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LifestyleZambie-Master/r/seduction14/07/22 05:18 AM
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ConversationZambie-Master/r/seduction29/07/22 02:47 AM
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Zambie-Master/r/seduction10/08/22 04:12 PM
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ConversationZambie-Master/r/seduction03/08/22 04:57 AM
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I live in Nashville, literal brunch and mimosa utopia, so this just might be the way friend. Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:11 PM
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I really relate to you man. A lot. I’m a great looking guy, but dating has been so hard because of my fear of rejection from a lot of childhood trauma. Now that I’m actually trying to put myself out there I’ve realized how bad my social anxiety and fear of rejection is. I imagine you’re in the same boat. Like everyone here is saying, PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE. Even when it’s uncomfortable and scary. I’m still struggling with it, but I keep telling myself: “Finding women attractive doesn’t make you …
/r/seduction07/08/22 02:36 PM
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I do overthink it a lot, but I’ve not often been confronted with the “I don’t do that” girl. Just trying to figure out a good comeback to that. Cause like, I know she wants sex too, she doesn’t want to be easy.
/r/seduction03/08/22 05:08 AM
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Dude I’m in my experimentation hoe phase, and I have plenty of dates to try it on, so what’s the worst that could happen? I just gotta not be too obvious trying it out: don’t accidentally emphasize words or wink or something 😂
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:39 AM
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Wait I’m a little confused, what are you saying I do? Weave a sensual web about a fictional sexy man who makes a fictional lady horny? Sorry, but I’m genuinely a little confused 😂
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:54 AM
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Put yourself out there, you aren’t a creep for talking to a pretty girl, focus on talking and not interviewing, NO DINNER DATES!
/r/seduction31/07/22 07:57 PM
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Honestly I just wanna know how you landed an IG model, congrats! I hope this problem is resolved for you though dude.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:57 PM
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I know, I know. Before I did research in this seduction stuff, I had to take two years to learn to love myself after a period/relationship so dark that I can’t share it freely online. So no dating AT ALL. And I was way to anxious/depressed before that to ever put myself out there. I have an anxious attachment style, and I’m much better now, but I still have codependency issues. Also I think it’s horrible and it’s ruined my relationships, but that’s my perspective. Here’s the thing: I had a one n…
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:22 PM
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That’s part of my problem. My hobbies and passions are interesting to me, I have no problem presenting them in an entertaining way (usually). But I’ve been told by the girls I work with that I’m trying to play two sides: serious dating and casual sex. I’ve gotten the sex, but not as much as I want. I want a relationship with mutual love and interest, but after all my failures in that department I’m a little convinced that I’m too needy to keep a good woman around. Tried fixing that (therapy, boo…
/r/seduction30/07/22 11:28 AM
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Hey buddy. Just wanna let you know it’s okay. I tried asking a girl I liked to prom with roses in front of my favorite teacher and she said no. My teacher looked away from second hand embarrassment and I felt like a laughing stock. Got another date to prom anyway, life moves on. As cliché as it is you’ll forget it and a bunch of other embarrassing highschool shit. Now I’m on OLD and approaching and getting laid semi consistent. My only regret was that I didn’t start putting myself out SOONER. So…
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:10 AM
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She wasn’t that bad, she was fun to shoot the shit with in person, but the only interesting hobby she had was writing, which she quit doing. And she wouldn’t even talk about what she wrote. But she told me about her $10k fake tits and let me play with them. And leaned into me the whole night while we talked, but STILL said she wasn’t looking for physical intimacy later. At the risk of sounding incelish, sometimes I really just don’t get girls.
/r/seduction29/07/22 10:24 AM
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It’s just that not is it only mundane and boring, it just makes me like every other guy they come across. I wanna have interesting conversation while also being able to make myself stand out.
/r/seduction29/07/22 09:18 AM
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Do twirls actually work for anyone? The idea of twirling a girl without any music playing or anything just seems really awkward to me, but then again I’ve never tried it before
/r/seduction29/07/22 09:16 AM
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I’ve got cold approaches and small talk down okay, but that obviously doesn’t lead anywhere in the long run. I mean deep convo stuff. Genuine question here, cause I feel like I’ve heard people say they do it before: do you talk deep to random people you just met? Like hittin with the “so how’s life REALLY goin for ya?”, cause I can’t imagine myself doing that in a smooth way lol.
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:59 AM
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Just matched with a hot girl on Tinder and we got talking a lot. She likes passionate guys, and I happpen to be one so she’s interested. I invite her over late, she lets me rant about shit and I get her laughing, I go in for a kiss after a while, and we start making out. I try to initiate sex but she’s not feeling it. Later I try to text her what HER passions are and she says she doesn’t have any. Her hobbies were a dead end. Eventually I bring up if she’s willing to be physical or not and she s…
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:09 AM
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Yikes. Well, uh, yeah. At least you got self-awareness man. And you were honest about your intentions and opinions! Maybe the harshness and the “go fuck yourself” thing are a smidge too strong and insulting. I don’t know if you’re shit posting for giggles or asking advice, but in case you are Models by Mark Manson would help a lot!! Basically taking your strong attitude and opinions and refocusing it to make it a bit more charismatic and charming. But anyway, mission failed, we’ll get em next ti…
/r/seduction26/07/22 07:36 PM
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No I do! But trust me man, it’s been a long journey. It’s hard to come by intellectually curious women, and I’ve spent way too much time trying to entertain people who weren’t stimulating. It wasn’t right, I was trying to get laid and prove something to myself, those days are over. All I’m saying is that I know the exact type of woman OP is describing.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:55 AM
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I get what he means. To me a basic girl is one who doesn’t seemed invested in or passionate about anything. Hard for me to gel with. It may be that some girls I just don’t tap into or understand what they’re passionate about, but not always. One girl I talked to literally told me she had no hobbies and hated deep conversation. There were random things she did in her freetime that I tried to ask about but she had no reasoning for doing it other than it wasted time. Talking to her was like pulling…
/r/seduction18/07/22 08:01 PM
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Finally read Models, finally changing my mindset, finally trying to make myself okay with rejection, failure, and embarrassment. You’re more than right. It’s time to realize that feeling awkward or creepy every now and again is far better than constant self loathing in isolation.
/r/seduction18/07/22 01:53 AM
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I’ve always wondered if that was a good idea or not, momma raised a gentleman so I always thought it was classy to do a dinner date first, but I’m slowly learning that lowkey simple is way better first. Traditional dating strategies just don’t work anymore. Girls don’t wanna be treated like princesses, they just want to be treated like people. Or so I think I’m learning.
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:23 PM
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I’m never pushy about it, I just throw it out there and if I get a no I go for the “walk to your car and kiss you” bit. I wanna get laid but I’m not a rapist, if she says no then I really don’t wanna pressure her into it. Also it doesn’t make too much sense for me to cook something since I usually go on dinner dates, should I not be doing that? Should I go way more lowkey first date like park/drinks or something?
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:57 PM
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That’s part of the problem. I always go for the close back to my apartment, but I’ve been told by the girls I work with that that’s an “instant red flag”. Also I have a lot of hobbies that girls find interesting! It also opens up the door to dee if they have any. The problem is that they’re all solitary: reading, videogames, cooking and fine dining, weightlifting, rock climbing, guitar, craft beer/wine, hip hop fanatic, vinyl collecting. I have a small group of close friends, and some friends at…
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:45 PM
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You’re right, I should be grateful for my looks and a lot of other great qualities about myself. But I keep getting frustrated when I’m not doing as well as I think I should. Probably an unhealthy narcissistic issue. I think I just have to accept the rejection in stride somehow and know I still have worth even if I’m single and jerking off alone, but I can’t stop thinking something’s wrong with me. And its not what I keep telling myself it is; it’s my poor subconscious behavior and deep seated s…
/r/seduction14/07/22 12:10 PM
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That’s where I’m stumped I guess. I’ve got the nice guy problems: grew up with no dad, more comfortable around women, shit I’m a nurse too. I’m also pretty attractive and work out enough to get compliments for it! This isn’t a flex though, it’s part of the issue. I used to be the ugly nerd that got bullied. Now that I’m finally attractive enough to do the dating thing, I’m inexperienced. I keep running into “you’re such a catch!” but never getting second dates. Is it because I’m not more selecti…
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:48 AM
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Thanks dude! I think to some extent you’re right. I actually think I’m a great guy, I’m really honest, but I do have problems with my over-sexuality. A lot of childhood trauma stuff. I’ve definitely had BAD limerence in the past, and still struggle with it now. And you called it: diagnosed ADHD, really bad ADHD. The biggest roadblock I’ve hit is trying to be honest about my desire for sexual interaction without being manipulative. But I need to let go and be more choosy about who I invest in. Th…
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:10 AM
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I agree, I think how you cope with it is important, but how do I? Do you have any tips on how you shrug it off or stop ruminating on it? Or your own insecurities?
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:57 AM
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What made me post this initially was a potential long term relationship that backfired on me. Hookups are fun but I’d like to get off these apps at some point. It would be nice to BUILD my confidence through it though instead of tear it down. Got any particular Ross Jeffries book you recommend?
/r/seduction14/07/22 07:40 AM
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Thanks man, the air tastes kinda muggy and swampy but I’ll try to get used to breathing it!
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:50 AM
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Thanks man, I really appreciate your positivity. I’m just gonna work on confidence and positive self-talk in the meantime.
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:49 AM
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That’s part of the problem, I go in with super high confidence but it keeps getting dragged down by the rejection. Maybe I want to know how to stay confident in who I am in spite of constant rejection?
/r/seduction14/07/22 05:32 AM
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