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ZanshinJ/r/seduction11/04/11 04:53 PM
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I've had this conversation with several different female friends (not all of whom had benefits, but I digress) many times over the past few years. I'd ask if they ever went out alone to anything--errands, shopping, movies, etc. The list of places that these women said they go to alone is pathetically small: grocery, pharmacy, doctor's office, bank, library*, gym Everywhere else, they will go with at least one friend. Movies, clubs, cafés, restaurants, shopping--as well as everything listed previ…
/r/seduction24/04/14 07:38 AM
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While the post is spot-on, there is one thing I would nitpick simply for the sake of clarity: So, nothing you SAY to a woman, sexual, witty, or otherwise will create attraction. This is not quite true--words can very well create attraction, but they are terrible at doing so on their own. Keep in mind, text/phone game is exclusively verbiage (but the #1 rule still applies--good REAL game makes good texting/phone calls), and beyond that, being a good conversationalist can also create attraction. H…
/r/seduction12/11/13 07:45 PM
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I get this one (or the variation, "why are you such an asshole?") sometimes. To be clear, though, most people can recognize that I have good intentions 100% of the time. I've given a variety of answers, some of which I reproduced below. "You're not offended, are you?" "It adds excitement and spice to things! Come on, who wants to be boring and bland?" "I like to think of it as playfulness... like a puppy! Sure, sometimes they bite at you, but they're so cute and adorable that you can't help but …
/r/seduction26/01/12 10:22 PM
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Actually, I'd probably keep dancing with a target for 40 more minutes, but only if I keep kissing and teasing. At that point, the line between closing and foreplay gets blurred, though...
/r/seduction07/11/11 06:05 AM
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Nike made a commercial with this quote. I don't exactly know why, but somehow, it hits harder when you hear it.
/r/seduction04/10/11 07:21 AM
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This is exactly correct. To elaborate further... The secret lover/seductor/Don Juan type is framed as a fling for most women. If you think about the "story" of what happened, it's almost like a little fantasy. A mysterious stranger introduced himself to her and made her feel very attracted and very sexually excited. They have a night (or few days) of passion, and then separate--never to see each other again. Attempts to make it last longer on either party's part are seen as foolish for many reas…
/r/seduction19/09/11 07:18 PM
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As a fellow Sikh that has many turbaned friends, (though I personally don't), you just have to be awesome and so forth as anybody else would. Sure, some girls will think it's weird, but many others won't care, and still others will find it intriguing. You need to have confidence and the laid back attitude as normal, and not be ashamed of it. Furthermore, you're in NY/Boston or LA/SF. There are TONS of Sikhs there and the population for the most part is used to them. Your issue isn't the turban, …
/r/seduction19/09/11 03:09 AM
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What do you do if she reacts negatively? I've been there, actually, and it's not nearly as bad as you'd think. Like frogma suggests, I usually just go for a makeout in many cases. Most of the time it's reciprocated, but on the rare occasion that she is not interested and I misread the signals, it ends pretty quickly because she'll pull away, push you away, and say something to the effect of "knock it off." At that point, you can give a gracious, if embarrased "oh shit, sorry" and exit.
/r/seduction17/07/11 08:22 AM
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This is amazing. Not just for seduction purposes, but for life in general. I'm implementing this once I get done with schoolwork for today.
/r/seduction09/05/11 04:07 PM
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To temper the bitter cynicism a bit... The perfect relationship as described is a myth, yes--but only if you look for it. It needs to be built, maintained, and cared for, just like anything else. That feeling of loneliness is something that you can conquer individually only. Loneliness stems from insecurity with oneself just as much as the social anxiety that seddit tries to fight. Happiness comes when you are comfortable being alone as well as when you are comfortable being with other people. E…
/r/seduction09/05/11 01:34 AM
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Gotcha. See, I meant more of how to take a girl you picked up at night and transition into things during the day that I'd do for day game. In general, I understand what to do (and indeed, I've done the textbook "meet up for lunch" or other planning bits) but in several cases I'll get no response or flaking via text/phone, whereas if I get that date set up and it goes, I'm almost always set.
/r/seduction11/04/11 05:46 PM
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TL;DR: Don't have good life experiences? Go make some.
/r/seduction14/01/11 03:22 AM
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And another for the apt username.
/r/seduction08/01/11 06:27 AM
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Please do, I'd love to hear a FR about it.
/r/seduction10/12/10 09:00 PM
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I suppose so. Although it seems like the challenges are along the lines of "do ten Calc I integrals," "isolate and sequence a protein," and "build your own fission device." But fuck it. Advanced challenge accepted, though I will most certainly not complete it this week due to scheduling.
/r/seduction27/09/10 08:20 PM
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Pull a two set home from the club for a threesome. This is a weekly challenge? Do we have any guys here that pull this off on a moderately regular basis?
/r/seduction27/09/10 07:02 AM
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Honestly, my best dates are usually running errands. This might sound crazy, but going to places like Target, the grocery store, the pet store, etc. make really easy and good conversation spots and I've done much better with girls I've taken to those locations vs other things like museums and whatnot. I even sometimes have a thing where on a second date I'll invite the girl over for homemade dinner... And we'll go to the grocery store first and meander through the aisles talking about food items…
/r/seduction19/07/10 02:21 AM
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That was a shit test. The second I hear something like, "that wasn't what <some thing> was for," my immediate response is, "oh? What was it for then?" followed by extreme closeness. Almost always leads to lip action
/r/seduction31/05/10 04:28 AM
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From the sound of things, I think you might be just handing a compliment instead of a conversation opener. Do you say, "Hey, cute scarf!" and leave it at that? Or do you say something like, "Hey, that's a cute scarf! Where did you get it?" The second question gives you a springboard into conversation, the first is just an ego-stroker. You could take their response just about anywhere, but the key is asking/saying something that they have to respond to.
/r/seduction04/04/10 08:49 PM
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I stopped counting a year ago after I hit like... 18ish? Maybe? Can't remember exactly. And I'm 5'7".
/r/seduction02/04/10 05:48 AM
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Why thank you, I am quite the handsome man. But quite frankly, I don't feel comfortable showing pictures of my conquests due to the fact that if they surpass your criteria of 7/10, you or others might be like "fake!" If they don't, it'll be "haha, I told you so." And that aside, I really don't like posting pics of people on the net unless I have their permission, especially if I know them.
/r/seduction02/04/10 01:41 AM
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You're making straw man arguments. Okay, I'm not even going to continue if you're going to start dropping the logic bombs in a seduction discussion. The key thing to recognize is that no physical attribute matters unless YOU let it. I'm skinny and lanky and short to boot. Doesn't stop me. Nearly any seduction book will tell you that regardless of how short, fat, or bald you are, you can be a successful player. All that matters is the mindset. If you (individually) need external changes to get in…
/r/seduction01/04/10 05:02 AM
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I'm sorry, but what? Are you crazy, or just insecure that you need to pick up 5-6 external qualifiers to spit game just because you're Indian? News flash, from another desi: you don't. You need to be calm, cool, and collected. You need to be confident, suave, and charming. One of my good friends who is also Indian routinely picked up girls when he was unshowered, unshaven, and wearing sweats--because he was funny, personable, and spat good game. I did the same thing (both of us are currently in …
/r/seduction01/04/10 04:18 AM
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As the mod there and member here, I can attest that it's very related. I can thank pickup for giving me fashion sense.
/r/seduction23/02/10 06:32 AM
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There's really not enough upvotes for this comment. The point, basically, is not about changing your personality to suit someone else. It's about presentation. What you similarly need to realize is that you have your own individual worldview and values. These, frankly, are NOT the same as most of society. However, it's very easy to handle yourself in such a way that your values and those of most people can coexist well or hit it off.
/r/seduction05/02/10 02:34 AM
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Project. Use your stomach and diaphragm to increase the volume of your voice.
/r/seduction02/12/09 06:44 PM
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I am thankful. It is helpful to get a woman's perspective. And you're right, I have not had any of those issues to deal with. However, her coping mechanism was to basically let herself go so she wouldn't have to deal with that kind of situation, and that is what is troublesome. If, rather than what she did, she started drinking heavily, that too would be troublesome. But again, I'm not faulting her for her choices. I'm saying that sometimes, this happens, and what we need to do is just move on.
/r/seduction22/11/09 08:15 PM
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When you talk to a girl, use touches to emphasize things you're saying. I always start with neutral zones--places where, if somebody touched you randomly, you wouldn't care. These include shoulders, upper arm, and elbow. It can be something like you teasing her and her pretending to get upset, and you can take hold of her elbow and give her more flack or whatever. As you build rapport, you can head further away from the starting "zone" of elbow/upper arm/shoulder to the forearm and back, then th…
/r/seduction16/10/09 07:33 PM
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Kino is escalating light physical contact to demonstrate self-confidence in a physical manner. This is pretty straightforward stuff--guiding a girl by touching the small of her back, touching her arm/shoulder as you talk to her, taking her hand to lead her somewhere, that sort of thing.
/r/seduction16/10/09 04:56 PM
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Surprise, guys. Sometimes, a woman just isn't interested. Sometimes, they're not even polite. Guess what, they're people. It's just another rejection. Say "fuck it," and move on to the next one. Yes, her situation is shitty, and yes, I'd say that the measures she's taking seem a little extreme. But if she's going to handle stuff this way, then let her. I'd rather have a beautiful woman that isn't afraid of dealing with the bullshit that other men might throw at her than a beautiful woman that's …
/r/seduction15/10/09 05:04 PM
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This is basically it. But to provide you with the terms you specifically asked for... AFC = Average Frustrated Chump Bounced = Taking a girl from a place where you met her to a new place (where you and her enter together). Closed = Success in terms of pick up. Refers to either a number/email, kiss, or sex. Respectively, they can use the prefixes #- or n-; *- or k-; and f-.
/r/seduction10/09/09 03:15 PM
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You should make effective use of the bounce and its related psychology. Arrive together and leave together--if you arrive at the same time, it won't surprise anyone if you leave together. Take her somewhere else first or what not, and run with it. Keep the sexual tension high, since you can't lose sight of that and she needs to keep that in her mind.
/r/seduction08/09/09 07:32 PM
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Well executed, sir. I'm impressed, wish I could've seen the delivery.
/r/seduction03/09/09 07:18 PM
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Or, hang out with her and have her go buy you a pack of smokes or cigar or something like that.
/r/seduction20/08/09 03:30 PM
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