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| 2 | Women who struggle to find a long-term partner aren't "too good" for the men who are also singleWanna have better success at dating/ love life? Get off the internet and get out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 07:04 PM |
| – | Men are more shallow than women and you know itI prefer tall women but i am kinda tall guy myself. Care more that she is like me, takes care of her appearance and has an active lifestyle. I care more about the kind of partner she is. How she treats those close to her. Investing time and energy into a self absorbed and entitled brat is not worth the effort. There are shallow men and shallow women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:47 PM |
| 6 | Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are notThis ^ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 11:56 AM |
| – | I don’t want to give him “that satisfaction” is one of the most overlooked power dynamics in dating.Equality ** Doesn’t take a genius to know what comes with the ** (Some exceptions may apply) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemI actually hate it i feel obligated to totally ditch whatever it was i was doing and accommodate whatever was thrown at me or at very least entertain. Lastly not all men solicit prostitution or strip clubs. Why pay for that? Its meaningless an proxy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemWoman have already gotten into sleeping with minors? How much longer before they get into sexually harassing men to prove their point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Women Love Objectification, When It Benefits ThemObjectify a woman who is into you = 😁🥰 Objectify a woman who is not into you = 🚔👮♂️ Don’t objectify a woman that is into you = 💩🔥 Dont objectify a woman who is not into you ✅ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 06:54 PM |
| – | Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different.See you 100% nailed it. I don’t feel sorry for them when they feel this way usually but sucky reverse end to this mentality is when she seems like a good woman. Sometimes he is just not available- as mentioned I have a gf. For example. Today i was talking with this lovely house keeper at a client’s property. She was pretty attractive and some small talk just seemed to escalate and maybe some chemistry. Eventually I had to go but 100% would have been interested in getting to know her better if i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Men do reject women at similar rate, it’s just different.Based on this logic i have rejected a tonne of women. Have a gf now but many times i got signals and just never bothered for whatever reason… But this is stupid logic. Men are told not to approach women or bother them so we don’t… but we must make ourselves available the minute she wants us to otherwise its rejection. Imo it’s rejection when you turn someone flat down. Not going out of your routine for someone you don’t know and may just be fishing for attention or ego boost is not rejection. Be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.“Bad relationships still provide validation” Yes that is true but at what cost? Some people validation isn’t worth the bs and some people it is. The wisdom is knowing when to draw the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 10:07 AM |
| 2 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.I think there is some truth to this. Everyone likes to feel desired to some degree. Sad thing is many of these women would make better partners than entitled attractive women if men were not so focused solely on appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:33 AM |
| 4 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.They are sad until they put themselves together. Get into a few relationships and realize it isn’t all the hype unless she is a good person and will provide value to his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 4 | MEN ONLY: Do all men cheat?My dad never cheated on my mom. I have never cheated on any of my gf. I think it runs in family/core values to be honest. A lot of women’s personalities I have met just give me the ick anyway… so that significantly narrows down my pool. If she was to upset me enough I would dump her before I could find someone else suitable to cheat. I have been single most of my life. My current gf I really love and her ex husband cheated on her. I am the first man she has ever felt safe with so I couldn’t do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 12:24 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women's typical dating advice is not purposed with genuinely helping guys find solutions, but rather subconscious privilege-guardingAll that plus be funny, over 6 feet tall, handsome, make good money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/26 01:56 AM |
| -2 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menIm not opposed to this either. I do think people who serve make sacrifices and are quickly forgotten and taken for granted. All kinds of hoopla for nurses and doctors during the pandemic. Shouldn’t people who fight for their country also get appreciation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:38 PM |
| -1 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menDrafting should be by age. Job status, let people who need work go. Do not discriminate based on gender. Its 2026. Women wanted equality so let them fight wars too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:28 PM |
| 8 | Draft should be accompanied by more rights for menHow about they draft women too like israel does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Men are non chalant bc of womenYou’ve never had to be a man and attract woman. Im not saying you haven’t had struggles with dating but women will lose their shit if men pretend to know what their issues look like so please don’t do the same to us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 11:26 PM |
| 11 | CMV: "meeting women IRL" doesn’t magically bypass women’s standards in 2026 and people should stop acting like it doesI think if you can be social and you are not a catfish you will stand out more meeting in person than online. Many times online you match you chat and she just moves on to someone else. You kinda blend in with the crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:01 PM |
| 8 | Women should not be taken seriously and there is a reason for it1) doesn’t apply only to women. There are plenty of guys that will play it safe too. Avoid arguing or disagreeing, the irony is about this is it often times is when they show interest in a women. I think women that do regularly play it safe only do so because they can care less about the matter at hand. There have been plenty of women who spoke out. Can you imagine the courage it took them in the suffrage movement? 2) you may have some leg to stand on here. But understand too that there are plen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Being offish or disinterested around women is not as attractive as men on here often think it isI have a girlfriend. Ive been told over and over im a good looking dude. Im over 6 feet, built like a rock, full set of hair. Ive never had issues with attracting women physically. I agree indifference will never yield any results however there is point where I just know certain women are not worth approaching. There are certain types that everywhere they go they be trying to get as much attention possible. Then there are some that just don’t wanna be bothered. What kills me is how they get tonn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 08:21 PM |
| 3 | No woman who likes you is gonna make you wait or play “hard to get”So you are basically admitting that there are women that show interest in a guy just to lure him in for attention? Im not disagreeing with what you are saying re: if she is actually interested. But i have seen many times no interest, constant pursuit by abundance of guys. Only for her to try to lure me into her fan club too. I have a gf already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 10:11 AM |
| – | Why don’t men have a body positivity movement?It doesn’t work the same way. Alot of men are already at a disadvantage in dating. There is always some man willing to bag big Bertha. There is almost no women that are desperate to be with some short man. Society has also turned around and told women straight up not to settle aka be realistic. She can be overweight and middle of the road as far as appearance and will feel she deserves the 6-2 athletic chad. Men don’t do this because they join a gym membership and work out. Clean themselves up. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/26 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesI can imagine this is disappointing for you. Id just be mindful that you are not presenting yourself in a negative way. Im not saying you are but it is possible for anyone to showcase red flags early on and for people to run. Especially that the relationship is moving slowly. Now that said I think you should keep dating and you will eventually find a man that not only appreciates this in you but also shares a similar mindset. Not all guys want hoes some actually want a proper relationship. Its a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:36 AM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingEverything shadowcat stated is facts but this is another important one that is highly overlooked is why men chase women that are not invested in them. Its almost reverse psychology, not overly investing in a woman early quietly implies a man has options. She can take it or leave it. If he is gonna hop into a bidding war with other men, he doesn’t really stand out. If she is gonna be disrespectful or play games he can opt out. The amount of times i have done this for her to beg me to come back is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:17 PM |
| – | Most men here don't like women and that's their issue in datingI don’t think the problem is actually once people are settled in. Most guys are just bitter for not having what women look for. There are bitter women too. This generation has had too much handed to them on a platter and don’t want to invest in personal growth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:10 PM |
| 3 | 30s are perhaps the hardest years to date (even if you're youthful)I agree with this my twenties was a train wreck. Ive had better relationships in my thirties and age range has opened up. I just avoid under 25 for obvious reasons. Thirties can be great time if you take care of yourself and live a content life. You don’t have to be made or have it all figured out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.Everyone acts as if it is the normal for a relationship to be successful. That should be everyone’s intention but the reality is most relationships will NOT be. I think everyone could benefit from being a little more patient, flexible and understanding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 06:33 PM |
| 3 | The only way for men to move forward is to recognize both the positive AND toxic traits of the men who came before us, including our fathersImportant as it is to respect and appreciate your parents, their sacrifices. Understand that they are people too, no marriage is perfect, no person is perfect, there is no parents book for dummies. They are not masters at life. They made their share of mistakes along the way, they were not always a perfect parent or spouse. Yes learning from their mistakes is a great start. There is a saying “sons inherit the sins of their fathers” this can apply to anyone in re: to their parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 10:37 PM |
| 0 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.No there is a difference i agree with electronic cherry. They can be educated as to what is going on here. There is a fine line between walking into something and abuse. Instead of all this other garbage how about they teach this in schools? It’s exploitation because this behaviour doesn’t work on healthy individuals. It works on those who are damaged and have already likely had toxic men in their life. If they are educated more and know whats going on and still choose then your argument is vali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.There is a way to do this but it takes time and patience and a lot more work. Assets. There are women that see through TRP mindset too and are open to dating modernized egalitarian men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.I mean I’m not entirely disagreeing with you. As society all we can really do is educate people what is going on here and let them make a choice. Im not blaming red pill men because they can make this work…. Somewhat. The way I see it is the red pill game is almost like a magic trick. When people do not know or understand what is going on it works like magic and is effective on certain types of people. When you understand and see through it. It’s really nothing special. It can be argued as succe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsI mean we are allowed to have standards too. So if juice doesn’t seem worthy of the squeeze we don’t bother either. Also do men play games and act disinterested when they “want you to try harder” when you initiate conversations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Redpill moral reasoning is felony-based. Hence, they cant detect good, bad, nor creepy behavior.As a guy myself i find lot of red pill mentality to be borderline predatory. Rarely is it about finding a suitable woman to connect with and grow together on. It’s about exploiting women’s insecurities and getting her to think she is beneath them, which often turns into abusive relationship. Human nature can be kind of messed up. These women will choose an abusive red pill man who turns her on over a kind gentle man who is a better long term partner. Im not blaming anyone for this. It’s inevitab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generations“Men are whining that they are back up options before anything is started” You literally just proved the point and somehow missed it at the same time. Let me spell it out for you. Men are not cannon fodder for your stupid ego. Who wants to be someone back up option? or let alone have to invest time, resources and energy when majority think that their presence is all they have to bring to a relationship? “He must be over 6 feet” thats 1 in 5 guys “He must make 6 figures thats another 1 in 5 guys … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsI can’t agree more with this. The whole dating community would be better for everyone if people were to make an effort to understand the struggles of other people. Even when they may not seem apparent, everyone has unique obstacles. Problem is not many people do that and it usually comes later on in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsThis is part of being a man that I don’t like is that there are men that do this. Based on my own experience, yes guys like this can ruin it for good guys too. However it’s an easier cope to believe that this is the case all the time. Well it is some of the time sometimes things escalate quickly and the woman thinks her existence is all she has to bring to the table and thats why men move on. Both men and women really would be wise to not escalate things so quickly until a solid foundation is bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 12:37 PM |
| 4 | This man should not be shamed for running away while while girlfriend gets attacked by muggersThe guy had a knife. They either should have just not contested or stood ground. Which is kind of dumb. I personally would want to protect my gf because I love her. I would not leave her side in this situation. Good thing on random Colombian citizens to intervene. If i was this girls dad id never let her travel with this guy again. Tldr. This mans actions do not make him effeminate but he did not handle this situation in the manner of a strong nor intelligent man. It took other men to step in an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 04:41 AM |
| 7 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsPast generations women were different too. So as much as what you are saying regarding the “give up” culture of gen z may be true. The stakes are entirely different. Social media has definitely changed the landscape of dating. Not to mention modern feminism-which i by no means am saying is wrong or bad. Past generations of women didn’t assume all men were predatory. Ironically predatory men didn’t have to worry about cameras everywhere. Past generations of women didn’t believe they were superior… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:31 PM |
| 12 | Gen Z men shouldn't take dating advice from older generationsImagine you were expected to pay for dates in order just to be on someone’s roster? Women like you have no concept of what mens problems are in regard to dating. Social media has skewed many into thinking they are better than everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenThis touches on the hot topic of “nice guys” being red flags. “Nice guys” don’t know how to stay firm. They will hop through all the hoops and bend over backwards for literally any woman that gives them the time of day. I think for lot of men the mental gymnastics of confidently selling themselves and simple self respect is too difficult when they haven’t had success. The real irony is it is almost a win win. You may not get a date right away, but also filter out the ones immediately that are no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenYour rationale is spot on. It’s not women’s fault men are afraid to set boundaries. I was afraid to do that. But they don’t realize quality women actually welcome that as long as it is done in an intentional and respectful manner. This is how i met my gf i was surprised | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 03:57 PM |
| 29 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenI could simplify this whole post. Women have zero clue what men struggle with in regard to dating. They don’t have to get rejected. Or pass stupid shit tests. Even as far as sending signals, sending something that is not cryptic or conveying an interest in someone they welcome is beneath them. Its not women’s fault this is the case. Men literally are afraid to call them out on their wrong doings and will accept/ validate women based on attractiveness even though their character can still be seri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | The "Nice Guy Finish Last" mindset is inherently misogynistic and shows a lack of personal accountability.I think that this behavior is guilty of both genders. It really boils down to values and priorities. Yes there are women who are drawn to bad boys. There are also women that are put off by men who are rude, disrespectful and don’t care. There are men that are simps, they are just as guilty of not holding women accountable. There are simp men that will not care at all about how a women’s personality is and worship the ground she walks on. Treat her as if she was princess Diana. Court system was d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableThis is actually a great post. It goes to show how there are differences in perception. I can only speak from my experiences as a man and my experiences with women. Men tend to be kind of simple, women definitely more complicated. There is no right or wrong. I think both genders are also guilty of overestimating expectations. Not all men want a perfect body. Not all women expect 6 6s. Connection and feeling comfortable expressing goes a long way. Also appreciating people for who they are and not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notSee what a lot of men don’t understand is the patriarchal system is what has created this mess. Yes society has turned fake and materialistic. Wages have not kept up with inflation. Sports tickets concerts etc have all priced out a lot of people. 50 years ago women needed men, now they can support themselves. All the power to them. They can date whoever they want. Not all women are gonna end up with men they want and most men won’t end up with someone they want. It’s a women’s market until you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Most women aren’t good enough for relationships for most menEverything you have listed here has by and large been my experiences in dating. Ive had two exceptions to this, one of the two being my current gf. It’s important to be patient with relationships and make baby steps. To communicate what each party wants in a relationship early on. Some women are willing and enjoy to take good care of her man. They are the more independent women and if this is something that matters to you then definitely don’t waste time with women who are out to sponge of men. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 06:14 PM |
| – | Let’s Be Honest: Men Can Be ‘Hoes’ and Still Get Respect Women Can’tIt’s because men have to be the hunters, the ones who initiate the contact and seduce. Women can seduce men pretty easily if they wanted to but they don’t want to be the ones who are initiating interactions. It’s really not the same at that point. However i do agree with less gender associated things than this can even out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Modern dating’s freedom of choice is an illusion, and most people are miserable for it.They say one thing then do another. They complain about men only wanting hookups , not committing and then reward men who do that. They complain there are no good men but most have gave up or are in their friend zone. They like a guy and instead of actually putting in rather minimal effort they back off and complain when he calls off pursuit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 09:47 AM |
| 3 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsMost of the time they are not even attractive looking guys. They just play the numbers and know what kind of women to prey on. That said the women that knowingly date guys like that are not quality women themselves and or believe in themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Thats the thing is sometimes she gets invested now and then when it occurs she is rejected she resorts to pettiness. But that is all genders, men just are used to it. Sucks being the one that has to give anyone bad news but its life. As you said best to just book it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Honestly id probably tell her off if i didn’t like her and she wasn’t getting the hint. Its happened a few times. Most of the time it obviously isn’t going to bother me. Thing is some mistake lack if interest as being a challenge when it is indeed lack of interest. There are some delusional women out there. Im sure delusional men too but i dont have problems unless they are gay. They are used to liking hot guys but find out straight and calling off pursuit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.Starved for attention….. don’t mind unless it’s really toxic?? Where do you draw the line in that sand?? If there is anything i have gathered is men tolerate all kinds of bs from women they shouldn’t. That on each individual himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.He said they can be just as creepy as men and they get away with it. There is some truth there in my experiences but only to a degree. It’s probably even less than 20% of men that get it. There are also all kinds of men labeled as creeps that either just don’t look all that good and or are socially awkward. But indeed totally harmless. My take on his comment wasn’t regarding who is bad or worse per capita. It was that there is a percentage of women that to a smaller percentage of men get away wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.But maybe he’s one of the 20% that gets attention from women??? I know i am and it’s annoying at times. Guys are often jealous but they don’t understand that it’s not at all it’s cooked up to be. It’s got serious advantages but also a laundry list of disadvantages. Women may like how you look but they still want you to fit into their “ideal man” category. Any man with a head on his shoulders is going to want someone that treats him well too and there is a lot of women that are good at receiving … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 03:07 AM |
| -1 | Women are just as creepy as men they just get away with it.I think your point is absolutely reasonable with two exceptions. 1) men are significantly larger and stronger generally then women. So when stalker is female its much less intimidating vs male stalker on female. 2) murders and rapes 99% of the time are men attacking women. So its pretty negligible for a man to feel any sort of danger from a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 02:59 AM |
| 1 | I think women are worst in bed then men areI think the difference here is men won’t care if shes bad in the sack or be open to working for a better sex life. Women will be bad in the sack and then blame him. Rarely do they want to work with him to improve. They all expect perfection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 08:38 PM |
| 0 | A relationship between a man and a woman cannot be equal. The woman holds all the powerThis is why certain subtle attributes go a far way. Don’t try too hard for her attention or to impress her. Just do it. Show her value, her stupid shit tests barely deserve a reaction and if you can pass she will respect you. Also don’t put up with shit either. Not every woman is going to be worth it for every man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 03:56 PM |
| 4 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themNo single people lol. Less men and women are dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themWho is most? There are a lot of people not dating lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:08 PM |
| 9 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themI didn’t say there was. People are allowed to want what they want. Whether they get it or not is a different story. This whole generation has unrealistic expectations for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 15 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themThey literally will cry over guys they find attractive who don’t give them attention and not give two fucks over the guys that show interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:17 PM |
| 3 | Society doesn't really hate older womenIts not society. There are likely a few factors going on here: 1. Older women being upset for not getting the same amount of attention as they did does not equate to being hated. 2. Pretty privilege is well a privilege, not a right but it is something she probably had all of her life and now isn’t there so it is valid to miss that. 3. Lastly she like didn’t make smart decisions when it came to choosing her partner. Or relationship fell out and now she is alone. So it’s something that is understa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Apparently women expect men to read their mindsThere is a difference between expecting to have minds read and being able to relate better to people who understand them. Im not saying women don’t ever expect that as that is a thing but its not all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:58 PM |
| 2 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyIt’s crab mentality 101. They have ridiculous high standards and because they don’t have men or enough “adequate men” for that matter bending over backward for them validating them and putting them first meanwhile contributing nothing it is frustrating when they have simply priced themselves out of competition. Men go elsewhere invest less $$ and emotional strain and find women that treat them better and appreciate more well demanding less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:34 AM |
| – | The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual dataThey are not happy about it. They take out their frustrations on any and every “subpar man” that even tries with them. This is a byproduct of being lied to, told you deserve things you don’t and being overly coddled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:30 AM |
| 6 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultThey complain about dating?? They are constantly bombarded with men. They are sick of men hiding their true colours which me as a guy I’ve seen women do the same. There is a whole debate as to who should pay for dates. Its really not as simple as you say it is for them. Thing is men often play into their hands too easily. They are too appeasing, they treat her too well. They do not require her to do much else. I think men offering compassion to women and women to men would make dating better. In… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 12:35 AM |
| 2 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyThis is kind of ridiculous. I mean yes there are a lot of young women and men for that matter that are addicted to dopamine, the anticipation and chase of relationships. Thing here is define “success” in dating. If your definition is preying on people’s insecurity, gaslighting, controlling, abusing someone… then that is pretty sick and twisted. Disrespectful to partner and not nurturing a healthy relationship. At that point most sane people would not even bother. If your definition of having a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratioIts more that being a single guy has negative connotations that come with it whereas single woman has positive connotations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 12:09 AM |
| – | Women hold onto the concept of male privilege because they are deeply attached to feeling lesser than men.Things are already uneven in many ways. In an altercation society always will side with the women, and yes they know that so will use that to their advantage when they see fit. Women get lighter sentences for crime. Firefighters and police whenever there is a standoff or burning building its the men who go in first. This isn’t women’s fault- however I do think the social shift requires a collective effort. Men can’t complain about women having a pussy pass and then continue to provide them with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 09:39 AM |
| 4 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Why have the best of one world when you can have the best of both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 03:25 AM |
| 9 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Well that is ok if it is cultural but its also asinine to expect someone of a different culture to drop their norms and standards. There are certain cultures of women despite them being attractive I don’t have high hopes with whenever i match because i know this is indeed a thing. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 04:29 PM |
| 83 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Depends on her upbringing there are plenty of entitled women that believe men should do everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 09:48 AM |
| 7 | Dating is a numbers game and men who care less stay winning it.That is just in regards to getting dates. You still need to have a lot of ducks in a row to be visible to women. I make decent money but good looks backfire. I think women expect me to be as good at making money as i am at turning heads. Im tired of paying money and wasting time dating to have to be a perfect 10 for these ladies that ill never be because im not rich. I feel bad dating mid girls as they are usually too eager or desperate and eventually just turn me off. Dating is a no win option … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 03:57 PM |
| 7 | The idea that 'good and attractive men are snatched off the market quickly' is another just-world fallacy. The fact that divorce rates are highest for people in their 20s is the biggest proof.I’m a handsome and kind man. I just don’t make any insane amount of money. I do okay, above national average. I’ve given up on dating. Women have been nasty to me for the most part. They’ve treated me in the exact manner they complain about how men treat women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/25 09:00 PM |
| – | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyIt’s not shallow to have wants. It is shallow to be entitled. It looks like the dream of having a family and being able to afford all the stuff required is growing out of the grasp of many people . If top 10/15% make over 100k a year. That’s only 1 in 7 to 10 people. So having it as a want is fine but there is a staggering number of people who missed their boat and it’s kinda sad. I avoid people hell bent on a family because although I make a decent living I have rationalized the sacrifices and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved if everyone was at a healthy weightThe amount of overweight women that will not date men that are overweight is obsurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Using dating apps is beta male behaviourI have had women on these apps that were looking for just sex. It happens just some men get these kinds of ladies. Men and women both swipe? So ya both genders are technically screening. Women get more choice generally that’s obvious. Yes less men show attention to women nowadays. I’m 33 , 15-20 years ago before smartphones when I was in high school. To say women provide no value tells me either you have never truly experienced good romance with a suitable woman or you are not really in need of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 11:10 AM |
| 4 | Using dating apps is beta male behaviourThis is a rather myopic kind of viewpoint. People of both genders can screen for matches that suit physical preferences. Yes some people get left out but I definitely don’t think everyone is looking to just get laid or desperate. People can also both use app and approach in person too. There are some men and women on the app that match your description. But it is very generalized | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are the biggest propagators of "toxic masculinity"I think the problem here is, instead of looking at this as a feminist thing, take another perspective It’s very radical. This radical feminist extremism is literally using the same toxic crap, toxic manipulative men use. It’s called gaslighting, it’s how people can dissect people and manipulate. Both genders are capable of doing it. I think be more sympathetic to each other. Nobody really deserves to be with a partner like that. These people are severely damaged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Seems like the women that men here actually want wont go 50/50 on dates.33M I’ve been on both sides of this fence. Currently taking a break from dating. When I was younger I only did 50/50, now I pay. 50/50 :Nobody really feels taken advantage of. It sets the tone. Honestly more women are against this in my experiences than support. Kinda understandable, but I think some have had experiences and don’t mind splitting. Male pays: It says man is being vulnerable, it says he appreciates her time and consideration. Yes he can be wasting his time and money. But it’s showi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/24 09:10 PM |
| – | Are society brainwashing men into slavery?Honestly I think so. lol ask any married men. He refers to his wife as “the boss”. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having input from your spouse. I just feel all this modern women feminist shit emasculates men. How often do you hear as explanations. “Women need/deserve this _____” which translates into some kind of special treatment however meanwhile they still say things are not equal and most likely never will feel that way. Humans (both men and women are biologically wired to gravitate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menSeems to me few understand this though. I’m sorry nothing against women and I’m all for fairness but not gonna jump through hoops or sacrifice my personal time and energy for someone who is not equally invested. I’m also not going to waste my time or someone else’s when there is no attraction or chemistry for sake of “being in a relationship” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Society seems to believe that the average woman is entitled to her pick of the litter with menValid point but I’ll also add women seem to be met with all kinds of praise and support whereas men who are comfortable being single are questioned, presumed gay and or less of a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 12:06 AM |
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