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I mean, how else is he supposed to say he hasn't had sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:00 PM
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I see so many women with no hips at all do well with guys as long as they take care of themselves. You don't have to have an hourglass shape. Guys are generally more forgiving of looks than women. As far as the kim kardashian thing, idk man that's nuts, but lots of guys realy liked bryce dallas howard too and before ozempic I'd say she was a little on the chubby side. I still thought she looked great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:29 AM
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Hasn't been my experience. I tell people all the time I'm just not going to be in a position to attract a lot of women right now and they always say 'looks don't matter' or something similar. Doesn't matter what age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:36 PM
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Not everyman wants a girl with big butts. There are a lot of men that don't like butts at all and only care about boobs or the girls face etc. Short girls, tall girls, chubby girls skinny girls can all do well with men as long as they take care of themselves and maybe go the extra mile to put themselves out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:32 PM
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Usually people with heavily dyed hair have a kind of abrasive personality and are far left leaning. And a lot of the colors people pick are just kind of ugly. I'm never going to find green hair good looking for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:31 AM
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It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:00 AM
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The solution to both is more understanding of each other and a better sense of community. Empathy for women from men has decreased over the past 5 years or so and I think a big part of that is because so many men feel completely distant from women entirely. Better community means men have more connection to women/incentive to look out for them and makes it easier for men to engage with women romantically. The other genders problems should be everyone's problem to help fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:59 AM
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I guess, I don't know I feel like most people could still find muscular women attractive especially if they are younger. A lot of the people making those kind of remarks are probably from an older generation where there was a stricter line for what was attractive for women to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:41 AM
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I actually have talked to a couple of friends of mine that talked about women's rugby players specifically, being attractive. Sure they were still attractive looking women but we're talking about acting feminine too not just looking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:33 AM
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Wouldn't that just be muscular women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:39 AM
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Because no other demo of people is using that phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:30 AM
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Most therapists in my area are women over 40. They're ability to empathize and understand what I'm going through is going to be limited to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:10 PM
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They give more slack to criminals then people just trying to get a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:55 AM
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Not so much overtly misandrist but as far as a sentiment that men are bad, less than, immoral etc, it's fairly common especially with young women. Don't meet a ton of women past 30s that are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:57 AM
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Having sex for the first time is a milestone worth celebrating. Having it for the hundredth is a sign for concern.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:57 PM
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Tampons should be completely free. What else are you guys supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 08:00 PM
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There's some kind of clip of a women's only club out there and they're all just sitting on they're phones and no one is buying drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:57 AM
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PPD ladies when it comes to gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:50 AM
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Told my dad this in a nutshell a few days ago and he told me my soul was black. Kinda sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 04:06 AM
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Being agreeable just means doing chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 12:20 AM
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The only women that have ever wanted to go out with me had nothing in common with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:46 AM
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Wait until the hear what the 6'5 wall street bankers views on politics are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:13 PM
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DeAndre Jordan on brandon knight type shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 11:10 PM
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The health of the soul is worth infinitely more than the fleeting attention of women and the gratification of lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:50 AM
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Men do this just as much. Whether about politics, religion, or something smaller like dating. Most men I talk to do not think logically when it comes to guiding how they view the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:58 PM
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As a Rudy Gobert hater I'm ok with it this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:28 PM
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I broke up with my last girlfriend over this. She was super sweet and a great person, but she just couldn't talk to me for whatever reason. She'd get mad at me for not meeting needs I didn't even knew she had, or not knowing her birthday even though she never told me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 12:13 AM
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Making a romantic connection with someone else does imply you'd be having sex with them. Thats just how it goes. I'm only early 20s so maybe I'm young and stupid, but the relationships I've had albeit brief were never just about sex either. And it isn't like my partners didn't want to have sex. I'm sorry yours have all been different experiences. No not all men are innocent angels, but most of us aren't bad. Same goes for women no matter how frustrated I am with them or the way things are with d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:21 PM
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Then what exactly are you fighting for? Why would anyone listen to someone that just wants to be alone to begin with on debate and talking points about being with someone? And yeah, to an extent I feel for salesmen and telemarketers becuasd its they're job and they're just trying to make a living. People hitting on you are trying to connect with you. They aren't evil or ill willed. Not even guy is just a sex hungry fiend looking for a quick fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 10:59 PM
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To that I agree, no on should have to settle. I think the general frustration that men are ugly to most women is what the issue is here. Case and point, comparing someone love and support for you as a spam call unless they are hot. I wouldn't accept it either if the shoe was on the other foot but, idk, I wouldn't exactly phrase it in that way either. I know it takes a lot to put yourself out there for someone, but that's probably because I'm a guy and I actually have to do it. I'd also ask that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 09:34 PM
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It's really easy to say you don't want something when it's always being offered to you. No one is propping men up for "choosing to be single" because it's not like they always could just go out wkth someone anytime they wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:16 PM
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If men collectively go soft, then women will either have to take the brunt of the workload, and likely make more money than men as a whole, or society will collapse and they don't have to have any kids, and I don't have to pay taxes. I don't know this sounds like a win-win for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:05 PM
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Two birds one stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 07:03 PM
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Easy to say when you don't have to play it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:36 PM
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Not trying to be dismissive when I say this, but a snapshot of you is still you, which would still be personal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:04 PM
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Idk boss, I've only heard that sentiment in the sense that the person felt like they were being asked a million questions, specifically pertaining to "what can you do for me", not for someone trying to have a back and forth conversation. There is a difference between getting to know someone and interrogating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 11:03 PM
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I've always heard that it isn't personal but like, they are saying you are not good enough for them, so could someone explain to me how that is not personal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:24 PM
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"the bar is in hell" because these women are more than likely dating men for external qualities only and are hoping that they treat them well afterwards. They are rolling the dice on people they haven't gotten to know personally very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:16 PM
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I've never gone out with a girl that was my "preferred type" because it isn't a dealbreaker. The most important thing is that I like being around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:33 AM
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I mean, if you loved yourself so much, why would anybody else need a necessity to you. I do resent the idea because I tried the love yourself bullshit for years. I ran from feelings of longing and acceptance like you couldn't believe and it just left me right back where I was at the start, lonely and wanting a connection with someone. I listened to people like you, bought your snake oil and paid for it. I don't resent you specifically as a person, but I think what you're saying is horseshit prid…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:26 PM
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You seem to be trying to tell other people what they should and shouldn't need, so again, maybe follow your own advice. I also resent the notion that connection with other people is just a want and not a deep rooted necessity that all human beings have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:03 PM
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By your own logic, you don't need another person for any of the things you listed. Get a dog for companionship, just masturbate to satisfy sexual desires. You shouldn't need anyone else if you completely and wholy love yourself. You shouldn't need anyone to expand your life for you because you should be able to do that yourself. So I ask again, why would you need to date anyone, or even be on a sub about dating. You got yourself so you shouldn't need to prove some kind of point on here. That pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:55 PM
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When you have extreme beliefs moderate ones sound crazy to you. Toxic positivity is an extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:13 PM
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You did make it sound like we don't need others though if I'm being honest. If your so happy and complete then why date anyone at all? Who needs them, you have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 08:09 PM
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That's all I hear when people talk like that. An overwhelming sense of pride and self importance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:57 PM
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Not every single thing about a person is personal choice. Genetics play a massive role as well. Preaching self control and efficacy is great, but not at an incredibly rigid degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:55 PM
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It's comforting and harmful that people will never push you to be your best. You don't get to choose if you suffer you only get to chose how.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 09:45 PM
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This was kind of weird because women talk a lot about men having a positive, confident attitude. This guy did by stating he was the prize, which I think is dumb regardless, but he got backlash for it. However, if he didn't have this mindset, wouldn't women think it would be "icky" for a man to be "less than" his woman? Even if he is, if he doesn't have that mentality, he would still be ridiculed. They brought the circus to town and got mad the clown showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 10:17 PM
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Those two in particular really play into that 'prince charming' dynamic, where they have a softer look to them but use overwhelming status and resources to protect and take care of someone. It's the same thing as with big muscular guys just by different means. Asking you're average 20 something joe to be like these guys is straight up lunacy. By the time you are in you're 30's and more established, the slim chance you had to replicate these guys is long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:43 PM
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Those two in particular really play into that 'prince charming' dynamic, where they have a softer look to them but use overwhelming status and resources to protect and take care of someone. It's the same thing as with big muscular guys just by different means. Asking you're average 20 something joe to be like these guys is straight up lunacy. By the time you are in you're 30's and more established, the slim chance you had to replicate these guys is long gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:43 PM
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That is genuinely awesome brother you should be really proud of yourself. That does not mean that that will work for everyone unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 06:18 AM
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If it were that simple this sub wouldn't exist among many other things that are currently the case. You're 'common sense' approach lacks common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:27 AM
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Don't listen to him man. He'd never say a word of that irl. It's totally valid to feel like you have to be close to perfect in today's climate. Just keep trying your best and hope it works out ok. That's really all any of us can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 04:13 AM
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I wish it was just the whatever girls that think that way. Shit it would be a lot easier. Unfortunately, this is not the case, it is not just bimbos and stacies, it's any woman with "standards" like I described. It feels like "you get me when you get to this level" which, yes, does feel like a reward so to speak. I don't even watch the Whatever podcast dude, that shit is brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:05 PM
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If you followed you're own advice, you wouldn't post on this sub at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:01 PM
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I would argue it's kind of necessary to have a romantic connection with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:19 AM
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Women talk about themselves like rewards all the time. "I'll only date a guy that's this tall, has six pack abs, lots of money, prestigious job" i.e. I'll only date men after they are successful, which could be seen as being a reward for becoming successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:46 AM
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Because a large amount of women seem to only be going for good looking guys regardless of if they are an ass or not, so a lot of us have come to the conclusion that looks are the top priorty and everything else is second to them, leading to the idea that "well if I just looked better I'd have a girlfriend by now".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:43 AM
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According to her fans they're basically the same person
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:29 AM
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Any perceived edge over others some people can get they can they will take. Even if it's something they really shouldn't be that proud of.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:13 AM
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This is going to sound weird but I only ever have gay guys hit on me. It's almost never women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 05:10 AM
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I think they think very highly of themselves too. The only difference is no one is usually pursuing us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:30 AM
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That has happened to me a couple of times lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:27 AM
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I'm usually very mid / ugly out and about but I suddenly turn into a supermodel somehow when I work at my retail job once every few weeks. Get tons of compliments in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:18 AM
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I totally get what you mean. I'd put in the crazy effort that a lot of women are asking for if it was for the right one. Somebody that made that hardship worthwhile. I hope you find that person soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:36 AM
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Do people not do this stuff? It shouldn't be a matter of feminism to do basic household chores. If they are like this, then they're just being selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:30 AM
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Live in a Midwest U.S. city, he's not wrong. The closest thing we'd have to pubs would be mom and pop bars and it's 95% old people going there to hang with they're buddies. Every bar with young people in it is pretty much exactly how he has described from what I've experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:28 AM
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It is not cynicism to say that the world is a very big place, but it seems like taking others perspective is not your strong suit. Polyamory will more than likely be yours, but no ill will, I hope it works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:49 AM
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Good for you. There are hundreds of millions that are not, that are probably cooler than either one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:45 AM
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It isn't and it never has been. Assuming things are just that simple shows a very big lack in perspective and intuition in the world around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:42 AM
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I feel like if it were that easy, there would be no need for this sub, but maybe I'm crazy and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:27 AM
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You kind of highlight they're point when you call these people "poor losers" when the post is talking mainly about a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:24 AM
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Couldn't exactly hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:08 AM
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This one really hit home with me. I've been feeling the same feelings for a while now. I look around and see people not putting in anywhere near the same effort I am, just to turn around and tell me to improve and get better. And I'm just supposed to pretend like it's no big deal and that it doesn't hurt, because it's also my responsibility to heal my self and cut my arm off to pay for therapy ( even though these people probably don't go themselves.). Most of the people making these demands usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 02:07 AM
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This is actually a good point I hadn't really thought about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:56 PM
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It is inherently unfair. Many of the things people are looking for are traits out of you're control. Even if you do "all of the right things" the odds of it working out for you are still very low. Specifically for men, it has become increasingly harder over the past 20 years or so due to the tech boom, social media, and increased atomization. Things are still difficult for women, as factors like choice paralysis, predatory dating cite algorithms, and lack of social spaces are also hard to deal w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:22 AM
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It is very easy to be content with the unfairness of it when you have the tall end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 09:21 AM
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Very often is not. It is an addiction at that point. These people have my sympathies, but sticking around for that is not easy. Besides, you shouldn't get with someone with the underlying implication that they have to lose weight for you to stick around. You're asking to be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:49 PM
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Being overweight is a perfectly reasonable reason to dismiss someone as a partner. Not only is it just unappealing visually, but it would also showcase low impulse control, poor health physically and mentally, and probably a lot of healthcare bills down the road. That is a lot of stress to place on a potential partner. Completely understandable for someone to not want to deal with that, at least in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:10 AM
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That is more than fair, as I'm quite sure you have had plenty of bad interactions with people on here. Some guys really just want sex the easiest way possible. And of course not all women are like that, it's a big world with lots of different people that like different things. There are enough of them to where it has become a problem though. It's completely reasonable and normal to want to be attracted to you're partner. I think it only becomes shallow if looks are you're only priority or if it …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 03:08 AM
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I don't even think that's issue honestly. Im sure some guys think that way, but from what I've seen from here and myself have felt is that it is annoying when women say that superficial stuff doesn't matter, and then only want to date guys who have those qualities. Imagine having to try to better yourself to gain these qualities, just to be told it doesn't matter and that you're crazy, and then to constantly see the opposite play out in real life. It is incredibly demoralizing and frustrating. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:46 AM
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That would probably be the issue if you keep having bad partners. If you constantly end up with bad people, you are letting them in for some reason. I know some people are good at hiding it, but if you're around enough people like that you'll know most of them are not due to arrogance or lack of awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:30 AM
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The marvel is what studios think women should want, barbie was what women actually wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:01 AM
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Maybe they are maybe they aren't, but that isn't what you said. You said it didn't matter if they were lying or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:54 AM
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You're right about the upbringing part. My mom tried to stamp out any assertiveness or masculine traits out of me. She even made fun of me when my voice got deeper, and it's probably because she had resentment towards men she had been with previously. Either that or she just didn't want me to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 07:23 PM
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Is it really that much to ask for people to be honest for the sake of being honest? Where does lying get us?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 06:21 PM
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I feel like I'll end up bitter and jaded if I have to rely on myself for everything. Does that make any sense or am I just being crazy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:14 PM
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Talk shows are just as toxic as podcasts are, always have been. You're not going to find reasonable people on there. There's a clip on the view I think of one of the ladies not being ok with man's dick getting chopped off and the rest of ladies just laughed it off. It sounds ridiculous but it was an eye opener to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:12 PM
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I better never catch you complaining about anything then. It's fine to toss that logic around, but don't get shitty when it finds its way back to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:07 PM
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I guess I can give it a try. Thanks for the help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 11:05 PM
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You would get front row seats to watch them choke in the playoffs too. Brings me pain every year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:19 PM
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Not sure I'd want to hang around people just bithcing about women being evil. Sure I have my frustrations with them, as I am sure they do with me, and I do think it is important to feel and voice these frustrations. But texting online is never going to be the same as it is with other people. I like the schizo meme group I'm in that had a pretty diverse group, but no that's not going to fill the void of lacking people in my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:18 PM
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I pay for my mom's bills, I work in physical rehab, I volunteer, I listen to my friends problems and give them support. When is it my turn man? I know you mean well and you are right, but I just wish I felt like I had some support too. Maybe that is too much or selfish of me I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:15 PM
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Dude bars fucking suck lol. There is usually loud music so talking is next to impossible, the drinks cost an arm and a leg, and again its usually people a lot older than I am and younger people are mostly there with friends to have a good time with each other, not to meet new people. I have tried man, I really have, it's not going anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:08 PM
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Have given that my best shot as well. Unfortunately a lot of my friends moved off to college or other things while I stayed local. It's also just been really difficult to make friends. College has really not been what I thought it would be. I've tried a lot of different things and tried to stretch my wings but most places with people either cost too much or are mostly just older people. Not that I have a problem talking talking people older than me, but it's not quite what I'm looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 10:04 PM
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I feel like I am losing any and all hope I'll actually find love and it makes it hard to try to work to improve myself. I know that I'm going to get the usual "love shouldn't Define you're happiness l" answer, but the shit still sucks and I don't really see a point in denying it. Is there anything to be hopeful for? I'm really struggling to hold on to the belief that things can get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 09:56 PM
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I experienced the same, especially in k-8, high school wasn't really like that, but women teachers definitely favored girls when I was growing up for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:44 AM
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Both parties should be providing those things in a relationship. Should be a given.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:03 AM
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A lot of them have no idea what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:17 PM
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Well, it works for some people. Sure, some men think they deserve sex for nothing, but there's also women who think they deserve the world for...well, other than sex, not a whole lot else. While I do agree a general lack of effort from some people is part of the issue, I think mainly this whole gender/culture war bs is going to leave a lot of people with a short end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:22 AM
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I think they're are going to be a shit ton of bitter and resentful people from this generation, men and women regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:09 AM
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I've been thinking about this lately, and I find it hard to want to picture. When I'm thirty and single, I'll probably be super bitter about it. And if I have a career and my health in check, I'm gonna feel a certain type of way about being good enough now but not good enough in my 20s. It's probably presumptuous and redpilled of me to think this way, but feeling like being someone's last resort would kinda suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:08 AM
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As it was written in stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:05 AM
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I can kind of attest to this one. I dated this girl for a few months and decided to break up with her mainly because she didn't or couldn't communicate with me about anything. She could text me all day long, and on some level expected me to, but once we met up in person it was like she was completely different. Every conversation felt forced and like I had to drag it out. She would never voice her wants or needs and then got upset when they weren't met. Breaking up with her was hard because I st…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 06:40 AM
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They set men back a lot. Those podcasts rarely of ever have anything noteworthy to say. It's Jerry springer masquerading as social commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:44 PM
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Honestly I've seen more liberals be critical of that kind of thing. Specifically, a lot liberal millennials and young gen x have a "bootsraps" mentality when it comes to loneliness and romance, which I find funny because it's the same mindset they hated boomers having about money and wealth distribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:41 PM
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Honestly, I see older people at the gym talk all the time about the weather or what not and supporting each other, and I wish things were more like that, but I feel like everyone in my generation is super standoffish or socially anxious. It kinda sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 07:31 PM
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We are so fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:33 AM
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Genius, just blame yourself for everything, why didn't I think of that? Sarcasm aside, if you're going to dish that kind of advice out, you should also be able to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:30 AM
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I live in the Midwest USA in a small-ish town. Not sure what's so crazy about the idea that not everyone wants to go to bars. Usually, there is loud music playing so you can barely hear anyone and the drinks are overpriced. Anytime I've tried to talk to people there it never goes anywhere because you can't hear each other and most people are there with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 08:08 AM
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Well I've seen a couple of folks with special "pre workout" but besides the point. Two things, one, you shouldn't have to rely on alcohol to be social. Second, why bring those places up to begin with then, unless I am missing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:33 PM
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No one is trying to chit chat at gyms or Starbucks from my experience. It actually really bums me out how antisocial the gym has become since covid, because it wasn't always like that. And honestly, I'd rather talk to my imaginary friend than go bowling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 09:20 PM
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Well posting online is a lot different than communicating in person, but you're right I have a decent time connecting with people. Most people I meet take really well to me. I did mean in a romantic sense though; sorry I should have clarified that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:17 AM
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It's exhausting to tell you the truth. It is easier to be mad than it is to be sad. Sure, I'll see stuff that gets talked about in this sub, even recently, but no it's not all bad either. At the end of the day I'm just angry because I'm sad that I'm alone and feel like I can't connect with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:49 PM
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Do you think women can't be attracted to kindness and loyalty? Not very blue pilled of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:12 PM
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I am probably just bias or lack perspective, but it does feel like you have to pitch a perfect game sometimes. I think everyone is a bit awkward initially, but it seems like guys are generally more forgiving of that awkwardness, not to say that I haven't talked to women that weren't forgiving either, just seems to be less common.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:13 AM
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