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That I'm not "good enough". I've been working on myself for a few years, but no matter how much progress I seem to make, I still seem to be unable to attract the people I want to be with. I've had a few encounters, but nothing long-lasting.
/r/seduction03/03/18 02:53 PM
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Great topic. I'm currently pursuing a job in Japan to be an English teacher for a business. I've loved the idea of going to a foreign country, getting a different perspective on life, and being able to interact with people for the purpose of helping them achieve their goals. I especially want this job since I'm be working with people from all ages. This topic just makes me want to do it even more. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 06:35 PM
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Agreed. That's basically people saying, "The way you act makes me uncomfortable. Stop it and act according to how I want you to." Fucking please...
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 11:21 AM
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As someone who has been bp his entire life, I can definitely say that taking the red-pill isn't a "quick-fix" or anything of the sort - it's a lifestyle change, and change takes time. In the few months I've spent here, I feel like I've learned a lot. At the same time, I certainly have TONS to learn and still improve upon. I'm no master of attraction or any success story, but I feel like I've gained a LOT more confidence in myself and my capabilities. The respect I've started to command in women …
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 10:59 AM
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Thanks, man. I'll definitely keep trying to fake it until I finally get it down. I ended up going radio-silent for a month, and she commented on one of my statuses, so I messaged her, "Hey kiddo, what's good?" and she responded very well. We ended up setting up a meet-up during Christmas break and she wants me to show her around the area I'm living in (hopefully to fuck). I'll try to keep any chats we have short though until we finally meet-up again.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/14 12:57 AM
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She brought over home-made ham and vegetable soup, so she tasted quite...meaty. haha Yeah, I'm trying to game other girls and she's the only one so far whom I've gotten anywhere near this far with. Still really new at this. Will keep trying to expand my options though. Thanks! If anything, I've at least met someone I can have a great time and be comfortable with. Small victory, I guess?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:57 AM
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Will do. I'll treat it as a fun game to not get me used to abundance mentality, since it looks like I'm already a little too attached to her. Thanks, man.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:52 AM
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Oh, totally. I even joked with her that I'd totally do male stripping if I knew I could make bank from it. I'm short (5'6-7"), lean (but not buff. More like Jet Li), and hairy, so I figure that's not an option. I'll definitely take that advice though. I see her as someone I can have a lot of fun with. I'll try to go with the flow and stay on alert for more red-flags. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:48 AM
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The tutor thing makes sense, though we're in a seminar class and don't have any exams, not once has she ever asked to look at my notes nor ask to get help with assignments. That's definitely a good idea. After the first date, I knew I blew it, so I stuck around to see what I could learn from her (I could tell she's had a lot of experiences). Funny enough, I have another friend I use as an escort of sorts and have noticed girls giving me more attention whenever we hang out. haha Might add this on…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 07:45 AM
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haha Thanks. I definitely think that I should've escalated there, or escalated more while we were making out. CURSE MY HINDSIGHT!!!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:50 AM
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I definitely agree that she's a lot smarter than she lets off. Both social and textbook. We've had some good discussions about class materials and she's definitely not dumb. She's working on her 2nd B.A., and she's almost saved up enough to pay for her Masters program. To clarify though, she said she got into it by doing amateur night and winning, which enabled her to get her working license. The way she explained it, she gets paid to do lap dances, not just dancing. Probably an excuse. I know s…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:49 AM
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Definitely. I'm not making her the focus of my life, thankfully. I've been going to the gym a lot and doing things I enjoy (like drawing, focusing on school) as well and she knows this.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:43 AM
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You're right. I definitely am getting a little too emotionally attached, but I'm making sure to be very casual and business-like in class, while being more playful when we're alone and hanging out. The two cellphones thing makes a lot of sense. While she says she no longer does it (as she's focusing on school right now), I wouldn't be surprised if she did it during breaks or something. She says she thinks it's fun and a way to get paid to workout. That strikes me as hampstering, so I'll have wha…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:41 AM
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Thanks, man. Yeah, I realized my big fuck up the first date. I'm still surprised we made-out. I'm definitely skeptical. I honestly wouldn't be surprised if she told me she's done porn or something. I certainly think it's possible she's had some flings recently. Hopefully it's not a done deal and I'm stuck being seen as a beta. I'm gonna keep improving myself regardless, but it'd be nice to see my work pay off.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:37 AM
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You're probably right. In the context I said it in, it seemed right at the time. I was trying to follow my instincts. She has seen me hang out with other women, and I've noticed that all of the attention goes immediately to me when I speak up in class. Some of the other girls always talk to me in class, too, and I've seen her watch. Not sure if that counts, but she at least knows I'm not a social reject I guess.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:33 AM
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haha Yeah, that's why I'm trying not to get attached (though she is really fun to hang out with, which I enjoy more than anything). But then again, most people have their issues. She at least has an education (this is her 2nd B.A she's working on and has already saved up enough for her Masters program, so that's gotta say something) and a future ahead of her unlike a lot of women out there. She outclasses me in a lot of ways, which makes the challenge so interesting.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:28 AM
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To clarify, this isn't a "look at how awesome I am, I'm so rp alpha" post. This is a "I've managed to come this far despite how beta I was and it's because of this site" kind of post. I just wanted to share how I've tried to take things my own way (I know I shouldn't tell them my feelings, but I've also been told countless times to trust my instincts. Even here, so I went with it.).
/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 12:25 AM
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There's a difference between being confident in what you do and having an inflated ego you know. Being able to take constructive criticism now and then doesn't hurt.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 03:54 AM
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While I'm pretty BP myself (working on it), I read this and not once did I think, "this guy is RP, but is relapsing." "I went Bluepill, cause I thought I was cool or something." I read that and think you still care about how other perceive you, which indicates you still depend on validation from others. As such, I think you may not be as RP as you think you are. Regardless, best of luck in your situation. I know it's not easy being in an awkward situation like this, but like the others said, foc…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:11 AM
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Yeah, I think you may be right. It's annoying how she still walked with me to my next class and talked with me before I decided to head in, yet she didn't want to progress past cuddling. I know she likes the attention, but I hate the idea that it's all she cares for. I accept it, yes, but it doesn't make it any easier. Good point about it being too soon. We only really went out alone during the initial coffee date, but I figured if I played my cards right, it wouldn't matter. I'll definitely wor…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:37 AM
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I think this may be my best option. I won't ignore her completely as that may come across as immature, but I won't put much effort into talking to her. She walked with me to my other class the day after, so I think she still wants to associate with me, but until initiates and suggests we do something, I'll just be casual around her.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 06:31 AM
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Ah, I see. lol That's pretty funny. Good point. Probably best to save that for after we've at least fucked.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:54 AM
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You think so? Hopefully. I suppose it could've been a lot worse. She could've been repulsed or dipped out right when she turned down further escalation. Still frustrated though.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:39 AM
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haha It kind of is dangerous (people have been mugged in the past), but I know those woods very well and I love exploring in the night, so it'd give her a chance to see a different side of me. Hopefully make me look bad ass? I remember one time I was showing my friend's ex around town, and the best way to get back to his place was to cut through the woods. It was pitch-black and all I had was a small flashlight with me. We walked together hand-in-hand and I could feel her pulse racing and felt s…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 07:36 AM
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Thanks. If she nexts me, I'll do my best to not let it show. Gonna try to maintain frame. Still sucks though.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 06:05 AM
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For future reference, how should I have escalated? You think there's any way to redeem myself?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:59 AM
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Yeah, I figured the hug didn't mean much. In the event we do set another date up, how would you recommend I rectify my mistake? I was thinking we go for a night stroll in the local hiking trail or something. There's a watch tower that has a great view.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:54 AM
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Very true. I've read articles that have said exactly what you are, yet it's funny how easily I forget this. I'll definitely work toward being more open about my sexuality. Thanks, man. I appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 07:36 PM
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I've read pretty much everything and then some, but as I said earlier, I learn more by doing and specific anecdotes than I do articles. Having said that, I have improved a lot since reading them. Have been reading through older stuff again to remind myself of things; but, until I actually do it and see the results first-hand, i'm like someone with ADD.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 07:12 PM
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Question: For those of us that are more introverted and don't care for going to bars or parties, how harshly will a women judge you/ how much will it lover your SMV? I get along with people just fine and am looking to spin a couple of plates (still setting things up), but my interests mainly include working out, martial arts (if she'd wanna learn and spar with me, that'd be great), hiking, and a number of things that are done indoors (like video games, movies, music, etc.). Do I have to get out …
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 02:40 AM
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Ah, I see. I didn't think about it like that. Good point. I didn't even think about it like that! That's very sly. I saw the watched the trailer for "The Pillow Book" and I just started laughing. Chicks really go for that? That's crazy how that works. I'll see if I can find it in my library. Great suggestion!
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 09:24 PM
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Thanks for sharing, man. I can relate. That sounds pretty similar to the experience that lead me on this path. My ex loved having things her way and for the most part I'd stick to what I thought was right, but I was pussy-whipped bad and she eventually dumped me at a Wild Waves while her friends were hanging out with us...to make it worse, I didn't have a ride back, so I had to stick with them the entire day. Beta to the max. I will definitely work on acting more than thinking. My intuition tend…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 09:18 PM
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Exactly. Couple that with a smug look as they think about it and you win. So funny.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 08:50 PM
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This is true. Though he breaks down over really silly things and is really OCD, but for the most part holds his frame well.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:18 AM
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I see. That's a very good point. If someone said that to me though, I honestly wouldn't put too much thought into it. I tend to look at actions more than words, so I'd assume there could be a number of different reasons for why they said that and think about the intention after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:16 AM
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I see what you mean. It's definitely true that scripted lines suck. I tend to deviate from them, so kudos. I'll definitely keep that in mind. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:14 AM
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haha Thanks. I dunno know about me giving advice though. Although in the past I hadn't put much effort into hooking up with girls, I think I still have quite a ways to go before I can lay a 9 or a 10. I definitely agree with not trying to dread game her in class though. It doesn't feel right and IMO comes across as douchy in a professional environment. If this were a bar, that might be different. I do like the reasoning for doing it after we've fucked though. Luckily, there's a girl I had anothe…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:09 AM
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That is a very good point. Thanks for pointing that out. In that case, how about having her watch a couple of minutes, say, "You don't seem too interested. How about we just talk for a bit?" and go from there?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:04 AM
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What would you recommend then?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 04:59 AM
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hahaha Her reaction was perfect. My school is pretty proactive, so there are a lot of self-proclaimed feminists in my school. I am a psychology major, so the concentration of feminists can be too real sometimes. Whenever they say dumb shit like that, I just go straight for the "how is that in any way sexist" line and depending on how they respond, proceed to tear them a new asshole. It's especially funny if they just call themselves feminist and you point out just how little they know about what…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 11:56 PM
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I could do that. I could probably use that scar (she openly talked about it on the first day of class, so I think it should be safe) to my advantage and go, "Hey, I've been meaning to ask you about that scar. It's so metal." and go from there. But then what about the orbiter? They seem really close so I dunno if they're dating (and he's just really effeminate) or what.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:04 PM
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She pretty much is the prettiest in that class. The other girl who is prettier than her is orbited by a (pretty sure he's gay) guy who's ALWAYS with her and the look in her eyes screams damaged goods. She even has a huge scar on her right delt. I have noticed that whenever I talk in class, everyone's attention switches right to me. As for the number, I have an iphone and you have a separate area for phone calls than you do messages. Before handing her the phone, I did all the necessary set-up so…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:51 PM
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I enjoy the references more than anything. There are definitely a lot of cringe-worthy moments though.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:44 PM
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I've read up on kinoing before and sadly haven't implemented it too much (big mistake). I'm still in the phase where I'm not too comfortable touching other people so casually (grew up in a Japanese household), so I've been working on incorporating playful touches and whatnot, but am not sure how to properly escalate from a touch on the arm to being able to rest my hand on their thigh. It sounds like it should be evident as they'll be comfortable around you, but while I can tell when someone is r…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:43 AM
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I see. It's funny, thinking back I used to think my intuition was just wishful thinking in disguise or that I was looking too deeply into something and as a result often didn't follow it (though I should have during a lot of my tests and even when interacting with people). Whether society has conditioned me to not follow it or if I was just really weak, I don't know, but I think that paranoia is what really ruined a lot of chances in the past. Good to know that it's also attributed to confidence…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:40 AM
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I definitely feel the more memorable dreams I experience are reflections of my weaknesses. I had one last night where I was with a bunch of people I knew from high school and my summer job in a familiar setting (I forgot where, but I know it was a place I recognized) and as we're talking, I notice off to the side Jack Skellington and Sally sitting down in a moonlit area with benches. They were talking to each other and looked very sad. I forgot exactly what they said, but like the movie, Sally s…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:26 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean. On the one hand, I've read that girls love emoticons, but on the other hand I can see how it makes me look less masculine. I'll keep that in mind. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 11:32 AM
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Good point. Reading between the lines is definitely something I need to work on. Thanks! haha Will find something funny to show her "randomly" and go on from there. Yeah, she's pretty witty. I like it. We met through a summer job and even there she always talked to me and I even got her to make some art (which she said she generally doesn't like if it's not architecture), so she knows I'm not super serial. I'll take that into consideration, too. Would you say intuition in these sort of cases (wh…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:15 AM
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Well, she said she had friends here, but said she'd "toooooootally come visit" me, so I dunno if it's as meaningful.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:56 AM
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Thanks, man. I appreciate the suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:54 AM
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