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-2

Straight up lies. I’m 5’9. Never had any problems. Even more succes than people taller than me. Gen Z seems to care wayyyyy less about height than millenials
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 08:53 AM
0

The same reason that men can be upset that they’re partner is only with them for their money
/r/AllPillDebate15/10/23 07:19 AM
-1

Okay. Explain my 5’9 friend still slayin’?
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 01:55 PM
1

Still no. And in Islamic countries, its still very, very rare for a man to have 4 wives. Not many incels there
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 11:43 AM
3

Only the marriage part is illegal, just dating 4 women isn’t
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 09:52 AM
-5

The whole “its over” if you have just a tiny part of a plethora of things missing
/r/AllPillDebate14/10/23 07:35 AM
0

Ah okay, carry on then
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:38 PM
-2

You are doing the opposite of helping the cause
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:29 PM
-1

Okay, cool, don’t look at statistics then or anything. Or find other proposed theories
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:26 PM
1

Yes that is a genuine thing. Idk why, but it is. You can’t just go around and invalidate suicide attempts because you don’t like women
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:56 PM
0

Yeahhh… I hope I never hear you about male suicide
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:56 PM
1

Because brains splattered on the wall is a lot more traumatizing
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:55 PM
0

I think its funny and ironic that you make fun of suicide attempts. While also screaming “look at males suicide”
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:34 PM
1

A running theory is because they don’t want to leave a mess for example.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:29 PM
-5

I just gave you an explanation
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 04:07 PM
1

Huh, I see multiple explanations. But okay
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:42 PM
1

I didn’t see it in conclusions.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 03:20 PM
3

The last part of your comment is not confirmed in your study, they just choose less violent ways, motivation is unknown
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:46 PM
-10

Orrr… it just means they choose less violent ways.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 02:45 PM
-17

I mean, it is true, there are more suicide attempts by women. But men succeed more
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:25 PM
5

And this still happens. but people on reddit refuse to believe that because they are just too glued to the screen to think rationally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:28 AM
0

I seriously never had that problem, while I’m in the gym A LOT
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 05:59 AM
1

I just want to add, that “peak natty” or “steroid physique” is not something women are attracted to. Lean/athletic is king
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 07:55 PM
-2

Okay idk if you commented, but it got deleted
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 03:25 PM
-5

May I ask where you have ever seen this? Directly or indirectly?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:19 PM
6

Yes, if everyone does thing, it becomes the norm
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:19 PM
0

Can’t you see the absolute hypocrisy of this comment after you said “yjk” lol?
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 02:06 PM
-7

When have you seen this happen or how in real life? Personally never seen it
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:57 PM
5

Yes, both are young and stupid
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:47 PM
6

She is 16, 16 and stupid. That is why
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 12:35 PM
1

That is literally not the context of the post
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 09:10 AM
1

It literally disproves the statement that women only think hot guys are funny
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 08:43 AM
-2

Kind of alluding that women can find you funny, without being hot
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 10:37 PM
-3

Yeah because every comedian is attractive
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 07:46 PM
1

Those are your hobbies? That is all that defines you?
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:01 AM
1

It is hella stupid
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:43 PM
1

To your stupid ass question? No
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:56 PM
0

Give an example of “shitty”
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 10:02 PM
0

What do you mean “tell them that” I personally say that all the time??? Start listening! No. When people talk about “yourself” they mean your personality. Bro no one is saying “just take a shower” every time people actually say “fix your hair” Nah you’re full of shit. You aren’t confident in your shittyness. By confident I mean “be confident in what you are”. You like a certain hobby? Be confident in that. What do you mean “tell them” WHO IS SAYING “LOOKS DON’T MATTER” EXCEPT GRANDMA OF 88
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:57 PM
-2

Another general tip: stop being bitter
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 09:49 PM
-2

No. It is just a general tip
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 08:31 PM
-2

"be authentic, be real, don't be fake, and don't try to change yourself into something you're not, and be the best version of yourself that you can be. This is literally “being yourself” If "yourself" is not attractive, then either (1) you need to be a better version of yourself; or (2) the women you're aiming for are out of your league; or (3) you need to reconsider women in general and maybe you need to be by yourself." Yourself is about your inner, not your outer. Contrary to popular belief, …
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 08:27 PM
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“Just be yourself” I would advice to do that if you want to find a partner who fits who YOU are so you don’t have to put up a farce. “Just take a shower” is for people who genuinely stink, but can be broadened to “fix your grooming” “Be confident” doesn’t contradict being yourself at all. It means you stand in your shoes in YOUR way. You are sure of YOURSELF “There is someone out the for everyone” indeed I agree that this is probably false “Enjoy rejections” meh just do not care about them, don’…
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 07:48 PM
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She clearly did not like the guy AFTER the fact she knew he did not wash his hands with soap after shitting. What people mean with “shower bro” is get better at grooming and cleaning yourself because that ups your presence overall. If you’re below average and you reek, you become bottom of the barrel. If you’re below average but smell good, you’re just below average in look
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:26 PM
-6

You hit the nail on the head with this one. Pure truth
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:23 PM
-2

19?! Brother you still have so many year?
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 10:05 PM
0

Yes, you do see it
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 06:22 PM
1

So a fringe of women hate men (those extreme feminist) en now you have to stoop to their levels?
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 03:01 PM
0

All over this sub lol. But especially on actual incel sites
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:37 PM
0

Expressing your emotions is fine. Having an extreme hatred isn’t
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 11:03 AM
-1

Well, many of the blackpill community (especially here) seem to have a firey hatred for women. And calling that out is good.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 11:02 AM
1

Because for most men it is not the only thing they provide. Only for people on this sub who haven’t actually gotten it
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 04:57 PM
7

“Allpill debate” Its for everyone
/r/AllPillDebate03/10/23 09:57 AM
1

I disagree. Especially how the redpillers are talking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:56 AM
6

You can not just cherry pick examples and say “well one is more emotionally fragile than the other”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:31 AM
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So leave then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 06:39 PM
6

The problem between every pill that I’ve seen. Is that they all do not believe each other. While they all have somewhat good points, they mostly go into extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 04:49 PM
0

It is most definitely more than being short id you just CAN NOT get pussy
/r/AllPillDebate24/09/23 10:28 AM
1

Really not what I am saying, you’re pulling conclusions outta thin air
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 10:53 PM
1

No
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 08:12 PM
2

People here will say “under 6” its over” while that isn’t true. Plus it clearly isn’t all that matter because if you’re still a heavily autistic person but hot you’re not going to get anyone
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 05:47 PM
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I did not though?
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 05:43 PM
2

certain threshold Average no reading comprehension blackpiller
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 05:37 PM
1

Average blackpill response
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 05:33 PM
-2

I disagree. Looks are way more important, until height reaches a certain threshold. Furthermore is this only to get the foot through the door
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 05:28 PM
-2

Guess I am strikingly good looking then😉
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 02:28 PM
1

80/20 is already near extreme
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 02:28 PM
0

80/20 rule is a myth. Because way more than 20% of guys are dating.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 02:15 PM
-1

80/20 is a dumb statistic that doesn’t actually work irl.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 02:04 PM
1

Oh okay. General trends is still not pill focused
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 01:56 PM
-1

And how tall are you, that you have zero matches?
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 10:43 AM
-2

Lol. You’ve never used tinder have you?
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 10:38 AM
-5

Because there actually are no pills. None of the pills are true because they all go into the full extreme and people aren’t like that
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 08:30 AM
-3

Its over if you are 5’[ ] No it is not, stop whining about your height
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 08:13 AM
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Zero
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 08:04 AM
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you don’t care about degrees or education or mental prowess.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 10:22 PM
-2

(This isn’t common at all, no worries)
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 09:57 PM
3

Do you think an average guy would hook up with an ugly 200 lbs girl? No.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:25 PM
-4

Why is it always just only the norm for incels or blackpill people though? When your average guy doesn’t have this problem?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:24 PM
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No. Because for example, normally 30% would be sexless in both groups, then imagine now 30% of the women also going to the old ones.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:20 PM
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So older guys are hogging all the women, aka polygamy. No. If 60 percent of young men are sexless (which isn’t event true its hasn’t had sex in a year) and for example the next age group would be the same, but they get more women because old. That would explain it. No polygamy needed Unsupported hypothesis. You mean like yours? Wishful af thinking. A real possibility
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 07:44 PM
-3

Nope. women are mostly dating “older” guys men and women define “single” differently Or maybe the study was flawed
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:47 PM
-4

There could be multiple conclusions pulled out of this. Not just the one you want
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:39 PM
0

This is not the norm though
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 06:13 PM
1

Ok
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 05:40 PM
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No, I said if someone always is tired, then the attraction doesn’t exist
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 04:23 PM
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Thats why I specifically said “not all the time” Work on your reading comprehension
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 03:40 PM
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Being very tired is a good reason, I have experienced it as a guy. But always? Nah doesn’t exist
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 03:09 PM
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Women can’t be terminally online?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:29 PM
-4

And there are always people who are content with not getting any chances in live. And its almost always a minority. Most women “wanted” to marry. But had to to get other benefits so they needed to marry quick.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 02:29 PM
-2

“Forcing” doesn’t have to be “you die if you don’t” it could mean the system only works if you’re married for example. Or you have to stay with your parents etc. A good example is the covid vaccine. Yeah no one was technically forced. But you lost your job if you didn’t.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:56 PM
2

Another terminally online person thinking they have experience in the real world lol
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:46 PM
-5

Even from your very first paragraph I can see you have trouble with both history and reading comprehension
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 01:43 PM
1

There isn’t realistically going to be just any guy who is willing to pick that up
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 12:32 PM
-4

But do think about this. If this so called random blue pill man absolutely gets his rocks off of this. Then how is it not a succes?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 10:07 AM
0

What did that have to do with the statement I made
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 09:30 AM
0

Most blue pillers aren’t even in a relationship like this
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 08:25 AM
1

Just no
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 05:45 AM
2

Seems more like the internet world
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 05:45 AM
1

Nah. Probably an average/below average woman. Maybe a landwhale if he is into that.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 04:32 AM
1

Have you spoken to him? Do you know him personally that you know that?
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 04:31 AM
1

No? Every statistic says it is just “people” it will be all people being pushed out of middleclass.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 04:13 AM
0

I disagree but that is besides the point. Bluepill doesn’t have to mean beta buxx
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 04:05 AM
2

I mean, both are passionate in my opinion. Just different kinds of passion.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 09:37 PM
1

Not really though. I think most non-autistic people realise this. But “how bad it really is”? What do yiu mean
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 09:26 PM
2

Yeah if she’s into you
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 09:19 PM
3

Yeah. Thats what being horny does to a mf
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 08:59 PM
1

Still debateable lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 08:30 PM
-1

In what world do you live that you can’t possibly think he gets laid?
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 07:51 PM
4

Nah, he has decent muscle, looks decently tall. Most of what the post says is pure speculation
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 06:03 PM
-1

Seriously, if you look at that guy and think “no way he is ever getting laid” then you really need to change your worldview
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:54 PM
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Everyone is being pushed out of the middleclass
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:53 PM
-9

He is a normal looking dude, high chance of him not being an incel
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:49 PM
13

He literally looks like a normal dude
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:41 PM
2

5’8 I think. Not as short as you. But short in my country
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:07 PM
1

I’m a guy on the shorter side myself, not a woman🤣 Thats why I know its not the end of the world
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:47 PM
-2

5’5 isn’t the end of the world lol.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:05 PM
1

So HVM only means looks
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:04 PM

So TRP is mainly for autistic guys? Didn’t know that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 10:02 AM
-1

Communication and vetting is key for this
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 10:00 AM

Isn’t this just very logical? If i say I like thicc girls, I do not mean someone who is ugly with bad fat proportions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 09:58 AM
1

Calling Ronaldo a 7?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/23 03:20 PM
1

No, that is also not the value I am talking about
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:43 PM
0

And I disagree. Plenty of people, no matter how you look, provide value to society
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:34 PM
1

I was more talking about for example men having value for working in heavy industries
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 12:31 PM
-3

In this day and age, this society, that is just not true anymore
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 07:58 AM
-1

First off, you have to define what a chad is. Is it someone who can get most women? Or someone who for example can get women in their 18-25 years. Second, value isn’t decided by if you can fuck someone or not
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 06:04 AM
-1

All three untrue
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 03:08 PM
1

Haven’t seen it irl
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:13 PM
8

Haven’t had sex in a year is what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:01 PM
1

Spark is after initial attraction. It always is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 02:00 PM
1

How long? Forever?
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 12:43 PM
1

Nah. You’re not. Not that disgusting fantasy at least
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 12:41 PM
1

You’re never going to achieve what you want
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 12:00 PM
1

I get why you’re an incel
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 11:32 AM
1

Questions are a sign of aggressiveness now?
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 12:43 AM
1

Please tell me why
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 12:42 AM
1

Tell me, how do I type like a woman? Why do you think I type like a woman?
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 06:10 PM
1

Welp, if you want to fuck every woman you see, then they’re not going to like it (if you’re sociallly awkward for example)
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 05:29 PM
1

That is exactly what I said. Make friendships with women WITHOUT wanting to fuck them
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 05:04 PM
0

First off, no, no one is “inferior”. And yes, some of the points y’all make are absolutely ideotic
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 04:01 PM
1

“Allpilldebate” not “incelsub”
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 03:50 PM
1

They go from very few women being interested into slightly more interested
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 01:43 PM
-2

Yes it is definitely going to change the outcome. Even by sometthing slight, that is the whole point
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:36 PM
1

What do you mean it doesn’t work? It works if you’re awkward around women, it works to “train” and you have a friend extra. What is wrong with that?
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:23 PM
-1

Nah sorry, I am not participating in idolatry
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 11:43 AM
-2

Yes, I am indeed going to assume that incels do not know the right haircut with their face shape, because you see that time and time again. With hygiene the same. A 3 to a 3,5 definitely makes a difference
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 11:42 AM
2

You don’t see that that can be the first babysteps out of inceldom? See it as an investment
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 11:32 AM
1

I said in my post exactly what is handy about them
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 11:22 AM
2

You never just have a friendship with women? Just having fun? Talking with them? Because guess what, that is your testing ground, that’ll make you less awkward towards them
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 11:00 AM
-1

4 tries is absolutely nothing. The point is, that you need to learn to not give a fuck about it not working out. It is hard, we know
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 10:59 AM
-1

A whole 4 tries? Do you think that is how it works? 4 fucking tries?
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 10:59 AM
-3

You do know that basic hygene and getting a haircut can do wonders to the face, AKA looksmaxxing?
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 10:56 AM
-2

You need to do at least something. Even if it is just friendship with men or going to the gym or something
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 10:56 AM
1

It is literally just your word against theirs. And I gotta say, I also have heard the same thing the commenter says
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 10:54 AM
-11

No this is an edited video where the creator can create his own narrative
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 10:50 AM
2

Just because I do not constantly bash women, means I am a women?
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 06:56 AM
1

Asking them anonymously is surprisingly reliable
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 06:55 AM
1

Ahat are you even talking about? I thought this is a debate sub
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 10:23 PM
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Yeah I am tired and english isn’t my first language. My commentary still did not defend women
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 09:49 PM
0

If you’d actually read. I said that both genders cheat less, and that I thought it was weird that a commenter focust on women
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 09:07 PM
1

Lol what even are you saying. I agree with statistics more than some rambling of someone online and instantly I am not a man?
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 08:50 PM
2

But statistics say that people cheat about the same. Women more in younger years, men more in marriage. But overall about the same
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 08:29 PM
2

Why are you focussing specifically on women tho? But the anonymous surveys (no reason to lie) have a high probability of being the truthful number or coming very close to that
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 08:08 PM
1

The thing is though, most of these are anonymous. So there is not really a reason to lie. Yes of course some people lie. But we can assume that the statistics come very close to the real number, not just a random up in 20%
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 08:06 PM
1

So you’re saying that research into this subject, is trumped by you just thinking people cheat more?
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 07:44 PM
2

So no science vs actual research. Yeah I am believing the second one chief
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 07:36 PM
4

I am a man, still not silenced there
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 05:23 PM
0

Blub
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 02:58 PM
-4

Hygene is important though. Just like hobbies. Respectful kind of?
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 02:32 PM
2

(Thats because those numbers are BS)
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 02:29 PM
4

What? How did chad stop you lol
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 02:28 PM
1

Idk man, 15 minutes in meeting people it starts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:08 PM
-1

Okay, does he really get ALL the girls? And then again, what do you care?
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 12:20 PM
1

Why do you care about him? Why hate him?
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 12:12 PM
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Not really imho
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:58 AM
1

Still teasing is not “being mean”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:19 AM
2

Aquaintence, someone you can tease, but aren’t buddy buddy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:57 AM
0

No, it is “don’t treat a woman as a friend”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:48 AM
1

But that is not really “being mean”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:44 AM
0

It really isn’t that hard if you vet
/r/AllPillDebate15/09/23 09:34 AM
2

Nah, accepting it means that people CAN do that if they want
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 10:39 PM
1

It is a very, very small portion of liberals that advocate for that honestly. And it mostly is “accepting” in stead of “encouraging”
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 03:46 PM
3

They really are not, that is just a simplification people use to hate on it. Just like people saying “conservatism is just racism”
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 12:23 PM
5

Y’all act as if every woman wants that one republican. Nah. Women just don’t want doormats. Has nothing to do with ideology
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 12:02 PM
5

You do not have to be a simp if you have more liberal ideas on certain subjects
/r/AllPillDebate14/09/23 12:02 PM
1

Clearly not if your experiences are just that much different
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:34 PM
0

Cool. Different experiences, different people
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:06 PM
0

So, every time you talk to a woman about attraction? They’re not honest? Wow, complete opposite of my experience and a lot of experiences I know. No, still no. Most women are with people they’re sexually attracted to. You just do not hear about them because guess what? Happy people don’t complain. No. Never seen them complain. Even on subs like 2X they don’t complain about men they’re not attracted to. Ah okay. Ever looked at the reasons of divorce? Or not
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:54 PM
-2

Most women are honest about it. And almost all women are honest on who they’re attracted to. Idk where you get that idea from. Yes most women are with people they’re attracted to. (Also funny that you instantly had to check my post history) They are complaining, sometimes. They aren’t complaining about the people they’re not attracted to tho. You act as if its the greater amount of women doing it. No, its the loud minority. 50 years. 50 years and you do not understand anything about the real wor…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:46 PM
-2

Because women lie about their promiscuity. If you want to be promiscuous, own it. Say it loud and own it. First off, this day and age, no, most will not lie about it. And when they do, why do you think they lie? Indeed, because many men hate promiscuity Because women lie about their promiscuity for the express and explicit purpose of using, exploiting, and taking advantage of less attractive men after they finally figure out Chad won't commit. Lol no. They lie because men hate it. Because women …
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 01:29 PM
3

Nothing?
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 04:50 AM
1

In my experience, I’ve only called people a “bad personality” if they were an absolute dick here on reddit. Or have a story where they would have the dickest views of all
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 04:47 AM
1

Who is saying this, honestly
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 04:44 AM

Allright, not here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:16 PM

Male, the Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:34 PM

Honestly, irl, in my experience, doesn’t seem the case. But I can’t speak for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:56 PM

Who is saying that. Literally even women who I talk to do not say that. People just say things like “game” is important because you can be hot, but are afraid to talk to women and then you can not get anywhere either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:58 PM

I think the whole 80% is flawed though. You as a person probably can’t pass looks for 80% of women. But that is because you are a certain type, just like I am
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:48 PM

I still, to this day, do not get why this is not common knowledge and why people like you say it as some magical revelation How can you not know that to get into a relationship, people must find eachother attractive first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:47 PM
5

Depends, is there a good reason behind it? If no. Then yes that is definitely a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:32 PM
0

No. If the answer isn’t there, it isn’t there. And then you just assume an answer lol
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 12:50 PM
2

You only gave two options, while it may not be any of those options.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 11:07 AM
-1

What is your reason for being on this sub then? Just to “look at the zoo”?
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 07:06 AM
1

She literally answered your question though. You just did not like the answer
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 07:05 AM
-1

Is a preference racist? Transphobic? Any phobic? No, its a preference
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 12:41 PM
1

Yes I actually would say that. Certain genders have certain standard roles. Doesn’t make people products
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:09 PM
1

You as a man are stronger, so you protect. That does not mean you’re a product. Or else you could make the same argument about “men seeing women as products”
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 09:36 PM
-4

You inherently fail, because you think humans are products
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 08:58 PM
-2

Products are different than people
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 08:14 PM
1

Yes I indeed have hear women say “men are shit”. Not because they didn’t get the guy they wanted though. And certainly not “all problems are caused by ugly men”
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 06:34 PM
0

A random guy “chad” or every chad?
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 05:51 PM
0

Well it certainly still benefits men. The benefits for women are less. But still exist
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 01:41 PM
-3

They don’t. And when they do, they actually mean “women haters” not “men who can not get sex”
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 01:35 PM
3

It really did not. It is changing slowly. But still has a hold on society
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 01:04 PM
-15

They accuse violent men of being violent. Not specifically incels
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 01:04 PM
0

Yes and no at the same time. People get different benefits from it.
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 12:59 PM
-13

So when do they say “ugly men are the cause of this specifically”? Or do you just assume that?
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 12:16 PM
-23

Brother has never listened to a woman in his life
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 11:45 AM
27

I think you would be nice because you experience it yourself. Sadly that is just how the human mind works, ugly = bad
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 11:29 AM
-1

We still are in a patriarchy though? Plus, maybe we as men should raise our standards
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:24 AM
1

Best answer
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 09:23 PM
1

Exactly. So I personally do not get the anger with women on this sub. Or is it jealousy
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 11:33 AM
7

Depends, I think there is a scale (pun intended) to it. You aren’t instantly a landwhale if you are overweight for example
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 11:32 AM
1

Maybe we should up our standards collectively
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 11:25 AM
8

Thick and curvy aren’t really landwhale though…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 11:22 AM
1

The whole 63% vs 34% can have very different causes though
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 09:30 PM
2

Not what I am saying at all. Weird that you describe it that way
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 06:55 PM
4

Most if not almost all of the time, the people you describe saying that aren’t the same people
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 04:30 PM
0

Still no, or many people are actually chads. Tell me, where does your experience with women come from?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 03:30 PM
2

seems like the state is fucking him over then, very sad.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:23 PM
1

I just hope he can see the child as his own. Even when he does not have their DNA. And indeed, if that does not work, then just leave them. But do not just ignore them instantly
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:52 PM
-4

"some little brat" if you have loved and cared for this child for 5 years, then it is weird that you suddenly don't love them at all anymore. I am not shaming anyone, because if he truly doesn't love the child anymore, then its better to leave. But if he doesn't want to out of pure "not my child not my problem" then there was something wrong to begin with
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:48 PM
0

That you think that every woman always cheats is where you are already going wrong lol.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:47 PM
1

What do you mean lol. This is horrible, the woman is the villain here, while the man could do better by maybe not ignoring the child. the true victim here is going to be the child, no matter what
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:38 PM
1

why is it always people who have zero experience with women that think they know how they work exactly?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:37 PM
1

Well people are more concerned that this person just completely ignores the child suddenly, while caring deeply all those years
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:36 PM
6

Idc, maybe ppd?
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:21 PM
3

I do not think anyone, especially here, is going to randomly show their face
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:09 PM
14

We need automatic tests right in the hospital. To not let this happen. Because now you have someone who already was 5 years in the childs life as a father, while not actually being the father. The whole situation just sucks for the “dad” and for the child. Thats why I personally think that if the dad still has attachment, that he should just be with the child, if that does not work, then let it go
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:05 PM
-13

I think they do not like him because he abandoned a child that he already had a 5 year connection with
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:48 AM
0

Ok
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 08:02 AM
-1

Okay. Not in my experience but ok
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:48 PM
0

No sorry, if you are ugly, so what? Idc
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 08:07 PM
1

Yes
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 08:06 PM
0

Why would someone be tempted to though, I think you deal with childish people on a regular basis?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 03:34 PM
0

Nope
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 03:16 PM
1

I do not know you, I was talking about this sub. I do not know how you look and would probably not laugh since that would be a very, very dickish move
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 03:14 PM
0

Sub 5’s need to be looking at 5 or below
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 03:12 PM
-3

No one is laughing at you being < 4. People are laughing at you for being extremely bitter
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:45 PM
0

Okay, under 6” in the age range 16-25 then. There is no JBF pill. If you’re better, you’re just better
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:43 PM
1

Lol. So how do you explain all the people dating under 6”?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:39 PM
1

Oh college? Yeah still not a majority that sleeps with “chad”
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:38 PM
-2

Purple pill = men and women happy, because there is compromise in everthing
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:35 PM
0

I lived in your shoes for a pretty big part of my life though. And I wasn’t this bitter. But maybe that was because I still had platonic recognision then
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:07 PM
1

You are not, and if you were, okay? Idc?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 02:06 PM
0

You getting rejected is no reason to be THIS bitter. Definitely don’t go down the Elliot path
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:24 PM
1

Coping for what?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:23 PM
-1

Not being a consideration for a romantic partner, does not mean you aren’t human. And I have to agree with the other commenter, this also seems like a personality problem
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:02 PM
0

Reading comprehension is not your strongest thing huh
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 12:59 PM
2

What even does that mean “brutal cope” in this situation
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:44 AM
1

Ah now I know what you meant, yeah of course in the pure initial dating phase that is Online dating, then being attractive is going to be the biggest factor
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:40 AM
-1

50% does not think you aren’t human. This is where the problem stems. You aren’t inhuman, no one is. A couple of bullies irl or on the internet convinced you that you are, while you are not
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:33 AM
1

Because you are attractive. Maybe I understood you wrong. I thought you meant: “your looks define your personality”
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:31 AM
3

No I am not
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:17 AM
0

The message of this post went over most peoples head lol. Even the OP if you look in the comments
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:17 AM
0

It is funny that the message went that hard over your head
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:17 AM
-1

It really is not lol
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:13 AM
5

I honestly do not know what you are talking about, she literally just looks normal
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:07 AM
-4

So give your opinion with studies backing it without saying “and this is why I hate all women”
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:04 AM
2

Okay cool. Doesn’t really destroy any cope? Everyone knows about the halo effect
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 06:50 PM
1

I think attack on titan (maybe kind of a simple answer) berserk 1997, erased, monster things like that, those are more adult themes. But of course you can enjoy whatever you want
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 01:17 PM
0

How is me dating a larp though? And no. Most date longer than a month
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 11:49 AM
8

Because there are many good animes
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 10:49 AM
-1

How are there so many chads in this world? Where I am at about 50% is dating, is everyone a chad then? (Am I a chad because I date?)
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 10:00 AM
1

If she does not want to compromise anything, you are very free to drop someone.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:20 PM
1

The tallest country in the world, so I am even more out of luck if you talk about height lol
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:19 PM
1

Of course not, but this should definitely be a thing to consider, to compromise on that stuff. If she really does not want to do that, might consider dropping her
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:12 PM
1

You are taller than me, your height, or my height, is not that detrimental. Believe me. I am the shortest one of my group of friends, and have no problem at all
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:11 PM
1

I am not saying its easy, I am saying that you need this sort of conversation. If for example you provide, then she is in charge of the household. Those things need to be talked about
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:07 PM
1

How is that americanism? You need to talk this sort of thing out with your partner
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:03 PM
7

I know some autistic girls, and they are definitely not dating chads. How high is your standard to be a chad?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:02 PM
8

Honestly that autistic girls = chad only is just untrue. But if you are ugly, yeah its going to be very, very hard to find someone while being autistic
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:56 PM
1

The tactic (for just easy approaches) = go to a bar or club with friends, mingle your group with a women group, profit
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:54 PM
2

I hope so too🤙🏻
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:53 PM
2

Guess I am short then. She does not care though, might’ve found a unicorn then
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:21 PM
0

Nah, anything that is not “taller” than women is short to women
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:09 PM
0

Damn, you need to work on that brother
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:54 PM
-1

“Soy cuck” says the blackpiller
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 01:54 PM
7

How do you go from “some women like to look at some of the idioting takes on this sub” to “their husbands are boring”
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:33 AM
3

You gave no hints, you only said things like “disney” or “why do you think women” I think you have a clear reason, you just are too afraid to tell the world
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 09:28 AM
2

WDC? I mean yeah if it is just a preference then say that. Idk why you had to loop around the question so muxh
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:58 AM
2

Sub5 women still get to reproduce. As a result, there will always be inkwells. You imply it right here
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:50 AM
6

Why can you not just answer the question? Is it really that hard to answer. You answer first because you haven’t done that. Then I am open to answer all your burning questions
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:50 AM
2

Why can you not just answer the question. I mean, if it is just even a preference of “I just like that” then thats okay. But I just want to know the reason
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:38 AM
1

That sub5 males do not have kids, only sub5 women do
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:37 AM
1

I do not know what that reason is, I am just genuinely curious. What is the reason you want a virgin specifically?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:30 AM
3

Nah bro, if you repent, you can get forgiven
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:29 AM
0

No but seriously, just go into a random wallmart and you’re already proven wrong
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:29 AM
2

If jumping to conclusions was an olympic sport, you’d be a gold medalist
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:28 AM
1

Literally look at backwater america and then you already see “sub5” males with children
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:27 AM
1

And what is the reason behind it?
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:12 AM
0

Nah because God forgives if you repent
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 08:11 AM
1

So they probably weren’t hard, thats whats called “playfighting”
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:53 PM
3

I think they’re just clowning on you for making dehumanizing statements
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:33 PM
0

Its real simple, was it hard hits, yes or no?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 09:32 PM
1

Okay so what you’re saying is, someone (chad) gave a girl an uppercut and she’d just play it off? Because you really need to look at the severity of the hitting
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 08:48 PM
1

Oh you mean playful, not in an assault kinda way. Also really, chad dynamics in middle school?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 08:21 PM
2

Hitting them or hitting on them?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 08:12 PM
2

Read in on it in the Quran. Nothing before marriage etc. Love is purer that way
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:35 PM
1

Sorry, those are just the texts…
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:34 PM
1

Everybody but probably you too since you are more than likely still in that system
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:20 PM
1

Because you do not do love in the way God intended
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 07:08 PM
2

This is why you need to vet like a mofo
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:54 PM
1

I have literally seen this a couple of times. And that is in a bad marriage regardless. For all that matters, you hear it way more from the mans side
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:41 PM
2

With “actually like you” I also mean your appearance
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:40 PM
2

Yeah I respect your opinion, was just asking👍
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:32 PM
1

Do you really get the satisfaction from someone actually liking you though?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:25 PM
3

That can be your opinion, I do think it is way more fun to have sex with someone that actually likes you
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:23 PM
1

Would make you even less valueable
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:22 PM
1

Ah okay. So some wifes do not like their husband and that means all wifes do not like their husband.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:20 PM
4

However, what is the fun in having to pay for sex?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:15 PM
1

1000 comments in a day does not sound like a hobby
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:14 PM
2

Feelings of course
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:08 PM
1

I think the problem is they don’t like you
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 06:08 PM

I always think its weird that “people peak at 18” while most people look way better just a couple years later
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:32 PM
2

No, it is not okay, not misogyny and not misandry. But irl you are probably, even most likely, not going to get treated bad
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 02:30 PM
1

Old women know how to deal with the situation of absolutely unpredictable drunk guys, and these guys will probably not do anything to them. To younger women though, who also do not have much experience….
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 02:26 PM
0

I mean, being a simp isn’t necessarily being a cuck. And I think you mean simp = absolute doormat, right? Someone who would just do everything for a person while not getting anything back.
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 02:21 PM
1

Onlyfans whores pulling the strings? What?
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 02:18 PM
0

Depends, are you always treated like you’re evil? Or treated like the worst? Or is that just what you read on the internet
/r/AllPillDebate02/09/23 02:14 PM
2

So what is the answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:32 PM
2

Most of the time, the process isn’t flawed. The intention speaks for itself and is better than just not going at all and just sitting there with your problems. Venting, complaining and letting go is all part of therapy, because for some reason that is easier to your professional therapist and might unlock hidden memories etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:25 PM
2

Some problems just need professional help. Need outsider perspective etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:19 PM
2

Intention goes a long way and mostly goes hand in hand with effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:19 PM
1

Weird lizard brain that you would chose someone fucked over a 100 times in the ass above 2 times fucked in the vagina. But lizard brain is lizard brain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:18 PM
3

Isn’t it actually a green flag? That they’re working on themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:12 PM
-3

Women: if they are a 5, then they’ll do 5 and above Men: if they are a 5, then they’ll do 3 or 4 and above
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 07:02 PM
0

All those anecdotes are not the “80/20 rule” because the 80/20 rule implies that 80 percent of the women find the same 20 percent of men attractive. While those anecdotes do not prove that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:42 PM
1

How can a father figure be a father figure if they aren’t present in the childs life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:32 AM
1

So in order to be a real chad, you cannot want to be a father figure?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:20 AM
1

If you truly want to go your own way, why keep hanging onto what hurt you the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:30 AM
1

But what if chad wants to raise kids though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:25 AM
2

Lol. Nah I think being attractive and funny is enough bruv
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:18 AM

Is that really your average club experience? Must be sad
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:38 AM
0

Or to dance, have fun with friends, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:13 PM
4

I think this whole post is a parody on what many men on here say…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:33 AM

Its a weird comparison to make, especially since income difference isn’t the biggest factor for divorce in a long run
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:48 PM

Lying is a sin
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:48 PM

Nah, flat earth isn’t possible. The other definitely is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 04:44 PM

Lol. What I can gather is that you don’t mind talking about men as a monolith, but when it happens to women, its the end of the world. No, you see so many men complain that they can not even get a single date out of ANYONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:13 PM

Wow I thought we were done talking about monoliths? They do not necessarily deserve it, but it is a problem that you assume they don’t Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:02 PM

I meant “half of them are true” if I wasn’t clear enough, I did not mean half truths. And no, I was not talking about “not getting their dick wet” I was talking about for example you not acknowledging that “many men never find love, especially now” is not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:25 PM

Max 3 dates for intimacy has always been my rule, and that seems way more reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:14 PM

Half of it is true, you just don’t want to acknowledge ANY problem a man has ever. We all know that because we all can see you on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:10 PM

You know that averages are a thing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:52 PM

I do not see you talking like this under a more upvoted comment or this whole post which uses the exact same argument
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 10:19 AM

Did you just randomly walk over to a woman? Or did she just look into your direction a couple of times?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:14 PM

Username checks out every time with these type of posts
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:07 PM
1

I would not do it if she asks me, I would do it at my own tempo, I decide
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:10 PM
9

This holds true for EVERY group ever
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:51 AM
9

Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average? No, because I still think a lot of people marry out of love (or at least love in that moment) The reason why Women initiate the vast majority of divorces is because they will usually end up left in better financial position then their partner. Simply put Men usually have more to loss in terms of finances and assets than women do. Got any statistics or anything at all to back it up? Because when I searched …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:16 PM
3

Traditionalism can be jewish values, hindu values, islamic values etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:38 AM
1

TRP borrowed from traditionalism or abrahamic religion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:48 AM
2

I think I know my mates better than you. And have seen situations where the woman is clearly into them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:53 PM
2

Nope, they really just need to switch up their mindset, I did it once too, and it worked wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:31 PM
1

I and many people have done it many times. And that wasn’t the reason for two of my friends to not approach
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:31 PM
2

Not reality, because what I saw, is women literally throwing themselves at at least one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:23 PM
0

And that reason is scared of rejection, while that would certainly not happen as I have seen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:28 PM
0

No. Only ones I know who are “unsuccessful” are because they do not try
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 05:07 PM
1

Pencil dick is a real problem though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:24 PM
0

I am not saying they need to compensate, I am saying that there are many factors contributing to it. Just like a woman having a tighter vagina isn’t everything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 09:01 AM
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Okay, every girl I’m with does want it, doesn’t matter when. Its cringe that you think no one wants it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:36 AM
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Not really though. Because there are things like “too big” and the way you use your dick. You are going to out compete someone with a 7 incher every time if you have better foreplay, stamina, motion, know right angles etc. (And thickness is the most important part)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:29 AM

If the 30 year old man is inexperienced in life, maybe you got an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:28 PM
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There are many women who have had some hookups in college and university, think about 2/3 or 4. Many have zero too, and some have 10+. But indeed, like attracts like. But from over hearing conversations and talking to female friends, most have some hookups, some are many hookups, and some are zero
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 07:19 AM

It does not, since it isn’t a gamble
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:21 PM

That is exactly what “pill theory” is going to do, you will not get less depressed from learning pill theory
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:13 PM

And then explode randomly one day like a real man😤
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:08 PM

Pill theory is only making it worse, so no, not the next best thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:07 PM

Some rp men really need to go to therapy though. No, it won’t make you less masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:02 PM

No? And no one would think that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 08:01 PM

Then you probably wont interact
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:52 PM

Even groceries?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:41 PM

You’re not interacting with a female cashier?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:39 PM

Under 30? Well statistically they’re not even out of high school. No but without joking, they’re probably: working or school, go to some parties and bars, do sports or gym, probably have a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:32 PM

Is this still about the headphone incident of about a week ago
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:30 PM

I have never heard the first statement that it is “pedophilic”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:29 PM
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Those two statistics don’t add up to the right conclusion though. Since every woman has different standards
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:28 PM

This is a whole lot of assuming you’re doing, change the setting and suddenly its different
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:53 PM
1

Its always you posting the “I can not spot social queue huh”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:23 PM

Lazy: not giving any attention to your girl, not trying etc. Stingy; I think this speaks for itself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:12 PM

Yeahhh.. no this wont happen
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:10 PM
4

Are these your standards OP? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:55 AM
4

Or… most men want to raise kids together just like most women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:32 AM
4

Honestly I would turn it down, and I know many who would.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 07:34 AM

What is wrong with it though🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:54 PM

Why is it cringe though🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:52 PM
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You can know most of the time what your partners outlook is on you by the way they treat you. Just one thing. Most of the things you did differently. Aren’t really DT. They are just you respecting yourself. It isn’t DT to not be a doormat, it isn’t DT to split the bill. And it isn’t DT to put yourself first in the beginning stages and dating stages
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:35 PM
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Sort of? But its different, it isn’t monetary. Its emotional, sexual, etc. And every person is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:17 PM
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And plenty of women also think they have a deep connection while their husbands are cheating. Whats your point? Some deep connections aren’t that deep. And many actually are. And there are also good people out there where their women wouldn’t think twice about anyone except their partner. The deeper connection is the one which is a deeper connection for BOTH of the partners. Not one u healthy obsession on one side. Yes indeed, a healthy connection is that you both feel the same about eachother. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:17 PM
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It really is though. Because relationships are not “getting money”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:32 PM
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If they are happy with it, then yes But it is kind of a false equivalence you’re giving us here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:44 PM
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A genuine deep connection really isn’t made up nonsense. You can have it with your partner, family, friends etc. You break down relationships not in the most basic things, but in the most depressing/DT things. But okay. I see you really want to be DT. Do your thing. For some it works I guess? For others, it does not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:43 PM
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Could you send me a link, instead of an image? But yes I do find it rather weird that so many people do actually end up with people and that 95/5 gets increased everytime it is mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:40 PM
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Genuinely good guys probably do not care and are not interested in what you find interesting though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:38 PM
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So it gets in the way of genuine deep connection… Like the commenter already said
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:22 PM
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The funny thing about the genuinely good guys in this world is, that they do not give a fuck about what a random redpiller has to say about DT. And I think that is great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:22 PM
2

Tinder did not show those statistics. I think you’re confusing them with the okcupid study. For the record, I actually know people from a chess club. Still had matches on tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 11:36 AM
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I am a man. Who is friends with many men. Who are on tinder. To say that only 5% of guys get a chance is a lie. The whole 95/5 statistic is an exaggeration from the 80/20 statistic, which is from a study with only 28 participants
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:06 AM
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Why do you want to prove the redpill to people? Just do you. And leave others alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:09 AM
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But I mean, about any man I meet. Or actually the 95/5 stat is complete bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:05 AM
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Damn, why do I know so many men in the top 5% then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:59 AM

Have you yourself ever been to a nightclub?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:22 PM

Either white or Mediterranean. But its the same
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:17 AM

This is in this sub at least: Most men who want to have side chicks, could never get them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:57 AM
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For both situation. It is just better to disclose these things in the beginning of the relationship. But there is nothing wrong with doing it later and nothing wrong with not wanting to accept it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:55 AM
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You say it isn’t real. But those things you describe make it real. Causes are very relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:24 AM
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You do not think the feeling of love exists? That someone bakes you cookies because she just wants to do that for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:15 AM
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“Blackpill” Yeah taking advice from you keeps you in the shittest phase of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:30 PM
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Most of the examples you give are not “influences by trends” just like it isn’t “approval of other women”. And I see you scream “no whataboutism” in the thread. But you do NOT have a point when we men do the EXACT same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:34 AM

So indeed, would it drop if it did not count as DV anymore lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:22 AM
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Never heard of “just being nice” or “just doing good” Not everything has to have an instant reward
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 08:16 AM
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Lol. Yeah because totally every woman gets pregnant by accident. I just think you want to find an excuse to be an asshole to random people on the street. You do know that that does not bring you far in life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:03 PM
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Abd after all that, pregnant women are still special. And no, not every woman thinks she is “an angel on earth”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:14 PM
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Literally if it is just a woman, then its fine. But a pregnant women actually is special, and you should help them if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:10 PM
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L take, are you going to say the same about someone who has a broken leg? “Do you think you’re special because you broke your leg” lol, have some decency
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:01 PM
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(That is all he cares about)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 12:48 PM
0

“Netted significant female attention” could mean many things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:09 AM
0

You think John Wayne Gacy got many love letters?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:33 AM
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Weird you say this, because it is mostly a rarity. Most bullies I’ve known, had zero game, and got zero girls. The popular guys got more girls
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:31 AM
3

Its the same zone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:32 AM
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Both of them. Its a parasite on both sides. So yeah. That would be disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:19 PM
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Just have her own life, not exploiting others, being able to actually function in society and not just sugar
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:57 PM
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Stop basing your reality on fiction
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:14 PM
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Honestly, part of it is health. Me speaking as a man. Part of it is definitely if she is healthy or not. And too skinny or too fat is already a very good indicator
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:11 PM
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I think part of it is health, and the other part is aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:41 PM
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It is just true that some women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:20 AM
1

So you just never trust a woman? Is that the golden rule for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:15 AM
0

Nah that land whale was something different💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:03 AM
2

I have seen many on that show that no one would touch with a 5 ft pole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 11:00 AM
2

Cool that you assumed something that is actually wrong. But that does not matter. If those things are the ones that go popular, than that clearly paints a picture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:47 AM
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Cool that you assumed something that is actually wrong. But that does not matter. If those things are the ones that go popular, than that clearly paints a picture
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:46 AM
7

Hate does not have to mean “I want to kill them constantly”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:45 AM
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Most women they keep. Only if they do shit that could negatively impact them , then they ask for them to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:35 AM
8

Childish hate is still hate
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:33 AM
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To absolutely rant on them. Show your followers “look, hate them too”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:26 AM
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They invite women, so they can absolutely rant on them…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:23 AM
1

Why do I have a feeling that men approach such a car more. Because it is a really awesome car ngl. Old muscles have a soft spot for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:13 PM
1

So you need to vet good. You need to be with her BEFORE you get rich
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:07 PM
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Yes because that is what I said in the comment the first time. You do you, but don’t cheat. Make rules clear, do not lie to people. And some people can have all that fame, and be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:25 AM
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It is definitely about values. You have yours, I have mine. My principles stand above my “wiring”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:50 AM
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Because people have different values. If I would turn that rich right now. I would not change, because I already have a partner. Maybe I would if I did not have my partner, but knowing myself, probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:36 AM
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Yeah if you want to do that, go for it. I’m just saying that you can have all the lambo’s and bottles and still be monogamous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:15 AM
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It really is not difficult to not cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:35 PM
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I think you can have all the lambo’s and bottles in the club and still be monogamous. It is just entirely up to you what kind of relationship you value more
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 07:56 AM
1

Get more love does not mean unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:07 PM
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Attractiveness is not a measurement of “being loved unconditionally”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:41 PM
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It is the default, so it is a lot more common than no conditional love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:45 PM
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I see so many people where parents love their child unconditionally. That is the actual real world we live in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:28 PM
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Most parents do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 01:19 PM
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They are, kind of. But that does not mean that it is not “real love”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:29 PM
1

You just need to be confident and then you’ll already be seen as a badboy by your general blackpiller
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:23 PM
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I do not agree with that. Unconditional love only happens between parents and children. All other forms of love is work. You can not just do nothing and expect people to unconditionally love you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:06 PM
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I do not think most of these “bad guys” are actually bad guys. That many are just as inexperienced as she is. Or that your average shut in redditor complainer percieves one joke as “oh now he is a bad guy”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 12:05 PM
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Relationships still have love, it is just not unconditional. What you are feeling, everything you do, is still love.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:59 AM

Please, is that all?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:12 PM

A bf? But yeah the point is that chad does not have these magic powers and can’t just sexually harras women and get away with it. What I do have to say. Is the more interested someone is in you, the more you can get away with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:14 PM

Okay. Seems like something you don’t have to be a chad for to happen though. Especially a bar. Also, i have a very hard time believing it was “a minute in”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:07 PM

So, first meet. Is that. “The same night” or, hey I just met you boop
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:48 PM

Yes I see. But seriously, what is “not being treated as human” on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:35 PM

“Chad can grab a nipple on first meet” No, he can not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:30 PM

How do you not get treated as human, but still get a date with a model?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:28 PM
8

Just because a country doesn’t like gay people, does not mean they are “traditional”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 03:52 PM
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I think the average guy gets rejected, just not constantly. I think they can dream of their “I’m going to fuck everyone” fantasy, but that is just not reality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:55 AM
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But no, not 100 % of the women would try it out in the first place…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:06 AM
2

Most men, even nowadays, can get in relationships. If you truly stay single constantly, then you probably aren’t as average as you thought
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:04 AM
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I don’t think you have any idea what an average guys life is. Because you are talking like they are sub human. Which clearly is not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:03 AM
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Yea, most normal guys will find someone, sorry to break it to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:02 PM
0

No you will not. And you’ll just have to accept that. Life is not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:45 PM
3

You don’t come off as clingy if you do it in a relationship. Not at all. You come off as loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:09 PM
1

Because of men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:21 PM
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So saying “I love you” Buying things Give her sweet compliments Is all going to turn her off? Is that what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:50 PM
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Even “normal guys” will still find someone “normal” though…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:43 PM
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To say women are attracted to “extreme confidence” is a stretch. Just like its a stretch to say that women are turned off by agreeableness, niceness, transparency and communication. You do not hace to be “extremely confident” And for the turn off parts, she does not like a doormat, fake “niceness” etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:17 PM
7

I believe that if I would treat my partner like shit. That she’d end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:01 PM
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You mean to tell me women want evil people who treat them like shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:48 PM
1

Yeah, we started that. Men have always been the ones to go to war. To say we’re disposable though? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:31 PM
1

It matters greatly, we made ourself “disposable” in that regard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:11 PM
1

It was men who came up with it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:32 PM
1

And who do you think came up with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:53 PM
2

So why are you blaming women for it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:20 PM
4

Then why, at every rebuttal, you just say “you’re lying”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:20 PM

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:53 AM
2

I thought the last time I saw those statistics is that they have changed for both genders, just more for men than for women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:51 AM
1

And who’s fault is that then? Think about that real hard
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:39 AM
2

Imagine think this💀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:38 AM
4

You flagged this as a CMV but you don’t want your views changed. You just want that one comment to confirm what you think and then you’ll be content
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:36 AM
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You can date without having most of these present. And it will still work out. Yeah you might not be the best, but to say “it is not worth it” is just flat out wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 09:16 AM
3

Yes it is. What you can get is your league, if you can not accept that. Thats your own problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:23 PM
2

Your league is what you can get. It is just that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:06 AM
1

You can open up, just don’t open up about stupid things or have a complete breakdown over nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:51 AM
3

I think what you just did, is an explanation ( just a partial one) on what love is. So it exists, it is just always described way too simply
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:51 PM
1

Well yeah. If you don’t vet. You’re going to keep being pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:22 PM
1

Then its her fault entirely. Now however, not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:15 PM
3

Exactly. Looks always first
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:38 PM
5

Most of the time, looks will trump status and money. Because if you have the latter two, she isn’t attracted to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:35 PM
1

“Hey, how were your pasts adventures. What did you do during your “hoe” phase”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:33 PM
1

And then it IS her fault. If he comes by the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:31 PM
2

He really should’ve just asked this thing earlier in the relationship… vet your women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:34 PM
2

This is bad for men and women alltogether. If the roles are switched its the same bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:50 AM
1

It honestly doesn’t matter. For women it will be just as much of an ego damage because you’ve found someone who is most likely more attractive than them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:34 PM
0

That last sentence was just put there to spite the commenter before you huh? I mean, it is true, but it has nothing to do with what you just said
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:30 PM
1

Its just his cannon event. No worries
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:28 PM
0

And that would still mean going behind someones back and lying to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:28 PM
1

And thats why men like you always end up hurt. If your standards are just “be hot” then do not expect to get far
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:19 PM
1

It really does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:17 PM
2

For fucking not, but for relationships? Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:16 PM
3

I have honestly only ever seen it online like that. irl most people are a lot more humble
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:14 PM

Always that scary chad huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 11:58 AM
-2

Yeahhhh. No. Woman exclusive is just different than men exlusive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:03 AM
0

My friend? Huh? Who are you talking about here? The man clearly does not have substance, because they wouldn’t get friendzoned if they did
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 09:09 AM
7

That is literally fuckzoning. Just like friendzoning is a man that tries to date out of there league and doesn’t have the substancr.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:49 AM
9

She was clearly in the fuckzone. Only fuck no relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:48 AM
2

And why do you think that lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:06 PM
2

Very
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 07:30 PM
8

Nah man. Still going strong. I’ve found her and not letting go. “Plastic horns” should’ve fallen a long time ago lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:07 PM
2

I honestly don’t really get your sentence here?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:50 AM
5

Already found one. Not really that challenging
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:49 AM
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I think it is a pretty good filter though. If you are truly like that, wanting good intention etc. And many women are put off by it, then they’re not for you and not worth your time. But if someone sticks, you know you have found a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:02 AM
1

Wow, I’ve met more mature women from ages 20 to 24. Crazy world we live in I am honestly starting to think that it is millenials who are completely fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:00 AM
1

So it was exactly for you as I said. It was just temporary but it did happen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:43 AM

I believe that from those 6/10, maybe 1/20 is single not by choice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:24 AM

6/10 and 3/10 women are single by choice. In those years. Big numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:20 AM
0

“If one failed to sleep with someone, but later did sleep with someone elsse, it builds confidence”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:46 AM
3

“African sex tourism” “Cuba” What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:36 AM
1

Based of statistics, men are just a percentile higher likely to be fat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:35 AM

I think most people would disagree with this. Men and women. Because 1/50 is still a big enough chance. Thats like saying “one in fifty men will be designated to work forever in mines”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:19 AM

Honestly if someone thinks men have high standards, they’re probably delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:17 AM

He literally shows that he is changing. Idk why you think this is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:31 PM
1

Yes, it is hypocritical. Even if women are the “gatekeepers of sex” Just like it is hypocritical for women to be fuck ugly but still want a beautifull partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 05:43 PM
5

No, the financial abortion is the better decision. You can not force people to give birth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:46 PM
5

Can you link those statistics? Because last time I checked, it was about equal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:24 AM
7

I have been on this sub for a while now. And literally no one besides maybe 1 “loves being a ho” on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:57 AM
7

End it then. I just say respect you fellow human while you want to go on some cringe nerd “revenge” story because now you got abs or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:49 AM
13

Check out every rap song ever about “hoes” “bitches” etc. Same shit. Talking about the frontline? About not going out? Bruh I go out constantly what are you talking about. “You survive” nah it is just life
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:46 AM
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It isn’t okay for women to disrespect men. No one is saying that Ever heard of being the bigger and better person? Don’t be petty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:29 AM
8

Just because the women in you past didn’t treat you with respect, doesn’t mean you now get to disrespect all women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:47 AM

You really need their age though. Because married in 2002 can mean dating in 2000
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:37 PM

Married in the early 2000s does not mean you started dating in 90s and 80s. Because you don’t know the age. We do know yours. And times change fast these days. The landscape is vastly different now than almost 15 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:07 PM

I swear women have the randomest extreme icks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:04 PM

Those two aren’t necessarily related though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:03 PM

Brother should you speak on modern dating though? You were 10 in 2002 You are going mid 30’s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:01 PM

What did they reveal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:42 PM

And once again, u/Johnny_Autism proves his username suits him very well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:02 PM
10

I think the main problem isn’t that people have those standards, because they are very logical to have. But the way they go about these standards (calling everyone a whore if they don’t live up to those standards)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:36 AM

I don’t cope. I throw away if she doesn’t put the same amount of energy and work into the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:25 PM

Time and place
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:09 PM
9

As a man, in my experience women with degrees are often far more high quality than women who just “focus on appearance”. Men should rethink this one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:55 PM

Another exception, great!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:41 PM

Yes, and in most cases, absent fathers isn’t a good thing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 09:38 PM

Of course they exist, but you act as if it is the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 08:37 PM
1

Exceptions exist, like the ones you are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:16 PM
2

You seem to be dodging the question, why do you have a problem with one, and not the other. And why do you think that “both unequal” is better than “both equal”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:11 PM
2

Okay so why do you have such a problem with one, but not with the other? (Thats a really weak answer you have then, you have no actual opinion on it? Just, “the states decide”?)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:57 PM
3

No I am asking YOUR opinion on it specifically. Or is your opinion “idgaf”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:51 PM
3

So I guess you’d say that you don’t support abortions then either?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:05 PM
3

Man you don’t even support men being able to opt out of child support if they don’t want the child but the woman does
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:12 PM
6

That love mostly is a feeling. That if you want to find love, you compromise etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:04 PM
1

No father figure can be very bad and causes for all these problems you listed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:24 PM
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Because not everything in love is about transactional qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:47 PM

You don’t even really need to cover up that much. Some people just take things to the extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:28 PM

Sad that you can’t actually just admit you’re wrong. But turn to insulting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:34 PM

It is literally what you implying. That cheating is consensual, just not things like diseases
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 01:03 PM

L take
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:58 PM

I didn’t say you said it. Just that many on this sub justify it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:37 AM

Again, you imply that cheating is consensual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:18 AM

What a thoughtfull response of you. I am glad you can agree with me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:50 AM

Because cheating is consensual? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:48 AM

I don’t care if something is a bit worse or not. Cheating is bad, no matter which gender
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:48 AM

You see people on this sub constantly defending cheating for men “because its different”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:46 AM
2

The dog can’t fullfill that role, it isn’t a fleshed out human
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:40 AM
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Well yeah, technically she was right. But she still needs you for your emotional support and companionship, just like vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:15 AM
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Men aren’t needed in a “well she can do everything he can” way. Men aren’t needed anymore to provide for example. But that doesn’t mean men aren’t needed from an emotional perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:55 AM
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Well first of the obvious, child making. Second of, yes, the connection of love. Some people on here keep saying its the same as friendships etc. But it really is not. It so much more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:32 AM
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We need eachother. Connection through love is so much different than your friends or family. Its that final piece of the puzzle that makes you complete
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:22 AM
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No. You just don’t want to admit that things like that maybe aren’t as detrimental as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:24 PM

And your beliefs changed? What I’m seeing is that most people have normal standards. But for some reason it looks like people believe the manosphere podcasts over actual real life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:23 PM
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L take. It is hypocritical because you can say the boyfriend WILL step to the girls who are more beautiful than the girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:26 AM
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I think you already know its hypocritical. You switched the situation around yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:25 AM

Exactly, all these men complaining about “the western woman” either only sees low inhibition, uneducated women. Or has all their experience from manosphere podcasts
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:19 PM

Idk man, not my experience with western women at all. Only with the low educated ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:01 PM
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/s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:02 AM

People need to do whatever the fuck they want. If they want to judge you on the amount of bodies you’ve had. Let them, its their standard. And in turn you could just not give a fuck about it either
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:19 AM

Isn’t that the most free you can be? Not giving a fuck about your own smv (which in turn ups your smv)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:01 AM

Honestly, I don’t even understand what the madonna whore complex is anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:17 AM

Well if its about 3 in a day thats still going to take a long time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:26 AM

Who knows. Just keep going to that 10000
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:34 AM

Yeah… but you want people to hang out witth you. Not your dog..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:15 AM

I’m just wondering how you ask for their number? In a joking way, way too serious or?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:14 AM

But with benefits, as they say
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:25 PM

Maybe you’ll spot them eventually after so many tries. They know you’re face around here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:13 PM

Always good to just worsen their days just a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:07 PM

Nahw sad. I guess just keep trying. Its a numbers game lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:05 PM

Yea because men also don’t do it. If you want to quote any study, you can’t just assume everyone is always lying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:04 PM

What friends they are. One minute you’re just playing a casual game of cards, the next they’re sucking your dick. Terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:01 PM

And now try for the other 97 times. Also, how long were the convo’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:53 PM

If you just assume that anyone always lies. Than you can just think of anything. “Well women actually lie about having more casual sex so actually they have none”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:47 PM

If you think that, you may. But it is not what the facts say. Just because you feel as if women fuck more casually because you keep seeing toxic culture on tiktok, doesn’t mean it is actually happening
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:44 PM

Casual sex as in casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:43 PM

Literal stats prove you wrong. Hypergamy doesn’t mean that your average guy can’t have casual sex lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:05 PM

Women have casual sex. Just not as much as men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:05 PM

No, because it was just “men have more casual sex in general”. More men reported having casual sex than women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 08:04 PM

No. It is just that on average. Men have more casual sex. The average men has more casual sex, that you don’t experience it, must mean you are below average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:50 PM

So. That means there is even a bigger chance that the average men have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:46 PM

Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:42 PM

Most stats say that men have more casual sex than women. So there are either many average men who do have casual sex. Or what you think average men are, are below average
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:42 PM

Lol, if you think this is white knighting, you’ve got to learn something. I just think it is incredibly ironic of you. (And yes you technically strive for harems lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 05:56 PM

It is very ironic. Because of course someone who thinks they’re below average is going to want harems. Its just the ultimate stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:56 PM

It is kind of ironic that you’re always preaching “open relationships for the dudes and closed for the women” While being below average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:12 PM
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I am not a dick. It is just that if you want an answer, ask the right question. “How often do average guys have sex” can be 7 times a week in a relationship. But why is that something you don’t want to hear?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:47 PM
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Well don’t put it as “how often does an average man have sex” Because that is not really your question
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:30 PM
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Oh okay, because the average man will get sex. And it even can be plenty. It just comes from relationships. Idk why you say “not a commited relationship” because that is where people are going to get the most sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:55 PM
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Do you mean sex in general or sex with different partners
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:42 PM
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I wouldn’t say it is normal for most women. I think it is more common for them. But when you look at actual statistics, you’d find that more men have casual sex than women so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:34 PM

💀
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:02 PM

I also just dislike the tiktok in general. It seems far from the truth of what I’ve experienced in the Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:44 PM

Average? Thats below average lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:39 PM

Its just a dick move, but not misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:19 PM

Based fourth girl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 07:26 PM
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This is just the truth. Because you can improve on so, so many levels
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:32 PM
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For you its already very easy. Please try to look at yourself as human
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:32 PM

Such an L take under a good statement
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:24 PM
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It is very rare that you aren’t able to even improve your own situation a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:20 PM
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Okay if you look at it like that. Then yes😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:19 PM
3

L take, even statistics disprove this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:51 PM
1

If you want to see change, make change
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:49 PM

Great directions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:49 PM

Where though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:19 PM

Okay, which definition would you use for “need” in this context
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:14 PM

Where did you get that great lesson from lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:08 PM

As a man, I can still say it isn’t a need. Its a want, it’s something that you hopefully can get. But it is not a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:08 PM
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“I am doing absolutely nothing to better my situation but I am still going to complain about my situation” Yeah you are allowed, it is just extremely stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:05 PM

Looks 32, is 32
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:00 PM

I think they quite fit, both around a 6,5/7
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:54 PM

Again, do you think that is how it works? Or do you think it is “a man provides, a woman cares for the rest” or even “both work, both do the work they need to do”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:03 PM

You think normal relationships have such a dynamic? A woman bleeding the husband dry?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:50 PM

The Tate way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:36 PM
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Touch grass is of course more used as an insult than as something to actually do. But it also just means “go out into the real world, and experience it, instead of the internet world only”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:33 PM

Oh idk if it worked? I guess I have the looks, the rest, not really. Just godly rizz😎
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:59 PM

The dude could have just froze, because that is also a response to threats. It is certainly not ideal, and it will trigger icks. But it is human. You just need to asses the situation well
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:57 PM

What is “LMS”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:45 PM
0

Sometimes it is really what you need to hear though. It helped me at least
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:39 PM
6

I have seen some. But the tell mostly is “I am an 7/8 but I still can’t get with anyone” Bud you are probably not a 7 or 8 then
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:04 PM
2

Men AND women seem to overrate their own appearances constantly. They do it both, and it seems to be around an equal amount
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:46 PM
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Yes, that has everything to do with algorithms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:41 PM
2

On this sub, many men seem to overrate themselves heavily. Irl, many women seem to overrate themselves heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:40 PM
6

But a “bit of fat” doesn’t mean overweight or obese
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:33 PM
2

So approaching isn’t a thing anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:07 PM
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A friend of mine had a girl who had a male housemate. Turns out those two were sharing the bed and watching movies together. My mate broke it off when he heard that. But we never figured if she also fucked the housemate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:29 PM
2

Oh wait I already see, that all happened in 3 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:37 PM
2

And in which timeframe?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:34 PM
1

Are you in LTR’s or only there for something casual
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:31 PM

https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-mating-game/202004/gender-differences-in-casual-sex Every statistic I found saw that men have more casual sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:05 PM
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Aha, so there is some kind of transaction between them. Also, I don’t get guys like that, he gets sad that one of the women he really fancied broke it off with him, why not just be with her then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:08 AM
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Yeah but that wouldn’t be polygamy or a relationship though, right? That is just fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:01 AM
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But thats the thing, you don’t have to change yourself for a woman. Yeah if you are a total loser maybe, but that holds true for women too. If you vet right, the woman will either love or accept your hobbies etc. Personality and looks have to be loved though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:17 AM
1

Well. Your woman has to agree to it, and there aren’t many who do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:13 AM
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Yeah, here. I constantly see men talking about how you HAVE to change as a man and to never show your true self.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:08 AM
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Huh, I’ve seen the exact opposite being said hete by women. And that men most of the time say what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:51 AM
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I mean, if it will work for you then congrats. But most guys either aren’t able to do this, or don’t want it (ai am in the second category) and for women this is true as well. Also, consent is very important in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:37 AM
1

But then the question becomes, is that because of the biases in this sub, or is it like that in the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:31 AM
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There are always going to be legions of desperate men who’d drop everything for a crumb of pussy. Its not going to change
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 07:27 AM

Its of course a try to get a “gotcha” answer. Its the same thing as the whole “woman didn’t immediately wanted to have sex with me, but with others she did”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 09:22 AM

And I say that isn’t the truth. Of course there are men that do that, and there are also men that don’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:48 PM

Well I haven’t done polygamy. Because I don’t believe it should be the standard
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:17 PM

Okay so you have not, that figures lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:18 PM

Hey let me ask you something, did it work for you yet? Have you bagged one yet that lets you sleep with everyone while she stays?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 06:06 PM

You see some ugly mf’s in that scene though. Most beautiful people seem to do fine with 1 partner
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:44 PM

Thats the best take. consent If you do it behind their backs, then you’re a dick to the max
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 05:29 PM
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You see so many people on this sub that think exactly that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:43 AM
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What about just saying these things when you start a relationship. You can’t just assume that one thing makes you able to do the other. If she has an onlyfans and you don’t want that, don’t date her. If she has an onlyfans and you want to fuck random chicks, just compromise in that or don’t date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 07:46 AM

Idk, I’ve seen the exact opposite happen. I guess its maybe a matter of perspective or location
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:02 PM

You post on reddit. You don’t have that status
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:38 PM
1

But isn’t that a warm approach? Or a “lukewarm” approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:14 AM
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I think dating apps can be a confidence boost for men in the right circumstances. It certainly was for me and certainly also helped in the real world. But another thing which may be a bit dumb. Can you give an example of a good cold approach because I don’t really get them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:53 AM

All those examples are choices. Some more than others but still choices non the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 10:42 AM

Why though. Why don’t men have to control it, but women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:02 PM

Having standards is misandry or misogyny now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:58 PM
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Nah bro. This is just holding people accountable. Why would you stay if she is shitty. I know for a fact that I left the moment a woman was just “true bitch”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:52 PM

They indeed are not. But for both situations, one is going to think it sucks. In that way they are the same. Just don’t intentionally try to hurt your partner and then its all good
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:41 PM

You mean it doesn’t suck for both? Huh? At least try in your answer so I can see what you’re talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:33 PM
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No. That is saying “men, if you don’t want it, leave”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:27 PM

Can you comment again what you commented? For some reason it won’t show up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:26 PM

Is very easy. You can be a great human being, just almost perfect. But you can be duck ugly, elephant man levels. It does not lower you value as a human imho though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:15 PM
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Where. In this whole comment. Do you see the commenter say “womens flaws are mans fault”. No, what you see is “why stay with her then?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:09 PM

Of course its not the same, but it has the same implications. For either it sucks if the other does it. Better of to not do it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:00 PM
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Yeah but these aren’t really “facts”. These are just your own opinions that you think is a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:16 PM

Nah because there are plenty of women who have more conservative opinions without saying stupid shit like “yea i’ll let my man cheat on me whenever”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 07:06 PM

Pearl is a different case though. She is genuinely a true pick-me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 05:38 PM
1

Man your username is almost right. It should be “con_man” with the fake stories you parrot here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:14 PM
0

Except men are honest about it whereas women lie constantly. In this very thread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:31 PM
0

You do, I’ve seen you on multiple threads complaining about the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:16 PM
0

Why complain about it constantly if you know they lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:37 PM
-3

Is this just something you made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:05 PM
0

The women that participate, maybe. But regularly, no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:03 PM
3

And do the women know about the other women? No, most of the time they do not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:27 PM

Yeah. But my first comment wasn’t an argument against you or anything. It was just that people should give less fucks about what other people say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:15 AM

Well I am actually short. And have never had these problems…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:12 AM

Its honestly the best to just not care about what other people say. I know its hard but it will make you much stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:57 AM

I have never met a woman who thinks that sharing her man with other women makes her more feminine
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:56 AM
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Idk man, as a man I get why you would want it because you’re horny. But c’mon. When you have a partner that doesn’t want that, don’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:31 AM
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I’ve opened up with almost all of these issues and all were just normal conversations. You can just talk about it. What people (not just women) find annoying is you going on a psycho rant about those things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:48 PM
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Yeah, and you haven’t seen any support of men talking to eachother about how “all women are whores etc.” Yes, that is quite common too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:46 PM
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Point 2 is weird. Because you say people have “zero” evidence that the definition of single is different with men and women. But you take some men having a harem as the absolute truth, while there is also just not that much evidence for that either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:42 PM
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Hey it was an opinion and a question. No I don’t think someone loves their wife if they do something this shitty to them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:26 PM
8

If you lie like this to your partner, its not love
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 12:49 PM
3

Isn’t that just more of a muslim perspective? A man pays for 100% of the bills and the mans money is the womans money. But if the woman wants to side hustle, she can? Also, its sad that in this day and age it becomes more and more difficult to pay a house and all the bills and groceries with 1 income
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:14 AM
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Yes. Because he is still lying to his partner and in this case its a pretty big lie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:45 AM
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B, because with A, the guy just leaves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:15 AM

It could very well mean that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:28 PM

So it is still a problem that could be more equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:14 PM

It is a real thing, education (especially primary) is more catered to girls than to boys
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:09 PM
1

This makes it even more unrealistic, but have fun I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:06 AM
2

Nice lil’ fantasy you wrote up here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:11 AM
1

Show your wealth in fun things, do shit together
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 06:42 AM
1

What does is matter. If you’re not able to have sex with “above average” women when you are average. Then you just aren’t able. Stop whining because women can more easily date or have sex with above average men because MEN are desperate and easy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:53 AM
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Same, its from my experience dating apps and bars
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 06:28 AM
3

Its genetics, just like some guys have big dicks some have small and some medium
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:40 PM
2

They do not, its just random
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:33 PM
3

It is though. A vagina doesn’t get bigger when fucked by many dicks. Do you think a vagina does the same when one dick fucks it many, many, many times?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:57 PM
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Is this myth still a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:54 PM

Brother if you can’t wear whatever you want without feeling insecure, thats a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:30 PM
1

Redpill and bluepill both have lost their meaning. Just do what works for you and what you like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:36 PM
1

Okay, 21 year old then here. Don’t need to EVER pay women drinks and I certainly am not going to to talk to them. Just see the eye contact, and then go
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:34 PM
1

Being yourself can certainly make someone love you. But just “existing” isn’t enough. You have to actively put work into it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:32 PM

Bruv they never said “cheating is rape” They said lying to create consent is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:54 PM

Yeah thats exactly why I said they’re different and weird to compare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:05 PM

Do you agree that a great first step for something like that, is banning it for (In the US’s case) every registered republican?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:00 PM

Some of those are different though. Freedom is a right. Respect is indeed not a need. Equality is also a right, just like reproductive rights. Just “sex” is not a right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:50 PM

Bruh if unattractive women can get average guys, whats wrong with that. They’re fucking up themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:45 PM
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Bruh just be in the top 5%. Life gets easy that way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:40 PM

From what you see on this sub, its men who do that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:37 PM

I think you have a very glorified look on what women are lol. Women are just humans too and don’t instantly gain upper middle class privilege from being born a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:36 PM
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It depends on the situation, are you both in agreement? Then its good, its boundaries. Are you pushing it while the other party does not want it? Then its controlling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:50 PM
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So your solution is just be a virgin so you can’t complain? Bruh what happened to listening to eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:55 PM
1

Wait why is men your problem to solve but women aren’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:41 AM
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Showing your emotions is never a problem. Being whiney is. You can be disciplined, but showing some emotion is good
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:34 AM

“Women love more than men” Is probably a true statement when looking at the redpill content on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:32 PM
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Ah okay, next time I make a claim that no one agrees with I’ll just cry “echo chamber” which of course makes me automatically right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:14 PM
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Oh so when its your narrative its the truth, but when everyone is actually against you its an echo chamber. Not how it works bud
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:12 PM
1

Look around this whole post, everyone is “fitting my narrative”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:11 PM
1

No, you just really got a shitty first time experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 02:07 PM
1

You got a shit GF then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:58 PM
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What you describe as “non tate” is just a guy. She could be attracted to someone who is tall and not in a tate mindset. Being 5’10 and working at target is not “the opposite of tate mindset”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:04 PM

Which lying though? Seriously, I’ve never seen it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:39 PM

Honestly though, idk if it is just me or this is a neurotypical thought (not judging) But isn’t it just very logical, that people want physically attractive partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:31 PM
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They tell the truth though, they say they are attracted to intelligence, competence etc. Which is the truth. (They also will just tell you that they are attracted to physical attractive traits, like EVERY HUMAN BEING)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:18 PM

Yeah not completely. But the thing is, it isn’t really a relevant study if the male side does the exact same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:09 PM

And thats the moment Walter White became Heisenberg
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:55 PM

Not a woman but, its not like those studies or behaviours are exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:54 PM
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Its not that they lie, it is just that they don’t want to seem shallow. They can definitely be attracted to intelligence. But of course you need to also be attracted physically to the person. That is just baseline and holds true for everyone. Even the idea that you THINK that that isn’t true or ever believed that that isn’t true, seems very sheltered to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:52 PM
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Willing to learn seems like a sign of intelligence, just like common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:50 PM
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Not the commenter but I agree with you both. I agree with you that you can still be an ideal relationship partner. But it is always their choice, their standards and there is nothing wrong with that. What is wrong though, is calling each other names etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:53 AM
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Yeah exactly. Stop trying to push this kind of worldview because it is just so far from the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:40 AM
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I think its healthy in relationships for both parties to “entertain” eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:40 AM
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Oh okay so your anecdotal evidence holds more weight than my anecdotal evidence. Makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:26 AM
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Yeah, I got a very hard time believing that. (Blackpill forums dont count)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:21 AM
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Look around you, look outside for just once. Talk to people. Its going to be way less than 80% for who “its over”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:59 AM
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You’re the one coping. It isn’t 80~90% of the men. You are just creating that fantasy to easy your own failures
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:06 AM
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From what I’ve seen it isn’t slander, but mostly the purpose of that group.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 07:30 AM
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The groups exist to prevent you dating a man who is dating other women. Simple as that. That some women choose to be an asshole on these forums or groups after a bad date is the “bad apples”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:57 AM

I live in a very western country and I have been around 16 year olds lol. The guy has benefits over dudes without that in their own age range, not 16 year olds. Shouldn’t that tell you something? That EVERYONE sees you as a creep except the girl who might not be so mature yet (especially being 16). Literally you could be doing your masters, and your gf could be just starting 11th grade and you’d be okay with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:01 AM

They really don’t think they’re immature or unattractive though. Plenty date in the same age group, same school group etc. More than plenty actually. The “dude with the house car and acces to booze” is not going to be much in the market for 16 year olds, and everyone who is of that age (the dudes age) is not going to want to associate with him because he dates high school girls. 16 year old girls aren’t dating 20 to 24 year olds. They just are not. And any guy who is of that age range who wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:44 AM

It is incredibly uncommon here. And I think in most places it is. I’ve only ever saw it ONCE. Dating isn’t only about “benefit”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:28 AM

The less the age of the younger person is, the weirder its going to be. Especially since 16 isn’t adult and it can be for example a highschooler in 10th grade with someone doing their second year of uni
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:24 AM

No one seethes about a 24 year old dating a 30 year old. Or an 18 year old dating a 21 year old People think its weird for an 18 year old to date a 30 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:28 AM
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But you don’t talk about the level of status/money. It just isn’t as important as you think
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:16 AM
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There probably are, just like there are shorter people who do better, or worse. And taller people who do worse. You act as if it is impossible, while it really isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:13 PM
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Probably not I guess? Because many people can just get good results without having much money or status
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:12 PM
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You always with your heights. Plenty of people 5’9 and below (myself included) are doing just fine or more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:57 PM
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Yeah, if you want to pick up golddiggers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:57 PM
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Exactly, calling them disgusting is shitty and won’t help. Encouraging them to go with you to the gym or just hiking, is good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:46 PM
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You are better off encouraging. Being direct but not being an asshole about it etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:30 PM
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Do you think that is because they have a healthier diet overall? Or because people berate eachother for being fat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:25 PM
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You already give an answer in your comment. Its a substitution and it works. So sex is not a need
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:54 PM
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You don’t go around calling people disgusting. That does not help at all
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 04:53 PM
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You really do not. People (when they are an adult) are adults and should choose for themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:39 PM
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In my personal opinion, I think that comparing what and when it hurts more is stupid because it is going to hurt no matter what and cheating is wrong no matter what (well, there are special exceptions but you get the point)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:03 AM

It really isn’t that bad, you can vent and even cry about problems. It just doesn’t mean you need to cry about nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:51 PM

L take, especially since this is true for men and women. (Not really but ok)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:47 PM
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I am none and still…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 02:44 PM

If it is laws, then you are best in the western world. Way better off than in any country
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:32 PM
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Mediterranean is best imo. But that could be because I don’t want a completely submissive virgin woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:59 AM
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If you think there are east european countries who have only or many virgin submissive women. You’d be wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:50 AM
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Both of these options are equally mid to me. And for the life of me I can’t choose one or the other
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:06 AM
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Its always the same, low value women who post and do this kind of shit🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:57 AM
2

Baby swapping
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:18 AM
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Its good for 2 reasons and it should be standard just before leaving the hospital. To confirm its the child of the dad To confirm its the child of the mom
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:29 PM
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No I heard you did MMA so I thought friends from there?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:26 AM
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Idk if you have friends, but if you have, it is always fun to go together
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:34 AM
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Why not try going with people you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 09:02 AM
1

So do you always go to the bar alone? Or do you go with friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 08:26 AM
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Like another commenter pointed out, bro code is between you and your friends. The rest doesn’t really matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:03 AM

Exactly, it just isn’t a real option
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:36 PM

I would take A because at least it has a couple of positives. You’ve presented ZERO positives for B. It isn’t an even playing field
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 10:26 PM

It looks like you try to blame the past actions on why she got gang raped by commenting those things, as if you’re giving reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:21 PM

Well if it indeed is real, then your comment is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:16 PM

Well then the original comment is a major asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:15 PM

Probably just a weird fantasy account
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:47 PM

Option 2, definitely option 2
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:46 PM

There is a healthy middle ground in all of this though. Because clearly the extremes aren’t working
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:16 PM

“I am going to help ruin peoples lives!”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:34 PM
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Is this just a link that shows you your own username lol? I have been gotten
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:13 AM
1

Ayo what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 10:09 AM

It can be both, and it is commented on by women and men both in their friend groups. Just don’t do it when other men/women are around because then you’ll get that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 02:46 PM
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Communication is one of the key pillars in a relationship. So its actually good advice to communicate more, and better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:30 AM

And again, because there are very little bad apples, all autistic men deserve hate? What kind of logic is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:57 AM

Autistic or mentally disabled/impaired people somehow deserve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:55 AM

You can. But I wouldn’t regard being hateful as a good example, so why do it, when you can just be friendly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:49 AM

Oh, still, don’t do that lol. No reason to be hatefull to People
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:42 AM

Brother, I think you’re going too deep into self loathing. Be positive (if you can) and do what feels right to YOU. Don’t compare yourself to others, compare yourself to the you of yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:39 AM

I think the creepy part is the age difference. Or just overt niceness, people dislike that about mormons too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:31 AM

But what if it heavily differs, or just pick the one you think is the best
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:25 AM

Yes, especially when you’re a woman and probably more vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:20 AM

You don’t know what time it was, thats a thing. And it was someone yelling “excuse me” from 30ft away and then cussed her out when she said “get away from me”. Thats not androphobia, because I bet she wouldn’t be scared if the situation was different
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 08:10 AM

If someone randomly yells at you, it is kind of logical that you could get scared. That does not make you an “androphobe”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:57 AM

Yellong at someone from 30 ft away =/= flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:31 AM
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First of, I am not an american, second of. You know what happens when a kid grows up poor, unloved and to a single parent, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 10:21 AM
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Therapy is the non-US go to option. If you have such a deep seeded problem then its needed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:58 AM
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I mean, kind of logical if it is just the “I hate men crowd”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:58 AM
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You really see this and think “omg she killed her chilled” And not think, she has escaped a very real possibility of poverty and another home where a child shouldn’t grow up in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:57 AM
2

Well again, if it is about one night stands than I indeed think you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:33 PM
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Wouldn’t you also have a conformation bias though? “You’re conservative so you have a conformation bias” I disagree that “men only want sex” even on this sub, men mostly want commitment with sex. I am not forcing anyone though? I am asking why you project your preferences onto everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:19 PM
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And I as a guy know that is not what most men think, maybe for a one night stand, but definitely not for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:50 PM
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Why are you projecting your own preferences onto every man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:34 PM
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Wait, are you honestly just admitting that he can do whatever he wants because the women he associates with are dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:05 PM
1

But again, when was someone “a plaything” Also, do you hold those same standards for yourself or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:05 AM
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But I mean, do you see your partner as nothing more than “a plaything” because that is kinda fucked up. Yes if it was casual sex then both see eachother as a plaything. But that isn’t the case in 99/100 relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:00 AM
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But why do you see someone as a plaything? Isn’t that in itself kind of wrong. Not seeing someone as a person, but just as a plaything, seems very dehumanizing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:43 AM
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I am a man but I would not
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:07 AM
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The only way for him to get such a woman now is going to some remote village and wooing one of their women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:05 AM
1

Wait, is not sleeping with a virgin now being a retroactive cuck? Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:03 AM
3

Buried by downvotes definitely, but non the less very weird
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:03 AM
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Disagree, they can be attractive enough for pump and dump sessions that won’t ever be talked about to the male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:04 AM
2

There can be multiple explanations
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:06 PM
2

The data did not confirm it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:30 PM
2

Weird that I never see that problem in practice though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:57 PM
1

Yeah thats why you try and just see
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:00 PM
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No, your league is just what you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:48 PM
3

“Looking like” doesn’t mean “in your league”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:13 PM
1

Fat percentage is a lot higher. Not 50%. The top 5% of men aren’t dating the top 30%. That is a myth. You have enough men competing for enough women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:35 AM
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Yeah it isn’t 1:1 because women don’t want fat men. So fat men are the problem. (This is to show that your logic is stupid and blaming fat women is stupid)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:03 AM
2

You said “top tier men only get good looking women” Yeah because the women also don’t want to date fat men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:53 AM
2

So let me tell you this again, why isn’t fat men the problem then?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:49 AM
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I never really get the argument “women are fat” when men in these countries are just as fat or even fatter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:45 AM
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You’d know that is a lie when you live in a country like the Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:40 AM
2

I disagree, I think we men are loved just as much as we love women when we get the right partner
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:24 AM
2

Men can have it too, but it isn’t as common or as defined as a “hoe phase”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:00 AM
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Oh but I am a man, it isn’t gender exclusive and I don’t think it has to be defined
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:26 PM
1

You never just, vibe with someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:25 PM
1

I would say it is instinct yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:17 PM
1

Yes I think instinct is a pretty good tool to use
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:37 PM
2

Realistically, you can just make eye contact, no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:58 AM
2

A good vibe is feeling comfortable or just chill with a person, you feel interested and you feel the interest back. Can be personality, looks, etc. Bad vibe is not feeling any of that and having the exact opposite of it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:01 PM
14

Then find a woman who is okay with you having multiple girlfriends. Cheating is lying, and thats fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:58 PM
1

Maybe because you don’t like that role, then you don’t have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:24 PM
1

Yeah that is what you made I guess. But it is true though. Women can be more dominant or more submissive. Depends on what you want to do that day
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:08 PM
1

Switching it up doesn’t instantly mean getting her to peg you lol. Her on top is already more dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:04 PM
1

My ten, is different from yours. What you think is a ten, is not my 10
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:01 PM
1

You’ve never switched roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:50 PM
1

No because first of, your 10 is most definitely not my 10. And I am happy where I am at now. So why worry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:46 PM
3

So call out both sides then, don’t give a fuck about what other people think
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 11:32 PM
5

Why not though, you can call out shitty thinngs from both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:12 PM
4

They dislike guys who say they want to be friends are friends way down the line and then suddenly make a random ass move
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:41 PM
7

So why do the same? Just because it is accepted somewhere, doesn’t mean you have to do the same shitty behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:34 PM
7

The confidence is what they like, you don’t have to be a “bad boy” to be confident
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:36 AM
2

I think we just fundamentally disagree on this then. I think the people who can’t behave in a civilization are at fault. And you think the people that get attacked by those people are at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:34 AM
2

So let me get this straight, if you are robbed, and beaten up in a bad neighborhood its your fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:20 AM
2

Yeah like I said, they may be dumb. But it is just not their fault. It is stupid, just not their fault. Fault isn’t on them, its on the attackers. You do have to be responsible, it is just not your fault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 11:07 AM
0

Yeah thats what I said, you may not be the smartest person ever going there, but you are not at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:32 AM
1

The thing is though, it is not your fault, the attacker is always at fault. You may not be smart to go there, but it isn’t on them, it is not their fault
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 10:16 AM
1

Yeah… no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:53 PM
6

“Studying a fictional character says everything about every non fictional woman”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:29 PM
3

Food is a need, because you will die without it, sex is not a need, because you won’t die without it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:52 PM
5

Do you die, if you don’t have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:43 PM
7

Divorce doesn’t mean “ripping children away from one of their parents”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:42 PM
1

This OP? Idk seems like a weird take, maybe partially true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:40 PM
-1

Who said that women are angels for that? Are you just making something up to be mad at?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:37 PM
1

With truly “fat” women? Dated by chads? No. Thicc women? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:29 PM
6

Doesn’t happen as often as you think. And most of these “fat” women aren’t even really fat
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:45 PM
7

Trying to match with very good looking men. Just like fat men try to match with very good looking women. But once they figured out it doesn’t work like that, it stops
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:40 PM
1

Ah I went back and looked at it. Kind of memey layout with mostly < 1 minute videos. Seems more like a motivation channel looking back at it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:38 AM
4

Well, the root of the problem was found through talking, and the solution was by my own action + guide from the therapist. I put it of too for a while, but eventually I did bite the bullet and went to therapy and it helped
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:14 AM
3

The therapist has helped me, and many people I know. The root of the problem was almost always found, and this within 6 months. Therapy is there to guide you with professional help. Be it a man or a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:08 AM
6

That is not all that therapy does, it helps in different ways. Finding the root of the problem is one for ecample
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:59 AM
1

There is enough to at least do a full investigation on those two brothers, which I think is for the best. If it were to be true, then good that their in jail, and if it were not to be true, than good for them for getting free
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:58 AM
4

I thought Balkan gains was a meme channel? And the Tate brothers I mostly disagree with, I don’t like their worldview and how they talk about people. Hamza at least has some good ideas, but isn’t fully accurate either. But I am not one who listens to 1 person that deals with every subject
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:57 AM
2

So now you actually DO admit you are like there because you are white, have money and are (according to yourself) attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:30 PM
5

Because you are white, and have money. Thats why you’re like a movie star
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:26 PM
5

You said “they like me because I am handsome and rich”. Which I find sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:11 PM
6

So they like you for your money? Seems a bit sad to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 07:00 PM
2

I do not die after 30 days of no sex. So no, not comparable at all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:25 PM
1

Literally go to a sugar baby website
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 09:34 AM

True, but i do see many people who could have a better look if they did something about the things I talked about in my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:44 PM

It is, but thats why I said “beard or no beard”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:56 PM
1

Depends on how you look lol, if you’re a 5 or 6 with all that maxxing you’re getting more than bottom 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:46 PM
1

I think those guys can be found attractive, that doesn’t mean they’re found attractive by everyone, could be the bottom 10% of women. But successful is a whole other problem, because you need more than just your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:36 PM

One of those things anyone can achieve, the other two are subjective. “Tall” is for everyone subjective and a handsome face can be worked on by yourself through skincare, beard or no beard, haircut etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:35 PM
-1

Well this is just initial attraction, so only women thinking a guy looks hot. I think about 5-10% would fail, but nearer to the 5%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:19 PM

Mate just go to thailand, no worries
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:05 PM
0

Also not really a realistic strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 08:29 AM
32

Well the instant attraction comes from looks. So probably go to the gym, get your hair in a style that fits your face and wear stylish clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 07:13 AM
1

I have literally seen it zero times that they deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:30 PM
1

Still isn’t bullshit though. Wow someone likes attractive people, what a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:51 PM
1

You went 72 days back, 72 days. Imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:34 PM
3

This isn’t a misattribution though, I think its a case of it can be applied differently to the two genders
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:26 PM
1

72 days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:25 PM
5

“this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:17 PM
9

I don’t think you know what a “madonna whore complex” is if you use it in that way…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:54 PM
1

And what is the problem? Seem very logical to deny someone if they went around to ask your friends the same thing the days before
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:14 PM
6

I mean, the username says enough
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:06 PM
0

But it doesn’t happen as much when you meet friends of friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:03 PM
2

Thats why I said in my first comment “social game doesn’t mean YOUR friend circle”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:35 PM

I am giving no credit because it just isn’t how the real world works
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:23 PM
0

Exactly, right on the money. And you don’t think that is weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:23 PM
3

Not only you, just different people, men and women, in the last couple of days
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:18 PM
10

Why do you think you’ll get the reputation of “that guy” Really think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:16 PM
52

What people mean by social circles, is connecting through them. Not asking out your best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:05 PM
8

Why are some people just hell bend on explaining terrible behaviour (for example cheating) away. You aren’t going to get anyone on your side, how hard you’ll scream “oh but the man still loves his wife” or “oh but the woman does it in a stage of life when it doesn’t matter”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:52 PM
10

For most people it doesn’t matter if one is worse than the other. Cheating is cheating and thats an asshole thing to do. Its like saying “yeah one murdered someone slow, the other quick” yes one is worse than the other but it doesn’t matter, both are horrid
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:03 PM
1

Also depends on the womens self esteem / how she sees herself etc. If she constantly needs to validate herself she’ll chase after those higher numbers, even if they don’t want anything to do with her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:28 AM
1

A 5 is probably going to have succes with a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:10 AM
3

I think it depends on how unattractive. Are you a literal 1, then no it indeed doesn’t change much. But are you a 4 or 5. It can definitely change things
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:48 AM
2

Ah like that, well, then the mother should really look at if she wants a child or not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:22 PM
3

I think it could certainly happen in the west if governments would not profit as much from more and more children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:36 PM
3

Why want to be equally fucked when you can have equally good options when you are not ready for a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:35 PM
3

Wait I think you did not understand me because I have no idea what argument you’re trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:25 PM
2

So why do you think women have the right to get rid of a future child, but men can’t get rid of their responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:20 PM
4

But is it being a deadbeat though? If you don’t want the child, you don’t want it that is the end of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:13 PM
1

I would not even consider that position
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:57 AM
2

I am not saying that every time its “beta buxx” but this time? Yeah this time it probably is. Poor guy should’ve had a wake up call
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:05 AM
2

Yeah thats true. But like I said, for some reason many people on this sub think the perfect gap is 35 18 or something
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:18 AM
2

No its just that being older and having a bit of an age gap can up your SMV. But not being 35 and fucking 18 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:09 AM
2

Weird, you don’t see the constant age gap posts, comments etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:03 AM
2

Well because I constantly see people on here talking about how a 10 year or more age gap is perfect and gets you the most. While it really does not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:56 AM
3

Oh yeah thats certainly true, no way a man of 30 is going to be with an 18 year old to have deep meaningful conversations
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:38 AM
0

It is just the truth about many age gap relationships where the younger person is below the age of 24. They probably don’t have real world experience and will likely get manipulated
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:37 AM
3

I think this is a difference in opinion again. You think 18 years old is the prime of beauty, and the other commenter probably thinks that somewhere mid twenties is the prime
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:56 AM
3

Well the thing is, there is a difference between a couple of years age gap and 10’s of years
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:53 AM
4

Can you get manipulated by your SUV?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:49 AM

I think its a personal thing. Even if men have options, they can just prefer monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:49 PM
1

The anglo world is just fucked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:11 PM
3

I respect you for being one of the first on this sub who is also waiting as a man. And who does not use the argument “but men are different”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:33 AM
2

Meh, isk, this is the first I’ve seen
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:36 PM
10

Huh, one of the first I see on this thread who lies about their bodycount
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:02 PM
2

And the reverse holds true as well of course
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:59 PM
3

A better study would be to look at people who never had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:03 AM
2

Not the OP, but I think it does not have to necessarily be chad the women swipe on, they just have a way narrower field of what is attractive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 08:57 AM
1

Well I guess I know very, very few “average men” then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:48 AM
4

But which men are you talking about here? Because many men want more than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 10:32 AM
1

Well first of, being emotionally open is not “having a mental illness” But there is a time and place for everything, thats the main thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:44 AM

Nah man, love just… happens. It isn’t only attainable for “chads”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:50 PM

Either many, many people are chads. Or what you say is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:43 PM
1

You say that, but we both know women are the only ones allowed to have standards in today's climate. If a guy doesn't want to date an obese woman, he's fat-phobic. I am sorry, but this is really only said if you are an asshole or if you are chronically online, in the real world these talking points aren’t mentioned. If he doesn't want to date a trans, he's trans-phobic. Again, depends on HOW you reject. Doesn't want to date an older woman, that's ageism they say. Doesn't want to date a woman who…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:39 PM
1

It's a false dichotomy. No? It is not? It's okay for a woman to want a man much taller than herself, who makes much more money than herself, who has a higher status than herself, but it's wrong for men to want a woman with a lower body count than themselves? Why does equality only become a factor when that standard gets brought up? Both should be questioned, both should be asked “why”. This time however we are talking about bodycount, don’t change subject. The point is that men and women are loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:18 AM
9

That does not seem “creepy” or “that most women see them as creeps”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 03:14 PM
4

So is he average or not? Because that would be a 5/10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:56 PM
1

Honestly though, what exactly is the difference that it makes it okay for men to rack up many bodies but not for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:45 AM
3

I am sorry to tell you this but you were sexually assaulted, even if you liked it, you did not get asked for permission
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 03:54 PM
1

No, not being boring gets you the girl. You got both bad traits, boring and an asshole. Also, was he known for beating women? Did she just get beaten the very first date and was like “yeah I’ll stay”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:25 PM
3

Exactly, reading the room is not hard, it is hard for him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 03:20 PM
3

“To see if you’re really mine” or “to see if you’re not cheating on me”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:44 AM
4

Well the why comes after. Just like with your question
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:39 AM
4

Ah okay, and you wouldn’t mind being questioned that then I would guess, because then its fair game
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:30 AM
6

So wouldn’t you saying “hey I want you to take a paternity test” be the same as her saying “hey I want you to take an HIV test”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:22 AM
20

Stressful situation, just things piling up all at once etc. Mostly talking, some tears. Comfort me Or relationship has only gotten stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:44 AM
2

I mean yeah, this is true, your other traits will get you rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:09 PM
8

This seems more about what you don’t care about. Because most guys care about these things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:31 PM

No thats why I asked
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:55 PM

How is velma going to blackpill you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:37 PM
5

They literally don’t though, and I can talk from experience as I am in that age group
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 10:27 AM
1

Guy, it really is not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:28 PM
4

That is true, just not for the reasons the maker intended it though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:59 PM

Then find that anomaly, they aren’t as rare as you think they are. Most people would not randomly break up with you if they see someone hotter. And you net to vet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:15 PM

Why not try to be that anomaly?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:09 PM

Seems logical right? The product does not work for you so you give it a bad review
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:08 PM
6

This fucking comic lol. The most over exaggerated bullshit there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 09:08 AM
6

But that is because you already have prejudices about this whole AF/BB thing. You assume that every woman who is in a relationship is settled. While that is not the case by a long shot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:13 AM
5

But that is not what the study says though. The connection between AF/BB and this study is none
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:03 AM
6

But this study does not confirm AF/BB at all? It confirms loss of attraction over a longer period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 08:01 AM
1

Yeah same, biggest age gap I’ve seen in my direct environment who are also my age group was 3 years. Not that big of a deal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:59 AM
1

50/50 can change real quick, especially when the “forced to marry” generation is over
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:27 PM
1

You know, and its gonna sound stupid. But the weird details you put in make it sound incredibly fake. But I’ll never know if its real or fake, so I’ll just assume it is real, but just so you know, it sounds fake
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:29 PM
3

Still, when someone refers to someone older, they mean 4/5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:17 PM
1

Well there are a couple option here then. Womens standards are unrealistic Mens standards are unrealistic Both standards are unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:01 PM
0

Should be easily obtainable. Don’t want to sound shitty but you probably have bad luck. (And if its 5/5 who cheat on you, reflect on yourself first, not that its your fault, but with what kind of women you associate)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:57 PM
1

This post is not talking about men in general, its more personal. If you can’t get what you want, then your standards are unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:45 PM
2

Damn, one of few. Well now I’m curious how you guys met
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:36 PM
1

But what is your age, at least, that you get passed over
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:48 PM
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