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| 11 | Need help, too nice to neg, good on openers bad on closing. | ZWXse | /r/seduction | 21/02/13 11:10 PM |
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| 2 | How to Take a Girl From Polite Chat to Super Horny in Less than 1 Hour"Does it flick the light on for you?" , "Does it turn you on?" A lightswitch turns things on. Also, flicking the bean. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 12:58 PM |
| 2 | My wife and I are getting divorced. I'm a 29 year old, 5'4" guy who doesn't have any real dating, or seduction experience. Is all hope lost, or can I still be a PUA?More of this! Everything in your life should be focused on having a life. Girls will be the easy part once you get into some cool shit. Travel, hang with your buddies, get out of your comfort zone daily/weekly, join a community movement, create a community movement, learn a new sport, etc. Focus on you. Like genuinely focus on you. For example, don't go travel somewhere cool and take photos when you know in the back of your mind you're doing it just to mention it to girls to make you seem cool. … | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 04:14 AM |
| 12 | Four years of practice, here's what I've learnedSounds like you also became more interesting. You're no longer just like every other guy. You're a guy who can salsa dance and meditate. | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Scientific evidence - EYE CONTACTNow errrbody's catchin' onto the body language book! | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Best self-improvement books?I like that list at the bottom! Those books really interest me. Nice list, man. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Best self-improvement books?The Definitive Book of Body Language by Barbara and Allan Pease A fun read into the language of body language. Interesting thing to add to your skill set. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 12:16 AM |
| 0 | What sort of ideas do you guys use for a confidence boost pre game?Came here to mention this. The "Winning the Race" stance is a great one! I've done it a couple times outside the, inside the bar. Who cares, makes me feel and look confident. | /r/seduction | 03/10/13 11:39 AM |
| 1 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!Solid advice. | /r/seduction | 21/09/13 06:09 PM |
| 7 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!I feel guilty about being mean about it, but I guess that's my defensive mechanism for girls that feel entitled so they know I'm not lower than them. Just they I am right now from my experiences with girls when I was younger... But that fact is, these girls were being assholes first. One story that sticks out to me is when I isolated this one girl from her group of girls (who I would later find out were part of some sorority). Going real well for 2 minutes, lot's of drunken physicality here. The… | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 03:35 PM |
| 6 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!I'm near a lot of colleges that mix with young professionals. So the college girls know to skip the college guys and prey on the guys making money. I've been asked about once a month. I normally tell them to fuck off. Why so harsh? Because A) That's not a girl who I want to spend any time with. B) They're normally shitty sorority girls, so read A. C) They'll remember me. Good or bad. haha | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 12:36 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone here have consistent success in Gym/Workout scenarios?The game strategy I heard from somewhere is to build social proof at the gym by getting to know everyone. All the guys you work out with, the trainers or staff, be able to call them by name. You'll appear to be a "big deal", just like at a bar when you can call the bartenders and bouncers by name. She may see this and you'll have a better interaction and won't just be another loser hitting on the girl at the gym. Being tall, I just say "Volleyball or basketball?" to any tall athletic girl I see.… | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 09:22 PM |
| 1 | DON'T BE CONVENIENTRoger that. Thanks guys. For the sake of completing this thought. I told her that actually had plans on Sunday this weekend. Congruent because I actually told her that when I saw her earlier. Stupid because it sounds like I'm back pedaling. We'll see what happens. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 04:31 PM |
| 12 | DON'T BE CONVENIENTFUCK I read this a few hours too late. Actually into a girl and I literally just told her a few hours ago let me know when you want to hangout... Made sense at the time haha. That's the old me coming through! Time for some damage control... | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Tactics: What are your favorite small talk starters? (and a quick reminder about the ARE method)I'm tall, so normally that. Never heard of this A.R.E. method, so I haven't thought about how I could apply that. Normally I make a comment that I'm too tall for something or how she should feel lucky that she's not crammed in this small space. Like at yoga, I normally tells girls nearby that I'm probably going to kick them or elbow them in their face if they get too close because I'm just too tall for that small ass room (which is a fuckin fact, give me some more space got-damnit). It normally … | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 11:01 PM |
| 2 | My therapist told me to check out this video this morningI'd do her. Plus this video is awesome. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 06:14 PM |
| 1 | I've never touched women, where do I start?I'm early 20s, so a little more for the picking around my age. But this summer, I met nothing but 26+ y/o women. I always told them I was 25. Solid age. Just gotta go to the right places. I'm really not looking forward to having school back in session. It seems like college girls don't want to break out of their college's bubble. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 07:22 PM |
| 2 | I've never touched women, where do I start?Philly here as well. Out here in Manayunk it's is like shooting fish in a barrel. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 02:01 AM |
| -1 | How to Cold Read? Look Down.Nope. Women are a little easier, those come naturally. Going for the "bitch" complex is a tougher and most of the time yield hotter girls. Can't vouch for their personalities though. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/06/13 11:44 AM |
| 52 | How to Cold Read? Look Down.One of the best nights I had with a buddy of mine is going around and saying "nice boots!" to every girl who was wearing boots. Some girls, who I decreed had their head in the gutter, said eww! um thanks? thinking I was referring to their boobs Most girls are like OMFG THANKS!! Personally I hate when girls wear boots but I know bitches be thinking they're the shit when they wear them. Its a great opener. You can always go back the other way and just say "no, I said nice boobs" haha! tl dr, bitch… | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that men have to do all the changing? Why don't we see women trying to be act more like how men want?Not sure if this has been mentioned, but I read an article a couple months ago how the tables turn from Men chasing women, to Women chasing Men. In the article, it describes how many women these days have a lot of pressure to perform well in the business world. A lot women focus all their time and energy in finding, keeping, and improving a job. Then, they're 29-33 and panicing because they don't have a man to marry and reproduce with (a primal instinct). THEY are the ones becoming desperate. Th… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:30 AM |
| 6 | Just started my transformation and shit's starting to get realThis should be the newbies 3rd or 4th read. Simple process. General, but describes everything you need. Goes along with another post from today "You often need less game than you think" http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1fl5gm/you_often_need_less_game_than_you_think/ Cheers on the successes man. I bet your buddies are astonished. I am intrigued what your ex is thinking now, especially since you said you ignored her and made out with another girl. I love hearing about turning the table o… | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:20 AM |
| 24 | Text-game solved, and other seduction game-changers.This is basically it guys. When I first started reading this seduction stuff, all that was really out there was the "older" stuff -- calling was still totally acceptable. Today, this is not the case. Texting is what girls do all the time, its what they like to do, its easy for them. Shit, I like texting too. Calling seems too formal. I once called a girl that I had pretty much in the bag. Called her the next day, she didn't pick up, as a joke I left a message on her cellphone's voicemail asking … | /r/seduction | 31/05/13 02:56 PM |
| 2 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!Nice work with getting to know everyone. That came into play big time -- she didn't think you had much value until you started dancing with that other girl. You put the squeeze on her and got what you wanted. Textbook! I was at a wedding this weekend and didn't do that (I knew ONE family there, amongst 200 people). I still made a great impression on the dance floor (not giving a fuck) and got this girl's number after some smooth escalation but not what I was looking for. I think I will take your… | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:00 PM |
| 2 | I never escalate because I'm uncomfortable with myselfI've known some bigger guys that were just funny as hell and that was their game. Be ok with being made fun of and even fire it right back. That's it. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Use Tinder to work on texting girlsI made a super secret album on my facebook account that only I can see. Tinder can also see this album when I connect it to my account so that's where I put my Tinder photos. | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 11:32 PM |
| 2 | A girl continuously avoids any attempt I make to meet up with her but wants to talk over the phone.She probably has a boyfriend or has someone she is already hooking up with. She doesn't want to be seen with another guy to risk getting caught. She's keeping you on the line for that perfect opportunity. As other people already said, she's also loving the attention. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 12:52 PM |
| 23 | What a lot of beginners don`t seem to understand, I know I didn't. BE the man you want to be.Inner game is the key. It creates the world you see. Your mind is your eye, not your actual eyes. Let that shit cultivate for a second! So if you change yourself and the way you think, you'll change your world. As OP puts it, BE the man you want to be. Confidence will come when you do that. And then... girls will come as second nature. Its an amazing process. | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 02:49 AM |
| 2 | What are you doing before you make out?You know what I'm sayin? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhCP-kosJKg | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 10:36 PM |
| 12 | How to Turn Shame Into ConfidenceI concur, Dr. TheCuriousDude. I'm not sure why you linked that here in relation to this video, but holy crap I hope no one in seduction reads that crap! Read it expand your knowledge but its a bunch of propaganda! You may rethink your escalation techniques and get set back like 20 paces. And girls whine "there are no good guys out there..wahhhh" That C word is not in my vocabulary but I'll try to help define it. "Creepy", in my definition, is a cop-out, put down, defense mechanism for a girl bec… | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Fun field-tested opener from last night (and more)This one has been working wonders. Takes the right cocky-funny attitude. If it doesn't "work" it's still fucking hilarious: Me:"Hey can you take a photo of me and my buddies?" HB: "Sure!" Us: Pose with buddies. Thumbs up HB:"uh... are you going to give me your camera?" Us:look at her weird Me:"What are you doing?! take the photo!" HB: "Ok! ok! i'll use my camera!" Plenty of things go from there. Ask to review it and say how she screwed it up, etc. Got like 5 numbers in one day doing this with my… | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 07:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED: At a stoplight, get the girl's phone number in the car next to me...Hm.. lemme think back here. They're not too hard to think of, anything is funny because its so out-of-the-norm while on the highway. Our favorite one was: [Wow, NICE CAR!] flip [NOT!!] a good one is try to see if they're going your way: [HONK if you're going to BUFFALO] or you could really get risky and pull the "show me your tits" card. Just buy a notebook from Target and a sharpie and you're set! | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 07:08 PM |
| 18 | [FR] ACHIEVEMENT UNLOCKED: At a stoplight, get the girl's phone number in the car next to me...I've done it! Probably going 70 mph though. ;) All you need is a sharpie and a notebook. My buddy and I were driving across New York, so we saw a lot of people. I had a bunch of canned signs. Really silly stuff. For the hot girls I had one that said text me your number with my number below it. I wouldn't start with that though, I'd go through some of the other pages of signs to get their interest. Got some cuties numbers. One who's group wanted us to come out to their lakehouse they were going t… | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Use Tinder to work on texting girlsBeen doing the same with my Tinder account. First I tried to be funny upfront. Ridiculous profile photo (stupid outfit, etc). No likes. I was like what? Its supposed to be funny! Not the case. Second I tried a more serious photo series. No shirt photo, my worldly photos, and me and my drinkin buddies. Higher amount of likes. A couple 7's have liked me back. I tell them that the messaging on this app sucks (it really does) and how bout they give me their number so we can chat easier. Boom.. Tried… | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Building attraction with "text game." The unexplored frontier.You would stop replying all together because you weren't interested in the first place. I also saved me a lot of time by not wasting my time with you. If you were texting Brad Pitt and he texted you that you'd be like "oh shit I'm losing the hot guy! I gotta prove I'm cool!" That's what we're trying to do here. It only comes after girls start giving signs of disinterest with one word replies and long reply times. Its really a sink or swim event. When girls give me long wait times and short repli… | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 03:33 AM |
| 3 | On raising club game.Would love some pointers here as well. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations.Bingo. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Not Giving a FuckExactly. Do what makes you happy. They'll value for being yourself and sticking to your values AND you get to have fun! FUCK IT! | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 10:43 PM |
| 6 | What are some good excuses to get a girl back to your place?Well I pick Wario first so no bitches gonna be usin Wario on my watch. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Ask a girl out, rejects me, then she asks me out and gets my #. Advice needed!"Buy me a drink" is great. You're the one in control, she should be trying to impress YOU. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 07:45 PM |
| 17 | What are some good excuses to get a girl back to your place?Bitches love Mario Kart. You can tell a lot by them by who they play as: Peach: She's a girly girl. Likes to act innocent but she's not. Doesn't care about winning, just trying to go with the flow, but she'll use any item she can to take you down, but you'll probably win. Yoshi: She's a little quiet and introverted but thinks Yoshi is a cute little creature. She probably has a lot of guy friends.. one of those girls. Toad: She's super competitive, knows what she's doin on Kart and hates to lose.… | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Need help, too nice to neg, good on openers bad on closing.Follow up post.. Read that "Swingcat - Real World Seduction" book yesterday, HUGE HELP. Totally changing my frame of mind now and I'm super excited to get back out there. It teaches you how to get the women to chase you in various ways. It makes a lot of sense and something I never did before. Highly recommend it, its a quick effective read at 94 pages. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Need help, too nice to neg, good on openers bad on closing.Thanks!! I'm gonna find that PDF right meow. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Need help, too nice to neg, good on openers bad on closing.Thanks for the info dude. I'll keep this stuff in mind tonight! | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Need help, too nice to neg, good on openers bad on closing.I'm about just fine with girls I already know. That part of the game is easy and I operate like a pro. Like I mentioned above, most of the girls I slept with I knew from sports, class, or through my group of friends. I don't think any of the girls I've had sex with I met randomly, which I'd like to change. Also I'd like to improve my track record with hotter girls. | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Need help, too nice to neg, good on openers bad on closing.Thanks for your reply! State my intentions.. such as: "Look, I think you're really pretty... I think it'd be a lot of fun if we hung out later" or "I'd like to fuck you" | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I'm a freshman in college and I've become the campus creeper. How can I change my reputation to a positive one?I gotta start doin this | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 03:16 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 2/1/13 (please upvote - zero karma)good explanation on the nice guy stuff. That's what everyone should strive for. That's how I like to perceive myself. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Be Sober!punching kitten! hhahaha | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 09:48 PM |
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