Zearha Archive

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1	I need to fix my marriage, I don’t want to lose my family. This is a vicious cycle from hell. He needs to be more present and stop overworking so he can reduce your mental load of the home and childcare. Lookup invisible mental load, throw yourself at it, as well as "matching his energy". It's hard to say what started what, It seems you entered difficult postpartum and he wasn't equipped with the knowledge to support you, so he withdrew which only exacerbated you more. Now it feels like this problem is your fault. The best course of action I can recomme…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/10/23 02:46 PM
1	How to deal with husband's addiction with wasting time and playing games. I think this is contingent on him wanting to change. Him genuinely wanting to change versus sounding like a "talker" of "I'm changing" resulting in no change. Only you know how long you'll stay if he doesn't grow.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/05/23 03:51 AM
2	How to deal with husband's addiction with wasting time and playing games. Yes this, also to add... It's important to deliberately stop babying our partners. It's infantilising and humiliating. He has an issue with stopping once he has his fun going. Op needs to make it clear how his lack of self regulating eats their relationship alive, so that he sees the forest for the trees. And if he so chooses to continue infantilising himself, he will be choosing the destruction of his marriage. Humiliation will only be remembered with fear and resentment.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 08:39 PM
–	How do you vet a man? How do you inspire commitment? I went online with an app called whisper and vetted many men and said no. Then when my husband caught my eye by being conversational, I asked him for a picture of himself, and he passed my picture test of attraction, you have to like their face to stay attracted, and he is fit enough and relatively stays that way without working out so that's a bonus. We texted back and forth for five hours straight about life goals to see if our futures aligned, they did, so we met up for breakfast the next mor…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 08:32 PM
5	How to express disappointment properly (without nagging etc)? When I find my husband slipping a little bit when he gets frustrated and shouts about it, or yells, it really triggers me and makes me think I did something wrong. For clarity we needed new apple chargers, I replaced them, but he still wanted to use the old one and then got mad it wasn't working, shouted out of frustration at himself for not getting the cord type he wanted. I didn't know his thinking when he shouted so I thought I screwed up getting good enough cords. I sat down with him at the …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/05/23 08:20 PM
5	Successful men wanting to me to get the bill occasionally Ding ding ding answer right here	/r/RedPillWomen	26/05/23 01:34 AM
2	How can I (25F) emotionally seduce him (30M) to get what I want The answer to your question is in your post. How to emotionally seduce him to make him want to marry you and make you his wife. For one, you need to say what you want, you need to tell him you want to be a cherished wife for one. He needs to know that being married is an expectation, but at the same time this is a delicate balance, you cannot overload him with the emotional burden of loving you as a cherished wife without being a cherishable wife material woman. Your answer is living with him fo…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/23 04:07 PM
1	18 years old. I’m terrified and hold so much resentment against men and I don’t know what to do. Need urgent help. My sister was the fat little girl in our family growing up and she got bullied for it by one of our brothers. She came to me crying three separate times because of her self esteem and not getting to wear what she wants and from being bullied. I actually got mad at her for not listening to me the first two times and told her finally to never come to me with this problem again if she’s not going to do anything. I told her I know exactly what she shoves in her face and that she doesn’t need to go t…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/23 03:45 PM