meet women TO meet women first and foremost. | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm scared of females, helpI completely disagree with you, you MUST establish yourself as someone friendly first and foremost. If the beginning of your interaction with a girl is asking for her number or on a date she will feel like her romance is the only thing you want from the interaction. The key is to establish yourself as someone who is a friend and CAN transition past that, with no detriment to either party. This way she is comfortable and trusting with you and from this point you can get IOI’s and gage whether she… | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Learnings after my 50th approachThis is the part of this subreddit I don’t care for; all the cold approach stuff won’t do you any good if you’re too busy and not willing to play what seems like a pure numbers game. Instead look for actual seduction tactics that you can use on the women that exist within YOUR world. | /r/seduction | 01/07/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Looks like I'm gonna be single again in 2020Yeah mate, I’ve had a series of promising beginnings for relationships that never go anywhere. We’re talking 4-5, 2 week relationships where some random shit happens and I end up single. This time it’s Covid-19, maybe the universe wants us to be single? No point crying over spilt milk, get your shit together and move on | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | Why do I keep losing interest in girls I'm dating?Often when this happens you’re chasing the attention of the relationship without wanting the relationship. So when you get that attention so easily you become disinterested from the person and it appears that you were leading them on, this happens in guys as well as girls (although from experience girl seek attention much more comparatively). | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 07:42 AM |
| 1 | How can a man detect when a girl likes him or is flirting?Assume attraction always, women always make it clear that they don’t like you that way | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 08:04 AM |
| 2 | I am sick of being rejectedFirst things first: How can you expect others others to be attracted to you when you don’t believe your attractive yourself. You’re selling a product that you don’t believe in. Work on your body, your ego & your ethos. I cannot stress enough that you shouldn’t expect anyone to like you if you don’t like yourself, whatever adjust you need to make for that to happen do it. Have a good time living life and women will want to join you. Secondly stop looking back at the past. The past sucks, EVERYBOD… | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Tips for date on FaceTime?Bro my girl across a closed border, this the kinda content I need | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 10:45 PM |
| 2 | 17 year male on a date with an 18 Year old girlIMO keeping a girl ready for DTF till after the pandemic is over is going to be HARD. Just because keeping her interested for that period of time with no payoff in the foreseeable future for her is unlikely, no matter how good your text game is. I was about to get into a relationship just before the pandemic started and she got caught across a border with her family. My recommendation; keep it flirty (obvious but why would she talk to you if it’s boring and/or not arousing), don’t be needy (text… | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 01:34 PM |
| 3 | How do you frame that you only want to date casually without putting of women?You’re overthinking a lot here, what you’ve said is perfect. If she wants anything to do with you she’ll make it happen. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Tried cold approach today.More info pls | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Never talked to her before (for more than 5min) and now I’m meeting her at her place later todayJust go with the flow and if nothing happens then don’t sweat it. DO NOT get too cooked. Imagine escalating to sex and being too gone to perform. In my opinion refrain from getting mega cooked. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl I’m dating takes ages to respond to snapchats, am I overthinking?Agreed, if you clicked it shouldn’t be you putting in all the effort. If she doesn’t make it happen it won’t anyway. Give her a chance but 0 effort = 0 outcome | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Subway dateTell her she’s cute Make sure it’s quiet so she doesn’t have to work instead of talking to you Ask her out if you think the interaction was positive in any way (assume attraction) These steps don’t have to be all at the same time but it’s better to swipe her off her feet. | /r/seduction | 17/05/19 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Any tips on how to get the fuck out of your own head?What’s the point in being scared? Why do you allow your fear to limit your experiences? At the end of the day nothings probably gonna matter anyway, so why not adopt a “fuck it” attitude. Wanna ask that girls number - Fuck it Wanna dance with everyone but don’t know how/nervous - Fuck it You have no reason to be afraid, once you understand this you’ll have a far easier time controlling your emotions. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Thank you guysIs what compels you to do an approach a ‘fuck it’ attitude. As you who are new to approaching you might have a more refined and less clouded version of the basics? From a beginner. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What is the best place and situation to genuinely look for relationships (sick of one night stands)Appreciate it man | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the best place and situation to genuinely look for relationships (sick of one night stands)Cheers man, I guess I’m just gonna try meeting people through friends? | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | How to answer "I like someone already"?Yeah man I’ve been in same position, and I can tell you there is a crucial time to act on your feelings before it’s too late. For you this is probably very soon, and trust me do it in person, even just outright kiss her if the tension is there. Also if she recommends just being friends accept but distance yourself completely, after these interactions remaining friends with someone you like is torture. Trust me I know. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Relighting the flame to a worthy relationshipHey man, revising this post and why do you think I shouldn’t let her know I’m still into her? | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 11:20 AM |
| 2 | Is this a bad sign? I wonder if I made her uncomfortable.Your thinking too hard about it man, you’ll see her again. Get to know her a little better and escalate physically towards the kiss. | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 01:27 AM |
| 1 | How to get closer to this girl i like ?Apologies for the massive info drop Try not to approach her when she’s in another larger group, this is awkward and puts her on the spot, somewhere she perhaps doesn’t prefer to be. In the schoolyard it’s hard if you haven’t even talked to her yet. If possible you should find a situation where you can interact so she knows you exist: - in a class that one of you shares - in the hallway making small talk Just make sure she knows you exist and that the interactions she has with you are positive. I… | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | First Date idea w girl in my chemistry lab?I would say do it next time you see her, if she wants anything with you she’ll listen. Remember to always make it a particular date on the calendar, be definite about it. You can do it man, all it requires is balls (I know it ain’t easy) | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | First Date idea w girl in my chemistry lab?You shouldn’t assume your friend zoned until she lets you know, it’s good that last time she also changed her plans last minute to watch a movie with you. You should CALL her and ask her out. She will likely give you the most genuine reaction. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | sent a u up text did i mess up?Okay my dude, first of all the “u up?” Text is a classic move that also builds trust and comfort if it leads to a face to face interaction. But you gotta have something to do. Think of something that will be hard to miss (if she likes you) e.g. a movie that she likes and food or an early morn hike up a mountain to see the sunrise. If she doesn’t like you she won’t text back or consider your suggestions. | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How to ask her out?Ask her out in person for sure, but (because it’s in a school setting and she’ll likely be with mates a majority of the time) try and separate her from her friends otherwise she might get embarrassed or be caught off guard. Catch her just before class or ask to walk her down to the bus stop or some shit. It might be a little awkward but if you’re still feeling a vibe give her a time and place. | /r/seduction | 14/10/18 03:40 PM |
| 14 | What does it mean if a girl rests her head on your shoulder?No dude your good, she’s probably interested. You should consider getting to know her better (away from uni/classes) and see where it goes. She’s obviously comfortable around you. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 09:59 AM |
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