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Hell yes!
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 02:14 AM
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The more worry and attention the more worry snd attention. Be courageous, tell her you don’t always get hard for more than 10 minutes and it’s your body. She’s not always wet, we’re all human. Tell her then what turns you on snd what you like and then do it. And then Keep doing it until you’re comfortable. I had a great time with my girlfriend snd she was so reassuring with this exact phrasing and after the next couple of times having sex, it just wasn’t an issue because I wasn’t “performing “ i…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 09:20 PM
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You just learn from this point on to measure a woman’s (or any partner’s ) character. Just a lesson learned
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 07:07 PM
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https://a.co/d/9KEPmdp All ya need
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/25 02:36 AM
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Have you asked her about it?
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/25 02:47 PM
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I would never take these statements as more than an emotional burp. Take a breath and ask her how she feels about that and see how she reacts. Just keep asking her questions.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/25 11:09 PM
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Are you going to Al-Anon? That might be a place to get emotional support from people in similar experiences.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 08:15 PM
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Wait she spoke with the ex? That’s it…?
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 11:26 PM
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Notice your own perspective which both desires and rejects her. Work on understanding your why there
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/25 08:41 PM
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None of these feelings are bad. Feel them completely, grieve, cry, don’t let it bottle up.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 08:22 PM
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I’ve never seen correlation between the behaviors women complain about and their dating behavior. Every single time the women who complained to their friends about their man’s behavior were more loyal, more interested and more attracted. The women who had no complaints moved on. Other than consent and true “no’s” what women say they want and what they actually want are always two different things.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 01:11 PM
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I think a better question to ask is if you are holding back fireworks. You’re only going to get from a woman what you give. Do you feel like having fireworks with her? Or not?
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 06:08 PM
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Yeah I think so. I think it makes sense that given the what you went through and how you feel, you could both hold back emotion and logically question to protect yourself from future harm.
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 06:07 PM
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I think it matters most how you feel. It sounds like you like this relationship but feel numb towards romantic interest? I’ve dated a bit during separation and I definitely don’t feel butterflies but I do feel excited getting to know women or being intimate. How does this seeing this woman make you feel in general when you’re together?
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 05:58 PM
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Don’t compromise; don’t assume good faith. Straight and narrow from here on out.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 03:25 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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