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Perhaps I should have asked what your perceptions or understanding of feminism is. For me, feminism is about equality. At a minimum, I want the right to work and vote.
/r/MensRights05/04/26 08:50 PM
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What is your definition of feminism?
/r/MensRights05/04/26 03:57 AM
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Equality of outcomes would depend on the scenario. Kids taking tests is different from merit-based outcomes. I don’t consider an equitable approach to things giving anyone an “advantage.” The goal is to even the playing field in the sense that everyone has a similar starting point. You are right in that there is no way to tell for sure. The best we can do is shoot for an approximation and go from there—and obviously this would depend on the scenario. Some criteria can’t be leveled out. For examp…
/r/MensRights16/03/26 06:54 PM
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As a woman, I'm surprised to hear that a "date zero" isn't the norm, as it is for me and every woman I know. I always chalked up all of this wild talk about having a man pay for an expensive dinner, and lately, pay for an uber and/or a babysitter, as rage bait. I think it's a terrible idea to agree to spend hours with a total stranger right off the bat, as, best case, you know, within the first 20 minutes or so if there is enough of a click to want to get to know them more, and worst case, they …
/r/MensRights16/03/26 04:59 AM
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There is a very similar system in Canada. Whoever earns more, loses the most. I am a woman, and this was my situation.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 04:27 AM
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My understanding of equity to be the equality of outcomes with different inputs/resources. For example, a teacher has students take a test and allows 60 minutes for them to complete it. This would be equality as resources (time) is doled out the same for all. Equity would be allowing students different amounts of time based on need, say dyslexia.
/r/MensRights16/03/26 04:03 AM
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Wouldn’t firing enough women to where the gender split is 50/50 be equality? Wouldn’t equity be more along the lines of providing incentives and such to men to increase the ratio?
/r/MensRights16/03/26 03:58 AM
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As a woman, this is the answer.
/r/seduction25/09/25 09:37 PM
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Social marketing value
/r/seduction22/09/25 02:21 AM
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My brother is 45 and about 5'6. He's never had any trouble getting women. Now, granted, he's the first to admit that some women pass him up due to his height. However, he is seriously so much fun to be around, m intelligent, supportive, caring, and sincere. Everyone wants to be around him all the time.
/r/seduction20/08/25 08:51 PM
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Lol what? 34 women at 30 isn't uncommon or hoe territory. Is there a consensus on what a body count should be at a certain age, and I just didn't get the memo?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:51 PM
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When a guy takes off his shirt. It doesn't matter what his body looks like. The appeal is that he is serious about what he's doing and getting down to business, lol.
/r/seduction11/07/25 03:13 AM
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For me, attraction is 100% a blend of charisma, intelligence, humor/wit, and character. All of the men I've ever dated have probably been considered average at best, but man, their personality, and my attraction to them, was straight fire.
/r/seduction06/07/25 11:35 PM
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It does to some and not asking much to others. Women aren't one giant unit like the Borg.
/r/seduction06/07/25 11:29 PM
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Lol right?! I got a kick out of the very detailed instructions as to how we are supposed to answer. Like, no dude, responses don't work that way; people don't work that way, and Reddit, for sure, doesn't work that way. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 11:16 PM
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The logical side of me thinks it's reasonable for two people to split the check. However, I've found it's a huge turn-off if a guy asks me to pay for half. I guess I feel like him doing so makes him feel more like a friend than someone trying to date me. But I am also not comfortable with a guy spending more than $20 on the first date in case there isn't a connection, so I offer to meet him at a bar or coffee shop and then make sure I get there early and buy my own drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 01:15 AM
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I'm curious, who are some of the "voices" of MRA/red pill that you listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:04 PM
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I think we are making the same point. All x are y is, or at least should be a figure of speech, as, like you said, it only applies in certain circumstances. For example, all cats are mammals. However, what Im.saying is that in situations that do require nuance, I've found very little, if any, in the red pill community when it comes to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 11:41 PM
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This is so well said. Even if a man is an incredible father, the toll childhood takes on women is intense. Im not saying it isn't worth it, but for women, there's a lot more to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:55 PM
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I keep hearing this metaphor, but it for sure wasn't from someone who has any outdoor experience. First of all, it's extreme and doesn't apply to relationships, although I know it can feel that way. Second, it's not accurate. If you are in the wilderness and drink contaminated water, you will most likely get diarrhea and die of dehydration. It's akin to saying if you are stuck at sea and all you have to drink is salt water or you die of dehydration, drinking the salt water will not help--it will…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:50 PM
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What I've noticed from both male and female influencers as well as on this subreddit, is the pattern of thinking is ALL A are B, or ALL A are B; therefore, ALL B are A. There is no room for nuance, no understanding of critical thinking (although they think they excel in this area), and if women push against their illogical/faulty thinking, we are called liars.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:10 PM
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Men with the red pill ideology don't need to spew it. Their distain and contempt for women comes out in small ways on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 06:55 PM
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My dude, we are worried that a man is going to physically or sexually assault us or even kill us. I know from the outside looking in, it seems like women are drowning in a sea of viable options, but it really isn't like that. Some of the top ways women die is from being murdered by their intimate partner, someone they are dating, or someone who is obsessed with them. The threat for us is very real. Once you encounter one creep or abusive guy, it's enough to make you pull back big time. Because a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:40 PM
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Yes. All of those conditions are survivalable, and many don't even occur if a person is getting fluids from other sources outside of clean water.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:32 PM
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And, if we want to continue with this metaphor, a person doesn't need water, in it's purest form, to live. Water is found in all kinds of fruit and veggies. It's not ideal, but it's enough to keep a person alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:04 PM
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And you shit your guts out with dirty water. It's a violent and, sadly, very common way to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:02 PM
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Dirty water kills people kills people at a much higher rate than no water--literally and metaphorically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 11:57 AM
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She does the wifey stuff and provides and protects...so basically not a lot since they make about the same amount. It's this kind of dynamic where the woman takes care of him, the household, the kids, etc. Is the reason women get divorced; and if they stay, then when their husband dies, it why they don't remarry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:27 AM
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If you want him to lead and you follow, then cool--do you. What concerns me is that you keep the peace in your home by letting things go. A lack of conflict isn't a sign of a good relationship, it's a sign of poor communication. Disagreements happen. It's important for both people to talk this stuff out so resentment doesn't build up. Additionally, how can only one person be responsible for making a home peaceful? This sounds like an overly simplistic view of married/family life, and, frankly, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:16 AM
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Or it screams it was written by a red pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:09 AM
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It's like the saying goes, "Sometimes you win, and sometimes you learn." It sounds like this relationship has run its course because you now have some more clarity about what you are looking for in a partner. There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be with someone who graduated from college, has career ambitions, or makes a certain amount of money. Now that you know that about yourself, it's something to keep in mind to screen for when it comes to the next woman you date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:25 AM
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You are saying words that you clearly don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:18 AM
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Statistically speaking, yes I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 02:25 PM
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Being in the middle of the wilderness with a male stranger is a little unsettling because his intentions are unknown. However, a bear lives in the woods and I wouldn't be terribly surprised to see one. If it's a black bear, it's more than likely looking to rifle through a campsite or a dumpster for food. Bears don't typically become aggressive for no reason. If anything, they tend to be more afraid of people than we are of them. ...For the record, if there was a sketchy looking or acting woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:18 PM
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Fear and hate can go hand in hand, but they don't always. The reason I would fear a man in the woods more than the bear is because men are the number one predator of women whereas bears are not. I'm not saying I live in abject fear of men; I don't. But being in a secluded area with a stranger can be a little unsettling. ...And, just FYI, telling other people what they think or feel is ridiculous and only serves to further undermine whatever argument you are attempting to make. You aren't me, so …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:00 PM
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Fear is different than hate. Just because I have more reason to fear a man in the woods over a bear doesn't mean I hate men. Your conclusion doesn't follow your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 07:14 PM
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There's a difference between hating men and being fearful of a male stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:19 PM
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How is this related to the scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:55 AM
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What is considered masculine, feminine, or even attractive is largely defined by culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:43 AM
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I wish life worked like that, but it doesn't. Like Mike Tyson once said, "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth." One of the big differences between learned and lived experience has to do with emotions. It's easy to learn about something, and it's another to actually live it. Life and the people in it can be chaotic. Our response to stress can surprise even ourselves. Not to mention, relationships bring out the best and worst in people. All kinds of unhealed emotional wounds su…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 01:04 AM
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When it comes to most things in life, victimization being one, this all or nothing mentality doesn't apply. Gray areas not only exist, they abound. A person can have agency and be a victim. A person can only consent to something based on their knowledge and understanding of the situation at the time. Adults, by definition, are not children. However, that doesn't mean that all adults have a mature understanding of their decisions. Frankly, I don't think the issue is a gendered one, it's more of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:07 PM
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Unwanted, persistent attention is creepy, no matter how attractive the person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:29 AM
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So lonely old men don't have agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:23 AM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding your intent/mindset. So correct me if I'm wrong. In your original post you wrote, "Then there's the custom prenup to guard against losing a bunch money and assets that one is bringing into the marriage. BOTH actions are preparations for divorce. One is secretly siphoning money out of the marriage. But it's to guard against being absolutely destitute. One often is taken in an offensive way, "you don't trust me?" But it's at least upfront and honest. Which do you think i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:16 PM
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I guess the account. However, I don't understand your issue with asset protection and planning. The way I look at it is marriage requires maturity and the ability to have open, honest, sincere, and solutions oriented communication. It also involves understanding that people and circumstances can and do change. I plan to stay married to my husband as long as he treats me the way he currently does. However, if he were to become abusive or develop an addiction, (to name a few deal breakers), he kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:00 AM
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My husband and I have a prenup, separate accounts, and a joint account. Everything runs smoothly. I don't care what he does with his own money and have no idea how much is in his personal account, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:55 AM
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I agree about a set of rules, but I don't think your example isn't correct as "If A then B" is not the same as "If B then A."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 12:02 AM
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Well, I would imagine that the majority of SA cases involve both people saying there was sex and only one is saying it was rape. Especially with all the DNA evidence that's collected. So any rapist with half a brain is going to say there was sex and it was consensual as that part is fairly easy to prove as long as the victim comes forward within a certain timeframe or keeps certain items of clothing, etc. That's why SA cases are difficult to prosecute. And I can't imagine the police throwing out…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:57 PM
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The purpose of a rape kit is to collect any potential evidence. How that evidence is substantiated is, I'd imagine, dependent upon a handful of additional criteria such as the actions taken by both people before and after the event, eye witness accounts, phone/text records, history of each person, etc. so, what I'm saying is, if the alleged rapist says it was rough sex and the alleged victim says it was rape, they note that and look at what is most likely given the other evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:18 PM
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It can lead to the discovery of physical evidence such as bruises, scratches, tearing, etc. which can be potentially used to confirm various details given as to the encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:41 AM
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Thank you for your detailed response! ...Is it possible that in this situation there was evidence that was turned over to the board? Because the way the report reads, it seems like there is a lot more there than his commander's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:06 AM
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So a few questions: Should this man have faced consequences for an accusation alone? Or should they have only taken action after there was an outcome? From what I understand, he was discharged from the Military due to a "preponderance of evidence" and not just on the accusation alone. We don't know what that evidence is as it's not listed in this report, but it was enough evidence to meet the burden of proof standard. Since the victim reported the SA to the local authorities, and assuming she re…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:13 AM
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Yep. 100% this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:18 PM
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I don't know if ever got charged or even went to court. I'm just just saying that as fair or unfair as it might seem, the law doesn't support unnecessary force in situations like this.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/22 10:05 PM
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Excessive force is a very chargeable offense. Yes, she's an entitled pos, but him punching her will now be forever on his record and he probably did jail time for it as well.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/22 06:31 PM
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Therapist here. What your partner is doing isn't in the ballpark of psychoanalysis, although, on the surface, it might seem like it. What's she's doing better falls under the category of emotional abuse as it's a mix of projecting and gaslighting--although, there's a solid chance she doesn't see her actions this way and doesn't intend for them to be hurtful. Regardless of what she thinks about what she's doing, it's a problem. One of the most challenging parts of psychoanalysis is for the psycho…
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:34 PM
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Just when I thought I couldn't be more disgusted by Bill Cosby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:31 PM
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I'm sure there were some women who were gold diggers back then, but there were many who actually married for love.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 05:46 AM
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You mention that the mindset of women being gold diggers is engrained into society. It's worth mentioning that this mindset is largely engrained in misogynistic culture. Happy, healthy, well-adjusted people don't go around with blanket paranoid assumptions like that.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 11:35 PM
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Here's another way to view this. Let's say you are black. Would you date a guy who felt all black women were gold diggers, whores, or otherwise will be the downfall of him? I'd hope not. Red pill= misogyny. As long as he has this mindset, he will blame all of life's problems on you. Men that are this defensive don't get deeply attached and they don't love. Instead of trying to change him, your time is better spent figuring out why you would date someone with with such an abusive mindset. I know …
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 11:40 PM
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Wow, now that's some bullshit if I've ever heard some! ...Until this gets sorted out and these girls regain their right to say no, I would encourage the girls to ask each other to prom. Yeesh. What a messed up system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:36 PM
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This post could be edited down to say, "Bruh, you can't be thinking a woman is supposed to submit to you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 08:19 PM
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I love this idea! Could we run with this and have an ongoing post about sharing our wins of the week?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:20 PM
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I've learned over the years that while a person can ask whatever question they'd like, this doesn't mean I'm obligated to answer. Being in a relationship doesn't mean that I need to be an open book or that I'm not entitled to have my boundaries. Questions regarding how many partners someone has had or what kind of sexual positions they have or haven't tried is a no-win question. Assuming they are going to answer honestly, and I'd wager that many people don't, someone is going to leave the conver…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:53 PM
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This guy is insufferable at best. He thinks he's a philosopher up there with the greats. Seriously. His narcissism might be comical on some level if he didn't have a large following and wasn't married with a daughter. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:10 AM
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Their relationship and family dynamics is so inspiring and beautiful. I'm glad we had such a wonderful father and husband for a president for as long as we did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 09:45 PM
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