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No need to be a douche man, I’m just disagreeing with your post, not directly insulting you. You’re saying that if a guy has 0 success with online dating that he won’t be able to have success in real life unless he’s has a lot of charisma. That’s what I got from your post, correct me if I’m wrong since I have no reading comprehension according to you. What I’m saying is that there are plenty of guys that have 0 success on the dating apps and have lots of success in real life. You don’t have to h…
/r/seduction20/11/25 08:02 PM
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Bro unless you’re horrible to look at you can get women by just having a comforting presence and good energy. Once you have that down just be able lead and make moves and you’re good to go. It’s really not that complicated
/r/seduction19/11/25 10:04 PM
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Houston, at least it feels like it.
/r/seduction29/10/25 06:19 AM
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It was like that for me when I used apps as a white guy. It was always easiest for me to go on dates with black and Hispanic women, white girls were always the most difficult
/r/seduction26/09/25 04:33 AM
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Some girls are going to do that even if it’s a respectful approach, that’s just the name of the game. Some girls might have had multiple creeps approach them by the time you’re approaching them, some are going to have a nasty attitude at that point no matter what. Just don’t waste your time thinking about it and go on to the next one, it sucks but you just have to push past it. Women are way more likely to be rude in clubs, one of the reasons why I don’t like them too much
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:52 AM
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That and you probably have good pictures and a bio that intrigues women. I had shit pictures and still got matches, but it was mostly unattractive women. Getting good pictures I’m sure is a game changer.
/r/seduction30/07/25 10:07 PM
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I’m sure coffee dates can work out but from my experience my coffee dates never went anywhere. It was only when I turned 21 and started grabbing drinks with women instead during the night is when I started getting laid and finally having success. I might be biased due to my experience but screw coffee dates. I will choose a date at a chill bar over a coffee date any day.
/r/seduction29/05/25 08:39 PM
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I’m pretty sure most men would be content with a women that’s not so attractive as long as they’re not fat. I think the common denominator with attracting men is just not being fat, which is not asking for much compared to the standards that women ask for. I’m not saying picky guys don’t exist, but it’s nowhere near as common as it is with women. I mean let’s be honest guys can’t even afford to be picky, most of us don’t have game for shit.
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:14 AM
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Nah this is crazy to me, I’m above average in looks and am over 6ft tall, white. Only ever had maybe just 3 girls approach me in my life, all were below average in looks and one only approached me because I was wearing a mask for Halloween. Now I’m no model but I can say with confidence that I’m at least slightly above average in looks. So it doesn’t make much sense to me if you say you’re getting approached by girls at all if you’re not really attractive physically.
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:21 AM
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This sounds exactly like Houston, I have a gf now but I feel your pain since I used to daygame and there was barely any hot women to approach. Nightgame was decent but there wasn’t any areas that had a long street full of people, midtown was cool but it’s pretty small compared to nightlife areas in other cities. You’d expect for a big city like that to be bustling with hot woman.
/r/seduction28/12/24 02:27 AM
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Do you make that kind of eye contact with every woman you find attractive? And what if you make that eye contact and the woman still doesn’t show any signs of interest? I feel like that’s just going to make the interaction extremely awkward and uncomfortable real quick.
/r/seduction22/11/24 05:39 PM
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I hope it’s not all about giant dicks with a lot of girth or I’m screwed
/r/seduction15/11/24 03:31 PM
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I’ve had the same exact experience, I’ve only been able to kiss and have sex with woman I’ve met through dating apps. The 2 only relationships I’ve been in is because of dating apps. I’m currently in a relationship with a woman from Venezuela through hinge, I would’ve never met her if it weren’t for it. There’s a lot of problems with dating apps but if you’re able to make an at least decent profile of yourself and are able to get matches and go on dates then definitely use apps. If not then eith…
/r/seduction11/11/24 12:07 AM
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You must have a godly profile or something
/r/seduction07/11/24 07:05 PM
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Like with anything else it depends on the person. Maybe some women want the logical conversations but I would say most enjoy a flirtatious conversation more. This guy is appealing to a specific subset of women on the dating apps that are looking to fuck.
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:53 PM
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What made you fall off of your consistency? And what improvements did you try to make? If you’re going to make improvements to yourself you have to start with the easy things. You can’t jump from level 1 to level 10. Let’s say you have crippling social anxiety. You don’t start off by approaching woman, you start off by saying hello to a stranger and complimenting them on something random and then going about your day.
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:59 AM
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You taking a step to be in a better headspace for yourself is not nothing. Something doesn’t always have to be something tangible. How badly do you want to fix the situation you’re in? If you didn’t care then you wouldn’t be making this post. You need to start from where this all began. When did you start thinking this way about yourself? Has it been negative interactions that you’ve had with others? Has it been when you realized that you’re not physically attractive? You need to pinpoint what y…
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:46 AM
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There are some where it’s much more difficult for them than it is for others, and that’s just the cruel nature of reality. It could be your personality, looks, genetics, upbringing, trauma, disabilities, or a combination of all of it. It all plays a role in how easy or how difficult it is to become attractive. And some people are literally dealt such a bad hand that it is literally impossible for them to be objectively attractive. And that’s okay. Nobody has to be objectively attractive in order…
/r/seduction17/09/24 05:19 AM
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That’s weird as hell and a red flag. I would just pump and dump her if she’s the type that talks about pursuing other guys while actively dating me. I mean who does that?
/r/seduction27/08/24 05:07 PM
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I need some more examples to be honest, but thanks for the advice
/r/seduction10/08/24 10:08 PM
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Bro if you’re able to meet woman through dating apps then I don’t think you need to worry about your looks
/r/seduction07/08/24 09:54 PM
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Bro I’m a metalhead and have gotten laid and am currently in my second ever relationship. Only one girl that I’ve fucked has been into metal music and neither of the girls I’ve been in a relationship like metal, but they could give 2 shits that I like metal and that’s all that matters to me. Music taste or even hobby interests don’t define whether or not you and a woman are compatible. I’ve been on dates with girls that like metal music and there was no click whatsoever. Just go out and meet wom…
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:54 AM
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Bro you’re looking in the wrong places
/r/seduction16/06/24 02:56 PM
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I’ve had no problems setting up the next date within a day or two with woman that are genuinely interested in me. If you messaging her the next day is enough for her to lose interest, she wasn’t that interested in you in the first place.
/r/seduction21/05/24 06:45 AM
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This is completely wrong imo, I’ve gone on plenty dates with woman that ended in me taking them back to my place to have sex. I will say that dinner dates are not optimal whatsoever and that woman that are looking to go somewhere expensive on a first date are not woman worth wasting time on. But drinks at a bar? That’s perfectly fine. Lots of woman are not going to be down to go straight to a guys place for a first time meet up, taking them to a bar, get them comfortable, create sexual tension, …
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:48 PM
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This is why I’m currently dating a Venezuelan woman who moved to America a year ago. Screw American woman lol
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:17 PM
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It really just depends on the girl man. I’ve set up dates on the same night with decent looking woman in the matter of a few hours because I went for it quickly. If I took my time with them most likely nothing would’ve happened. But there’s definitely woman that will want to message a good bit before meeting up. You have to gauge which category they fall under through their replies.
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:10 PM
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This comment right here answers it all. Only way you can have consistent success on the apps is if you’ve maxed out your profile and you’re at least decent looking. If that’s not the case then you’re basically playing Russian roulette on getting dates with woman that are attractive. If you happen to land a date with a woman that’s decent looking it’s just sheer luck. Stars have to align.
/r/seduction26/04/24 07:03 PM
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Always go for drinks on a first date, if you're not doing that then you're already putting yourself at a disadvantage. Even better would be to have your date at a place with an activity like for example an arcade bar. Gives you the opportunity to lead woman around, or just go somewhere with an outdoor area to walk around. Also if you're meeting woman from dating apps make sure you look like your pictures. If you're 50 pounds heavier than you are in your pics girls are going to notice and be inst…
/r/seduction16/03/24 02:36 PM
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Finding 25-50 to approach is extremely hard where I live though. I go to a mall where I'm at and I'm lucky if I'm able to find 10 woman that's attractive enough for me to approach. I'm in Houston Btw
/r/seduction13/03/24 08:26 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction13/03/24 05:47 PM
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Well cold approaching girls during the day is not easy. I have never been able to get one date through it. Maybe it's because I haven't approached enough but after 50 approaches you'd assume at least 1 would be down to go on a date. And really that's all I need. Once I'm on a date I have much more time to have a deep conversation, flirt, and escalate. But when I'm just cold approaching it feels like time is much more limited since the girl is always already doing something.
/r/seduction13/03/24 02:22 PM
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Honestly just getting dates. I'm pretty successful with getting a girls interest and being confident on dates but actually getting the dates is the hard part. I'm not even a bad looking guy but when you're only options is daygame and OLD it's tough.
/r/seduction13/03/24 04:30 AM
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I’d hope so, I’m actually seeing a girl currently and I’m hoping I don’t ruin things by not being able to get hard in bed. I don’t want her thinking it’s because I don’t find her attractive or anything like that
/r/seduction11/03/24 11:30 PM
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I feel like there’s something wrong with my dick that I can’t quite figure out because it’s not like I have erectile dysfunction. I get morning wood and can and will get hard during sex, but it’s SO easy for me to lose my erection. I will literally lose my erection while having sex without a condom, it usually happens more easily the quicker I go in and out. It’s like I don’t feel much when having sex, like I don’t have much sensitivity in my penis. I feel like it’s because of porn but there’s s…
/r/seduction11/03/24 10:40 PM
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It sucks because I get ghosted after having sex with woman even though I do pay attention to their pleasure. The problem is I having trouble keeping an erection, but if I can’t keep it up then I go straight to fingering them and eating them out. I feel like girls should be willing to give me another chance if I’m willing to eat them out and finger them for such a long period of time. I mean I literally go at it for 10 minutes at a time, multiple times, what more do I gotta do? It’s got me afraid…
/r/seduction11/03/24 09:19 PM
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Woman do the chasing at loud clubs? I’ve never been approached by one girl at a bar or club before, even if I’m having a good time and dancing. I’m not even a bad looking guy. The idea sounds crazy to me
/r/seduction04/03/24 08:16 PM
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And to add onto that some girls use a shit ton of emojis even if they’re not into you. It’s just how they text. I’ve been with woman before that used no emojis whatsoever and I still had sex with them. But yes if a woman uses emojis it does increase the chances of them being interested even if just slightly
/r/seduction02/03/24 08:11 PM
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Felt the same way before I had any success man. But just know that there’s bound to be woman that like you, it’s almost impossible to come across no woman that like you for who you are. You’d have to be very very bad at holding a conversation to make it so that no girls are ever interested in you.
/r/seduction02/03/24 03:57 PM
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They’ll choose you despite your appearance and height if you are confident and are genuinely fun to be around. There’s no denying that tall good looking guys have an advantage at being able to gain a woman’s interest more quickly or more easily but that doesn’t negate the fact that how you carry yourself is the most important aspect in dating AND hooking up. So control what you can control and don’t let these self limiting beliefs keep you from meeting amazing woman.
/r/seduction29/02/24 04:37 PM
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I'm not going to say I'm good at getting girls or anything like that but what has really helped me to gain more confidence is by working in sales. I knocked doors for a year and a half, and it makes you grow balls and realize that talking to people is not as big of a deal as you think it is. People would get angry at me and there would be awkward moments but you just learn to laugh it off and not take it seriously. My experience with sales translated to me not having as much anxiety when it come…
/r/seduction19/02/24 01:56 AM
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What if you don’t know shit about dancing?
/r/seduction29/08/23 03:37 PM
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“So do you fuck with the war?”
/r/seduction12/05/23 07:04 PM
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It seems like it should be easier but if you're me and live 40 minutes away fron downtown it gets difficult. The city is so overwhelmingly big that it's hard to know where to go to get good photos. Most of the time I drive 40 minutes downtown just to try out a spot to to take a photo only to see that it's a bad spot. Then I figure out another spot to try and what do you know it's like 50 minutes away, and STILL in Houston. It seems like living in a big city wouldn't be a big obstacle but it real…
/r/seduction05/10/22 07:28 PM
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What if you don't have any good hobbies to take photos for? And I don't have a means to travel anywhere except stay in my own city at the moment. I just want ideas of good photos to take without having to leave my city. It's just hard when you live in a big city like Houston. I don't want to take photos where everybody else is taking their photos as well.
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:53 AM
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I was talking to my brother about this and he said that trying to troll people is a good way to amuse yourself. Not in an asshole way but just screw around with the conversation for your own amusement. Now it's just a matter of figuring out how I'd amuse myself because everyone has a different sense of humor. But I do like what you're saying, I guess you don't have any advice on how I could go about doing this? Should I just try to force the whole self-amusement thing until it becomes natural?
/r/seduction10/09/22 02:05 PM
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Is there any practical strategy on having more fun at a club? Everytime I try dancing it feels so forced, and it doesn't help that I suck at dancing. And I'm not just talking about clubs with dancing in my post, I'm talking about chill bars as well. I want to figure how to start having conversations in these places. Having fun is always a good thing, but I feel like that's self explanatory. There was a time when me and my friend were having fun at a small karaoke bar, one of the the few times I …
/r/seduction07/09/22 11:28 PM
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If I dm'ed you my profile could you review mine? I've been trying to improve it for a while now but still not getting that many matches :(
/r/seduction22/07/22 08:04 PM
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That makes sense
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:38 AM
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Okay thanks man so nightgame is indirect? That explains why I'm so bad at it. I'm more of a "hey I think you're cute let's grab a drink" kinda've guy. But I can try getting good at the whole say what I think or notice
/r/seduction29/06/22 09:21 PM
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Ah ok lol. Can the script from this post be applied to nightgame? Is there any differences that you think are worth mentioning between this method in daygame and nightgame? I've always find myself to be less confident in clubs and bars than I am just approaching girls during the day. Something about the night atmosphere makes me feel more nervous.
/r/seduction29/06/22 08:23 PM
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Hey so I have to ask, what do you do if you get a girl's number and see her again in the same day? Let's say you get her number at a mall, you keep walking around the mall afterwards and you end up coming across her again. I went approaching yesterday and got two numbers, but I was afraid of coming across those two girls again because I noticed other girls that I approached earlier walking around. It didn't happen thankfully but it's bound to happen at some point
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:16 AM
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Ugh it sucks man, but I'm not going to let it demotivate me
/r/seduction23/06/22 07:59 PM
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You've taken the words out of my mouth lol Austin is better in so many ways. Once I end up being able to afford it I'm moving there for sure
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:35 AM
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You think there was a lot of hot girls? I've always felt like Houston doesn't have many attractive girls as compared to other big cities in the U.S. I've always wanted to move to Austin for that reason. Maybe it's just in my head lol
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:25 AM
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That's very interesting, we'll definitely have to try that out. We're in Houston so we feel like the best place for us to approach girls during the day is at the galleria mall. Nightgame doesn't seem like our vibe.
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:04 AM
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Thanks man this was the perfect post for me to read. Me and my brother decided that we're going to start approaching girls at least 4 days every week. We've done it for two days now and we haven't approached many girls (10 for each of us so far). But it's honestly more fun than we anticipated it to be. My bother is trying to do a 21 day pua challenge but since I do sales I don't have as much approach anxiety so I'm just approaching girls directly. It's nice to have a bit of a formula to start of…
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:45 AM
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I'm a white guy and I don't find it racist at all. I've never been with a white chick but have always had success with Hispanic or black girls. I feel this guy on a spiritual level
/r/seduction21/06/22 11:17 PM
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What's more efficient?
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:46 PM
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I appreciate the advice but indirect is not my style, never had success with it. I'm horrible at cold reading, I just want to lay it out. I'm even like that with online dating, I jump straight to setting up the date and number closing as quickly as possible. If I have to get rejected a ton so be it.
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:43 PM
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I'm not OP but would you be willing to critic my tinder profile? I'm sure I'm not bad looking so it's gotta be the quality of my pictures but even then I feel like they're not that bad. I get barely any matches at all.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:14 PM
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Isn't 5-6 inches average? Or am I tripping and everyone is rocking 7 inchers
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:19 AM
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Lmaoo
/r/seduction19/04/22 10:33 PM
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Aha righttt 😎
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:55 AM
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Your Instagram must be on point. I know I'd have much more luck with girls if my Instagram was better. I haven't posted anything in 5 years, I have only 5 posts, and only 72 followers 🤣
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:50 AM
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That banana peel line lmao
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:18 AM
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How do you have a good sense of style at the gym? I mean I feel like that's the place where people just dress casually and not doing that is weird
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:07 PM
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If you're sitting perpendicular to your date at a table, then you can both maintain eye contact and make physical contact. Besides, if you're sitting side by side all you have to do is face your body towards them to make eye contact easy.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:08 AM
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My go to first date is taking a girl to an arcade bar. First thing I always do is sit down next to my date at a table (sitting next to them, not across. Which is easy at a bar), and make light banter with her until we're feeling pretty comfortable. Once I feel like we've talked enough, I take my date and lead her to the arcade games. The arcade games give you an easy means to challenge her, which will lead to lots of teasing and physical contact as long as you're maintaining the competitive vibe…
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:02 AM
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Appreciate the feedback man! I guess I do need to put more into my bio but I don't really have any interesting hobbies so it's kinda've hard for me to include more of that without shooting myself in the foot. But I guess I just need to start becoming a more interesting person lol
/r/seduction09/11/21 06:54 AM
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https://tinder.com/@zackamite Those are the photos are use for pretty much every app. For my bio I just say "6'0| let's get lost in Ikea" and the only other info I include is that I go to university of houston. I get matches but it's not a high amount or at least an amount that gets me many dates, I get about an average of 1 match every day. Sometimes not even that
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:32 AM
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Are you good at giving advice for people's dating profiles? I'd love to get some constructive criticism for mine
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:35 PM
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Can you message me some examples as well? I can manage to match with hot girls but I absolutely can never manage to get them to come to my house, let alone go on a date with me. And I can see that you get advice from pwf, and I try to use some of his lines but it never seems to work for me ☹️
/r/seduction27/08/21 11:33 PM
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Where in the flying fuck do you live?
/r/seduction02/05/21 10:01 AM
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Not about to tell I a girl I have a small dick. That'll just make her not want to have sex with me and find me unattractive.
/r/seduction14/11/20 05:17 PM
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Personally for me I like it a lot, but I'm the type that tries to please the girl first and foremost as I am definitely below average in terms of dick size. I know that I can't just whip out my dick and let it do all the work or else the girl is going to feel absolutely nothing. So yes making out and foreplay plays a huge role for me and if the girl doesn't want to do it our sex is going to be pretty bad
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:14 PM
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Bro I will tell you this I literally have nothing going on in my life, have virtually no hobbies, no goal or ambition, and yet I've still managed to get myself a girlfriend (she's not ugly either). I'm no master at getting girls so if I can manage getting a girlfriend then you can. I met her through tinder, and if you want to get dates on tinder all you need is good pictures and decent text game. If you want some advice on my texting strategy I can give you that.
/r/seduction08/08/20 09:49 PM
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Lmao I can't with this one
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:57 AM
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The way I see it you need to start dating other girls to help you forget about this girl. Since you've expressed your feelings to her already and she didn't reciprocate there's no reason for you to invest any emotions in her anymore. You might even make her jealous if she sees that you are dating others girls and might consider giving you a chance...though that's very unlikely so don't get your hopes up. The bottom line is you need to see more girls and understand that there's a lot more amazing…
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:45 AM
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I do tease her but I don't think it was enough to create the sexual tension we needed. I need to do more I guess.
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:17 PM
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I've always been of the state of mind that you don't ever ask girls if you can escalate, as that kills the sexual tension and is basically the equivalent of asking "do you want to be a slut". I'm kind of tired of playing games though and want to just straight up ask her like you guys are saying. Thx for the advice
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:35 AM
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My bad lol
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:32 AM
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In my mind I think she's somewhat interested, or else why would she go on three dates. We seem to enjoy each other and laugh a lot and have the same type of humor. I'm not sure if I'm looking for a relationship but I will say that I enjoy her company the most out of all the girls I've dated so far. I've been dating for a year now, so I'm not that experienced and I've never been in a relationship before. I'm also a virgin. Honestly I just want to lose my virginity and I want to lose it to her bec…
/r/seduction25/02/20 08:18 AM
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Thank you for replying! On my third date I did ask her if she has been in any relationships and she said yes, but she didn't want to talk about it and that she has blocked her ex on everything. I did ask her what she is looking for and she said she's going with the flow. My cousin tells me that I should just straight up ask her if she's interested in me sexually or ask her if she wants to have sex. Based on everything I've heard on the internet that's a horrible idea and that girls would way rat…
/r/seduction25/02/20 06:43 AM
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Oh I'm not in high school, been graduated for 2 and a half years
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:48 PM
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Thx for the advice dude, I see what you're trying to say. I'm just going to make my intentions clear from the get go no matter what, and if the girl isn't interested then that's fine and I'll move on to the next
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:36 PM
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For the most part they are 18-19, I'm 20 so I don't match with a lot of older woman
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:21 PM
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I've only been on dates with tinder girls for the most part, but I usually end up going on dates with tinder girls that seem to be really against having sex on a first date or are even straight up virgins. Obviously though playing it safe hasn't gotten me anywhere with coffee dates, the only action I've gotten has been with girls where I just went straight to their house and I knew they were down.
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:17 PM
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So is the best course of action assuming that every girl that goes on a date with me wants to have sex with me and so I should actively pursue having sex on every first date?
/r/seduction23/01/20 02:08 PM
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Another thing was I wasn't attracted to her, she looked attractive in her pictures but it didn't translate in real life. I'm not sure if that added to our conversations being boring but I feel like it would be easier for me to be seductive if I was actually attracted to her, is that usually the case for guys in general?
/r/seduction22/01/20 10:37 PM
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What of a girl straight up tells you that they won't have sex with you before even going on the date with you? The last date I went on the girl said that and I went on the day assuming I shouldn't be sexual in the slightest because I didn't want her to feel uncomfortable, but holy fuck the date was boring. She had no personality, was super shy, and I basically had to do all the talking. I can't help but feel like she would've opened up more if it was another dude, I really did try but I couldn't…
/r/seduction22/01/20 09:34 PM
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Don't most guys do this anyways?
/r/seduction13/01/20 06:06 PM
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