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To an average woman, an average man is far below average attractiveness This. Is. Also. True. Of. Men. Ask 90% of guys on here to post a picture of an "average" woman and I can 100% guarantee you that none of them will post a picture of a woman who is below a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 07:47 PM
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Oh wow, so basically you're saying if she admitted to r\aping children* - not a dealbreaker if she's hot enough but if she could do something that could potentially harm you personally then there's the door....holy fuck man. I don't have the words. lost interest in an actual real-life hot girl I knew after she told me her ex-boyfriend had r*ped her when they were dating. It seemed like something you wouldn't share with a guy you barely knew if it had actually happened This too...wow, you assume …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:20 PM
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Ya but have you seen what your average female serial killer looks like? (think having one set of great-grandparents). If you're average female mass murderer looked like Margot Robbie I'm sure a lot of freaks would be sending her fanmail- and also most normal women find that behaviour to be creepy and off-putting, I remember reading about Jeremy Meeks...and he is ridiculously beautiful but also an absolute garbage person, I just don't get the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:13 PM
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being nice is mandatory It's shocking how many guys on here view "being nice" as a virtue and selling point rather than a basic fucking requirement to be a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:52 PM
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And how many guys do you think would be willing to let bygones be bygones if a supermodel told them on a date that she was a convicted paedophile?....I'd imagine not many, but enough, probably statistically more men would give her a shot than women when faced with the inverse but the number would still be small...this goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:50 PM
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In the same way that men are far more willing to overlook MASSIVE flaws in beautiful women they wouldn't even entertain in an average or unattractive woman but eventually you hit a diminishing returns on the negative traits. Why do all these posts act like this is a woman-exclusive attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:47 PM
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Attractive men can't be "creepy" They absolutely can. Sincerely, women everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 10:45 PM
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I loved that thread so much "I work in a mens shelter, they exist" "No they don't according to my five second google search" "yes they do, I literally work in this area" "yeah, but womens -only shelters are better" "no they're not" "yes they are! It's not fair women get to have special treatment waaah" "What special treatment" "you don't know what you're talking about" Well, at least you now know EXACTLY what it feels like to be a woman in an argument about something you are absolutely more know…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:47 PM
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But it wasn't very effective cuz she was doing it anyway LOLOL funny you mention this...this was my SO a few weeks back actually - I wanted him to buy me an expensive appliance for the house and in a rare moment for me joked I'd reward him with "sex stuff" and he just replied "you'd probably agree either way" so yeah, I think he's getting there...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:51 AM
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It's gross and I hate that women also perpetuate this - those "useless husband" tiktoks are a fucking trigger for me, but sadly it happens. My SO's ex before me seemed to use sex as a sort of reward system for him and use things like blowjobs and more kinky stuff as "rewards" it took me a while to train him out of that mindset and just get that I also enjoy sex and he doesn't have to run out and buy me a designer bag every time I give him head, in the past with other partners I'd sometimes playf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:04 PM
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OP's comments about women being dumb, vacuous users who have no worthwhile interests or hobbies and are pointless to know in a social capacity unless you're getting pussy is apparently a valid opinion, this guys opinion that his female friends brought to the table social advantages and networking opportunities that his male friends didn't is apparently...sexist...PPD in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:11 PM
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there’s a degree of vulnerability and emotional intimacy I’m not willing to engage in if I’m not dating someone. Agreed, I'm continually shocked by how little my SO and his best friend actually seem to talk to each other, they know weirdly little about what's going in in each other's lives even though they spend a lot of time together- at work, playing online games, surfing...I can't imagine not knowing my best friends emotional state, when her sister is getting married etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:57 AM
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Oh wow, this crazy rant full of sweeping generalisations about both gender really cheered me up. But you pretty much admit yourself throughout your post that ultimately you see female friendships as transactional and the only currency you're interested in is sex, rendering all of your points moot as you're ultimately approaching the pros and cons of female friendship from a transactional standpoint where the starting data point is "gets to have sex" and comparing everything from there as a negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 11:51 AM
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Because women totally always tell the truth & don’t virtue signal yep and men are nothing but honest. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:00 PM
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Loving this thread it's all of PPD in a nutshell; Woman 1: Most women don't make fun of men for being virgins Man: yes they do. They only look at guys with tons of sexual experience Woman 2: No we don't actually a guy who sleeps around is a turn off for me Man: You're wrong Woman 3: I know a lot of older virgins who are attractive Man: You're wrong. No one loves incels Woman 4: being an incel can be a red flag but not always, there are a lot of other factors at play... Man: See! point proven! Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:07 PM
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Nah not how this works, a lot of PPDers can't handle nuance - they'll do whatever mental gymnastics needed to fit their wried worldview where they are the ultimate victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:02 PM
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Love how so much of PPD is *women giving their opinions sometimes even about their own personal preferences\* Men of PPD - "your opinion is wrong, stop being delusional" And then they get all pissy and twisted up in a knot when we don't take their opinions as fact
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 06:01 PM
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Women are leaving OLD in droves Mostly after years of enduring agonising conversation, mind games and general nonsense from aspiring fuckboys with no real options for LTRs - and yet if you were to hear it from some of the guys on PPD women only want casual sex and we're all fucking chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:13 AM
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but you also complain about men not having sexual experience I have literally never heard a woman complain about that. Ever. A lot of the guys on here seem to be projecting BIG TIME.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:09 AM
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Honestly I think what people find aesthetically pleasing versus attractive can differ - men may be different but I know as a woman a Hemsworth or Mamoa type is sure pretty and fun to look at but when I meet one in the wild would do date them? Honestly?...no....because they're not my type. In the same way I can admire a painting or a fancy vase but not necessarily want it in my house, in the same way that I can look at Bella Hadid think she's gorgeous but not want to sleep with her...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:18 AM
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I think it's because the type of men who claim they hate "fake" women seem to be labouring under the delusion that there are far more women out there that "naturally" look like Bella Hadid and Scarlett Johansen than actually exist in the real world (and heck, even they don't look like themselves "naturally")
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:13 AM
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Early in my relationship with my SO I had to unexpectedly move abroad for 2 years - like the other side of the world. We decided to try long distance but I was really struggling to even make time to call him with my adjustment to a new country, job and time-zone differences so sort of threw out the option of him seeing other people because I honestly sucked at LDR and couldn't give him what he needed and felt like he was putting his life on hold for me...so despite being someone who doesn't do c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:38 AM
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You're wasting your time arguing - this guy jumps on every popular post and replies to women with this sort of shit - he's either a troll or a sociopath, not sure which tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:26 AM
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Lol, this dude and ones like him are the reason more and more women are opting for singledom and cats - I personally have no interest in mediocre one night stands with Chad or Billy no matter how pretty or charming the former is (something men on here are incapable of grasping lmao) so if my choice is fuckboys or lying fuckboys I'm out. Have a nice life etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:23 AM
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Me personally? I'd appreciate his honesty. Thanks for not wasting my time, my dude, hope you find what you're looking for. Peace. I'm a serial monogamist and don't do "casual", nothing against it but it's not the way I'm built, I'm not going to continue to see/have sex with a guy because he tells me that he is never going to commit to just me, I hope he finds what he's looking for, grateful he's not stringing me along but he doesn't get a medal, it's basic fucking decency not to lie to people es…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:13 AM
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I also agree with you, all other red flags are valid but living with parents is not a red flag - especially for younger people - I'm a literal fucking surgeon and can barely afford rent in the city I grew up in and my pay is pretty decent so I don't know how people on an average wage cope and I think "I can't afford to live out of home" is a perfectly valid excuse in this fucking economy, the red flag is "I never want to move out". It's also a little bit of sheer American hubris...again....assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 12:03 AM
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Most women know exactly how a debate with that type of man would go - he'd make sweeping generalisations about women based on anecdotal evidence and personal opinion and very flawed or limited studies and god forbid a woman who counters with similar anecdotal "evidence" because even when she uses actual facts she'll be told that her sources aren't valid, that it "can't be proven" unless she can produce a list of papers, studies, authors, dates etc off the top of her head and thus the argument is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:11 PM
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I'd imagine like most right wing misogynists with an agenda he wants the most reactive, emotional and borderline-insane person he can find to hold up as a strawman example of why "all X are bad" ....like the time Fox News interviewed the r/antiwork redditor who managed to almost single-handedly kill the movement and turn the sub into a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 11:01 PM
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I think for the most part many grow out of this mindset when they meet someone but I do feel bad for those who don’t. I can't imagine the ones who can't or won't grow out of this mindset ever being in a relationship - how would that work exactly? They absolutely refuse to be seen as anything other than the hottest man on the planet by their SOs - if she has a sexual past or a previous relationship with any man who may even be slightly more objectively physically attractive, they'd what? Quietly …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:39 PM
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There are outliers there are women who choose abusive men but exceptions to the rule aren’t the rule and it’s silly to debate outliers im sure you agree IRL women who tend to be in those dumpster-fire relationships tend to be a. Complete fucking drama magnets b.Genuine victims of horrible abuse c. Far too young or inexperienced to have spotted the red flags PPD men seem to believe that most women are type a and there is no such thing as a type b or c - they're just stupid, slutty women who fell …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:32 PM
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Given the option between two IMAGINARY extremes a chads sex toy or the object of disdain of a man who can’t get over the fact that he was sexually unsuccessful in his youth. Why would I choose that abusive situation?! Would you? In the world of PPD only two types of men exist Adonis-like Chad sex gods women find literally irresistible and beta buxx who are embittered, incels who are "settled" for by women past their sexual prime. In the world of PPD only one type of woman exists - delusional nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:23 PM
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Females who are on the spectrum on the other hand is more proficient at "masking" and is not so severely affected by this condition regarding to dating. That's because girls tend to be socially conditioned from young age to conform to very specific gender rolls or be harshly penalised for any deviation - boys on the other hand tend to benefit from the "boys will be boys" mentality that means they aren't encouraged to conform so heavily at such a young age, ultimately it ends up being a net negat…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:00 PM
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Woman here - only started to get proper dates around 22/23 years of age in my teens and beginning of my 20s I was invisible to men and I'll be the first to admit it's because I was a total freak. I have always been conventionally attractive (but didn't realise it until later) and I am living proof that being a pretty girl doesn't mean you automatically play the dating game on easy mode especially when you have an abundance of mental health issues and unresolved and untreated trauma's and anxieti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:31 PM
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Oh sorry, I didn't see the ASPD flare. Now I feel bad. Alrighty Overwhelmingly the attitude of PPD men is that they want beautiful women in their prime who are out of their league and yet they feel resentment and rage at the mere thought that such a woman would ever, for a moment be out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:46 AM
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Which pretty much just reinforces that the main issue with the manosphere is that most of them are severely lacking in social skills and blame everything - other guys, their own looks, their hobbies, women...especially women...on why they feel lonely and unhappy. The fact that they view and paint women is such one-dimensional terms screams of men who actually don't interact with women in their peer group on a regular or either semi-regular basis, probably because women are put off by their creep…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:39 AM
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What you just listed was a bunch of opinions which you are trying to use...using the most LITERAL interpretation of my comments possible to try and prove that what I claim is cognitive dissonance is an opinion? Oh myyyy we're through the looking glass now. Now please give me a boring, rambly explanation of how there is no literal looking glass here and how that somehow invalidates my point...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:40 AM
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This right here - so devoid of any nuance or introspection, pretty much tells me that you aren't exactly socially clued in, you are coming to the exact wrong conclusions - the kind of conclusions that someone who struggles with social interaction, subtlety, social matrixes and social cues and is casually observing women from an outsider perspective would come to. You don't seem to fully comprehend or understand that you also desperately need to grow and hone social skills and how you view others…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:36 AM
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Get out more honey. Reading pop psychology, hanging out on reddit and dreaming up theories as to why you're so much better than everyone else around you is a defence mechanism because you fear putting yourself out there and being rejected. Because socialisation is very hard for some of us, it doesn't come naturally or as easily as breathing like it appears to for many of those around us - but the more you go down this route the harder and more painful it will be in the long run. You don't really…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:14 AM
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Oh boy, 29, and not married *gasps* you better lock a man down before those ovaries dry out by 31 - now that King Chad Elon Musk or whoever these idiots worship and think is the ideal man women get tingly over (probably a video game character) is done with you. Begone woman! You were delusional to ever think you had a shot with King of the Chads! You silly, emotional, illogical little creature - now go find a beta male to settle for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:08 AM
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See how below OP has done exactly what so many of these PPD men do and completely ignored our points and decided we just were "attracted to assholes and now regret it" LOL. Fucking oblivious. Sometimes I wonder does the penny ever drop with these types of guys. I mean OP is like 22 so the fontanelles in his head have barely fused yet - hopefully he'll get over his "misunderstood genius that illogical, frivolous girls my own age can't possibly compete with intellectually " phase and grow up a lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:03 AM
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Yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:57 AM
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Hahahah... I love this "logic" argument PPD men make to try and sound smart - they sound like fucking Vulcans. Logic does not usually factor heavily in a lot of relationships which are a combo of emotional intelligence (a learned a refined trait in most people), gut feelings, instinct and social, intellectual and general compatibility. OP keeps yammering on as if men are such evolved creatures compared to emotional little women which is fucking hilarious because the most illogical creature I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:56 AM
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You keep offering these bizarre extremes to try and justify your viewpoint that broadly speaking looks >>> personality and social capital in the face of pretty overwhelming anecdotal evidence to the contrary. Ignoring the fact that you're starting from a point that attractive + smart does not exist or is so rare it borders on mythical (not true) Your examples border on fallacy because you're stripping the argument any nuance whatsoever. Most people in real life don't have to choose between a dro…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:39 AM
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Like, could you imagine an educated, successful, intelectual man marrying a bimbo? I think that would be the odd man out in my field Indeed.I think the issues as mentioned by someone else on here is that most of the men on PPD are either extremely young, STEM introverts on the spectrum or have low educational attainment/few career prospects so for them the idea of being in a high-paying or high-powered career is merely a thought exercise and this is glaringly obvious in the way that they think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:28 AM
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Yeah it's an order of magnitude difference isn't it? From my observations there's a huge difference even between the low to mid six-figure earners vs the low seven figure earners. High 6 figures (650K+) and 7 figures seems to be the point at which money stops becoming a "thing" in the same way I've noticed in my wealthy old money friends - that is, whilst these guys don't have "Hmm...I think I'll buy a yacht today" money they still have so much of it that in their day to day lives it's never an …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 12:13 AM
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Same. I went to a private college and then med school - by default I ended up running in elite circles. I've dated lawyers, fellow surgeons, CEOs, trust fund babies and finance guys (like my current partner) - they and their friends all dated women either in their social circle or of similar educational or socioeconomic backgrounds. What I've observed is that broadly speaking old money marries old money and UMC professionals with advanced degrees and "good prospects" marry each other,there are a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:41 PM
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Agreed...Most wealthy and/or successful men who didn't inherit it are very intelligent - not only would they find an uneducated woman supremely un-stimulating no matter how pretty they are but they can spot gold-diggers a mile away, from what I've seen they tend to be as pragmatic and thoughtful in their approach to choosing a partner as they are in everything else, very few of them are going to be dazzled by a beautiful face to the point where they're happy to take on a dead weight, sure they m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:16 PM
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I'm a surgeon, my BF is a hedge fund manager/ex-trader, we met in our mid-20s when our careers were just sort of taking off - like attracts like and in general. Intelligent, educated people seek intelligent educated people. What attracted me to him was his intellect and sharp wit and he admits that was likewise his deciding factor when we started dating seriously/weeding out the other people we had been seeing when we first met. Also as a surgeon most of my colleagues are male and I'd say the be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:03 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:58 PM
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Agreed! Speaking as a jaded 30 year old now, when I was 22 I also had a disastrous dating history and it's not because I loved assholes, it's because I was too dumb and sheltered to identify them on site, what are instant glaring red flags at 30 were missed entirely at 22, it took me a while but as soon as I realised they were manipulators, narcissists or jerks (and that included to other people btw, if someone is nice to you and rude and hostile to everyone else that's a MASSIVE red flag not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:50 PM
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It's an amazing brand of cognitive dissonance I've seen nowhere else - a PPD man will accept nothing less than a beautiful girl with no or next to no sexual history wanting to be with them for no other reason than they find them the hottest man on the planet. Kindness? Intellect? personality? compatible interest? F**k that, if she doesn't think I'm the hottest guy with the biggest d*ck she's ever been with them I'm just a loser beta buxx who is being "settled for"... it's fucking bizarre...that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:42 PM
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If this sub was real life, everyone on the planet would be single or miserable in a relationship they "settled for" except like, the five hottest guys on the planet and three billionaires who are working their way through the nubile female population of the planet but are much too good for any of them to ever even consider settling down - the women that age out of fucking these pinnacles of masculinity at the ripe old age of 25 then go on to settle with a sad virgin beta buxx...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:36 PM
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Men on here don't seem to grasp the concept of growth - presumably because so many of them are trapped in eternal adolescence. They equate what is normal emotional growth and maturity and the inevitable change in tastes and preferences of young women vs older women that come with experience with cognitive dissonance. As someone on here once mentioned it's like an adult preferring to go to Bali than Disneyland being accused of hypocrisy and cognitive dissonance because they used to really like Di…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:30 PM
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Agreed 100% It’s a commonly accepted idea on PPD and elsewhere that men are often single because their misogynistic behavior puts women off. This made me laugh. Where exactly on PPD are men saying this? In the entire time I've engaged with this sub I've seen nothing but misogyny - silly theories based on pop psychology and animal behaviour to try and explain why women are inferior and incapable of rational thought, posting links to highly subjective and unaccredited "studies" and "articles" that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:12 PM
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Jesus christ, you guys really do have very selective reading comprehension don't you? It's gotten to the stage where I'm convinced you have an inability to integrate any sort of information that you don't want to believe. I don't fuck strangers. Full stop. I respect people who are honest though. I much prefer straight shooters to whiny little he-bitches who manipulate women to be in their orbit and then complain about being "friendzoned"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 01:06 AM
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I think that's why "i just want to fuck you" might register with many women as nicer than "you are so beautiful" and other empty platitudes. LOL SOOO true. Man 1 - "You are so beautiful/pretty/gorgeous" - whatever, heard it a million times before, it means nothing Man 2 - "I want to fuck you" - at least he respects me enough as person and has enough self-awareness to be honest The first one automatically gets filed under "bullshit pick-up line" in my head - the second one - I'd be more inclined …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:23 PM
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More than likely because the manosphere is full of people on the spectrum who hear what they want to hear and/or have no ability to understand contextual nuance in speech that is generally understood by neurotypical people. This times a thousand. The number of times anecdotes have flown over the heads of PPD men on here, the number of times my argument was "invalid" because of grammatical or syntax errors or them taking analogies literally is baffling - honestly the more I read on PPD the more I…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:05 PM
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Men on here and IRL frequently confuse nice with passive. The passivity stemming from acting in a way that they think women will behave favourably to and thus get them laid. Being passive is not the same as being nice, being passive is inherently dishonest because it's another form of manipulation - men who act passively believing this makes them "nice" are lying from the get go and concealing their true intentions, opinions and natures - they then bitch and moan about women not wanting to date/…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:58 PM
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Um. Nope. Don't pretend US doctors work harder - my average week is 80-100 hours exl my call shifts and the health system I work in is chronically understaffed and underfunded so we don't have the support and nice facilities that US docs do (nurses who can actually do...anything...PAs, orderlies, adequate theatre time and hospital beds) - to the point where one of the consultants (attendings) I trained under mopped floors in theatre between procedures when he was on call so that he could get thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:11 PM
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Nope. I'm not working in the US or Canada. So Surgeon pay although better than the average wage by a long shot is not even approaching what I'd be paid if I was in the states so the only places I could buy with the mortgage I would qualify for are much too far away from any Hospitals where I could work, I'm sure I will eventually be able to afford a decent house but not for another 10 years at least and the idea of taking out a 30 year mortgage in my 40s is painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 10:03 PM
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I just don't see the point in working my ass off for the next 20+ years to own a house or fancy car I mean I just turned 30 a few months ago so my 20s aren't exactly long gone, but yeah, like you home ownership is looking increasingly more difficult and downright impossible in any area even remotely close to anywhere I want to actually live - ie my home city - (and I'm a surgeon), at 25 I also didn't give a crap about owning a house (and still think fancy cars are a waste of money) but the older…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:34 PM
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They don’t need to date some man in his forties who likes to describe them as “not good enough for Chad” They think every woman is not good enough for Chad btw. This is PPD in a nutshell. Expect your post to be ignored, attacked, guys to reply with anecdotal evidence as "fact" and personal attacks that accuse you,a 42 year old woman, obviously circling the drain, of just being "jealous" of teenagers who can have any guy they want. Also the longer I spend on PPD the more I believe that "Chad" is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 11:58 AM
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Thats because the oldest Gen Zers are like <24, almost no woman really gives a fuck about money at that age, like most teenagers and young people - the world is your oyster, you're gonna do great things and live forever....they're also still mostly dependent on their parents so the need is not there...then life bites you in the ass and money becomes a lot more important. Most women I know are more focused on making their own rather than leeching off a man tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:35 AM
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You just know most of these guys obsessing over "gold-diggers" and women "after their money" are broke AF or are never going to get much past middle-manager level...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:08 PM
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I said I know of zero women who hook up, freak out at 30-35 and settle down with virgins. Where tf did you get the idea I know no women who hook up? Of course I do, I'm just saying it's not nearly as common as the guys on PPD seem to think - in my experience it's the exception not the norm most people I know apart from maybe the odd ONS when they were younger are serial monogamists or just monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 01:59 PM
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the real world can be far more depraved than you think You think I don't live in the real world? I was just pointing out in my experience that real life generally isn't like a teen movie. Then again, I've never been to Alabama.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 11:59 AM
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Chad's fuck everyone according to PPD guys - the virgins, the old ones, the ugly ones, the married ones, the one's who've only ever been with one man, your grandma...such is the power of the all mighty Chad, because secretly 100% of all women who ever live want to fuck Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:06 AM
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The theory apparently goes that because Chad's are just so gosh darn irresistible to all women ever on the planet they have unlimited options and thus will never settle down whilst women always invariable will once they age out of being fuckable to the Chadmeister
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:47 AM
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On hand we hear the claim that literally ALL women over the age of 15 are banging a new Chad every week till they are 30-35 before settling down with a lonely good virgin guy. That all women do this and those who appear that they don't are just really good at hiding it .I literally know of zero women who do this. That regular guys and girls still have relationships and Tinder has nothing to do with guys being unable to find love. That frat boys and sorority girls as usual are sleeping around wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:45 AM
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Well then that logic doesn't really hold up - hot men who are more monogamous by nature would have presumably as many partners and therefore presumably as much sex as their less-attractive but coupled counterparts (some of the most attractive men I've ever met are married to their HS girlfriends) and the hot ones who only want to pump and dump will have no motivation to learn to be good beyond satisfying their own selfish desires, they also know, that being hot means that they can get more actio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 08:03 PM
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They don't get flack for being honest, they get flack for being shallow hoes, which they are. Aaaand this is exactly why brutal honesty would never work - it would always somehow be the woman's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:05 PM
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I feel like most... healthy, functioning people - man, woman or otherwise - isn't as fucked up about their sexual prospects as a lot of the people in these sorts of communities might make it appear. They're not. Obviously. It' such a weird, sex-obsessed sub that come up with all sorts of silly theories about female behaviour and relationships and male-female dynamics but underneath it all it's all about one thing and one thing only - sex and their perceived lack of it. All the healthy, well-adju…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:04 PM
1

Oh wow, that dude really brining up slavery as a counter point to patriarchy and systemic misogyny since...the beginning of time...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:54 PM
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My cats are fixed - they're both extremely long lived and in great shape . It's shitty pet ownership that will f** them up, non-neutered cats tend to be the one with problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:50 PM
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LOL. I think we need to dispel the bizarre belief the men on PPD have that "extremely attractive" = good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:48 PM
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These days I pull a ‘baby runs for president’ and weird them out so much they leave. Hahahahaha OMG I love this. ‘I have a boyfriend’ leads to them saying: ‘He’s not here/you can’t have friends?/he doesn’t need to know’ I hate this one - recently I got a "surely you can't like your boyfriend more than me" from a guy and all I could do was laugh, he was very attractive so I assume he's not used to women laughing in his face but the sheer absurdity that I'd cheat on my long-time boyfriend, who I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:43 PM
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There's a very good reason women don't engage in "brutal honesty" with men who hit on us and it's because you never know which ones could fly off the rails. A guy hit on me at a bar recently and I smiled and said "I'm sorry, but I'm just not interested" he then processed to scream at me that I was a "fat bitch" and a "fucking slut" and he was only asking me out as a "joke" until the bartender told him to GTFO - I can't imagine it would have gone any better if I'd curled my lip and told him I'd n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:32 PM
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Women are socially conditioned from a young age to be placid, agreeable and people-pleasers so brutal honesty does not come naturally and this is by design - In my experience a lot of men can't take a "no" or "I'm just not interested" as an answer - they either completely ignore it or react aggressively...and the problem is you never know which guys are potentially going to start some shit, start hurling abuse at you, make a scene...try to follow you out of the bar etc versus those who will take…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:27 PM
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I'm very much to each their own - I personally don't like casual sex and don't - and never have - engaged in it. But if you enjoy it more power to you I guess. My problem comes with this bullshit attitude that a lot of people have (especially on PPD) that a high N count in a man is somehow a good thing whilst a high N count in a woman is a point against her - which is a crock and total hypocrisy. As for the issue of finding someone unattractive - I'd find a man with high N count to be undesirabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:19 PM
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Projecting? I literally don't care. I come on here every so often when I'm bored and it's always the same bullshit with you guys Simps this and Chad's that, All women are X, deluded, too high standards waah waah waah, just a echo chamber and an endless circle jerk of self pity from a bunch of dudes who think life's greatest tragedy is that they weren't born looking like Channing Tatum so they dream up silly pop psychology theories as to why women won't date them and when the handful of women on …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:41 PM
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Nope - I described him thus because if I hand't PPD men would have invented reasons as to why I dumped him "he was obviously too unathletic, too short etc etc" Men on here are obsessed with looks and superficial bullshit. Most well-adjusted people in the real world value substance and compatibility, something men on PPD seem incapable of grasping.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:52 AM
1

So what makes a Chad? What makes them so attractive that women are willing to forgo relationships they apparently desperately desire and their dignity to be their playthings? You realise Chad's are a fiction you all tell each other to make yourselves feel better and justify your shitty attitudes towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:50 AM
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Lol, I don't know who the fuck this irresistible Chad guy that you all keep talking about its. Here's the rub PPD - he doesn't exist. You think Chad = any physically attractive man having sex. Because you see sex as something to be won and view women as object's and prizes unable to make their own decisions so even when you talk about women this and women that and dream up silly theories as to why women date "Chads" it's always from a male-centric lens, the women in these scenario's have no auto…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:48 AM
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Yeah, you're totally right internet stranger, that's exactly what I'd do. Love how clueless you PPD guys are. Yo come on here and invent silly theories about why women won't date you based on caveman psychology, blame Chad's and social media and female delusion and then very much go on to show every woman on here why you're not dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:39 AM
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And the fact that ya'll think like that is why so many of you are single and sitting on here bitching and whining about women's impossible standards. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:35 AM
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I can guarantee you, no fat woman anywhere, ever, doesn't know that she's fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:34 AM
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Ya, exactly. Passion for something is usually always attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:17 AM
1

Maybe you are asexual. There are plenty of women that are attracted to men. LOL. Nope, sadly I'm a heterosexual woman, and I think that heterosexual women who have had to endure modern dating are living proof that sexuality most certainly isn't a choice. I'm also in a long term relationship - but if we ever broke up however I'd almost certainly remain single and this simply boils down to men, or rather dating men being too much effort and work, dating is not worth the hassle as you seldom get ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:15 AM
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Right, so a man's objective then is to become someone you like so that he can have sex with you. You don't really need/want men, so he has to better himself so that you'll like him enough to bother. You're not the one putting in the effort to get sex , he is. He got sex from you. Case of different priorities - sex isn't a "reward" for passing some test, it's a natural facet in the progression of a relationship with someone i like and trust - if they just want sex they can find someone else. If t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:05 AM
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Women hop on tinder and swipe on men they “don’t need” all the time and send him their address so he can drive to fuck them Yeah, waah waah waa...it's the greatest tragedy that you're not all born "Chad's" I get it - also that point is moot in the context of this thread, which is that less access to women drives male loneliness but that the inverse is not true - those women who are swiping right probably would be equally as receptive to not being fucked. You keep getting bogged down in the seman…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:53 PM
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Women don't really want men, so if a man can get sex from a woman, it's because he's earned it. It's not an equal act between 2 people, sex is a prize a man has won from a woman for being worthy. Can only speak for myself - I'm equally receptive to being single as I am in a relationship, I also enjoy sex. Good sex.. I also don't actually need a male partner to get off if I so desire and no, for most women, sex with a strange man is absolutely not normally preferable to going solo. It's not a "re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:40 PM
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Jesus, not only did you entirely miss the point but it's ironic you'd come to this conclusion considering you guys on PPD are just desperate to paint women as the villains. A woman on here could tell you a story about how they saved an orphanage full of burning puppies and you'd somehow twist it into a tale of misandry and male victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:32 PM
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Cool. So still completely missing the point. Not saying the women are special. I'll try spell it out for you again. Men = want women Women = don't want men Let's use a silly example shall we because a few guys on here don't seem to be grasping this - A rando walks up to me and wants to sell me a very expensive appliance - let's say one of those absurdly expensive coffee machines - I say nah, I don't need one, I'm happy without one, I get along fine without one, no interest...but this guy despera…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:26 PM
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hahah nah he was a nice guy, had friends, good social skills never spoke to him after we broke up but I'd assume he'd have no problem finding another woman- he was just so...bland...pot for every lid and all that...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:13 PM
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Lol, Ditto dude...Never said you did - I said your conclusion which was that access to women is what's driving male loneliness (thus it is implicit in that statement that increased access to women would help solve this loneliness)- and that's dangerous thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:11 PM
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For real. If me and my current BF ever break up I'm done with dating. Honestly it's just no longer worth the hassle - no deep seated trauma or anything, it's just the effort to reward ratio is just not there for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:07 PM
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From the reactions we're getting from most of the guys on here apparently it's a massive ask and further proof that women are just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:04 PM
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I think the point that all the men commenting here seem to be missing is that The men want women or access to women The women don't actually want men all that much The ball is very much in the man's court and yet you're all bitching and moaning about it and acting like victims because you can't get women to do what you want and accusing women, who once again - don't really want a man - of "manipulating" them because you're being forced to level up in order to present yourself as a suitable partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 11:03 PM
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Cool, but women don't exist solely to act as a salve to the loneliness of men - that sort of thinking breeds entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:58 PM
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I don't even think it's about the money per say - as you say many women have good jobs now too - it's that guys you describe generally lack ambition and are, to be brutally honest, just not interesting. When you meet someone one of the first questions that is often asked is "what do you do?" this isn't because they're trying to figure out if you're rich or not (and thus worth talking to) it's because the average person spends SO MUCH time working, weather we want to or not it takes up a big port…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:56 PM
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My ex was a physics PhD, worked in the aerospace industry, very well-paid, was 6'3, looked like a model, his favourite hobby was Takewando in which he was a black belt so on paper he was what PPD think all women want - tall, attractive, well-off, smart, polite, in great shape and as you say dutiful - but the man had no opinions. On ANYTHING, from the weather to work it felt like pulling teeth talking to him, oh he could respond easily enough and hold a conversation but it felt like he was going …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:47 PM
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Oh man, I agree with this so much. It boils down to - a woman has options now - as in they have the option to remain single and not starve to death come winter or be burned at the stake as a witch when she turns 30. It's been statically proven time and time again that marriage and children shortens a heterosexual woman's lifespan and significantly lengthens a man's, that the happiest demographic are single, childless women. Many independent, self-sufficient women like their lives just fine and u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:37 PM
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As OP says, women's conception of a dad bod is Zach Efron with >12% body fat. Which is obviously complete horseshit, not "barely so" just straight-up fabricated nonsense. I'm starting to wonder if PPD posters have ever actually spoken to any women save for the ones they invent for these stupid fucking strawman talking points. I love coming on here and watching guys post their pop psychology theories about "why all women are X" It almost reads like it's written by fucking aliens who based their e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:25 PM
1

I think it’s much rarer than more reasonable women, but they definitely do exist, and those bitches are loud about it on social media. I've found the inverse to be true - most women are very reasonable and the ones I've met who expect to be treated like goddesses simply for existing few and far between. They're a loud vocal minority so it's unfair and untrue to say "most women" or "the majority of women" or even "a lot of women" because it's patently bullshit in the same way it would be bullshit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:17 PM
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Or it means she’s more willing to settle. Do you want her to settle or do you want men to remain single? Jesus christ don't bother - the mental gymnastics and weird logic from men on PPD would make your head spin, pretty much boils down to; They want a virginal supermodel between the ages of 18-25 who loves them for them but also is in no way "settling" or out of their league because then they'd just be pathetic beta buxx and also despite women being so shallow and having such unrealistic expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:55 PM
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"nobody seriously thinks Jason Momoa is average. At all" All of the pretend women these guys on PPD know/have conversations with to justify their strawman arguments do tho...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:45 PM
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Ok so by your own admission men think that the average woman is a "fat girl" but women think that average men have "dad bods" but it's women who are more delusional because...reasons...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:44 PM
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Do her a favour and dump her. She must have zero self-esteem if she stays with you despite knowing you don't think she'll ever be "good enough" to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:11 PM
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Yeah, initially I was thinking maybe it's the type of girls he's going for but reading his comments I don't believe the women are "playing hard to get" I think they're intensely fucking put off and creeped out when OP starts to show his true colours, back off and then he takes this as them "playing hard to get" when in reality it's probably a case of him not picking up on their bad vibes or understanding "no means no"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:45 PM
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I don't really like the term "guard sex" it makes us sound like we're some kind of bridge trolls spitefully hoarding something from the poor menfolk until they can prove their worth when in reality, I, like many women, just have zero interest in having sex with most men I meet and as you said, much higher risk for us and no guarantee the sex will be good or even enjoyable so...why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:43 PM
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So she's good enough to date but not to marry? Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:37 PM
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I love how a lot of men on here take it as a given that they are the only ones smart or capable enough of running the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:37 PM
8

I find many men attractive, but don't want to fuck any of them. This is sadly, a concept that is completely alien to about 90%+ of the male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:33 PM
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First off it's never going to be a direct comparison because men and women fundamentally think differently about the opposite sex - In Men outward physical attractiveness pretty much equates to sexual interest whilst in women those two things are not necessarily linked (this where most male PDDers always slip up because they just can't comprehend this concept)...Men value outward physical attractiveness (ie; fuckability) to an insane and almost irrational degree in women whilst for most women ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:31 PM
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Alright, just because a) I'm European, living in Europe - have never found American men particularly attractive or dateable compared to European men, nor have my friends b) I've been to the US more times than I can count and yeah, holy crap you do fat people like nowhere else - but in my age bracket (20s/30s) the majority of people who were't those huge outliers - looked normal and no different from the average northern european save for some of the slavic countries where everyone is tiny and lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:37 PM
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If a guy is traveling abroad and has some semblance of style, intelligence, and language ability, he can meet attractive and educated women likely of better quality than back in the US. If he was stylish and intelligent he would't have a problem back home - and why do you think he'd get a woman of better quality? What's wrong with US women? A lot of things in your comment just don't sit right with me, the weird racist depiction of hispanic people, the idea that US women are low-quality for some …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:38 PM
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Honestly from my travels in Asia it's that whiteness is often conflated with money/having money that makes them an attractive prospect not that white = hot and as you said before a lot of western men delude themselves as to just how much money they need to make up for their shortcomings (basically what I'm saying is unless they go to a really remote village where some uneducated girl is literally starving, if they had the money to draw "quality" asian women they'd have the money to attract white…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:27 PM
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I have an EU passport, the only people I know who have married for one are high-grade professionals who married their - usually equally as successful partners - in order to stay/work in the country, or those who are are poor and desperate - very few of them tbh and they tend to be from places like Albania and Belarus rather than Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:17 PM
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In his defense, I see A LOT of German/Dutch/Scandi dudes with Asian women here in Europe. There are literally billions of Asians so the idea that you come across mixed-relationships shouldn't be unusual - I also know of a ton of mixed-race relationships (heck, I'm in one myself) but those women could just as easily date asian men, or any men - they're not just dating their partners because they need the money or are desperate are are suuuper attracted to whiteness, that's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:13 PM
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The notion that just being white and not fat women in other countries will throw themselves at you is a pipe dream. Agreed! (also agree with the statement that DR men are hot) The only place that "white" is the beauty standard is in the west or countries so fucked up by colonisation they think witness = hotness (Talking to you northern India!) everywhere else? They prefer their own men and women in general. My fiance is from China, I very much fit the western beauty standard over here being tall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:04 PM
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OP has never been to Europe. No shit. He thinks being paid in dollars means that Asian women will throw themselves at him and also believes that white westerners are considered more attractive than their own men - he's obviously getting his knowledge of foreign cultures from Porn
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:12 PM
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prettier than your average dominican republic guy who might just be pseudo starving You are just by having a previously salary in dollars much richer, probably healthier, and smarter than competition there. And honestly some guys are down to having a wife that he can be a sugar daddy to using his western salary, ​ Jesus christ, Do you hear yourself? That whole comment reeks of smug, western superiority, let's ignore the fact that you're under the misguided belief that the US is the best country …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:07 PM
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As a woman who is dating a SEA man with sisters you do realise they look down on those types of western dudes as pathetic, gross losers right?... and the old ones who come looking for a barely-legal asiatic wife are derided as goldfish men? Attractive, educated Asian women aren't lining up to jump on white dick and getting giddy at the thought of moving away from their home and their culture to be the pretty pet of a man who makes a sweet 85K a year working as a middle manager in tech and if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:58 PM
1

Symmetry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:53 AM
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Oh man, someone is outing themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:52 AM
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Porn? Don't care, and many women don't - we're not stupid, we know men watch porn...so do we *gasps* everything in moderation. Instgram models - well I'm in my 30s and so is my partner - following instagram "models" is something I associate with <25 so if I caught my SO doing that I'd think it was sort of lame and sad in the same way he would if I decided to try an emulate Kylie Jenner or become a Youtuber...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:51 AM
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Cool anecdotal example of your totally real "feminist" friends perceived negative personality trait being used to invalidate my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:46 AM
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Hahaha...wow, you seriously trying to mansplain...myself?....to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:44 AM
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I dunno, I think it’s a maturity thing not an ingrained trait of our gender. THIS. Being able to screen toxic behaviour is very much a learned trait. Young women will of course go for attractive boys/men in the same way that young men want the attention of pretty girls - but a lot of men are toxic, self-entitled assholes - eventually we learn there far are more important things than looks - something that most men in PPD have yet to evolve beyond, they are stuck in the mindset of a young inexper…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:24 PM
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If I think a woman is unattractive and don't want to fuck her, I don't need to make up all kinds of imaginary villainizations to assassinate her character to justify it. I don't wanna fuck her cause she's ugly. Most women don't actually obsess about sex in the way that men do so we can be a lot more rational - there is no one on this earth so attractive that if I found them an abhorrent human being personality wise that I couldn't help but sleep with them, not many men can say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:11 PM
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