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I said it before and I'll say it again. Women who are objectively a 6 out of 10 will get almost the same levels of attention as a girl who's 9, from the same type of men. There's a girl at work, really really homely looking, but she has a nice ass. She gets by far the most attention from men than any other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:56 PM
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You would think this is obvious. I'm a woman and I can tell you all above average women are doing the same thing because a girl who's a 6/10 receives the same amount of male attention as a girl who's 10/10. So obviously we are all going for the top guys, we don't like that he's with other women, but it comes with territory and it's how we validate men. We know woman are way pickier than men so a men who a lot of women have slept with has a higher chance of not being a weirdo serial killer creep.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:34 PM
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Here's the thing that guys don't understand. Unless you're really bad at sex, our current sex partner is going to always be our current favourite. I hope it works similar to men. But let me explain. I had a few exes that were hot, great bodies, good big hard dicks, worked me well, one guy and I f*cked 5 times one day bringing me to over 20 orgasms. Yet, while those experiences were good, they get tainted when the relaitonship sours. I could look back and think, yea it was a good time, but to me …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 09:48 AM
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I way way prefer my future husband NOT be a virgin, simply because and it's probably been said here many times. A male virgin assuming if you're over 25 is going to have a host of social and emotional issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:46 PM
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Oh they do 100% but there's a reason. I've noticed I get far less DMs and likes when I post pics with a boyfriend. I'm decently popular on IG, got about 19k followers because of my fitness pics. A typical gym photo will on average land me close to a 1-2k likes. A pic with a BF would land me like 300 lol. ​ HOWEVER, I've noticed that men seem far more attractive on social media when they're posting pics with girls or their girlfriends/wives. It's social proof. Women respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:48 AM
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yes, and if you assume they've got the same personality most guys might choose the younger one. But that depends on the guys age, a 35+ yearold guy probably would feel quite weird dating a 21year old
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:34 AM
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90% of men are going to choose who is hotter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:23 AM
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Yes but at 18 I am legally adult and I can choose who I date. Fuck you for saying as a 21 year old woman, can't date someone in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:48 AM
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I'm a woman. I've always been attracted to older men. When I was in college most of the guys I seriously dated with older, by around 10 years. In TwoX, there was a recent post saying men were gross for only finding younger women more attractive. I'm bisexual, I check out women all the time. The average early 20s woman is far more attractive than those who are late 30s early 40s. This isn't saying older women aren't attractive, but youth in women is very attractive to me. I can't help it. And i c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 09:47 AM
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This is probably true. My guy best friend has been trying this technique for the last few years, of chatting with random people. Obviously to get with and practice hitting on girls in real life. He's now probably one of the best conversationalists I've ever seen. A month ago, we went on a picnic at Hyde park. I dared him to get the phone numbers of 10 attractive women. Now, he did have his puppy with him. But literally within maybe 2 hours in Hyde Park he got the numbers of 10 women. And i had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:47 PM
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It's kinda obvious to me why women aren't having or delaying having kids. THey don't wanna give up their luxary lifestyles They need to find a man who makes more than them so that they can maintain their lifestyles if they have kids Women are often out earning men nowadays which makes it harder. I'm a woman, it's literally this. We can't find a good man to settle down with. Good meaning, one who's goodlooking, well off financially and won't cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:22 PM
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Be strong, look masculine, project power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:25 AM
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That's your choice, but most women aren't going to find that attractive, but maybe some will. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:55 PM
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What is it they have a common? I looked at a few, the biggest thing I can see is that they don't look manly. I find it so weird that this advice isn't said more online or on these dating subreddits.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:55 PM
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Yes maybe, but loads of guys swipe accidently on less attractive women and never message.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:37 PM
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I dono, I think this is sort of true for most of my friends and it's because rarely men are ugly, so at most times a guy who has an average face but is tall. And I think dating apps reduce this to height too much, there are loads of sexy manly guys in the 5'8" to 6" range, with handsome faces too. But it's true, women probably weight height slightly more than face.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:36 PM
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If you can't control your anxiety and emotions to at least behave like a normal person in these situations then I don't want to be with you. The point was trying to make and probably didn't say it was he was hiding this 'personality' trait at the beginning. Lots of people do this, and it's happened to me time and time again with men. They appear normal, easy going, confident and cool in the first few dates then this comes out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:53 PM
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Women get friendzoned too and as a woman I'd prefer 10x to be in the fuckzone than friendzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:40 PM
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So I wouldn't stay in a relationship where I didn't find the guy attractive. But people lose attraction over time, especially if someone lets themselves go. And i don't just mean physically. I was with a guy for a few months who slowly started showing his anxiety and how much little things stressed him out. I remember a night we were meeting some friends for dinner and maybe an hour before they messaged me saying they've changed resturants. No big deal for me. He went ballistic, saying I already…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:53 PM
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Firstly, i really really don't think much women will be able to tell the difference between a 5'10" vs 6' guy if unless they're like 5'8"+ Secondly, beards aren't cheating. It can definitely improve the looks of some men, but I've seen so many bad beards out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:03 AM
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This is most women, not some. Women don't like neediness, it's literally the biggest turn off for us, especially when we're younger and have got tonnes of options. As we get older, and you're a good catch, we don't mind. That said, guys do this too A LOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 06:01 PM
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I can barely go 2 weeks without sex so the answer is NO. But i did go like a 1.5 years without sex after a really bad breakup and lockdowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:27 PM
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He's normal....like not super extroverted but he's a great conversationalist compared to most men. But girls won't really know that till they meet him, and he still does fairly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:09 PM
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So my best friend is a bit like this. He's quite handsome actually, but he's south Asian in a mostly white city (NYC) and 5'8". He's successful enough that he without paying for dating apps will get 2-3 matches a day on free likes. Across apps he said not from one. And can easily organise 2 dates a week possibly more. In terms on quality, he occasionally dates some absolutely stunning beautiful women, but most of them I'd say are 6 to 7 out of 10. It's not easy for him, he actually does better t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 07:52 PM
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She's getting money from her ex so I don't think her boyfriend pays for anything for her kids, and her ex is literally the opposite of a chad,lol A scrawny short loser who's never had a woman since their divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 08:30 AM
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I disagree, because OLD is just about f*cking dating and finding people you like. Now the only thing I agree with you is the height thing, definitely add abou 2-3 inches to your actual height because women routinely set unreasonably high height standards on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 11:35 PM
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i often work 12 hour days, i'm always very horny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 04:12 PM
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What are you even talking about? Of course women get aroused. With the right partner I can get very aroused and animalistic. However, I would much rather that with a man I'm in a relationship with than random men who just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 12:36 PM
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I think we're also being a bit pressured to be promiscuous from many angles as well. I agree that being sex positive is a good thing, but I think casual sex or being 'easy' as a woman depresses you after sometime. At least it was for me, it could equally be empowering to others so I'm not judging.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:57 PM
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They're hot ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:05 AM
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Number 1 once he's enthusiastic in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:54 AM
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Good question for me its: Be a good listener and then add your own stories when it's appropriate Be loose, on a date and it's 10pm? Suggest a walk, or a new place, always seem like you're up for something Have interesting takes on things, usually funny takes. Even if I disagree it's still fun Be curious and open minded to new things Talk about your family/friends funny stories and experiences too Don't be percieved as a homebody or couch potato, have hobbies or passions that you do when you're a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:52 AM
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TBH I always advocate for men lying about their height because in reality most women think 5'9 or 5'10" is 6ft
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:49 AM
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Hard to explain, some guys can be 5'8-10 and yet look tall, and some guys can be taller and look whimpy. Every single woman thinks Daniel Craig is 6ft when in reality he's 5'10", they are lots and lots of men i see in real life who pull off looking tall when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:48 AM
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A lot of it is social pressure from other women. We constantly describe men as tall as if we're talking about about his dick or something. I get the appeal, some tall men are hot AF, but they're also lots of 5'7 men who look proportion and sexy as well. I'd date them in a second because I'm 5'4", but if I did, I'd never hear the end of it from my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:49 PM
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As girl who gyms a lot I disagree. Firstly, that bodybuilder look you're describing is really hard to achieve and honestly it looks sexy as hell. The big blocky Jay Cutler type look is literally impossible get unless you dedicate a decade of your life in gym and then abuse copious amounts of steroids. Also FYI where this is good or not, 90% of gym bros are on roids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:46 PM
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Yes we care, but can I say I've noticed myself and probably other girls categorise men in looks quite easily, so its rarely a quantifiable score like guys like to give. It's basically, would you fuck him or not answer, the yes would include lots of men that might surprise you. Guys just have to seem masculine, clean and cool/confident, I'd say this is 10-15% of guys, but that really depends on the area. Like in London, where i work it's probably 20-30% Then there's the maybe's......the guys that…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:43 PM
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I'm a typical woman who's done a lot of the fashionable 'modern woman' things (along with my of my close friends) and also a woman with 3 brothers and lots of male friends, so I see it from all angles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:38 PM
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I can give a woman's perspective. Needy men have a vibe, a desparate eager to please type of vibe that is a turn off to women. These 'abusive/manipulative' guys aren't assholes, they just have options and want sex, not commitment. Many of them tell you what you wanna hear, and then disappear. It's annoying AF, and it hurts many women though. I'm literally dating a few guys like that. They don't message first, they don't call or message the next day after dates. Then suddenly on a Thur they wanna…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:42 PM
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Since 17, the longest I've gone without sex was about 1 month. It was alright, I just masturbated.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:56 PM
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What's happening, at least in my friend circle.....I'm a woman (33F)...is that women are getting addicted to attention from men. While many want a husband, they're all my age and it's not a priority. They're having too much fun picking up men at bars/pubs in Friday, hooking up with hot men on Tinder. I used to be like this, which is why I can relate. Getting attention for hot and rich men is easy, almost too easy. And while some girls get giddy and think oh I'm going to marry him, they quickly l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:12 PM
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Can I shed some light on this topic. Women have 3 kinds of guy friends. The brother/cousin/their friends - basically a guy who knows you'll both never date for reasons, but you're friends and get along. These types of friendships aren't daily, or even weekly communications. It's similar too 'hey guys, we're heading to a festival, wanna come? These are the guys who we know wanna date us - we will use them occasionally, but try not to lead them on too much. They;re great for when you need an ermge…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:43 PM
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