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| 104 | I am really scared of cold approaching women | Conversation | Yuva0 | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:03 PM |
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| 8 | Where the fuck do most guys learn this stuff?Nope, there are naturals. But then there are naturals in everything. There are some who are born with a good height, some are naturally good looking, some are naturally smart, some are naturally confident, some are naturally seductive etc etc. That being said, while naturals are good, to be great it requires hard work and no amount of talent can compensate for that. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 02:21 PM |
| 56 | How to handle situation where girl isn't over her ex?If she wants a relationship and you want a relationship, she isn't ready, give her time or forget it, it's going to bite you later. If both of you want a hookup, go for it. It's just a one time thing after all. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:58 AM |
| -1 | Where the fuck do most guys learn this stuff?Just google and you will find loads on the subject. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:41 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Awesome man, you got this. But do remember, on one hand if things go well, you got an amazing relationship with someone who is your best friend. On the other hand if things don't go well, you lose the relationship and the friendshio for 8 years. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 06:33 AM |
| – | Where the fuck do most guys learn this stuff?Some are naturals, some learn but don't say, some learn from friends, some learn from their parents, some read from books, watch YT videos, podcasts etc etc. Everyone's different. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 05:48 AM |
| – | How do I make the conversation sexier?I was on a date with a girl and we were having a chocolate tart and she said 'Goddamn it, it's soo hard' and I replied (with a smirk) 'You don't like it when it's hard?' and she giggled. Later as I was leaving on my bike she said 'Can you drop me home?'. Her home was on the opposite side of mine so fuck no. I didn't say that but I said 'You will get to ride my bike and other stuff on the next few dates' and left. She was laughing then. The thing is you will find plenty of such opportunities in b… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:33 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]There are soooooooooo many ways but firstly change your mindset. Think of it as a game. There's a reason it's called having a game because it is just a game. Don't take it seriously. Chill out. When you are serious, you look for ways to logically get laid with her BUT when you chill out and relax, you are just having fun and girls want that, they want to have fun. So more emotional, less logical. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 02:21 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It seems suspicious from what you said but I wouldn't suggest saying it to her cuz she would obviously deny it. Maybe reduce contact or try letting her know indirectly that you don't like her touchy-feely attitude. | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 07:07 AM |
| 56 | How to flirt? What to say?Scientist huh, how about you research me? 😉 Flirting involves having sexual tension btw you two. It involves crossing a line that may work on her or may not but you have to take the plunge. You can go the oldie goldie route and say 'Hey, I like this and that' and she will says thanks. But that's about It. You need to create tension to go further. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Don't carry yourself too seriouslySame pinch man. When I am with friends I am like this really friendly guy cracking lame ass weird jokes making fun always laughing and making others laugh. But when I first see someone, I get super nervous. I think it's because we are less confident and scared in the beginning and we care too much what the others think. Don't worry it will get better with time :) | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How much does social proof (ie: friends, relationship/sexual history) contribute to your ability to land women?Lolol might as well hand over our resume to them and then see if they select us 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | I need help with pickup linesThat's like saying 'Give me one strategy that will consistently make me profits in the stock market'. It doesn't work. Look at her bio (bumble, tinder) or her (top to bottom) and then pickup something from there and start a convo | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:03 AM |
| 3 | How much does social proof (ie: friends, relationship/sexual history) contribute to your ability to land women?It varies on person to person. Like in my last relationship, she knew I don't have many friends and those that do I rarely talk to them. Yet she was okay going into a relationship because she knew I as a person am nice, caring, funny and other qualities she admired in me. She knew isolation was a choice I made and although she kept pestering at times to make more friends, she was okay with it. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 06:00 AM |
| 16 | Don't carry yourself too seriouslyYeah man. I was just like you. I used to take things way too seriously, used to consider every decision with utmost thinking and analysis. Lately what worked for me is of thinking Life is a game so the goal is to play it, enjoy it, think less, do more, stop overthinking and overanalysing. After all it's just a game. Test it out, see if it works for you :) | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 09:00 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Wear boxers, the loose ones which cover it up well. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 07:43 AM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Why didn't the girlfriend give her own kidney? But I get your point. However not all woman are like that. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Go for it. Just tell her whatever you want to do to her. Not everything has to be learned, just let your sexual impulses take over. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:51 AM |
| 7 | I am really scared of cold approaching womenNo | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:08 AM |
| 13 | I am really scared of cold approaching womenI still wanna try tho | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | An Approach Doesn’t Have to be an ApproachThanks man, it helped | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Just did my first cold approach! Wanted to shareCongratulations man. Did you do read any books on cold approach about it beforehand? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | What Talking To Women Really Looks Like (Infield)Do you know any books or videos on how to approach woman in public? I have always been scared by the idea of it but maybe learning more about it will help. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Considering just forgetting about women?Don't become blackpilled. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Nope. First you can develop these traits. Some are naturals but some build it over time. If you think these are essential skills, go build them. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | The girls don't take me seriousyeah ,if you wish haha Yeah, if you wish, haha!?! Dude, be honest with her. You want that date and you are taking it seriously. Be more confident and assertive. Girls think of nice guys as friends and not people they want to date. Be more assertive, build confidence and you will get more girls. You are already good looking so that works for you. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | I realized i did all the wrong moves with this girl i like and now i feel super distant with her, is there a way i can try again?Go into abundance mindset and you will be fine | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Just did my first ever cold approach today. Despite rejection it felt amazing!Good job buddy! Keep it up :) | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Never had this experience but I am gonna brace myself if I do face this 😂 | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 04:53 PM |
| 107 | Tips on game with older women?Constantly questioning yourself will hurt your chances the most. You did good asking for coffee, now relax and enjoy. Take charge :) | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 05:45 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]😂😂 Wow, I wish life was so easy | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Your feelings come first, period. If it was bothering me i would be honest with her and dump her. End of story. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:43 PM |
| 4 | There will never be one single solution to all of your problemsVery true but the thing is once you keep solving problems you will be in a habit to solve tons of problems and as future problems arise, you will solve them much faster and much more efficiently than before. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 06:28 AM |
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