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| 2 | Women should approach moreCount me in, number 3 lays it out quite flat. You can be a normal guy that just wants a relationship, but women have a bad habit of not being up front with what they want. No problem with women courting me, asking people out and getting rejected can be exhausting; telling your friends you went on a date is a huge confidence boost for men, why it has to be a circus everytime for a dinner the man will happily cover is just mind boggling to me. it's 2025. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 09:44 AM |
| – | Its only okay when men say it apparentlyYour husband should treat you like a queen, all day everyday absolutely. I could've been more clear on this, but I'm referring to single women over 35 years old. Women's approach to dating (which has been beaten to death on this sub) is: being aloof -being coy -being secretive it's a game. The big takeaway is that dating is a game, and it's that way because women want it to be. I have no malice towards happy couples or single women over 35 I'm pointing out that single women over the age of 35 do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:51 AM |
| – | Its only okay when men say it apparentlyAs long as they aren't hurting anyone, then they can do whatever makes them happy for all I care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:35 AM |
| – | Its only okay when men say it apparentlySingle women over 35 can do all those things if they like that's fine, I'm saying expecting the results they got being aloof in dating in their 20s will very likely dissapoint them. I don't care if single women over 35 want to drink, have a fwb, or house 100 cats; more power to them. but if they think doing that will lead them to the man of their dreams, they're probably in for a wake up call. But I hold no malice against any woman, or anybody for that matter that chooses to perpetually see them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:34 AM |
| – | Its only okay when men say it apparentlyI did point out some of them, namely for single women over the age of 35. Being aloof in dating, expecting to be "chased", leaving partners on read, ect. But that's not to say single women over 35 can't do those things, they can do whatever they like; they just shouldn't expect the results to match their expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:30 AM |
| – | Its only okay when men say it apparentlyIf single women over 35 are happy being single, by all means let them be single. All I was pointing out is they aren't entitled to get the attention they got in their 20s, same with men of all ages not being entitled to dates. We all get one go around, it's healthy to spend that journey anchored in reality, but whether people choose to do is their choice. I didn't go in thinking this would be a hot take, but here I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 09:26 AM |
| – | Its only okay when men say it apparentlySingle Women over the age of 35 as a whole will do almost anything to be in a relationship besides abandon the toxic habits of their twenties that got them to where they are in the first place. Women are free to be attracted to whoever they like, but they aren't entitled to respectable partners if they choose to be aloof or unapproachable in the 2nd half of their lives. Women want men to flirt with them, treat them, and give them the attention they received in their twenties for an entire lifeti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Women DO fashion for themselves.Women (generally) like people to view them as fertile and capable of bearing children; even many that don't want children, even many that have voluntary hysterectomies to avoid it; they still want to "look the part." Make-up makes women feel like they're retaining their youthful appearance, and a woman's youth are her prime years fertility wise. Teasing their eyelashes, concealer and moisturizer to help with crow's feet, primer to help with pores, blush to make their cheeks have a ruby red color… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Women simultaneously dislike men approaching because they feel treated as "romantic prospects" instead of "regular people" yet dread the moment a male friend would suggests something moreYou and all women like you are improperly socialized, lazy C-words. I hope you and your husband don't have any kids, because you are one stupid birch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Friends of perpetually single men often have a different perspective than perpetually single men themselvesThanks for the thoughtful response. Have a great rest of your week, hope you don't get slammed into the forever box by a bus as you're crossing the street, scrolling through Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Friends of perpetually single men often have a different perspective than perpetually single men themselvesYou have to put yourself out there. If you're a Man. -I have work-related trauma, and haven't had a date in 10 years. -I accept I may never get another one again, solely because of it. -There's no women putting themselves out there for people like me; why would they? I put my butt on the line, and now I'm miserable because of it. -That's fine, they can do what they want, but I'm literally undateable since my work related trauma. -I'm not short, own my own place, work, and do insanity daily. -Bef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 08:51 AM |
| 22 | If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULTHe ended it with let the bl*ckpill guide you. Being guided by bl*ckpill is acceptance that women are not going to accept you for who you are, so why bother? Women love to be swooned, to be chased, and to be lied to. Bl*ckpill is just saying accept who you are, instead of being a false version of yourself to cater to women in the dating market. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Where did I say I was redpill? Lizzo workout advice (and music) is awful. I don't see how that's anything close to a hot take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:52 PM |
| – | Telling men that doing a certain thing will help them improve their dating chances is toxic and damaging if that thing doesn't improve their SMVI actually said this in one of those posts, but I've been going to therapy for a work related trauma for 16 years now. I'll sing this from the heavens until the day I die: Therapy doesn't do shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.No it isn't. Lizzo is giving advice on how to get a "summer bod" now. Pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I feel like, most men on here would easily resolve their issues with women and their views on women if men as a group viewed them as people and not just achievements to be made and rewards to be had... oh, and just went to therapy...About 16 years ago I was involved in a situation where I was a first responder to an explosion at a local market. Once I got there most of the victims I treated were kids, who didn't last very long after I began trying to treat them. I've been going to therapy since then (and as you might expect, I've been dateless as the incident is something I can't go a day without reliving, and has drained a solid amount of my humanity out of me.) without any improvement to show for it. Therapy doesn't do sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:29 PM |
| – | Why? If women can't get a man it's the men.If a man can't get a woman it's the man.yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Modern Feminism is a giant shit testJust because it's inconvenient to you that other people don't accept your so-called facts, doesn't make you a victim. Sorry not sorry, don't want to see the breaking down of heteronormative gender roles, or to see the nuclear family abolished. Both those things will likely eventually happen, but both those things were wonderful for us as a species, and I hope they'll continue to flourish; unlikely though that may be. Your wish to have everybody accept the alternative with open arms is a personal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Is dating worth it in modern times?Well said | /r/MensRights | 14/05/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Is dating worth it in modern times?I think the best answer is to put yourself out there and see for yourself. Dates are a good bit easier to get than I think a lot of men give it credit for, especially if you're a goal oriented person who's focused on bettering yourself I well say of every relationship I've been in (not some crazy high number, mind you) the juice never seemed worth the squeeze. All the women I was in relationships with had one thing in common: they all seemed to love conflict; like they seemed to almost break the… | /r/MensRights | 14/05/24 03:15 AM |
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