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| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol) | Activism/Support | Zeam_Beam | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 08:51 PM |
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| 2 | AngerI'm a female writer and what they might be talking about is the very very very poorly written female characters in some books. I've read stuff from the POV of women written by men and it often focuses on their looks. Mainly boobs, I'll be honest with you. I do get a good kick out of reading them. ( https://www.buzzfeed.com/farrahpenn/male-authors-writing-women-fails ) Them being gross and disgusting is not justified by that of course and I hate "body positive" women bodyshaming men. As for the f… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | "Men invented more than women because women didn't have the same education rights"I'm not sure about that actually. I Do think some of the lack of education a while ago for women was a problem for lack of inventions then but now a days, there isn't really an excuse. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Can someone please explain what "Toxic Masculinity" is?From my knowledge toxic masculinity is mainly just being overly aggresive, obsessive and very cold i guess. Personally, I hate toxic feminity more since it's never talked about but both are equally stupid. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | "My male coworkers are insisting on taking “period leave”Im a girl and honestly, periods do suck. Mine get to the point where I can't walk due to pain and pass out because of bloodloss and pain. It's dangerous for me to go to school and work but this is a more rare case. I know tons of women who also get bad periods and have to take time off of school even though they really don't want to. Period days are a bit extreme, I totally agree but there are cases where sick days for people who got periods should be extended or if possible, work from home. As … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Have you felt gender discrimination in school, if you have please give me a story about it and how it may have effected you.I'm a girl but I witnessed guys getting in trouble for stuff that girls never did. like two girls ran off into the woods and came back, teacher gave zero shits. a boy stepped on and off the curb as a joke an got yelled at by the pricipal and had to sit in her office all day. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 08:12 PM |
| 6 | An argument in favor of Financial Abortion for men on the grounds of consent.I think that men have just as much right to back out of a pregnancy as women. If they both want an abortion, great. If the man wants an abortion and the women doesn't, he should be allowed to walk away from both without paying a dime. If the man doesn't and the women does... that's when things get a bit iffy. If a women doesn't want childbirth or the kid, nothing much can be done and That's terrible for the father. If she just doesn't want the kid, I think it's totally okay to reach an agreement… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I am taken a lot less seriously in situations (politics, work, class, etc), Roe V Wade being overturned is a true fear for me, the whole sleeping around (if a women sleep with several men shes a whore and if a man sleeps with several women hes a player) and women's worth being based off of men they have dated/are dating. Womens issues are more minor at this point and we do need to focus on men's issues right now. The way I see it, whichever issues are the most pressing, need to be addressed imme… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Feminism gave women a lot of rights (voting, working, etc) which are good things. It has become worse which is why I want to leave the movement. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I didn't come here to be called a nazi but I get your points. As I said, I'm looking at new view points and trying to have conversations with people on all sides to get my point of view to be as accurate as I can. Feminism was originally about getting the right to vote, work, etc., but it's taken a dark turn quickly and for that I'm debating leaving the movement. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)There is hate on both sides for sure. There is in everything to exist. I've had some very bad expierences with men's right activist's wanting things to go back to when women couldn't vote or work. there are bad feminists, bad BLM protests, Bad gay people, bad mens right activists, bad christians and bad politicians. But there are also incredibly good people on all the sides as well. I dont judge people by the worst in their belief unless they are the loudest, which is why I'm leaving the movemen… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Agreed... I don't think I'm going to label my opinion anymore tbh. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Those kind of people do suck which is why I am reviewing my stances. thank you for your input! | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I feel bad about using the term "patriarchy" but I haven't found a better term for it yet without explaining my whole view and writing a five page essay lol! I'd be happy to know if there is a different term that is more acceptable. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:32 PM |
| 3 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Yep... Needs to be changed so badly. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Ah thank you for the reassurance lol! (about the no hate lol!) The fact that women can attack men without consquences and men can't fight back, disturbing, disgusting and all around a total failure by society and the government. I think that men being seen as the abuser because "men are stronger" is again, stupid as hell. It doesn't matter how strong you are, you can still be a bad person and an abuser. The while thing with child support makes me upset. I am pro-choice, because I believe men and… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)If there is another term for what I described as the patriarchy in my post and other comments, I would be happy to learn it! I use the word patriarchy in a different way than most "feminists" since it's the closest word I have to what I want to describe lol. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)As I stated, I'm not sure I am a feminist because the group is getting more and more toxic. I often just say "I'm all for equal rights" or don't label myself at all. The thing of men being the abuser and women being the victim makes me mad because it's super sexist and shitty to male victims. As for the lack of body autonomy, I agree. I find it gross and disturbing that people are thinking of their own sons like that at such an early age. I have a bunch of opinions on men being able to leave pre… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:21 PM |
| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)If there is another term for what I described in my post I would love to know what it is so I can use it in place of it! | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Society does have standards and stereotypes for everyone. I do agree women should not be complaining about not having something when they study and get degrees in something, that is toxic and a culture of victim creating. There are things people are "supposed" to be. Housewife, breadwinner, etc. I dont want to agrue about how stereotypes affect people (race, gender, sexual orientation and more) since that's not the point of my post but thank you for your input. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I'm planning on trying that, most of my interactions with feminists have been IRL and pretty good but the online ones have been scary as hell lol. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I use the term patriarchy as a term for the ideals and what you explained with the group of power being mostly men since there isn't a term that I've found explaining it any better than what the patriarchy gets close to. Love it if there was another term tho lol. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I'm sorry but I'm a bit confused by what you mean lol. Can you re-explain? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 0 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)It hurts everyone and encourages steroetypes. Like men having to be strong, tough, cold, never showing emotions, cant be hurt. It makes it hard for male victims to come forward with abuse. Women have to be quiet, small, innocent and submissive. It can make it more difficult for women to succeed in some carreers such as politics (Personal expierence here. was turned down by a giverment committee for being "too emotional" yet i have a disgnosed case of minor sociopathy which I take meds and go to … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Thank you mate! | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I have and I usually get some toxic responses (Always expected) and half or more agreeing with me. Usually the toxic attitude is from people online and the non-toxic stuff is from people IRL. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:53 PM |
| 0 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)My patriach theory is based off of my own observations, discussion with men and women, some research and expierence. It may not fit what the extremist feminists think but it's the truth. Maybe patriarchy isn't the right term but I dont think there is, so I use the closest thing there is. With the feminism being rooted in racism, yeah that was totally shitty but at the time, racism was more socially acceptable (not a good thing) and this was the beginning for equal rights for all. Feminism might … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)In the west it isn't as big of a deal, I totally agree. It's more of a social Ideal than an actual system in place. It keeps men and women as opposites, which is why women are supposed to be emotional, are 'weak', small, submissive, etc., and men are supposed to be strong, tall, big, cold, alpha, leaders, etc., | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Absolutely agree. The modern feminists are awful people, excluding women of color, transwomen and queer women as well as being men hating bitches for no reasons. They want women to be better which is stupid since the feminism is supposed to be about equality. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I totally agree. I think feminist has been taken over by a bunch of men hating women who are very much extremist. They take what feminist was originally about and use it to get what they want. It's disgusting how much control they have over the other people in the movement. I've met a few online and they absolutely piss me off. I absolutely know I have a responsiblity to speak out for men's issues just as my fellow man has a resposibilty to speak out for womens. We have to look out for each othe… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:42 PM |
| 3 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)If someone falsely accuses another of sexual assault, I believe everything that this subreddit has stated. Jail time and a registered sex offender. There is never a reason to lie about that and ruin someone's life. I also believe in keeping the accused unnamed until the verdict is decided guilty as to protect the idenity incase it was a fake accusation. Thank you for your kind words. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Thank you so much honestly. I have also done research on the feminists movement and shit like this absolutely disgusts me and makes me question if I am supporting the right side. It's taken a while for me to see that evil exists on both sides and the good on both sides want the exact same thing, yet for some reason we divide ourselves and create borders. I try to talk to people from all different opinions, ideals and political sides because I really do think that the majority want equality for a… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)From most feminists I have met IRL, our views do align on everything. The internet is a different place though, and most of the feminists there are toxic, controlling, misandrists and disgusting people. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:30 PM |
| 3 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Totally. I had a babysitter for a few years like this and she really messed up my point of view for a while but now that I look back on it, it was really messed up and I'm glad that I got away from that toxic space. I hate that some "feminist" just talk about hating/killing men so casually and it's become normalized. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:29 PM |
| 2 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)For me, I was assaulted by a male classmate at a young age and told that it was my fault since I was wearing a tank top even though I was seven. I've been dresscoded a lot, stalked by classmates and sexually assaulted. For me, the equaility was being taken seriously in topics (I was never taken seriously in politics and seen as emotional my whole life even though I have a diagnosis of having less emotions than the average person), The female body not being sexualized from a young age (I know thi… | /r/MensRights | 19/05/22 04:27 PM |
| 4 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)Thanks! Cheers to you too mate! I try to remain blanaced in my opinions and constantly keep myself in check so that's great to hear! | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 09:44 PM |
| 9 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I agree that there a bunch of "feminists" who simply suck ass and wish for women to be superior in every aspect. They are the main reason I've begun to step away from the feminist movement and always make sure to over explain my opinions on matters. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 09:43 PM |
| -1 | I agree with everything here but.. I'm a feminist. (lemme explain please dont hate me lol)I was more talking about how in the beginning it was about equal rights or at least that is my understanding of it, since at the time, women did lack a lot of rights. Now a days, both genders are at a disadvantage in different ways and I'm not sure if feminism is the right way to describe my point of view anymore. | /r/MensRights | 18/05/22 09:41 PM |
| 3 | You get to pick your pronouns the second i get to pick my adjectivesfeminism is often mean to transpeople actually. TERFs are a thing. Trans people are people. dont be mean to them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 07:44 PM |
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