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ZabuzAli/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:44 AM
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She likes the attention you give her but doesn’t want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 12:57 AM
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What worked for me (also introvert) was to start cold approaching as often as I could force myself and keep improving in all the other aspects of my life at the same time. Over time you will get over your approach anxiety and become more confident and it will snowball from there. Cold approaching is much better for starting out than dating apps - you learn a lot more. It’s not easy, but nothing that’s worth anything in life is. Good luck
/r/askTRP10/11/19 01:58 PM
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1st she came round, I tried to initiate a kiss 3 times over the course of the evening. She turned her head (or mine) every time, and we would laugh about it. Don't go straight for the kiss, kino first. 2nd time, I didn't even try to initiate anything. Mistake? Yes but that's ok, we can't be in peak form all the time. 3rd time, I was a lot more physical (but I don't really know how to escalate properly). I had her sitting essentially in my lap, head on my shoulder, my hand rubbing between her thi…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 12:27 AM
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Yep, I was too available. Lesson learned. Thanks for the feedback
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:37 PM
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You’re right, this is most likely what happened and I could feel it happening by the last time we met. What tripped me up was that she was the one asking to hang out so often, so I agreed because I actually liked spending time with her. I guess the lesson here is when women get what they want they don’t want it anymore. In the future I’ll have to decline more often to not be so available.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:33 PM
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You made some very good points and I’ll keep them in mind as a lesson for the future. I’ll take your advice on letting myself feel it all for the first few days, then get back to lifting, improving, and getting more plates. Thank you for taking the time to write your response, it’s helped me more than you could know.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 07:44 AM
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This sub likes to shit on marriage because it’s a shitty deal for men - and they are mostly right. The way I see it is you get married only for children. A married family who lives together is the optimal habitat for raising a child - children need security and stability during their formative/maturing years. Read studies comparing children of married, divorced, unmarried, and single parents, and come to the conclusion on your own. Marriage is essentially a sacrifice for the benefit of your (pot…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:31 AM
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I think it was a good reply. It communicates that his life doesn’t revolve around her feelings towards him and that he does/says whatever he wants regardless of her
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:22 AM
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It’s normal to feel fear - it’s built in to us from millions of years of evolution. What you need to do is accept that you are fearful and do the thing anyway - face the fear head on - so the next time you are in that situation you won’t be (as) fearful. As for a book, read Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. It teaches you that the only thing you can control is your thoughts and actions, so there’s no point worrying about what you cannot control, eg. what others think of you.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 06:24 AM
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Proud of you
/r/seduction06/10/19 12:36 PM
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Teasing works very well if you can pull it off. Don’t do it too frequently and don’t tease them about things they can’t control. The higher smv you are the more leeway you have. Have fun with it and they will too
/r/askTRP04/10/19 02:12 AM
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Small wins are still wins. Learn from the experience then move to the next, no need to dwell on it - there will no doubt be more learning opportunities in the future. Perhaps your next step could be starting a conversation with a girl - she doesn’t have to be attractive - and just have a nice chat. Another small win. Over time the small wins will build up and you will realise how far you’ve come. Enjoy this win and be proud of yourself.
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:22 PM
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Today’s society has normalised victimhood due to the political-correctness movement. You can see it with most mainstream movements. Fat-pride Fat people claiming they deserve to be treated like fit/healthy people without putting in the work that fit/healthy people do. They claim victimhood if you call them unhealthy and unattractive, even though they sure as shit are. Equal pay Women claiming they are paid less doing the same exact job. Wrong. It’s fucking illegal to do that. This has been prove…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 08:10 AM
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Alright mate, here’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Monk mode. Spend the next 3 months utilising your full focus & time on self-improvement. Gym, read, meditate, new hobby, nail school, improve game where you can (talk to people without intention of fucking them, get rid of approach anxiety, improve social skills), see therapist if you have deep issues. After 3 months, evaluate if you need another 3 months monk mode. Keep going until you are comfortable with who you are and are ready to…
/r/seduction21/09/19 10:22 AM
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Depends on your course. If you’re unsure speak to your course coordinator or the uni’s help desk. As for people already having social groups, it is what it is. Focus on making friends with people you can be friends with. If you have little or no friends then so be it, more time to focus on your studies, hobbies, and self-improvement. You won’t make new friends overnight, men usually bond over shared experiences over time. As long as you’re focusing on your mission, consistently improving yoursel…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 06:20 AM
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I’m also currently a first year studying Comp Sci in Australia, so I understand your situation. It is indeed filled with 95% spergs and 80-90% Asian. Here is what I’ve done so far: Go to all classes. This maximises your opportunity to socialise and meet people Talk to anyone in your course/classes that you can stand If your course allows it (mine does), pick an elective or two in the humanities that you’re interested in. I’m doing philosophy and politics, which are women dominated and have less …
/r/askTRP10/09/19 01:24 PM
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It comes with practice and depends on their attraction. It’s really as simple as asking. There’s no one-size-fits-all. With practice you will be able to ask in the flow of the conversation and not abruptly and awkwardly. My general go-to is suggesting we do something, and then getting her number. Example: Would you like to grab coffee some time? Cool, what’s your number? Same example but more confident: Let’s grab coffee next week. What’s your number? As long as she’s attracted to you it doesn’t…
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:58 PM
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those were rhetorical questions They can be rhetorical questions, but when combined with a vocal tonality indicating you are waiting to receive an answer they become a question in a real-life conversation. As I said in my above reply, you need to hold the burden of conversation at the beginning. After that she will carry 90% of the conversation assuming you know how to keep her talking. Think of it like an aeroplane ascending from takeoff - it takes a lot of effort to get up to the required alti…
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:38 PM
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Your brain is (unconsciously) avoiding the pain of rejection by rationalising reasons for not doing things. The best advice I can offer you is to go out and get rejected. The best way to learn is by jumping in the deep end. It’s going to be tough, but the more you do it the easier it becomes. Eventually you internalise the realisation that getting rejected from a random girl is nothing but a momentary discomfort that doesn’t affect you longer than 10 seconds. Life goes on. Set yourself a goal: t…
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:31 PM
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I agree with everything you said but asking questions, especially in the first few minutes of an interaction. The trick is to ask questions without it being interview/interrogation-like. For example, one tactic is to make assumptions (bonus point if you make them laugh). This is an interaction I had last week: Girl is wearing a backpack with flowers. Me: Nice bag Her: Thanks Me: So is your name flower related? Is it something like Lily? Poppy? Dandelion? Oh wait I’ve got it - it’s Venus Fly-Trap…
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:14 PM
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And I always get the feeling that randomly going up to a girl in public gives off the vibe that I’m just trying to have sex with her. Because you are, and believe me she knows it too. There’s no shame in it. You are a man, she is a woman. For what other reason does a guy walk up to a girl and start a conversation with a flirtatious undertone. I suggest reading No More Mr Nice Guy. You shouldn’t be ashamed for being a person that wants sex. Get your mind right and you’ll have no problem. Good luc…
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:52 PM
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You stated your problems but provided absolutely zero reasons why this is the case, so we can’t help you until we know your situation. Are you socially autistic? Do you socialise? What do you do in your free time? Do you have hobbies? How often are you in situations where you can meet girls? Are you fat/short/ugly? Are you interesting? Do you know how to flirt? Are you confident? Game? Why exactly aren’t they interested. Take 5 minutes to really think about it without emotion.
/r/seduction02/09/19 12:43 PM
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If you’re a beginner you’ll notice that you will feel enormous anxiety when approaching a girl. So the first step is to get over that. Start approaching girls without the intention of getting their numbers - say hi, give them a compliment on their clothing, have a small conversation, say goodbye. This will get you over approach anxiety and will get you more socialised in general. Then move on to starting a conversation, then tell them you’d like to (for example) grab a coffee sometime. If they s…
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:32 AM
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Don’t let your emotions dictate your actions. Assess the pros and cons logically, then decide what to do. My advice is to let it go and keep moving forward in your life
/r/askTRP17/08/19 01:40 PM
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I bet you couldn’t hit water if you fell out of a boat
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:34 AM
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Either grow some balls and ask her about it, or move on. Either way, as another commenter said, you should always be talking to other girls. Abundance mentality does wonders.
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:36 PM
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No, don’t do this. Women like when men take the initiative (read: lead). Not leaving it up to her also prevents you from being needy in the case she doesn’t set anything up. He should find out when she’s going to be free and go from there. You won’t know if she’s actually interested until you set up a date.
/r/seduction14/08/19 11:22 AM
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Then why should be seek help first? I didn’t say he should seek help first. I never said he had to do one or the other, you are saying that. You are, however, overlooking the fact that he can’t get a girlfriend in his current state of mind, he said so in his post. I merely offered him a possible solution. You are correct that a therapist can do what a girlfriend/friend can do, but a girlfriend/friend cannot do what a trained professional psychologist can do. Nor should you want to put your girlf…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 04:11 PM
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So telling him he's too broken to pursue a relationship is so ignorant. I did not say that at all. You are clearly straw-manning and you did this twice in your other comment too. It’s a weak strategy for people who are not willing to have a proper conversation and wish to avoid critical thinking.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:56 PM
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Sexual strategy can be applied to both plates and LTR, so no, I didn’t say “sex is just one thing seperate from finding a partner to connect to”. Why not getting a gf helping him with his mental issues? If you’re seriously asking that you clearly haven’t read the sidebar. This is TRP 101. Your LTR is not your therapist.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 03:50 PM
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TRP is mainly about sexual strategy. I’m saying that sexual strategy won’t fix his underlying mental issues and is therefore “slightly out of the scope of TRP”. What is in the scope of TRP is once he has those mental issues sorted it will benefit him in applying TRP (read: sexual strategy) more successfully.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:57 PM
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This seems slightly out of the scope of TRP and sounds like you’ve got some psychological hurdles to overcome. I suggest seeking a therapist and getting your mind sorted before worrying about women.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 07:37 AM
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but I highly doubt these claims are accurate Ok, so then test your hypothesis. Try not watching porn for a month and see what happens. What do you have to lose? You couldn’t last a month? Well then you’ve got an addiction and need to fix that. You lasted a month? Congratulations. Now examine whether you have seen any benefits to your life and assess if you want to revert to your old path or keep traveling on your new path. Maybe you notice a little difference and decide to increase it to 3 month…
/r/seduction10/08/19 09:09 AM
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It depends. For a ONS or FWB? I don’t care. For an LTR it’s a huge red flag. It generally means an inability to pair bond. There’s a saying for men that goes “If all women are rejecting you, it’s most likely not all women who are the problem. It’s you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 08:52 AM
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Great advice
/r/seduction06/08/19 03:40 AM
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I’m going to break this down simply, then it’s up to you to implement. You’re 6’4, you shouldn’t be getting called “kind of cute”. You should be getting called hot. Hit the gym, lose the weight, get disciplined. They flake because you’re giving them all their needs (attention) by conversing with them for days before you meet irl. You lose all mystery, you signal that your time is worth nothing because you’re texting her all day, making her attraction evaporate in to nothingness. Text only for lo…
/r/seduction04/08/19 12:38 AM
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No problem. Good luck with everything
/r/seduction03/08/19 01:29 PM
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I know you don’t mean it. Every guy has thought and done the same thing at one stage in their life: “If I be their friend they will see how good a person I am and want to be with me.” Unfortunately this isn’t how it works. Girls see it as manipulative and creepy. It’s great that you’re wanting to improve, so you’re already on the right path and should be proud. It’s going to take time, but as long as you keep wanting to improve, you will get there. My suggestion is be direct. If you’re intereste…
/r/seduction03/08/19 01:25 PM
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Are you 200lbs lean with muscle or “cuddly”, there’s a difference. Not saying cuddly is bad, just not as good as the former. If it’s not your looks, then I’d have to agree with the other posters that it’s your personality with women. You mentioned that you treat both men and women the same. This only gets you girls that are friends, not girlfriends. You need to show intent from the get go. If you treat them like friends without making a move, then months down the line drop a bomb and ask them ou…
/r/seduction03/08/19 01:13 PM
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One thing that I haven’t seen mentioned at all in this entire thread is your looks. Are you attractive... Do you play sport/compete. Do you go to the gym. Are you lean. Good haircut. Strong jawline. Prominent cheekbones. As much as people sometimes like to imply that looks don’t matter, they do. Girls are just like men - they get turned on by attractive humans of the opposite sex. You can definitely improve your looks to become attractive to at least some women, but you have to put in the work. …
/r/seduction03/08/19 01:00 PM
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I could probably get laid more if I learned how to keep a conversation This is why. You’re not confident in your conversational skills to take it further. Pick up another hobby, read, meditate. The main thing that will help you is just doing it. Have conversations with people even if you don’t want to. Say hi to a stranger on the street, bus, book store, work, school. Say hi to people. When you get a little more confident, say something about the weather, ask their name, comment on their clothin…
/r/seduction03/08/19 10:45 AM
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Girls don’t approach guys they have already rejected, so you’re doing something right regarding your looks. She’s giving you a chance but you’re failing the shit test straight away by answering it with logic. You’ll learn with more practice so don’t worry too much about it. Try agree & amplify or switching it on her with a playful tease, usually does the trick. I need a hug and a kiss to feel better That’s better, although a kiss is generally a bit much that early in the interaction
/r/seduction03/08/19 10:34 AM
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Very well said. My understanding is direct openers are better for beginners because they don’t know how to have a normal conversation (indirect) and show sexual intent, as well as approach anxiety can be paralysing if you wait too long to open. One of the reasons indirect is better overall because girls enjoy the ‘game’ of flirting you play as it shows social skill & awareness.
/r/seduction02/08/19 05:50 PM
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No one can really know but yourself, however my guess is it’s self-sabotaging. You probably don’t have much experience and are getting anxious/scared of the potential situation and are unconsciously preventing yourself from putting yourself in that situation. Again, only you can know if this is the case. Hope this helps mate.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:24 PM
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Just don’t chase them Don’t be needy = attractive Just focus on you Gym, work/school, hobbies, game, etc. = attractive They will come They will. You still have to put in the effort, obviously. However if you don’t have any of the above, you’re putting on an act/faking confidence as you have nothing going for you and are needy. Women see this. Not to mention women aren’t the only/most important thing you should be focusing on in life, and more importantly they do not want to be the only/most impo…
/r/seduction28/07/19 01:22 PM
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That’s the plague of political correctness for you. You’re going to cause outrage whenever you say/post anything that someone can find offence to, the trick is to own it. I made a joke, laugh with me or don’t, I find it funny and I’m not going to censor myself for you. Obviously, within reason. Your joke didn’t say you find rape funny (who the hell finds rape funny?), but you find the fact that people are put in situations where they ‘gotta do what they gotta do’ funny. Context matters. It’s a s…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:18 AM
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Lol
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:46 AM
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It sounds like you already know what needs to be done
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:31 PM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy and start meditating.
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:24 PM
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Fair enough. It is, however, a mistake to throw every red pill member under one umbrella. Different people like different traits in a partner; some like women who are more submissive, others like women who are less submissive. Red pill seems to tilt toward advising for the more submissive side of the spectrum for LTR’s for a number of reasons. However this is just advice and in no way forces men to adhere to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 04:17 AM
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What you’re referring to, wrongly may I add, is boundary setting You really love straw-manning don’t ya
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:49 AM
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The whole RP ideology revolves around keeping women submissive which is literally manipulative behavior. No. What you’re referring to, wrongly may I add, is boundary setting, not manipulation. lack of empathy to be RP in the first place How do you know they lack empathy? I have a high level of empathy toward everyone, but I choose whether or not to act on that empathy. Just because I don’t show/act empathetically in a situation does not mean I am not empathetic, it simply means it’s not in my, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 03:35 AM
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I strongly disagree. You are making a lot of assumptions so that your argument makes sense. Occam's razor would decapitate it. ​ Nope, he may well go home alone to his apartment to count his macros He doesn't have all these sorority looking bombshells fighting over him ​ Assumptions. Maybe he's on his way to have an orgy with the bombshell sorority girls. ​ If he does have a girlfriend she's probably some chick he met at the gym who's just some average girl (nothing wrong with that) ​ If there's…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 11:33 AM
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He never said that it’s “the only way to not be a pathetic, easily manipulated loser”, you’re using a straw man. He’s saying, and I’m paraphrasing, that when you are thinking with your dick, you don’t tend to think logically. This, coupled with a scarcity mindset, will manifest itself as some form of neediness, inevitably leading to you failing her shit tests. Leaving you with a frame equal to the consistency of soggy toilet paper, will likely cause the woman to gradually lose attraction and lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 02:33 PM
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tacos are life The picture made this information redundant
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/19 05:49 AM
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Would women be with men who are in the process of being successful? This is from a post on the main sub, couldn't post the link because of automod. ​ BRIFFAULT’S LAW: The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. There are a few corollaries I would add: Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. Any agreement where th…
/r/askTRP26/05/19 12:23 PM
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Seeing no results in 2 months means you’re doing something wrong. Ditch calisthenics and get a real lifting routine. Track your kcal intake Track your weight progress I have a feeling you’re getting injured because of improper form due to trying to up the weights too quickly. When you first start, start with a weight you can actually do, work on your form, then you will be able to start increasing weight with a low chance of injury. As for the loneliness, seek therapy. I used to be the same and …
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:02 AM
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I’ve read the rational male and am working through NMMNG and How to Win Friends at the moment. Right now I’m approaching people in my classes and around uni 1-3 times a day. I’m working on approaching more but I’m still trying to overcome my approach anxiety. I’m getting better at it though. I’ll go through that faq and apply as much as I can, thanks for the tip!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 01:37 PM
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This is why I am where I am. I half-ass shit and expect good results. No more. I’m going to take your advice and establish a calorie goal of 2,500kcal and see how that works for me. If I don’t see an improvement in 2 weeks I’ll take your advice and up the amount by 5% until I start seeing results. I’m very skinny, 58kg (128 lbs), around 7% body fat. So this is definitely something that I need to fix. I’m going to start using MyFitnessPal and start tracking my weight in excel. In fact I just set …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 01:29 PM
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I wasn’t following her, I was walking to uni and she walks the same way. We see each other every week. I’m not a creep so at least I’ve got that going for me. You’re right I should join one or two clubs at uni, but I’ve never given it much thought on which. I will make it a goal to join 2 clubs next semester as this semester is nearly over. I don’t have a social circle yet, it’s still something I’m trying to work towards. At the rate I’m going I’ll hopefully have one by the end of the year. Than…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:30 AM
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The past 2 days there have been times where I’ve been a giant fucking pussy and it’s been pissing me off so I guess here’s a good a place as any to vent about being a pussy cunt. Yesterday a girl was giving me HEAVY IOI’s - constantly looking at me on the bus, looking at me when we were walking in same direction after bus, kept fixing her hair (I’m sure you guys know what I mean) every 30 seconds - AND I DIDN’T FUCKING APPROACH! I. DIDN’T. APPROACH. She couldn’t make it more obvious she wanted m…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 09:42 AM
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I’m not used to Todd looking like Jesus
/r/seduction20/05/19 12:38 PM
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As well as what some other commenters have said, neediness also manifests itself in less noticeable ways. I recommend reading No More Mr Nice Guy to not just eliminate neediness with women, but all your relationships.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 12:10 PM
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You may dislike them, but that doesn’t mean other people do. Not to mention saying you must dislike it to be “real red pill”, whatever that means. That’s like saying if you don’t eat popcorn during a movie you’re not a “real red pill”; it means nothing and only makes you feel better about your personal choice. As with most things in life, it’s subjective.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 03:49 AM
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I think we can assume he errs on the side of “alpha” more than “pussy beta”. He is what women call asshole. He is Cocky. Funny and with that I don’t care mindset. I personally agree with the other commenter about plausible deniability. She definitely knows what she’s doing.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:48 PM
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confidence comes from improving at the skills that take you there, and recognizing how far you've come along the way. I agree, as knowing that you have the skills for a particular task makes you feel confident. Therefore improving a skill will increase your confidence. Dictionary definition of confidence: ' a feeling or consciousness of one's powers or of reliance on one's circumstances ' I take this definition to mean that you (not directing at you, but a generalisation) are confident when you …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 09:37 AM
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What you’re describing is arrogance, not confidence. Confidence is not a belief that one is always right or a sense of being unable to fail. Confidence is being willing to be wrong and knowing you’ll be ok if you are.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 09:06 AM
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I’ve read the entire text that you are quoting, and nowhere is there self-pity. The author is simply stating his own personal experiences to backup his main point, which is, to quote him: “Women “friends” don’t care about you. What they care about is keeping a man (or several) in reserve, in case they want them later.” You’re clearly an angry and antagonising person. You should start critiquing yourself instead of others that are trying to, and have, helped thousands of men improve their lives.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 02:12 PM
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Yeah because you’re an alpha for taking quotes out of context and making some inflammatory comment that doesn’t help anyone
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 01:33 PM
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This shows how utterly clueless you are about the dynamics between men. You just described a scenario where the boyfriend has shitty friends that any man with a sliver of self respect would remove from their life. Most men value loyalty very highly. “I feel like they tolerate each other since girls don't really want to hang out with men on a regular basis.” So not only do men just “tolerate” each other, they only do it because women don’t want to hang out with them? Most idiotic thing I’ve read …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 03:43 AM
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You need to learn and understand how women are, only then will you be able to make educated decisions based on your experiences in selecting the relatively best quality women for whatever your purpose (Notice I said relatively because there are no unicorns). If you’ve never “wasted your time” spinning plates, odds are you will jump into an LTR with the next girl that gets your dick hard and slowly realise all the red flags that you should have screened for prior to LTR’ing her, but you didn’t ha…
/r/askTRP07/04/19 12:58 AM
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Is he low SMV? If so she’s afraid it will hurt her social status with her co-workers since they all knew your cousin and his low SMV.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:37 PM
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I suggest picking up a new hobby and sticking with it (something with cardio of you want to lose weight, ie. boxing), start getting up early if you aren’t already, when you are about to bite down on an unhealthy meal throw it in the bin instead, it’s about self control. It’s hard but it will be worth it, you have to think past short term pleasure and instead build yourself for the future. Jordan Peterson has spoken about habits extensively, you can watch them on YouTube.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:01 AM
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I’ve been in a similar situation. The best piece of advice I can offer you is to replace bad habits with good habits to build the foundation of who you are. The pit I see lots of people fall in is trying to change their habits all at once and end up going back to their old habits after a week. The key is to take it one habit at a time, then move to the next once that habit is solidified in to your routine.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:25 PM
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You’re too in your head. Overthinking leads to inaction. What works for me is when I see a girl that I want to talk to, I just go over and talk to her. Once I’m talking to her, my mind is focused on the conversation instead of overthinking the approach.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:14 PM
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