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Tinder is an absolute dud for me lately. Nothing. POF and okcupid they either lose interest (or in most cases no responses). U saw my pic? Im not sure why i come across as intimidating - im still pree skinny. Am i intimidating them cuz im unattractive looking?
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:25 PM
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lol not in my experience.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 05:21 PM
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yee for sure. Im just on that nofap shit so CONSTANTLY looking at the fine ladies of this city lol maybe i give off a desperate vibe? Ill try not look at them at all.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:27 PM
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yee I know. I think the lack of THEM noticing me (especially being 6'4") is what kinda throws my confidence off.
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:26 PM
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Again this is the biggest source of my frustration - you guys always give this eye contact advice stuff but I literally NEVER receive it from girls out in public. Even while walking tall. Which again - makes me feel like im ugly
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:20 PM
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yee Ive been lifting for a couple months now, and definitely noticed some more definition on my lanky frame. Now, I've always found in real life a lot harder because I get a very 'cold' vibe from most girls my age when Im out and about. Or even in clubs and bars, where most seem like they're not interested in meeting new people - especially not ugly dudes. BTW in terms of approach (as I've just implied) - I really dont do a whole lot of approaching women for this aforementioned reason, which has…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 03:02 PM
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yee I got my brows threaded a couple weeks ago actually. I've been working on the skinny thing for a while - as u said I built up my arms a little, its just the legs that are hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:41 PM
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what is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:08 PM
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Im born n raised in the West.lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 12:07 PM
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I do everything people suggest - been trying to workout more and add muscle to my lanky frame, I get biweekly haircuts/shapeups, wear cologne everyday, have spent hundreds on new clothes the past couple months...what else is there besides plastic surgery?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 06:41 PM
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well my uni was co-ed -- but I was clueless, depressed, socially anxious, and it was my interactions with girls in uni which finally gave me the cold truth that im unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 06:23 PM
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i went to an all boys school. never learned to interact with them and hence have no women in my social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 06:20 PM
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i smoke weed everyday. Makes no fuckin difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 06:17 PM
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in my experience it hasn't - in fact seems more like they just find it intimidating or scary
/r/seduction31/10/17 07:37 PM
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yee I definitely get the sense that most women don't want men talking to them (especially guys on the ugly side like me)
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:59 PM
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ok thx
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:01 PM
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yee basically - it was kinda a joke tbh cuz I was frustrated I hadn't taken action. She had to be 45 at least lol - still attractive
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:58 PM
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I attempted to do some approaches on my lunchbreak (downtown, big shopping mall, u get the picture). Couldn't bring myself to do it. Got desperate towards the end so tried talking to an older blonde woman I passed but couldn't even get past "excuse me" - literally just ignored me and kept on walking. I'm invisible to women.
/r/seduction31/10/17 05:50 PM
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damn bro you're good. Lemme PM u
/r/seduction31/10/17 04:05 PM
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hahah yee exactly. This is EXACTLY the kinda thing I wanna do on my lunchbreaks. I don't know what it is - it's mostly just the belief that most girls my age are extremely 'cold', especially if you're some average looking dude she doesnt know.
/r/seduction31/10/17 04:03 PM
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I'm trying but Im such a prisoner to my emotions and thoughts.
/r/seduction31/10/17 03:41 PM
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haha good point. I dont wanna be on my deathbed thinking if only I approached women more - maybe i wouldnt be lonely
/r/seduction31/10/17 03:03 PM
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yee I know- sometimes I just get the vibe from women that I'm not good looking enough to do that. Don't even know how to open - if I just directly open with a compliment it may seem creepy. This isn't only about the street - I see girls in book stores and mall stores Id love to chat with but just can't bring myself to do it.
/r/seduction31/10/17 02:55 PM
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I don't live downtown so really only get to those places Friday/Sat nights. And my approach clearly isn't the greatest cuz usually women act disinterested when I try talk to them in these types of venues.
/r/seduction31/10/17 02:15 PM
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Well the main problem is I'm not meeting them anywhere really. Theres not really women my age in my workplace.
/r/seduction31/10/17 02:10 PM
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My main issue is I only feel motivated to approach random women when I get the sense they find me attractive (hence where the IOIs come in). And since I don't get these good signs, it turns me off from approaching. I check out like every hot girl I see maybe I seem desperate?
/r/seduction31/10/17 01:53 PM
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thats exactly my point
/r/seduction31/10/17 01:09 PM
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dude are you me!?!? LOL but seriously. I'm def no on the short side (I'm like 6'4"), but Im also a skinny black dude with a clear nerdy side. Attending an extremely prestigious large university that was - you guessed it - mostly white. And yes, all day in my FB feed girls I knew were sharing memes of the Ryan Goslings and Chris Hemsworths of the world, so I understand how it seems like there's one template of man women find attractive. The good news is I think that shits basic af. Being differen…
/r/seduction31/10/17 12:30 PM
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hmmm yee I hear this all time but --- but its almost like looks 'get you in the door' so to speak, and sometimes I feel I just don't have that. I can PM a pic if u want and u can give me tips lol
/r/seduction26/10/17 12:44 PM
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yee well again - its the 'fuck off' signals being given to me, as outlined in this post, that makes me think your average female just doesn't find me remotely dateable or good-looking
/r/seduction25/10/17 04:03 PM
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I don't approach women in the daytime due to this exact reason. These kind of reactions (I was in uni for 5 years) led me to believe for the longest type that Im just butt ugly. At nightclubs, bars, anywhere alcohol is involved, guess these girls just have 'beer goggles' so i actually approach.
/r/seduction24/10/17 10:36 PM
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LOL I do this EVERYDAY dude. Not once have I gotten into a conversation with a woman my age. They: have earphones in, look completely disinterested, turn away when i walk past, basically give the 'fuck off' signals outlined above. Seriously dont know how u people do it - unless you're male models.
/r/seduction24/10/17 10:27 PM
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ive been working on all that as of late - ill get other men and older women talk to me, but never women MY AGE
/r/seduction24/10/17 05:45 PM
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no this is just on my lunch break Im talkin bout - I work lol
/r/seduction24/10/17 05:44 PM
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yee man I hear ya - just after reading your list (and due to my experiences) I kinda got the sense that its less them being intimidated more them not finding me physically appealing. Gonna definitely work on my mentality - at least I have night game approaches mostly figured out.
/r/seduction24/10/17 05:33 PM
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guess daygame just isn't meant for me - kinda sucks i have to wait till the weekend to meet women
/r/seduction24/10/17 05:05 PM
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im a 6'4" black dude i basically automatically intimidate most women i walk by i think. Even when im smiling and theres the rare time we make eye contact they seem all turned off. At least in the nightclub i can just walk around tipsily approaching without a care in the world until i find one who actually finds me handsome.
/r/seduction24/10/17 05:02 PM
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"Doesn't return eye-contact as you pass each other." welp then I guess its a bad idea for me to talk to random women cuz this happens every single fucking time
/r/seduction24/10/17 04:57 PM
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this is really good dude thanks - starts with my mentality
/r/seduction23/10/17 07:25 PM
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wallet CANT handle it lol
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:13 PM
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So I need more interesting openers ... I commented on one girl at the bars tattoos (and how I wanna get the same design) but that convo didn't go anywhere. She still replied politely tho. That kinda thing?
/r/seduction21/10/17 02:00 PM
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well that's the thing ... I have no idea how to rate myself. Mind if I pM u?
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:43 PM
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i agree. I feel empty.
/r/seduction21/10/17 01:22 PM
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Yee basically. Well not exactly - hit on - just small conversation and me just saying "I think you're cute" but most weren't having it.
/r/seduction21/10/17 12:07 PM
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yee I've had quite a few more than I expected respond to me -- it's actually GETTING somewhere with these convos thats the challenge
/r/seduction20/10/17 01:13 PM
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