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Rant/VentingZealousFeet/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 01:05 AM
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Lack of confidence has more to do with self-perception than being glued to phones and social media. My nephews are the era that grew up behind the screens, yet they still have confidence and can pull chicks. Hell, learning to use social media to game is a skill I think they have us beat in. We can learn a thing or two from them.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/24 02:27 PM
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I went through that revenge phase. Don't ever do it. It'll feel good in the moment, but down the line, you'll be feeling regret for what you did. I got away. I took it on the chin with what bullshit I went through and took it as a lesson. My prophecy came true. She married that guy, and things are going as I stated. I'm glad you're away and look at R\BPDLOVEDONES to get help or vent about your situation.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 01:16 AM
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It's been a couple of years since I browsed TRP, but I do agree with most points. Mainly, not being so thirsty to have an LTR. It's fun for the first few months, but it gets old and feels like an uphill battle. Use your young prowess to navigate the SMP more before finalizing LTRs. Don't have be a pussy magnet, but at least 2 plates is a good learning curve. And, under no circumstances should you date someone with BPD. Crazy bitches are good in the sack, but that's it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 11:08 PM
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Thanks, I will. I've dealt with BPD before. Praying that this isn't that again.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 09:50 PM
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Wish I never met her. Feels too similar to the shit I've been through. Thing is, I know she isn't good for me. Been looking for a plan to escape that wouldn't destroy my psyche.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:14 PM
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I do love the sex. Fucked like animals before she got a bf. Feels like a drug addiction at times. Been neglecting my other plates, that's how good.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:07 PM
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She is crazy. Went against that rule for a second time. The sex is phenomenal.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:01 PM
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She reaches out 80% of the time. I feel I've made a dent. Was trying to sneak me in today, but her bf's family came by to visit. Wanted me over there urgently. Never called me in such a haste before. Thing is, I never expect sex over there. The chaos that I see over there is unreal. Sates me enough. Didnt think women were capable of such fuckery. Sex just comes as a spur of the moment deal. I was trying to enthrall her. Seems it's working.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:56 PM
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I love eating pussy though. Sex wont even matter if I give head because I enjoy it that much. Love watching her cum because he doesn't make her cum. I've been trying to pull back. I wont call her for 3 days or so because I got what i wanted. I give her naked massages, but I don't take it further because she rejected it before, but i did it another time, she went all the way. A lot of mind games.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:49 PM
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She reaches out all the time. Hates anal. She gets viscerally annoyed when I try to eat ass or stick my Johnson up there. But, she wants to try it again, because shes planning on fucking John's again. Hinted at me being her pimp
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:43 PM
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I've heard them talk on the phone when I was there. She does. Things is, he knows that I come around, but keeps trying harder to lock her down. Like she'll just leave me alone. She fucking calls me!
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:33 PM
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I've been refraining from full sex. Fear of rejection yadda yadda. But, I'm goin to do that tomorrow. She's becoming her old self again. At face value, she looks like a hoe to you all, which she is, but in my shoes, navigating this shit is more difficult than it seems. It's fun though, nonetheless.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:31 PM
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I've never been in this dynamic before. Not dying to fuck her, just experimenting.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:41 PM
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Moving methodically with this one. Still a win in my book. Given the circumstances, I've made good progress. We give oral all the time though. Just building influence at this point. Not in a rush. ASD towards sex is heavy, but I'm chipping away. Edit: And this isn't a fucking erotica.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:38 PM
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I know. My turn isn't up yet I feel. She wants me over there everyday almost. She told me that she loves me. I believe her, but I know it won't end well being with her. She'll just do the same to me.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:22 PM
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I'm pretty satisfied with my skills toward women, but what you say makes a lot of sense. I play video games at times, and drink with my friends, but sometimes, I feel a lack of motivation to pursue a goal. I guess I need to eliminate some habits. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 01:45 PM
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You might be right. Mistakes were made. It's part of the game. Now, I gotta fine-tune my approach for future plates.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:53 PM
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Yeah, I was drunk and emotional. Big mistake on my part. I wanted to punch myself when I woke up the next day.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:51 PM
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Giving it one more shot. Meeting up when bf's at work Monday. If nothing happens again, then I'm ghosting. I was able to break her down to oral & heavy petting when we got back, but she seems afraid of piv like it's worse than what we've been doing.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 10:48 PM
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Your opinion of me is fair, but it doesn't matter to me really. I'm pragmatic, and go after what I want if it benefits me. However, I'm not worried about him. I can hold my own. I'm not one to try to show who's balls are bigger. She's for the streets & always will be. From an objective standpoint, everything he is doing is driving her towards me. I'm not working overtime to secure her. Why this is all so funny to me is that he knows that she fucks other guys. He's choosing to be ignorant because…
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:58 PM
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Yeah, I know. Some of the new guys don't have access to the main forum.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:35 PM
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I tried it. Tried to be a bro. They will not listen. He will not listen. Not because you are wrong, but because your facts contradict his happy little world. Only when shit hits the fan is when they listen. Funny how tribulations forge people...
/r/askTRP22/12/20 08:54 PM
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I guess BPD is this 10x with a chick.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 02:06 AM
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Currently me. Realizing that shit will unplug a mofo quick.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 02:04 AM
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Love-bombing and oversharing personal info in your first interactions should make you suspicious. They do this in an extreme amount and I believe your subconscious knows somethings up, but the uninitiated will bite the hook 100% of the time after it has begun. Good luck, bro.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 11:48 PM
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Dude, I had a BPD FWB, and the sex was amazing! They're experts at destroying self-esteem and master manipulators. I got out, but with emotional losses to bear. After breaking free, I had no desire to fuck any of my plates or any new girl for that matter. My BPD FWB was average in terms of beauty, but our exchanges couldn't be replicated by other women. The most intense interactions with a woman that I've ever had. You're not alone. It takes time, but you'll get your mojo back. Stay focused and …
/r/askTRP11/11/20 11:28 PM
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Doesn't get any simpler lol.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:13 PM
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I get you guys advice on the matter. I agree with some of the points. I grew up in a town where all my friends looked out for each other. I am a product of my environment. I've been on the receiving end of a guy being scorned by a plate I used to mess with. I knew she was a hoe, but she broke this guy's heart and he was young, so he messaged me out of vengeance. Contrastingly, I did this out of genuine care for this dude. Pure altruism. Nothing more. Nothing less. This chick hadn't wronged me be…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 01:48 AM
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She wa a sexually abused and trafficked as a kid.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 07:03 AM
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Man, my father had that fucking book when I was a kid. Never knew what it was... Explains a lot now.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 10:50 PM
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She aggressively hoovered you. Mine did that before. And, every time you accept them back, they lose respect for you. You're telling them: "You put me through shit, but I'll still take you back." It enables them to keep fucking your life up. Dealing with these type of people will have you becoming an amateur psychologist. And, I was in the same boat, even after having a few years of RP knowledge, I didn't know wtf was happening until abnormal shit started happening. I got out when I knew exactly…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 01:37 AM
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I was in TRP for 3 years, but no one can prepare you for your first BPD woman. You hear all the stories of crazy chicks, rape allegations, and the works, but until you actually go through it.... They're naturally red-pill. All women are, but BPD explicitly know that they're running game on you from the beginning. Kinda unnerving actually.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 12:00 AM
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I'm a pretty chill guy, but I'm stern with my boundaries. I know that why she always tries to come back.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 02:14 PM
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He wasn't just some random guy. This chick lied to him that I was her step-brother. I met him, and he is a pretty good dude who is just inexperienced. They've only been together for two weeks. If this was some random bloke, I wouldn't give af. I actually talked to this dude once and we respected each other.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 04:16 PM
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I guess maturity comes with age. Part of me wants to best her for the shit she's done to me and other guys. It's hard to walk away without serving those who've wronged you a taste of their own medicine.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 01:56 AM
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Nah, she ain't bright enough to find me. Fir as young as she is, she uses her phone like a grandma. Once I'm off the grid, you'd think I was Amish.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 01:50 AM
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Yeah, I've already left her mentally and physically. This was good practice honing my frame, even though it was tested each and every time we met. I will use this advice in the future though. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 12:33 AM
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Excuse my autism. "Lean" into the shit-tests? Like double-down on your actions and boundaries?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 12:15 AM
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She used to sparsely love-bomb me after the 3rd month. I guess to maintain control? I wasn't her main target though and I was aware of the over-the-top flattery. After I did my final step in leaving, she incited a split to black. It feels like this one is permanent. However, I know her routine. She'll cool off and try to talk after a few days to a week like nothing ever happened. She's already the one being ghosted, she just doesn't know it yet. All I'm doing is waiting for what card she's gonna…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 11:59 PM
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I have a few tricks for when I see a split. Studying her illness also made it fun because I was looking at her symptoms in real-time, so I knew how to navigate them. Information is power.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 07:05 PM
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You can't speak for my own integrity. Only your own. "the only consequence is society as a whole being less free." On the contrary, he was not free. The manipulation this chick ensnared him with was complete. I did him a fucking solid, but he spit it back at me. I learned my lesson. Now, he has the knowledge, but the decision is his own. Or, would you like to be in his shoes dealing with that shit?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 02:35 PM
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Don't know why you're bein' downvoted. I agree completely. You get what you put into these type of chicks. My effort was a moderate amount, but she was intense every fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 02:27 PM
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Follow your integrity. No one here is in your shoes. What would your moral compass tell you to do? Do these commenters follow the same values and standards that you have set for yourself? Be a person you can respect. And stand on what you believe is right. No one can fault you for that.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:36 AM
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I saw dark triad in action with this chick. I never implemented it before. Don't plan too. Didn't think people could be that fucked up. I knew I had to leave because her trauma was so deeply ingrained that redemption for her would be nigh impossible.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 11:58 PM
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I'm 24, she's 20. She makes dudes fall in love with her through manipulation, then leaves when she had em hooked. Sick.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 05:02 AM
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I'm a noob with BPD girls, and she is the first one I've been with. The shit-tests are not as text-book as you would think because they're not "normal" like other women. Most of the tests were pre-calculated like these guys say. They probe for vulnerabilities and strike like a viper when weakness is shown. They seem like emotional psychopaths to me. No empathy in the ramifications of their actions that they bring on others. It's all a sick game to them. When you see guys killing their gfs on the…
/r/askTRP27/09/20 07:33 AM
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I won't try to convince you man. Just trust me when I say she doesn't give a fuck. Like she gave up on life.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:45 AM
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I'm trying to tell you man. She has no shame. I slipped up for a week while I was grieving a deceased friend. Hygiene was bad, and I took a vacation from work. She still fucked me like I was made of soap. She has no sense of boundaries or standards. This is what attracted me to her because she let me do anything I wanted to her. She was easy. She fucks jobless cripples, mental patients, residents in nursing homes etc. If a bum on the train whistled at her, she'd be DTF and plays mind games with …
/r/askTRP25/09/20 12:18 AM
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She targets betas for the long game. She adores subservience.That would be counter-productive. She isn't the normal woman TRP warns us about. She fucks more dominant/stronger framed guys on the side, like me, because she knows we won't get too attached. We aren't as prone to her manipulation as the ones she's ensnared.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:21 PM
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I'll save it all. I don't know the ramifications of the future, but I'll give you guys the good, the bad, and the ugly if it comes to that.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:07 PM
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Thanks bro. I get my frame bombarded constantly, every single time we meet up. After I pass about two or three of these abnormal shit-tests, she becomes compliant and horny. I don't have it as bad as the guy she's dating now. They became "official" after a week of texting from Tinder... He is a lot like how I started out. Shy, inexperienced, and needy. But, he likes a lot of what I like. If I never met her, I'd probably be his friend and mentor him in some aspects. My heart goes out to him. Wish…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 09:31 PM
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Thanks for the tips and info. I never shit where I eat. I think that's the first thing I read on this sub years ago. She does work extremely close to my home though. We see each other probably 3 to 4 times a week because our schedules mesh pretty well. I must admit that the sex is highly enjoyable. Out of all my plates, she is the best in the sack. Why do the crazy ones have the best snatch? It's like a venus fly trap. I do however value my sanity over such a nearly infinite commodity.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 09:01 PM
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Will do, this is the type of thing I was looking for.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 08:23 PM
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When, I'm with her, I can see her "at work." Have you ever experienced something that has drawn you to them? They are extremely charismatic and manipulative. Being around her feels like a drug addiction at times.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 08:20 PM
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I can do that. She does pop-up visits when she gets off work sometimes. I haven't denied ever, because "free sex." Im worried that this new change in behavior will initiate the very thing I'm trying to avoid. Any other ideas? Saving for a new apartment as we speak, but that wouldn't be feasible until next spring. I was thinking of soft-nexting her. Least dangerous option, less stressful. Fading always seems to work.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 07:25 PM
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She wouldn't be unfamiliar to it.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:20 AM
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This is the first tinder girl I've never ONS'd. She was surprised that I hit her up after the first time, months ago. (Crazy great sex, and convenience) Her words: "Didnt think you'd wanna see me again." Then, it turned into this twisted shit. While fun, I do feel the disgust you guys speak of. I do a good job of remaining unfazed, but the more I hear of her torturing these guys, the more detached I feel toward her. Like she's a tool instead of human. I know I can exploit her and use her for dar…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 11:19 AM
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I've never plated a girl this crazy. It feels abnormal. The naive part of me wants to keep nudging pandora's box, but the sane one tells me to run for the hills.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:38 AM
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I mean, she's convenient. I'd be shooting myself in the foot throwing away good pussy only a few blocks from my house. I don't get tangled in her web, and she comes when I call her too. I've kind of grown this primal hatred for her though. I feel a camaraderie for the bros. It's like she hates men this much, she would reduce them to suicidal lengths just to "have fun." Like a cat playing with a dead mouse. The day I move out of this shit-hole, is when I truly ghost her. I use her as she has used…
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:25 AM
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I think she's a spawn from Satan sometimes. As a man, I've been on the receiving end of this shit in past relationships, but never this extreme. Kinda therapeutic to be on the other side. Also as a man, I feel empathy for these poor saps who are too naive to see. I avenge them by fucking her like they're supposed. They'll be stronger after this though. She might unplug them indirectly.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 06:14 AM
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I was giving an example. We are fuck buddies. Nothing more or less.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 05:33 AM
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Treating her like shit actually turns her on, because she knows you're dogging her. She's fucking crazy. Being an actual good dude to her is like her kryptonite though. So, which one would actually work lol? "Hi honey, how was your day?" Her: Oh god, fucking stops! Me: Would you like me to make dinner and give you a massage? Her: Internal screams of anguish
/r/askTRP24/09/20 04:15 AM
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Yeah I'm still learning thanks for this.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 02:07 PM
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Yeah, I just had a slut from Tinder who was an FWB. Game wasn't tight enough to handle it. But, it was fun nonetheless. I know how to handle it next time.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 01:07 PM
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Cornering the market. Stupid now, but that was some good pussy dude. I'm learning and refocusing. Luckily, she doesn't give a fuck and still wants to meet when we have time. She truly has no feelings and is riding the cock-carousel with seemingly unlimited quarters. Foolish of me to try to counteract her natural-born hypergamy.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 03:22 AM
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Workin on it.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 02:26 AM
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Yeah, wasn't worth spilling my guts though. I tried to cuff her. I got done talking to her, she only wants to remain a fuckbuddy so I'm still in the clear. I just need to get more options when a plate becomes scarce.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 12:25 AM
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Yeah, this was me coming off an 8 year hiatus. Honestly surprised that I managed to squeeze 5 months out of her.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 11:53 PM
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All these guys hit the points on the head. Also for abundance, try to acquire some cool, fun hobbies that you enjoy. It'll help you from burning yourself out when you've worked yourself silly. E.g: Dance classes, learning a new instrument or language, learn to cook exquisite meals, or making cocktails. All of those can be done while in school. Dance classes may be scarce because of Covid though.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 03:49 PM
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No problem bro. All things get easier with time. Edit: Also, yes it will be awkward like many things you try for the first time. But, that's okay. The more you expose yourself to stressful situations, the calmer you will be at doing it in the future. Think of it like driving a car for the first time. It's scary and you're hypersensitive to looking at every sign and car. But after continuous repetition, driving will become second nature without you even worrying about the signs or directions. Get…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 10:31 PM
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That's retarded lol
/r/askTRP22/07/20 12:15 AM
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I used to have this problem. I knew all the theory, but failed to implement it under pressure. Just remember that knowledge without experience is useless. It's nerve wracking at first, and you're gonna be stuck in your head in the beginning. Acknowledge those feelings, but still go through on the escalation. Women will respect the courage, and no they're not gonna stab you for touching them. They know why they're at your house. They expect you to ramp up the heat, because most of em are too afra…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:16 PM
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I've had trouble quitting too. I took the advice of putting your energy into more productive activities. It works. Also an FWB wouldn't hurt as well. I'm about two weeks strong, and I feel good. It is a journey though. Quitting builds discipline.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 07:34 PM
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I have nothing to prove to you, only myself. TRP helps you get laid, but is not the sole reason for its existence. If you let pussy rule you, you're going to live a sad life, but It seems you haven't reached that understanding yet.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 11:29 AM
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Seems we got a boy scout. What type of prize do you want? Otherwise get lost. Your buzzing is akin to a fly.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 11:07 AM
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Lmao! Important lesson indeed bro
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:17 AM
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I've read a few from the side-bar and am taking my time with the rest. My personal favorites are: No More Mr. Nice Guy What Everybody is Saying (book on body language) by Joe Navarro How to win friends & influence people by Dale Carnegie Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Models by Mark Manson I think Still getting around to the Rational Male. But I like re-reading these books to fully internalize them.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 03:16 AM
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Thanks man. I deleted it because those two dicks muddied up the post. Readers see the comments first and bandwagon instead of using there own eyes to understand the post. Hate mfs like that.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 10:25 PM
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Not saying there is a right or wrong way. There's just my way. But, hopefully others can learn from this too, as they may have experienced this. And, I never claimed to be fully red pill. I don't take it as dogma. I use what is useful and discard what is not. Also, I haven't posted in a while. I like to contribute shit from time to time, when I have the time.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 09:15 PM
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Never thought of it that way. Incentives.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 08:05 AM
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Well everyone has a preference, I suppose.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:00 AM
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Yeah, it's pretty locked down where I live. But thanks for your view.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:53 AM
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Thanks for the realistic view.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:51 AM
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This seems like one of the keys to abundance mentality beside inner goals.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 01:56 PM
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Man, reading all of this is like looking at hieroglyphics. With all of this business and financial vocab, I gotta read more to strengthen my comprehension on these subjects. Saved for sure though!
/r/TheRedPill06/02/20 04:14 AM
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Uh... Wut?
/r/askTRP18/12/19 11:11 AM
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I was in the same boat before. Getting your first FWB/plate is always a little tough in the beginning. However, I found abundance through my hobbies, going out with friends, and exercising. Plates can only be a finite source of abundance. They will leave eventually, but creating your own value brings infinite abundance. You will be confident in your abilities because of the value you bring to others. Lastly, on the main RP forum, there is a great post about Abundance Mentality in the side-bar. C…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:04 PM
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I concur. I don't too much believe in fate, but I'm glad that my many fuck-ups in life brought me here to change my ways. I still would've been a highly needy mangina if it wasn't for the Red Pill. Even if this sub and it's other channels disperse, we'll still have a good base of knowledge within ourselves to live a fruitful life. Cheers man!
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 11:18 PM
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Thanks for your help! Recently, I've shared my vulnerabilities with her of why I'm so distant. She understood. She has had the same thing happen to her recently. Now, we're working on doing a casual relationship instead. We both feel that we're not ready for that kinda commitment. Thank Goodness. I hate beating around the bush. And, I'm glad we don't have to keep intensively screening each other like the CIA. Two people just looking to bang it out.
/r/seduction20/11/19 09:09 PM
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Self awareness is great! It will lead to a journey of self-development. And, I see that you're understanding that.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 12:09 AM
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I let my body take over when I feel a fear to escalate. No one is immune to those anxieties no matter how experienced you think you are. You just learn to give a shit less than you did before.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 05:12 AM
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I'm not seeing it as a handle. I'm typing on mobile currently. It probably looks weird from what your seeing. I'll change it. To answer you question. I box when I'm not working or at school. It's a good feeling to know that you can fuck shit up when have to. Also keeps you fit.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 05:07 AM
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I've done that before, but I will tell you this. That shit will sting for ages. Channel that guilt into action the next time you're in a scenario like that.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 04:43 AM
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Read the post. Excellent reading. Keep forgetting that the sidebar for Asktrp and TRP are not the same.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:01 PM
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Will do. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:51 AM
1

Thanks
/r/askTRP12/11/19 01:51 AM
1

Duly noted, thanks.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:39 PM
1

This is new territory for me. I grew up with a BB father and that's the way he was, so I emulated him. After unplugging, I saw how his relationship with my mother diminished. Most of the women I've been with were just FWB, so there really was no need to balance with investing in one another. I'm vetting this woman now for an LTR and keeping my fingers crossed because she seems genuine and I want to know what it feels like to be a Captain with a 1st mate.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:36 PM
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Shit like this is why we're quarantined.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 03:12 PM
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I'm not saying give the truth a makeover. I'm more concerned about controlling the traffic of shit posts. Blanket statements are formed, and this diminishes valuable posts. Would want to come to a party with shit smeared on the walls?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:11 PM
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I agree. I use to jerk every night before I went to sleep, but when I gave up porn to get me off, It was difficult to go to sleep without my "fix." Eventually, I became aware of my cues and just forced myself to abstain. I wake up much better rested. I have energy and less depression to get off my ass to do shit.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:04 PM
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Exercise some willpower, see how long you can keep the beast caged. You might just gain control of it. This was really fuckin' wise and motivating! Thanks for that snippet.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 06:00 PM
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Yeah, the frequency at which I browse this sub has moderately declined. I only read the topics that catch my eye on the main sub. There is seldom many topics that interest me here. Now, I'm not the most experienced RP guy, but I have a good understanding of the basics. Most of the time, I see posts that can be answered by the side-bar, or a little critical thinking, but some of these guys want their hands held. It's huge turn-off. I think the more seasoned veterans should bring back that tough l…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:14 PM
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I notice a lot of confusion on this post. Some advocate this kind of behavior. And, others despise it. I'm indifferent. It's one strategy of many. Guys, Dark Triad strategies aren't suppose to be a good thing for the girl. It's extremely short term. Hence the ghosting. He played the game effectively, and the game isn't always forgiving. That's just a part of life. Instead of bashing the guy, learn from this and discard what you don't like to improve your own game.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 01:07 PM
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When I was a sophomore in high school, I was head over heels for this chick I lost my virginity to. All she wanted to be was a FWB, but I wanted more. I had never been more intimate with any girl before, and as soon as I got my dick wet, I got pussy whipped so bad. Months passed and she was still just using me for my dick. The "me" now would've welcomed it. She wanted to cut all ties, but I was like: "No!" So, I went to her house to confess my undying love for her. Her little brothers pitied me …
/r/askTRP11/09/19 02:56 AM
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I've just broadened my vocabulary. Interesting take on all of it though.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 12:59 PM
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I see. It's tough getting through limitations like this. Thanks for the solid advice. Gotta stop being hard on myself.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 09:35 PM
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Not yet, I have a job fair coming to my school, so I really gotta sell myself. I graduate in March. But, to answer your first question: it's the best of both worlds. I get to use my brain (theory) and get down and dirty bending conduit or setting up fire alarm systems. (labor). They teach a lot about the different electrical fields here. But every school is different.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:11 AM
3

Electrician.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 01:02 AM
3

That's a pretty good analogy imo.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 02:22 PM
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Yes, it's chicken. Quite disrespectful.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:40 PM
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It's very therapeutic reading this and the comments. So times I feel lost and It can be stressful at times, but I forget that I am not alone.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:57 AM
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You've cleared it up perfectly, in my opinion. I've been known to abuse the knowledge I've gained here. A line was blurred, but you've help me put into perspective that power is more about self-control than using it for malicious intent. Thanks for this.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 02:04 PM
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Thanks, guys for your stories and advice. Gonna push myself now.
/r/askTRP02/08/19 01:56 AM
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This is only one way that transition happened. Not just from the wars. Even in the schools where teachers outnumber men. The media as well. I should done a better job of giving more examples of that and my other experiences. Thanks for pointing that out. It remains partly true though.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 12:11 PM
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I can understand your reasoning. I want to leave a legacy behind someday as well.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:22 PM
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I appreciate the advice. Thanks.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:21 PM
3

Part of me didn't want this to be true. It's like a punch to the gut.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 08:48 PM
2

Humans despise criticism. I bet if you told your friend that he "has the body of a child," instant defense mechanisms will cause insecurity and resentment to surface. They're not seeking this from you. ​ It would be more beneficial to let your actions speak so that he may "hear" you, then, he might listen.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 02:21 AM
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I admired that you stood up for your teacher, as you're paying for your education (unless you're in HS or rich). You want to get the most out of that; so would I. However, you could have used a little more tact toward the girl causing a raucous. Calling out a class clown, especially a girl who acts like they're the shit rarely ends well. From experience, there is always a beta or group of betas trying to protect a girl in this type of setting. I could go into depth why they do this, but that's n…
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:18 PM
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Yeah, I oversimplified a bit, but the gist was that both group found a way become comfortable with their actions be it a ritualistic endeavor or simply hamstering that one is not a monster/slut. A fruitful contribution you've given nonetheless. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 08:25 PM
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I can see why this would subconsciously help a woman down the line, if they're really insecure about themselves. They see themselves as sluts, whereas a guy sees himself as a success, who would be an anomaly to most who're not in the top 20%. Thanks for the insight.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:57 PM
1

Right! I like seeing what we've read being implemented to help people.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 04:23 PM
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So in other words, she's disassociating from her promiscuity as a form of ASD. May be over thinking this, but isn't that what the military does to soldiers, helping them disassociate from killing someone? "I don't usually do this." Vs "He was just a target." Keeps them sane to mask guilt and other painful emotions.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 03:32 PM
1

Most of you are so critical. I agree that this doesn't mean that someone loves you, but is possibly attracted to you, maybe even be a platonic friend. Citing some references couldn't hurt either, but other than that, insightful perspective OP.
/r/seduction09/07/19 01:59 PM
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Same man. When he asked her about her n-count I was like: "You don't really wanna know that, dude." It was sad that he gave that woman a surplus of his years for it to go down like that. Dude was a BB, but I wish he would've found trp like us. Lessons like that make me cherish the information provided on this sub. I appreciate you guys for that.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 02:43 AM
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Shit was bold dude. Sad thing is, some dudes will still go for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 09:34 PM
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I would always say to myself after reading about guys in the anger phase: "Why is he angry? That's just the truth of the world and women." The naivete of those thoughts are laughable now. After reading that bullshit, I may be in that phase now...
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 09:09 PM
2

"Indicator of progress, not success." I like this. Easy reading as well. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 04:36 AM
2

I'd have to disagree with you. There's nothing minimal about an LTR or her endeavors. Too much attention from another person is not healthy. I do however, appreciate your view on the matter.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 09:22 PM
1

Thank you for your insight.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:46 AM
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Update: We got to sexting and she sent pics, and is deadset to spending the night tomorrow. Why not just cum and call it quits? ​ I've never been with a needy girl, but what has being your experience with needy flings?
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:28 AM
2

I'm going for Electrical and Electronics. Low Voltage and High Voltage stuff.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 04:15 AM
1

This shit right here is why we're quarantined. Outside looking in their gonna see a swatsika loving "macho man" and a homophobe. When your foundation of RP knowledge is gone, what're gonna reference then?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 12:55 PM
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Fuck, who's cutting onions by me? I'm happy for you guy! Gives me to motivation to never give up as well. ​ Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 11:45 PM
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Helping you all to avoid my failures helps me too. It takes some of the pain away knowing there was someone wiser than me avoiding a mishap like this.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 11:00 AM
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This was me at trade school. Almost threw in the towel after pushing it for a few months. Shit is no joke, but worth it. Most things worth doing aren't easy.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 12:36 AM
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I tried to be brief writing this, but when I flaked, our next interactions were friend-like. I tried to rekindle what I sacrificed, but every effort to make plans, she flaked on me. Or, lead me on and delayed her text message responses like I was being an inconvenience. I knew where this was headed and counted as a lost. Edit: No, subconsciously, she labelled me an orbiter through her actions and mine.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 11:32 PM
7

Indifference, me gusta.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 02:41 PM
2

Very introspective.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 01:31 AM
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This was fuckin' brilliant man! Even though she has a collaborator, and was this was well rehearsed, she has at least the basic of basics when delving into the red pill. ​ Only a matter of time before she gets shut down though. Gotta enjoy the little things in life...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 01:42 PM
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No one should know your politics unless you're with close friends or a LTR. Follow the crowd. Believe what you know to be true. Be careful using that A&A to respond to shit-tests as they know more about you now, so the girl may just believe it. In my experiences, not all A&As are created equal. Could come across as shallow. They're already looking to "fight the man" as is. At the same time, I would be weary of the girls you seek in this class. Most of these girls and BP'd men adopt a very extrem…
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:52 PM
1

Shoot man, we're all here to help brother.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 12:18 AM
3

Sure. Text Game OP: "Do you workout?" Girl: "Are you calling me fat? WTF? A#h@#!" OP: "Yeah, don't hit any icebergs. (Sarcastic) OP cont: "Anyways, I'm bored at the gym some days. I can show you a few pointers if you're interested. (Truth/Point of text) I believe OP was just trying to invite her into his hobby, but she was insecure hence the above response. Public Game OP: Do you workout? Girl: OMG, are you calling me fat? OP: (Smiling like a dick) Yeah, don't hit any icebergs. If she see that y…
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:58 PM
1

To me, it feels different. Text and in-person. But, in both situations, I would've A&A'd her. Wasn't really an attack to her self esteem on his part.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:07 PM
1

The one with the AFC reminds me of the post I read on here a few weeks ago. Something along the lines of: "What is manipulation/manipulator? And how to safeguard yourself from it?" ​ Those BP cucks are using service as a foothold to the sex department. Sex as a currency never ends well. In any intimate relationship. That study angers me on how sleep the world really is. You're in her frame now. Control is lost. ​ Edit: Another sentence.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 04:04 PM
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Monk mode for you, buddy. Study that sidebar until you dream about it. Lift and eat healthy Look at the sidebar for more recommended books, but, in your case I would read "No more Mr. Nice Guy" first. Stop victimizing yourself. After that you will come to value yourself more and this attracts everyone. Then, you'll be ready to start the game journey.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:37 AM
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Lmao. Rip trp.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:51 PM
6

How to win friends and influence people.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 02:19 PM
5

Wise analogy, dude.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 01:29 PM
1

Thanks for the advice. I'll meditate on it.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 12:17 AM
9

Models by Mark Manson is an excellent book geared toward the seduction process of a heterosexual male. I was hooked after reading just the first chapter.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:22 AM
2

Thanks guys for the positive reinforcement!
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:31 PM
1

What do you use for protein if it's strictly plant-based?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:14 PM
1

Thanks guys!
/r/askTRP26/03/18 11:13 PM
1

So basically, It's get more women and the abundance factor kicks in?
/r/askTRP31/07/17 07:08 PM
2

Thanks for the info. Now I'm gonna put it into action.
/r/seduction06/07/17 07:21 PM
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This was a great read. I've always had second thoughts about the balancing of dating. Should I lead on some dates? Should I take a break and let her lead for a change? But, now, I have a pretty good idea about it. Also, I would be interested in your free guides for leisure reading. I like your advice.
/r/seduction04/07/17 01:55 PM
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