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OYS#8 43, 5’5”, 147lbs, 20% BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21 yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7. Bench Press 108lb (3x8). Deadlifts 98lb (3x8). Overhead Press 68lb. Have read NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, Currently reading MAP. Listening to Rian Stone's YT vids. Finances In my last couple of OYSs I got a bit off-track. There were definitely some legitimate (and exciting, for me) insights, but I padded it out with too much navel gazing nonsense. This week I decided to get back to basics - Finances and Frame. …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:28 AM
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OYS#7 43, 5’5”, 145lbs, 20% BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21 yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7. Bench Press 108lb (3x8). Deadlifts 98lb (3x8). Overhead Press 48lb. Currently (Re)-reading NMMNG. Listening to Rian Stone's YT vids. This week's focus was: Pay Attention; Experiment I spent this week really trying to pay attention. In particular, I decided to pay attention to the ways in which I respond to situations, and the results I get from my various responses. I also went into the week with an attitu…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 11:29 PM
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Glad you got some validation sex. Interesting. Looking back over my post, I'm actually thinking now it would've been better if I'd left any mention of sex out of it altogether. The point of it was supposed to be a rediscovered passion for life more generally. But maybe you've got a point. The fact that I put sex at the centre of the story is telling, I suppose. You've assumed the fuck-machine frame. Funny. That was not the vibe I was going for at all. But again, if that's what came through in my…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 10:17 AM
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OYS#6 43, 5’5”, 144lbs, 20% BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21 yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7. Bench Press 108lb (3x8). Deadlifts 80lb (3x8). Overhead Press 48lb. Currently (Re)-reading NMMNG. Listening to Rian Stone's YT vids. This week I gained some new insights into what it means to be your own mental point of origin. It began early in the week, when I finally patched things up with my wife. Things had been tense for about ten days before that, and I decided it had gone on long enough. I had been…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/21 10:53 AM
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Bro you need someone else to talk to other than your wife Funny you say this. I decided this since last week. I realised I have lost regular contact with my friends over the years. Plus I ditched a few a couple years back. I definitely need to make some new friends. There's a chapter in NMMNG about this tendency to become cut off from friendship groups, that's what made me realise. Get a fucking journal I am curious to know how guys here use journaling. I've tried it on and off over the years, b…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 01:32 AM
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OYS#5 43, 5’5”, 142lbs, <20% BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21 yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7. Bench Press 108lb (3x8). Deadlifts 68lb (3x8). Overhead Press 48lb. This has been a humbling week. No sex for two weeks now. Loads of tension between my wife and I, and I am realising just how deep in her frame I am. I feel like there is an invisible electrical cord connecting myself to her, and whatever she feels I feel. I try to not give a fuck, try to focus on other things, but this last week I’ve just…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/21 11:20 AM
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There's a reason that, when she threatens you with "investigate your issues or move out" your response - externally, or even just internally - isn't "look, if you're at the point of threatening me, you're right, this isn't going to work." That reason is either that you've been a total shithead who actually does have issues, or, you aren't actually willing to kill the puppy. Probably both. I think part of it is that she can be very over-the-top when she's emotional. She will talk separation/"I ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/21 11:39 PM
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OYS#4 43, 5’5”, 142lbs, <18% BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21 yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7. Worked out 5 days this week: pull-ups/push-ups/squats/stair climbs (w. 20kg weight vest); daily abs 5min; Jerked off 4 times (without porn). No sex. THIS WEEK’S FOCUS Mental Point of Origin & STFU WINS Losing weight. More energy. More stable emotional baseline. Devoted 15 mins each day to financial and career goal-setting. Started playing music again (guitar & keys), which is something I used to do almost…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/21 01:53 PM
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OYS#3 43, 5’5”, 143lbs, <20% BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21 yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7. Worked out 3 days this week: pull-ups/push-ups/squats (w. 20kg weight vest); daily abs 5min; THIS WEEK’S FOCUS Finances & STFU WINS Looking better. More energy. Sleeping well. Getting organised (tidied my office; cleaned up the yard). Began sorting through financials (bank statements, etc.). Devoting 15 mins each day to financial and career goal-setting. Zero porn! Zero jerking off! Fucked 2 times. FUCK-U…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 12:23 PM
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It's about the words you choose - and I can nearly guarantee that you are not confident in your words in real life. This hit me hard. It's true. I'm slippery with my words. I use them to hide behind, deflect, distract from the real issues, and to obfuscate and manipulate. I have never thought about it like this before. And I've never been confronted about it. I went to three different therapists, and all they did was indulge me. Who's regret? If it's yours, I bet you that this is bleeding throug…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 12:04 PM
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Well, when you say it out loud like that it sounds pathetic. And, yes, guilty on both counts. Your insight is spot on. I have a long history of acting against my own (and my family's) best interests just to appease her emotions - including important career decisions. NMMNG is really opening my eyes to this pattern of self-sabotage. I also, just this week, came across the quote from Ryan Stone: "How do you make a woman happy? By dragging her to happiness kicking and screaming". I can remember cou…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 08:26 AM
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I see now why people are always saying don’t use “she” and “her” in OYS. When I wrote this I really believed I was doing a decent job of analysing my own actions and responses, but, as you say, in reality I was just trying to dissect her hamster. I’ll cut that shit out. In fact, I am setting a goal right now to make sure my next OYS contains no “she”. Describing my financial situation as ‘dire’ was hyperbolic. I’ll cut that shit out too. Straight-talk only. Things are not horrible... anymore – l…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 01:20 PM
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OYS#2 43, 5’5”, 146lbs, 20% BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21 yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7. Worked out 4 days this week: pull-ups/push-ups/squats (w. 20kg weight vest); abs SIDEBAR NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone’s YT, currently reading MMSLP CURRENT ISSUES I’M WORKING ON Finances & Frame I didn’t watch any porn this week. This was a big win for me. However, I jerked off twice, both times so I could relax enough to get to sleep. I really wish I hadn’t; it made me feel weak and pathetic afterwards. I t…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 10:05 AM
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OYS #1 43, 5'5", 147lbs, 20%BF (photo method), Wife 44, married 21yrs, 3 kids, 13, 10, 7 Sidebar NMMNG, WISNIFG, Rian Stone's YT, started reading MMSLP Background New to RP. Have tried therapy, marriage counselling, countless self-help books. Recovering from a breakdown (5 years ago) that left me broke, unemployed and severely depressed. Fundamentalist religious upbringing. Virgin at marriage. Loads of sexual guilt and shame. Oneitis. Nice Guy. Drunk Captain with a (Very) Pissed Off First Office…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/21 12:53 AM
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