Yunngjedi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Need some advice on my next move with her	Conversation	Yunngjedi	/r/seduction	29/08/22 07:50 PM
0	Found out my partner is turned off by my sexual fetish	Lifestyle	Yunngjedi	/r/seduction	08/02/22 05:57 AM
0	A question for women who consider themselves naturally submissive	Conversation	Yunngjedi	/r/seduction	10/02/22 01:52 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	A question for women who consider themselves naturally submissive Lol I know what kind of guys you mean. The controlling, always in your face, never think they’re wrong kind of people , but that’s not me. What I meant is I know that most women prefer their man to make the decisions most of the time so I make effort to always be assertive and make sure things are taken care of. But I also find it extremely attractive when women like to take the lead sometimes. I think I have the wrong impression in the post. Im a man who prefers 50/50 all the time but most wome…	/r/seduction	10/02/22 03:01 PM
6	Am I self sabotaging with girls I find really attractive? I think the issue with u feeling judgmental towards women is tied in with the fact that, when u were young, you you used to find average women attractive. I believe this may have just been a coping mechanism you did to avoid being nervous when approaching more attractive women. & during that time, you spent years telling yourself why attractive women aren’t your thing or why average women are better. So now you’ve sort of programmed your mind to be judgmental to really attractive women. Like pic…	/r/seduction	10/02/22 04:23 AM
1	Found out my partner is turned off by my sexual fetish Well it’s not necessarily a deal break honestly. I mean after I saw the post, I felt really bummed becuz I’ve been hiding this kink my entire life, with every relationship I’ve been with. Except for one which only lasted a few months. I really enjoyed that she allowed me to explore my sexual curiosities and she actually ended up really enjoying it to (& that’s after she said she thought it was a little odd but wouldn’t mind trying with me). So now that I’ve tried it, I really don’t want to go ba…	/r/seduction	09/02/22 04:15 AM
1	Found out my partner is turned off by my sexual fetish It’s a foot fetish. But I’m only hesitant about telling her becuz she made a comment about it. Years ago honestly but I doubt her view on the topic has changed since then.	/r/seduction	08/02/22 06:14 PM
3	Is she interested? Also if you have something to say with a lot of information like your first text about the VR Headset. Send a text that can lead into an opportunity for you to add that next bit about u having the VR set. For example you could have said: Nice… Doubt you could beat me tho”. That comment could have possibly lead to her asking if u own a VR or it could not have. But if it doesn’t then it’s really info that doesn’t need to be added anyway.. The fact that the thought to ask about it didn’t occur to h…	/r/seduction	08/02/22 03:04 AM
0	Is she interested? I realized I had this same issue too actually. It’s more about you putting too much of your personality into a text. Just remember that talking is a lot more fluid than texting. So don’t try to put so much personality into it and just save it for when you guys meet. & when I say personality I don’t mean humor. I mean the extra “kickers” or “flairs” to the joke. Like your text about reviewing the dating principle could have ended at that first sentence. People are well versed enough in convo to k…	/r/seduction	08/02/22 02:56 AM
2	I think I just realized what my problem is, waiting for the perfect moment I swear the way you thought your way out of asking that girl out is exactly what I do and how I always missed my opportunities. I always felt like I was the “I’ll meet a nice girl casually, have a cool conversation, and it’ll just be easy and natural” type… News flash! It don’t work like that. Like u said, there is never really a right moment unless u take the opportunity while it’s there. But what I’ve also learned is that, admitting your hesitation the next time speaking with the girl is a gre…	/r/seduction	08/02/22 02:01 AM
2	First world problems, but I can’t get laid as often because I live with my parents Lmao bro you either step up to your parents and ask them not to be so nosey or you tough it out for the next month. Just tell ur parents you’re having company over but she’s not an actual love interest. Let em know you both agreed just to have a good time for the night and just tell them the basic: Name, age, where she’s from, where u guys met. But your an adult now so anything else after that, your parents don’t necessarily need to know. Granted it is their house.. Just ask if they could grant …	/r/seduction	04/02/22 08:18 PM
1	Is it bad to talk about sexual partners with a girl? Well it depends. If you guys are literally on a date and she mentions any other guy at all, chances are she’s still attached to that guy. Especially if the conversation gets sexual. I’d personally find it very disrespectful to have that convo on a date and would wrap things up quickly. If you guys are just talking as friends then most likely that’s how she sees you, just a friend. In which case, be happy you just gained a cute friend! But look for other options dating wise	/r/seduction	04/02/22 08:09 PM
1	Girl flaked after second date No bro your super good on this one. She probably really does have to work late. If she kissed you then agreed for another date, sounds like she’s interested. Don’t push so hard when it comes to escalating after a kiss. Her body language will tell you if she wants more or not.	/r/seduction	03/02/22 03:40 PM
2	Is it normal to feel guilty for wanting women? I don’t blame you. Women are the worlds most beautiful creatures	/r/seduction	03/02/22 03:32 PM
2	I am 15 years old, new in this subreddit, and i want to know how i can get more attractive to girls. Peanut butter, bananas and oatmeal are a great source of protein. Affordable too	/r/seduction	03/02/22 04:07 AM
2	Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staring Yup so my initial comment still stands. When a woman denies a man she tend to avoid them most of the time unless friends with the guy. So the fact that the staring continues makes me think shes somewhat interested. You are pretty young tho so if anything does happen, it’ll probably only be sexual. But know that this can come with a lot of consequences. Husband can get revengeful if he finds out, you could potentially ruin their relationship, and ruin the girls self image she has of herself. Soo …	/r/seduction	21/01/22 04:23 PM
58	What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you? Ohh man that’s SUPER attractive to me. But somehow I always seem to end up with submissive women. Not that I don’t like being the dominant one. I do like it but I find it super sexy when a woman wants to challenge my dominance. It’s more so about where her confidence comes from. She’s they type of woman that will prevail through tough times, never let things bring her down too much, and can even be the most loyal partners. Plus naturally lingering eye contact will make me fall in love so fast it…	/r/seduction	21/01/22 03:57 PM
1	Need Feedback From My First Ever Date Well yeah she may have been joking about it but the fact that she said it means there was a thought that crossed her mind that kind of implies that she thinks it really wouldn’t be in her best interest to do so. She was laughing and joking about it becuz you guys just met. So of course she doesn’t really think you’re a complete bad influence. But she was really hinting “yeah that sounds fun maybe some other time, but would rather not go into work too drunk”. Try not too push too much after a wom…	/r/seduction	21/01/22 03:49 PM
1	Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staring So wait what’s the story? Sounds like weeks ago she was staring, then u approached, was denied, THEN a couple days later she was staring again… is that correct?	/r/seduction	21/01/22 03:44 PM
1	Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staring Hmm sounds like she could be staring at u because she was intrigued by you coming up to her a few weeks back. So she may have been looking at you slightly interested but if she said she was married then chances are low u have any shot. BUT you could spark up casual conversation again somehow. Like hey nice to see you again. Let her know u remember her. Then if she’s actually interested, her intentions will show… BUT again she’s married so it would be a huge dick move on your part if you were to …	/r/seduction	21/01/22 01:31 PM
1	Need an opinion about this girl. Well after everything u just said and including the fact that she canceled, I’d say your best move is to move on. She’ll end up wasting your time and causing u unnecessary stress	/r/seduction	21/01/22 08:05 AM
1	3rd date ideas to top the second one Bro I got u: Lay out a few big blankets by a nice open spot either by a lake, the beach, or anywhere with a nice view. Bring music, food, some wine or beer, and a card game that’ll get u guys asking questions about each other, that way u guys will always have something to talk about. Never Have I Ever or Let’s Get Deep are some card games that I’ve had on dates. Those are usually the best dates because remember that the girl is mainly there to get to know you. Simplicity is key.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:56 AM
5	How should I handle a girl that says "maybe". Good god don’t listen to either of those previous comments xD Idk how u explained your schedule to her but the fact that she replies to you instantly shows that she interested enough to not play with your time in the first place. She likes you and wants to see you but MAYBE SHE has a busy schedule as well. I am assuming that she choose Saturday becuz u hinted to her that u may have some availability that day. But if anything its better than a “maybe next weekend” or “idk maybe some other time th…	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:45 AM
3	Need Feedback From My First Ever Date Okay well at age 26 EVERYONE knows what you mean when you are invited over to the other persons house. Considering this was your first date, I’d say you moved waaay too fast with that one. The kiss was fine, but asking her to your house is a bit much on a first date. UNLESS all you want from her is sex. If that’s the only thing you want then you can continue to try your advances but they probably won’t work (unless of course that’s all she’s interested in). But if you are actually interested in …	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:27 AM
2	[deleted by user] Yeah I’d say your overthinking it just a little bit. It’s normal to feel some sort of feelings when looking at an ex. Especially if it’s a recent breakup. I’d say the IG story just brought back bad memories to her and she felt comfortable enough with u to speak about it. It was most likely a good closure moment for her. Like her way of finally throwing out the bad and looking forward to her new relationship. Good for you bro	/r/seduction	21/01/22 07:13 AM