ZanPerrion Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
275	A small gift for this sub...		ZanPerrion	/r/seduction	14/12/16 08:01 PM
54	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA		ZanPerrion	/r/seduction	07/01/15 02:58 AM

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16	A small gift for this sub... Not to worry. Amazon offers free Kindle reading programs for every platform.	/r/seduction	14/12/16 08:31 PM
6	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Well, let me clear about one thing. Never do I believe that all women are wonderful, positive angels. There are as many bitchy, vindictive, petty, and manipulative women in this world as there are bitchy, vindictive, petty, and manipulative men. But so what? Why spend time brooding over these people. Cut bait and run. I have seen amazing, wonderful women in this world. I have seen great beauty in my life, and because of it, I will settle for nothing less. I start from a perspective that every wo…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 01:06 PM
2	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Hmm, that is it, I think!	/r/seduction	07/01/15 07:44 AM
2	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Thanks for taking the time to read my book. I am happy if it helped you in any way. Casanova wasn't just a ladies-man - although that is what he is most known for. He truly was a renaissance man, travelled everywhere, was a scoundrel, lived a life of beauty and adventure. That completely resonated with me as a young man. But then I wandered off into the corporate word for years. So go figure. :)	/r/seduction	07/01/15 07:18 AM
4	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA i have to say i missed when your book was given out for free PM me. :) okay so my question is what do you think of us the 'unnaturals' and the seduction community? i mean back in the day dating wasn't so online based, pof,tinder and all this jazz, so i suppose what did you think of 'old school' mystery/jeffries techniques? like the NLP obscure techniques and all of the other obscure borderline mind manipulation background techniques? did you ever use them? That is interesting that things might h…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 07:10 AM
1	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Amen to that!	/r/seduction	07/01/15 06:53 AM
3	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA I will reply in the words of Nabokov (from his 1964 interview with Playboy): Playboy: Man’s understanding of these mysteries is embodied in his concept of a Divine Being. As a final question, do you believe in God? Nabokov: To be quite candid—and what I am going to say now is something I never said before, and I hope it provokes a salutary little chill: I know more than I can express in words, and the little I can express would not have been expressed, had I not known more.	/r/seduction	07/01/15 06:53 AM
2	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA 1: You don't seem to place a heavy emphasis on kino escalation, as opposed to verbal declaration of interest on initial contact. Why do I have that impression? Well, don't be too mislead. I am always touching a woman that I am talking to. Why? I dunno. It just seems to be a natural expression of my hand gestures when I am talking. As I said in my book (maybe you haven't read that part yet!), women are always touching us, and we don't even notice. "It was nice to meet you, but I have to go now." …	/r/seduction	07/01/15 06:22 AM
3	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Excellent way of describing it. Thanks for this...	/r/seduction	07/01/15 05:46 AM
7	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Yes. What I mean is to "renounce" with great force and conviction all the things that hold you back and keep you small. "Well see, I've got this job, and all these obligations, and I have to do this and I have to do that..." No you don't. You don't have to do anything. The only thing you have to do is die. All the rest is optional. Our drive-through self-help culture has us anaesthetized and under the illusion that we are "seekers". No, we aren't. We are consumers. But nowadays, we consume self-…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 05:44 AM
9	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Yes, I am convinced that it is impossible to be a man that has women in his life without a genuine appreciation and respect for women. Sure, you can get a pile of money, and maybe you can get women in bikinis to come onto your yacht. But absent the money, those women will be long gone. As I have said before: A man who loves women is loved by women. Question 1: The shocking thing I hear from women all the time is that they never feel "judged" by me. I say "shocking" because this is something I do…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 05:34 AM
2	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Thanks for the kind words. I think the concept of being genuine and completely honest is, first and foremost, a commitment to yourself. A lot of the time we do things to make others comfortable or to attempt to make people like us. But what is the true expression of us? I think that is what I am trying to say. Never hold back the true version of ourselves, embrace ourselves entirely, the good and the bad, and understand that hey, at least we are trying. Do I act on every impulse? Well, I always …	/r/seduction	07/01/15 05:26 AM
3	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Haha, great question. As a kid in the north of Canada, I learned to play guitar from old cowboys playing "outlaw country" (Waylon and Willie and the boys!) You know what I mean, Johnny Cash, Jim Reeves, all the old time stuff. And gospel music. I know every hymn known to man! And yeah, I can play approximate fragments of Coldplay or Nirvana or Pink Floyd or whatever today. Am I any good? Ha.. not really.	/r/seduction	07/01/15 05:21 AM
2	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA I don't meditate per se. But I do take time every day to be still, to consider my life, and to ask what is needed for me. Imagine this: we will sit and mindlessly watch a 30-minute sitcom that we don't even really like, but we won't take that same thirty minutes to sit quietly with ourselves and to consider our lives and the way we want them to be. Also, let me say this: women are an energy source for me. I love women and having women around me. The female spirit keeps me rejuvenated and feeling…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 05:10 AM
11	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA But zan how do you do this ? See zan, somehow you have developed this skill from inside out and if you are asking people to just love women, it will not happen Your Love is genuine and its inside out, you developed all these attributed inside out and if you ask people to just imitate what you do, how can it work ? But if you ask a man to try to be non needy, how can it work ? It's not inside out, it's not genuine, he is just pretending to be non needy. What a man can do to genuinely develop all …	/r/seduction	07/01/15 05:05 AM
7	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Joseph Campbell said to always "follow your bliss." What is your bliss? Whatever has music in it to you. Trust the process. In the journey of your becoming, most of the time you will feel like you are making little progress, or are even taking steps backwards. But relax in the arms of life and always trust the process. The amazing thing is that most men will never embark on their own personal journey of discovery. They go to their work every day, watch TV every day, retire, get cancer, and die. …	/r/seduction	07/01/15 04:43 AM
9	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Oh man, engage them all equally! Don't spend too much time in rapport with any one girl. Spread your energy and your spirit around for the whole room to experience. Don't just hover around the ones you are attracted to. Go back and forth. Smile and wink and say to her, "Hold that thought. I am going to go say hello to that pretty girl over there. But I'll be back." And then say the same to the next one. Every girl needs to see you talking to every other girl. Because that's just who you are. Wom…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 04:28 AM
3	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA A lot of the times when we "come out of our shell", so to speak, we get better at conversations and stories and jokes. But it takes time (and a scary decision to leave your comfort zone) to let the girl know with your words and actions, that you are attracted to her. In other words, being fun and interesting is not enough. Relax, take your time, talk to lots of girls, have fun, don't beat yourself up to much, and practice not hiding the fact that, yes, you are attracted to her.	/r/seduction	07/01/15 04:20 AM
6	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Hmm, I think there has been a steady and perceptible shift from the heady early days of the Seduction Community (a time of "magic opening lines" and "guaranteed tips and tricks") to sincere attempts to try understand the energy exchange, and what really goes on, in an interaction between a man and a woman. Guys joined the Community, looked around and eventually realized that, although they were approaching a lot more girls than before (a good thing), they still were not getting the kind of quali…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 04:13 AM
4	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA 1) I think there are some amazingly helpful and insightful books out there. And yet, in all these years, believe it or not, I have never read any books about dating or relationships or evolutionary biology. Nothing like "I'm OK, She's Ok", or "Men are from Mars" or "The Red Queen" or "The Power of Now" or whatever. I am given books like this all the time from well-meaning people who say, "This book helped me a lot. I'm sure you will enjoy it." And, bless their heart, I can't read more than a few…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 04:03 AM
16	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA This is a great question and is at the heart of the things that I am forever seeking to understand. I am never overtly sexual with a woman (which might come across as rude or crass), but I am always sexual. Everything I say to her is a subtle reminder to both of us that, "Hey, you are a woman and I am a man. And that is a good thing." I never mask my sexual desire, or hide my intentions in any way. If I like her, I will say it. My interaction with women is very much a collusion, a mutual underst…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 03:37 AM
15	I am Zan Perrion, author of The Alabaster Girl. AMA Aha, well, I have several perspectives I do my best to stay connected to every day. Here are just some of them (in brief): When faced with two choices in life, two potential paths, always take the one that will give you the best memories When we are old, the only thing that will give us comfort is the stories we created along the way. We will look around us as and be able to say, "Well, hey, at least I did that!" Every great life has had in it a great renunciation. This, I think, is a fundamenta…	/r/seduction	07/01/15 03:21 AM